| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 111 | LVM wants to abandon family and other LVM comment advice | MALE DEPRAVITY | IthinkItsLipGloss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:07 AM |
| 36 | Nearly all the comments are calling OP TA, saying OP is shaming sex “workers” and that sex work is real work. Reddit has been particularly disgusting today. Really need some NTA judgements. | SCROTES MAD | IthinkItsLipGloss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:55 AM |
| 1 | LVM says his sisters standards are too high | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | IthinkItsLipGloss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:01 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | Pickme women in the workplaceThat’s just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 47 | Pickme women in the workplaceHas anyone told the wife? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 23 | Wealthy men and mistressesBecause both the cheating man and women are abusers causing emotional pain to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 153 | Beware when researching fitness instructorsNot just fitness instructors but any women/girl. I once searched for maddie Ziegler on reddit, she’s only 18. Reddit is full of pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 2 | The edit is hilarious. Why do they make it so easy for us? Keep telling on yourselves scrotesPost is probably more suited for r/FDSSuperFans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:14 AM |
| 46 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.This age gap is bigger than the one I have with my parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:32 AM |
| 27 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.Same. When I was 20 my dad was 40. Gross, I’m never marrying anyone close in age to my parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 2 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outThat’s awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:36 AM |
| 6 | Seeking your opinions on adopting a kid as a single personThere is a sub called singlemothersbychoice. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 17 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outThe more they rave about us, the more females find out about us and join. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 6 | I hate that I lost the breakup, and he got to win with a new gf and generally easy life. I feel attacked (😥) that FDS advocates for ruthlessly ending relationships because they might agree with how he ended things with me. Like I do some of the things they complain about men doing. How to deal?Block him, block his girlfriend and all his friends. Also the things he said about his ex girlfriend are probably all lies, he’s telling all the same lies about you now, when really most of them apply to him. Right now, spend time being awesome at your internship. Build the life you want. Maybe look into getting a therapist as you seem low on self-esteem and maybe they can help you work through events to get closure. Eat healthy and exercise as it does wonders for your mental health. | /r/askFDS | 08/04/21 08:08 AM |
| 121 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.Ohhh. I just realised this has happened to me before. I just thought it was strange this man was telling me all about his divorce. I think he went on about it the entire shift, first time I met him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m bi but following FDS is completely killing my attraction to menYes. But it’s not just this sub. It’s every sub on reddit that turns me off men. I read a post today about a women finding out she’s pregnant than a few days later found out her husband cheated on her 3 years ago with their infants nanny before and after their 6month old died. He’s nine years older than her and they moved away from her family. I hope she leaves him. r/singlemothersbychoice is something I am really considering when I turn 30. I’m actually worried if I do marry someone, he’ll be a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:22 AM |
| 85 | On a question about why old men hit on 13-18 year olds. I am absolutely disgusted and frightened.The whole reddit site makes me lose faith in men. I just came from a post where a women was asking if she was over reacting for the “prank” her husband and his twin played on her. Thankfully the top comments I saw told her to go to the police for rape by deception. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:41 AM |
| 30 | What can I do that my wife appreciates?Your wife might have been looking forward to 4 days without the kids. From her point of view, she may be thinking her husband can’t even look after his own kids for 4 days, what wife would appreciate a husband who doesn’t know how to care for his kids. You should do things for your wife because you love her, not because you want to be appreciated. Do both you and your wife work? Who does majority of housework? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it bad to contact a man I had ghosted years ago?You’re still in your 20’s though. Older men can have not only negative health effects on the unborn infant, but on their partner as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad to contact a man I had ghosted years ago?You say you both want children, aren’t you afraid of his age? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 32 | I'll believe "not all men are like that" when I see more men actually standing up to other men when they see women being treated like shitI’ve never heard of anyone ever saying not all women. You could literally be talking about one particular man and men be commenting not all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:43 AM |
| 26 | Are older men actually attractive?I’m 23 and I don’t find older men attractive. I don’t understand when women say they are more mature, I honestly believe men looking for teens and women in their 20’s are immature and they would be to controlling. I’m naturally a shy and submissive person, I don’t fight with people. So I’d like an relationship with someone who respects me, and will not take advantage of my personality. I don’t want my partner to be more experienced than me. I want someone I can experience firsts with to be my hu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 09:31 AM |
