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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 65 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the book | FDS SUCCESS! | ItsApenin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 23 | Mood for life 🎶🎶🎶 | FDS HUMOR | ItsApenin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | 1+ year of FDS = 🏋️♀️🤽♀️🚣♀️🩰👩🎨💵👩❤️👨 | WHOLESOME CONTENT | ItsApenin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Listen to Logic 😂 | LEVEL UP | ItsApenin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Mood | ItsApenin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:19 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 39 | The complicated coffee order and the HV and LVM reactions.I was a non-dairy, keto, vegetarian when I met my boyfriend. He tried so hard in those early days, and he still does. He doesn’t eat half the things he stocks his fridge with now 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 7 | Comeback queenLaughed out loud! Then shared it with my HVM. His response “Hahaha. That’s perfect. That should be the only reply.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 3 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DWhat I love so much about this is that when you find your partner they will know you expect care/have this as a standard because of how they witness you give it to yourself. Leading by example 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookCongrats on the one year! And thanks for adding your perspective. Having a lot of rules is such a a key element of vetting that it really helped me practice vetting. I got comfortable with saying no, and also with saying yes then changing my mind and saying no. With ending something before it even started and just being super duper picky! Saying no got so much easier the more I practiced :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 4 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookCongratulations on being in your final year! That’s very exciting. Good luck with OLD. It really does suck, but luckily not 100% of the time lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 12 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookThank you for making a comment rather than just downvoting. I spend a lot of time over at FemaleLevelUpStrategy and one of the things I feel this sub is lacking is more discourse with women who have differing experiences. Of course, when learning something new, hard and fast rules is the best way to enforce and developed good habits, especially when we are undoing ingrained bad ones, but it can also lead to a lack of communication and compassion. This is hard. But we are in it together and I jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 13 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookHaving done both I will unequivocally say that in my small town it is much less of a hook up vibe. I feel for you city ladies! It was awful :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookHere’s another instance where Covid made things different. We talked very early on about exclusivity because even hugging is risky. Commitment took much longer, but that was my delay. I wanted to make sure we were a good fit and not rushing due to lust/hormones/honeymoon. He’s been thoughtful, patient, and understanding every step of the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:58 AM |
| -11 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the book5 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 15 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookJust follow the rule book. Don’t make the first move. Don’t make excuses for them. Hold OLD to the same standard. A man who is actually interested in you will show up. If he doesn’t he’s not interested or he’s not HVM. Either way you don’t want that. Our relationship started in Covid so I had to change the rules slightly ie no walking dates— we couldn’t go out anywhere but he came to my town and walked all over the hills with me and my dog, six feet apart. For weeks! He sent me books he was read… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:56 AM |
| 20 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookHahah. So many times! I have all the same complaints... the empty the profiles, the one liner hellos, the cheaters, but I only needed one winner. And I got real good at vetting! It was great practice :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | FDS approved movie recommendations?Rogue One | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:06 AM |
| 6 | Is anyone having luck OLD with a pandemic going on?Yes! I met a wonderful, kind, HVM via OLD in this pandemic. It IS possible :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | And I oop...My man does. And I learned how to vet for him right here on this sub! Thanks ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameOh damn!!! 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | When do I give up and choose myself?Read Why Men Love Bitches. It will answer all your questions/confusions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 12:30 AM |
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