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I think the kind of guys that get tattoos are the kind of guys that girls want, not the other way around. Also there are a lot of idiots with tattoos that dont get any pussy. Talking about myself, I dont have any tattoo on my body and I live that reality in a way that it is usually a comum joke/routine on my interections that I dont like tattoos, that I`m gonna be and old grampa without tattoos in a world of inked people and I will be different, and that why would she ink a female body as it is …
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:34 AM
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if shes not, you will look like a creep You only look like a creep if you act like a creep. Why would you be a creep by adding on instagram somebody you met that happens to be friends of friends ? Like dont we add random people on insta all the time ? Like it would be normal to add random people but creep to add people you know ? Thinking this way does not make sense to me On top of that it is 100% fine for a single male to feel attracted and get a crush on girls. I'm always adding girls I meet …
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:00 AM
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There is a 20min TED talk about it, look for it on youtube
/r/seduction04/07/18 08:21 PM
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I like to argue a lot and about anything. The thing is that you are probaly fucking passionate while you are arguing and showing your point, and that kind of passionate speech and the power to shift people's opinion and stuff is quite attractive. Only that it is easy to go to far as being boring or looking an asshole, I say that for experience cause I'm also the arguy type. Pays MUCH attention to calibration when you have a confrontational kind of personality.
/r/seduction04/07/18 06:50 PM
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I've been obese myself, I was 125kg with 175cm. The strategy that worked the best for me as an obese guy was losing wait, if you already attract girls being obese it will multiplicate. Now I'm 80kg, I'm still not thin or muscular, I have my belly. But is way different than being obese, I cannot tell how much losing weight helped with game. Before losing weight I was a fat guy with confidence. Now I'm a sexy guy. And as I said I'm not the muscular or tattoed or not of that shit. And it is not me …
/r/seduction04/07/18 06:44 PM
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This is good material. I also love talking with my dog in front of people to like 'show what we are thinking'. You OP play a lot with that too
/r/seduction04/07/18 03:13 PM
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I think I kinda fit the "A guy and his dog" archetype, so I'm talk to you about my empirical expirience. I'm also linking to posts I made where a talk a little about how my dog fits my game within that context, one about tinder and another one about day game at the beach. I think one way can approach it as if it is just a tool like any other, it will help you open sets and get social proof cause there will be people comming to you. The other thing is also your dog being your passion (or one of e…
/r/seduction04/07/18 03:10 PM
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That is the foundation and I totally agree. But than you still need to know what to do to the girls that got attracted. It is not like everybody know how to act and behave around women, so we cant just discard the other part. Even though it might be like only 20%
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:15 PM
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I've written a long post about it here But mostly I joinned a 3-year university course with a mindset of getting to know people, being active in uni life and being relevant. As this is a small instituition, and I was someone with more life experience than the average 18-23yo uni studend, it was easier to impose myself into this stuff. I never showed much that I've being depressed at times, that I was an 'introvert' cause I feel pressure when talking to people, and sufered social anxiety around g…
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:39 PM
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I decided to reinvent myself on that areas when I was 26, now I'm 29 almost 30 and it is working wonderful, had some of the best experiences of my life. I've posted a little of my story on r/seduction already, check that out and see if it helps you.
/r/seduction30/06/18 10:26 PM
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Tourist town = tourist chicks Am I missing something ?
/r/seduction21/05/18 07:55 PM
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Lmao don't worry about telling me your age, it just showed itself ;) Not sure what you mean by that. I'm brazilian, vaping is not a thing here. Not with young people, neither with older people. Actualy, whithin my context, it would mean smoking weed with a vaporizer, not tabacco or e-cigs
/r/seduction21/05/18 07:47 PM
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what is vaping ?
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:29 PM
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It is a flag for most girls pointing out that you are insecure about yourself and rely on social media to explain who you are. I can't make the connections of how asking for a number = confidence but asking for instagram is showing your insecurities.
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:14 AM
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If she's got any experience in relationships, she shouldn't assume it's a monogamous/exclusive relationship until that discussion is had. I think this sums it up.
