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I've only ever seen this sentiment from guys. Usually in tandem with "excuses" as to why they have not generated what they consider success in romantic or casual relationships and garnished heavily with derogatory commentary directed towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:21 PM

I don't think guys really want to start the "why do women support a movement" thing when other guys are happily screeching about women lose again!! your body my choice hahaha!!! in a world that dismisses the rampant violence perpetrated against said women. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:27 AM
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What terrible verbage honestly. "I plan on keeping her forever but I will never marry her because it makes me vulnerable" like she's great, in your own words, but you don't trust her, once again in your own words. You've got a lot of internal conflict. As a side note, you may want to hammer down some sort of paperwork because if your ever truly vulnerable, like in a medical or legal way you'll be fucked since it doesn't matter how long you are dating, she will not be able to legally advocate on …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:30 AM
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Let them bark, the women haters will focus on the man haters and the man haters will focus on the woman haters because that's from whom they (and the rest of us) will be hearing on a constant basis. They will both, up to a debatable point, bring up conversation worthy points that need some volume of attention and discussion either by being viable situations that really do require social intervention or unintentionally work against themselves by displaying radical extremism that we can smother wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:03 PM
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Considering how quickly straight men understand no means no when confronted by a overtly gay man showing interest in them, yes. It is very much the same. And they can and often do, get very violent in order to "protect" themselves. People who don't want attention from other people, don't want the attention from those people. It's very simple and they understand it when they are on the receiving end of it, they just forget it when they have an interest in a body and then repeated no is just a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:34 PM

Listen if you can take your "women are bad drivers and overly emotional and probably on their period when they're not happy with me" jokes and indignant protests that sexual assault is really just compliments so you'd be prettier if you smiled comments from your grandfather I can take my grandmother's desire to have her own freaking bank account for security reasons forward with me. You can hold on to your generational sexism and I'll take the newfound generational Independence and we'll see who…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:10 PM
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I can't speak for any other woman but I would venture it's because an overwhelming volume of the content being put out there regarding the self documentation of the tradwife life is very curated and as such smacks very heavily of deceptive presentation. As a person who has obviously lived in the modern world and been offered the pacifier of entertainment since I was born, it's just very obvious how manicured the display is. It's like the immaculate houses of the family sitcoms where the kids hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:31 PM
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Job interviews are definitely two way streets. I have turned down plenty of jobs because I've researched the company ownership and it's management standards or was not satisfied by the interview process at whatever varying stage. Most of the jobs I've decided to quit, the decision was directly related to my opinion of the management, otherwise known as my bosses. If your desperate you may not get to set the standard for yourself initially but you have every option of keeping your options open an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:43 PM
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Oh yes, men love feminine, agreeable, sweet women. Women who smile, help out and who show maternal instinct. They love to take advantage of all those characteristics. And the moment we are not agreeable to what ever they have dictated we are problematic and difficult, hormonal and hysterical, nagging too much, expecting too much and ruining their peace. What a bitch. Further, smile too much? Help too much? You're flirting or cheating or at the very least disregarding your responsibility at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:54 PM
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I don't ever really hear women spouting "biological imperative" speech. It's always dudes being like "men are biologically compelled to want to have sex with many different women. It has nothing to with feelings. He/we can cheat and it doesn't mean anything, not like women who cheat to be mean or selfish" or "men are biologically hard wired in a superior fashion to females in every way. We are logical instead of uselessly emotional. We even make better parents than mothers because we raise them …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:10 PM
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I think that depends on some variables. Such as the type of person/people in the relationship to begin with and the relationship itself. I'll use myself as a singular example to begin with; I put in tons of effort in the beginning. It's a way to set a standard for how the person in the relationship with me can expect to be cared for both currently and in the future. If I come to observe that not only is that not being reciprocated or even really appreciated, I dial that effort back for my own me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:50 PM
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You edited your comment lol dude you could of just posted another with these other points you wanted to make. It's not baffling to think a friend of 10+ years might be more prone to extend help like money or staying with them than a chick you've been casually dating lol nobody commented the contrary. I don't know about any other chicks but like I said, I've been a bartender for decades and I've had the opportunity to move into influential circles in the past because of it. Everybody wants to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:45 PM
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People get into car accidents, people get cancer. Bro, that is a completely different scenario than unemployed. In fact I'm gonna call you out on that little bait and switch, or omission, however we want to categorize what I am sure you think is an "I got you" moment. That being said, you are admonishing me to do some research on studies conducted and submit those situations as example?!? Lol ahmazzzzing! Because once again I'm going to gently suggest that you are picking and choosing what studi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:31 PM
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Ok, if that process gives you a greater feeling of security, then roll with it. Friendship is a powerful motivator for many people to help another person. I've helped many a friend myself. But the truth is friends have limits to that too. At some point they are gonna be like "yo, tallfoundation is a mooch man, dude keeps borrowing money and never pays it back and he's been on my couch for a half a year." I'm not trying to rain on your parade here or make you believe that your stalwart, always th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:01 PM
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Alright, well respectfully, what you forget is for EVERY average, mature adult there is no safety net. At all. Unless you put it there lol. You are the one weaving whatever net is going to be there. Period. It is better to have a partner on that loom with you. More hands make lighter work. In example of my meaning; As of right now I can help my offspring, if something goes wrong I can always provide an emergency home so they won't be homeless. Can't bail them out of bankruptcy if they do that to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:24 PM
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If anything I think being "traditional" means you have even higher standards to check off in certain columns and they have to be confirmed much quicker if not preemptively and/or immediately. There is no wiggle room either. How are you going to be considered husband material if you can't demonstratively prove you can provide? The expectation of ultimate and generous financial support is clearly going to be a given if you expect to be a sahw/sahm. While "modern" women, if you become one household…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:23 PM
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I personally never saw/see anything but my own flaws. In example; I used to be a gymnast and ballet dancer. In the past several years, stress and a medical condition has had me gain 30+ lbs. I'm literally uncomfortable in my own body. The added weight causes me not just emotional insecurity but physical discomfort, I sometimes feel like parts of me are going to actually split apart and burst. It's like I'm not allowed to talk about or complain about it at all. I immediately have to go into damag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:06 PM
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Lol excellent, you've converted me. I've definitely had my eyes opened thanks to that cryptocurrency podcast guys ridiculously edited youtube video.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:51 AM
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not being able to find any good men. Oof.. i believe this is called damage by friendly fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:44 PM
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At 45 I haven't seen the reprucussions of "hitting the wall" as of yet and apparently it was supposed to have happened well over a decade ago. The old men are bad enough but these young guys need to stop lol, I'm old enough to be their mom, and not their sad teenage mom either. It's ridiculous lol! I would venture women's response to the situation is "beyond the scope of the wall theory" because the idea of the theory itself was created by a certain genre of men that seem incapable of recognizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:30 PM
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"I've NEVER heard that before!" He proclaimed loudly while plugging his ears so he couldn't hear the conversation going on around him. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:59 PM
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Lol naturally, don't want anything to interfere with your confirmation bias after all. Carry on you redpilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:05 PM
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So you are judging all women and their responses based on the superficial women you are either interacting with or wishing you could interact with during their prime? Because other than the women I know whom cling desperately to their physical sexual image as their most significant redeemable worth via excessive cosmetic surgery, expensive wardrobe/ makeup, an obscene volume of filter warped social media photos and celebrates her "29th birthday" for the 12th time. Most "older" women I know are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:40 PM
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Have you ever actually listened to them talk or have you just heard/read the words? The tone is usually expressing relief and/or excitement lol Seriously though unless your circle tends to contain only highly superficial women who have never based their worth on anything other than the male attention they generate, most women are pretty copacetic with not being approached constantly while buying bagels, pumping gas or doing any other of the million and one mundane things they are trying to get d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:46 PM
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Yeah, I can see how letting someone know you are wanting to spending your life with them because you love them compares equitably to a guy repetitively trying use someone else's body to satisfy himself. That doesn't seem like imbalanced examples at all lol That being said, any chick who is asking repeatedly for commitment and being told "naw" but still having sex with a guy thinking that's going to change his mind someday is not so bright and the guy himself is an opportunistic and manipulative …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:10 AM
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Vilifying one does not sanctify the other. If your point is "this" is ok because of "that" then "that" will always be ok because "this" exists too because "that" exists concurrently. If you think your prerequisites are acceptable while others are not, you are being unreasonable. Also the disparity between "experienced" and "inexperienced" is so obvious this is an embarrassing stance. It took years for me an an inexperienced person to realize what an unhealthy relationship I was in. Experienced m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:16 PM
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Lol, just barrel rolling right past the point again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:48 PM
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"Evasive maneuvers" he screams internally as he adroitly dodges the point of the comment. That being said, getting arrested costs money even if you're not paying bond, attorney fees, probation fees or court costs, there are still fines associated with the subject matter of the arrest and the processing fees incurred due to incarceration. Not to mention the possibility of losing your job, difficulties finding employment due to your criminal history and passing checks for housing. Not surprised yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:31 PM
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This is a hilariously ridiculous take. Like can you believe she didn't keep getting involved with guys who get arrested repeatedly and incur all of the financial trouble that comes with incarceration and probation? Just goes to show what kind of people women really are I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:55 PM
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Your absolutes are dismissing that which you are incapable of being wholly informed on. In example; you completely disregarded my lived experience by stating that you are more aware of what my time "alone" consisted of than I am having lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:55 PM
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Oh I'll give credit to where you grow up possibly having a major impact on the difference in both parenting and social expectations regarding overt gender behavioral standards. Not sure what your cultural background is, so I don't know what the nuance is concerning the pressure women put on men being "dominant" and what that means to them respectively. Dominant is a very loaded descriptive. It could be benign as in capable and forthcoming, like a leader taking responsibility for a situation. Con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:51 PM
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Strange, it's the men in my youth that told the kids to toughen up and the women who gave comfort even though the men told them not to because it was going to make us weak. Old school male mentality definitely applied that to the boys because they didn't want to grow up to be sissies or fee-fee-la-la's did they? Every insult for a guy infers that something he does is somehow feminine . Fucked with my head that the worst thing my brother could be was anything like me just because I was a girl. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:50 PM
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I have definitely left a relationship to simply "be alone". My mentality was "if this is what love is, I don't want it". Spent years alone and was satisfied not volunteering for the emotional labor that I thought any relationship was going to require. You may have never seen it but I suspect you don't really have the access to enough women's personal spheres to be privy to that knowledge. Mainly because of your following text. "Every time" "it's easy for women" "jump on chads dick" "spare boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:31 PM
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Living a lie 24/7 in hopes of a crumb of pussy. Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:23 PM
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Listen, putting yourself out there means you are making yourself vulnerable to the varieties of human dispositions. Sometimes we make unwitting mistakes and date jerks. They come in all genders and all ages. Just like some guys smugly tell chicks that they picked wrong when she complains that hers treated her badly, that advice is good for the gander and the goose. All relationships require some manner of sacrifice but it should never be your own emotional honesty or ability to show your feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:14 PM
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Over 30? Lol. It'll happen to you. It's already happening to you. Do you feel the decrepitude and irrelevance seeping through your aging skin and into your ever more fragile bones as the young outpace you and ridicule your relentless crawl through mediocrity towards your inevitable dull middle-agedness. Soon, before you know it, you'll have to delete all your social media because you'll be an outdated crypt keeper banging on about "kids today" just like your grandparents do on Facebook. It'll ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:09 PM
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Yep. What's your point? I said "generally speaking". There are easy going"partiers" and then there are people who's life is only about the opportunity to "party". The one has fun for funs sake and the other will steal from their friends to have more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:38 AM
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As a bartender of 28 years xp in every kind of establishment from five star to dive bar, I would not be and rarely am surprised, by anything. Disturbed, disgusted and disappointed sure, but not surprised. I've seen it all. Let's not put down dirty sex. It's like, amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:24 PM
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The follow up to those pills is going to be antibiotics lol but yeah, that's gonna work. Those definitely aren't "bring em home to Mama" kinda girls though, generally speaking. And s don't let them know where you keep your stash or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:28 PM

