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Islandman598/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:08 PM
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They tend to have more masculine characteristics, that’s why some avoid. Everyone is different though. I personally find it annoying constantly butting heads with them.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:05 AM
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I’m going to take a different approach than the rest of the responses here and tell you that what you’re feeling is normal and some days I even feel it and get fed up interacting with the opposite sex. Some of the things are true that others have told you.. wearing your money and all that BUT I totally get it the game can get exhausting. Take time for yourself and work on your goals and maybe take a break from the dating scene? I’m transitioning into a forced break soon and I’m happy it’s coming…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:14 PM
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I get annoyed when my plates ask me this so no, definitely not it doesn’t line up with your masculine frame to care what she’s looking for or where things are going.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:04 PM
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Less to do with status. It would appear outwardly that I don’t have as much status as I’ve severely downgraded my living arrangements to save money and to enjoy a bit of financial freedom and to let the housing market collapse before buying again lol.. I would say it’s all in my mindset and my life experience.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:59 PM
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Red meat is like talking about the concepts in a direct way, like bringing on a bunch of girls and asking them what they’re ideal man is ect...
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:57 PM
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It’s been awesome, you really get to pick more than before. However, some less desirable prospects are also throwing themselves at you.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:47 PM
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Clearly demonstrate through your actions that you’re not the type of guy to compromise his mission or his goals from the beginning and let nature take its course... some will enter your frame others won’t.. that’s life
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:49 PM
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Ignore her and continue life lol
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:24 PM
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If you’re still experiencing anxiety when meeting, you need to work on yourself a bit more until meeting people is an inconvenience.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:59 PM
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Because higher value women don’t hang out on dating sites... they don’t need to..until they have a child and get dumped or nice versa
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:14 PM
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Then you already know the right thing to do..
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:54 PM
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Interested? Pursue. Not interested? Don’t pursue lol let her give you attention..
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:45 PM
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Chances are she’s been sat on more than a chair at the DMV...
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:37 PM
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Hiking groups
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:37 PM
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This
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:19 PM
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Relentlessly work towards raising your SmV but realize you won’t automatically or even easily get access to 8 and above, your foot will be in the door and they close the door quickly even for higher smv guys...
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:01 PM
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All good bro. I would just soft next unless she calls you and makes it easy type of deal, otherwise it seems like a waste of time.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:44 PM
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I have no idea what you mean. You mentioned nothing of her calling in your post, all I see is she refused your booty call, made excuses and didn’t offer another hang out. That’s low to moderately interested and it would be a waste to continue thinking about it, if she calls back enthusiastically and wants to chill ok, until then who cares.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:36 PM
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Which plate? Don’t respond.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:46 PM
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Hmm maybe dealing with a low interest girl or not as high interest as you would like... she’s interested but not INTERESTED... seems like..
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:15 AM
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Unmatch? Lol .. I do what they do, not happy? Unmatch. Said something wrong, she gets bitchy? Unmatch. Doesn’t respond? Unmatch. Don’t like a photo? Unmatch. Want to boost your ego by rejecting? Unmatch .. ok ok you don’t need go there, but you get the drift.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:13 AM
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I’ve never heard of plate vetting but like one guy said above, if she’s not pushing for a relationship after a year, she failed the test.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:11 AM
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Has her behaviour improved after « pulling away » ? Seems like your gut is telling you something, I mean I’m not there and can’t see it but you can. It could be a phase but like I said sounds like your gut is telling you something. Otherwise, it’s 6 months old, this happens all the time.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:09 AM
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Abundance, who cares. One of my plates told me she had dudes over for supper then asked me to come over and I said no. Good bye. Lolll
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:52 AM
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We live in a world of betas man she’s just shocked lol
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:54 PM
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It’s all part of the process man, experiences like this will help to internalize this philosophy even more. Head up, forget about her. Move on.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:44 PM
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I wouldn’t say they’re getting worse as much as societal norms have allowed them to get worse. When things didn’t work out in 2010 with a girl we went our separate ways, now I’m told I’m a piece of shit ect.. then we go our own ways or I’m ghosted. Keep in mind in person interactions never go this way... they’re always more « respectful » . Generally certain ideologies have allowed for some people to disrespect other people without consequences and it’s almost been normalized now which is why yo…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:42 PM
