Its0ver4U Archive

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1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck That's just all copacetic. There is no ulterior purpose to life other than procreation and building a family. If you can't do that, your life is worthless. For every genius virgin, there are 100 million more that are forgotten in history. I'm not a genius with an IQ of 190. I have no ability to seek a higher purpose. I'm doing everything I can and more and I'm completely stuck. There is no future for me. I really don't see myself making it past 30.	/r/seduction	27/10/20 09:36 PM
1	Your time is valuable- Dont waste it! Yea, not everyone has money to waste thousands of dollars on therapy. I was a content and happy and social person growing up. The only thing that changed was my appearance and the way that other people treated me. I used to be one of the most vocal and social people in my entire class and was very confident. I didn't develop my world-view until I actually experienced a lot of this shit.	/r/seduction	23/10/20 09:27 PM
1	Your time is valuable- Dont waste it! But you need therapy ASAP I've already spent close to $500 on therapy and the therapist doesn't really have any answers when confronted with my issues. I've been to two different therapists and neither of them were able to give me a reasonable amount of closure when it came to my personal opinions of the world or the dating scene. One of them actually agreed with a lot of what I said in regards to physical appearance mattering the most in the dating world. She told me that physical appearance is…	/r/seduction	23/10/20 05:09 PM
1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck Sure dude. Just be completely in denial about the fact that being grotesquely ugly severely hinders your social experiences.	/r/seduction	23/10/20 04:19 PM
2	Your time is valuable- Dont waste it! Meanwhile, I'm over here with years in the gym and self-improvement with close to 200 approaches and nothing to show for it. It's OVER	/r/seduction	23/10/20 03:39 PM
1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck Women tend to date and get with guys that noticeably disabled or disfigured because they're able to virtue-signal from it. They are only doing it to increase other's perceptions of them.	/r/seduction	23/10/20 05:33 AM
1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck Meanwhile, I'm over here doing 10x the work and getting 0 results. I'm literally ontop of all of my shit. I am doing everything possible. It still makes no difference. I watch guys that don't even have to try just attract everyone with zero effort while I'm sitting over here putting in hours per day on self-improvement and getting zero results. I watch guys with terrible personalities who are racists and misogynists effortlessly pick up girls with their looks alone whiel I get made fun of if I p…	/r/seduction	23/10/20 03:41 AM
2	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck I have posted there before on a different account and I got around an average of 3.5. My face is definitely significantly below average. I look like a version of Mark Zuckerberg that works out.	/r/seduction	23/10/20 02:47 AM
1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck I've posted my pics quite a few times over the years from different accounts. I'm just glad that my pictures weren't widespread and turned into a meme but the feedback I got was pretty brutal .	/r/seduction	23/10/20 02:46 AM
1	I want to share my experience, how I learned that one of the main things to do is stop giving a fuck You're just saying that because you were able to actually escape and date and have fun. If you looked like me, you probably would've killed yourself by now. I've had girls literally tell me that I'm going to die a virgin without ANY provocation. I've had people harass me in traffic before for how I look. Literally had a jeep with 2 girls in it pull up next to me and roll down their window and start recording me and then one yelled "Damn you ugly!" before they drove off. I literally tell people s…	/r/seduction	22/10/20 09:56 PM
4	The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you. Unless you're really tall and good-looking, this would never work. If you were tall and good-looking, you probably wouldn't be posting here. Also, you would have women approach you and ask you for your phone number. I'm friends with a few guys that get approached and flirter with nearly everywhere we go and it has nothing to do with their personality or their confidence.	/r/seduction	22/10/20 06:39 PM
1	I’m done You are 100% right. Most people on this subreddit that have success have no idea what "game" or "confidence" even means. They just attribute their success in dating to "confidence" and "personality" when, in reality, their entire success can be attributed to their physical appearance. I've been working on this shit for years, and I'm in a situation very similar to yourself. The only advice that people give me is to "go to the gym" and "work on my hygiene." Like bro... I've been going to the gym …	/r/seduction	20/10/20 11:27 PM
1	Are women intimidated by attractive men just as much as men are of attractive women? Yea, I've put years into my appearance and body and still haven't gotten lucky. Definitely doomed	/r/seduction	20/10/20 12:47 AM
