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| 2 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionSo much straw manning in this post. No one is saying you have to “drop your standards”. No one is holding a gun to your head to accept guys who watch porn. No one is getting upset that you don’t date guys who watch porn. I’m simply saying that with many women openly admitting how poor they are at selecting partners (you know the ole - all of my ex’s are a liars, cheats, amd abused me but I was with them for years story) we wouldn’t be surprised that you’re dating porn users while believing you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionSo much straw manning in this post. No one is saying you have to “drop your standards”. No one is holding a gun to your head to accept guys who watch porn. No one is getting upset that you don’t date guys who watch porn. I’m simply saying that with many women openly admitting how poor they are at selecting partners (you know the ole - all of my ex’s are a liars, cheats, amd abused me but I was with them for years story) we wouldn’t be surprised that you’re dating porn users while believing you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 14 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?Sounds a lot like red pill to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedProblem is video games existed for a long time before 2008. Why the sudden change right when social media and dating apps start to rise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 04:48 AM |
| 6 | A big part of many women's unreasonableness and why they end up spinsters is that they take all the "ideal traits" from previous partners and demand it from the next man while offering little to no value themselves.I’ve made it guys, I made it to the 1%! Never thought I’d be here | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismOh comeon dude. I’m a guy and my ex wife stayed at home when our kids were young. Raising kids is not “throwing a few loads in the laundry”. Kids, especially small kids, demand constant attention and work. Once they’re probably 5-6 years old and in school then yes that amount of work largely goes away. I think most women go back to work after their children are very young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What does 'taking responsibility' mean?No, it’s a conversation about responsibility and you brought up “predators”. Now why would you bring up predators in a conversation about woman taking responsibility? Clearly in your mind responsibility and victim hood are would together, which is telling. That majority of the time e Whenever you hear men saying women need to take responsibility they’re saying it in regards to them being pumped and dumped, bitter and angry and blaming men instead of owning their part in their life. It’s about me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What does 'taking responsibility' mean?Ok what we’re taking about is taking responsibility for our own lives, right? Please clarify if you’re talking about something other than this. How you see yourself, portray yourself and what you believe yourself to be will all influence how you behave. If you believe you’re a victim you’re to forever find a “predator” who took advantage and poor ole you just were soo naive you just never had a chance. Your go to response on the this whole thread has been “but what about when something happens o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 4 | What does 'taking responsibility' mean?Wow. Okay so maybe it isn’t different for you if you can’t tell the difference. Can’t believe I have to spell this out for you. Women can and should leave after the first abuse happens. CHILDREN CANT LEAVE. That’s the agency/responsibility we’re talking about. Life happens to everyone. Good and bad. You and all other women have the ability to respond and react to that. You are not defined by something that happened to you. You can protect yourself, you can choose where to go and who to go with. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | What does 'taking responsibility' mean?Ok this is a great example. Your entire focus is on a “predator” that you have no control of. You have agency in life and can control where you go, what you do, who you sleep with, who you don’t. Your life is not controlled by some mysterious “predator”. For gods sake, you’re an adult, stop being so weak. This is the responsibility that men are talking about. You act like you have no agency, that everything happens to you and you can’t do anything. That’s such bullshit. Men and women are both vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 5 | What does 'taking responsibility' mean?When you’re always a vulnerable victim you clearly aren’t owning responsibility for your own choices. This comes full circle back to what do they mean when they say women should be responsible for their own actions. Being responsible for your actions doesn’t mean every time something bad happens in your life you blame someone else and say how vulnerable you were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Haha, I’ve never thought of it like that. Makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is depression in men a turn off for women?Lmao what world do you live in? You must be in high school or college. Only way you would say something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 03:00 AM |
| 9 | Why is depression in men a turn off for women?Reality’s a bitch, eh? Who the hell wants to get into a relationship with someone who’s depressed all the time? I get if someone is dealing with something and you’re already in a relationship but signing up for that makes no sense. It’s like saying why wouldn’t you want to date someone is bipolar? They can’t help it so you should just give them a shot. Being in a relationship with someone who has a problem dealing with life isn’t attractive. Everything about it is unattractive. Why is that bad t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail.Let’s say you’re a 4 without any work. If you start working out, go to school, grow your hair longer so you can’t see your widows peak then maybe you get to a 6-7? The point of he post is if you just say “I’ll never be at the top” and don’t try then you’ll never move up past the 4 you’re at now. You can always improve. Especially as a guy since were judged on more than just looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | This is who women idolize and where they get their values from.This whole thing is bullshit tbh. Why is it vile to be rich and do this? People in the US are happy to pay her price and people in Sri Lanka are working for that wage. What’s wrong with what she’s doing? $.64/hr could be a great wage where they’re making the clothes and Beyoncé could be making her workers lives better and paying at the top end of the employment market. We don’t know either way. If you can get what the market will bear on both ends (mfg at low costs and selling at a high price) o… | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 4 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Okayyyyyyy The point is she should do a better screening. It was not based on you as in individual oddballren, it was based on you as women who complain about the advantages they have and “just don’t understand how things are different”. It’s truly idiotic for people to act like they can’t understand the difference between the two aspects provided in the post. No offense to you if you’re not defending that line of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 02:58 AM |