| 5 | Utah professor and ecologist, Nalini Nadkarni, inspires line of National Geographic explorer Barbies and has one made in her honor. There's an astrophysicist, entomologist, marine biologist, and wildlife conservationist - wonderful work!I had that pregnant barbie as a kid. I remember she was ginger and had twins inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:21 AM |
| 38 | Love makes you look weak to men.I’m sure men will comment saying ‘not all men’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else have this view on having children?There is a massive shortage of foster parents around the world. If becoming a foster parent is something you think you can do, please go to an information evening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:29 AM |
| 19 | Older men need entitlement to young women knocked right out of them.They sit outside alone drinking their beer while their family is inside having dinner and a great time together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:51 AM |
| 16 | No way this wasn’t done on purpose so she’d never ask him again...Yes, I sort of have a plan too, when I’m 29 or 30 I’m going to become a single mum by choice. There is also a sub for it. r/singlemothersbychoice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:10 AM |
| 50 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.When my grandparents were dating, my grandad lived in another town to my grandma. He would make the drive every week to take my grandma out on a date. He’s the one HVM in my life that I compare other men too, he cooks, bakes, cleans the house, does the washing and irons the clothes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Does “the wall” apply to childfree women?I remember a post on this sub not to long ago from a young girl, who didn’t understand why old men thought that young girls was interested in them when she and her friends definitely were not. I’m 23 and at this time of my life I’m not looking to date anyone over 26yrs. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/20 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Does “the wall” apply to childfree women?Why would you want to marry a man in his 30’s that wants a significantly younger women, gross. Men hit the wall much faster than women. Men also have that ticking biological clock. Older men can experience: -decreased fertility Put their partners at risk for increased pregnancy complications such as; -gestational diabetes -preeclampsia Baby’s born to older fathers found to be at higher risk of: -premature birth -late still birth -low Apgar scores -low birth weight -higher incidence of newborn se… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/20 10:19 AM |
| 32 | Comment section from a Video - Girl tidying a basement bedroom that belonged to her younger sister a RIDICULOUS amount of bottles filled with pee found . How low can her sisters standards be 🤮🤮😷I saw the video too. There had to be more than 100 bottles. It was disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:15 AM |
| 37 | THIS is why we have FDS - at least he’s more honest about it than some men are. Gross!!Doubt it. I’m sure there will be men pretending to be women messaging him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:00 AM |
| 19 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.I think I might have actually seen a post about FDS on that sub before. The users of that sub definitely don’t like us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:57 PM |
| 59 | Megan Fox calls out Brian Austin Green( who groomed her when she was 18 and he was 30) for doing LVM things.Let your mum know too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | If he wants a casual date, then you should casually drop him ❤️I have that top. I love her blazer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I was told by OTHER WOMEN to don't shame and that sex work is work while trying to stop a 16yo from becoming a sexworker and meeting up with a 30yo sugar daddy?? Are people REALLY becoming this brainwashed? Shes underage, what the hell?Has your husband shown himself as a HVM during your cancer diagnosis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 58 | DAE see that thread in ask reddit about sex workers "falling in love" with johns and dating them?No, I remember reading that one. The 18yo confessed to the 40yo John that she loved him. He told her he still loves his wife and only kept her around because of her blowjob game. She meant literally nothing to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 27 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Your probably right. That’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.High value doesn’t equate to being rich according to FDS standards. A high value man treats a women with respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 43 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?I know. I want to see what the comments say if this picture was posted on another sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:28 AM |
| 11 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?I think of it as once he cheated the marriage was over and she was free to see whoever she wanted too. Unfortunately, we have to be careful about our safety, we never know how men will react. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:22 PM |
| 15 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?How is your friend now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 38 | Who told old men young women want them?It should be common knowledge. Whenever I come across a comment or post discussing older men reproducing, I like to comment about the health implications it can have on the unborn infant and the mother carrying the child. I usually find someone comments that they did not know this previously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:45 PM |
| 59 | Who told old men young women want them?No, he’s a pedophile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:48 AM |
| 85 | Who told old men young women want them?My mum also raised me like that. She also reminds me that I don’t need a man to have a baby. I’m 23f and 2 years older is my limit atm. My parents are only 20yrs older than me and I don’t want to date anyone my parents age. Men also have that ticking biological clock. Older men can experience: -decreased fertility Put their partners at risk for increased pregnancy complications such as; -gestational diabetes -preeclampsia Baby’s born to older fathers found to be at higher risk of: -premature bir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 35 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?Did you get paid? Or did he keep all the earnings for himself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:30 AM |