0	19 What do I need to improve Pure virtue signaling and bullshit right here. A man can go from average to the best looking gent a woman has ever laid eyes on if you have character. Absolutlely false and even you don't believe this shit. Personality and confidence only matter if the physical requirements are already met. No woman's physical requirements are going to be met when an ugly overweight 5'7" guy is approaching her when she can just go on Tinder and swipe for a few minutes and get a 6'3" frat boy that hates minoritie…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 02:46 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve Your bone structure and height need improvement- erm, I mean, your confidence and personality ;)	/r/seduction	19/10/20 02:44 PM
-1	The problem lads, is me Yup, you aren't tall or good-looking enough. Sad to say, but it's the truth.	/r/seduction	19/10/20 02:44 PM
2	Are women intimidated by attractive men just as much as men are of attractive women? Yup. This is basically common sense, but idiots will still debate it and call you an incel for bringing it up. "Looks, height, and physique are the most important components of attraction and here's data to support it." "OMG INCEL NO WONDER YOU CAN'T GET LAID!"	/r/seduction	19/10/20 01:12 PM
1	30 Quick Tips For Attracting Women I know plenty of Sure you do bro...	/r/seduction	17/10/20 10:39 PM
0	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? Being this disingenuous. I assume you're just trying to antagonize and chastise me at this point.	/r/seduction	17/10/20 11:18 AM
10	Are women intimidated by attractive men just as much as men are of attractive women? Keep coping	/r/seduction	16/10/20 10:53 PM
1	5th day- The worst approach I have done/ Belgrade daygame diary Comparatively speaking with average-men? No, not at all. If an attractive guy is getting a match rate of 20% on tinder, that is still exponentially higher than any average guy. An average guy might be lucky to get 1 match per 100 swipes. "HoT GuYs GeT ReJeCtEd" Yea, and rich people still get depressed, but it's A LOT easier to sort out your problems and succeed at things when you have an insane amount of privilege behind you.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 06:09 PM
1	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? Literally everyone replying to me telling me that I'm not ugly and that I'm just not working hard enough... then proceeding to tell me things that I've already been implementing for over a decade...	/r/seduction	16/10/20 06:07 PM
0	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? According to everyone on this subreddit, yes.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 05:20 PM
0	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? studying and working on this shit for years "intellectual inadequacies" People on reddit man...	/r/seduction	16/10/20 04:40 PM
1	5th day- The worst approach I have done/ Belgrade daygame diary If you were an 8.5/10 the girls would've been approaching you. Jesus, this sub is so delusional.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 04:06 PM
0	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? social and intellectual inadequacies Bold to assume that I haven't been studying and working on this shit for years and could teach a class on it.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 04:05 PM
1	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit dressing sense I dress very well. I got into malefashionadvice all the way back in highschool. I dress way better than my peers and 99% of the people I see. If you are in a good shape? Been going to the gym for 3+ years. Perfect diet. Always give 110%. I have facial deformities. Women treat me really harshly and make fun of my appearance constantly. I've approached 200 women and all of them have harshly rejected me because of my looks.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 03:13 AM
1	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit You need to go outside more bro or actually get some friends that aren't ugly and socially reclusive. Actually go to a party and you will see how much looks matter.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 02:39 AM
1	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit It's a lot simpler than that. Are you a mental gymnast or something? Ugly = unwanted EWW get away from me I'm calling the police Hot = Teehee here's my number call me later and I'll come over and blow you.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 02:30 AM
1	30 Quick Tips For Attracting Women Nice list, but all of these combined aren't as important as looks alone. With just good looks, you can throw ALL of these out the window and do better than someone who has perfected all 30 of these.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 02:05 AM
1	5th day- The worst approach I have done/ Belgrade daygame diary Here's my expert analysis of each approach: 1: You weren't good looking enough. 2: You weren't good looking enough. 3: You weren't good looking enough. 4: You weren't good looking enough. Bro, none of these had anything to do with your approach. All of these girls would've fucked you THE SAME DAY if you were good-looking enough. All of these girls probably went home and swiped on Tinder after telling their friends how some ugly creep approached them earlier.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 02:04 AM
1	Is it optimal to be more direct with certain girls What if I'm really ugly? How am I supposed to approach them without getting the cops called on me? (I've had it happen 2 times before)	/r/seduction	16/10/20 02:00 AM
1	Delete The Dating Apps Chad only bro. Dating apps are only for the top 1% of men.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 01:58 AM
1	Why girls always see me as a friend? Because you aren't "boyfriend material" (tall, good-looking)	/r/seduction	16/10/20 01:57 AM
