Issamelissa84 Archive

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1	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less Rubbish. What about how this community speaks about single mothers then? People like my sister who have been in the same committed relationship since high school, married and had kids, and then the relationship has eventually ended - the way they are spoken about here trashes them too. Bitter, sad guys who may not be responsible for their height or their looks, but are.definitely responsible for their repugnant attitudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 10:28 AM
11	According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s? Agreed. And the very regular posting of nudes online to reddit pages... doesn't seem like typical, average behaviour to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 01:12 PM
2	According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s? Had a little look on her profile, and I don't think she is your 'average single girl' - she posts nudes just about every second day. Seems like she really really needs external validation. My single days pre-date tinder and OLD, but I wouldn't have done that, and nor would any of my friends... maybe things have changed a lot since then though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 01:11 PM
2	Q4W Is there anything you like about men? I really enjoy the ridiculous ways they entertain themselves when you get a group of them together - "Let's ride our bikes off the roof into the pool." I guess they (generalisation) live in the moment better than women (generalisation). This also means they don't consider consequences and end up hurting themselves doing stupid shit... but it's all fun to them (up until that point). My guy mates have running jokes and traditions that they have kept alive for some 15 years. Fast to forgive and don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 05:37 AM
3	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less So you could have a relationship with at least one or two reasonably attractive women with good personalities, but you don't want to because: 1) you wouldn't be able to be a good, honest boyfriend? Which, I guess that's honourable in its own way... And that is because 2) You want a higher status/quality/attractiveness/dream woman. You're doing exactly what the guys in this group complain about women doing though. You're turning down perfectly good, nice partners because you want a female-chad or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 04:15 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not necessarily, but I thought there would be a bit more rational discussion. I am open to seeing both sides, but not seems like when I ask a question I just get an irrational, raging tirade that goes off on a tangent and doesn't really address the question. I've just been speaking with a guy who is saying that women are hypergamous and too picky, egotistical etc. On further discussion he says that all of the 8's he's dated are looking to play games and upgrade to a higher guy ... but a few mess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 04:06 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Can we see your picture now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 02:36 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I care more about work ethic than income. It doesn't matter if he is a barista or a barrister. When I met my husband he was in an entry level position and i made more than him, there were times during our relationship where one or both of us didn't have a job (but were actively looking) and i worked 2 jobs while he was starting a business (that ultimately didnt work out.- but thats ok). Now he is in a high level (but stressful) role and making bigger money. And I would fully support him if he wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 02:33 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's almost pointless to debate at this point, because no matter how many good points the other side outs forth - the other doesn't want to hear it or believe it. Nobody is changing anyone else's minds here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 02:26 AM
3	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less So you know plenty of "7s" who have good personalities, but you are going for 8+ with worse personalities...? Yet the RP community says that women are hypergamous, too picky, and are the problem? Make it make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 12:21 AM
1	You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days. The important word here being Mature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:52 PM
3	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less These guys can't expect to get a wife or a girlfriend just for existing. Not everyone gets everything they want in life. Choosing to fill that absence with vitriol and hate is a conscious choice. Its poisonous - mostly to themselves. Find other ways to make your life fulfilling and shut the fuck up about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:43 PM
2	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less I think most of these guys ranking themselves 8's, are 3s with shitty personalities, and crying "unfair" because they can't get their "deserved" match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:36 PM
6	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less There are women out there who aren't getting sex. They just don't make their entire personality about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:43 PM
26	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less Both women and men generally date a bit before they settle down. This isn't about being promiscuous, sometimes you need work out the wrong people before you find the right one. Referring to women as having been "ran through", the dehumanisation, objectificatuon and double standards, and the nasty and disrespectful attitudes we see on here - they are what stop you getting laid. They are what surround you with an unwashable stench that we can all sense. Hating women for not being attracted to you.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:40 PM
52	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less I don't understand how your community trashes women who are sexually active, but laments when they aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:18 PM
2	The biggest predictor of what a woman is attracted to in a man is how rare that quality is in her life Why do these men keep confidently declaring that they know what all women want and why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:09 AM
13	Ladies, what do you actually mean when you request a guy to be a gentleman during a date? Don't go into it with the goal being to get her into bed. Treat her like an actual human person and actually get to know her. I don't need anyone to pull out my chair or pay for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:02 AM
2	Do women care about a man’s sexual past? My concern over a guy that has had a really high number of partners would be around how he treats women, and his ability to be faithful (if we are talking about a man as a potential relationship).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:16 AM