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another excellent comment. Very well put.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:35 PM
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Very true. Very good way to put it.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:31 PM
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Could also be soliciting attention too and not even be interested in YOU. Be careful with that but like other people have said don’t wonder why they do or don’t do things just care about what you’re doing. They’re just going to do what they do, driven by emotion rather than logic.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:29 PM
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Happens all the time, they drop themselves man, let them go, who cares. I drop so many plates and they get all bent out of shape when I’m talking to other girls while she’s talking to other guys, you’re playing the same game and doesn’t want an even playing field. Red flag. Let them filter themselves out.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:26 PM
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Maintain frame. Your time, your choice. Who cares what she thinks.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:23 PM
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Time management bro. Power through those goals but also make time for the girls who WANT to talk to you. This is why we encourage only perusing interested women here... it’s for that very reason. 1 interested girl could bring you the value of 10 passively interested ones plus it’s just less gaming in general and easier to have 2 interested ones vs 15 who don’t give a rats ass . Just a thought! Edit: for your goals they’re your priority but make time for pleasure it will help with your productivi…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:04 AM
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I don’t have a 9-5 job either and I get this a lot, sometimes they will even overtly tell me they prefer a man who’s home at 4 everyday and doesn’t travel for work as much but hey whatever I just smile nod and move on.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:05 PM
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Think of all the times you’ve probably been ghosted in your life... do they feel bad? Probably not, you’re like an after thought it doesn’t even compute to them man lol
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:02 AM
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Spent most of my 20s discovering the rp, now I live it in all aspects of life.. and if things are bad they’re still good now.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:57 PM
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Bam lol
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:52 PM
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You gotta do the journey yourself man lol, I know what you mean but it comes with experience my friend.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:16 PM
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Rational male and preventive medicine, Caleb Jones’s alpha 2.0 is alright but take what you want out that.. Aaron cleary’s book of numbers
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:13 PM
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The same as what he discusses on his channel however he brought me to the RP so respect
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:12 PM
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This
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:48 PM
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To many questions here, sounds like you’re overthinking it. The entire point of having plates is not over thinking it, for myself I’ve had various types of plates. The one who texts you out of the blue for sex, the one that wants to much non sexual attention and gets dropped, the one you have sex with and do activities too and the one trying to lock you down for an LTR and you just dance around it like the RP guy with game that you’re supposed to be... that’s really it.. they usually don’t meet …
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:57 PM
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It’s on audible search “book of numbers”
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:46 PM
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It just proves the chase excellence not women narrative with numbers, even spergs would love it. Really lays it out and a methodical way.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:36 PM
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I wouldn’t say they start chasing you when you’re on your purpose but it certainly gives you access to more women, like a foot in the door doesn’t mean you necessarily get them if your game is garbage. Chasing your purpose is just way more fulfilling than chasing women and the return of investment is way higher. Aaron cleary talks a lot about this as a lot do but he actually wrote a book to prove it hahaha
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:32 PM
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They all have faults man and beautiful women aren’t excluded, theirs are usually psychological.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:20 PM
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Some wear it better than others lol but yeah I know what you mean.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:26 PM
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Soft next them, they typically won’t reach out but sometimes they do especially if you have them on IG and you live an interesting life. A lot of girls are there to time waste, some even for validation some even to get back at the male population as a whole. Be careful out there and don’t overthink it.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:54 PM
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Become a high quality man
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:39 PM
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Good man. I’m glad to hear.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:56 AM
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Yeah the comments I got on my photos were « needs to smile more » and « seems aggressive » be we all know women don’t actually care about that. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:26 PM
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It really is that simple
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:22 PM
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I would prefer not to doxx myself. I have pics of myself doing what I like, I.e hiking, photo dressed fancy smoking a cigar, mystery photo of my shadow on a Monday taken from a distance.. I have 1 good selfie, although generally not recommended... but I really like it lol
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:31 PM
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Depends who you ask. I like them.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:25 PM
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My run would be more important than approaching some random girl who probably doesn’t give a shit.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:30 PM
