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I thought the same thing. I think its the way hes holding his head and face. Almost like hes looking up through his lashes at the camera. You can even see the whites under his irises at certain points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:32 PM
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That's how I met my husband. I heard about him through mutuals and he asked about me after seeing me around. The rest is history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:26 PM
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Can't tell you what most women are doing. I think, based on my own experiences, women are raised into "types." Certain types of women will interact with the world differently based on their own socialization. A girl raised with a lot of progressive ideals might not be as interested in appealing to some future man's wants. A girl raised very conservatively will likely interact with the world in a much more restrained way, hiding her contradictory urges and such. This is not a strong rule anymore,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:11 AM
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El-oh-el The men on this sub are brain broken. This reads like trolling. More entertainment for me 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:42 AM
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I had a coworker tell me about a group he followed that shared womens nudes. If he found someone on there that he worked with he made sure to jerk off to it before letting them know. My husband had a coworker get in serious trouble for sharing the nudes of a girl he knew with another coworker. I had a close friend, unprompted, show me a girls topless pic and didnt want to answer when I asked if she was chill with that. You are completely right. These chat rooms are everywhere. Men just do that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:26 AM
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No. Was making a positive impact ever the point? This is a circle jerk sub disguised as a debate sub. No one is convincing anyone and the topics will be recycled until the heat death of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:32 PM
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Being appreciated was not the standard. Women can find someone so they won't be alone. That's the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:05 PM
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Honestly, and without any intended rudeness, I dont think you do get the tax on the body that a birth takes. We are still studying all the longterm effects having a baby takes on womens bodies. New allergies, injuries that never heal right, osteoporosis and loss of teeth, an increased chance of dementia, the severe hormonal fluctuations that can range from hair loss to psychosis. This is all with the advance of medicine, which is not always enough to save you from fatal complications during birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:34 PM
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No brother, everyone doesnt talk about dicks. Youre preoccupied and projecting your own thoughts onto other people. The fact that you dont know of any conversations around men saying something along the lines of "hotdogs down the hallway" "blown out" and "used up" is just further indicators of your preoccupation. Also, I can tell someone has a fat ass through their clothes. To a lesser degree, someone could tell breast size without losing clothes either. That was the point of that comment. I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:44 AM
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Yeah that was the point of the comment, MEN talk about dick. Who's dick was bigger, if yours is enough, how sad you are about it. Also, men talk about pussy in the most degrading horrible ways. You can't see ass and tits on the regular? You've never been to the beach? The gym? Seen someone wearing fitted clothes? I knew a dude walking around with a shelf you could see through a loose military uniform. Dick isnt usually visible until you lose a lot more clothes. Reread my comment and tell me wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:47 PM
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Hey dude, the equavilent to dick is pussy. Ive talked to my friends about ass, mens and womens. Dick isnt visible the majority of the time, unlike tits and ass, and I dont kiss and tell. Idgaf if you believe me. Men on this sub come here to explain women to themselves, why would i expect different from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:13 PM
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Seconded. Ive never had a conversation with someone IRL about dick size. Have had exes who were very curious about the size of other men dicks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:44 AM
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This isnt about living in fear. If youre using a product and getting a negative experience out of it, youre not thinking "hey maybe next time won't suck" youre thinking, "this blows, why am i wasting my time for a bad experience. Im going to go do somthing fun." If women were having a good time on dating apps, you'd see women using them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:14 PM
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I did not imply that. I implied you didn't come here to debate but instead to bitch and moan about your situation. Your comments are only solidifying that opinion. Practice finger painting by yourself, I think you need it more <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:41 AM
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Huh? Be coherent. I don't speak pissant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:27 AM
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Bitter, angry replies. Another PPD male that calls bitching and moaning a "debate."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:14 AM
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So you will be bringing something back to them... after you've cheated and reinspired their desire? They've unilaterally told you that they arent interested in fucking you anymore and you can't find the balls to tell them youre going to fuck someone else? Profound. My argument is that you're a spineless cretin incapable of upholding your own word if you step out on your partner. Doubly so if youre so cowardly you preemptively decide you are going to lie to them lmfao. Planning ahead to cheat 😂 😂…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:34 PM
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You dont have to explain why do dont want to be with someone anymore. If sex is the reason but you dont feel inclined to talk about it, cool. What isnt cool is spreading your dick around bringing back who knows what to your established relationship. Possibly getting other people pregnant. Disgusting. If you made an agreement to be exclusive, keep that agreement or grow a spine and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:58 PM
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First of all, jesus f(u)cking christ dude. Its a debate topic, not your therapists chair. Second, Women who dont give explanations for why they dont want to date you are selfish cowards and men who pump and dump "kind of suck too". L.M.F.A.O. Third, what exactly do you gain out of someone being entirely honest with you before you even know them. You say they are making excuses for not hanging out with you, how do you know that isnt honesty? Why is their lack of time and interest not a good enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:03 PM
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Alpha fucks, beta bucks (gets used for his wallet) It's very commonly used in this sub. I'm surprised with how often you post that you haven't encountered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:28 PM
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You post here constantly, how are you new to these discussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:25 PM
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No, i wouldn't want an inconsiderate anything. What perspective are you actually looking for? Are you fishing for self destructive women? Is this attention bait? No woman of sound mind is saying yes to any of this. Why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:11 AM
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I love how men on this sub will speak from the perspective of women. Very funny, 10/10. My husband and I have traveled all over the world. He makes friends easier than I do. This sounds like a you problem honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:44 PM
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Regarding men with high body counts, I have never asked and have no interest in knowing the number of people someone slept with. If specific people left an impression on my partner and they want to talk about that, cool. I love getting to know my partner. Raw numbers are not interesting to me and at best will make me question the physical and mental health of my partner, are you clean, were you taking precautions, do you have kids I dont know about or you dont know about, are you capable of a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:40 PM
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Complaining
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 04:50 PM
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That's a very strange viewpoint tbh. People definitely arent born funny and while I would say, hard work, isnt how id describe someone becoming a funny person you absolutely can develop your humor and timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:09 AM
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Lmfao I always wondered how it would look to say the same thing over and over through multiple paragraphs. CAN you explain it? After this comment I would bet on NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:06 AM
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How does one womens word out of the mouth of a redpilled dude poke holes in any narrative lmfao. My grandma developed major depression and spoke of waiting for my grandfather to die so she could be free. Mine negates yours, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:32 PM
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How would you know? You've stated that you dont like talking about that and thay women who want sexual compatability are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:38 PM
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Apparently we're all special cases because we found relatively average dudes (chads) to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:57 PM
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Christ this topic again. I find this one particularly funny because men on this sub are incapable of believing anything a woman says unless it aligns with what they already believe about women. Men here find women's advise bad because they are incapable of introspection. They want to be told nothing is wrong with them and it's all hopeless because women are evil harpies who dont deserve rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:19 AM
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Idk how to read this. What are you saying to me? Come back with more punctuation, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:23 AM
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Sure dude 🙄, and there's a lot of truth about men in these women's comments but yall dont wanna see the issues that dont affect you directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:31 AM
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Tit for tat. Men on this sub do this to women on every post without fail. Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:50 PM
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How is that proving his point, what does invisible mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:14 PM
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This is why I keep coming back to this sub. A keyhole onto the internets padded room. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:58 PM
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Torturing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:06 AM
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I ask for guidance from people I think can pass me something valuable. Sometimes that is my boss, sometimes that is a parent, sometimes that is my husband. My boss tells me what I need to do to keep my job. How would my husband help there. My husband tells me we are out of ketchup, why would my dad be helpful there. My dad has actually not been helpful anywhere so idk, I'm not following him. I dont follow anyone blindly. I dont take orders if they arent making me money. If my husband followed an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:02 AM
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Bud, im gonna ignore your first few points because I am tired of going in circles with you. I think women deserve total bodily autonomy, you think that ends with a fetus. Whatever. To your last point, it would be a fair compromise... if it were real. How can women agree to an option that doesnt exist and has no timeline of ever existing. "I agree that unicorns horns are an excellent power source and would nullify all need for toxic power sources. But you just like burning coal and burying toxic …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:28 AM
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I am right, actually. See above. No person has the right to use another person's body to survive. She can remove it if she feels the need to because it is using, altering, and damaging her body by existing inside it. How it got there doesnt matter, it doesnt change the situation. She does not want something growing, altering, and damaging her body, the fetus does not have a right to use her body unwillingly, and she should not be forced to endure that because someone else has feelings. There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:14 PM
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Me? No. My coworkers? Some of them, yes. Most of the church goers are also in long term relationships. Schooling can include a lot of things. You are right, most people that go to college are finished early into adulthood but if you know where to look and have the time for it, free classes exist to extend your schooling. Group activities where you all have a similar goal are ideal. I met a number of situational friends this way. I volunteer in my community occasionally and go to house parties ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:03 PM
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In person. Through work or schooling mainly. In third spaces like church or hobby activities. The same places you would meet anyone in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:15 PM
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"No iNcOrReCt 🤓" I am right actually. Telling her not to remove potentially harmful cells because you have feelings about it is telling her what to do with her body. What happened before is really irrelevant at that point. The cells exist and she has the right to remove them. "Happens to be inside hers" so take them out. You can have them. If her body is not important then those cells can exist elsewhere and not use an unwilling body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:56 PM
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I can only give my personal perspective and the numbers on apps. Traditional OLD is nearly 70-80% male across the board. No telling how inflated those stats are by bots. That cheating website Ashley Madison admitted to using bots to lure men and content creators on YouTube, tiktok, and twitch buy bots to get more interaction, who's to say traditional OLD isnt doing the same to make men think they have a chance. Im sure the chances are better if you live in a high pop area but those areas also ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:54 PM
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Who cares how many men are getting swipes when everyone is aware that women largely dont exist there anymore and bots run the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:03 AM
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Brother, birth control wasnt widespread and you dont need to like someone or be attracted to them to become pregnant by them. Your third point here literally makes no sense. Women had many children because they were at their husbands whim and didnt have birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:59 AM
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Brother, if you are telling a woman she can't evict the cells that will alter and damage her body, you are telling her what to do with her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:49 AM
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I love all the specific stats you've pulled from wherever lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:47 PM
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Brother, in the kindest way possible, I dont care. People keep drawers full of dildos. People hump pillows with faces printed on them. Go fuck an ai, it literally means nothing to me. Please do post when the next update lobotomizes it, sex-doll paper-weights you bought for the price of a new car sounds neoartistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:07 PM
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<image> Dude. Go jerk off. Youre being cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:02 PM
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I dont think you understand men or women tbh. Your point is so removed from reality I question if you've ever met another person at all. Your point is that half of the population has no standards and will do anything and everything for the idea that they MIGHT be able to have sex. No. Your standards aren't men's standards. And unfortunately, the sort of men who will "do anything" for the chance of a woman fucking him are rarely the sorts of people you want doing anything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:15 PM
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"Sexual power" equates to nothing for the grand majority of women. Unlike men, being able to have sex comes with just as many, if not more, negatives than positives for women. To add, young women are especially susceptible to manipulation and lying making this "power" virtually meaningless. Men have 0 idea what this "power" actually looks like for women. You see someone on social media getting what they want and think most women are able to achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:34 PM
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Men already vote against women's rights. Who cares, nothing new. Social safety nets are failing in the US due to republican policies, not whatever small number of radical women opposing it. You want positive change? You have to organize for it. I dont see men organizing for anything greater than gym gains and manipulating women into liking them. Vote against women again, im not sure we could find a more incompetent leadership that what we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:35 PM
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Sure bud. I'm sure women's lives will be so much worse when men they didn't want stop chasing them. I can't imagine a worse existence than not being bothered by desperate men trying to argue my rejection with me. The men women choose will continue to propagate, by real relationships or through sperm donation. Funny enough, nearly all of my friends and coworkers are in relationships or married but very very few have kids... weird huh. You can go your own way bud, no one is stopping you and only m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:36 PM
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Go back and read the rest of my comment :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:16 PM
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Aw 🙂 women are rejecting your buddies and you think it's significant. Women need to agree to have kids, thats where the problem lies. Dick and sperm will always be in generous supply. I could get pregnant TOMORROW, but why would I. The US has consistently shown a severe disregard for pregnant people and parents. Someone else will get to it, or they won't. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:35 PM
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Birth rates are dropping because women dont want and/or can't afford kids and a significant part of that drop is teenagers not having kids the way they used to. "Men not approaching women" is not even close to the root cause of the birth rate drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:14 PM
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That's nice, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:56 PM
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Christ, this is a debate sub, get to the point. It's hard enough reading the empty headed opinions of the insecure misogynists in this sub without having to parse through someone's notebook ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:12 PM
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More than half of the body of your post is talking about that sour grapes post. I dont understand what you were trying to get across with it. Women, by and large, do not care what random men think of the way they look. Why would a woman need you to spell anything out for her? How do men change? Idk, there is no way to get a good idea of who someone is through text alone. You find all the gross unappealing things after spending time with them usually. Dating apps are just a means to meet people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:08 AM
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Your title and the body of your question are a bit disconnected. That girl didn't ask for your opinion on her looks so idk why youre asking if women realize what they look like without your help. It seems like a sour grapes post on a girl making a joke. I think the numbers are the greatest indicator of how women, in large part, have adjusted to men's online dating actions. Women are outnumbered at least 3 to 1 if not significantly worse on some dating apps. I used dating apps briefly before givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:40 AM
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Id give escape tips if she wasnt ready to hand over her spine and self-worth to the next boy that came along 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:44 PM
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🤷‍♀️ She's already primed to give husband treatment to whatever man appears in front of her. I don't think of romantic intimacy with other people, that's what my husband is for, maybe she thinks this way because she has no expectation of returned intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:24 PM
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Your point was not clear. You see random men and think of the things you do to spoil your husband? I don't think most men want their partner to spoil men in general but I guess you're right about one thing, most women don't want to spoil random men. Because that is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:18 PM