9	Are women intimidated by attractive men just as much as men are of attractive women? Non-attractive men are invisible to women.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 01:56 AM
3	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit What if I'm ugly?	/r/seduction	16/10/20 01:56 AM
0	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit Or... you get the cops called on you because you're too short and ugly to be approaching women.	/r/seduction	16/10/20 01:56 AM
0	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? But I already do all of that and more and I've yet to have any luck, so exactly how is the advice at all useful again?	/r/seduction	15/10/20 11:27 PM
-1	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? Naive thinking I'm not already polite and smile at people lmfao.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 07:47 PM
1	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. Pure delusion and mental gymnastics.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:33 PM
1	Try To Get Rejectes Post face so we can spread it around and make a meme out of you that will be shared for years! Hmm... all of the people telling me I'm ugly my entire life must've just been lying to me. My own family telling me that I am probably never going to get married had nothing to do with my looks... even if you look like freaking quasimodo girls are still going to be nice about it when they're saying no Funny how you're trying to lecture someone who actually knows what they're talking about and has anecd…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:23 PM
1	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. For all we know you're an average looking guy. No, the basic fact that I'm saying I'm regularly called ugly and singled out because of it should be enough for you to logically deduce that I'm actually not even close to average. My anecdotes are so extreme that there are people literally saying that shit like this doesn't happen. All it does is show how ignorant most of the people replying to me are. No one here is remotely ugly, otherwise they would all be agreeing with me and my anecdotes. So u…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 03:01 PM
0	Try To Get Rejectes IS TRUE that girls generally don't put regular looking men down this directly or harshly fixed that for you So many mental gymnastics to avoid just admitting the truth. So... literally having a girl walk by me and call me ugly or say EW right to my face is because of my "approach". Sure bro, makes complete sense to me.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 02:57 PM
1	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. That was hardly supportive dude. It's literally useless advice. "Just hide your face on your dating profiles and use your personality bro." I mean, I can't really judge since most of these guys are just trying to be helpful, but they're speaking from positions of insane ignorance. If anything looks matter the most on online dating. To say that I should just take my pictures off online dating almost sounds like intentionally misleading advice if anything.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 05:20 AM
4	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. Hide your face on your profile and use your personality? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:44 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? How is anything that I said even remotely close to false? Your confidence is literally based on your social proof and validation that you get from people. The whole idea of thinking that confident guys get girls is idiotic and a platitude. The guys that can get girls in the first place become confident, and then idiots falsely attribute their success with women to their confidence when it was really all their looks. There are tons of women that outright say that confidence in a short or ugly guy…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:30 AM
4	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. This seems like pretty bad advice. When actually ugly people talk about their looks, it just makes things really awkward. Like what am I supposed to say? "Hey, my friends call me ugly, what's your name?"	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:26 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? I think if anything, I'm very laid-back and casual with my approaches. I rarely every overtly flirt right off the bat and never make overtly sexual comments about someone's appearance. I just aim to have a friendly conversation and if anything else happens from there, then so be-it. I'm not going into most of these conversations with the main goal of asking them out. I'm talking to most of these people just to talk to them. Even if I wasn't asking women out, I would still be talking to them and …	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:13 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Your grooming, your smile, your style, I've already perfected all of these. Been going to the gym for 3+ years.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 04:06 AM
-3	Try To Get Rejectes Nice denial. "Since this doesn't co-align with my world-views, it must be contrived and false." Nah bro. I've been randomly insulted and harshly put down dozens of times in my life. There are tons of other guys out there just like me that claim the same exact things. It's very real and super common if you're ugly.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 03:20 AM