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I get a lot of matches when I right swipe everyone but the problem with that is I get a lot of meh and terrible. I’ve been swiping right on only attractive people, and it’s been more difficult. I live in a medium sized place. Make sure you got all the pictures in order ect... typical red pill routine
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:27 PM
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Easy lover - Phil Collins There’s tons of playlists on Spotify too.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:13 PM
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In my early twenties, which was many years ago lol, I had this girl tell me she was « busy and couldn’t hangout with me » I later saw her at Starbucks with another guy, I was living in a smaller town back then. Moral of the story, she will get what’s coming at her later in life, for now you just have to focus away from that stuff and start focusing on yourself so you can laugh at that dumb shit later on in life while you’re living the high life and spinning many plates and she’s wondering where …
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:02 PM
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As long as you get out
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:18 PM
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The key thing is to not let her drag you back in because they can’t stand being rejected. Give her one of the lines talked about here and walk the fuck away and don’t look back and ghost. Don’t explain, don’t listen, walk away.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:09 PM
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Happens to the best of us, I’m sort of in one right now. Just got back from a business trip, had to isolate and dropping plates all over the place.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:58 PM
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Yeah I used 3 different photos. A selfie of me looking good, hair and beard on point. And then 2 other photos taken by other people one at the top of a mountain with an incredible view in the background and one of the classic dressy smoking a cigar pose.. they usually get me decent results on online dating.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:57 PM
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I get matches... just wanted to try it and see and really didn’t get results with photo feeler
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:55 PM
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A website where you post a photo and you can select certain people in certain age groups to rate it. I posted mine and surprise surprise below average to women >34 lol and that I « needed to smile more » and before someone tells me to do the work I’m a good looking guy and successful and feel it’s skewed... wanted to see what the RP community has to say..
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:37 PM
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Sounds like you’ve awoke recently, no worries it gets better and you will take all these things and work them in your favour. Chin up buddy.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:01 PM
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I can see how this is strange to you, a girl who doesn’t like texting using her phone is not common in 2021... lol Caution : I’ve been told this before only to find out she didn’t Mind texting chad...
/r/askTRP09/04/21 12:51 PM
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Abundance! Move on as quickly as possible and forget her, like she would . Girl stopped talking to me on Wednesday and I don’t remember her name. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 12:42 PM
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It’s like being burned and rising as a Phoenix! Be proud of yourself, some people never make it out of this phase, welcome to an awesome life!
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:49 AM
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Girls are smart but have no game. Also could be her interest level in you, are the girls you’re interacting with in your frame? Sometimes they understand perfectly but just decide not to, because they don’t care, about what you’re saying or where the conversation is going.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:16 AM
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My take on it is if you have to use those lines, you’re already doomed and you’re already exiting the stage. In RP rage days I had to always exit the stage by completely burning the bridge, now I like walking away better, its more healthy lol
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:43 AM
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It’s ok to relax, lol, a lot of guys have to realize that, you can’t be productive if you’re always on overdrive.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:15 PM
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If she calls you, I guess that’s ok. I had one call me last night, (COVID is bad in my area, like you can legally hangout with 1 other person and that’s it) so vetting has become tighter with the opposite sex, they want to chat before meeting up. I set a date for next week and moved on, she messages me a lot so I don’t get back to her to quickly.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:13 PM
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Job matters to you? Interesting! Sure
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:03 PM
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You’re always going to be at a disadvantage on dating sites. Even maximizing yourself to the fullest, you won’t get optimal results. What’s your line of work? What kind of pictures do you have in your profile? And what’s an 8-10 to you? Also the height thing, it’s not THE decider because I’m below 6ft as well but on dating sites it’s HUGE.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:19 PM
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Truth but he’s probably super young and is learning and might not have read the sidebar yet.. or applied it.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:14 PM
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I had a discussion about signalling availability with another guy on here the other day and he had a valid point, don’t tell her to let you know anything. Just respond with “ok” “sounds good” but either or works in my experience but less investment for a girl who’s seemingly investing so little.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:12 PM
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My personal take You need more photos of you doing things, the gym doesn’t count, that’s just basic maintenance. You need a mystery photo. At sunset or dusk somewhere, your shadow. I really like the cigar photo, I also have a cigar photo hahah!
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:07 PM
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A lot of red pill podcast on Spotify and of course YouTube.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:59 PM
