ItCaughtMyAttention

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1	Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating. No, they just have a much smaller audience. Many women have weird tastes and you'll become very assured of that once you stand out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 03:56 PM
1	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. If someone is asexual but isn't sexually desired by their partner then that can also be an awful experience, and the only person I know who was in that situation is a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 05:46 PM
0	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. So what if they don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 04:46 PM
1	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. So what if they don't? They can have the same problems we can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 04:46 PM
0	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. All that stuff is just obvious and doesn't address the issue though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:57 PM
2	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. It's literally not; you're invalidating every single asexual relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:30 PM
3	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. Tbh if anything IT posters are misogynists; nowhere else on reddit have I had to argue with people denying male privilege and saying the wage gap doesn't exist at all. One of the dumbest spaces I've ever come across considering how hypocritical that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:25 PM
1	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. I'm one and yet I felt much lonelier with many close friends and no partner than I am with fewer close friends and one partner. Sorry there aren't enough of us to matter (obvious sarcasm)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:22 PM
1	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. Platonic friends and partners fill different roles. If they don't then you're either a creep or failing at romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:21 PM
3	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. Meh; even close friendship and relationships fill very different roles. Most people aren't fulfilled without a relationship and platonic love won't solve their issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:18 PM
6	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. Well we see a lot of these guys complaining that they can’t get hookups or regular casual sex so clearly for some it’s just about sex, not “romance”. You presumed that's what OP meant and so you projected it onto him, probably like you do every time people don't specify what they're talking about. That's just confirmation bias. Normal people know that romantic loneliness and sexlessness are separate, even if oftentimes parallel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:16 PM
1	You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely. That's irrelevant; you can say loneliness is a bad thing without requiring people by law to interact with each other. It should be fostered culturally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 02:14 PM
2	Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive. A much greater array of features look good on women than on men. For example, strong jawlines are good for both, but a woman can be considered attractive with a shit one whereas a man can't. Why should the two have parallel attractiveness when this fact makes it impossible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 06:22 PM
0	Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive. Remember that a few decades ago the heart of feminism was that women were no different from men Misconception. Feminism has by and large always held true to the "equal but different" doctrine; the exceptions don't constitute the majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 05:53 PM
3	Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive. They don't have higher standards; men are just a lot less attractive on average. Men are more likely to settle because they're desperate, not because they have lower standards for attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 05:52 PM
1	Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive. followed by socioeconomic, race, and others. Just trying to hide race under the rug like Eurocentric beauty standards don't rule attractiveness lol @ the ignorance There are no creeps, just ugly men. Oh boy... this is one of those things that sounds true until you think about it for more than one second and realise it's complete bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 05:51 PM
1	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences hmmm TIL	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 01:11 PM
1	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences Why is safe choking any more harmful than safe penetration?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 12:58 PM
6	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences You can say this about basically all sexual acts. The act of penetration is disturbing to me as well but I don't go around calling people ill for it when I'm the odd one out for being ace lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 12:41 PM
9	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences That's convenient, because any woman who does desire it is one you can just call mentally unhealthy. Yes, men take shit too far very often. But it's ridiculous to believe it's an actual black-and-white thing; that's twitter level thinking. Ngl men are much less interested in this than women in my experience also, although it's not unanimous for either gender. Simply making that observation isn't an endorsement of violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 12:01 PM
–	How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut? You are a moron.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 08:50 AM
5	How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut? Also, men don't need to be insecure about women watching porn because most men watch porn. It would be a crazy double standard. That doesn't make sense, in the way you wrote it at least. I wouldn't want my gf doing that and I don't do it either; the fact other men do it should not be a problem that affects the two of us. No double standard in expecting that from your partner even if you know your own group do worse, because a normal relationship is composed of two individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 08:48 AM
7	Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow? I mean, they're literally right. I'm guessing you've never completed higher education? You can find other flaws within the study but the sample size is more than adequate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:07 PM
10	UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMEN True and not an unpopular opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 11:50 AM