5	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. Just gave up arguing with a guy in this thread because he says that men aren't wired to put in effort into friendships or relationships with others. Apparently it's not in their DNA. That is why we have female privilege. Because we get off our asses and actually care about people other than ourselves. Ffs. It is bleak out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 10:07 PM
1	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. Yes. Making effort. Having meaningful connections with others. My group of friends throw each other birthday parties, we organise to pitch in and make meals when one of the group has a newborn or is sick, we take care of each others kids, and find time to hang out and do things together even when life is hectic and its hard to juggle. And that's real friendship FYI- people who actually care about each other. It must be such an alien concept to you, being that friendship "isn't in your DNA" and h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 09:53 AM
1	if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do Are you having trouble meeting women or going on dates? Or are you dating and nothing physical is happening between you? Or is some physical stuff happening but not moving into actual sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 02:52 AM
1	if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do Have you spoken to your female friends and asked for honest feedback on how you come across?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 02:48 AM
2	if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do If the reason a guy is a virgin is because he's a shitty person that nobody wants to be around - yes, that WILL put a woman off... and he may blame the woman, and their judgement of his virginity... because that's what a shitty guy would do rather than looking at his own part in why nobody wants to be intimate with him. Maybe a woman will be initially cautious as to why a guy is a virgin (usually because she's not yet sure if the reason is because he is a toxic bag of flaming turds). But it has …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 02:39 AM
2	if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do I could give exactly zero shits if a guy is a virgin. Not a single flying fuck. Most. Women. Do. Not. Care. About. This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:46 AM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? If its a predictable or common response, is that not because it's obvious to sane people? Also, people who need to announce that they are getting an abundance of women are almost definitely not getting an abundance of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:23 AM
1	How important is dating in high school/college for future success in your opinion? Not dating a bunch in high school or college just means that you've got the opportunity to invest more time on friendships and interests. That's not failing. A person who has a great group of solid friends, interestign experiences, hobbies, interests and passions- they tend to be far more interesting as partners than someone who's entire personality is "I pull chicks".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:20 AM
4	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? An individual feeeeeeemale, having an individual experience or an individual thought is very hard for you to comprehend right? You much prefer to think of women as one unit. A big giant hypergamous conspiracy to deprive men like you of the copious amounts of assorted vaginas you deserve access to. If allll the women don't want to date a guy. If he lives his life in a cycle of constant rejection. It's because of him, not them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 11:16 PM
2	What redpill “truths” have you seen disproven or at least seen an exception to? Where are these stat's that list the reason for divorce?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 05:01 PM
15	The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of. "I'M A NICE GUY! WHERE IS MY ATTRACTIVE, VIRGIN WIFE!!" 🤢	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:49 PM
8	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? There is no way I would have been interested in a 35 year old man when I was 20 - regardless of money or status. We are supposed to want to have babies at 25 years old with some 40 year old guy?? Hell no. I think you actually have no idea what women value in life, and you would be surprised to learn that women aren't actually a hive-mind who all share the same thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:31 PM
7	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? The way you view human relationships as entirely transactional experiences is really quite sad. When I met my husband (in our early 20s) I never considered his net worth or tried to work out a "value" to assign to him. Most normal people don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:12 PM
7	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? So are 20 year old men ready to settle down and get married? Because it sounds like you think that it's only women waiting until later in life to settle down and start a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 03:58 PM
2	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. Privilege is only applicable to women that men are trying to sleep with. It's transactional - not out of kindness, it's because they are looking for a return. Women don't have to make the same effort as men as far as appearance goes?? Are you on crack? Do you have any idea about the unrealistic standards that women are programmed to believe they need to achieve from pre-teen age right through to menopause?! Women have larger social circles.... because they make the effort to cultivate and mainta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 02:11 PM
2	Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and age Stop and consider for just a moment, the reactions that women sometimes get when they tell a guy that they are not interested (or not interested any more) - some guys take it maturely, some guys push for more chances and make it awkward, and a decent chunk of them get angry, aggressive and nasty. Ghosting is a pretty safe option compared to playing reaction roulette.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 01:48 PM
1	Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and age They like you at first, or are at least willing to take some time to get to know you a little. This does not mean they are obliged to continue getting to know you or giving you their time (or vice verse). Honestly, if this is happening often - I think you should perhaps spend less time trying to generalise women into categories like "flakey" and "fickle" and take a look at why you become less appealing the more they get to know you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 01:45 PM
1	If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway? Before we had kids, we paid half of the rent each (regardless of salary), took turns paying for the groceries and utilities, but we weren't anal about it because it didn't matter that much. I did more housework and he sometimes paid for additional things. After kids we pool our money as a family, we both take care of our kids, we both do work around the home. Yes, he works more than me and earns more than me, so he contribures more financially. He has been able to progress in his career because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:42 AM
