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GeneralItsHappenedBefore42/r/MensRights08/07/26 09:12 PM
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Thats my point. We act on the feeling, not the facts, That you cannot change. We act on the perceived risk, not the actual risk. It works the other way as well. We put ourselves in danger because we downplay the risks. 'Facts ' ( that you believe to be a facts) are just one of the inputs to a decision. I have never been attacked by a lion, but I won't go and try and pet one. Where did I get that fear? Is it accurate? A person who lives with lions may say it is not, What is the 'fact in that case…
/r/MensRights07/08/26 05:04 PM
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You are missing the biggest one. Emotions skew how we see the facts, For example there may be a 5% chance that you will be in a car accident, By showing videos of car accidents you can make a person feel that the risk is almost a 100% chance, So if you have been abused by a person in a particular group, you will probably feel that it is 'normal' for that group and you will skew what you feel the risk is when dealing with another member of that group. You can't change that. Its how the brain work…
/r/MensRights07/08/26 03:24 PM
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The supreme court just ruled that men can sue women who have falsely accused them. False accusations is their most powerful violence to us, and it is now clearly being seen as that. That has happened quite quickly after the Me-2-Movement. Definitely has not been ineffective,
/r/MensRights06/08/26 04:58 PM
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Any 'ism' is usually about tribalism, and that is about who they are and where they were brought up. Everyone feels the world would be better if everyone thought and acts like they do. That they are oppressed and are treated unfairly by the 'others' The irony is that we are all alike in a relative way. You can't stop 'isms'. The world will basically follow the path of those who accomplish more and will leave the path of those that just complain and blame. As you can see now, feminism is starting…
/r/MensRights06/08/26 04:44 PM
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Feminism has turned child bearing and having a family and caring for children as a negative. This is destroying our society. You can already see dramatic drops in birthrates. There will not be enough youth to make society work and also support the aging. Bearing children is the only thing men cannot do. It the only thing that is 100% the responsibility of women to do and they are walking away from it. We cannot only have men and women who act as men .
/r/MensRights25/07/26 07:31 PM
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Ironically most people didn't know who MLK was until the movie came out. The movie gave a more powerful message to more people than he did, by an order of magnitude.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 12:23 AM
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It was the movies and TV shows that showed minorities in professional positions and getting respect that changed minds. Women were shown doing mens work etc. Blacks were in a middle class neighborhood and were treated as equals.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 11:17 PM
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The most powerful activism has always be delivered via entertainment.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 10:41 PM
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Feminism is not about reality. Its about trying to deny reality. They bond on their suffering. Thats all they really have , since they control so little. I don't blame them. Men are out doing them in virtually every area. Its a hard pill to swallow. Like all religions, they exist because it gives the believers a sense they are in control and are the 'chosen' ones. Men are just interested in getting things done. Thats how the world was built. Men bond on their accomplishments.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 12:03 AM
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Take a look at this channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thehappywifeschool It may to help you make sense of it, and also at some point it may help your wife if she was to see it.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 07:57 PM
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The irony is that it was men who created and drew the characters, and bought the comic books with those female heros. The movie are written very differently than the books. The books know what the audience wants.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 02:44 AM
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Men need other men, more than they need women. The problem is that it is more difficult for some men to meet up and make male friends. That is what can cause a feeling of loneliness. Ironically it is made worse when men think women will solve the problem as they tend to downplay the male friend option. Strong male friends FIRST. Then a woman, if you want to raise a family.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 07:22 PM
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No, you have to be someone that another person wants to be with. Its always been that way.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 07:04 PM
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Its about what YOU bring to a relationship. There are tens of thousands finding good relationships. It is not the women. You think you are buying a car. A car doesn't care about the driver. You ARE the car. You want a great driver. It is very different. You are the product , not them. Love is blind. When she loves you for who you are you won't be thinking about her flaws. Look for someone that thinks you are a great person.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 05:41 PM
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My son is 6' 4" and good looking and out going. Women approach him all the time. The hottest women in a room will make sure he sees them. When he was at University they would bring him his coffee during class. He is unaware that this is not what 'normal' men experience. Yes some guys have it real easy.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 02:52 PM
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Wanting to raise a family is not being a traitor. Being strong enough to handle the complexities of a relationship requires practice. Men need to support those who have a fear of women. Our survival as a species depends on it! Men excel at virtually everything. We dominate virtually all fields, both physical and mental. However, we cannot have children, so we need women. That is why we have the natural drive to be with them.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 07:46 PM