2	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws I'm not angry; already gave up on you mfs a long time ago. Can't fix echo chambers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 02:51 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Yes; people who were born with lower intelligence or feel the need to blame others for their failings in life. Never seen a Trump supporter who isn't a massive whiny bitch lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 12:10 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Lmao if they actually cared about any of that shit then they wouldn't vote for Trump.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 10:51 AM
10	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. Nah I've had female friends do this to me without expecting anything on either side. It's normal for close platonic relationships too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 07:19 PM
2	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. Most women don't want the guys they've friendzoned to be around them; they usually just don't want to make him sad or angry by cutting him off. It's an uncomfortable situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 06:42 PM
-1	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. Do you have any evidence? You're the ones making a ridiculous claim. Domestic abusers are much more common than people arrested for domestic abuse, so the numbers don't match up with the original claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 06:35 PM
2	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. a man is far more likely to be jailed on false domestic charges then get away with it. This is such clear bullshit lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 02:44 PM
–	All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wants Not true at all. No offence but it just sounds like you've had an extremely unhealthy dating life in particular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 09:55 AM
1	The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from women Asexual people happily exist You think we don't get into relationships and get lonely when we aren't in one? Or that we all enjoy being asexual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 10:23 AM
12	Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you. The problem is that any normal person feels like a massive dick and a deadweight for not doing these things. If you're actually attractive, then she'll be attracted to you whether you treat her well or not. If you have to pretend or go out of your way too much then you're not succeeding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:40 PM
1	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. I don’t think there is any way out of it once caught in that lie. Heard it happen multiple times, even seen it and the gf didn't care, so we can agree to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:12 PM
1	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Unless she already finds you hot and charming and so doesn't give a fuck (like I've seen happen numerous times, presumably because he played it off or genuinely thought he was taller); I could see a million ways out of this situation even with the lie already established tbh. It's the begging to have one's lie validated that is gonna be the dealbreaker, because it's cringe and pathetic. Maybe I'm wrong but this is what my anecdotal evidence supports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:29 PM
1	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Great reading comprehension, Hawking. Didn't realise you got resurrected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:26 PM
2	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Fair enough I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:42 PM
1	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. I've seen it happen and it's weird as fuck on everyone's end. If I did so I'd just tell her before inviting her out and boom problem solved. But also most people think they're taller than they actually are so it's never surprised me that this happens so frequently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:41 PM
3	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Those men don't "GAF" either, since you weren't gonna be into them anyway; it's about getting past a filter rather than maintaining a facade for the rest of your days. It's the best strategy for most men so I don't blame them for doing it. It takes a really weird and antisocial person to take such a strong stance against this and act on it in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:28 PM
8	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Cringe behaviour lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:15 PM
1	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. This was the single worst conclusion you could have possibly drawn from this story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 02:35 PM
1	“The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above them That's literally OP's point. Not that I agree with it, but damn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 03:08 PM
1	CMV: Status makes men more attractive to women and that incentives men to create hierarchies Why do you tell them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:59 PM
2	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity They often know, but not being an asshole in and of itself is not an attractive quality; you need other shit besides just not being awful. Spending time with an interesting person who might be immoral sometimes is still far more fulfilling than some people pleaser who's just there, and if you think men are any different then that's funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 10:56 PM
1	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Where's the contradiction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 09:26 PM
4	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Why's the arranging needed? You can ask others for "unbiased" input, sure, but arranged relationships are gross and basically result in emotional slavery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 12:43 PM
1	The honeymoon phase is the only enjoyable part of a relationship I see. Well hopefully it doesn't happen to you again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 12:08 PM
1	The honeymoon phase is the only enjoyable part of a relationship Women don't get cucked by men because it's a term used for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 12:06 PM
2	The honeymoon phase is the only enjoyable part of a relationship Google tells me it's your gf/wife being unfaithful, plus you were aware of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 12:03 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Are you sure you're not just overrating yourself? Or maybe you're short?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 11:56 AM
3	The honeymoon phase is the only enjoyable part of a relationship Uhhh yeah it is getting cucked. Sorry bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 11:55 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women If he's actively trying and isn't extremely, extremely, extremely boring and/or cringe, then no. Unless he's ultra unlucky or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 01:23 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Sounds unlikely. Maybe he spends time in an asocial environment, or he's very noticeably neurotypical. That's all I could think of which would prevent him from ever having success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 01:20 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Bruh if your desired demographic don't desire you then you aren't desirable. Literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 01:11 AM
