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WOW that was eye opening man
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:41 AM
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I guess it's you telling yourself not to take the situation seriously? It's a good idea
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:01 PM
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Yeah pretty much but I find the results different all the time.its hard to psychoanalyse every situation and maintain frame. Seems like far too much effort tbf
/r/askTRP18/04/15 08:48 PM
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Well I feel they see me as some sort of friend, I'd initiate kino if I could get close enough, feel like they purposely keep their distance
/r/askTRP18/04/15 07:56 PM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP18/04/15 04:07 PM
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Nah not tinder or any dating sites, just social networks with people I know, I think I may just need to get out more. Also I get women asking me on day dates but we all know how that is. I usually push it back to a later time and tell them I'll let them know. Hoping they don't lose attraction in the mean time
/r/askTRP18/04/15 04:05 PM
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Amused mastery? I shall google it , also I get complimented on my physique a lot so that's good. I'm also heavily tattood so maybe that makes women cautious? Probably
/r/askTRP18/04/15 04:03 PM
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Okay thank you, I do try kino in person but I don't see too many people. I work most the time and when I do see people I feel they have a social stigma against me.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 04:02 PM
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I live in the uk too so I should book an appointment haha I'll give the book a read and see if it helps. Thanks again dude This is why I love the reddit and TRP community :)
/r/askTRP10/01/15 07:22 PM
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I should be more cheeky with girl #3 haha and yeah I'll hit up girl number #2 again. As for #2 I'll have to wait and see
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:59 PM
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Iv always had social anxiety and got put down so a lot of things are still new to me, she was about a 7 with a great body, ass ECT she was all over me yet when it came to it I bottled, it's funny because Iv never really got that far in a club before so when it came to it I didn't know what to do
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:57 PM
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Hmm so I really need to develop an IDGAF attitude don't i? Stop caring about things and just go for it. Also being childish gets nobody anywhere.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:42 PM
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You have great points, I'll admit I lost frame in both the situations stated. For the first one I was embarrassed I'd let her down and she'd judge me (I care too much what people think, BP I know). As for the second one it was through a text, it was like talking with a child who denied leaving her boyfriend when she was still with him. She made me feel shit so I did the same, I guess I also wanted the last laugh. Like a lot of people I don't like being lied too so me saying that made me look wea…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:24 PM
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For girl #3 I'll admit I was skeptical about agree and amplify. It does sound stupid but say she says "I thought you said you don't fuck cheats? " I'll say something like "you're not a cheat are you? You said it yourself so we're good". No woman likes being called a cheat so she'd be the first to defend her social status. For girl #2 she did invite me around hers again about a week later but I thought she was going to get LMR again and never bothered replying. I guess that was a bad call and I'l…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:15 PM
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Thanks man, it's always best to get an outside point of view. Iv missed so many obvious opportunities and I end up kicking myself about it and wonder how on earth I miss the obvious: 1#phone call being a shit test of how much she can get away with 2#signs and signals telling me she wanted to fuck me 3#it was a one night thing that she can rationalise I'm beginning to understand that it is kino and escalation I should use more no matter what. Sometimes get rejected and take a step back to asses m…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:00 PM
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This was very insightful thanks dude For Girl #1 I will escalate with kino and RP strategy and see how that goes. I shouldn't be too hard to pick up where I left off. Girl 2# she was all forward,very suggestive, so much so I "knew" it was going to happen because she was so open and willing. Then she suddenly got LMR. I kissed her neck, used kino and tried to escalate but she still had her back to me, with the kiss she didn't reciprocate but she didn't knock me back either....she enjoyed it. Then…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 03:20 PM
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1#I think once opportunities arise I should live in the moment and snatch them up. Instead I'm being passive and "nice", not suggesting anything and expecting them to do all the work which I know doesn't happen. 2#this one should have been cake but obviously I didn't rationalise it. At the time I didn't know how to go about it, she had her back to me and was acting like I was in the wrong. Crap! I should of rationalised it,why didn't I think of it before. 3#i had this one in the bag no doubt abo…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 03:02 PM
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I'm having a little dilemma, do I leave home and stick with my job whilst perusing my dream? Because I'm still at home getting close to losing it yet don't want to leave and tie myself down to my job :/ do I have to jump in the deep end,leave and stick with my job till I reach my dream?