My ex freaked out after our kid was born. I had given him a millionth "second chance" and we moved back in together. One day, out of nowhere, he demanded a paternity test because how could he even know the kid was his. The absolute disrespect and hurt I felt in that moment. It changed everything about how I saw him and felt about him. I realized how and what he really thought of me. Here I am, recovering from a traumatic birth in which I ended up needing surgery. Like all new mothers, especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:58 PM
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When I was young I was insecure and now that I'm older I still am but I look back on when I was younger I'm like damn. I looked good. I felt underdeveloped and scrawny back then and now I have to actively not think about how pudgy I feel even though my body looks exactly like a Greco Roman statue. Unfortunately that doesn't seem to fit the modern dynamic and all I can think about is the fact that when I twist too much I get a back roll and when I hunch over I look like I've got a bag of uncooked…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:43 PM
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Dude. Grow up. The idea a person can't have friends reeks of insecurity and the idea you as a male, can't be friends with a chick because of course, the only reason would you want be is to fuck her smacks of juvenile teenage boy horniness. This makes me remember talking with a coworker who didn't know what to get his girlfriend as a gift and I was like a spa day with a massage and like a facial treatment and he was like no because she might get a male masseuse. I laughed at first and then realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:12 PM

Lol classic, basic true, but a classic nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:56 PM
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Yeah no, I'm not taking time to pour through posts and comments to comply with your request to prove it. It's been said. Either it's your first day on the Internet or this is a very weak and basic attempt to perpetuate engagement in bad faith. It is not. The doctor is not personally threatening to give cancer to a smoker. He/she is just relating a studied and repeatedly observed outcome to a specific series of events. Meanwhile you have an entire subset of males gleefully hypothesizing and antic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:07 PM
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No extrapolation needed. They say it verbatim. You're choosing to be obtuse and ignore it. But you are not convincing any chick here that they haven't seen it. I've seen you make this doctor comparison already and it's not equivalent. The doctor has multiple and repeated examples to draw that probability from. The collapse of society/the human race because women aren't happily (or not) free use to any and all examples of men is hyperbole no matter how many times guys scream it into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:15 PM
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Lol dude, we are on Reddit right now and yes, there are definitely guys on here telling woman they should or should have to have sex with with men they don't want to. Both bluntly with no real preamble or with the extreme and blatant "threat" of what the long term results of not doing it will be. Ie: the collapse of society, misery, apparently pet ownership should be enough to make women rethink their ridiculous standards. Why make a claim that is so easily and obviously refutable? You might not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:14 PM
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Some women. In the same way some men seem pretty content to let women take financial advantage of them for little to no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:21 PM
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Are straight men really qualified to give advice on how to date straight men? Because according to the general consensus it just involves overt and exclusive sexual availability but a strong undercurrent reveals that men have actual feelings and it's not just about prolific blowjobs after all. Seriously though, on a broad band? Only so much. On an individual basis, much more so. Don't think that asking a goth girl how to date a preppy girl is going to work with a success rate that would get reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:53 PM
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I don't personally have any issue empathizing with the struggles men express. Many are valid and deserve recognition. Especially when they are being open and honest and are in moments of vulnerability. It's a cruel measure to dismiss the difficulties people experience. That being said, I find my sympathy runs short when I find certain individuals that decide the singular root of all their problems rest solely at the feet of women. While simultaneously and willfully disparaging women as a monolit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:54 PM
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For real lol! The times these rando dudes have straight up insultingly dismissed the experiences I am relating or immediately diss my guy because clearly any man who would choose a woman the commenter doesn't even know must be a simp loser who is just settling. Occasionally, when they start attacking me in my dms I reveal that he's a 6'2" athlete that was Olympic level skilled and that he met me in my thirties with a 7 year old kid and he's 4 years younger than me . Oh, and his family is well of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:23 PM

You can be attractive and still not be attractive to everyone. I, through my experiences, realized years ago I don't generally care for the look of blonde men, that doesn't mean that I can't observe a good looking blonde man and recognize that he's "attractive". I just don't want to date or fuck him. I don't tend to like "preppy" or over barbered looking men either. Doesn't mean I am incapable of admitting they have good features or well structured style, I just don't want to date or fuck them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:06 PM

Are you just staring random women down lol? Unbroken eye contact is either aggressive, intimate or eerie. Random women do not want to look at random men over long in the eye because men take that as an invitation. It doesn't make us feel "less" it makes us feel spotlighted and weird. Very few people like being stared at. I see you hollering "gaslighting" at everyone so I did a quick poll at my job. It's college football today so my bar is full of people. I asked men and women of multiple ages to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:44 PM
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Yes. It was a personality issue. The things they say, jokes they make, people they try to impress, things they do. Chicks keep trying to tell guys it's not about being 6 something with a six pack. Just like with a beautiful woman, personality can change the way you see them and all of a sudden they aren't really all that attractive after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:43 PM

Lol again! My structural syntax is more than acceptable. Here I am just suggesting that guys stop self sabotaging and you stroll by like "stupid woman with a loser fiancé says what?" Grammer book... I literally laughed out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:06 PM