3	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men And what good will that do you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 08:55 PM
0	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men What's funny about it? Do you mean funny as in just weird or ironic/comedic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 08:38 PM
9	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men Wtf is wrong with you bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 08:28 PM
1	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them A) He didn't victim blame; that wasn't part of his comment at all. He clarified that she deserves sympathy and didn't accuse her of any wrongdoing. B) Whataboutism is valid if his point is that the gender doesn't change how the story happens, and in this case it is much less gendered than 90% of the shit women deal with in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 06:16 PM
0	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them you can have empathy for an individual you know personally The mark of a truly empathetic person is someone who doesn't need to know people personally in order to empathise with them. Empathy =/= agreement, nor liking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 06:00 PM
6	The bar is in hell for women You're funny. Women will always be more attractive on average and men will always be more desperate on average; these factors don't ever change and explain every dating imbalance. The only way to counteract them is by limiting women's freedom, but that's immoral and stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 03:40 AM
0	You're wasting your time chasing party girls Or he just has a different type from you... mind-blowing stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 02:53 PM
1	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win Considering I've lived most of my life in right wing areas, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 10:40 AM
1	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win I can tolerate stupidity just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 12:34 AM
2	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Or you just want women to have freedom to be whores without consequences? It doesn't affect you, so what's your issue with it? Why should that choice necessitate "consequences"? It's easy to just find a non-promiscuous woman if you don't want anything to do with "whores". Get a grip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 07:21 PM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Are you twelve?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 07:20 PM
–	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win what are you talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 05:53 PM
–	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win ... Because a non-woke candidate lost? All this election proves is that Americans are populist-adoring dumbasses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 05:50 PM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. ... Except he didn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 02:28 PM
2	Curious what women view as "good guys" Once again, a consensus of individual personal opinions is not objectivity Once again, it's not objective in and of itself; what is objective is that some people are perceived as more attractive than others, which is what people mean when they refer to objective beauty, and is valid in accordance with the definition of the word. It's really not a difficult concept to grasp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:36 PM
2	Curious what women view as "good guys" It's based on how society views them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:25 PM
4	Curious what women view as "good guys" The way they call it objective fits within the definition, though. Objectivity doesn't need to be as true as the laws of thermodynamics; it just needs to be divorced from personal opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:21 AM
3	Curious what women view as "good guys" It's a semantic difference. You aren't going to understand each other anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:15 AM
3	Curious what women view as "good guys" You're responding against a point which basically no one makes. The consensus is the point. Personality is completely subjective too, but it's objectively true that having certain traits makes you more or less successful with people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:20 AM
–	Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways. Yup. Swap the levels of average attractiveness around, maybe the libido as well, and the dating landscape looks the exact same but the other way around. Men and women aren't anywhere near as different in behaviour as they are in starting positions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 05:46 PM
9	Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men. lmao red pilled men are probably the least masculine on average. Masculine men are basically always either blue pilled or black pilled because either they dgaf (99% of scenarios) or they can coast by on their masculinity instead of having to perform it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 08:25 PM
1	Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him isn't that insinuating that most men are descended from psychopaths? That would be disregarding the shifting dating landscape. I believe basically everyone agrees that men need to stand out more nowadays if they wish to attract a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 11:23 AM
9	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. You realise comparing things specifically implies that they aren't of the same exact severity? That's why they're being compared... most people understand this concept by age 5 or so but I guess you fell behind hard	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 09:39 AM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Stop being insufferable. Anyway, if you think tall people aren't obsessed with height then you clearly don't know enough of them well enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 09:38 AM