2	Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault. So... men want to be complimented more... but if they get compliments they assume this to be flirting.. and so women don't compliment because they don't want to give this mistaken impression... and then men complain that they don't get complimented...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 02:42 PM
1	Women do like nice guys. Only when they provide or have status though. Is it possible to be a "nice guy" but still have an unappealing personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 02:39 PM
-1	"There is a misconception that women are the predominant victims of image-based abuse. But according to our research, both men and women can experience it equally." Men don't use nudes to humiliate people? Are you serious? There are whole sites dedicated to revenge porn.	/r/MensRights	03/02/21 07:31 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. You rest your case. Ok. Well you haven't actually addressed any points made. But that's enough for the day. Anyway, have a good good rest of your day/night. Thanks for the discussion.	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 08:58 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Youre picking single sentences out of paragraphs to reply to, and then taking them out of context. Its cherry picking. I can explain that I dont hate men until im blue in the face, but it doesn't fit your narrative. Youre saying feminism should advocate for men's rights, but when I point out the areas in which the patriarchal system is harmful to men and boys (in regards to mental health, in regards to parenting), and that feminism us aiming to change those systems - which IS advocating for men'…	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 08:09 AM
1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. What city? When? Women and children first is kind of an outdated notion. A hangover from chivalry and Victorian times. Most policies in modern day societies will say that the elderly, ill and infirm (including children) are to be prioritised. There is no international regulation stipulating 'women and children first' in maritime law, or elsewhere that i can determine... I guess culturally there are going to be those old-school people who still want to live in that era, treating women as helpless…	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 05:59 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Thanks for your reply. First - silly question but how do you do that thing that makes you quote the other person's words in the blue lines?? I can't seem to do it! So you don't want women to tell men to change... but you want women to hold rallies to tell men to change? That doesn't make much sense to me. Men don't want to be told what to do, what to feel - not by women. I'm sure if male leaders in the community threw a parade for "its ok for blokes to speak about their feelings - fight the stig…	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 05:44 AM
1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I dont think ive always been interested in the dynamics of feminism and patriarchal social constructs. When I was younger I was just living my life, partying, and it didn't really occur to me. Before I had kids there was a guy I knew named Drew who had a little boy quite young, and I remember being at a BBQ with them, and the little guy fell and and was crying, and he would have been like 2 or 3 years old. And his dad walked over and goes "Get up and stop crying, dont be a little sissy girl!" An…	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 05:03 AM
-1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Isn't being a victim the opposite to having immense power and privilege though? Ive looked through the UN website at their programs, and youre right that there are specific programs designed to assist women and children, but to say that all of the programs offered by the UN are for women is not accurate. https://www.un.org/un70/en/content/UNaroundWorld/index.html	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 03:17 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Do you have a source? Ive never heard it explained like that. I guess it could depend on how you define "power".	/r/MensRights	01/02/21 02:29 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Little boys (or men) should not be told to "man up". They should not be shamed for feeling emotions. Crying is not weakness. Society does have to change to allow men and boys to express a healthy range of emotions - its important for mental health outcomes. Boys and Girls should be treated the same. You are agreeing with all of my points. Feminism doesn't (*shouldn't - it does happen in some forums) mean hating men, despite what some people want to think. It's pushing against a system that oppre…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 10:33 PM
-2	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I'm not sure that generalisation holds up.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 10:13 PM
1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I appreciate your civil tone. Its quite possible to have a constructive conversation without going ballistic, and more chance of being heard when not screaming in caps lock and throwing insults like confetti. Im here for answers and discussion, but when I read what is written by someone, there is usually one or two points that are most jarring for me - and I'll focus my response on that - with the idea that they will the rebutt the parts of that they find most objectionable too, and from there y…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 02:53 PM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I agree that most men are good and decent. Do you feel that all men are being targeted when we talk about "male violence" or the "me too" movement?	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 02:11 PM
1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. To be honest, I dont know a whole lot about the laws surrounding conscription in my country or in yours. It still seems misplaced to have generalised anger towards women over this situation. It seems like a lot of men just have a lot of anger towards women, for every reason imaginable.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 01:46 PM
1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Augh this 14m timer is brutal. Because nobody should live in an echo chamber. It's important to hear other viewpoints, to discuss and debate. Even if I don't agree. Maybe even ESPECIALLY if I don't agree. Something you say might make sense. I've learned and had my mind changed about things before. I'm not naive enough to think that some guy on a sub hostile towards women and feminism is going to listen to another view either, but its still worthwhile, some tiny perspective might get let in. Why …	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 01:20 PM