| 10 | I felt my brain cells vanish after reading thisI love irreplaceable and if I were a boy. However single ladies and run the world make my list of most annoying songs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:21 AM |
| 38 | When you feel like your partner is taking you for granted“Broken up twice because he wasn’t sure about me” Is the part where I didn’t need to read any farther. Why would you take him back the first time? I’m sorry but he does not want to marry you. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/20 03:21 AM |
| 124 | Teehee I stole your man!“When a man marries his mistress he creates a job vacancy” - Sir James Goldsmith | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Starting to feel hopeless about getting a proposalMen also have that ticking biological clock. Older men can experience: -decreased fertility Put their partners at risk for increased pregnancy complications such as; -gestational diabetes -preeclampsia Baby’s born to older fathers found to be at higher risk of: -premature birth -late still birth -low Apgar scores -low birth weight -higher incidence of newborn seizures -birth defects such as congenital heart disease and cleft palate. As the children grow older, they have been found to have an inc… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 9 | Starting to feel hopeless about getting a proposalAlso if OP wants kids her SO’s sperm is getting old. Older fathers put the health of unborn children and their partner at risk. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/20 01:47 AM |
| 18 | Starting to feel hopeless about getting a proposalDon’t give up on your dreams, you’ll get your proposal. But not with this man. Men know what they want and I’m sorry but it sounds like he doesn’t want to marry you. Those things he told you at the start of your relationship are just words, not actions. I know it sounds scary but if you stay it’ll be another 3-7 years of being an forever girlfriend and you wishing you took the chance and left him when you were 30. You won’t find the one if you don’t allow the one the chance to find you. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/20 07:47 AM |
| 12 | What makes a man who is looking for marriage have a long term relationship with a woman he doesn't plan on marrying?If he hasn’t proposed after 2 years, break up with him. Men know what they want and who they want to marry straight away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭I don’t enjoy cooking, so it’s not a fun date activity to me. I prefer to cook alone as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Upset. Just got chased 1/4 mile by a man on my runIt’s illegal for me to carry pepper spray. I should take a self-defence class, because I don’t know what I would do if someone attacked me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:59 AM |
| 10 | Self Care DayMaybe ask the legal sub-reddit if there is anything you can do about that. Maybe it could fall under harassment or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Self Care DayI don’t blame them if they don’t know. But if they know they are the affair partner then I’m sorry, but they are emotionally abusing someone. It’s not alright. I don’t mean I blame them for the husband cheating, the cheater husband is responsible for his own disgusting abusive actions, but the affair partner is still causing so much pain as well, in my mind the affair partner is just as horrible and abusive as the cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:42 AM |
| 35 | Is it appropriate to remain friends with a guy friend whom you hooked up with before, while in a relationship with a HVM?I wouldn’t be comfortable if my boyfriend was friends with his fwb ex. Also he’s a LVM, why would I keep him around. | /r/askFDS | 28/09/20 06:27 AM |
| 91 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadIf a guy I was in a relationship in, asked me to open up our relationship or have a threesome, I would consider the relationship over. Obviously Tomi feels the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️I want some lollies now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 46 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️A couple of years ago I was talking to this guy. Every time I asked him a question he would respond “guess” . It was incredibly annoying, apparently he did the same thing to my younger cousin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:07 AM |
| 41 | LVM wants to abandon family and other LVM comment adviceHe’s not talking about getting an divorce though, he’s talking about going to the shops one day and never returning. No goodbye, just up and leaving his daughters and never seeing them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:44 AM |
| 2 | New Zealand passes legislation granting domestic violence leave!I’m in Australia too. My mum works for an organisation in social services, they get paid leave for domestic violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:56 AM |
| 26 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITIt’s not only unrelated men you need to worry about. It is more likely someone you are related too or someone you love and trust, that will harm your children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 14 | Of all the images he could have used, this Youtuber used a sexualized image of a teenage girl in his thumbnailAlso depending on what country you live in, the age going into high school can be even younger. For me, high school starts in year 7 and students are 12-13. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:22 PM |
| 3 | People really be cheating like this? I’m shook?I don’t understand how you haven’t completely dropped her. Her and the married man are emotionally abusing this women and it doesn’t sound like you have done/said anything about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:05 AM |
| 19 | this makes me so sadIt makes no sense to me. I assume they live in the same house, it’s not like she’s wearing every single piece of his clothing at one time. He can easily just grab whatever clothing and put it on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:28 AM |