1	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Good luck with that. Guys at your height do have it much harder so it's not your fault if it takes a while. But it is possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 01:10 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Sure, but the comment was about women's preferences. If I had to speedrun trying to get into a loving relationship with an attractive woman as a man, and my choices were between being obese or being 5'6" - I'm choosing 5'6" every time. I've only ever seen one example of the former.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 01:08 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Tbh you have a chance with whatever your type is, it's just that being short makes your pool way smaller with each type (depending on how short you are anyway). Most women won't be into it, but some will, and if you like chubby girls then yeah some won't care (or, really rarely, like it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 01:00 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Either average men (including short guys on occasion), or hooking up with and chasing attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:56 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Ah okay, I thought you were being an asshole to short guys in general. Good luck with it then mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:55 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Nope, I don't have proof; it's just anecdotal for me. Maybe it's a cultural difference but ime attractive women don't care so much about height (they don't feel the need to compensate with the status of a tall bf), whereas I only know one with a non-lean bf. Perhaps big bears get more quantity but not as much quality in that case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:54 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Are you rich and famous, lazy bones?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:51 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Poor is fine, but some of the others yeah (although the non-white part depends on gender often). OP did highlight that disabled people have it harder than short men, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:50 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Being attracted to physical features does not make one shallow. People want to be with others whom they find attractive, and they want to feel that the other person is also attracted to them. If that's shallow then being shallow is an extremely positive thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:49 AM
–	Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficulty Other traits, such as being obese or having a high-pitched voice, do not carry the same weight in women's avg attraction preferences. Being obese is undoubtedly considered less attractive than being short, unless you're reaching dwarf height or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:45 AM
3	Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive? That is utter bs. It happens anywhere to anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 08:47 AM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Why do you care what tiktok women have to say as "requirements"? Most women don't give a fuck about a guy being strong and masculine as long as he's attractive/likeable enough (masculinity ties into both, but lifting/career shit/whatever isn't going to make you significantly more attractive nor likeable). Also idk where you live that liberal men are so opposed to lifting, because it's not some movement. Oh right, you're going off twitter. The reason why there are so many unhappily single people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:56 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high lmfao don't be such a softie It's not being a softie, you just need to take it less personally when someone calls you out on your stupidity. I just think downplaying serious issues makes you ignorant and should be called out; don't shit yourself about it. Wonder why you don't bring those up. Because I'm not as invested in this convo as you are at the moment. Maybe if I was at my PC but I'm not gonna be researching much rn. Ooooooor could it just be that they show that these problems aren't anywh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:18 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Except there are less than a million sex offenders in america. And that is a "country" with a population of 330 million. Slightly less than half of that population is male. It's around 770k convicted sex offenders for a population of 165 million; over half of 1%. Only for the convicted ones. Looks like my calculations were just fine. Also, why do you put "country" in quotation marks? It is a country lmao And America might be very feminist centered but doesn't come close to be equal when it comes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:11 PM
0	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high The fact you think these statistics are somehow unbelievable just proves that you're sheltered as fuck. Talk to almost any women and she almost certainly won't be as shocked as you are. Also, I see what you're trying to do by making it seem as though I was buddies with these guys, and it's low as fuck. You don't need to be close with people to know things about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:02 PM
2	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Buddy if you look the people publicly outed not even convicted but just outed then it still is a drop in a bucket. You are so full of shit. Bruh the number of convicted male sex offenders is already closer to 1% than not, in the US at least. You can accuse me of being full of shit, but the way I see it is that you've been sheltered from an ugly truth. And no you didn't bite. You deflected the question. Obviously I'm going to deflect the question, because why tf would anyone ever answer it? A) it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:55 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high 0.56% of American men are convicted sex offenders; the vast majority get away with it, so there are far more than that out there. There's some non-anecdotal evidence for the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:51 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high You know this is an inappropriate and fucked up question, so fuck yourself. But I'll bite anyway because the concept holds. So, let's take school for example. In my school year of around 90 men, let's say max 60 of whom I knew anything about, I can think of at least 10 who have sexually assaulted/raped someone. Looking at other environments, it's also always been more than 10%. And that's in middle class, highly educated areas, and not some backwards society which you might expect men to treat w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:30 PM
5	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high 1% is too high. Am I misreading this or do you think less than 1% of men are dangerous for women? It's got to be at least 10%. 10% is, like, the number who actually get publicly outed as dangerous to women, with witnesses and evidence. Let alone those whose actions aren't known about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:20 PM
6	Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole? Yeah and this is why gender war bs never works. Most people are literally not able to understand another gender's problems because they're obtuse as fuck. They'll radicalise themselves before even trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 11:05 AM
-2	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? Not the guy you were talking to, but imo it's because far more features fit feminine beauty than the masculine. Margot Robbie has a masculine jaw and she's considered ultra attractive, whereas a dude without one wouldn't be (at least I can't think of an example). Same with many other traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:41 PM