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It is. Rp women want a cookie for doing what women have been asked to do forever. I lean hard left and don't like men in general but I also "spoil" my husband by doting on him. He also does the same for me which is where rp women and normal women probably differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:51 PM
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That is a very strange way to live your life lmfao. It sounds like you want to excuse your interest in being abusive toward people by saying "they tolerated it once, im allowed! I get 28 chances to scream at my partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:04 PM
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I love this sub, constant entertainment. Saving this thread to laugh about later <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:36 PM
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Exactly. I love these threads. Rp men outline exactly why they are the worst choice for women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:17 PM
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Why you dick riding famous men so hard? "Would you take this opportunity?" "No." "Well you're not pretty enough anyway." What's your deal lmao slide into that famous boys dms and lose the salt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:14 AM
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Singular woman Plural womEn Just like plural men swaps from a man-men so does woman-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:58 PM
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Mom said it was my turn to repost this topic >:( Advice isn't mandatory. If it doesn't work for you, that sucks, keep it moving. Rereading study notes never worked as a study method for me but I didn't bitch at the teacher for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:24 PM
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Millenial cringe is like 90% women. This is an absurd take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:20 AM
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No serious psychologist uses Freuds theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:17 PM
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Scenario B, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:00 PM
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Idk, "bad things will happen if you don't date men" isn't a very strong argument for women changing. It just sounds like men need a leash to control themselves when they don't get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:50 PM
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What solution are you hoping for here. What do you want anyone to do about free choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:02 AM
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Hilarious comment thread. "You act this way" "No I dont" "Yuh huh" "No I ~fucking~ dont" "Wah wah reported"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:02 PM
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Well it sounds like you already had the conversation, is she still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:29 PM
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Ok... so are you into that? She already slept with you, why are you worried about indicating to her that you sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:14 PM
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Maybe OP is looking for like minded freaks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:48 PM
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I dont make a habit out of imagining my partner fucking other people. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:33 PM
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I don't think bad sex for women is defined as no orgasm because a significant number of women don't orgasm and still have sex. Bad sex for women is a range from unsatisfying at best to painful or damaging and worst. This is on top of all the things that women are specifically or exclusively suseptible to, like pregnancy or increased risk of STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:38 PM
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I don't think teaching your child they can't get everything they want is humbling them and I hope you don't mean to put out the idea that you make your daughter feel worse about herself intentionally to prove a point. If someone were to say they humbled your child in the classroom I'd expect you'd find that a very strange way to phrase teaching them they needed to share and do the work assigned to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:18 PM
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How do you show her that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:43 PM
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You're trying to humble your 8 year old daughter? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:57 PM
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Write it however you like, you think men are either low in morals or low in morals and also losers. Cheating is for pussies who can't bear a break up 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:22 PM
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Either a cheater or an incel who wants to cheat lmfao that sounds pretty shitty. Gutter morals or a loser who wishes they would act on their gutter morals🤣 this dude said pick you poison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:26 PM
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When this sub randomly turns from hating women to SHAMELESSLY shitting on men 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:34 AM
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Accountability for what 😂😂 why don't men take accountability for being cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:31 AM
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I grew up similar. Could absolutely not accept that future as my own. Imagining my mother's life gives me anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:21 AM
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What does the gender swap prove? Do you think these men would be attractive to women if they were gender swapped? Men and women have different features that don't usually look as good on the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:54 AM
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So none whatsoever. Sounds about right for rp men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:28 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:21 PM
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I need you to be so fr right now. Denying half the population a very human experience is a deeply unintelligent decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:00 PM
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Who cares about the words?? Words mean things. Do I, an adult who has lived as an adult most of my life, want someone who has had a relationship before? Yes. Do I want someone who passes themselves around thoughtlessly for an easy lay? No. The phrasing matters because the intent matters. Do you want to eat a good meal or do you want food shoved down your throat? Who cares right? The food gets to your stomach either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:17 AM
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I ask myself this question every post I stg.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:21 AM
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I don't know how to approach this. How is a closed cylinder approximated to a box that can be touched on one side without touching the other sides. Do you understand what I wrote? No tension? It's a closed cylinder of muscles. If a finger can manage it I think someone intentionally using their dick can also manage it. Maybe use more than your penis alone to try to get someone off, most women need more than that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:54 PM
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Do you have a vagina? 1. The vagina does not seal at the entrance, there is no sphincter like opening to the vagina. Fluids flow freely out the entrance because there is no seal at the entrance. The tampon is held in primarily by friction. 2. The vagina is full of muscles keeping it closed. Unless you are pressing hard on one side of the vagina, you will be touching all sides when you put something into it. The vagina is not like a "box". Your description makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:13 PM
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Never in my life have I heard any women talk about dicks in the way and as often as men do. It's actually incredible. I think the proportion of men who are size queens outnumbers women significantly. Even ex boyfriends had dick on their mind way more than I did. "Is my dick big enough?" "Was your exes bigger?" "What if I get a dick implant?" Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:53 AM
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This. You put my exact thoughts into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you but I'm not really sure what that has to do with the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:48 AM
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That's a sad life to aspire to. Also, do you really think an obsessed girl will give you the space to play video games? I had a dude obsessed with me and he called me 30+ times in a 5 hour work shift. You will get busy doing something, she will freak out because you aren't available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:20 PM
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He does the bare minimum? What does that mean? He washes his ass and moves his laundry to the hamper? I'm good on bare minimum. I'm happy enough being alone without some man complaining about my looks behind my back. We aren't forced to be together, no one is. Why settle for someone who would have been better off as a friend anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:53 PM
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I dont know what the worst kind of pettiness is but this is very a strange and funny way of rationalizing your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:18 PM
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You dont believe in it? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:52 AM
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😂😂 You've had enough of what? You're hounding for young women because... spite?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:22 PM
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That's nice hunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:09 PM
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Mid 1970s the ECOA was passed making it illegal to discriminate against women applying for credit. My mother was born before women had financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:15 AM
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Why would I want to share? I'd rather be poor and happy than wealthy and sharing the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:42 AM
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Men are the criminals in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:38 AM
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This seems like a very insecure thing to dwell on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:15 PM
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My husband and I have seperate accounts and a joint account where we put equal amounts in. Bills go to the joint. If we want something we think is for the family, we discuss using the joint account. Gifts and wanted items go from the personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:06 PM
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Absolutely not. My values don't align with conservative values. I like myself too much to subject myself to a conservative man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:47 PM
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At some point a woman made a decision she regretted and if shes not willing to make that mistake on you then you dont want her lol. Sure, idk why a woman would want a guy who is creating a complex thinking of other men inside her lol. On a first date, how would you know her dating history. Is the average woman telling you she fucked johnny last week but she isn't sure about you? Or are you just assuming the dates you go on must be with women who are ok with first date hookups and so sex with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:22 PM
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You base this off all your dates with men as a woman? A woman will have sex with a man she likes ~eventually~. Maybe she decides that night to, great, look for this woman. Maybe she wants to wait to see more of this mans personality. Awesome, don't date this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:11 PM
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An average person is self indulgent. I would say most women's self indulgence doesn't include sex with a person who is statistically unlikely to make them cum and more statistically likely to cause them harm in some way or another. Women want sex. Many women would rather pleasurable sex. Most women want safety from intentional and unintentional harm. First date sex can be those things, but it's unlikely. These concerns tend to fall away the more a woman knows a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:57 PM
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Can, sure. But you said specifically that not wanting to get played would mean this. A man like this would also feel this way if she wanted to wait for other reasons, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:46 PM
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If he has these opinions, it's probably a good connection to end 🤷‍♀️ You're not sexually attracted to him enough to enjoy a potential no-strings-attached sex, Why wouldn't he feel this if I said I wanted a stronger connection, or exclusivity, or even marriage? You think his time and body is worth less than yours I think my safety and comfort are worth more than an easy lay, for sure. Idk where his time and body come into this. Nothing happens to his body if we don't have sex and I assume a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:39 PM
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Agreed. Creeps fester in agreement on this sub. I've been reading redpilled content since the early 2000s and this sub still manages to lower my opinion of redpilled and seemingly "normal" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:25 AM
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😂😂 sure, maybe he should thank her for dumping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:20 AM
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Well she got her way 0% on HER proposal. Idk why youre making it seem like she wasn't a participant in this lmao. Is a proposal for YOU or for your relationship? Like I said, if he took issue with her idea, it should have been hashed out long before it got to the point of him proposing under a streetlight and her leaving him for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:10 AM
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It's a fantasy if your partner is impotent. At the end of the day she will find someone else who will suit her and he will find someone who doesn't care as much about their own wants. You call it unhealthy, I call it a happy ending to a relationship that wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:45 PM
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Idk where you got this from because I didn't say it. If he had a problem with the idea, they should have talked about it ahead of time. Obviously, they didn't because they got to the point of her saying no to him and going home alone and him being confused about it. All that wasn't needed. Relationships should be even. Each partners wants shouldn't be trampled by the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:30 PM
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This just in, having a beach proposal is a fantasy. Never been done before, not even possible. Just like wanting a chapel wedding or an anniversary abroad, fantasy fulfillment. I dont think it's objectifying to want a romantic proposal to remember, she didnt ask him to dress up as batman but what do i know. Im just a person who wants to make their partner happy. He had the choice to work with her idea or figure something else out. He chose. They weren't aligned enough as a couple and now they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:25 PM
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Maybe that's what this dude thought too, obviously he was wrong. Why would I marry someone who doesn't care about my wants? Why would I marry someone who didn't want a part in planning their own wedding? Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:05 AM
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Honestly, I don't know why he chose what he did. She was pretty explicit in what she wanted, he just didn't seem to care. This reminds me of those videos of dudes proposing in front of large groups of people and their partner runs away. How did they get to this point? How is your relationship so fundamentally off base that your partner ran away at such a critical moment. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:27 PM
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Ditto on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:14 PM
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Morally vacant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:10 AM
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Yeah, triggered. As in a response caused by a particular action. Me saying a word caused you to respond with an assumption. Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:39 AM
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Mentioning the word bystander triggered you to assume I didn't understand bystander effect? OK. Nothing in this conversation referenced bystander effect. The bystander effect is not the only reason someone might not act but I was not talking about why anybody else won't do anything and OP is saying bystander effect wouldnt matter to him because he's planning ahead of time to do nothing anyway. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:26 AM
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I did not mention the bystander effect. I called him a bystander. These are different. If you're saying that in reference to "most people don't do anything" I did not call that the bystander effect but most of those people would also be bystanders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:12 AM
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Your situation assumes you know the feelings and social approach of the person being attacked. The OP said any woman could be a misandrist, so no woman should be helped. Do you agree that any woman could be a misandrist so no woman should be helped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:05 AM
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Most people don't do anything when someone needs help. This is just saying you planned ahead of time to be a bystander. Making that decision based on your imagined disagreement with someone's politics or social attitudes is just funny. "I might disagree with you so you don't deserve the help I'm capable of giving" Sure, whatever explanation you've decided absolves you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:50 PM
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If youre in a relationship, I would think the relationship would mean you have decided to do things for each other. The relationship sets the expectation that you love evenly. A man doesn't have to be in a relationship with me to be good. If he expects repayment for a good deed it's less of a good deed and more of a payed task.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:20 PM
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Feminism states you have the right to choose your life, be that progressive or traditional. Being a trad wife does not conflict with feminism unless you are trying to force women into that role. Having said that, I grew up in a traditional type household, surrounded by traditional families and a traditional religion and I would rather do anything than fall into that life. Very little is as repulsive to me as the life I watched my mother and grandmother live through. Most women do not have the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:44 AM
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If he just removes all the stuff he doesn't personally care about and overhype mens time working out, men are the obvious winners!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:58 PM
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No, we worked similar jobs. If anything, I had more money than them because they were fueling addictions and being used by their friends. I needed to feel honesty. They told me they did not care about me. I felt I could trust that. I lowered the bar until I thought i couldn't be disappointed. You can always go lower, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:11 AM
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I got cheated on in both of my previous long term relationships. My situationships seemed earnest in how little they cared about me. Honesty was all I felt i needed at the time. They were ugly people with terrible, self destructive habits who did not care about me. I was self-hating with terrible, self destructive habits, and cared very little about them. We matched on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:57 AM
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Unfortunately no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:03 PM
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No my hookups/situationships were ugly. I was with them for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:05 PM
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Second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:59 PM
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Not enough upsides, too many downsides. Might be more inclined if US laws weren't actively detrimental to women trying to get pregnant and if it wasn't prohibitively expensive. The damage to my body is another huge reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:02 PM
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It would probably be easier to understand if it was real. I know grasping reality is difficult for a brain broken PP boy, though. It's OK!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:57 PM
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OR the example didn't prove the point at all. No that can't be it, women just aren't capable of seeing the vast majority of men as real human beings based on some guys story. Welp, back to brain broken doom scrolling, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:50 AM
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Not seeing someone as attractive isnt the same as not seeing them as real human beings lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:15 PM