| 12 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?I’m 22. But I feel if you stay with a LVM, you have 100% chance of never meeting the one because you haven’t given yourself the chance to meet him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:19 PM |
| 7 | My mind is exploding - so many things wrong with the post and comment. LVM leaves his trimmings to be cleaned up. Someone comments that OP could GENTLY ASK if hubby can buy a cleaning appliance so SHE can still do this shit for him.I watched Jenny’s wedding the other night. The main character’s sister ended up leaving her LVM husband because the ‘grass was dead’. Literally, the grass outside her house was dead and she kept saying happy people don’t have dead grass. She told her husband to water the grass because she did everything around the house. Of course he didn’t, so she ended up watering the grass and when the grass was green she kicked him out of the house. Then when she was telling her dad about leaving her husband… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:12 AM |
| 10 | Membership increasing like crazyWow. That is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:37 AM |
| 10 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.I know. I was thinking that too. We need more HV posts. Because even some of the comments to this post is depressing, it’s good to hear people have been able to level up though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Yes, a lot of the reddit groups that are happy about GC getting banned want FDS gone too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 17 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I PM’ed OP, as she is a mod. I hope that was right. I miss the GC sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:32 AM |
| 60 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsYes, all the time on reddit I see posts from stepkids talking about their dad getting married 6 months after their mother died. The dad just never cares about his kids and men are commenting that dad deserves to be happy too. It’s sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:35 AM |
| 6 | When the foul stench of desperation isn’t enough to attract a manThe wife was having an affair with the man’s best friend, they were separated when he got with Meredith. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:01 PM |
| 2 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.That is horrible. Makes me so mad and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 5 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.Really, I don’t find the post from cheaters fascinating on the adultery sub, I find they come across really pathetic, which annoys me because how can they not see it? Whenever I read a post from someone that was cheated on, I feel the tiniest bit of their pain and it is already to much for me. For anyone that is cheated on you are worth so much more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:56 AM |
| 7 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.I love that last sentence! Hope you got rid of the LVM friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:53 AM |
| 22 | Nearly all the comments are calling OP TA, saying OP is shaming sex “workers” and that sex work is real work. Reddit has been particularly disgusting today. Really need some NTA judgements.How are you now? I hope you are alright and safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:36 AM |
| 66 | Nearly all the comments are calling OP TA, saying OP is shaming sex “workers” and that sex work is real work. Reddit has been particularly disgusting today. Really need some NTA judgements.Hope it is alright for me to post this here. I was just so mad seeing all the YTA comments. Sex work is really dangerous for women and is not something I believe should be normalised as a job in society. I believe OP did the right thing and we should always try to help someone out of a bad situation if it is safe for us to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:59 AM |
| 8 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...WTF. I had no idea this sub existed, seems I find out a new depraved sub everyday. *****Warning. Includes sexual assault ********* I decided to have a look, big mistake. One of the posts was about forgiveness, written by the wife of one of these disgusting things. She said how she has forgiven her husband but she can’t forgive the people who have wronged her and her family. She didn’t mention what her husband had done in her post, so I went to her history. It’s horrific, disgusting, her husband … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:22 PM |
| -9 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...This just sounds like an affair and not a open relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Wives are finding out that their ENTIRE stimulus checks were snatched to pay for their husbands' back child support, even if they are now divorced.Spouses income isn’t considered in child support. She probably used a joint account with her husband previously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Movies with HVM leads?A great movie to watch is ‘The Help’ I know this movie doesn’t have a HVM lead, since all the leads in this movie are women. But I love this movie. I’ll have a think and add an edit if I think of any. Edit: -What does everyone think about the male character in legally blond 2? -The Time Travellers wife (haven’t seen it since I was a kid, so I can’t say for sure he is HVM) -Suddenly 30 aka 13 going on 30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Movies with HVM leads?I love the fantastic beasts movies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Do not play pretend with your nvm/lvm, they don't care about looking bad in front of others and could care less about YOU looking bad in front of othersI just saw this and was wondering if anyone posted it on FDS. I wish more people wouldn’t engage in age gap relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | He dodged a massive bulletWhy does everyone always think it’s better to be in a relationship, even when that relationship is bad rather than being single. Even if the guy in the post was a doctor or millionaire, it doesn’t change the fact he put little effort in the date. Also, what is Applebee’s? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/03/20 02:06 PM |