-6	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. 5'7" is right around average and balding isn't that bad. I actually have fucked up bonestructure so it can be a huge struggle. I have literal facial deformities and it's kind of hurtful the way that people treat me	/r/seduction	15/10/20 03:12 AM
0	Try To Get Rejectes /r/amiugly is a bunch of people just looking for validation. No one actually ugly posts their pictures online because they already know that they're ugly. I've approached close to 200 girls and have been rejected by all of them due to my looks. Already perfected my body, my hygiene, my sense of fashion. None of it makes a difference. Got hobbies, joined clubs, went out and talked to people. None of it helped because I'm actually ugly. By your theory, I should have dated dozens of women by now, b…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 03:11 AM
25	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. I met her on tinder Lol. You attracted her with looks and then you typed all of this shit out to avoid saying that it was just your looks. Meeting her on tinder ALONE proves that it was all looks in her decision to go out with you. Again, more useless advice from /r/seduction.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 02:40 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Yea, not really physically compatible with someone like that. I'm not going to date someone that I have the polar opposite personality to. I'm a fit guy that's motivated and in-shape and driven in my life. I wouldn't be attracted to her personality or her lack of health and fitness.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:54 AM
0	How do I cope with rejection? Doesn't really work like that. Women date up and across while men date down and across. Women don't want to date men in their own leagues.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:50 AM
-8	If you arent very attractive is your only hope is to be good socially? How much of an obstacle are you facing? Being good looking is one but it isn't that big of a factor really. Yiiikes. Right off the start with something that is overtly false. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19558447/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5519305/ Only the responders’ perception of the targets’ physical attractiveness predicted romantic interest; specifically, responders’ who rated the targets’ physical attractiveness as higher than themselves reported more romantic interest. It's looks and pretty much only look…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:49 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? looks arent everything Looks being 99.99% "LoOkS ArEn'T EvErYtHiNg"	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:43 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Already smile at people. Whitened my teeth and got teeth straightened a few years ago. Now what?	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:37 AM
2	How do I cope with rejection? Getting in shape, getting a haircut, and wearing fitting clothes is one of them What if you've already done all of these and still get harshly rejected? have you seen JayZ? Yea, you mean the 6'2" famous guy that has like a 1B net worth with his wife? Looks are very low on how girls rate men! Every psychologist and anthropologist would like a word with you. In-fact, it is the ONLY accurate predictor of romantic attraction that has been identified through decades of research on the topic of dating…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:31 AM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Okay, I've been getting 2 haircuts a month for the last 5 years. Now what?	/r/seduction	15/10/20 01:29 AM
2	How do I cope with rejection? There's no confidence for your face. If you are instantly rejected and insulted constatnyl for your appearance, no amount of confidence will make you attractive.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:01 PM
1	How do I cope with rejection? Sounds like you need better genetics bro. I've been working on myself for years now constantly and still get harshly rejected by girls because I don't look like a male model. It's insane to think that nearly 1/3 of young men today can't get laid because of women's inflated standards. There is a lot of scary shit in store for our civilizations in 10-15 years. 99% of the women sleeping with the top 1% of men will soon be a reality.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 10:01 PM
1	How I Turned Myself Into A Social Butterfly Try to do these things with people you meet - Ask them questions and be the one to approach - Relate to them by giving your personal experiences - Listen to them and actually care about them. Everything you described here already covers everything that I do. I wish you knew how frustrating it is for me to try to tell you that I already do all of this stuff but see zero results. I'm not saying your advice is bad, I'm just saying that I'm already doing all of this stuff and never see results. It's…	/r/seduction	14/10/20 08:36 PM
1	How I Turned Myself Into A Social Butterfly Or... I'm just hideous? Once you're ugly or weird looking past a certain point, it affects every aspect of your life, not just dating. I have a few friends, but I've been called ugly and made fun of by the few friends that I've had for my entire life. Gotta love the redditors that talk around issues and victim-blame. Classic reddit moment.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 01:49 PM
1	How I Turned Myself Into A Social Butterfly Thanks lol. At least someone finally admits it.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 01:10 PM