Lol, ok. Whatever it is you need to convince yourself of to make your day bearable stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:52 PM
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Dude, if I'm trying to learn Mandarin I don't go to someone that only speaks Spanish. You know what's weird about your comment? Chicks very much listen to guys when they give "advice" about what guys want or think. Forewarned is forearmed after all. Do they always take it? Not if that's not the kind of guy they want. But now they know who to avoid. You want advice from a guy instead? My guy said: keep losing then bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:04 AM
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Knowing something is being able to remember every negative thing about that person. Of which there will be many. They are ex's for a reason. Fantasizing about someone you don't know leaves that person a pristine example of everything you like and want with no annoying memories of how they chew, or snore or leave messes in the bathroom or their obnoxious family. Just a hot sexual being that you handpicked to get off to. Your absolutism regarding how guys don't look at porn while in relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:56 AM
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You say most guys are not doing that but I think you are being disingenuous. If you don't, I think most women and men would agree you are an anomaly. With respect it wouldn't be the topic it is in conversations about relationships if it wasn't something so familiar to discuss the dynamics of. You skirted around basically the entirety of the rest of the response. Not to be pushy about it and I don't honestly expect a list because it's not my business but, think to yourself how many you can just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:31 AM
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Ok, with respect this response to your comment is not an "oh yeah, what about..." moment but.. how many"porn stars" or provocative "models" can the average guy effortlessly rattle off by name? Why can they do that? Because they repeatedly watch, fantasize and get off to those women, even when they are in relationships. Women get told that this is not cheating but when your lover is getting off to another woman is sure feels a bit like betrayal. Should we feel the same? Like physically I am not g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:10 AM
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Oh Jesus I just read the end of the post. Terrible fucking advice. Just fucking terrible. Don't do that shit. You're going to end up alone and people are going to hear about how shitty you are and then you won't have any real friends either 'cause they are going to think your a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:55 PM
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Dude, my ex's are my ex's for a reason. Whatever guy I'm with is going to better than my ex. It's not a competition at that point. My guy already won. The ex lost. Guys you have got to stop fashing yourself over your girls ex's. She picked you. Allow yourselves to be happy about that and take it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:53 PM
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Ok you've thought of it so yes, possible that a scenario like this could play out. But it's one extreme possibility. How about another? So we've got an entire generation or two that have people not producing as many children. Society and the financial climate, much less everything else has been no impetus to reproduce. Cost of living is prohibitive, access to preventative healthcare is fundamentally beyond most people's means. The lack of comprehensive respect and compensation given to the found…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:21 AM
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For real, the only time I've ever been broken up with is because I was a virgin and the guy didn't want to go through what he went through with his previous girlfriend who was a virgin and lost her fucking mind when he wanted to break up with her. Why did he want to break up with her? Because she went from zero to sixty like they were gonna get married and start having babies. I wasn't even upset he broke up with me. I was like "ok" and we stayed friends. Meanwhile she was literally sobbing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:50 PM
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Chicks don't generally want to know what porn stars their partner knows by name either, and I've never met a guy that can't rattle off several when asked. Chicks would be no better pleased to be issued a written or visual history of their guys past sexual experiences than a guy would be to get a copy of his girlfriend's. This is not mutually exclusive. It's generally not very gratifying to think about the satisfaction your partner experienced with other people. This is not the ground breaking de…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:20 PM
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History has shown us that even when "average guys" get to choose the woman they want against that woman's will, it's still never enough for them. They make up pseudoscience bullshit like only men are designed by nature to be polyamorous and need sexual variety and end up bringing sexual diseases home to their wives and by default to their children. There's a dude in these comments frothing at the mouth about selfish over entitled women who are single handedly eradicating the human race because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:40 PM
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The exceptions provide the parameters for the rule though. Otherwise the distinction wouldn't be observable. And respectfully, your example proves the point. Just like the over confident "49'er" becoming deluded from getting an abundance of positive feedback online, they may think they deserve a supermodel because they are online so much seeing all the thirst trap chicks buttering up their photos with filters and flattering angles that "normal/average/non polished/dare I say ugly" looking girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:24 PM
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This is such a weird logic. It just gives me so many questions. Like so, the "inflation" problem.. why do you hate the idea of a chick being confident? If she's really a 4 or whatever even if she thinks she's a 9, that will eventually come out in the wash. Either she'll find a dude who thinks she is a 9 and settle down with him or she will constantly shoot herself in the foot by not accepting dudes actually within her range and end up alone. Problem solves itself, right? Look at Keanu Reeves, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:30 PM
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Five minutes?!!? Sheesh a quickie can be a good time but dudes over here making cereal for dinner every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:07 PM
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Imagine comparing some one actually liking you as a person and enjoying your company with someone who has decided the only reason they would interact with you at all is because they want to fuck you and the moment that they realize it won't happen they vanish after possibly insulting you because you won't fuck let them fuck your body. One is friendly and one is selfish. Any dude that has repeatedly used the term friendzoned multiple times in a derogatory way against women to lament his "situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:24 PM
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How is being friendly so challenging? A polite nod in passing, a simple acknowledgement of presence and quiet civility. This can be done in the halls, or elevator or crosswalk or where ever. Become familiar without being pushy or overbearing. Next thing you know you can drop common exchanges like "this weather! I had to bring an umbrella, a coat and sun block today lol" and then follow up with "have a good one!" An idle compliment that is not sexual or based on something like her actual body. "I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:15 PM
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According to some legal definitions in some countries, yes, and in some countries it's younger which other cultures find abhorrent. But what does being an adult mean to you? Because they are 18 which means they are a "teenager", which linguistically is a term distinguishable and recognized as different from "adult". Maturity does not spring forth fully formed like Athena from Zeus' forehead. Life experiences form what we call maturity. At 18 you may think you are mature. I certainly did. At 28 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:21 PM
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Yep, and it's like some dudes don't want to recognize this even when they try to use the logic for their own argument. Some older guys will tout that younger women are better but they aren't even pointing to the types of younger women they would of gone for in their youth. Further, they disregard the fact that those younger women are going to get older and things will likely shift for them just like it would for every other woman. That being said I am so grateful I didn't marry the guy I dated f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:34 PM
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Ok, now are we talking about the older dudes that put down women their own age because "older" women are problematic due to their independence and experience? With respect, despite not always having behavior to evidence it, chicks often are more mature because we have to start dealing with things that have real repercussions earlier, but wisdom comes from lived experience. That's why you will often see women advise girls that older men can be difficult for them to deal with, and admonish men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:10 PM
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Claiming that women settle might be true for some but generally it's just that they grow up, mature and realize different priorities. When I was younger what I wanted and expected from life was different, as was the standards I used to choose a partner during it. As a full adult those things have changed. When I was young I wanted a studio apartment because I barely spent time at home, now I want a dining room that can seat twenty. I didn't want a yard because I traveled for months at a time and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:34 PM
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Enh, attraction can be immediate. You could look at a guy and find one or several reasons you might think "I'd fuck him?" But when it comes down to it it's really "would I let him fuck me?" And that the difference. It's fine to conceptualize but when it comes down to actually making yourself that vulnerable and allowing access to your body, to "inside" your body that's a whole other situation. Do you think a lot of guys would be so quick to unilaterally be dtf just any random chick if they knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:10 PM
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Well figure out what your comfort level is regarding these subjects and speak to your own experience because either they are doing the same thing or they are false bragging trying to make themselves feel cool. If you don't feel attraction for anybody and your are ready to be peppered with questions be honest about it. Or use it as a way to decipher how their attractions function. Or just call them out and be like Christ y'all talk about sex all the damn time! Have you seen (whatever movie) yet? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:32 PM
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Why would you feel left out in social interactions because you don't feel sexual attraction to the people you're talking to? Just talk. Not every conversation is a precursor to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:42 PM
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With respect, that may be the root of your issue. You're not seeing women as "people" like you consider yourself to be if they don't want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:18 PM
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Is it? Is it really? Or did we all witness a little affirmation play?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:28 AM
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Lol dude. People were totally aware of gay people in the eighties (and like waaaaaaay before). That's a shot from magnum pi lol it was all filmed in the eighties, you know when the aids scare was going on and the general public was informed to fear gay people...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:14 PM
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You are contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:01 PM
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But was Burt Reynolds gay? You said dudes that wear short shorts are gay. Almost the entirety of guys in the sixties, seventies and eighties wore short shorts. Your rebuttal is absolutely worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:58 PM
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Cookie deserved? Creepy response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:26 PM
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Burt Reynolds was gay? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:25 PM
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This post is weird, your responses in the comments are weird. It sounds like you have a fetish. Listen man, your kink is not my kink and that's ok but it sounds like you want someone vaguely childish which is pretty borderline. You sound like, really young so maybe it's not a big deal yet but.... I feel like a lot of dudes might find a helpless sounding woman with a room full of stuffed animals off putting in the long run. All those plushies just staring at you. Fucking weird. Some might conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:05 PM
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I never called it a "Walk of Shame".. I called it my "Victory March". It's all about your point of view I say..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:13 PM
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Don't know how old your are, but if you are talking about school relationships and you're just starting uni some time soon, you're probably pretty young and haven't actually had a "long term" relationship yet. Lol why are young people so dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:41 PM
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I wouldn't be exclusive with someone I didn't trust. The women that might potentially be hitting on him are under no obligation to be trustworthy as they are not in understanding with me. My guy and myself are both bartenders and considered attractive. We both get hit on. Neither of us are concerned regarding that because we trust each other. He goes out all the time without me. I'm a homebody, he's not. I'm not ever concerned because he's never given me reason to be. Long story short, if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:02 PM