5	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I haven't read Men on Strike. All I have to go on is the blurb at this point- it says: "American society has become anti-male. Men are sensing the backlash and are consciously and unconsciously going “on strike.” They are dropping out of college, leaving the workforce and avoiding marriage and fatherhood at alarming rates. The trend is so pronounced that a number of books have been written about this “man-child” phenomenon, concluding that men have taken a vacation from responsibility simply bec…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 01:05 PM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. That was the part of your response that really jumped out at me and surprised me. Would women have the right to be angry at men if they were sent to war to defend men..? It seems so left-field, because the entire concept seems so, so totally irrational. So answering your question, no - women wouldn't have the right to be mad at the men they were sent away to protect. I would be angry to have to go to war, to be torn from my life and my loved ones. But the people i would be mad at wouldn't be tho…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 12:43 PM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I'm finished talking to you. I have to wait 14 mins while you just rage-spam repetitive replies without actually taking a second read what you're replying to or coming up with a thought out response. I get it. You super super hate me. I'm a massive giant bitch and women like me are the reason that you life is shit. Youve repeated it a dozen times. Its boring.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 11:52 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I'm a bit interested in the concept that men should be angry at women because they had to go to war "to protect women" (and children, other men, elderly, land qnd territory, and ideologies, and wealth, and religion, and regional stability, and politics). I feel that anger over wars should lie with those who create wars, those who force people to go to war, those who profit from war... did women write the legislation requiring men to go to war? Did women forbid women from serving? Were they happy…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 11:34 AM
-3	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I completely understand that we can't just say "hey open up" and have it be so. There is a lifetime of societal programming to overcome. I dont think anyone is expecting that a click of the fingers will suddenly enable an angry, hurt man to suddenly be able to express his feelings in a completely different way, or for others around then to feel totally comfortable with them expressing themselves differently. Yes, we can say "just accept these men for who they are and don't hope for them to grow,…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 11:19 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Literally NOBODY told you that you HAVE TO CRY. You're chucking a tantrum over a fictional scenario. And no, my husband hasn't left me. Hes on the couch next to me, rolling his eyes and telling me to stop wasting my time arguing with headcases on the internet. So I'm going to do that. Have a nice life. I hope things get better for you.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 10:38 AM
2	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. You sound bipolar. Irrational. Manic. How can someone swing between saying "if you're polite to me, I'm polite to you" and sharing your links, to suddenly screeching fuuuuck yooooou I haaaaate yooooou when I politely respond with my view. You're reading what you want to hear. You're not addressing a single point i made or debating anything in a productive way. You want to be angry. You are powerless in your life circumstances and perhaps anger is the only way you know how to feel "powerful". Eve…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 10:21 AM
-1	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I get where you're coming from to a degree. When the label becomes too powerfully negative it detracts from what the actual messaging is about, and I think that's what's happened here. If I can give you my take on the whole "toxic" thing... To me it means that if a boy or man is feeling an emotion (sadness, frustration, anger, grief..) and feels like he could cry (and maybe letting it out would be a relief) but STOPS himself because he believes that it's wussy, weak, pathetic... or because he is…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 10:02 AM
-5	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. I dont feel im twisting your words. Im trying to show you that your single minded focus is on one area, you're very attached to one particular subject. Ok genuine question. When you hear, or a told a certain behaviour is "toxic" what does that mean to you? The phrase itself seems particularly triggering for you. You display major offence to having it used to describe a behaviour you are displaying, and you throw it at me as often as you can. What do you think the whole "toxic masculinity" moveme…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 09:42 AM
-11	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. You're not railing against women? Interesting OK. Let's look at your post history (and let's not even delve into the comment history). how dare feminists say my not crying is TOXIC! why can't feminists accept men as they are! How dare they call us toxic. X2 feminists are making male suicide a competition! toxic femininity! Women always have to be the victim!! Saying "toxic masculinity" is derogatory!! APA is sexist against men for pointing out detrimental behaviours and outcomes! women are more …	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 09:26 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. If you were really interested in self growth or healing, you would look at the resources available to you. But instead you want to wrap yourself in a cosy blanket of angry misogyny and hate. You could be directing all of this passion and energy into being an advocate against domestic violence, something that would be a worthy tribute to your mother and the suffering she endured at the hands of a violent and angry man. Instead you are railing against women. Maybe you need to stop and really think…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 09:01 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Nonsensical gibberish. Youre trying to twist my words to fit your narrative, and failing.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 08:56 AM
0	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. Funny how your apparent upset over your mother's trauma manifests as hatred for women. Get some therapy.	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 08:54 AM
-2	When it comes to men we keep telling men to change themselves. When it comes to women we keep saying that we need to change the society. Men's emotions and behaviors are termed as 'toxic' by feminists and they keep telling men to change the behaviors instead of accepting who they are. You seem to have a real bee in your bonnet about this "not crying" thing. By your own admission, your emotional health is poor to the point of extreme suicidal ideation... Why do you think that you should therefore be an example of how others should handle their emotions? I'm personally not one to cry easily myself, but I have other healthy ways of expressing and processing my emotions. It doesn't matter if someone cries, they don't have to but they aren't "weak" or "feminine" for doing so. I am…	/r/MensRights	31/01/21 08:38 AM