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:02 AM
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This does sometimes happen depending on the person, iv had this a couple of times,to conquer this simply suggested a 69 until you get rock hard again, the more crazy you go on her the more crazy she'll go on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:55 AM
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Stimulated_narcolept has a point, if you get any sexual anxiety or you don't last as long as usual just go down on a woman,it gives you time to get turned on and not keep her waiting. Also she can tell her friends that you're great at eating pussy rather than that guy who lasted 3 minutes. It's a good backup plan but that's my personal opinion
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:25 AM
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If your sharing the apartment then the obligations should be split. I take it it's just you working? If so then tell her you don't have time to work and clean too and would appreciate any help that you can get. Tell her the quicker the apartment is clean the quicker you two can get down to business.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 09:34 AM
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This was extremely enlightening to read and very very useful,I'll get a start on everything straight away. This has opened my eyes so much and can't thank you enough.now time for some hard dedicated work 😊
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:58 AM
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Perfect dude,thank you
/r/askTRP18/11/14 01:25 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP17/11/14 10:02 PM
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Sorry I didn't see this,yeah that would be great because I'm always falling victim to getting used and abused. Much appreciated:)
/r/askTRP17/11/14 09:11 PM
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Your right man
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:42 PM
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It's opened my eyes man,they can claim they were "not good enough" for you and immediately because of the bipolar you sympathise with them,also women's reverse psychology and manipulative traits are in there too so it really is Russian roullete. I took the head-on approach and after an hour of arguing and her contradicting herself in ever sentence and telling me it wasn't her fault I thought she loved me I lost my rag, she couldn't see how I fell for her after she -told me she loved me -said she…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 02:01 PM
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Thanks this was really helpful, I missed out a part where I fucked 2 different girls in the 6 months because I was in and out of her life but that's another story , the second she said"you've got your kiss now" I already knew exactly where i stood I just wanted to force an answer from her for confirmation because she's so indecisive and misleading. I obviously have to improve my pickup of women's interest levels.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 12:10 AM
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Thanks man, needed that, generally put a smile on my face , I'll check them out soon as.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 10:15 PM
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This has helped me man, iv had arguments ect with her too. There so much push and pull(doesn't know what she wants). She said we were more Han friend but less than friends-with-benefits. She said she has feelings for me ect too. Only reason iv been stringed along for so long is because she consistently let me get close to my goal then push me away,lead me on again rinse and repeat. I think it is a self esteem issue, constantly wanting reassurance. Now iv not exactly been in a intimate place to f…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 08:09 PM
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Is much as I don't want to believe it your absolutely right, iv only recently started swallowing the red pill so I'm still coming to terms with certain things.ill let her go :)
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 04:40 PM
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It's such a weird situation but iv already put too much time and effort into it, I don't want to just drop it,I might have too though
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 03:11 PM
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Thanks for the advice man, thing is I get close to sex(several occasions now) but she doesn't follow through,something always stops her. Like we'd be kissing and I'm using sexual kino,she'll get hot and bothered then push away.sometimes we kiss and then she'll randomly laugh and say it's because she's "shy" because she's never liked anyone as much as me.i think she may be crazy crazy because she knows what she wants,she knows what I want,we want the same thing yet shed the only one making me tri…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:58 AM
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Tbh man the feelings haven't escalated or moved,they've stayed stagnant, I'm not going to waste anymore time with her,there's so much sexual tension but she's just as you say "crazy". May just plate her to cause attraction,fuck her then fuck her off!
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:45 AM
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Yeah I found myself checking back every couple of hours on seduction,brushing up on my skills as you say but this really helped,I'll still read upon this subreddit but I'll try not to rely on it so much.
/r/seduction11/11/14 08:37 PM
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Perfect advice man, I'm not really beta I used to be alpha but recently iv gone omega aha I been going about it all wrong! It's true I can move on once I know where I stand, iv just got far too used to going from friends to more than friends that iv been approaching all women like this.i make sure I'm progressive from now on and invite them out for a more intimate date :)
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:49 PM
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It makes so much more sense now, iv always had confidence issues so I guess I get scared to make a move invade they back off, Iv been going about it wrong, I thought I'd take steps but obviously that doesn't work,what would you suggest?
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:01 PM
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Okay here's an idea,how about I go full monk mode and sort my life ambitions out and better myself,talk to everyone but never enough to get friendzoned,just enough to be interesting ,build up a cult like status. I won't have any plates spinning but if I find a (unicorn) I'll go for that so much as she doesn't demand too much time or attention? I'm trying to find the fine line that works
/r/askTRP
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So they basically both contradict each other and there's no way of doing both simultaneously?
/r/askTRP
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There's mixed opinions on this situation but I think I'll go, get playful/touchy feely with her and try escalate. She's talking about painting btw, not catalogs.If she knocks me bad I'll bullshit an excuse to leave. No one likes being used (been there done that). If she knocks back my advances I'll leave. It's such a 50/50 split down the middle topic, she's either trying to get me to hers and drink or actually wants me to be a handy man. It was hard to decide which.
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