–	since women want innocent men to self blame and be responsible for the actions of the bad men they date, Should innocent men micromanage and control womens action in order to stop them from dating bad men even if it is against their will? i only sympathize with those who ve been sa or such Most of them have been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:30 PM
1	Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would. It's not something people do on pure instinct; it's an active process which they desire to perform. The vast majority of humans aren't intelligent enough for whatever utopia you have in mind anyway, and judging by your comments you definitely aren't either. Accept that we are rational beings but that we aren't hyper intelligent beings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 08:54 AM
–	Dating is hardest for straight men That's not the same as being in a relationship with someone. Gays have it harder than straights in that area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 06:12 PM
3	If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enough Plenty of everyday things are gross if you think about them. I think it's amazing that people are capable of looking past it because they love each other and want to please each other so much. Wish I could do that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:17 PM
5	If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enough I'm ace and I still find this view on sex to be ridiculous. Just because most sex is shit doesn't mean it's not beautiful in concept (and can be in execution). It absolutely can be a deep thing, and people fall in love through it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:12 PM
1	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? How am I supposed to show that they didn't say something lmao. The proof is that there is no proof for your side	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 08:47 PM
1	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? Doesn't matter; you're just wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 08:37 PM
2	"No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personality It's not meant to be a "dunk"; I'm just telling you you're wrong. I'm not fighting for male honour or something to care about dunking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:05 PM
2	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? No penetration but kinda; I'm sex repulsed so I've never gone the full 100% because I find it disgusting. And even with my mental barrier the other 99% is certainly a completely different dimension to mere cuddling and hand holding. I can't imagine being satisfied with less if I desired more, so I wouldn't feel as bound with my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 12:14 PM
2	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? No worries	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:33 AM
2	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? An asexual person can, yes. An allosexual person, most likely not. It's not someone's fault that they are wired to want sex, and that's not a choice. So no, we don't agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:05 AM
5	"No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personality You can sus out a normal persons personality in about 30 minutes either way some practice. Unless they're trying to get something out of you... like a one night stand. Chances are you got fooled plenty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 09:30 AM
3	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? More bonding and assurance that you love and are attracted to each other. It's a striving for mutual pleasure which is kinda like the ultimate form of intimacy. Being denied sex by your partner is most likely a sign that they are disgusted by you, whereas enthusiastic sex is most likely proof of love and like a drug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 09:02 AM
2	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? Because it's a mutual choice. If it wasn't, I would feel like my gf didn't love me and was disgusted by me, because it would most likely be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 08:59 AM
3	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? Because then you'd question her love and feel as though she was repulsed by you? It seems you don't put much thought into why people may feel this way. I understand it completely even though I'm in an asexual relationship. It's not difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 12:26 AM
2	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? Because you either are bad at reading, or you're way too cynical to be having a rational discussion here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 11:11 PM
6	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? They didn't even suggest getting their dick wet. Besides, sex is about far more than dick-in-vagina-go-boom; if you don't get that then you're beyond terrible at sex lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 11:10 PM
4	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? This is such a poor reading of people and their intentions it's insane. Relationships aren't only about sex; they're mostly about romantic affection, which is unique and can't be replicated by friends and family. If sex were the cure to male loneliness then they could just save up, hire escorts, and be cured. Sexlessness is only a symptom for most; not the disease.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 11:07 PM
4	Do men just not care about being abused as much as women? i just think its a big mistake to act like we do well on this issue when its a male perp and a female victim bc we don't They never said that. You're arguing in bad faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 10:55 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? Worrying is what keeps you out of harm's way. It's the exact opposite of useless if you've ever lived in a dangerous area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 07:57 AM
0	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? Do you, as a man, also not worry about other men late at night? If you don't, then that's a smarts problem on your part. Also, a man is more likely to instigate and we have a much easier time defending ourselves or running away. It's the helplessness that makes people worry most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:05 PM
2	What do you consider to be traits of a functioning man/woman in society that you are shocked others do not? Generally I agree with you, except you chose one of the worst examples possible; one of dudes who are completely right to be frustrated. But yeah this whole "women=emotional; men=logical" tripe is bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 05:02 PM
-2	Bear vs Man is Actually Perpetrating False Accusations Of course you get downvoted despite being completely reasonable. Then these dudes probably wonder why people don't take their valid arguments reasonably when they're just as irrational.	/r/MensRights	02/05/24 10:52 AM

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