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The men on this sub are delusional lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:14 PM
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"Do not exist as real human beings" tf does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:50 AM
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I was going to comment but your comment encapsulates my feelings as well. Family sucked, no support. Probably wouldn't have been raped as a man. Probably would have been as if not more isolated as a man. I like being a woman so I wouldn't wish to be a man despite certain advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:49 AM
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Watching my mother go through menopause doesn't have me excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:24 AM
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Comparing IUD insertion pain to pregnancy pain isn't really fair when we are comparing the pain of contraceptives. Some contraceptives are not painful at all and don't require you to change your habits to heal properly. There are other contraceptives that let you forget about them for months or years as well. I would say IUD is more invasive than the implant despite the implant going under the skin and I wouldn't trust that the IUD would change your period, it doesn't affect everyone's period in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:28 PM
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I fully agree with your first point but there are a lot of reasons more women aren't using IUDs, it shouldn't be baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:11 PM
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On good days I would choose 1. On bad days I would choose 2. I would be a different person so who knows if I would really appreciate the change to no attention at all. I would give anything to not have had the experiences I've had but I wouldn't willingly say my husband wasn't worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:08 PM
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I was a middle class kid who was harassed pretty consistently as a kid. My neighborhood had mostly families and older couples. My hometown even now has less than 20k population. We had a nice park a couple of blocks away from my house. We did not live in a large city. I did live near large interstate. I had to walk to school most days and because my family was not very wealthy, no one was available to walk with me. I got stopped by men in their cars nearly every time I walked. When I was 10 my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:14 PM
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What do you mean?? Calling women ugly and jealous isn't how debates work? PPD has led me wrong again :/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:47 PM
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I find it incredible that mods will warn someone about calling another person a freak but this dude has a rant about how pathetic he thinks men are and how men will just rape en masse if a small percentage dont get sex enough on multiple comment threads and mods are where?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:27 PM
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Ooh, that is tough. Nobody likes a dirty self esteem :'( Have you considered being less of a whiny cunt? It's super easy! Just like not being a whore!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:59 PM
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As a woman, all you have to do to avoid rejection is not be a whore? Incredible. Srry bout that self esteem tho, good luck w/ that :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:44 PM
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Ditto, I was also a teen during that trend. Never again. I'll die in a pair of high waisted 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:34 PM
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How would that stop women from being in uncomfortable situations with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:33 PM
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The issue of circumcision is a seperate issue from abortion so this take is pretty weird. Do you think it's a punishment that a man doesn't agree with abortion? Should i punish mens rights for not agreeing with abortion by saying the draft is good? Silly. Also, plenty of feminists do agree that male circumcision is wrong and plenty of men agree to cut their babies so i don't get the anger direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:41 PM
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Not only unethical for the man, if a woman had sex with a dude clearly going through a traumatic time I would think she was fucked in the head. He needs help, not a potentially unstable relationship to fuck with his head more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:42 PM
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You imagined a world that doesnt exist and hurt your own feelings. Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:40 PM
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Who is being exiled?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:25 PM
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"She'd get called those names by men she didn't sleep with." You did that first, bro 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:06 PM
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Don't assume the men she did sleep with would be any kinder. Men have a funny way of fiending for tail and getting enough "post nut clarity" to call her a whore afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:31 PM
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Any woman desperate enough to compete for a man who isn't laying out his wants and plans deserves to be left for the next desperate woman. This isn't a grocery store where he can wander around and see what appeals, people have to know what they want in order to find a relationship that satisfies them. Pointless topic from an obvious troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:07 AM
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By men? Maybe 1 or 2 times a year. I get approached more by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:30 PM
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Saying most single women have something wrong with them to be single is pretty silly lol when I think of redpilled men, I think of statements like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:56 AM
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He's saying this because he isn't in the military. He doesn't know all the types of jobs the military holds. He has a golden era stereotype of what war is and that only includes men dying and nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:54 PM
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You are describing a coherent situation. OP has not done that. Ignoring your partner for weeks at a time for, seemingly, no reason is grounds for a breakdown in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:14 AM
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You are a gross person. Just say you daydream beastiality. Just because you are that filthy and low doesn't mean everyone occupies that level of depravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:59 PM
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The exes I've moved on from cheated on me. The ones that took longer ended amicably. Idk what you mean by quickly but when im done I have no emotions left to give the relationship. I may be hurt but that's none of my exes business anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:14 PM
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What? I'm not against you, im disagreeing and looking for your argument but you seem allergic to expanding on your point. I never said women couldn't lie, I was asking for examples and personal experience. You have neither so this was pointless lmao. The real insult is that I wasted time reading through your block of pointless text thinking there would be a point hidden in the condescension. Just word vomit, over and over again. How weak 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:50 AM
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Who am I supposed to be calling out? I don't know what you're talking about, I don't get notified when someone else disagrees with you. I also never said women don't lie, so I don't know what that tirade was about. Women lie, most people do at some point. I dont understand what you think they are lying about when they reject you. Do they tell you they are lying, or is this a feelings based thing for you? Are you looking for WHY they don't like you and aren't satisfied with the answers they give?…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:35 PM
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You are so condescending, it's honestly hilarious. Do you go around your life talking to people like this? I'm assuming you mean women give vague answers for their rejection rather than outright lies? Because how would you know she is lying? What reason would a woman have to not just be distant and polite about her rejection. Sorry if you have to stay confused but women have more than enough reasons to not go into detail about why exactly they arent interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:33 AM
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These are two completely different situations and you know it. Second, lie about what? They rejected you, what are they lying about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:42 PM
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The only common ground pick mes find with men is in shitting on women. Pick mes arent necessarily more interested in masculine hobbies nor do they necessarily have more masculine traits. A pick me is a woman who shits on women to make herself seem more desirable to men. She might call women dramatic, say women shouldn't drive/vote, talk about how women who wear make-up up are gross, etc. Finding common ground with men was never the problem. If that's the person you want to date/befriend, have at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:36 AM
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This. There isn't anything that I've seen from enough women that I hate about women. Definitely individuals, maybe even some political spectrums/religious women. Not women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:15 PM
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Idk man, no one is "forced" to date down or settle and attraction is 100% subjective. Maybe you just find your friend more attractive than the women you think he should be with do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:20 PM
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See, if it was more than an emoji I would agree with you. You're a troll. This is too weak lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:30 PM
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I had an ex that told me he accused his exgf of being more attracted to an actor because she was watching a commercial they were in. This feels like that. Deeply insecure. If her looking at someone stresses you out, you probably shouldn't be dating. "😍" isn't flirting. It's an emoji that can be taken a hundred different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:28 PM
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I get the comparison youre trying to make, it just isnt a very good one. A woman wanting to wait to have sex and a man's reasons for wanting to have a less expensive or inexpensive date are going to be different because having sex and spending one on one time with someone are different emotionally and intentionally. Sex is vulnerability. Spending money, not so much. If a man wants to have an inexpensive date, that shouldn't be an issue. If a woman wants to hold off on having sex, that also shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:33 PM
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Men also film themselves in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:31 AM
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I don't equate men not bothering me to "losing my looks" or "being invisible." I don't miss the attention I got back then and it doesn't factor into how i see myself. Besides, I'm married now. I'm never invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:58 AM
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Idk, I got male attention as a kid and as a younger woman and I rarely think about them at all. I dont care about the men who have moved onto younger women. They are now what they were then. More fantasy from men pining for the day women regret not falling to their knees for every unwanted comment. Move on, man. This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:50 AM
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No, I understood you. You "absolutely love" your LTR but you're always willing to leave if you aren't getting what you want lol. I don't assume you are abusive but I also don't believe you're invested in having a LTR. Eventually push will come to shove, in every relationship you find, and you will have your foot halfway out the door ready to find your next "LTR." I don't fault you, trust me. Letting go is super easy and beneficial if you were never very committed in the first place. It is a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:08 AM
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Hard disagree. Men might be able to get away with showing less care at first but every successful relationship I know of, the man is absolutely infatuated with their partner. If the man cares less, nothing stops the free fall of the woman pulling away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:18 AM
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Ditto, republican isnt even an option, it's part of the filter beside married and unhygienic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:12 PM
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Just a personal anecdote but I became engaged to my husband before starting BC and I haven't noticed a change 2 years in 🤷‍♀️. BC affects different people very differently and different types of BC can have wildly different side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:42 PM
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It isn't irrelevant. It's a huge physical and financial risk. The mother will always carry those scars. It isn't usually taken with the assumption that the father is going to be looking for a reason to bail. It isn't about the mother or the kid. It's about the father getting some emotional reprieve at his relationships expense. Talk about this ahead of time or expect it to negatively affect your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:42 AM
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Complements from women make me feel good so why wouldn't I complement other women. There isn't a social need for it, it just makes some people's days brighter. Why do I need to confront or debate someone I just met? I want to have a good interaction with someone I might never see again. If you don't like it, you don't have to participate but i see it as a bonding moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:54 AM
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I assume my partner has the same feelings as I do about our relationship. There is no competition for my affection because I don't entertain other people. If you want to live your life in a teen drama, that's fair but I don't see value in assuming I have to fight for the love of my partner forever. I'm not so bitter that I assume he will cheat on me. If he does, obviously, our relationship will end but there is no competition there, just betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:25 PM
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Bringing old grievances to a new relationship is a good way to kill your relationship early. If you find yourself doubting whether your new partner could stay faithful to you, or you are placing some restriction on your partner because of past pain, you probably aren't ready to start something new. Talking to a counselor or a friend could be helpful. Meditation can be helpful. In the past, I have done a thought replacement technique to help me stop negative thoughts and replace them with positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:03 PM
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I care if their history is negatively affecting the way they interact with the world. Whether that came from their only past partner or 100 partners isn't really the issue. The issue is how they deal with their past. Experience ≠ baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:39 AM
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I had a male coworker tell me about one of these websites too. He said he would find coworkers' pics online and tell them about it at a later date after sharing them with his friends. Some kind of website specific for guys to share the nudes they get from women without permission. It was really gross and weird. I had another male friend show me a nude pic of a woman straight from his messages and I was like, did she say that was chill because if not that's pretty fucked. It wasn't a part of our …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:12 AM
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I expect my parents to split when my siblings leave the house. They wanted to when we were kids. From the outside it will look like the failure of a 30+ year, supposedly healthy marriage but coming from that house, they will both be happier without each other. My mom married very young and I think realized she gave up too much for a family and my father never seemed to care about having a family or close relationships at all tbh. They weren't happy. That's all that is needed for a divorce in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:39 AM
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Before 8 but I can't remember what age I was anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:33 AM
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Right, talking to you about it worked pretty well. Sounds like you're trying to make the exchange and "women don't like sex" so it's going... well for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:54 PM
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🙄 oh ok so women don't like it when the man is selfish AND paranoid? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:46 PM
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Not getting off on that alone isn't not enjoying it. Like I said, a lot is going on when people have sex. If PIV is all you're doing when you're having sex then I can understand why you would think women don't enjoy sex. I wouldn't enjoy eating if I only got unseasoned meat for every meal, eating is just chewing food and swallowing after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:32 PM
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PIV not getting you off doesnt mean you dont enjoy sex. A lot is going on when people have sex. More women complain when PIV is the only aspect of it touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:57 PM
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Whatever floats your boat. To me, fuckboy isn't fuckable, it's someone who's whole personality revolves around being fuckable. He's the dude who shares girls nudes and brags about body count. It's a nah from me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:44 PM
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Yes. I already married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:40 AM
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Isn't Jason Momoa getting divorced? Also Lisa Bonet is far from mid lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:16 PM
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No. I've never noticed it. I've had people press me on having kids and why I don't have them. I just assume they're nosey fucks without enough drama of their own. Do what you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:39 AM
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Why ask a question if you arent going to believe the answer given unless it matches what you want it to be? You want to believe women in general would be okay with being a side piece if the right man came along despite women here telling you differently. You believe men outright despite many men becoming stepdads willingly. What is the point in arguing when you've already decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:07 AM
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I dunno, the ones I have met seem happy enough. Being preoccupied with someone else's drama seems more humiliating. If they're happy, I'm happy. "Betabuxxer cuck" god this sub is full of brain rotten basement dwellers lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:07 AM
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No. Mr. Perfect doesn't call random women "hoes" and doesn't have hypocritical standards for a relationship. He's a fuck-boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:05 AM
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Well, I disagree on both. Neither modern women nor modern men are "mostly bad." PPD should have more quick, non-arguments. This was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:30 AM
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Is there an argument here other than women bad? You sound antisocial. Have you met anyone you like in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:24 AM
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"If you don't have hemorrhoids, why won't you show me your asshole?" Not being ashamed of your history doesn't mean you also want everyone to have it. If you were dating a person would you want every tom dick and harry to know she tried sucking dick as a teenager just because they met her once for a drink? I have nothing to hide from my partner. If he wants to know the details of my sexual history he can have them. I have no reason to give a stranger those details. If sex isn't on the table yet …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:05 PM
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Those were the examples brought in the OP though. Just being honest here, I've had less than a handful of partners and if someone asked me how many sexual partners I've had I still wouldn't answer. It would tell me your values don't align enough with mine. Your "getting to know someone" is a deep dive on sexual history. Mine isn't. Unless it can affect me directly, it probably isn't relevant in the early selection process to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:32 PM
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I would expect questions that could affect other people, "do you have a criminal record." "Do you enjoy (insert drug here)." "Do you have some health issue that i could catch." Etc. I would not expect someone to ask me if I'd done anal and expect me to answer. Yall have some strange views on what is going to affect other people and what you need to know early in a relationship. Do you though lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:14 PM
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I would agree but not understanding boundaries is also a bad trait for a relationship. Everything comes out eventually so unless you plan on marrying them within 6 months, demanding information on their past probably isn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:23 PM