Ok. Respectfully you are very close to understanding why women may be less prone to sympathize with men in the modern era. Thousands of years of oppression have built up like a pressure cooker. We don't want to be chattel. We don't want to be told we need to revert to the articles of possession we once were. We don't want to lose what autonomy we have garnered in the last few decades. Have you never wondered that maybe the treatment women got and still continue to get in society may have anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:39 PM

"heck I have been called an incel when I do just fine with women" I got called slut and whore when I was a virgin. I think the take away from personal anecdotes like these are that when people want to insult you they're going to try to use whatever is considered the most derogatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:29 PM
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They are constantly on their phones. Sending memes to each other, looking up "facts" that support their arguments, checking the weather, comparing social media posts, etc. They fucking love socal media oh, you should have heard their scorn of the me too movement. Any ignorance they have is perpetuated by delusion, general lecherousness and a selfish personal interest at the cost of others inconvenience and discomfort. In no common scenario is anyone going to believe that a woman is interested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:16 AM
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Today at the grocery store a dude tried to "accidently" bump into me twice. Then walked weirdly close on my heels as I was leaving and then him and his two buddies tried to repeatedly get my attention in the parking lot as I was walking to my car. Also I see it happen everyday to other women. I work in a bar and had to tell the group of fifty/sixty odd year old men that hang out there that everytime a woman walks into the place looking for lunch or a quick drink that they don't need to talk to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:49 PM
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Lol years ago, back when I went out all the time I had a friend we called "the buffer". A very pretty blonde with a hot body on her. She just could not handle any of her other chick friends getting attention from guys that she wasn't sure she could have if she wanted. If she saw a guy talking to any of us she would trip right up and bubbly her way in-between and start her little spiel. As soon as she realized that she had pulled all his attention off of us and on to herself she would be satisfie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:32 AM
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Well that doesn't make sense. Why keep taking to someone you claim you don't respect? Further, clearly you think you have all the time because you are repeatedly reiterating that even if you are aware someone doesn't want to talk to you anymore you will ignore that and be like "blah blah blah gonna keep hitting on you even though you don't want me to blah blah blah". Why would you waste your time? Why be so cavalier with your own dignity? Creepy is most definitely continuing to do that if you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:15 AM
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As an adult you should have enough dignity that if you notice someone is uncomfortable and is giving someone a look that says "rescue me from this" you should take the clue and respectfully disengage. But you admit you just don't care because they don't "have balls" and "are a pussy"? I don't think you really have any right to question the action or non- action someone else uses when you just admitted you will continue to antagonize someone whom you are now consciously aware doesn't want to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:16 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:53 PM

It's not the age, it's the action that is found repulsive. We are enchanted with charming, sweet, older gentlemen. It's the moment they choose to insinuate something blatantly sexual that the flip switches and we are like gross and why?. In example, I've been bartending for a long time. In the course of that time I've been "complimented" more times than I can count. A old man comes in looking like my Pop Pop. Oh he's so cute I just want to dote on him and make sure he has what he needs to enjoy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:12 PM
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I've only ever heard guys virgin shame other guys even if it's true or not. Conversely I was slut shamed in school when I was a virgin because a guy I wasn't going to ever have sex with because I had not had sex at all yet, started telling everybody I was a slut and just making things up about me. He was angry i wouldn't, So that went through the rumor mill and suddenly everybody was calling me, the virgin, a slut. Since "no I'm not" and "I'm a virgin" would never be believed anyway, I started m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:02 PM

It always comes back to "getting to bang her". Getting to bang that "female".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:27 PM
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"and for some reason men aren't nearly a scared by that as women in my experience" Having worked in a bar for over two decades I can tell you a good portion of men are very concerned about gay men being around. Even if they are not interacting with them directly. They are often very ready to lash out in violence to prevent any of "the gay" from from expanding through the bar. They are horrified by the thought they might get hit on or touched by or associated with "the gays". And that's when homo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:48 PM

It's so weird how many numbers some guys are willing to throw around like they are doing actual science and not enacting some sort of performance art. It's also weird how these same some guys, without the sense of irony it's due, will say women are so superficial and heres the "a,b,c" why, while still being so empirically superficial themselves. It's not a news flash special edition update that women are going to be possibly be interested in a guy that has "wealth and status" because the idea of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:47 PM