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:25 AM
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Not sure what you mean, I'm talking about the girls I've met IRL, not random girls from instagram. I could just DM than out like I would if I had their number.
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:18 AM
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don't tell her how many girls you've slept with unless she asks Even if she asks, why tell her that ? If you fucked a lot of woman in you life she will notice. If you keep your mistery about it she might even think that you had sex with a lot more girls that you actually have and will not look like you are showing off. I've build this frame for me. I dont kiss and tell, and I dont brag about sex achievements. There are girls in my college in the same classroom that I've hooked up with and one do…
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:12 AM
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agree
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:06 AM
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At first I read " He can get girls but acts like as he doesn`t care" and I thought this was good. But them "acts like he cant" seems to them that you are not fucking anyone, which is bad.
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:55 PM
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The same way that girls imagine how sex with us would be like based on our personalities, we do the same to girls. I've had sex with girls that portraied themselves as being sexually savvy just for me to find out they were not, and I got disapoited because of my expectations. It also happened to hook up with like 'quiet submissive' girls that I thought sex would be cold and the were very receptive and we had a great night. The thing is that as you start to have sex with lots of different girls y…
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:57 PM
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Read this post here https://new.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8i8ehv/college_pick_up_done_for_you_with_examples/ than read my story here https://new.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8k8iqy/how_i_became_the_crush_of_all_the_calouras_at_uni/ than when you have more especific questions you ask about them
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:53 PM
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go to r/tinder
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:50 PM
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It is impossible to know if a girl is the right one without fucking her first.
/r/seduction20/05/18 10:27 AM
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Couldnt agree more
/r/seduction20/05/18 10:23 AM
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only works if you're generally attractive The technic working have nothing to do with that. What the guy showed is an specific technic that is useful when you intent to put pressure on, to build sexual tension. It will work if the interaction is in need for sexual build up. The way you measure if it worked out or not is by analyzing if it got you the results you intended to within that context. 'Did I get to pump up the sexual vibe of the interaction doing this technic ?' If yes, than it worked.…
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:27 PM
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you don’t need standards for who you talk to. So true, I don't understand why some guys say like "why talking to dudes? you are not there to pick up dudes" or "why wasting time talking or flirt with a girl you woudnt bang? Night is short" The thing is that being a social guy that can have fun with different people is the exact opposite of creepy. Not only it will help you get in state having people interacting and having fun with you, it will also easy it up a lot for you to open girls, cause gu…
/r/seduction19/05/18 03:03 PM
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What country are you in ? I think it depends of the setting I live in a island city in Brazil, here laws allow us to drink and smoke at the beach(I know there are places where you cant), so if I spot a group of girls with bottles of beer, they'd be more open to socializing. And i mean, it is Brazil, I would not find it weird at all if random people met me or started up conversations while hanging out at the beach, there are lots of tribes that hang out there. like the beach soccer/voley people, …
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:14 PM
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You have no idea of what is going on or what you talking about
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:18 PM
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Get a IG account(personal, not your buss). Get girls on instagram, take a look at wich are following you back and like all your posts and watching all stories and shit. Than you will get a grasp of wich really have a crush on you. Another thing you can do is have your bussiness account and ask people to add it. And them having your personal account like showing up in your buss acc. Like a small 'managed by: xxx', very professionaly. Than it will be easy for the girls that have a crush on you to …
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:49 AM
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Treat it like a shit test. 'Did you get in a fight last time you where there ? Ohh you are such a badass, tell me how you did it.' 'Yeah, I know. You knew what you was doing when you signed for it, bb. But I promisse I'll protect you from harm ;)' And if she really didnt want to go there cause like she used to date the barman or something than just go to another place. Sometimes there might be something going on where there is a logical reason where she dont want to go to a specific place, dont …
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:31 AM
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Yes, you should greet people at work. Not just the girls but everybody. A head nod, a 'good morning', a 'hello'. It all deppends the setting, your mood, their mood. Sometimes people are taking care of their business and dont want to be bothered(remeber that this is a work setting). but if they make eye contact with you it is better to greet them than not, the wording as I said depends of other variables. When they start to greet you back and smile and be more open you will find times and places …
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:23 AM
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You have no idea how much I relate what you said here to what I lived and experienced.