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If it was, you would expect an equal number of men and women behind it. It is male dominated and mostly about male focused goals.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 07:41 PM
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Actually men are great at uniting. That's why they use us as soldiers.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 07:37 PM
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I think this subreddit shows that is there is 'meninism'. However feminism, ironically worked because many men felt equal rights made sense. The mistake was that is wasn't about equal rights. I think the red-pill 'movement' is our version.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 07:07 PM
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She is a bigot. You cannot change her mind. You will never be excepted. You can go to her boss, but only do so if you are ready to leave, as her boss not have any ability to change the situation. Keep a detailed diary of what happens everyday and write down what has already happened. This can become very useful in the future should you fight for compension.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 03:11 PM
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The op is not feeling safe. Do all men not feel safe around women? No. Its the ops perception of 4 billion people that is the issue. And yes there are a lot of women with the same bigotry about men. Bigotry exists for everything . 4 billion people are all the same? All bigotry is ridiculous when you really think about it. I have never met a happy bigot.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 04:27 PM
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You are judging a person based on a negative view of their type.. This is called bigotry. If you were a racist, you would have negative thoughts about a black man you saw, for example, before you knew anything about the actual man. Always assume the best of a person, and then let their actions change your view. If you immediately assume the worst, without knowing them, - well you know the problem is with you, not them. So do what you would like others to do with you. Don't you want them to assum…
/r/MensRights21/05/26 03:48 PM
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I agree. It is about the child and should be framed that way. We all need to know who our parents are as genetics plays such an import role in diagnosing illnesses.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 02:55 PM
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The TRUTH needs to be known by EVERYONE. DNA data banks can be used to identify the father, as they do in cold cases. Just having to do that gives everyone a lot of the truth. Lies are what are tough on everyone.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 01:15 PM
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I agree. It must be mandatory. There is no reason to be against a paternity test, if you are an honest person.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 04:58 PM
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Because they see themselves as the 'victims'. This also happens with groups that see themselves as 'oppressed'. These groups can also include men. Once you have that mindset then your problems are because of the 'oppressor, you can't be at fault because that would mean you are responsible for the life you have. It would also mean that your world view is wrong. The easy way to see if that is true is see how they bond in their group. If they bond over their problems, their victimhood, then its lik…
/r/MensRights28/04/26 06:23 PM
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I'm your age and I am a bit surprised that you feel this is strange. Young girls are at a physical disadvantage. Their only security is that you don't focus on them. They are not terrified of life, they are aware they have little power if you decide to make their life miserable, or if you felt a smile meant something else. I try to make them feel safe by ignoring them. If they initiate the contact then I will reply. I'm 6'5" and I am well aware that they would feel they would be in big trouble i…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 05:32 PM
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They assume the ones they want are not the ones giving up. That is the problem with delusions. Reality doesn't concern you.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:25 PM
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Any 'ism' is focused on a single biased view point which will create divisions. They will protect their own - tribalism. They never lead to anywhere good. Racism doesn't really help the racists.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 04:05 AM
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Actually I never heard of the WAW effect before! I would be interested to see if that has changed over the last 'red pill' years. I think most men would like women to be wonderful. The men who have had the love of a mother as a child would likely feel that. The more feminists try to become men, they will lose that effect.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:20 AM
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Circumcision was created by and enforced by men. It has always been about control. Its a way to 'brand' a man. I am a victim. My sons are not. It is becoming less excepted, but it will be some men that will try to continue the 'tradition' and its easier to enforce it on a child.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:38 AM
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The whole point is about having the choice.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:30 AM
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It is becoming increasing hard for a decent person ( woman or man) to respect their actions as a group. We respect strength. Blame comes from the weak.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:28 AM
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They feel they are already perfect, but they are unhappy. So it must be because of the others. If one of them was to say, but we are sometimes the problem, its the feminist's that will jump on her. So they have to blame the others to be accepted by the group. Any group that gets their strength from blaming others, will eventually fail. Many examples of that throughout history.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:20 AM
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Learn to deal with reality. Don't fear women. They are just people. If someone said they don't like to be around trees. What are the options? Learn to be comfortable around trees, or avoid trees. Which gives you more freedom?