| 45 | Genuine question: why FDS makes guys so mad?They don’t like being called low value men. All the guys complaining about FDS I’ve come across say we are teaching each other to manipulate men because we expect men to pay for dinner. (They all seem to get really stuck on that point. Plus tell you how they like to get drinks on the first date, and all the other low effort ways to get a higher body count). I believe they read through a couple of posts and see all the attributes we associate with being LVM, and see those qualities in themselves.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | THANK GODOr “ You promise”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:39 AM |
| 35 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionOf course, that always happens. Actually the last 3 days these types of posts have really annoyed me because I know nothing is going to change. We should all go upvote the ‘dump him’ posts. Edit: A couple of comments that need upvoting; https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fei80q/my_boyfriend_spat_on_me/fjo6v4f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fei80q/my_boyfriend_spat_on_me/fjo5tr9/?utm_source=share&utm_me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:37 AM |
| 13 | After my previous post about the woman who felt harassed by her 20 years older coworker I got a very nice message in my DMs.Horrible. It’s disgusting how someone could send someone threatening perverse messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:05 PM |
| 19 | Pickmeisha’s LVM refers to their adopted child as the N word to his friends, Pickmeisha makes excuses for him and wonders if she should even confront himMe too. Though I get the vibe this women would call her own daughter a slut if he does turn out to be a child molester. LVW definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:17 AM |
| 10 | I am a longtime lurker at r/breakingmom, and I suggest reading through posts there flaired “man rant” to see the extent to which LVM treat their wives and children with no respect. It will sober you up if you’re ever doubting incorporating FDS into your life.That sub is horrible. So many comments that provide great advice are always deleted by the mods, they ban people constantly for not agreeing with OP. I wish that sub wasn’t so popular, just breeds toxic parenting styles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | I’m being told in the original comments on r/niceguys that I should have been nicer to this guy that is married going behind his wife’s back. Apparently “No thank you” isn’t nice enoughI hate those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 3 | I’m being told in the original comments on r/niceguys that I should have been nicer to this guy that is married going behind his wife’s back. Apparently “No thank you” isn’t nice enoughDid you report him? If this is from an online dating app you can report him for being in a relationship and for the abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:55 PM |
| 17 | Pickmeisha in the wild?I can’t believe she apologised for asking him how he knows what his (girl) friends vaginas smelt like. She even called herself an asshole for it. I too would like to know how he knows what they smell like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:48 PM |
| 12 | [I don't know how to title this post]I was thinking about making a post on FDS today asking everyone if they wanted a new subreddit for am I with an asshole, plus get members to nominate people they want as moderators. Though I don’t want to step on the FDS moderators toes, especially since I only have the FDS newbie flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:32 PM |
| 53 | [I don't know how to title this post]If we do end up with a new am I with an asshole sub, all FDS members should all keep an eye on comments and always report comments from men and pickmeisha’s. I’m a mod on a different subreddit and when someone reports comments they go to a mod queue where mods can easily review them, otherwise it would be impossible for mods to always see what comments need to be deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think I have to explainHaha I like that attitude. The sub will have to be created again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | I don’t think I have to explainIt’s because the mod quit, there was only one and she felt she couldn’t handle the sub. I did notice some comments from men which couldn’t be reported, because there was no moderator’s. It wasn’t going to be a safe place without any mod’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 37 | Does anyone else notice the double standards certain men have concerning sexual assault/rape?A miniseries on Netflix called unbelievable is based on a true story and is absolutely heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 09:07 AM |
| 149 | I don’t think I have to explainHonestly, a lot of posts on reddit haunt me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:57 AM |
| 28 | I went on my first date in months.I don’t have Venmo, sounds like I definitely shouldn’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:21 AM |
| 52 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.For any Australian FDS members who need help or support: 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 24 hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line for any Australian who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault. Lifeline 13 11 14 Lifeline has a national number who can help put you in contact with a crisis service in your State. Anyone across Australia experiencing a personal crisis or thinking about suicide can call 13 11 14. Kids Help L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 17 | Pickmeishas really piss me offMy dad is a LVM, but even he has always told me that the guy should always pay. He would get me to repeat back to him that when I’m on a date, I get the guy to pay, I never pay for myself or the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 15 | I'll probably delete this later but... lemme tell you about the FIVE different guys who said they wanted to see me this weekend. 🙄The two guys that you hook up with, I’m not sure what exactly you think is gonna happen with them. They’re definitely not seeing you as someone they’re going to be in a official relationship. You need to unmatch with these guys and block anyone’s number you have and move on. Find some other guys and follow the FDS strategy. If they are low value, delete them too and move on. You aren’t going to find the right guy when your stuck waiting on these low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:43 AM |