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:09 AM
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My question to OP is more regarding how to navigate the politics of the organization, what is the best way to progress in it etc. if you are not one of the founding members. As regarding rising up taking power out of others. You don't need to play a game if you are not sure that you are going to win Saying from a power perspective, I think that it is way easier to rise up your status by riding along someone that already have it than from taking it away from them. You don't have to be the king to…
/r/seduction19/05/18 03:12 AM
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I don't think I can give you exact information on what to do cause there are an infinity number of variables going on in your interaction that we do not know about, so any exact tatic that we give you might get totally out of context. What I can do is show you concepts of what I think is important given the few information you gave us. Putting pressure on and toning it down is something you should do at the moment while getting grasp of how she reacts, so you can always calibrate. Too much press…
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:50 AM
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she enjoyed meeting me but just didn’t feel any spark. bikinis spread out on her bed saying I won’t see her in any of them When a girl acknoledges you that she is not 'feeling it' from you it is usualy they wanting you to put more pressure on it. Like pump up the sexual vibe to the point where she starts to hold you down, so them you calibrate and tune it. I can recall something that happened like a month ago when I was out at night. I went out with my wing and my dog, we hit a place where peopl…
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:48 AM
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Just to add to theory and explain why. This happens because of proximity, and yes it DO BUILD SEXUAL TENSION. I never thought about this exact technic but recalling now I've done it too. Like when your gonna grab a girls pendant that is hanging on her chest, dont extend your arm to grab it from distance, but like mantain your hand in front of your face (like the warlock movie poster) and move your full body close to her so you can grab it and get a close look at it. Thanks for that op.
/r/seduction18/05/18 10:11 PM
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There is something I didnt understand yet. Did you or did you not fucked her ? Cause I mean, I never have serious relationship talk before we had at least being involved sexualy in some way. I have a pretty strong frame when confronted with 'what do you want out of this?'. I'm always looking for the love of my life, I have to meet and make connection with multiple girls until I find her. One of the things she gotta have is being good in bed, so how can I even think of having a relationship with …
/r/seduction18/05/18 09:58 PM
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Ohh this is evil. I liked it
/r/seduction18/05/18 09:07 PM
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How should I have played the bf thing? Just take the number? She seemed down for giving it me? Nowadays I only do IG close, it is a lot better cause you have The quick access to the girl, will still have a kind of connection, even if you dont msg her directly she will sometimes see your pictures and stories If you have a fun lifestyle show it on IG and it will help, if you have a passion, show it in your IG and it will help. Atm I have no money cause I'm paying bills from a retrofit I had at my …
/r/seduction18/05/18 12:26 AM
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He is in the gym, it is a social setting, with girls he is going to encounter everyday. It goes a little different than night game, you'll get burnt pretty quickly if you do cold approach on a few girls on a social setting regardless I've seen it happening with my wing man, it was not that cold approaching everybody but being too direct at times he shouldn't, it took a while and he recovered from that.
/r/seduction17/05/18 11:55 PM
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so thats a part of the reason I try to be more discrete. As we are talking about a social circle enviroment and I just creat a post about it so I'll give my take on that. However me approach might not suits you as you said on the beginning your goal is not to sleep with a lot of women. Mine neither, but it still might still be looser than yours, but I'm brazilian so how not to love'em all?. Anyway, I now embrace be seeing as a sexual guy, and this means that girls expect me to pursue them someho…
/r/seduction17/05/18 11:52 PM
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My name is the big bad wolf, you can call me bad. I might be addind that to my book lol
/r/seduction17/05/18 11:11 PM
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That is why I think IG exchange works better, she will still keep seeing my life even though I might not be persuing them
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:26 PM
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28+ is older to me
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:23 PM
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Just don't give a fuck about the others, and in the end ppl will understand this is the normal you. Like, is any of these ppl paying your bills ? To get confident you have to accept that you wont be pleasent to everybody, there will be people out there that wont like you, and you should just go on with your life despite it. I know lot of ppl dont like me, I can point a lot of ppl in my college who does not like me, have been in discussion with lots of them. But at the very least shows I'm bold a…
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:10 PM
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It depends how it fits your personality. And the message you want to deliver I'm a sarcastic person IRL, it wouldn't be congruent with my online persona if I did not use sarcasm while IMing. But how do I impply sarcasm, without using voice tone or facial expressions to punctuate it ? I gotta use emojis.