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I still disagree, 1-3 is essentially 'I'm attracted to you" or "I'm not" with the addition of "maybe." Even "maybe" has more meaning than "shes a 6." Rating someone a 1-10 doesn't say you're attracted to them or that you are willing to look for something attractive in them. The 1-10 scale is the womens clothes sizing of attraction ratings. Essentially meaningless and varying from person to person. Attraction isn't objective to anyone but deluded pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:26 PM
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Giving out number ratings is pretty cringy imo. The only opinion I respect is declaring attraction or not. Giving it a number pussyfoots around that. I guess the 1-3 is closest to that but numbering it is still weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:06 AM
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My office had some young guys who watched Andrew tate at work. Bullying was alive and well in the office that day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:10 AM
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In support of? No. Opposed to? Also, no. I dont care where you go if it stops your complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:07 PM
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I agree, if a man can't move past his attraction to his friend, he should step away. Knowing what you need to do to manage your own emotions is mature. It sucks when you lose a friend, especially if it feels like it happens a lot, but the alternative is so much worse, in my opinion. Being friends with the opposite sex means understanding things won't work sometimes. I usually cut guys off for awhile if they seem like they're getting that look in their eye. Hopefully that ends it but sometimes en…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:29 PM
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I dont think "wronged" is the right answer here. Nobody is wronged because another person chose someone or something else. I think you might be overestimating how many men would choose this and how many women would actually care. I think it'd be pretty funny to see how many men give up and go for the sex doll lol. While I don't think anything like this will ever be affordable to the general public, I am curious about the emotional attachment people would take to these machines. I doubt companies…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:45 AM
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This doesn't really seem like the debate bro material, to be honest. I don't actually know what you're debating here. Are you trying to prove i don't see respect as a qualifier for my interest? The question was posed about a significant other so I answered with that in mind. Yes, if I'm dating someone and it seems like they don't have basic respect for me I'm not going to be interested. If you believe you need to earn the respect to not be spit on, that's you. My bar starts a little higher. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:51 PM
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If someone is already my significant other, I would assume respect has already been earned. Of course, respect can be earned and lost. My point stands. I'm not interested in people who aren't respectful toward me. I don't consider it a demand to expect enough respect to not be lied to and cheated on. Leaving is easy enough, and being alone is better than being a coward and a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:36 AM
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Just a cringy way to put it. The post is already "question for women."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:49 PM
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"Female women?" 😬 No, I wouldn't. No point. Not interested in people who don't respect me and I lose respect for people who can't control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:44 PM
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Did this seem like a good thing to you? That whole situation seems like it would be mad uncomfortable. Watching adults get scolded by other adults for no reason grosses me out. No, I would not submit to a rich man and especially not to someone like your uncle. That isn't appealing or respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:33 AM
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I lowered my standards at a low point in my life and met some truly awful people. I found success when I raised my standards. I think by the time I got married my standards were higher than they'd ever been but none of them were stereotypical RP expectations of women's standards. They were mostly opposite traits to the people I had already met.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:18 AM
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This is some crazy fear of getting older lol. This person never said they let themselves go, just that they weren't trying to look younger. A person can be a sexual being without trying to look young. Fearing age is a personal problem. You can age gracefully or you can try to turn back the clock but your age is going to show regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:19 AM
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Ditto on this, was getting super tired of plastic surgery giving everybody the same nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:28 PM
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When I entered a relationship that ended abusive it didn't start that way. He was very loving at first. Then slowly started accusing me of doing things like hitting on other people, finding other people attractive, and cheating. He started becoming physically restrictive, i.e. not letting me leave or forcing me to leave, throwing things at the wall beside me, and using his weight to hold me down and refusing to let me go. Later he started threatening to kill himself when I refused to see him. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:24 PM
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Self improvement is supposed to be for yourself. If you are changing for other people, those changes likely aren't going to stick and you probably aren't going to get the response you are hoping for. Example: body builders who say the most complements they get are from other men rather than women. Nobody is born talented or beautiful or smart. Even people born with a solid deck still need to take care of themselves and seek out struggles or they become grey blobs of people. A smart man knows how…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:36 AM
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No, it isn't very common, for me at least, but it is more memorable. When the most common options are missed or failed connections then the bad moments stand out much more than most other things. I can't even say I'm mad at the guys on there. I think the longer you spend on OLD the more unhappy you become. It just makes it harder for myself and some other women to justify spending their time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:31 AM
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When I was single OLD was overwhelming. It felt like work to slog through people who swiped on you only to realize for way too many reasons that they swiped on you for very different reasons than you swiped on them. Everyone wants something from you. Some people get angry if you don't respond quickly enough. Some conversations fizzle before a connection can be made. Some people are genuinely crazy and will send you dick pics randomly throughout the day or threaten you. Some are there to just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:38 AM
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Are we talking a mass death event? People just vanishing? Either sex never existing to begin with? Do male sperm in sperm banks also disappear? Because the first two would cause mass chaos for either scenario. If human society survived the initial panic, it would be a situation where people suddenly have to decide what their life is for, because the family unit is the reason for a lot of people. Beyond that, it's hard to say. How do people cope with humanity ending in a generation? Women could t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:49 PM
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I don't have any opinion on their worries about something so general. If they have specific knowledge about a specific gyno, I'll take that into consideration but who I take as my doctor is going to be based on my own knowledge, experiences, and comfort, not someone elses. When choosing a doctor im going to assume they all went to school for it so their baseline knowledge should be similar. Whether I continue going to them will be based on what they tell me and how well I think their treatment i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:38 AM
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We can argue about perceived responsibility and where that stems from but I was directly disagreeing with the idea that men are better at making women feel respected than women were at making the men in their lives feel wanted. The "overworked housewife" complaint that many women have directly contradicts that. You can disagree with it as well as I can disagree with men saying their women make them feel unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:30 PM
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🙄 idk how to answer that. It's a pretty dumb question. Who is forcing men to work? The answer is the same. Go listen to some housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:57 PM
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I disagree, the "overworked housewife" is still alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:50 PM
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I've been here longer than I've been married. I'm here to read people's thoughts. I find it entertaining even if I aggressively disagree. Like some others here, I have interest in psychology and sociology. Reading people's opinions and where they come from scratches a mental itch. There is no advice to take from this sub, i value my marriage too much. It's exclusively entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:49 PM
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This is exactly it. Some of us get lucky and make it to adulthood before we start experiencing the worst of some men. Many of us don't. It's a constant back and forth between not wanting to trust men at all and knowing good men are worth finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:43 PM
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A link? You think incels have just a lil link to murderers? Not that they have made manifestos to how much they hate women or literally turned their murdering idols into code in their group? You are being obtuse or you are an incel making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:06 PM
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Sure, I dislike Hitler because he was low value lol not because he orchestrated the murder of so many. I dislike Ed Kemper because he was low value, not because he was a terrible person who did foul, disgusting things. I dislike Elliot Rodger because he couldn't find a girlfriend, not because he planned to attack a house full of women and when he failed at that he went on a rampage to kill other defenseless people. I dislike incels, not because they idolize Elliot Rodger and other incel murderer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:46 PM
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I think calling incels "low value" as a way to explain womens dislike of them is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:35 PM
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I dont think you can argue away someones attraction or lack of attraction. You can ask them to think about why they feel that way but you can't logic your way into that kind of change. You also mentioned making lifestyle changes to help your partner lose weight. I think that is a fantastic idea, everyone should be moving more than they do and setting up good habits is paramount but no one should go into a relationship expecting to change their partner. If you date someone expecting that you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:28 AM
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If we are just going off what we are seeing in our own lives, I see a lot of average young couples. Most of my friends, including myself, are married in our 20s. You wouldn't see my husband and I out much because living is expensive right now and it's harder to justify doing things that cost money very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:39 PM
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You either trust your partner or you don't. You are allowed to set boundaries but no amount of justification or assumptions are going to make these rules less controlling. Do you date people you don't trust or do you not trust any women not to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:45 AM
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I like someone who doesn't need me to be happy but still chooses to spend their time with me. They choose to be around me because they enjoy being around me, not because they are clingy or co-dependent. I dont think that goes against my best interest because my best interest is an equal who can work without my hand in theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:01 AM
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Does it stop being a rejection because it's coming from an insecure man? You're describing a man with a height complex that makes him act against his own feelings and im describing someone with a preference for women close to his height or shorter than him. The end result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:54 PM
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My guy, I have been told directly that I'm too tall for them. I've been told I'm lying about my height, like it was some challenge to his own. I've been told it would be weird to date a taller woman. I've been called man-ish for my height. None of that really matters, I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship with someone who isn't interest in me but my height was the directly stated problem many times. A non-insignificant number of men do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:32 PM
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Being tall is definitely an issue to many men. It isnt just being rejected for it but the unsolicited comments like my height is a challenge are unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:41 PM
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I have never personally met a man interested in that sort of thing so i have no conception of a man who would want that outside of what TV shows. The men on tv are not worth competing over even if i had that sort of motivation in the first place. Being alone is a very nice option i would choose over competing for a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:41 PM
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Troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:10 AM
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I'm not in the dating market anymore but while i was single these were my dealbreakers Unempathetic, pushy, rude, vocally insecure about their body, politically conservative Unclean or hyperfocused on their looks Jobless without reason or holding some sketchy alternative job Party-er, does a lot of drugs, has a legally risky lifestyle, "i don't read", doesn't try new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:41 PM
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If my husband had introduced that rule we would not have lasted. If he tried to introduce it now, we would very quickly need couples counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:15 PM
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Idk, I've had men make a lot of disgusting comments about what they like or dont like about me, both for things i can change and things i can't. Women either compliment me or don't say anything in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:42 AM
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Expectations of judgement maybe. My speaking skills go out the window when i have to give a speech because the conscious knowledge of juddgement and wanting to do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:24 AM
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I agree, but the question was about appearance and mens judgement of it. Besides, i have never felt judged by women the way i have from men. The expectations of each in public are very different based on how ive decided to present myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:54 AM
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Yes and no. I do feel judged on my appearance by men. How i cut my hair, my choice to wear makeup or not, the way i talk, in my opinion, all play a part in how men feel about me. I don't feel pressure though because I'm not perticularly interested in making men like me and the less men looking at me, in general, the more comfortable i am. When i was younger i spent a little more time trying to make myself a certain way to alleviate some of the discomfort but i am much more comfortable in who i a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:06 AM
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You lied about your name and you dont know if thats unsustainable? My god man, get a grip. Eventually, one, or many, of your lies is going to come out and then what? You gonna lie some more and see if she still buys it? Or tell the truth and find out too late that this girl liked the way you looked and presented yourself but was turned away by your unnecessary lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:14 PM
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It isn't illegal to be a coward. Doubt youre a sufficient parent if you have time to have other relationships though. If you start cheating, is she in the clear to start as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:34 AM
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Another option, hear me out here, get a divorce. Buck up, grow a spine, and leave. Making excuses for your lack of control over yourself is weak. Alternatively, If you're such a coward that you'll create rules that excuse you stepping out on your wife and family, let her know ahead of time so she can get a full picture of the person she is potentially starting a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:20 AM
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Down the line? There is no lack of sexual attraction at this point. It wasnt an issue before because it developed as our relationship developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:27 PM
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For me, sexual attraction came after personal attraction. I knew them and liked who they were and then started seeing them sexually. Falling in love came after all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:20 AM
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Yes i have gradually fallen for a man and no sexual attraction was not there to begin with, it developed as i got closer to him and led to me marrying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:07 AM
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You don't do anything but show up and look pretty? What do you do on the date?? What a genuinely strange thing to say about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:44 AM
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Who cares about her a past or her reasons. She set a boundary. He either will wait or will leave. Why do we need all this "well she did this before" nonsense. I used to drink and party a lot. I don't now and have no interest in drinking like i used to do. If my partner has an issue with that they will either figure it out or leave. Same with this guy, she made her intent clear. Get used to waiting or bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:26 PM
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You're simplifying a societal problem that has been growing in every first world country for decades. Times have changed. Where, in my mothers dating age, she had a fairly limited pool of potential mates who were often enough, raised in similar households to hers. Today we have a near unlimited reach to meet people. Many with different values or perhaps lacking values. Dating is harder. People are overworked and underpaid. Time is limited. If a bad date takes up the limited time you have to enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:32 PM
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Being attractive isn't the end-all be-all. Some women will only care about looks. Many women are also looking for some kind of connection other than similar prettiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:51 PM
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No one is forcing anyone to get married or even stay in a relationship if their long term plans aren't compatible. What kind of argument is this? I wouldn't date a man who required i give up my name because i see it as a silly tradition. If he also wants to break up, great!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:20 AM
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Is a family less destroyed if the woman doesn't leave the dead marriage? My parents stayed together despite my mother being finished with my fathers cheating and familial neglect and i havent spoken to anyone in my family in months. My best friends mom left her husband because he was abusive. Would the family have been less broken if she had stayed? You're reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:44 PM
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Thats a pretty silly thing to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:25 PM
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Red pill men are narcissists. Just let him talk and he'll give it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:43 PM
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It kind of depends on who you ask but simp means showing excessive feelings or submissiveness toward someone who doesnt reciprocate. But to guys who just scream it at any dude interacting with any chick it means "I'm very jealous that you are able to talk to women, that's very hard for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:36 AM
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So youre mean to people and are upset that you're having bad experiences...?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:30 AM
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You are right, being stoic does not mean emotionless, nor did i say it did. That being said, i did not describe the situation you're thinking of. This idea of a man crying over nothing, being childish and such. I did not tell you this situation, you created it. You do not seem in control of your emotions when just the thought of someone else doing something that affects you not at all sends you into a rant about your disgust and hate of that act. I gave you a throw away comment about an emotion …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:30 AM