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I usually respond with “ok” to that statement, because it requires 0 emotional stuff on my end and then I ghost, unless she sets a date and time for us to do the deed again, when 99.998% of the time, never happens.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:28 PM
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You have to switch your mindset to what hers seems to be...lol
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:24 PM
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Looks like she was maybe looking for beta need , now you’re showing alpha traits so she’s not getting what she purchased and it probably seems fake to her. It’s always a paradox though, we’re always told alpha trumps everything, yes but this framework only seems to work when you pre establish it and won’t work if you’ve already established beta frame. Careful, the alpha re entry phase is coming in the coming years... you’ve got some decisions to make..
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:12 PM
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Or am I off?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:47 AM
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Ohhh you awoke after all this ah ha! I see now! You’re trying to establish a RP frame after being BP!
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:46 AM
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Sounds like your instincts have already told you what to do!
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:11 AM
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If she bakes for you all the time maybe she wants you joining her? It would be classic, you gain weight and then she dumps you. She probably wouldn’t hesitate if it were her in your position, in fact she wouldn’t even be there. Remember that. We tolerate way more as dudes...
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:04 AM
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I totally understand and I’m sure you have the best of intentions but you’re not going to change her, her frame right now is staying unfit and your frame is wanting a fit girl, sounds like you’ve done everything you can. Might be time to move on, I can’t see again how an ultimatum will work. Interested girls will do anything to keep their man around, including working out.. on top of not meeting your standards she’s also not interested enough to want to keep you happy.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:59 AM
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She has passive interest in you, at this point. Girls who have been hot for me in the past, always check up. At the beginning it’s normal for her to be passively interested but after 6 months she should be trying to monopolize your time at a point where the question would be “plate wants LTR ect” or a range of other things interested girls tend to do. Date girls who have high interest.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:52 AM
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This won’t go well and will end up getting spun back on to you. If you were doing it in a healthy way and she wanted to do it , fine but I can’t see anything positive out of an ultimatum. If you’re unhappy, leave, she is not going to change.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:45 AM
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Depends I’m not an expert I’m always just speaking from experience and what I’ve experienced. I’ve personally never been able to re establish frame(from the gutters, small things yes) and usually just cut my loses . Some things I could suggest is the gym bag at the door, maybe go 5 times a week instead of 3. If she can see IOI from other women towards you, at an event ect (how high value are you other than the business?) . I’ve always found my ROI working on something else rather than trying to …
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:38 AM
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Re affirming the red pill, you get the see it first hand.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:32 AM
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Karma and the balance of things will catch up to her eventually trust the process. As for you, move on and eternalize “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” Time to go work on yourself and forget about her.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:28 AM
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It’s not your level of success, it’s your frame with her. Higher value men aren’t immune to losing frame, frame is hard to maintain in an LTR, and society gives her all the options in the world to upgrade if she is not happy.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:19 AM
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Usually stop responding or initiating, depending on her interest level, dropping plates is usually easy unless she’s vetting you for an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:56 AM
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If you have to ask, your instincts have always told you it’s a bad idea.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:53 AM
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I archived a chat between myself and a plate yesterday (because of her low interest) and wouldn’t be able to search the archived chat because I don’t know or remember her name. It’s a transition because of social conditioning it’s only come in the last few years for me.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:49 AM
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Happens all the time.. could be for multiple reasons, doesn’t mean it’s always you, honestly they’re led by their emotions and emotions fluctuate, massively. She could sign up for online dating on Tuesday because she wants an LTR and then changes her mind Thursday, guess what happens to everyone she meets from the dating site, unless you really put an impression, you’re gone, how does she do it? She ignores or barely answers or stops answering.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:47 AM
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So I’m guessing you didn’t have to explicate that the foil for the potatoes is a bad idea, she eventually learned? 😂
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:43 AM
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COVID not a thing in your area anymore? Lol
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:35 AM
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Her friends saw you, maybe they said things which triggered the additional vetting..
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:33 AM
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Nothing wrong with that dude. Start building yourself at the gym, if you haven’t already or working out and setting goals, I’m big into running right now. Try a fast as well, you’ll learn a little bit about yourself. Start with 24 hours, eat last meal with low carbs. If you’re not tremendously active try rotating carbs in and out of your diet(carb cycling) you’d be amazed the fat that disappears. YouTube it, it’s interesting and you’ll learn a lot about how energy is burned ect... Get in the fie…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:05 AM
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Lots of good points, has anyone mentioned, popular media and the movements encouraging this behaviour? Tv Shows, movies also promote this behaviour, some where the roles are switched.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:42 AM