-1	I am scared as fuck to gout alone It's over for you bro. Genetics fucked over both of us. Make sure to audio record yourself in your pocket just in-case any girls report you to the cops and try to get you arrested by making something up because you're ugly and women hate ugly men.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 04:28 AM
2	How I Turned Myself Into A Social Butterfly Ugly is such a subjective thing It really isn't. There are tons of characteristics that are seen as unanimously ugly. but if you have horrible hygiene and smell bad Take great care of myself. Shower and wear cologne. Also have great posture and a fit athletic body goes a long way Been going to the gym for 3 years and help guys with their training and get asked for advice from people. Doesn't matter how bad you look, everyone respects and appreciates a good-looking body. Only if you're decent loo…	/r/seduction	14/10/20 04:10 AM
0	Almost successful! More like genetics lol. He already had the looks. He just wasn't capitalizing on it. You can have all of the confidence in the world, but if you aren't good-looking, you will never get laid.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 03:23 AM
1	Don't dwell on rejections I never take it personally unless the make it personal. I've approached ~200 girls so far and have been rejected by all 200, but ~25 or so harshly rejected me and outright insulted my appearance as the reason why they were rejecting me. It kind of sucks how superficial people are at college and how much looks matter. The "college experience" is only really valid if you're decent looking. I don't know a single ugly person who has ever had the college experience.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 02:54 AM
2	How I Turned Myself Into A Social Butterfly What if I'm ugly?	/r/seduction	14/10/20 02:27 AM
1	How do I avoid the 20 questions trap? Limiting myself by busting my ass in school and constantly approaching people and trying to be sociable? I used to be super confident and driven, but now I'm more socially recluse and reserved because of the way that people treated me when I was trying to be sociable and friendly.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 09:59 PM
2	Too many girls = having trouble picking one Maslow's Hierarchy of needs begs to differ.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 09:16 PM
1	How do I avoid the 20 questions trap? Hmmm, totally makes sense why people who I don't even know insult me to my face and make fun of me. Yea bro that really explains it. The fact that I can talk to a girl for over a week online and she tells me wants to meet me and then ghosts me as soon as I send her a selfie that took me like 10 minutes to set-up. I'm literally outright ghosted as my best and women will literally tell me I'm too ugly to my face if I try to talk to them in public. It's absurd. I just try to talk to someone and the…	/r/seduction	13/10/20 08:49 PM
1	Too many girls = having trouble picking one What if I have already perfected every aspect of my life is fixable? Should I just kill myself then?	/r/seduction	13/10/20 08:27 PM
0	How do I avoid the 20 questions trap? Gotta adapt to your cirmcumstances. I'm pretty ugly so I know to not waste my time on people that don't care about me because of my looks. Looks are all that matter.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 08:15 PM
1	Yo this crazy Your comment makes absolutely zero sense. I've approached ~200 times over the span of 3 years bro. I also have put tons of work into myself in the gym, joined clubs, volunteered, learned instruments, learned languages. None of it matters. I put in more effort than guys that can date practically any woman they want. Looks are 99.99% of your success in dating.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 07:10 PM
0	Yo this crazy I've been rejected close to 200 times. 0 numbers yet and have had dozens of women outright insult me and call me ugly. Thinking of hanging myself soon. Life is so unfair if you aren't born good-looking.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 06:59 PM
0	How do I avoid the 20 questions trap? You dip out of the conversation altogether. If a girl isn't interested in you and isn't contributing to a conversation, she isn't attracted to you. Plain and simple. You need to be physically attractive to get the attention of women BEFORE you even consider talking to them and getting to know them. If you're ugly, you could be a silver-tounged devil and say the EXACT right things to her, and still go home empty-handed. If you're tall and good-looking, you can literally talk to her about how you …	/r/seduction	13/10/20 06:46 PM
1	Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To It Welp, all this post told me was that I am ugly and unwanted. Have without a doubt never experienced this once in my entire life. Where do I go from here? Already been to the gym for years, perfect hygiene, tons of hobbies, play multiple instruments proficiently, speak multiple languages, volunteer, great personality. What do I do? I've been to dozens and dozens of parties and girls talk to me like I'm a disfigured hunchback. Haven't gotten a single number in close to 200 approaches after reading…	/r/seduction	13/10/20 06:29 PM
2	Too many girls = having trouble picking one Congrats on the genetics bro. Meanwhile, there are some of us who were dealt a shit hand who have approached nearly 200 women and haven't gotten a single phone number and have been called ugly at least 2 dozen times.	/r/seduction	13/10/20 06:19 PM