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Is this that "unbridled and unrestrained" you were talking about? That's a lot of emotions from someone who claims to follow stoicism. Anger and disgust are pretty severe emotions, you know. Somehow you picked all that up from me just mentioning crying. If this is it then no, I'm not interested in someone who becomes emotional at the slightest hint of attention from me. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:10 AM
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Wow. That is alot. To have so much disgust for someone expressing a distinctly human emotion is pretty weird. Don't really have any further thoughts on any of that. Pretty weird and unhealthy reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:52 PM
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So I'm not wrong, you would see something like crying as unbridled and unrestrained where i would not. Im not sure if you meant for the rest of what you said to have any relevance to my comment. I'm glad you have yourself figured out at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:07 PM
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I don't know how to answer that. Your definition of "unbridled and unrestrained" as a mgtow is probably different from mine. I have no problem with emotions. To the degree that i appreciate restraint in that is harder to describe. I dont appreciate outbursts, i do appreciate open thoughtful conversations on feelings. Your words "at your slightest hint" makes it seem like you're talking about love bombing in new relationship. If someone is confessing love when i smile at them on our first date th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:33 PM
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Is there a middle? I'm not interested in a man who doesn't show interest and I'm also not very interested in a perpetual flirt. If he's interested in me, I'd like to see that without also having to worry that he's showing every woman that crosses his path similar attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:07 PM
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Dunno about this one. Ive seen dudes get called simp for mutual flirting. Dude was leading a girl on his skateboard at a party and got called a simp by another dude. I can only really see this backfiring and making men more miserable in general imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:54 PM
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Wow, "last man on earth" is starting to become appealing to you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:01 PM
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Honesty, love, similar values and interests. Someone i can spend time doing nothing with and not feel like my time was wasted. Are you looking for specifics or is this another "do women really want love" question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:07 PM
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Most women don't use dating apps considering the male to female ratio but go off ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:08 AM
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The thing about being average is that most people are. No one is safe from feeling lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:32 AM
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Men outnumber women like 3 to 1 on dating apps. Ive seen how my own (male) friends swipe on every single woman and then later complain because he accidentally swiped on some unattractive chicks who are trying to talk to him. Im not interested in the experiment because youre right. Attractive women get exponentially more swipes than dudes. And most of those matches will be awful. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:34 AM
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"Women in high school will be dating seniors when they are freshmen, 25 years olds when they are 16-18 and nobody will bat an eye." Dont know about that one. Seniors got a sideways look at least. And 25 year olds dating kids were never cool. The rest really is preference. I dont know a woman who liked shaved dudes who doesn't also shave herself. Different people like different things. You cant get upset when women give different answers rather than answering as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:39 PM
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Story time. I dated a 5'6" guy. He sucked. We broke up because he liked to date multiple people at once. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:45 AM
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I was going to write something similar but you pretty much pegged my own thoughts. As a young woman it was upsetting and made me want to avoid men. As an adult it's mostly sad. Men need better than trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:40 AM
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How do i feel about other women living their lives in a way that doesnt affect me? I dont. Why would i? I have my own life to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:41 PM
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Not to be rude, if both people are enjoying the sex and neither has been led to believe the relationship is anything more than that, why would you describe it as being used?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:28 AM
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This has been asked before. What do you mean "used" for sex? Is the sex unenjoyable? Are they selfish? Because if im enjoying it im not being used. That being said, the second option is obviously better. I would repeat some of the questions others have asked, maybe someone might say they aren't on my level of attractiveness but does that mean im unattracted to him? I don't really get the 1-10 rating scale guys get so into and im attracted to a lot of different things about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:58 AM
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As soon as i was walking around on my own i was getting some kind of attention from men. When i was 8-9 years old one of the first comments i remember was men commenting on my lips. When i was 11 a man in a wheelchair told me his dick still worked if i was interested. A car full of men asked my friend and i to get in and then tried to force my friend in when we refused. There were more aggressive moments but the majority were just uncomfortable comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:56 AM
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The same? Maybe not, i dont really have a good perspective of how men enjoy sex. I know that i enjoy it and i am a woman 🤷‍♀️ i dont enjoy every sexual encounter of course. I think its easier for women to get hurt during sex but in general its a fun time waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:43 AM
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Looks like a troll post. Weird, overasked incel question. How do relationships work for you op?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:18 AM
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No, I'm human. The higher you put someone above you the further they have to fall, and they will. I appreciate my partner loving me and wanting to see me more than others but when they talk about me like im perfect or above them it feels like a lie that will eventually be exposed. It has to be pretty extreme to be break up worthy but i definitely dont appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:48 PM
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Im not friends with people who shit talk my partner. I shut that down or we arent talking anymore. I dont date people i think are ugly. My friends might not be attracted but if i am thats all that matters. I dont know how else to answer this question. My physical requirements are pretty lenient imo so it has never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:15 PM
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Sort of. If he's proud of it i think its weird. If he mentions it offhandedly i care much less. It would lead to the much more important discussion of protection and sexual health. A lot of partners bothers me less if i know they've at least been smart about it and test often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:42 PM
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F 27, lost it at 21 to my boyfriend at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:00 AM
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Beauty is subjective. My husband isnt his own type but i am attracted to him. You're right though, i probably wouldnt be with him if i thought he was ugly. That would be a pretty cruel marriage. What i dont understand is why that matters? Its like you think if someone is attracted to a guy most people are and if someone isnt attracted to a guy no one is. Guys on the internet have a very strange view of ugly too. They demean pictures of other guys and point out flaws i can't see. My husband could…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:12 PM
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My type is close to my height, i have dated men much shorter but that isnt the majority for me. And it might suprise you to hear that i have also been turned down for my height. Being a tall woman means some men take my height as a challenge to their confidence. Tall dark and handsome is another incredibly vague type that some amount of women say they want. If you ask each of those women what that means they wont give you the same answer because different people want different things. Is dark a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:13 PM
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This is what I've been trying to say. They know what most women want: nice, funny, smart, but the answers are boring and vague and when they don't fit into someones standards they think she is lying. The truth is that the vague answers that most women want are the base line. They didnt enter my description because it would be pointless to say i want someone nice. My answers for the sort of person i like are different from other peoples answers even at this level of vagueness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:05 PM
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The mass opinion would be even more vague like the things you hear: nice, funny, smart. The reason youre hearing my opinion as different is because you are asking an individual. My individual opinion is different from other womens and im sure the girl youre soft on has a different opinion when you ask her specifics. I'm not trying to give an opinion representative of most women because you already have that: nice, funny, smart. I have dated men that were 5+ inches shorter. That just isnt the maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:50 PM
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He isnt perfect, he doesnt even fit every standard i set. Im not describing what i think im attracted to based on him, im describing my history because it has some physically similar men. What am i virtue signaling? I didn't marry a gigachad or describe my husband as ugly to gain favor. He just has traits that i like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:42 PM
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I'm not going to answer. I like to keep my details less open. It is more athletic, but athleticism isn't the job itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:23 AM
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Do sales people need to maintain fitness?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:10 AM
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Thank you for explaining my attraction back to me? I'll make sure to let my husband know. "Why would they go for the latter?" Because giga chad doesnt exist and looks arent the end all be all of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:10 AM
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Maybe not. I'm not in the average career field. Most men i meet are, if not in that range, close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:51 AM
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I'm around 6 foot so within 2 inches of that. Uh i cant find a picture of what it would look like, also different men hold weight differently, but something in the range but in the range of 15-18% body fat and able to run a mile in 10 or less minutes. I would compare it to my own level of fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:32 AM
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There it is. I think a lot of guys think asking what "most" girls like will lead them to getting the girl they want instead of, say, figuring out what that girl wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah? How's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:42 AM
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Why would anyone? Men in this sub have a "dont ask a fish how to catch a fish" outlook. Physically, im attracted to men around my height with glasses, dark hair and a moderately fit frame. Personally I'm attracted to someone who can display their intelligence without using it to talk down to me and someone who i can carry a long conversation with. Among a million more tiny details like how they smell and how they carry themselves. Its really easy to lose attraction as well. Get too angry or too …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:26 AM
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Do you want a real answer or are you going to call me a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:14 AM
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Well both are disrespect and im leaving regardless but 1 would probably hurt more. Its effort. He's thinking about her enough to get her gifts and go on dates. Hes basically already dating someone else. The second one is stupid. Both would be easy to leave behind but the first would sting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:46 PM
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Nah, i like to give a few months to a year to being alone after a relationship ends anyway. No point in putting someone on hold for that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:33 PM
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A guy not wanting to do something fairly nonintrusive and normal might lead to a question. Not me assuming he didnt like me. If we cant talk about it or we come to an impass on what each of us want it might mean leaving the relationship behind. Some men fake love to get sex. I lived with an ex for over a year only for him to tell me he cheated because he didnt see our relationship as real. Some people are really shitty and will lie to you. I dont think there is any fixing it beyond looking for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:33 AM
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Depends on the situation. Does he need to work his way up to it? Is he taking his time with getting close? None of those bother me. If i thought he respected/liked me less or was more attached to his ex still i would take issue. I like equal partnerships whith a lot of communication. If we arent on the same page or there is drastic differences in the give and take it wont work. Communications conquers everything. Either it allows us to get on the same page or it makes getting over him all the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:30 AM
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I don't think about his previous partners at all. I work with someone my partner briefly dated, i think about it not at all. My needs are different from hers and so long as he's treating me the way i need i dont really care what he did for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:34 PM
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Sexual contact for gratification with another person. If i only fuck other girls im not going to call myself a virgin because some christian is trying to define virginity. Virginity is more of a state of mind anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:51 PM
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I love coffee/walking dates. Once i went tea shop hopping with a date. We talked for hours and dated for years. Hands down still my favorite first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:35 AM
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Why would you date someone you didnt like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:48 PM
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I think they mean "nice" is too simple. "Nice" is like describing your preferred vehicle as motorized. Can it be a car or a bike? Does it have passenger space? Is it manual or automatic? Those are the necessary details.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:10 PM
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A pencil sharpened too often becomes useless was my favorite response
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:58 AM
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I don't think the 80/20 rule works in most cases outside internet guys heads. The women in my life who i know spend at least some time resenting their husbands had reason to. My mother and grandmother are/were religious women. They wanted big families. My grandmother had less options and freedoms in her time. The marriage drove her to depression and the things my grandfather put his kids through pushed them far away. He was a good grandfather to us though. My mother had more options but things d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:57 AM
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Boxing people is going to make you more miserable than you already are. Of course physical attraction carries some importance but what women find attractive differs pretty drastically. And personality is important unless the only goal is to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:42 AM
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What? I didnt assume anything about their dating abilities, that'd be kinda weird. If we broke up im sure he'd do fine, he's a lovely person. He found me and i think he's great. Why would i assume no one else would?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:52 PM
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No, i think most people, to some extent, are looking for beauty and connection. How anyone defines that or how much anyone wants is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:20 PM
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What? Women cant grow now? "if you change your mind as an adult youre a liar" What a strange idea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:54 AM
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Beats me, i have a pretty good idea of what im attracted to, which is a lot of things. My husband is funny and outgoing. My ex, my last longest relationship, was very outdoorsy and not interested in entertaining at parties. Theyre very different in appearance as well. The one similarity is they both have glasses. Maybe thats the X factor 😲
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:19 PM
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Being single is lovely. I miss it sometimes. Not enough to hurt the man i love by leaving but i get all my needs filled whether im in a relationship or not. Being with someone means i get to share my time with someone i care deeply about, being single means i have no strings keeping me from being wild with my time and leaving the country at the drop of a hat. Both have positives and negatives for me. I truly enjoy both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:37 PM
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Depends on what you mean by "good looking." When i was younger i considered dating a man i thought was 30, 8 or 9 years older than me. 30 was pushing it for me but he was attractive and fit. Had experience in a career field i was very interested in. Learned he was 50 and had kids my age and the attraction died there. Probably some. Better question is how would the quality of the relationships that they manage to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:36 AM
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No, wouldnt trust their intentions. I'd constantly be wondering if they were lying and thinking I'm below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:46 AM
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I think some wealthier women who have money will try to stave off the signs of aging with plastic surgery. I havent met these women but i know they exist. My own family seems to deal with aging like any normal person. I myself enjoy it to some extent. I'll apply lotion to take care of myself but I'm closing in on 30 and its a relaxing experience. I'll stay pretty in my soul. To answer your question, I'd say the vast majority have no crisis with beauty.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 04:38 AM
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Neither. I would want to fuck someone who saw me as i saw them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:07 PM
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Who is "we"?
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 12:21 AM
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Depends, if he is showing interest in them its more similar to finding out someone is in a committed relationship. He stops being an option. If he's getting attention and not reciprocating it wouldnt make him more attractive but it would make me curious enough to talk to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:43 PM
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Women arent a resource, a woman dating someone else doesnt deprive you of her. And i dont know what high school you went to where the popular guys didnt largely date popular girls. I think youre seeing through your bias. My friend group dated each other and other weirdos around the same social standing.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 05:12 AM
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Where did you get that idea?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 03:20 AM
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Setting aside the money sex workers would get from the interaction, I've never heard that women want incels to not have sex. I know arguments have been made about violent misogynists who might also consider thamselves incels. Is there a reason you think women want incels to stay incels?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 12:58 AM
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That's cool and all but I'm more worried about other social and economic ills and the ever increasing wedge driving americans further apart. Not dating 30+ sounds very relaxing comparatively haha. Besides, other decades and centuries have been much worse for women and men have always found reasons to dislike/hate women. We're in a time when women have more freedom and ability to choose than ever and crimes against women are being seen now. I think we'll all manage somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:01 PM
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Crying doesn't make me think less of a man. My bf has cried over his year+ long travel that he has to leave me for. Why would i think less of him. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:54 PM