That's a funny example. Chess, weirdly enough, is very popular at the bar I frequent. There are three in house boards but a noticable number of patrons have their own they keep in their car. I don't care to play because the guys get so worked up to challenge again and again when they lose. To me. It's always one more one more. They don't feel the need to recoup that lose to other guys though. The only person who has won against me is my fiancee. He does not mind losing though. He enjoys the chal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:34 AM
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"Female" intuition is a phrase born of "males" historically recorded unwillingness to admit women just might be as intelligent as men in any regard. They had to attribute it to some type of feeling because as so many "people" in this comment section are saying: men are logical (inherently practical, stable, good) and women are emotional (inherently irrational, unpredictable, bad). So yes, according to them, men have very manly instincts and gut feelings propelled by their practical experience an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:38 PM
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Lol, we survived the several plagues and ecological disasters. People having preferences regarding who they fuck is not going to bottleneck the human population in this day and age. Also hypergamy is nothing new. This is such a ridiculous debate point and demonstrates a complete lack of education regarding a number of fields relating to sociological environments both past and present, and relationship normalcies across the animal kingdoms (of which we are a part).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:13 PM
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Dudes that say shit like "friendzone" have created the idea of "friendzoned" because they have "fuckzoned" most of the chicks they've ever met. They think they like someone but really they just want to have sex with them. They don't actually like them as a person and so the concept of being friends is seen as unbearable or some manner of insult because they don't get to dip that wick. Imagine complaining that someone has no problem hanging out with you and enjoying your company but since you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:31 PM
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Imagine thinking you have someone considered desirable and "high value" and needing them to lower themselves to your value to be considered worth a "chance". Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:28 AM
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"Often times on ppd and some other woman-oriented subs/forums...." It's literally in the first line of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:43 PM
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Dude is a turd and not attractive enough to be as stupid as he is..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:22 AM
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This is a "woman-orientated" forum? Wow. I did not pick up that vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:12 AM
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This is a weird flex... What's not toxic and/or misogynistic about lying to women or anyone else for that matter to get what you want out of them? What makes you think that was ever considered pleasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:18 PM
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Women do not get over break ups faster. They have already spent whatever length of time trying to maintain, make excuses for, communicate about and then prop up that failing relationship. By the time they have given up on it and the guy, there is nothing but relief that the struggle is over and they are not dealing with an absent, uncaring, obtuse, arrogant man child anymore. Meanwhile that guy is like what the fuck happened because he never listened and feels blindsided. The chick has her frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:59 PM
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So that's what she signed up for. Him being "crazy". So by default she just has to stay with him forever? A dude with all the opportunity and access to crowds of fans, a billionaire who "over looked" her sordid, divorced past but is somehow the victim here because she just couldn't be "content" with an erratic unhinged man that you don't feel sorry for but still want to make an example of for your own purpose. The man has tanked multiple contracts, stalked her by hiding in bushes and buying a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:15 PM
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Man I don't care for the Kardashians at all, but Kanye didn't get divorced and "lose his kids" because of kims past. It's because he has been very publicly losing his shit for a hot minute now. He is clearly unstable and obviously needs help that he is refusing to get. He just went online and said he no longer hates all Jewish people he's spent the last amount of time conspiracy theory-ing about because he saw Jonah hill in jumpstreet and he loves him. Kanye/kim is a terrible example to try and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 PM
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Why resort to absolutisms? It's juvenile. And there are less wars currently, world wide, than there were before the modern era. This is easy subject to research. The documentation goes all the way back to the clay tablets of Sumer. Large swaths of the world are no longer dealing with the constant jockeying of petty warlords and kings conquering, being conquered and then reclaiming the same tracks of land over and over again to the detriment of local populations. Are there still wars happening? C…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:56 PM
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But why, and think for a moment, did bad things happen? It wasn't women castrating men on the side of the silk road to make slaves. Fuck yes the world is rough but it wasn't women making eunuchs dude. It was dudes consolidating their wealth by enslaving both women and other men. Emotional and irrational. Ignorant but amusing. We live in a modern situation, and modern sensibilities are realistic. The corpses we built our society on think things like the sun was laid as an egg by a giant golden sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:06 AM
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Oh my goodness! But why were "bad" things happening to men at a such a frequency ? It's one of histories greatest mysteries! We may never know! Weak. And I mean your little "rebuttal". Not the men that were being dominated by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:32 AM
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Oh no, not the feminists and their blatant false narratives that draw from literal historical documentation that was almost empirically and exclusively recorded by men. The idea that every sphere of society didn't have it's own imperative to manage the following generation is simply obtuse. Families that had any manner of skill set absolutely wanted to control whom their children married. Lower nobles did not want their daughter to marry a wastrel who squandered his families wealth unless he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:25 AM
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When I was studying psychology one of the lessons was about the "void" some people experienced after getting successful treatment for issues like depression(as just a singular example). It had been such a profound part of their persona for so long that it's absence caused a crisis of identity. It was like they didn't know who they were anymore now that it wasn't something that was integral to their life. They couldn't relate to their established social circles in the same way and as a result wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:58 PM
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"I don't believe that women were traded as property like people want to say" Your do realize that people say it because there is literal millinia of records detailing this extract phenomenon right? It doesn't matter if you don't believe it, because it was in fact, the case and it was recorded for posterity in everything from the bible to the doomsday book. Also the earth is round.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:15 PM
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Sorry I can't hear you over the sound of your peers saying that any woman they would even consider worthy must be cooking, cleaning and raising offspring for men. Men are attracted to qualities that allow him to do less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:12 PM
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Gay men are huge consumers of sex industry products. Porn, toys, accessories, etc.. Even excluding the possible market demographic geared towards women, male "sex dolls" already feature pretty heavily during industry shows. There are so many rubber rotating dildos and vibrators out there already and they are definitely marketed towards women. There will definitely be dude sex dolls. Teddy flood is one of the characters of West world. He's a bot. He's programed to be in love with his sweet heart …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:43 PM
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This seems to be indicating that only chick sex robots will be made. A companion question to this inquiry might be will it make it even harder on some guys because why will the average woman even bother with real dudes when you've got a "teddy flood" charging in the hall closet while your at work. This is after cleaning up your place and then making dinner before you get home and it's also programed to be caring, romantic and great at sex in a way that your vibrator can't be or a guy won't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:47 PM
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Lol smooth balls are normal on a baby but on a full grown man I feel like that would look very odd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:47 AM
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Puffy balls.... Dude no. I would find that.. concerning to say the diplomatically least. It's an indication of a medical issue, like possibly infection so pretty much an instant turn off. I would suggest a doctor as it could also be a hernia or edema or cancer or several other not so great things. But not an indication of virility. Puffy balls ffs. Then you follow that stunner up with "10 squirts worth" which just sounds like you are into watching other guys cum and wish they did it more, so you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:42 AM
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I agree that the guys setting these standards are extreme and not all men. That is why I phrased it the way I did. "There are dudes" and "these guys" not "dudes (indicating all men) make these lists" and "guys (indicating all men) make the playing field so small". You are entitled to disagree but you are on Reddit right now and cannot deny content to be seen and in abundance that supports this assertion. Complementary to that is commentary from both men and women on this sub that also supports t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:41 AM
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Women like men. They just don't like all men. In the same way that men like women, they just don't like all women. Hence, the dudes you see making standards lists that include things like no "fatties", no colored hair, no tattoos, not high maintenance, sometimes race standards are in there like: must only be Asian or white, must be virgins or a very low body count that you never ever bring up again in any way, no single mothers, must know how to cook and do it, must clean, no career women, no go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:21 PM
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I don't see anything about beta bux here. He's been her friend which should be some sort of prerequisite. If you aren't at base line. And I mean the floor level, friends with the person your marrying, something is wrong. My guy is my best friend. There is nobody I love or have faith and trust in as much as him and he tells me all the time I am is best friend and that he loves and knows without doubt he can depend on me. Friendship comes before love when you are talking about peers. The comments …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:26 AM
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"pretty" woman definitely understand the value of money. Especially if they are polished pretty women who have prerequisites like : dudes got to be rich to date me because I expect to be pampered. They are using $300 moisturizers, spending thousands at the salons and spas to stay "pretty". And their clothes and accessories? The women you seem to be talking about don't shop at Ross my man.. Those kind of women definitely understand how much things cost. In these scenarios you and that pretty woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:39 PM
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Any dude in his thirties dating a teenager would be immediately shamed and ousted from every social circle I've fraternized with. And I'm a bartender, so I do a lot of fraternizing. This has actually come up as a topic of conversation over the bar before and while women generally find the idea abhorrent, men definitely hold the position that it is repugnant too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:30 PM
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Because for thousands of years, masculine anger or frustration has been disqualified as an emotion. He's just an assertive go getter. While feminine anger or frustration has been categorized as hysteria (literally a gender specific mental illness). She's a harpy and aggressive. This behavior and the reprecussions of it has been well documented in professional settings as beneficial to men and detrimental to women. Masculine sadness has been allotted the dignity of significance. It really must me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:31 AM
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Fair enough. Ask yourself this though, do dads want an especially overpriced bouquet of flowers or a little gold heart charm necklace that says "dad" surrounded by flowers and scroll work? More may be getting spent but it's often on chintzy or token items meant to placate over burdened women. Some may get gifted a salon or spa card and typically a restaurant dinner is considered standard. Which is the worst honestly. Two days I will never be found eating out is mother's day and Valentine's day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:33 AM
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There's tons of father's day events. At least there is where I live. Breweries host events, golf courses have special package deals, there are sales events for "manly" things at hardware stores and Harley Davidson. Several of the towns have concerts in their downtown areas. I don't hear many guys setting up brunch dates with other guys so maybe that's why you don't see restaurants selling out brunch for Father's Day. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:59 PM
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Those loud guys that "exude confidence" are often just arrogant. Now that will fool some people and they will be enamored with the peacocking display but a good portion of people will see it for what it is. Bravado and over compensation... And generally obnoxious. If you really have inner confidence you don't need to convey it. You have nothing to actually prove. You are already aware of it so you have no need to convince others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:08 PM
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My mom was an awesome person. My dad can be an asshole. But he is a hard worker and has a great sense of humor. He'll do anything, go out of his way for his friends.. it's his family obligations that seem to be a burden to him. My comment really was directed at his first line, the so-called disturbing trend that seems to be indicating that "men are becoming obsolete". It's not men that are becoming obsolete, it's the old fashioned mentality of some men that is becoming obsolete and causing them …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:10 AM
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I'm going to suggest this in the most helpful way possible, you need to stop using the word "ironically". You are using it incorrectly. Feminism did not "adopt male assumptions of just making money". It asserted a woman's right to the same social, financial and legal autonomy that men have assumed for themselves for literal millinia. I don't know what level of interest you have in actual history but women have provided incalculable contributions to the construction and sustainment of society far…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:06 PM
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With all due respect, no, we did not convince ourselves that it was evil and it sucks. We just don't want to be informed that "ironically women are wonderful for babies and raising them" and be asked if it's really so "bad to value women only for having a womb".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:14 PM
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Do you mean in the system both, historically and in the present, that some men brag about building? The one in which women were seen as not seen as contributing to? The one that gets thrown in our faces because we are useless and lazy because men built everything of importance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:44 PM
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People aren't saying men themselves are obsolete, but the standards that "men/society" have previously self imposed and maintained on themselves and others are. Here's a singular example. My brother got sick, really sick, like brain destroying virus sick years ago. My father could not cope. The stoicism left over from his coal mining grandfather would not let him express his fear and feelings of inadequacy as he stared down at his possibly dying son. So he shut down and claimed he had "things of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:10 PM
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I would say the contrast might be that they can consider them "attractive" but not actually be attracted to them. They like his stability and resources and charm, but not those saggy grey haired balls and flaccid skin that is barely attached to the muscle structures beneath. Like, I can look at an older or younger man and think "hmm, he's a good looking guy" but not have any sexual interest in him while I don't seem to hear too many guys express that same distinction. It's like the acknowledgeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:14 AM
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He keeps his own environment tidy and clean? He cooks and does it well or at least tries? He's good with kids and they like him in return? Yeah these are good and favourable things. Most women are going to be hella into it. Feminine traits pfft. Guys let me let you in on a very well known little secret that we have been trying to tell you but you keep ignoring. Women are really into guys that can take care of themselves (and do) and are also kind. Revolutionary, I know but I cannot express how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:27 PM
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This is not the reason it's a "little sad" that this is what "society has come to". Honestly. Besides that point, any percentage over zero regarding a pregnancy risk is too high to bet on just because guys like yourself think chicks like us should just make "life" more fair for "average guys" by having sex with them. Ffs man. Do you feel the same way for lonely, horny and gay dudes? Are you ready to lay yourself on the alter of their sexual needs? They are dudes too.. with all the same testoster…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:25 AM
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"Raising another man’s child because a hoe couldn’t think logical, but instead act emotionally should never happen." It's a very blanket declaration that infers all women whom have a child, yet are not with the father are in fact a hoe, in your opinion. If that's not what you meant I would respectfully suggest that perhaps a more nuanced approach to how you choose to format your commentary be considered. It's just a bit curt is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:32 PM
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But you didn't answer... Am I hoe because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:12 PM
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Didn't get to make use of that since I didn't know I was pregnant till it was too late. Had no reason to suspect because we were using protection and who could of thought that a guy I trusted for years would be poking holes in condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:12 PM
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I raised my kid without child support and received no government aid. So females don't need a man for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:08 PM
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Respectfully, are you an island? Do you live off grid, grow the entirety of your own food? Mine your own ore, smelt your own metals, manufacture every item you use from nails to the hammer to build your own house? Have you constructed all your own wiring and plumbing? Did you produce all the materials from your lumber to your carpeting, your insulation and your bathroom tiles? Spin your own threads, weave your own clothes on the loom you built, stitch that fabric together with a needle you carve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:05 PM
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Question. I was in a ltr for several years when my ex poked holes in the condoms in order to get me pregnant on purpose. Am I a hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:41 PM
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Lol remember the season finale when Mac did that amazing dance routine for his dad to express his feelings about being gay and a bunch of dudes were like "what the fuck is this shit" and literally THE ENTIRE crew of actors and writers were like "wait... Did you not know we were making fun of you douche bags the entire series??!?!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:30 PM
2