| 6 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I’m not that guy responding but here’s the point: Woman posts about how difficult finding true love is and how sorting through bad choices is a tough as having no choices. Meanwhile that person has a 50+ count of sleeping with other people and in a relationship with someone who is great for them in almost every way except sex. Instead of acknowledging that having a line of people who wanting to date her is an advantage she continues to act like she’s suffering. Do you not see how hollow that rin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.No successful doesn’t mean having a bunch of baby mamas and not paying child support. Where did you pull that from? Clearly in this conversation being successful means being successful with women/sleeping with women. You’d be hard pressed to find a guy who would take a 4 in looks over a 8, regardless of personality. Is it unfair people are judged for what they look like, yes but that’s the reality we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 12:29 AM |
| 18 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Huh interesting, I’ve been on here awhile and don’t recall ever seeing a guy write that he was upset he couldn’t get a partnered orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 9 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.Doesn’t that prove the point? That a guy who is a douchebag but looks good is much more successful that most average guys even if they have great personalities. Personally I think women need to put more focus on being physically attractive to get attention, their personalities matter less to men. I think men have a wider array of things they can do to become attractive to women. Some women care about looks but some are more interested in successful or driven men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundTake a look at what I said. Just about everything in the social sphere is shades of gray. There are measurable and objective things in life, of course there are. No one is arguing that there is no objective truth about anything in reality, that’s just silly. It’s equally as silly to say that no matter what, in all aspects of life there is truth and lie/right and wrong. What you’re saying is there is no difference between when things are opinions and fact, there’s always a “correct” way. There ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 3 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundThat view of life is so black and white. Reality isn’t as definitive as a “correct answer”. Just about everything in the social sphere is shades of varying grey. Your approach of “either I’m right and you’re wrong or you’re right and I’m wrong” is where the roots of extremism start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Gee, I wonder how many women who post to r/niceguys end up needing someone nice to help pay for their mistakes.Why would that upset you?? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?I hope that future husband knows about your sugaring past. no knock against you, I’d probably take the easy route too, but most decent dudes I know would never start a family with an ex prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Ok it’s a given there are variations from person to person. That is a huge difference than saying “people are so different we can’t figure out any general trends”. There are variations but there are generalities that apply as well. It’s okay to categorize people, we categorize everything else in our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I wonder what the overall number of marriages is. I’d bet there are fewer marriages in blue states but they last longer/have fewer divorces and the reverse in red states | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Here’s something both sides should agree on imo. Gender roles are useful. I want to out-earn my significant other. I want to take a girl out and not have her take me out. I want her to look better than me. I want to be the protector. I don’t get the people who are arguing against all of this. Men and women are generally hard wired to work together in different ways. It’s like yin and yang, we’re different but complementary. What dude wants his girl to protect him or provide for him? To me that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Of course people are complex but generally speaking people do fall into rough categories. The type of people who are confident generally don’t care as much about other peoples opinions and are more likely to have asshole-like behaviors as it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. Those two traits are tied together. Is it possible that someone can be nice and confident without being an asshole? Sure but it’s not nearly as common as being confident and having asshole tendencies. The people who define … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?Defaulting to telling people to accept their anxiety is the last thing you want to do imo. People need encouragement to rise above it, not wallow in it. It’s a real thing that affects people but it’s also real that the majority of people can do things to improve their situation. Reddit has this thing where it acts like they’re powerless against anxiety and that is bullshit. People can change and overcome their fears and anxieties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 6 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?I’d disagree with you on the fake it til you make it part of confidence. There have been studies showing that how you act influences how you think. Just acting confident even when you’re not can be helpful to a lot of people. I believe you don’t have to be anxiety ridden. I used to be an anxious person but am not at all anymore. I did things to control it like exercising, eating better and following through on things that caused anxiety, like walking into a bar full of people I didn’t know. Peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Sociosexual orientation? I’ve never heard of such a thing. Does that mean you want someone who fucked the same or near same amount of people as you? Or does it stand for something more and than just that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The link between male obesity and struggles with dating and sexI don’t know what you’re talking about. I fuck fat chicks regularly. Don’t really find them too attractive but I’m not a proud man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 12:49 AM |