/r/seduction17/05/18 03:21 PM
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Yes, but it is not like it is done out of the blue. She is a woman you see everyday, it is a process. There are a infinit number of variables between you two that we dont know, but I cant see it working if you wait for her to ask you to fuck her.
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:18 PM
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I dont understand you concept of 'position of power'. There should be no such thing going on in this interaction, why would she have a position of power over you ? Are she your boss ? like in real life job hierarchy ? Cause if not, I dont see how she would be the one pushing things forward if she is not cheating her husband a lot already. A married woman works like a single woman when it comes to closing the deal, she will put herself in situations where she expect that you somehow realise it an…
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:06 AM
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You should never assume anything about what someone is thinking, explicit communication is the only way to know for sure. He said 'usually don’t ask married women to hang out', like giving a hint that he dont want to be just friends and she took the bait and she ASKED HIM TO HANG OUT FOUR TIMES. Like why would you restrain yourself from asking to hang out with a female friend, in a friendly setting, if she is not single ? If you dont see her as a potential lover her bf/husband does not mean anyt…
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:47 AM
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Everything that seems cute when two people like each other is extremely weird when it is not reciprocal ie. You drive from another city just to see her without giving a heads up, if she likes you she will be 'omg wtf omg you are here bambi eyes, hearts rush, face gets red.' If she does not like you 'WHAT THE FUCK this creepy guy ?' and never answer you msg You make a girl a song and play it to her if she likes you = bambi eyes If she does not like you = err...wtf? creepy So, if she is already yo…
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:23 AM
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But I can't with girls that aren't 21 haha. Would you mind explaining why ? I get the alcohol laws in US, but it does not seem he was talking about booze. Also I dont know the laws where you live regarding underage sex, but understand that you can`t go agains the law if you are fucking a girl above 18 Just asking cause I'm 29yo and got back in college two years ago, and around the same time I ended a 6y relationship with a girl about my age. But this time I was going thru uni as a single and wit…
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:12 AM
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Answer her stories, she posts it there for a reason, so people can respond to it.
/r/seduction16/05/18 12:48 AM
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"wanna come over to watch .......whatever....?" If yes come around 8pm, text me when you are downstairs if no It is ok, I understand. (than proceed to ignore her msgs) Dont waste time
/r/seduction16/05/18 12:32 AM
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wich in 2018 is ridiculous Our culture might have changed, but our animal instincts are the same as ancient times.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:18 PM
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What this guy talked about college pretty much applies to a workplace with lots of people on different areas You dont shit where you eat, it might get weird. It is even worse as the girl has a boyfriend. And the way you talk about it is almost like you are putting her on a pedestal. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8i8ehv/college_pick_up_done_for_you_with_examples/
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:37 PM
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Guys are missing the point. " she likes all my pics". Assume attraction dude, she likes ALL YOUR PICS for christ`s sake. She WANTS you to talk to her, she wants it since the first picture of you she liked. Just DM her about whatever picture or story or anything she puts up on instagram and had the goal to ask her out. Max it is going to happen is she saying yes, no, or not yet. And you take it from there.
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:34 AM
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English is not my first language, thanks.
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:21 AM
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What kind of bar is that ? If you are on a level where you have the social ability to talk to other people, get into conversations, with both men, women, to make friends and connections, than you should go and enjoy yourself. You dont have to explicitly game girls in front of her to show that you have value as a man. She will find extremely atractive that you can be confortable and work around the same enviroment where she is confortable in. Otherwise, if you feel unconfortable dont go, but have…
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:32 AM
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