There are spheres of society that not "encourage" but accept that it should not be a "good for the goose but bad for the gander" situation, as it has been for literal millennia, in almost every culture in history. It's always been normalized that of course men are going to "sow their wild oats" before marriage... and then during the marriage, but to do the same as a woman would literally ruin her. Your argument is apples and oranges with the whole "the same society frowns upon men if they have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:01 PM
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You look weak in her eyes.... For complimenting her.... I feel like the old lady in that commercial because that's not how it works. That's not how any of this works. Everybody thrives with positive encouragement. Everybody. When my man compliments me it makes me feel good inside. I could not imagine being with him if we didn't have a mutually appreciative relationship with each other. If he stopped complimenting me regularly I would notice quickly and be like wtf is going on? Are you ok? Are we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:30 PM
3

That doesn't make sense, it literally does not work that way. Either you are are leaving out pertinent info or your compliments aren't as complimentary as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:41 PM
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Lol, that's a no. I mean nobody likes a whiner but try that "keep em guessing" and "treat em like shit" trick on a quality person and they are gonna be like "bye" and you can move on and try that shit on a person who is just as insecure as yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:35 PM
3

Sounds like you both settled and don't actually like each other. That sucks for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:30 PM
1

I don't understand why you are arguing when I support the idea that people should be completely honest in the beginning of a relationship. I do understand that you dislike the word controlling because it has a negative connotation when it's applied to a second party. Self control is commended but it's not seen in the same light when it is exerted over another person. You have every right to have and apply your own standards to whatever potential mate you have chosen but other people such as myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:01 PM
1

As per my previous comment; yes, it is fine. Right up front be honest with what you expect your partner give up or provide so that the understanding is there. Give that person that capacity to observe and respond immediately. But yes, it is controlling you can call it "risk mitigation" all you want but if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck...... Some people will be into that and others will see it a a big red flag and dip out. Honestly though, if you don't at least fundamentally trust so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:25 PM
1

You know to me I think I would much prefer someone starting out like that (redpiller) because it would very clearly impress on me that we are inherently not suited to be together. And that's ok, in fact it's great because who wants to waste their time being deceived that their partner actually respects and loves them verses wants to control them in order to assuage their own insecurities. Tell me right in the beginning who you are and what hoops I'm expected to jump through rather than becoming …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:57 PM
1

Some guys look better bald. My guy does. I've seen pictures of him with hair. I like the look of him better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:47 AM
6

Beauty has nothing to due with fertility. That is a basic fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:04 PM
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There no logic backing your proclamation that quality of egg production or fertility is based on what is considered beauty. And I don't know. I'm not a fertility expert and I seriously doubt you are either. I said nothing to the tune of "older women are hotter and more beautiful than younger women". Regardless, that is subjective as beauty is in the eye of the beholder as the saying goes. You are conflating two separate measures like you've won some masterful debate point. The most fertile woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:56 PM
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Lol "beauty is a fertility cue. The egg production/quality and beauty are tied together." That is honestly just hilarious. Empirically incorrect but hilarious that you would so confidently post something so ridiculous. I bet you are a hoot at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:34 PM
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Of course a person with life experience is going to be more selective. And as you mature what you consider a prerequisite will shift as well. No mature women wants a man baby with no hygiene who won't clean up after himself has a shit work ethic, doesn't have a functioning established household and an understanding of money management or a devolped personality. We already dealt with those in our 20's and expect an equitable level of personal evolution from a potential partner. Unless she's picki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:28 PM
1

Considering how many men I've seen cry on car restoration shows I would venture that men are far more emotional than other men would care to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:18 AM
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I have never seen that most men are immediately turned off when they find out that a woman is taken. Hell I was eight months pregnant waddling around with a big ol belly and had men hitting on me constantly. It was fucking weird and exhausting. It is just not true that most men lose interest if they find out a chick is already involved. It's very cool if you do but you are in rare company because most guys will say shit like "what's your man got to do with me" or "he don't have to know" or I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:45 PM
1

Oh I remember when demi and Ashton were dating... Tons of people were like wtf? Why are they dating? She's so old and he's so young. I remember seeing it on magazine covers in the grocery line. Lots of people talked shit about it being weird and inappropriate.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:44 AM
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Meanwhile here I am with a teenager now because my ex poked holes in the condoms. I wonder what would of happened if I had called the cops way back then..
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:49 PM
1

You heard a conservative woman say this. Welp. There ya go. You heard a conservative woman say this. A conservative. Meaning that she is likely holding with what is considered traditional and conservative values. Old fashioned, traditional, conservative values rooted in older generations pre-fabricated, prepackaged (tw: here's a hated word) patriarchal socal standards. Ya know, when men were men and women were women and both knew their place and their roles... What ever that really means. So she…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:01 PM
2

And banging without worry too! Like no more worry about a baby! Sweet! Let's tend to that garden lover, wink wink
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:46 AM
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Lol, you are hilarious. You think the average woman spends her whole life concerned with how many " people" consider her attractive. As if we consider that the end all of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:39 AM
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Yeah but it wasn't insulting either. Value wasn't reserved for only the maiden and her "unblemished purity" wasn't a prize. The maiden symbolized untested and unconfirmed potential. Becoming the ages of mother and then crone inferred honor and respect. A mother wasn't considered blown out or ruined. The aspect of her "active fertility" was revered and the crone was venerated for her wisdom and knowledge. The modern aspect of those middle and later stages of life have been bastardized into unsavo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:22 PM
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Considering you called it "ho(e) phase" and ho is a derogatory term for a promiscuous woman I think it's kind of redundant and obtuse that you are calling out chicks for potentially calling out guys for being "dogs and immature" It really doesn't serve your point that an allowance should be made and names shouldn't be called when you preface your argument with a very socially recognized gender specific insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:41 PM
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It's both hilarious and ridiculous that the post is literally "women here, what advice would you give to your son's going into dating" and every response a chick has submitted has been shot down, ridiculed and dismissed as her being "delusional". Like so, do y'all actually want to know how or what we think, or do you just want to take a shit on everything a "female" says?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:58 PM
2

Ok, well one of the premier indicators of intoxication is loss of judgement. That's why another shot feels like a good idea, and then yes of course another shot, and then another, etc... It's all great everything is great you're great I'm great. And then you're drunk. But you're not thinking of that, you're just having fun and you don't know that you're drunk because your judgement is compromised because your brain has been altered. You think that guy/girl is pretty hot and you think you're good…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 02:47 AM
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I don't know where you live but as a bartender, if I let someone drunk drive away and they get in an accident, I get in trouble. Legal trouble. A lot of it. Why? Because they weren't of sound mind and we are regulated by responsible vending laws. Despite that, we are not allowed to physically interact or restrict them from leaving. That is assault and unlawful restraint in the first degree. We cannot take their keys from them. That is considered theft. And we're trying to actually help them and …
/r/MensRights26/08/22 09:56 PM
1