| 16 | The link between male obesity and struggles with dating and sexI find overweight women unattractive and I think overweight women are more likely to be loud and obnoxious. What was the reason for you commenting again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Does female promiscuity follow the pareto principle like male promiscuity?That’s so disconnected from reality that I’m not even sure what to say. These lonely, overweight, super unattractive angry dudes are not holding out for a girlfriend to have sex. They’re not having sex because no one wants to have sex with them. I disagree with the above poster because I think the responsibility lies on the men that improve themselves rather than the women to start sleeping with them because they’re not having any sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Rare red-pilled cases aside, are women generally aware that they're basically all going for the same type of guys?Tall , handsome, wealthy, educated and fit adults are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] Hypergamy is a human trait, not a female traitLmao, the language some of these people use is so fucking ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are both hypergamous but in different ways. Women marry up for wealth, power and social status while men marry up for looks.Not sure where you’re getting your info but that’s way off mark. Generally men want a good looking woman but not the hottest woman they can find. The hottest women are great for hooking up with but are more of a headache. They’re typically more demanding along with a bunch of other negatives for a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractivenessI know you’ve never been a manager by that statement. If you’re a manager and think you can do less work than your employees then you’re not going to perform well. Typically the managers that don’t perform well don’t last that long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | The fact that women, by far, negotiate the majority of divorces is evidence enough of the degradation of the nuclear family... and why it is women’s fault for not thinking for themselves.Agreed it’s a dumb promise. I know from experience of saying it and breaking it! Maybe I’ll use your line for my next marriage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The fact that women, by far, negotiate the majority of divorces is evidence enough of the degradation of the nuclear family... and why it is women’s fault for not thinking for themselves.I have been in 8 weddings and have gone to at least 30 wedding, never once have I heard two people at the alter say “for as long as we choose each other” or anything even close to that lmao That’s not even close to common. People are head over heels with each other when they’re writing their vows. They’re not hedging their words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”Where does that information come from? I didn’t see any study referenced. Here is a 2017 PEW research study showing husbands out earn their wives close to 70% of the time. The gap has been closing over the decades but there is still a very large gap. According to a 2017 pew research study husbands out earn their wives 69% of the time. That would classify as way more to me. A previous study I read but cannot find right now said the average husband out earned his wife by close to 50%. If I can fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 3 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”According to a 2017 pew research study husbands out earn their wives 69% of the time. That would classify as way more to me. A previous study I read but cannot find right now said the average husband out earned his wife by close to 50%. If I can find that I’ll post it. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/%3famp=1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 10 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”I disagree with this guy but I believe when he says “treating better” he’s meaning that men who put less effort in but still sleep with women are “treated better”. If I follow this logic all the way down it says that sex is the end goal of each relationship with a woman and the connection/anything else doesn’t really carry any weight. He’s saying if a women slept with him faster than me and I did more things for her then this is unfair. It’s a very transactional view of relationships as “I give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 11 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”Married men on average WAY outearn their wives. They are on the the highest earning groups out there. Where are you getting your information that women make as much or more in marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 5 | Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOUAre you saying 75% of people on antidepressants are men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3612964/ Birth weight, resources(more homeless men and more Uber rich than women), height (men have a much wider range of height than women), men on average have higher AND lower IQ than women, men have wider range of personality traits among other things. No one knows for sure but some people think it’s due the XY instead of XX chromosomes. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3612964/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/qz.com/441905/men-are-both-d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 05:08 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated.I’m not really sold one way or the other but feel I should point out the counter argument. The RP side says that dating changed when online dating started becoming mainstream. One of the markers they state is Tinder growing, I think it was 2012-2013. If you look at the trends that is where the divergence starts. Currently it sits at young men being twice as likely as young women to be sexless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy the reason women used to not have rights?You two are looking at it through your own lenses. Men had more choice and agency but died more often from work/warfare than women. Women had less choice and agency but were protected more than men. You two are comparing apples and oranges, to use your phrase. If everyone stopped trying to convince everyone else how much worse their gender had it years ago then we would probably have a lot less animosity towards each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Redpill complain so much about the promiscuity of women and its effects on society, when that very same condition helps the Redpill.True. However if there are thousands of women who all have a reason for