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Like attracts like. If you act like a bad person you're going to attract a bad relationship. If your asking if anyone would want what we had id say no. I didnt want what we had. The only thing about him i can say i look for now is his honesty. The rest was corrosive and incredibly unhealthy and something i wanted because i wanted to take back control of my own hurt. We didn't have a normal relationship. We were taking out our pain on each other. Only one of us managed to move on from it. He's st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:05 AM
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I valued that relationship more than my previous two at the time because he was honest about it from the start. My previous two boyfriends cheated on me and the relationship ended with them essentially telling me they didnt give a shit about me. It hurt. Having this guy say it from the start along with his expression of attraction was an honesty i hadn't felt before. I just wanted someone to be real with me and he was. Looking back now i see how bad of a thing it was, it was no more healthy than…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:56 AM
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The one time i had a relationship with a "bad boy" i was pretty messed up emotionally. I knew he didnt care about me and i could leave without upsetting him. Him not caring about me was what made me interested in him. It was more honest than the 2 year relationship i had just gotten out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:42 AM
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I definitely wouldn't say it's unworkable! My parents have a 10 year age difference and they've been together for near 4 decades. I was only disagreeing with this idea that most women are attracted to specifically men that look older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:32 PM
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When i was just out of high school i dated guys 3-5 years older because i thought they were more mature than my cohorts. At my age now i like to date within a year or two of my own age. The only time i considered dating someone i thought was around 6-8 years older then me was a man that looked very young for his life experiences and had similar interests to me. I'm not interested in men that look much older than me. I know women that are interested in older men but those men tend to be celebriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:10 PM
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I don't know many women who did "shit tests" who weren't also drama machines. If you think she's trying to manipulate you, you should already have a foot out the door. Better to be alone than with someone who is intentionally trying to rile you up or manipulate you. But i also think the number of women who genuinely "shit test", not asking questions to see how compatable you both are, is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:53 PM
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So do it. A lot of famous people already do. Kanye comes to mind. I think Robert Downey Jr wears them too. Wear what makes you happy and confident. Just be careful, rolling your ankle hurts a lot more when your foot is further from the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:21 PM
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You dont make it sound like you enjoy the time you spend with your girl? Why are you with someone you don't enjoy being with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:42 PM
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Imagine telling women they had to become interesting and confident to get sex, we'd be in HUGE trouble. Insinuating women aren't interesting OR confident. When most of this sub virtue signals about wanting interesting women while also saying they don't give a shit about women's interests or schooling 🙄 Women are in every hobby field. Ive snowboarded with my friends and coworkers and taken video game recommendations from my coworkers wives. If you think women aren't interesting you aren't looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:46 PM
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I almost hope you're right though. A larper is a more comforting thought than a woman who is a genuine "pick me" 🙄 i think she wants free advertisement for her lame pick-me sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:37 AM
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Yeah, i kinda figured. That or someone who is bringing their fetish to a debate sub. Looking at their post history makes it seem like the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:56 PM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:38 AM
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Why do you talk about other women so aggressively?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:33 AM
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What a strange response. Do you have friends who are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:24 AM
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Secret homosexual feelings for friends? Maybe acquaintances, ive never been able to make friends with someone i had feelings for. And fluid sexuality doesn't necessarily mean they want to have relationships with women or that their sexual feelings for women are stronger than their feelings toward men. Many people, men and women, want to have kids of their own. That would put at least some of those more fluid individuals off homosexual relationships. That isn't to say that social pressure has not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:08 AM
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Many women aren't attracted to other women. And there are many many more straight men than there are gay women so bisexual women might have an easier time finding a man to date than a woman in many areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:46 AM
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Sure, i guess if you don't want or need another person, dating is pointless. Why would you date if you didnt want or be in need of a partner. The same could be said about friends though. Or any relationship. And of course people don't really get that, spinsters have been getting a bad rep forever for putting off relationships for their work. I dont think hook-up culture is a good example of this though. These people are clearly in need of some human relationship, or else they would just take car…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:15 AM
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Or the physical risk. Besides, vibrators have a higher rate of getting women off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:09 PM
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Ive been sexualized my whole life. As long as i can remember and some before then. When some men say there will be a time when no man wants me i get a little happy, though i know it isn't true. Old women have also struggled with unwanted sexualization. Sexualization of my own body is almost ignorable at this point, when i see the sexualization of everything from cartoons for children to real life young girls, i don't know, i just feel sad. Like it's inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:10 PM
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20 y/o 12 y/o N/a too young to remember 21 y/o 22 y/o I think being older allowed me more freedom, perspective and life experience in my relationships. This has upsides and downsides. I think, because i waited so long to have a serious relationship, i was inept at romance and men. I didn't notice the red flags and the men were in a better position to hurt me. I think everything happened when it was supposed to. I wish i hadn't dated as a preteen, i wasn't really ready at that point. I think any …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:04 PM
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Usually? Maybe, i won't give what is the usual reason for people because i wouldn't know. And i agree, if you feel like breaking up over your partner not being into a sex act that is acceptable. I think its silly and comparing your sex life to that of their ex is wildly strange and unacceptable to -me- but everyone has their thing. Do what you gotta do. People are irrational, like i said, and having a new partner doesn't erase bad experiences. Theres a chance they'll come around to wanting to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:19 AM
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😂 your friend will have to let me in on the secret, maybe they have better ice cream recommendations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:09 AM
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I stopped doing that around 11 or 12 so 3-4 years is about how long it took. It's actually a little disappointing tbh. I can't even bring myself to finish a little mcflurry cup. I get 3 bites in and tap out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:59 AM
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If i still actively enjoy it, the only reasons i wouldn't still be doing it are related to the person i'm with. Do they not like it? Maybe it's too painful with this person. If i don't like it, i make it obvious that i don't. Why has never been important. I do think it's important to be sexually compatable. If you aren't getting your needs met it is acceptable to leave. But this anger at someone who may have grown out of liking certain things or doesn't enjoy the prep time for certain acts anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:56 AM
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I mean, yeah definitely. Sexual compatability is important. Shop around. All I'm arguing is that being angry that someone doesn't want to do certain positions anymore is silly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:17 AM
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Its not like doggy is the only position, i promise, there are many other positions available. And sure, maybe menopause but i havent hit that yet so not for me. Negative associations, change in body weight, realizing that you were enduring something you didnt actually enjoy for someone elses sake. Lots of reasons someone might not want to do one position or another 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:01 AM
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I dont and have never found it necessary to do anything sexual. I fuck to enjoy myself and please my partner. Those go hand in hand. If I'm not enjoying it, im not doing it. If they dont enjoy it, i wouldnt think of pushing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:53 AM
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That was more civil a response than i expected, thank you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:00 AM
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I used to love ice cream -a lot-. Like bowls filled past the brim every night loved. These days i can't eat more than a few bites without being tired and grossed out by it. You'd think that maybe a persons tastes on what happens to their body might change as easily if not easier. Besides, different dicks don't feel as good for certain positions 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:49 PM
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None of my cheating exes did it through social media. And social media has other uses than chasing tail some of my friends have their most social media as their most reliable contact method. Social media isn't really the issue here, lack of morals is imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:26 AM
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Red pill men and a lot of men on this sub have a habit of both exagerating and being completely serious about their ideas of what women have and are able to do. Unlimited suitors, constant free meals and money from anyone they want, everyone is so nice to you? To say its entitled to dispute another crazy talking point dudes like to throw out to make womens lives sound so great is really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:00 PM
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Ive had friends swipe right on everyone from friends exes to men because they swipe so fast. Many men arent choosing on OLD. Theyre pressing randomizer on a potential lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:20 AM
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I was gonna reply to op but yours was basically the exact same so i stopped. I will add that "unlimited suitors" is an overreach for the average woman. Most women dont have circles that large and most men have some standard they are trying to fill for themselves that not every woman fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:45 AM
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I disagree with these ideas. I think, as a woman, the gap comes from ease of orgasm. Mens orgasms can occur through penetration while significantly less women can orgasm through penetration compared to labia or clitoral orgasm. This means forplay is needed. Many men are unwilling to do forplay. I was attracted to every person i slept with. Many of them had larger than average dicks. Still didnt orgasm during penetration most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:24 AM
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Dating as a kid sucked. Nobody knows boundries. Boys wanna make excuses and beg to get their dick wet. You get a reputation if you date the wrong person or if someone decides to spread a rumor. As an adult, everybodies business is their own. You're allowed to be single and fuck around or marry someone in the first 3 months of knowing them. While many adult men also date to get their dick wet, adults usually also have priorities and the adult perspective on life that makes it harder to send their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:16 PM
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Black pigeon speaks
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 04:48 AM
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Black pills are for cowards. Failing at social interaction is very human. Everyone but the very rich experience it. Your inability to see that only speaks to how walled off you are. Of course someone who accepts something as sad as the blackpill would be happy at anothers supposed unhappiness. Get some sun guy. It'll make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:20 PM
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Listen man, all the years i spent failing at flirting with men and women would say otherwise. Call me a sociopath all you want, expecting random women to bend to your will because you're having a hard time makes you a creep :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:12 PM
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I acknowledge that flirting is hard. It isn't easy for anyone, men and women. I don't respect this idea that it's random women who are responsible for fixing it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:07 PM
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"Flirt with me or you're an unempathetic sociopath!" Even being kind to a man i don't know can be a mistake. I'm not leading a guy on for some half thought out idea of "teaching him."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:03 PM
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Move that goal post!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:28 PM
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Maybe it's possible that these normally chill dudes don't know how to be around people they are attracted to. I have friends back in my home state that, when i met them, drunk glared at me and made bets on who would get to sleep with me. After roasting them into the ground they started treating me normally. I like them, they aren't unattractive but they sucked to be around when i met them. I still meet men like that who are well liked by their friends but downright insulting to myself and my fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:53 PM
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Self esteem issues start for girls before they enter the dating world or know what men want from them. Being compared and told there are wrong ways to look do a lot to mess with a little girls head. It has much less to do with men and a lot more to do with the culture a girl grows up in. But being sexualized young, by older men, definitely doesn't help the mental state though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:20 AM
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You keep saying "women" in monolith terms. What my mother wanted out of a husband is not what i want and my friends also have different ideas about what they want out of a relationship. Average and "high tier" are as subjective as beauty. Most people want partners with matching interests who are also attractive to them. This doesn't necessitate a traditionalist. I date nontraditional people and am also very nontraditional. I am not settling, I'm finding what im looking for. I would be settling f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:05 PM
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Can i ask what it is with you and telling disagreeing women to get a dog? You've done it in nearly all of your comments, even where it makes less sense to be repeating yourself. Is having a relationship with a man comparable to having a dog in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:17 PM
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Not sure why you keep on with the dog thing, I'm getting a dog lol happy? I also have a loving relationship with an amazing man that does his part to keep out household moving properly. Did i insult you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:37 PM
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I think it's entirely subjective that a traditional man would be high tier. My worst case scenario would be a controlling partner. I am who i am, the people i date know off the bat and i don't let them forget. I want a partner, not a breadwinner. But again, i don't need a reason to get a dog, dogs are prizes all on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:22 PM
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I haven't and won't settle but I'm also more of a serial monogamous. I work too hard for someone else to expect me to handle all the housekeeping. A dog is always a nice addition to the house though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:08 PM
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Nothing is a given expectation. You get into a relationship and, if you are any good at communication, state your expectations. Someone should only be surprised if their partner says they want one thing and changes their mind. It doesn't matter if they're prettier or richer or god in the flesh, if they don't communicate what they want, they can't expect their partner to just fall in line. I would be surprised if i started dating someone who i saw as an equal and they just expected me to agree th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:30 PM
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Genuinely nice men are great but nice isnt the only trait i look for in a partner. I dont understand why men seem to think "nice" should be your defining feature. Most people are well mannered and will do the basics for the people they want to keep around them. I like a whole host of traits and if someone thinks i should date another person because they are "nice" it means they know literally nothing else that i would like in another person. Nice is basic, i expect it out of everyone i spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:42 AM
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What? How is this even a debate topic? This is so wildly out of touch I'd question if you were a bot taking topics from incel and mgtow sites to form a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:09 AM
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When people talk about vulnerability and being honest with their partner, they are not usually talking about every excruciating detail. Saying "as if anyone's truly honest with their partner" when you know youre talking about an overexageration is dishonest to the argument imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:57 AM
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Why would you ask a question you didnt want the answer to? Having boundries in a relationship is normal, neither i nor my partners (present and past) have been very interested in each others past relationships but if i see an old pic of a previous gf and ask what she was like, none have ever refused to tell me. Nor would i refuse the same question. Youre allowed to be vulnerable, youre also allowed to talk about what topics make you uncomfortable, say like previous sex history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:49 AM
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It's sort of the name for the concept of "I'm not like other girls." Women or girls who differentiate themselves by saying "im not like -insert some stereotype of women shown in the media." In my younger years it was the pretty but dumb as rocks girl. Shown a lot in tv shows and movies but no girl wanted to be seen as dumb. Nowadays it seems like it is a lot of "im not like other girls. I dont -insert some toxic trait assigned to women"
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 05:20 AM
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The process is pretty tiring. If it even gets to the point of dating. I used to give myself 2 weeks on a dating site before becoming sick of it and deleting it again. Between spending a few hours with someone who sucks and spending it alone or with friends, alone or with friends often wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:35 AM
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Changing mental state, changing preferences, changing dick. All are integral to decision making regarding sex. All are 100% more to do with me than the person I'm with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:11 PM
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White men and women have an easier time (according to online dating studies). Black women and asian men have a harder time. I don't use dating apps and havent actively dated in years so i don't have a personal opinion. https://www.diversityinc.com/race-online-dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:51 AM
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Based off of one and two, relationships can go ahead and die (aside from my happy, functioning relationship of course). I'd rather be working and alone than barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:53 AM
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While i agree OLD is awful and i feel sorry for anyone who thinks it is a good way to find a long term partner, i absolutely disagree with your thoughts on women. It might be your leaning to want someone to provide for you, i have very opposite feelings and would find a partner that didn't let me pay frustrating. Ive had luck dating friends of friends. Building a social network and finding someone you connect with that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:10 AM
3