It was not voluntary. He emotionally manipulated me and weaponized sex because "if I loved him I would have sex with him because he had needs" He knew i couldn't take hormonal birth control because of health issues. He poked holes in the condoms we used. I didn't know I was pregnant because of those same health issues until it was too late to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:47 PM
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He was very good at being emotionally manipulative and I was young (a teenager) and inexperienced enough to give more weight to his feelings because he "loved" me then I gave to my own even though I was always having to be careful not to trigger him into lashing out at me or sulking until I pandered to his ego. He would start fights, say he was gonna leave, at first I was like no! Why? But eventually it became so exhausting I would say ok I guess, and then he would turn it around on me like it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:37 PM
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Respectfully, I don't think looking at the "macro-level" of male/female relationship dynamics would ever work out for the "male " aspect of that equation in the long run. Were we to take into account the history of factors inherent in traditional relationships what woman would be ready to risk the chances of being taken advantage of, abused, or discarded for a younger replacement? I know I would not of. The stats are scary. But we all draw from our own experience. My biological father controlled…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:35 PM
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Ah! Ye olde "they started it!" maneuver. A recognized strategy amongst established players of "the game". A tired and overplayed tune best left on the shelf as it smacks of juvenile reasoning and mediocre intelligence. With the implicit allowance of the audience I'll submit my own example regarding the reluctance to accept a paternity test for my child. Since the implied blame rests at the feet of the female persuasion I may as well admit I am such a subject. I did not cheat. He absolutely knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:37 AM
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Who cares if any internet redpill/blackpill men thinks you're a "low value man" when your wife thinks you're the best man in the world? And "boom" goes the dynamite. Figure it out boys and give your balls a tug ya fucking pheasants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:24 AM
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Soooooo...., it just sounds like you are proudly admitting you are part of the "problem" and the reason that chicks might wait to have sex in order to develop something potentially more meaningful than emotionless sex with a dude in hopes of keeping him interested. Prefacing your post with, I'm the Boogeyman your parents warned you about, and then saying dudes like you will just lie about your intentions for months to get your dick wet and then be like "you were stupid for fucking me because oop…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:12 PM
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Not being familiar with your cultural or national upbringing I cannot comment to that particular experience. Yet I would venture that the two accountings of how adults relate to pubescent boys are not mutually exclusive. In my experience "boys will be boys" has not necessarily been an "excuse" for a boys behavior or misdeeds but more a "justification" or simply an inherent yet biased insinuation that boys are just more dominated by those hormones so prevalent during puberty and simply cannot be …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:07 PM
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If you are talking physically then yes. The sciences have already observed this. Girls tend to not just hit, but outwardly display characteristics of puberty earlier than boys. Hence the height disparity often seen in middle school. In addition the brain between the two develops at different rates and in different ways. This is not to claim a form of "mental superiority" is inherent in that difference though as it is related to how the brain communicates with itself in relation to outward and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:29 PM
1

This makes no sense. Are they going to employ people that actually carry some manner of implied threat? Bigger? Stronger? Are they going to be relentless about it? Are they then going to become volatile when it's rebuked or ignored? Is it going to escalate if basic civility is shown but not actual interest? Are they going to end up being insulted if they blow it off or say stop it, leave me alone? How far is the "social experiment" going to be allowed to go on during the interaction? Are they go…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 11:29 PM
1

Fun fact: slut didn't originally mean "overly" promiscuous. It meant slovenly or unkempt in appearance. In addition it wasn't gendered as an exclusive insult towards women or girls. Chaucer, author of the Canterbury Tales had a character in his writing ask "why is thy lord so sluttish?" Meaning the person is questioning why the noble is attired in a state that does not suit his rank. Weirdly enough it also was a type of lamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:00 PM
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Lol I usually go up a year. I was so excited to turn 30! I was so ready not to be dismissed as some dumb 20 something year old "girl" anymore and instead to be considered an actual "woman" who could possibly have enough life experience to be maybe even be respected when speaking on a subject. In example; me, in my 20's trying to explain to 3 guys that we could not, in fact, drive with one of the brake pads off. That it did not matter that the other 3 we're still on the car. Even though I was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:17 PM
1

Omg. Fucking stop. By that logic do you need to be horny to lick a pussy? It's like mowing the lawn just do it like a normal task. Does that make sense? Stop being a shit. You are a right shitty man whore troll. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:48 AM
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Ugh, getting old used to be my biggest fear. Literally. But not because I would lose my attractiveness lol, I was (and still am to be honest) afraid of losing my physical capabilities. Of being able to do things for myself. I'm a "do'er". I'm the one that drags out all the seasonal decor and puts it all up. I enjoy gardening and that requires hard work and heavy lifting. I hate having to ask for help or wait for help. I enjoy making things that require good eyesight and manual dexterity. I'm ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:30 AM
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But that's what dating is for chicks too.. it's sales. So many are doing everything in their power to be valuable in the way they have been taught is wanted. Looks looks looks. I don't mean to sound trite but have you seen the standards we're are expected to live up to? It's all airbrushing and Photoshop! Not many of us have been blessed by the genetics Gods that we look like that in real life. How many chicks are guys overlooking for reasons equitable to the reasons you are saying guys get over…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:46 AM
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I don't feel confident speaking for all of course but once again not my experience. My ex was competitive bjj, during my time with him I met nobody who wasn't ready to test their skills, on the mat or in a street fight. I honestly do not mean to gender aggression here but most guys who study any version of martial arts are prone to aggression. I really need to reiterate that I do not mean this to genderize violence. I really really don't. There are of course, expectations to the rule but even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:28 AM
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Not at all my experience. MMA guys always have something to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:11 AM
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Ah, I hate this shit. There is so much evidence that she was off the wall bat shit crazy. Honestly I think they are both crazy egomaniacs but I'm tentatively backing johnny in this. She seems like a crazy bitch but I would also suggest to him that he should date within his marketing demographic.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:28 AM
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It's a personality thing. I've met good looking guys that quickly became unattractive because of the way they act. And I've met guys that are not considered conventionally good looking that become very appealing as time goes by. I find nerds of all types intriguing though and they are just nerds of a different design. Dedication can be very sexy but I feel like I would not like watching my guy fight on the regular. Even a good day at work means he's gonna come home looking like he's been punched…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:33 PM
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So.... A gay bar? Lol seriously though they do have men's only clubs. Just look em up. Some are just golf places but women are generally not allowed in strip clubs as patrons without a guy. And this is just a special event night. It could easily be set up as a guys only night too but unless you're gay you might end up uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 10:39 PM
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This isn't unusual. So many guys on here saying "it will fail because it won't turn a profit". These nights tend to do fine. I'm a bartender and there have been ladies only nights for ages. Never had a problem making money during them. And all the hardy har har jokes about "who's gonna buy them their drinks?! They aren't gonna like having to buy their own drinks." I'm gonna let you in on a little but pretty well known secret. Many chicks don't want dudes to buy them drinks because the guys get a…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 10:32 PM
1

Oh yes, I'm clearly a bigot. The bigoty ass bigot of them all. Just me over here being a bigot because that's what's bigots do. Bigot bigot bigot.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:05 AM
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Men are the overt perpetrators of war. History has no problem proving the statistics. These aren't my opinions. These are documented facts. And the article clearly states that women cannot always flee. "Survival" comes at a wretched price. They"get to live" under constant threat of torture. War is completely fucked up. I think the premise of almost every war in history is utter fucking bullshit. I think the draft is archaic and criminal. I think it's completely fucking shitty we as a species for…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:51 AM
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That's the whole point of my post. Men are self victimizing. Men instituted the male only draft. Why blame women????
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:34 AM
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This is such a biased subject. Men are the ones that made these standards. They are the ones that declared that men, and ONLY men were equipped for the rigors of war that they keep starting. Men were the ones that enforced the idea that the women and children need to flee in order to hopefully survive and maybe continue the culture. Why did they did they do that? Because of the horrific things that they knew OTHER MEN WOULD DO! Why? Because they knew it happened on their side too and they consid…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:26 PM
1

What a wretched comment. I never took my ex to court for child support, mostly because he's a loser who never has job anyway so... He rarely choose to pay anything, but wow, did it help when he decided to offer up some effort to help support the child he poked holes in a condom to make. Honestly I would of been happier to have never seen him again. He is just a selfish and manipulative person and I thank God everyday that I wasn't forced to be with him and my daughter didn't have to grow up tipt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:22 PM
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I see that online, all over. Guys settling themselves into these echo chambers of vitriol and blame, chirping on about how "women need to lower their standards so all men get a chance to have a relationship or even just fuck, because it's not faaaaaaiiiiirrrrr" It's not the women that need to lower their standards, it's those dudes that need to lower theirs. I guarantee that for the type of women they are focusing on, they have ignored or disregarded thousands of other women who they don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:39 AM
2

It is very rare that anything of quality comes without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:21 AM
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I have to be honest, as a woman it is so hard to read the comments that are always in this subreddit. There is so much vitriol for women, even when one has gone through enormous effort to shed that title to become the man they thought they were supposed to be from the beginning and admit to the world that holy shit there are things that are really hard. And I thought I understood but I really didn't. And maybe you think you really understand too but let me tell you the things I really noticed in…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:23 PM
2