| 16 | Man cheats on Fiancé several times with multiple girls, treats her like complete shit, kicks her out and devastates her. She stops taking shit from him and gets a new boyfriend...and he now wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!!!This is disgusting. He doesn’t even care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subThanks for the award. Wow. Was not expecting that. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 12 | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subYou know how someone from FDS made a sub for amiwithanasshole, how about making another sister sub for memes??? Is there an option to not let anyone post images? I’m sure there is also an option to stop cross posting, instead crossposts from AITA and relationships etc can be posted at r/Amiwithanasshole and memes and images go to a sub called FDSMEMES or something similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Moderator help!Same. QLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 13 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".I joined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 05:11 AM |
| 35 | I'd rather be single forever than deal with a manchildAITA is filled with LVM or women talking about LVM. It can be hard to read these posts when women are asking if they are TA just because the man they are seeing or married too gaslights them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Anybody else just syncing with the Universe after discovering FDS?I was on the red pill women sub and someone had made a post hating on FDS, so I clicked the link to check out this sub and decided I liked it better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 9 | Shows how stupid some men are in 2020I think at this point he’s thinking burn all the boats. Need to start all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Every second post on AITA is from LVM or someone writing about a LVM. I just hope I am never in the situation, second guessing myself and think I’m doing something wrong because an LVM told me so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 13 | What are your "requirements"/standards for a man?-Has a great job -Doesn’t complain about his job - Has pretty looking hair -Good hygiene and will love doing skin care routines with me -Attractive - Responsible with money -Love to travel with me - Dresses well -Healthy, eats well and keeps fit- likes to go to the gym as a couple to workout -Enjoy being with me- is active in finding new activities he is excited to try with me -Has good conversations with me and makes me laugh - Romantic, loves to surprise me, takes me out for dinner weekly eith… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Stay at home mum takes care of 5 kids and LVM husband doesn’t even manage to get her gifts.Just read one of the wife’s comments, apparently the wife wrote the post from their shared throwaway account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 6 | Oh good lord...I’m sure she didn’t find it strange, she had to know she was the other women. Some women just don’t care. Just look at r/theotherwomen . Some people may think this makes me a bad friend, but if I found out my friend was willingly being in an relationship (if you could even call it that) with someone that was married, I wouldn’t be friends with them anymore. I’ve always found cheating disgusting, after being on reddit and somehow coming across r/survivinginfidelity and reading about the trauma th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:54 AM |
| 42 | Sad this has to be broadcasted, here’s to hoping it wakes some people up...There was another one where the husband was being a sook, because his wife didn’t reheat his lunch meals in the microwave and bring it to him during the days they both worked from home. Used the excuse it’s part of his love language to have things done for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 14 | Dear men lurking this sub...I suppose the flair for this post was spot on then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:56 AM |
| 22 | Never cook for a manNo, I’d much prefer a man to cook for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Probably his ex wrote this; but goes to show what you potentially are finding on OLD is only LVM looking for greener pastures.I wonder if he found out he was dumped when he read his bio. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:07 PM |
| 25 | Girlfriend vs prostitute: How men really see a women value in a relationship. GF=free sex dispenserI made the mistake of clicking on one of the commenter’s profile. I don’t ever want to have more insight into that mans head again. I don’t understand how someone can be so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 31 | Even Kendal fucking Jenner should be ashamed for being against an old man grapping her butt!!! What an ageist shallow bitch!!!Yes exactly. I still remember sometime last year I was watching snorkelling and diving videos, anyway I always head straight to the comments section and one video a women was snorkelling in her bikini and she has bigger breasts, so no joke every single comment was from some guy saying things like he wishes his wife had floatation devices like that or he has a sea cucumber in his pants etc. The list went on, it was like they all let their internet buddies know to come watch this vid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | What to do when a friend doesn’t see her value?Any chance she is the other women and knows this and is to ashamed to tell you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Submission and bringing him a problem?Is the ex the mother of his son? If yes, you can’t stop them from communicating with each other, they need to co-parent. It’s not fair for the kid to have to be in the middle of the two parents and relay what each parent said to the other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm clumsy, absent minded, and "behind" compared to other women my age(28). Boyfriend gets upset at my lack of common sense.There are some great comments offering some really good advice. I was just wondering if you have ever dated anyone other than your boyfriend? Did you ever go on a date in the time you two were not together when he moved away? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/19 04:48 AM |
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