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I got YouTube premium and listen to podcasts in my suv, as well as audible. I control the media I consume, I don’t consume mainstream stuff, apart from work. You’re right it’s brutal listening to the radio.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:14 PM
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Makes sense to me, however I’ve gotten messages later on with my phrase or one that’s similar to that. Your action of not contacting her, to me, is the signal in itself.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:49 PM
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So enlighten the rest of us, what you would have said, were all here to learn. I just think there’s a fine balance between complete insensitivity and good game or maybe I mis understood your comments. We’re here to swap notes, so let’s swap notes.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:38 PM
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Speaking from experience. My perspective is from real life experience in the field. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:22 PM
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Bad idea, older is fun but as a plate!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:17 PM
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That’s a no for me dawg.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:16 PM
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In theory.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:00 PM
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What always worked for me instead of the police interceptor methods lol is commenting on something she’s doing, wearing or drinking/eating and try to make it light hearted and funny. I used brutal honest game which is not widely advertised but works for as I’m an outgoing, don’t care what people think kind of guy.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:55 PM
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Social circle game is definitely easier, in my opinion but you can meet all sorts of girls all sorts of ways. My way was always meet ups for hiking. I like hiking.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:48 PM
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So did you hear back from her?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:43 PM
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As someone who tried dating a single mom AFTER being red pilled, I saw first hand, in the field that it’s a terrible idea, even in the best of cases. I won’t go into more details but essentially they will sell you purity and be the nicest girl out of the other 30 who ghosted/rejected you and will sweep you there, this is what happened to me. Don’t fall for it, it’s a terrible idea and not worth any of your ressources and not your responsibility. BD is very much there and will decide the course o…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:04 PM
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Yes I’ve backed out of a date last minute even sometimes after showing up, many times. I’ve showed il to dates not been into it and politely left 15 min later. Your time, your choice.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:02 AM
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Don’t need to block her just take one out of their playbook and tell her something came up and never speak again..
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:52 AM
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Is there already a date and time set? Édit : Time**
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:39 AM
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Nope
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:33 AM
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Almost at or at the alpha re entry phase, good job.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:48 PM
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This
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:46 PM
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For me yes from what I’ve read, my crazy threshold is low though, 31M here, been there done that got that t shirt lol.. but nothing could be gained from this. Enjoy your turn!
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:33 PM
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Demote to plate, enjoy the ride, get off. Go buy more tickets... lol
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:26 PM
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Hard pass, next.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:24 PM
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I think you can do better, buddy.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:23 PM
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Your personal opinion. It’s probably done, he shouldn’t care, he should be spinning other plates. Not his job to care at this point. If she digs him she will reach out.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:19 PM
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« Sorry to hear about your family problem, let me know when you’re available to hang out again » and disappear. Chances are she won’t reach out again, just seen this many times, but she might I just think chances are slim. Spin other plates.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:31 PM
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Ask her!
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:50 PM
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If she just wanted attention, she wouldn’t meet up, BUT are you having sex with this person? If not, could be I have nothing better to do but if she’s initiating that’s strong IOI, uninterested girls are cold, don’t plan, don’t respond, and always seem to be online and never responding to you and are always busy. Happens to the best of us, I had several non interested people in my inbox and I went “wait a second...” and archived all their convos today and moved on, there were 7 or 8. Even the be…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:00 PM
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As much as Reddit, books and YouTube are amazing ressources. I would say it’s a person that doesn’t live the life RP people should be living (making money, developing intellectually, approaches, hobbies, skills). There’s tons of red pill betas out there, just because you subscribe to a certain belief system doesn’t make you alpha automatically. In fact, the people in this space might have come from a more beta mindset and “awoke” to the truth where as a blue pill alpha doesn’t even know how or w…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:32 PM
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It’s usually a good problem to have, if they aren’t interested they wouldn’t even care that you’re emotionally distant. So you have that going for you, defuse it with a joke. Example a girl told me something similar the other day, she’s from Eastern Europe so very different than Americans, I said « do I need to mansplain to you why I’m not emotionally available? » or completely dismiss what she said with something funny « wow there’s still snow today, bummer, I wanted to go to the beach »
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:28 PM
2