Ah well I wasn't commenting on the growing obesity issue, just the initial comment. The study of eating disorders being genetic is in it's infancy. It has often been seen "running in the family" and that was part of why it was considered psychological as eating habits are often ingrained in youth. My cousin did it to his kid. Let her eat nothing but chocolate, cheese and chicken nuggets for years. Morbidly obese as a toddler. Sad really. Beyond that we have a physical desire for what is rare in …
/r/MensRights01/04/22 10:44 PM
0

Well some chicks suck and some guys suck why can't we just collectively come to terms with the fact that some of both of our respective genders blow, appreciate the fact that they generally out themselves with these shitty standards and expectations, and leave them to each other? Too many physical requirements should be a red flag to anybody who doesn't have that many of their own anyway. I've dated guys shorter than me. Maybe tmi but the sex was good because we lined up well. Lol their mouths w…
/r/MensRights01/04/22 10:28 PM
1

Oof personal preference, but I think a shaved crotchal region on guys looks fricken weird.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 09:52 PM
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Respectfully, Prader-Willi syndrome is a genetic disorder. It causes insatiable hunger. There is a whole host of behavioral issues that are associated with it as well, those suffering from it will hurt themselves if denied food or eat things that are dangerous. Science is finding that most eating disorders are rooted in genetic proclivity where they always believed prior that it was a purely psychological issue.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 09:49 PM
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Lol this makes me think of the Futurama episode when fry gets the Lucy lui sexbot and they show him the psa video about the Marilyn Monroe sexbot and how it ruined little Timmy's life because he ignored the nice girl next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:40 PM
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You are choosing to be obtuse regarding which definition of strength you want to illustrate your point with. You've been distilling your opinion into the view that because men are generally, physically superior regarding strength, that they are by default morally superior to women. Which is just not logical. Morality has nothing to do with actual strength but what you apply it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:08 PM
1

A dung beetle is the strongest animal on earth. Relative to size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:42 PM
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By that logic a chimpanzee is morally superior to you. Morals are not based in the physical. The foundations of morality are firmly rooted in the emotional and mental spheres of existence. Hence the variable natures that religious and culturally based moralities exhibit while still generally prescribing to some universal communal ethics. Strength is a commodity, a tool. A valuable one, no doubt. But it is not, by definition a virtue. The value and "virtuous" nature of strength lies in it's usage…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:37 PM
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Yeesh lol, I actually laughed a little.. I bet you're fun at a party. Stay humble my friend, it's a good look on you. Plato wrote only in moderate terms of Socrates at best. Socrates didn't believe in writing knowledge because he thought the recording of information dulled the minds capacity yet it is barely debated if he was real as there are several contemporaries that also wrote of him. Scholars aren't in question regarding the subject. That aside, you clearly need somebody, even a person so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:03 AM
1

Aristotle also held the opinion that wombs wandered willynilly through women's bodies. He thought women had less teeth then men. That all thought originated in the heart and the brain was used to cool blood. He was incredibly elitist and believed that most people were literally born to be slaves and were soulless (which was in direct opposition to the nurture centric philosophy he held for his social peers). He believed in spontaneous creation for dozens of species of animals. He thought the sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:51 PM
1

Neither your civil or human rights are being violated. You still have access to the bathroom. You just have to ask during class, which honestly, is normal. I had to ask when I was in school and my kid just told me today during dinner how her teacher made her wait till he was done with his lecture to go to the restroom. Beyond that there are plenty of places in which you have to get a key to access the restrooms. You are not being discriminated against because your school had to take precautions …
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:36 AM
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Did the tampons you speak of kick the toilet off the floor causing hundreds of dollars in damages? On a side note, I never personally saw a bathroom flood because of flushed tampons. But I'm only in my forties so don't really have much experience to draw from. Listen, I get it, I'm a chick so anything I say is going to be down voted. I'm not on the school board so I don't understand why your getting angry at me and coming up with the "what if" scenarios. I only asked a question and proposed the …
/r/MensRights26/03/22 12:45 AM
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Has your school had issues with the boys trashing the bathroom? I know my daughter said her school had the bathrooms vandalized for that tiktok "challenge" and some guys had fucked up like 3 of the boys bathrooms. Like ripping sinks off the wall and kicking the toilets off causing floods. That's a chunk out of the school budget to fix that stuff. There may have not been any occurrences in what you consider recent history but if that is what was happened then it just took time to go through the c…
/r/MensRights25/03/22 10:06 PM
1

Honestly I think beyond the fact that everybody wants to level up in generally every aspect of life, there are guys out there overvaluing themselves. They disregard women that are actually on their level, because they are attracted to the bolder and more physically appealing options they see (whatever weight you can give to the concept of a "looks match" ) You see fat guys shaming fat chicks because they aren't sexy enough. Unkempt guys slamming the efforts of chicks via makeup and nice clothes …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:35 PM
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"If women are truly after someone who shares the same attitudes/interests/personality as then why is how much money I make a disqualifier?" Why would a person not seek those similarities out in a partner? The same levels of drive and aspirations? I have a great work ethic. I work hard because I want nice things in my life. Dated a guy once who didn't want to work, literally talked about how he would probably end up homeless when he was older and didn't seem to think it sounded bad. I don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:18 PM
1

I still honestly do not understand what you are referring to. As to your comment prior, Respectfully, I disagree. There have always been and always will be social expectations regarding appearance and the acceptance it garners in social settings. They are applied in a broad spectrum to both men and women. If you think there is a leading man that isn't wearing makeup in his movies or on the red carpet and isn't having their photos edited and shopped you are lying to yourself. Hence the prolific m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:11 AM
1

What problems were a thing of the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:16 PM
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We haven't historically stigmatized men for it though. Every culture has used some manner to "beautify" themselves. From body modification like scarification, piercing, tattoos to make up and adornments. There is a literal wealth of images and text that documents this. Even in the western cultures. Consider the court of king Louie in Renaissance France. Men wore the same face powders, rouge, beauty marks and lip stains that women did. With ridiculous wigs and lace ruffles to boot. And heeled sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:41 PM
2

High heels were designed for men originally. In order to accentuate the calve muscles. There were platform shoes designed for women to keep them from street muck, but they weren't heels. That was a later born adaptation and design for women. Makeup, through parts of history, was basically socially banned because of the vanity/ religious issues but due to sociological pressure to look a certain way it was still present. We are told that to be worthy we must look a certain way and so by default re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:42 AM
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Women are not wearing makeup in order to be better than men, very often (whether we want to admit it or not), we are wearing it in order to be acceptable to men/society in general. Y'all got some serious fucking standards for us to live up to! Many have just said fuck it, I'm just going to do what I want and eventually I'll find someone who likes me. Most jobs literally require women to present a polished appearance. Makeup is required. You can see it written into work contacts you sign upon bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:45 AM
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Boooo.... Why call yourself out like that? You're making yourself look bad bud. Listen, I'm willing to admit men are sexually copacetic, socially speaking, but don't act like your own narrative is the end all. Some of us humans are capable of discourse that doesn't stern from a need to breed. I literally cannot hold faith that every dude that had ever spoken to me has only ever done it in hopes that he can bang me. It just doesn't pan out. We are capable of being friends without benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:10 AM
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That specific subject came up when we were talking with friends at the bar. My guy was like "what rights do I not have?" Our friend that prompted the conversation, who's a guy, didn't have an answer my guy thought was realistic.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 11:51 PM
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You may deem it that but, I must say from another point of view, that many of the subjects discussed on this forum are an echo chamber of hatred towards women. Yet this doesn't dissuade me from believing there are viable topics that deserve a real conversation. You can't grow without exposing yourself to points of view that may be outside your normalized preconceptions. You don't have to agree with them and may not find yourself changing your stance but on the other hand your critical thinking m…
/r/MensRights12/03/22 07:25 PM
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Honestly, flip the script. Say your reading a post on the same subject. Only instead of it being you it's a chick writing the same thing I'm looking to take a class. It's a master's. But the professor is a man and has written articles on man's rights issues. I haven't read them but I don't don't think I can listen to some man talk about what might be subjects that could possibly bother me on a personal level, even though my priority is furthering my higher education. What should I do? What advic…
/r/MensRights12/03/22 07:54 AM
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Respectfully no. A vagina is not going to naturally lubricate and "expand" itself just because it's being penetrated by a penis. These physical sex characteristics, yes, are sympathetic in biological evolutionary design but that does not mean that it has an involuntary automatic response. Contrary to that, the phycological stress involved in either male on female or male on male rape and the struggle against it tend to cause the muscles to seize up and flex beyond normal effort. Hence the very o…
/r/MensRights12/03/22 05:26 AM
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