not being interested in you then I’d wager the problem isn’t with everyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why does the Redpill complain so much about the promiscuity of women and its effects on society, when that very same condition helps the Redpill.I get his example wasn’t great but his point stands imo. He’s saying there are a shit ton of women out there who aren’t obese and also aren’t taken. He’s saying if you can’t get any of the women who aren’t taken to like you then there’s a problem with you, not all the women. The issue I take with your “more men than women” thing is that there may be more men than women but a large portion of both men and women are not in relationships. If every person was paired off then you might have a point b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractiveSounds like you are advocating for RP with that comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | [Updated] Excerpts relating promiscuity specifically to infidelity with APA citationsThe argument is to point out that promiscuity increases the likelihood of cheating. He’s saying that backs up what RP has been saying and that it’s better to date/marry someone with a low N count. That doesn’t seem moot to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 4 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.But that leverage changes over time and if you’re using leverage to take what you want from other people when you can then expect it to happen to you once the tables turn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than MenFrom what I recall about the studies it wasn’t just women with disorders, narcissistic men had much better success with women across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?I don’t necessarily agree with OP but what do you think the stark differences in FWB and LTR are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] What makes you notice a woman? What makes a woman high/low value to you (if you're redpilled)https://imgur.com/a/HNFWwtL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyIt’s foolish to argue women are as violent as men. Objectively it’s not true. Men and women are built differently. Men tend to vary much more widely in a range of characteristics like intelligence and violence among others. I’m not certain of the reason but I’m sure XY vs XX and the differing levels of testosterone have an impact as well. This is all pretty straightforward, look at all of the data. Pointing out that men are more violent is not a bad thing. Men are more extreme than women in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is mostly nonsenseI think the point is that you liked your last partner but would you have preferred your past parter was the same in all other ways except he had an athletic or muscular body? Or do you prefer a dad bod over athletic? From what I’ve seen here on PPD, the studies seem to show that attractiveness is fairly universal. The same types of faces (symmetrical & average) are overwhelmingly viewed as more attractive. Just because you may like something different doesn’t change the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive?Ha I don’t think women even know what dress they want until they try it on. Pretty much all my exes said the sizes varied store by store so your benchmark is an odd one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive?Hmm sounds like someone you’re not too happy being in a relationship with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?I drop in here from time to time, every couple weeks or so, and without fail BAM top comment is the purring Jew. You’re like the OG of PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 02:13 AM |
| 6 | If women are the less promiscuous of the two sexes, how come a greater portion of women than men are in the “past doesn’t matter” camp?Don’t you know? If you call someone a sexist it defeats their argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.John’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.I don’t know what the hell this comment mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Does anybody feel like this sub is getting out of topic from TRP?This place is for having a debate about specific subjects from different perspectives. It’s comments like that that ruin any chance for a reasonable discussion with the other side. What you wrote is pointless. You’re just bashing the other side to feel better. If you’re still in the anger phase then just stay in trp and work through it man. You don’t make women look bad, you make yourself and other red leaning people bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Ok great so that’s talking about brad Pitt, who is a go to reference when someone describes a hot guy. It also doesn’t matter how hot someone is, they’re aren’t getting 3 plus compliments a day, especially someone 30-40 years younger saying they’re “sexy”. That makes zero sense. Absolutely zero. If someone believes that then there’s obviously a disconnect with reality. The other thing is he said he was surprised and though his looks were going away but then someone said he was hot and he was sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Oh no. You’re not laughing at me, are you?? Oh no. I don’t even know what to say to you, you’re so delusional. What you’re saying is something that does not happen. Women in their early 20s are not commenting on how attractive 50 yo (how old you claim you look) men are. You probably had a couple people say something to you and suddenly it’s happening “every day, 3 times a day”. Why don’t you post a picture of your face and we can all honestly judge you? My guess is you would never put your info … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 21 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.I buy some of the red pill but other parts of it are so dogmatic and not connected with reality. Of course if a guy is overly sensitive it’s a turn off, that’s common sense. That doesn’t extend to “men showing emotions are always unattractive”. The problem is so many guys here just haven’t spent time with women and assume everything the internet tell them about women is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.That’s so unbelievable. You can’t actually believe that. No 18 year old is telling a 60yo they’re handsome, cute, SEXY(oh yeah 18yo def tell 60yo they’re SeEXY daily). The only way that’s true is if its 18yo that work at the nursing home and is like “you’re so cute”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?I’m not the person above you but no one is arguing that women, regardless of any circumstances, always want a baby at 30. If that’s what you got from this conversation then I don’t know what to tell you. The whole conversation has been geared towards single women who approach 30/whatever age and want to settle down and have a family. That’s what they’re referring to. No one is saying a person who has 8 kids at 30 MUST want another baby. It’s the idea that as women age there is a biological clock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack?Obviously. The difference is that generally it’s found in higher concentrations in men. I’m assuming you know that and just decided to be thick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m just going to ask the hard question—why are men mad at women for having standards?Your post seemed to be talking in absolutes about unattractive men. I’m with you that the men who are angry about women having standards are just mad that women aren’t choosing them. Women are the “selectors” and the men who aren’t being chosen are angry at those rejecting them instead of understanding they are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areAre you drunk? You type like I do when I’m drunk. Unnecessarily angry and typos every four words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:43 PM |
