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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do i disconnect from results? Approach more. It's just like anything else. The more you do something, the better you get at it and the less you care about fucking up.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:45 AM
1	Just A Little Tip For Anyone Who Doesn’t Know….. That's a weird thing to say. Just approach everyone like a normal person. If their boyfriend or whatever suddenly shows up, just be friendly and gauge the vibe. Most of the time, it's best to just do a polite exit like "nice talking to you guys, have a good night". But if they're cool, you just made new friends that raise your value in the bar/club; you can chat for a bit and exit later.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:44 AM
1	How do you confirm dates with Gen Z girls after a cold approach? I'd personally stick to texting. But to be fair, I hate phone calls. I have a buddy who loves video calls and has great success doing it with girls. But he usually meets girls through apps, not through cold approach.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:40 AM
3	Making out on a date Making out with a girl on a date without sleeping with her is an advanced move. I wouldn't recommend it unless you know what you're doing. You're right that you should only do it when you're not taking them home or there's a reason you can't sleep with them that night. If you do it, you should get heavy, stop as she's getting horny, and make it clear to the girl that you're stopping by saying something like "Not tonight" or "I don't want to rush this." That way she knows that you want to go furt…	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:38 AM
2	Should I escalate more often than I do even though I think it will fail? When it doubt, escalate. Err on the side of boldness rather than playing it safe. Having said that, I prefer to save kissing for my place. It's too easy to diffuse the sexual tension by kissing a girl. They feel like they already "got you" and had their fun so they're less likely to want to go back with you or meet you again. Of course it also depends on many factors, like where exactly you're meeting these girls. Heavy kino is much more expected/normal at a night club versus meeting a girl on t…	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:30 AM
4	Boys. No matches? Delete your accounts TODAY, recreate on the 91st day. In the meantime, go do in person activities ONLY. Apps suck ass for average-looking guys. I wouldn't bother. All the best girls I've met were IRL through cold approach, meetups, and occasional night life.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:26 AM
1	When to actually escalate touch? Well for one thing, a hug is one type of kino that is easy to mess up. Because friends often hug each other. Especially in this context where you haven't made a clear move on the girl and have only been friendly. If you want to establish touch, it's better to go with something that has more plausible deniability. My go-to is to touch the girl's jewelry, like a ring, bracelet, earrings, or necklace. Ring/bracelet is the best in your case as it's less intimidating for the girl. And make a comment …	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:25 AM
3	If youre not gaming groups youre not gaming Gaming groups is significantly harder than a solo girl. Having said that, the most attractive girls will almost always be in a group regardless of where you meet them. So you'll have to learn how to approach groups if you want to maximize your chances. I recommend sticking to 2 girls, 3 and above is significantly harder. My approach is pretty simple. Open both girls with something simple (Hello, how are you guys doing if I can't think of anything else), get their names and basic info, then start…	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:12 AM
1	When to actually escalate touch? Where are you meeting her? At the library again? Is this a date, or you're just hanging out/studying together in the daytime? Personally I'd save any kino for a proper date, whether it be coffee, drinks, walk in the park, whatever. If you're just meeting her at the library again, IMO a hug would either come off weird or actually place you more into the friendzone.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 05:06 AM
3	Cold approach week another failure but progress. What's you're describing is a natural progression of cold approach. At first, you're scared and think it will go terribly. You imagine the girls rejecting you terribly, making you feel like a creep, etc. Then you do it a bunch and realize it ain't so bad. Then you realize you can just go ahead and hit on them. Then you start actually getting responses on the number/whatsapp/IG you got. Then you get laid. It is a lot of up and down and you will have times where you seemingly get rejected 30 times…	/r/seduction	19/01/26 06:28 AM
2	IG is less useful than in the past It depends on the context. If I meet a girl who's with a friend I usually ask for IG (from both girls) because girls are more guarded around their friends and you have to soften your approach a bit. Then I'll reach out later and try to set up a date with the girl I was interested in. If I meet a local girl solo, then I usually ask for their Line (the most common messaging app in Japan and Thailand where I've spent most of my time recently). If it's a girl who travels a lot like me, I also usuall…	/r/seduction	19/01/26 06:25 AM
1	Stares, double takes, choosing signals from women Being tall and losing weight makes you more attractive to women, news at 11! No shit sherlock. But looks just get you a foot in the door, they don't do all the work. You still have to approach and hit on the lady in question. Women are not men, we have to approach, the maximum most women will do is give you a look or hang in your vicinity.	/r/seduction	19/01/26 06:14 AM
1	For the people that are successful when approaching girls Don't complement their looks. Unless you can't think of anything else. Pretty girls get that a billion times a day on social media, work, university, etc. Usually I just say hello how are you, or complement something not related to their face, like hello, your shoes are cute, your hair looks nice, etc. Or open contextually like "your dog is cute" or something. As for what to say after there isn't really a set script. But ask general questions/make assumptions about her. Get to know each other a …	/r/seduction	19/01/26 06:08 AM
5	IG is less useful than in the past Apps and social media are mostly a mind rotting cancer, but you can improve your success with women if you use them the right (limited) way. My recommendation as a mid 30s guy -- go ahead and use IG if you're using it for a good reason, like staying in touch with people, for work, or to simply share your interesting life with your friends. But don't use it if you're wasting your time on it doomscrolling, looking at hot girls, comparing yourself to other people, etc. I use IG because I've been tr…	/r/seduction	19/01/26 06:00 AM
1	Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches. Yes, cold approach is a numbers game. It's a fairly low success rate. Anything from 1-5% lays is fairly normal. Keep in mind though, that's just getting laid. If you want a girlfriend, that rate goes even lower, as many girls will be one and done. As for your question: Since you're new to cold approach, you will likely need to do more than 100 approaches to get 1 interested girl (assuming you're only approaching girls you find attractive and not lowering your standards). You'll need to fuck up a…	/r/seduction	19/01/26 05:51 AM
1	Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energy It's all about energy/vibe/confidence. People tell you to fake it till you make it but you can't. This shit only comes from REAL belief in yourself and knowing that you're putting in the work and living the life that you want to live. No shortcuts here. When you're on top of your shit, you will 100% do better with women. Another great thing about having that energy and confidence is that you care less about women because your life is already great. And that actually can attract them more. It's k…	/r/seduction	19/01/26 05:42 AM
2	Reflections on trying to do cold approaches in Japan as an introvert Cold approach is pretty difficult in Japan. I've been living in Tokyo for 4 months (plus visited a total of 3 months last year) and so far all of my successes are from meeting English-speaking Japanese girls at meetups. I have tried cold approach but it's rough. The closest I got was getting a hot girl to agree to a date but she didn't show up. The biggest reason is language barrier (Japanese is hard for english speakers and most Japanese don't speak English) and the fact that attractive Japanes…	/r/seduction	28/10/25 11:59 AM