I don't think high value is objective if cheating is obligatory to some. I would rather be alone than in a relationship where my partner not only cheats but tries to justify his cheating like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:34 PM
1

I stated the phrase not because im trying to prove it's true but because i know its going to be true and im not stressed about it. I have a large number of friends, enough to not be worried about why someone might not be interested in spending time with me. There are a lot of reasons someone might not like you, excluding lack of charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:09 PM
1

I wouldn't consider it not a charasmatic trait. Some people will like you and some just won't. I'm too old to be making extreme, unnecessary changes for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:49 PM
7

If you consider charisma an act i can see why you'd be exahusted playing it up around people. I wouldnt consider my charisma an act. People like me or they don't. Charisma is what tends to pull people in, the way you walk and talk. Chances are if she's enjoying your charisma, youre enjoying hers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:57 PM
12

You see your own charisma, an aspect of your personality, as a shallow thing to be attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:19 AM
1

That doesn't make much sense to point out. White men are also more likely to be murdered by other white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:03 PM
27

Not to be that guy but we do talk about male murder victims. BLM has a majority of men being talked about and mourned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:41 AM
10

First problem, as a woman i dont have a numerical rating i give anyone and public transport is not the place to be looking around. Its public shower rules, avoid eye contact. Edit: overall, not very realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:22 AM
7

Content? No. Sex work is dangerous and, in most of the world, has no safeguards for injury and long term effects nor an "after sex work" plan for women. I can get an adolescent counceling if they make it clear that is what they want but if an adult child got into it i would have nothing but worry and a shoulder for them to lean on. Edit: I also don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:16 AM
14

Definitely not ready. Finances aren't in order, mentality isnt in order, haven't met a guy worth risking the physical and mental struggles of pregnancy and with an anchor attaching you to that other parent resulting. I was 100% not ready as a 20 year old. My mother showed me what happened when you had kids before being ready. She's still dealing with that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:19 AM
40

I dont think i have questions about men in general. I think most of my questions would be to specific people. I think "men" is too broad a group of people to get meaningful group answers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:56 PM
3

Everyone gets oppressed by society to some extent but i dont think the criticism is that noticeable. Hugh Hefner was single most of his life and was revered by many men. Keanu Reeves was also single for a very long time without any criticism. The terms you brought up tend to young, manipulative men, not necessarily promiscuous. As far as cougers go, the jokes levied at older women dating younger men far outweigh the "you go girl" compliments as far as I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:43 AM
1

No, i appreciate my guy opening up. He has cried around me. It gives me a better idea about what affects him and where his limits are. Weakness like severe insecurity and trust issues are problems for me depending on how he shows them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:16 PM
3

No, i realized he was fucking with me one of the times he was threatening to kill himself and ghosted him immediately (he did it through call or text). Blocked on everything. He created a new account a few months later to send me a novel apology and i refused to respond. My life is better if he has no involvement in it whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:22 PM
20

Wasnt worth it. It didnt last long (only about 6 months) but i would give anything to be the person i was before i met him. He gave me a lot of anxiety and the memory of threats and pictures of handfulls of pills he threatened to take. He called me a cheater while he cheated on me. Fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:43 AM
1

Some women do go after certain aspects of a "mean" man. Trump has a "successful" name and business so he draws in people who want his money or ability to provide a wealthy lifestyle. I doubt very much that anyone is dating a mean person because they are mean. They usually have some other personality trait that they value more than kindness. I value kindness as a baseline trait because i am comfortable living alone until someone with the right attributes comes along, other peoples money has no wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:08 AM
1

Please dont tell me what i want. I'm actually very good at determining that for myself. Ive had a lot of luck meeting and attracting men that meet my standards very well, including the man I'm with now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:12 AM
3

I mean, I'm literally telling you they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:18 PM
9

I dont know what to tell you man. Sorry. I have had a lot of bad experiences with men but i wouldnt claim that even most men are the way i experienced them. Wish you could say the same about women 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:49 AM
10

Kindness can come in many forms. Favors could be a form someone looks for, time spent, opening doors, willingness to work around a difficult schedule, etc. I watch how they act around other people. How they talk about their own people and mine. How they talk to me. I can usually tell through casual conversations what kind of person someone is unless they are trying very hard to hide it. Paying attention to their patience level, how they act when drunk and how they talk to/treat ex friends/lovers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:44 AM
12

Like i said originally, no. They are what i want in any person i spend time with. Without them i wouldnt want anything from that person. Wanting to fuck them comes from a multitude of factors, the baseline of which is kindness and respect but also includes specific physical and psychological traits i find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:33 AM
13

Women arent a monolith. Some women are into crazy, many aren't. Saying all women are like this makes me think you have a very simple view of the world. Like an infant who thinks the world dissappears when they shut their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:29 AM
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They are what i expect in order to want to spend any time at all with him, so yes they are pretty baseline. If they arent respectful and kind they are off my radar immediately. I have great stories of meeting "attractive" people and roasting the shit out of them when they try to pull some rude shit on me or my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:27 AM
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Do i want to fuck someone solely because they are kind and respectful? No, thats stupid. Do i want to fuck someone who isnt kind and respectful? Also no, thats even more stupid. Kindness and respect are baseline traits i want in a partner, not the cause of attraction. Edit: Thank you for the awards and the comments. It's good hearing everyones opinion on this and knowing I'm not alone in my opinion. I feel a little less like I'm the crazy one on this sub 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:33 AM
1

I'm glad you have feelings. Maybe roll your shoulders a little. You seem pretty stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:10 AM
6

Jesus bro lmao victim complex much? I didnt say anything was your fault, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:50 AM
7

People tend to not like feeling used. It isnt about a magic pussy or feeling above someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:44 AM
1

I tend to do things that align with my own morals or personality. I rarely do things against my own interest for someone elses benefit. Even my actions with my partner benefit me by making our relationship more enjoyable alongside the benefits he gains. If someone is being cruel for to gain something from someone else they are either a cruel person or a pathetic person. Cruel if they enjoy that action. Pathetic if they do it solely to gain from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:16 PM
5

Wait, that's illegal!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:05 PM
5

Aw just rub its back a little, it'll get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:50 AM
5

Ugly pussies are notable i guess since all dicks are ugly :/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:44 AM
2

Try to at least. And cry when it doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:12 AM
12

You think women get orgasms from men 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:04 AM
2

Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:49 PM
4

Gaming, gardening, hoarding all my perscription pain pills because i think the pain will get worse and ill need them more later so i have many bottles of strong painkillers, hiking..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:38 AM
4

How are you going to regulatr the dating market. I'd love to know that plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:01 AM
1

I like things trimmed but shaven completely? Nah, i have things to do lol im not keeping up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:35 AM
10

Rape is not sex. You did not lose your virginity, you were violated. Dont feel guilt for what someone else did. Be happy you've found something great for yourself. Congrats on your marriage 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:55 PM
1

Id fuck an ugly dude, i would not fuck an incel. Also whats all this shit about women fucking horses? When i was young the only high profile horse fucker was mr. Hands and those farm men in that documentary about fucking horses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:36 PM
0

Im pretty dang tall for a lady matched with my short hair. With my mask on, nobody can see my fuck-girl lips. I disagree with a lot of peoples stereotypes and i have less of a problem being a shit-heel to an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:27 AM
0

F unless someone sees me with my mask on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:21 AM
4

I just like telling people theyre wrong. I get to do that a lot here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:16 AM
1

I can almost promise you, im not thinking about any mans virginity unless asked. I cant tell and it doesnt really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:46 AM
5

Yes, i have male and female relationships whom i have no interest in romantically or sexually. I just think they're cool and we let each other know if somethings going on so we can have fun together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:01 AM
8

No. I have a life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:44 AM
6

Im in a relationship, how could it be over? Projecting your sadness at insecure men was probably your best bet 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:13 AM
7

🤷🏽‍♀️ im not a pathetic dude. I dont need to cope, i just get over shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:06 AM
9

Wanting to be single. Taking a mew months to a year off is pretty nice. Cooking is easy, no one else to entertain. If i didnt like my current so much id still be single. Being single is preferable to most relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:02 AM
5

I dont do some positions that i did with my ex with my current. They hurt because he has a bigger dick. No insult to my current but i have sex for enjoyment, not to withstand pain 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:38 PM
2

You know women work in fields other than onlyfans right? Like, statistically many less women use onlyfans than dont use it. The power wouldnt go out, women would just stop complaining about creeps being mad about rejection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:14 AM
1

So you have a successful business but you pay for hookers? Sounds like your advice didnt work so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:05 AM
1

You should work harder on self improvement. Im cringing for you 😬 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:14 AM
1

Why not improve yourself and find happiness in life aside from having a partner... no? Yall are like overgrown puppies with separation anxiety lol bitter and still desperate for company.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:05 PM
1

My mom had 5 kids. She always wanted a lot of kids and a big family. I told her as a child i never wanted children and 20 years later my opinion hasnt changed. Different people have different wants and motivations for life. Cant put a group of people in a strict box, you'll find too many who don't fit. Also, wanting abortions legal and not impossible to get doesnt mean you dont want kids. Women with families already have abortions for many different reasons i.e. thei body/life being in danger or…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:48 PM
1

That's cool. I wish more men would just outright say they suck and they like being awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:36 PM
5

Probably the biggest difference between this guy and you is that he might actually be a nice person beneath the misconception. You never were.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:59 AM
19

Women do like nice guys. Women just tend to not be as interested in men who describe themselves as a "nice guy." I love nice, respectful, thoughtful men. I think that "nice" tends to be a bare minimum trait that should be expected already as opposed to something more defining like "religious" or "active" so saying it either means that is your only positive trait or people have disliked you enough in the past that you feel defensive about your niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:55 AM
2

I dont really care unless they feel like going into detail or brag about it alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:26 AM
23

Any girls body count will be in the 20s? What girls are you talking to? This has not been what ive found as a woman in her 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:16 AM
2

I am older. Much older and I'll age out of being able to have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:23 PM
6

Why would i want to raise kids alone on the assumption that the rando that didnt want to help has great genes? That sounds actually awful. Option 1 sounds like the best option. Realistically tho neither. I want happiness over kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:13 AM
5

I just appreciate someone who doesnt feel the need to perform masculinity constantly and is comfortable enough with themselves that "feminine" things arent threatening to their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:37 PM
3

Mine as well. I adore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:29 PM
1

Once again, not into men but thank you, i like to enjoy life. Good luck with whatever you're doing, i hope you get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:57 PM
1

"She probably has an n count in the 20s or 30s." Is what you said. The study said that the average n count when women were being their most honest is under 5 which puts her within range of that average. You think she is lying because you are bitter and can't trust women. I think some people lie, for good reason too. I dont think she did because her boyfriend, who has spent considerably more time than either of us with her believes her. You don't know my lifestyle. You don't even know my sex. Try…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:18 PM
2

That study says that the average was still under 5 so where are you getting these double digit accusations from? It sounds like his girlfriend was probably being very honest about it. I dont care about men, i dont date them and i think marriage is outdated and unnecessary. I do take issue with randomly accusing people of lying because you are bitter and sad. Women have always been shamed, regardless of truth. Men arent waking up so much as deciding that being a nice person to others is beneath t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:56 PM
2

You have no reason to believe most women would lie or that most women have double digit numbers, not that something like that matters. You sound terribly bitter over something that cant affect you and desperate to make other people as bitter as you are. Why else would you accuse a woman youve never met of lying to her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:08 PM
2

Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:00 PM
1

I dont know where you are getting this information but if my own history and my social groups history is counted then you are very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 07:23 PM
5

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:34 AM
1

"Relationship" with a robot, jesus. You cant have a relationship with something you programmed to like you anymore than you can have a "relationship" with your computer. I enjoy having relationships with people who have pasts and friendships that don't involve me. I enjoy them having their own thought process and i can appreciate the flaws of someone who is continually pushing themselves to be better. I dont care to have a "perfect relationship" with a robot because that sounds fantastically bor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:09 PM
7

Lmao them debate skills bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 07:21 PM
3

I moved far away and couldn't justify keeping the relationship knowing he wanted kids and i didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:29 AM
1

Terrible lighting tsk tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:59 PM
1

Oh of course 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:10 PM
1

None thankfully. I've become very good at tearing apart the sender of unsolicited dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:00 PM
8

I've come to realize my fellow Americans arent very smart. First thinking a billionaire with so many scandals under his belt would be able to represent them. Second thinking this rich man would do anything to "drain the swamp." Trump filled the swamp with radioactive waste. And then mocked americans for falling for it. He mocked his own people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:24 PM
2