| 4 | When women criticize men, they are only referring to the top 20%. When men criticize women, they're referring to all women.Both of your perspectives can’t be reality. I grew up blue and was always able to find a girl. I wasn’t a Chad or anything but was able to get a girlfriend. Then I got married and started hating my life. I got divorced 3-4 years ago and came out of that completely red pilled. Angry and could only see ugliness in women. I went on a streak of sleeping with as many women as I could. Just six months ago I two girlfriends and two fwb at the same time. Then like a month before this quarantine hit I br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical?Dude I’m not a lady. Seems like common decency to not call the people you’re debating with creatures. Someone else said yesterday some girl called a guy subhuman because he wasn’t attractive. That’s just as fucked up and I think someone say something there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical?I guess it all breaks down to where you think boundaries lie. On one end you have everyone controlling everyone else’s viewpoint which doesn’t make sense. One the other end is well it’s the internet, people are going to be assholes don’t participate if you don’t like it. My take is that maintaining basic dignity for the other side isn’t unreasonable or sensitive. A reasonable boundary for behavior would be treating the other person like a human. What are your thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a woman's beta bux is worse than being with a young golddigger?I don’t know about all this. I was middle of the road in my teens and twenties, always had a girlfriend or at least some women’s interest but wasn’t a “Chad” by any stretch. Over the years I busted my ass to improve myself. I lift all the time now, have a good job, am confident in myself and overall have more to offer than 10-15 years ago. Men in general have more to offer in their 30s than 20s. If men’s SMV increases with age then inherently they attract women that they wouldn’t have in the pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Who are women settling down with?Haha ok fair point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Who are women settling down with?I don’t see how nagging could possibly be a good thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women.I wonder if there is a study comparing happiness/unhappiness in men versus women and what contributes to the persons level of happiness or unhappiness. The study makes sense to me, in my experience it takes more to keep a woman happy than a man happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justifiedOk what the OP is talking about is men’s and women’s differences in the sexual marketplace. He’s pointing out that there are very real difference between the two. Of course there are men who are “cheating” the N game system. Men who rack up numbers this was would be an entirely different class as their SMV would likely be much lower. He should have been more specific in his language but that seems to be the core of what he is arguing. Do you agree with that? If so, then what is your response to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | It is extremely hypocritical to blame women for believing Chads who say they love them but victimize men who believe women who say “it’s all about personality.”I’m probably one of the type of guys you’re referring to. What you’re saying is absolutely true. Men decide when they’re ready to commit. I’m not interested in a relationship currently but have plenty of interest from women. I typically leave the door open so I can decide later on if I want something more serious. Unless I’m totally head over heels for a girl I’m not going to give up my freedom. I’ve hung out with plenty of girls who were good enough to settle down with but it always ends up fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What types of women would you marry vs keep as a forever gf?My apologies, I assumed you were the OP and responding to the comment above yours. Sorry about that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.This place is crazy! It took men and women working together to create society as it is now. This place is so divisive and aggressive. I wonder what percentage of this subreddit is filled with people who rarely interact with the gender they’re bashing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What types of women would you marry vs keep as a forever gf?Isn’t this trend showing the opposite of what you’re saying? The percentage of women who are marrying men below their income level has increased significantly. It is still the majority of course but it seems women today are more okay with marrying “below” they. I wonder what the divorce rate looks like at the time these two studies happened. Are women more likely to divorce when their husband makes less than they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?Why are all of your comments are so snide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to see each other naked and it NOT lead to sex? (Dating)What do you mean there you were a switch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?Sorry to hear you you’re carrying all of that weight. I believe it’s possible for you to change your outlook. Hope you are alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?For you to have that perspective a ton of people must have shit on you. I hope things turn around for you man. I was angry at women after my divorce because I took a huge financial hit and had to rebuild my life. I understand the anger, I truly do. I busted my ass at work and got a promotion(plus started lifting) which helped my self confidence and that’s really helped my success with women. I understand both sides of being viewed as attractive and being ignored. That said, women usually aren’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 08:28 PM |
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