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:08 PM
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100% agree. 50 - 50.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:24 AM
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They should include looking into the Catholic Church and their abuse of boys.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 12:09 AM
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Unfortunately, anytime a man is alone with a woman, he is vulnerable to this crime. It is a crime. Women cost $. One way or the other, you will have to pay for their company.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 11:32 PM
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Their actions are very predictable if you see the main logic is for women to avoid responsibility for what happens in their lives. That means men are the problem. Women bond on how others have caused them a problem. Men however are much more likely to accept responsibility, as they want to solve the problem, even when they are not responsible for it. Men bond over their accomplishments and problems they solved. Its not double standards, its that men accept all responsibility. The upside of that …
/r/MensRights02/04/26 07:30 PM
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Women bond over being a victim. They get pity, which they interpret as a form of love. It a guaranteed way to get unquestioned support. A woman that takes responsibility for her actions and not blame a man for her problems is going to get blowback from other women. Feminism has weaponized that psychology of women.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 01:26 AM
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"stunningly beautiful and charming." She has been flooded with attention and desire from men without having to do anything of value to deserve it. The when men understand who she really is, she has only the tools of a spoilt child to try and get what she wants. Beauty is a curse, very few women survive with good mental health.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 11:38 PM
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If you are going to act like the police, please show your badge.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 04:24 PM
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I clearly showed the difference between the rights we have.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 03:26 PM
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Men have the 'right' to be forced to die for some political agenda. Men have the 'right' to not have crisis centers that deal with woman's abuse to men. Men have the 'right' to be judged guilty just because a womans word is worth more. Both men and women are raised with expectations. Men should go to work and support a family. Mens physical and mental health is a secondary issues. Why are men in coal mines? Because they were told its what they should do. Women's true ability to contribute to soc…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 03:14 PM
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Really. Women give blow jobs. . They are saying he gives blow jobs like women do. That is the woman 'behavior'. That's the insult.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 04:42 AM
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So they are insulting him for being too masculine?
/r/MensRights29/03/26 04:37 AM
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Because women's behavior in a gym is problematic.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 04:03 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effeminacy
/r/MensRights29/03/26 04:01 AM
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I think there are a lot of men that would love a mens only gym. Perhaps most men. Its a very good business opportunity. It is interesting that a woman would use gay as an insult, since in a lot of cases a gay man behaves more like a woman. There are good people out there so don't assume they are all insane. Just know the odds are that a sane one is rare.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:21 AM
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Its what you accomplish over the entirety of your life that counts. Men can be proud. Over the last 10000 years we have literally built everything we have. All the buildings and roads, all the wonders of the world, all the fights for freedom. The greatest accomplishments, discovering new worlds and sending man into space We are great at sports, math, music, and science. Can they shame us in our youth? Yes, but that is because they know what we will be able to do in the future. It is one small ti…
/r/MensRights28/03/26 01:52 PM
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Any time you defend something, you will get opposition. If your point is well presented and hard to refute, they have 2 choices. Give you the point or do a personal attack. Unfortunately the personal attack is the most likely choice in the MRA conversation. If all men are bad, and you are providing an example of one that is not bad, then it is logical ,for them, to think that must mean you will be bad. Its all about justifying their bigotry. Just don't become like that women. Defend what is righ…
/r/MensRights27/03/26 09:13 PM
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Feminists have a problem. They know that everything they see and touch was because of men. The accomplishments we, as humans, are proud of - done by men. 10000 years and still they are struggling to understand why men have accomplished so much. Ironically it is because they are obsessed with themselves and not the world around them.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 03:21 PM
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Elevator pitch: Men need to understand we are under attack and we need to pull together and start defending ourselves. If they ask how are men under attack, you can list the issues you feel are the most imprtant.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 12:23 AM
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Because women need to feel they are the oppressed ones. Its how they get cred with other women and justify the problems in their life. If they acknowledge men are as 'human' as they are, then they would have take responsibility for what is happening in their life instead of blaming men.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 12:18 AM
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Feminism has become weaponized sexism. Any 'ism' tends to work out badly.
/r/MensRights26/03/26 10:49 PM
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