Blow me crybaby. Maybe the effort will put some muscle on your pathetic jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:16 AM
1

Great. An incel post 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:03 AM
3

If you do well wives are just friends plus sex. If you do poorly marriages are the worst thing you can sign yourself up for. Sorry you choose poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:40 PM
2

Good idea, leave the nonwhite women for better men and women. Thanks ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:00 AM
7

I spent time with him, liked him, and wanted to fuck him. What other reasons does someone need. Also saying "the guy who wasn't physically attractive" implies i wasnt physically attracted to him. I havent dated any models but everyone i fucked i was attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:05 PM
1

Ive never asked a guys dick size in the pre dating process and never left a guy when i found out his dick size. If we are incompatable sexually then that's one thing, his size is only part of figuring that out. Tl;dr Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:54 PM
1

Definitely. And thinking a womans vagina has no end. Like, cervix punches HURT. I cant tell you how many dudes ask me if their dick is big enough. Ive never indicated any dudes dick wasnt enough. Porn is messing men up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:41 AM
7

Your post said date. Hook ups are dangerous. I would still choose a small-average dick over a big dick because i know my body could be unintentionally hurt. Men with big dicks tend to think their size is all that matters and start pistoning. A small or average selfish dude has less of a chance to hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:36 AM
0

You dont see the value in yourself. Something is missing. If you see this as hollow then keep moving the way you are, why change? If you see your apparent lack of value as a problem, find value. Idk what else to tell you. I don't want to date a guy who sees himself as value-less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:31 AM
14

Yep, the first thing i ask a dude is how big his dick is. God i love unsolicited dick pics as well. The look and size of dicks matters above all. Passion? Similar interests? Having something to fucking talk about? Nah. Just the dick. (I'm a tall woman, height doesn't matter either)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:28 AM
1

Yes. Give up and find passion in life. Start looking again when you see the value in yourself, it is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:26 AM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:46 AM
8

Let the boys take their aggression out. They're running out of plaster for their walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:20 AM
1

Asian dudes are a whole demographic of intrest for women. Dick size means more to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:13 AM
8

Jesus christ this sub sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:25 PM
1

I'm not talking about lgbt issues either. Women dont need men, or a partner in general, to be aroused. That's all i was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:35 PM
5

Ditto on the once a day at least if im not in a sexual relationship, im 25 i dont have as much time anymore. My female friends tend to have higher drives than i do and did more so in their teens. Its a very recent trend that comedians and shows will talk about or reference female sexuality that isnt immediately attached to a man. I do think male sex drive is higher, based on mtf transitioning people say about their changing sexuality, but not by as much as we're led to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:11 AM
6

Speaking from personal experience, this isnt true. You only might need someone else if you associate your sexuality with a partner. As in you cant get pleasure otherwise. And ive known friends to get horny throughout the month, period week does not slow it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:50 AM
17

Discard isnt how i would describe leaving someone but i agree. If you arent a sexual match for someone, look elsewhere. It's better than coming here and complaing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:11 PM
1

All of this, you said my thoughts better than i could.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:56 AM
3

I don't really like McDonald's but i also dont really care about what he did with his exes. So long as i dont get the feeling he sees me as worth less idrc. I dont really have a "gift giving/ spend money on your other" love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:40 AM
2

I've never met someone who defined their lives that way. Even my mother, who was largely a housewife for the majority of my life, defined her life stages by her children and where she lived at the time. I can only imagine someone would define themselves that way if their goal in life was to meet and date as many people as possible or if they had no negative feelings toward their exes and had little else they cared about in their lives. I myself define the stages of my life by my schooling and my…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:37 AM
3

Things might get worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:40 AM
6

If he had an issue he could've said something or just left. Guess the next person will find out. I don't keep relationships with cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:59 AM
6

Maybe he does, it doesnt really matter if his care doesnt stop him from disrespecting me and breaking my trust. Cheaters dont change, better off leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:46 AM
9

But you're proposing accept polygamy to solve cheating. Cheating isnt just wanting another partner, it's not caring about your current relationship or partner. Id rather weed out a disrespectful partner than bend to their wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:04 AM
8

I am not desperate for a partner. I won't accept a cheater. Why would i accept an "accept or be cheated on" situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:58 AM
14

So i have to accept a partner who fucks around regardless? Dang, id rather stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:51 AM
6

A survey would need to be posted for me to have any feelings on this besides rp bs. I know i don't keep "back up boyfriends" and i usually take at least a few months to get my emotions right before looking for someone new. None of my friends mention back ups either. A back up would imply that youve both found someone youre interested in and willing to date who is also willing to wait around for you to be single again, if that ever happens. Those don't sound like compatible traits to me.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 09:34 PM
5

I can agree with this. Reading redpilled men made sense with a lot of the interactions I'd had with men and very much made me not want to be around men in general. Depression was also an issue at the time. Can't say I'm all the way over it but everyones a work in progress, right? I definitely agree with the adrenaline rush though. It was like my anger and pain was compelling me to find more things to be angry and hurt over. Find more reason to distrust people and stay alone. The redpill is unhea…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 09:11 AM
1

Passion for something outside a relationship. My final yes decision on my ex was due to him being so driven and capable of holding an intelligent conversation about multiple topics with me. Also, long legs and strong forearms are a winner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:08 PM
2

I mean, the same could be said of guys. It's the same event with little variations to fit who you're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:31 PM
15

The "women are always single" idea doesnt even make sense. It's just another way to accuse women of cheating with the only explanation being that they are women. The "she's not yours. It's just your turn" is worse in my opinion because it basically describes men as using women like a baseball bat or glove instead of spending time with a person. It paints men as unempathetic users and women as things to be passed around.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/20 11:24 PM
1

Maybe I'm misunderstanding the purpose of a shit test but i generally ask questions to "test" men or get a better idea of their mental state. Not due to weak men, just because thats how i get to know people and how i decide who to let very close to me. People are usually pretty revealing through regular conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:30 PM
4

Women arent a monolith. Some are supportive, some really arent. I, for example, am extremely skeptical of a relationship with a large age gap and i would tell my friend to be very cautious. I wouldnt say that on social media though, that would be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:50 PM
11

That's what they want and we are in an age where that is allowed. Of course they're going to be happy, they probably would have not been as happy in a monogamous relationship because it wouldnt have suited them. In other news, people choosing to eat ice cream are just as happy as people choosing to eat cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:27 PM
17

Ive seen some of their example accounts. They look like joke accounts. I swipe on pikachu accounts sometimes for the lols. Can't talk about the validity of the "experiment" tho. Sounds like bs
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 08:50 PM
1

Did they tell you they were barebacking? People can use multiple forms of protection. I was on the pill and using condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 05:01 PM
7

Stds dont always correlate to high partner numbers. You can get an std from a long term cheating partner just as well from a random ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:50 PM
8

Women are more at risk in general due to anatomy. https://www.healthgrades.com/right-care/sexual-health/why-women-are-more-at-risk-for-stds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:21 PM
1

What is meant to be discussed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:14 PM
4

I think the data is also likely skewed because men will swipe on every profile, regardless of attraction to them. I have male friends who have male profiles mixed in because they were swiping so fast
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 09:14 PM
3

Nope, dated a 5'6" guy back in college. He sucked but that didnt have to do with his height
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:41 AM
1

6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:19 AM
0

Woman here Personality (weighs heavily, cant date another sociopath) Compatability Personal physical state Facial attractiveness Ambition (attracted to passionate goal seekers) Friends (he/she needs more than just me) Financial gain Status/height (dont care at all about either)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:41 AM
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As I've gotten older ive noticed my friends falling away due to relationships less, maybe due to my friends knowing what they want and being more stable about it. They and their partners enjoy having friends and not disallowing their partners from having friends. My younger friends definitely disappear if anyone appears though. Ah, young love. I'm a woman who doesnt demand friendship, rather keeps the door open if people want to become more involved
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:38 PM
3

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 01:04 AM
4

I dont think that would help anything but cruel men who want to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:37 AM
15

Woah, you good bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:40 PM
3

I have no mental disorder and i have had partners in the past that would have been great fathers. I just dont want it for myself. I watched my mother and grandmother struggle in marriage and as mothers and see the worst outcomes to those things and i do not want that for myself. There are many reasons to not want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:26 PM
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Women are not a monolith. My mother and sister in law had kids within a year of being married. I decided at 5 i didnt want kids and my mind has not changed. You wanna know if a woman has baby fever? Ask if she wants kids. If she does she's probably gonna make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:00 AM
1

I wont even consider an online profile unless they have at least one pic of them smiling so that def isnt true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:43 PM
1

Yes but you are repeating what he said because friendship isnt a signifier of respect to you, fucking is. So a woman would have to fuck you to show that she respects you.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 06:04 PM
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Yeah, i probably wouldnt respect a guy if he thought of regular friendship as "the friendzone." That's pretty weak, ngl
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 05:22 PM
1

I respect all of my friends and find most of them attractive in some way or another. Im still not going to fuck them. Not only because that would cause major issues within my friend group but also, why would i want that? I have a lot of male friends and im really only interested in fucking one person in the context of a relationship. Why does respecting someone include fucking them?
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 05:08 PM
1

That isnt true. Friends are just that. They may be attractive or may not be, i dont think about them romantically because i generally assume it isnt offered. Whether i agree or disagree to date someone relies on a huge number of factors. Their politics, their stress state, their ability to be responsible, how they treat and talk about other people, etc. Friends just need a common connection. I dont need to know a friend very deeply for them to become a friend. It would be silly to think of every…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 04:07 PM
1

That sounds like some really dumb drama. He cheated because he thought she was cheating? That should be enough for you to leave him. That is a hella stupid reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:17 AM
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Dicks arent the only way to orgasms. No i wouldnt leave someone over their dick size. You should focus less on looks with these things. With most of the women i know It would make more sense if the question asked about a solid, fulfilling relationship without a great sex life or the opposite. My answer would be the same but the question would be more interesting as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:11 PM
1

Dick size only relates to sex, not the relationship itself. Short answer: No. Long answer: No, why would it? Your descriptions of these guys are looks only, do they suck as people? Are we compatable? Are they rude when they're drunk. Dick size is not even on my radar when im deciding to continue a relationship with someone unless the dude has a complex about his size.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:12 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:47 PM
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Women enjoying sex isnt on their radar, it isnt something that is relevant to the argument they're having. They're separating themselves from women by calling their one night stands different. Only men have sex cuz their horny. Women trade sex for love or money or something, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:35 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:11 PM
4

I'm good, think I'll stay and watch men here decend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:02 PM
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The men in these comment sections make me never want to date again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:31 PM
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I dunno, ive never met men more incapable of finding and keeping a partner, due to their own actions like cheating, than men who have high (70+) body counts. I think having sex with large numbers of people can mess anyone up, if they weren't already messed up for wanting to have sex with that many different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:06 AM
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I understand it, i just disagree. Nothing is owed to anyone. My personal decisions about what i will and wont do and what i will and wont put up with are made long before i meet a new potential partner. It isnt an insult to them. Its self preservation and me figuring out what i enjoy and what i don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:43 AM
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I dont know. I've made the mistake of trusting an ex too early as a naive younger woman, not because he was just so attractive, i just didnt know better. My base personality wont change between partners but the way i react and trust does. Im a little less dramatic, a little more intuitive. Thats a part of growing up and not wanting to get hurt over and over. Im not going to repeat things i felt were mistakes in past relationships even if someone else thinks it will benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:55 PM
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You want to be treated like her ex... the person whose relationship with her failed? That's... odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:49 PM
1

Very defective. My church said so when i wouldnt stop having opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:55 AM
2

Nooo, it's much easier to group all women into a hive mind and get confused when they seem to want and be interested in different things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:45 PM
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How does one horde sex? The legion that is women dont have sex because they enjoy it? What a strange thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:43 PM
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Nah ive definitely dated guys who've said they wanted to have kids soon so that they can be young fathers. Men want kinds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:13 AM
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I figure he isnt interested and bail. I'm not one to panic over an uninterested guy, not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:17 PM
0

You've misunderstood me and are fairly emotional about this now. I'm gonna let this one go for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 09:11 PM
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Okay 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 09:10 PM
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Pleanty of women arent me. If he leaves, no hard feelings. I have my reasons for why i do what i do. Im attracted to all the people i consider having sex with, other wise i wouldnt be considering it. Whether it happens quickly or not has other factors. I can wait till death for sex, im not pressed. If a dude that is a part of my life cant chill, i get to understand his character better. That isnt a loss for me. Id rather not fuck a guy that has a place in my life and also doesnt care about me 🤷‍…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 08:58 PM
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"For many people" is not near all. Love comes differently to different people and different circumstances can change things in a relationship. A couple that stops having sex doesnt necessarily stop loving each other. Love can exist without lust and lust can certainly exist without love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 08:10 PM
1

Physical attraction is a part of it but it is no where near interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:46 PM
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That is not even kind of true. The majority of people are very average and the amount of women considered physically attractive by both men and women is not anywhere near as large as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:28 PM
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How do any of these situations lead you to believe these women have a fetish rather than an insecurity? And why are you extending 3 misunderstood situations to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:56 PM
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Wow, i would never lower myself to marrying a man who thought of women like this. What a weak argument.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 01:01 PM
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Any man i date is a chad. That ends when i stop dating them. What they are to anyone else doesn't mean anything to me. If i like them, they are above all others in my mind. They are "Chad" when they are with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:48 PM
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