Grab your gym bag and go to the gym if COVID permits it... if not go do some push ups outside or go for a run, come back, shower, open your favorite book or audiobook crack open a beer and enjoy.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:10 PM
7

I once heard of a narcissistic male imposing this type of ultimatum to a female, relating to putting her on your the deed. In that situation the roles were reversed but the situation seems to match yours. You may have a bigger problem than an ungrateful wife. On a positive note, she’s not on the deed so you’ll be able to get out and perhaps cut your losses.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:49 PM
3

Yeppppp alpha and beta are exclusive from your personal beliefs. There’s beta blue pill, beta red pill ect...
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:54 PM
28

You know what’s more dangerous than a psycho woman with multiple red flags? A pissed off blue pill alpha who feels threatened by your « controversial » beliefs.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:55 PM
2

Funny how having a bit of status, money and a good Insta makes you never creepy hahah. Good job.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:44 AM
34

Plate her but based on her level of loyalty don’t go any further, enjoy
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:42 AM
8

My experience is.. yes... after she’s invested into you a little bit. If she hasn’t invested, it’s pointless to compliment, she’s either been told many times or knows it.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:40 AM
7

I did Han Solo in my last LTR for 2 years, worked for me. Her: I love you Me: I know
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:33 AM
1

Great analogy ! Some islands are deserted while others have all inclusive resorts!
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:35 PM
1

Simple. Just stop talking to them and giving them attention, like they do lol... you’re not burning a bridge just walking away.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:38 PM
2

Anywhere between 22-32, but I obviously prefer 23-25 year olds 😉.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:28 PM
2

Yep. Your perceived status is higher to them in your 30s and I’ve enjoyed way more success since I turned 30, for whatever reason but could be due to changing my mindset and evolving too.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:27 PM
3

I would say the biggest indicator is making time for face to face hangouts. Simply responding to texts is not really an indicator per day because it could be validation seeking. Accepting dates and showing up on time is a big one, playing with her hair, smiling, pointing her feet towards you, laughing at all your jokes... and many more uninterested women usually don’t give you the time of day.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:25 PM
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