ItsKaptainKilljoy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	An Epidemic of Self-Trust	Discussion	ItsKaptainKilljoy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/20 10:01 AM

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2	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I think women believe marriage will change their man, and that it will make their relationship "feel" a certain way. When their man doesn't change, and marriage doesn't feel the way they expected, they get disappointed and bounce. I'm basing this on what my ex-wife told me, what my brother's ex told him, and countless other stories I've come across.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 09:30 PM
3	It's hilarious feminists think they're the righteous rebellion fighting against the big bad system when... Well said	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 06:16 PM
8	It's hilarious feminists think they're the righteous rebellion fighting against the big bad system when... It's just cultural lag. Everyone is fighting to change a situation that existed 15 years ago.	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 01:08 AM
1	Just your turn What is with dudes seducing their friends' partners? "hoes before bros" seems to be SOP, apparently.	/r/MGTOW2	17/06/21 06:47 PM
8	Abuse is abuse I feel like these articles are motivated by the fear that if we start paying attention to group X we will stop paying attention to group Y. Ironically, the more you try to control what people pay attention to, the LESS credence you enjoy in the eyes of the public.	/r/MensRights	14/05/21 12:46 AM
3	Boys are raised by women, but then all of the problems are somehow just men's fault? As a species, we have a difficult time understanding problems that are interactional - i.e. the aggregate result of multiple individuals reacting to each other. We’re always looking for a single individual to blame - either the dad or the mom. Some people look at single moms and are like “what did she do to end up as a single mom” or saying “what did the dad do wrong to push her away?” Maybe it’s the sum result of two people making less-than-ideal choices in response to each other? Sometimes two…	/r/MensRights	08/05/21 11:06 PM
1	Most feminists are radical feminists by the literal dictionary definition of radical feminism: "the belief that society functions as a patriarchy in which men oppress women" The OP acknowledges the differences in feminist ideology, but there is also broad disagreement about strategy. Sex-positive and sex-negative feminists agree on a lot of ideological grounds, but subscribe to different strategies about how women should react to sex. Do you topple the patriarchy by burning your bra or looking fantastic in it? Does prostitution exemplify sex slavery or female entrepreneurialism? Depends on who you ask. There are feminists who agree about the patriarchy but disagree …	/r/MensRights	06/05/21 10:06 PM
3	Any former MGTOW here that changed their mind and got married? What's your story? I’d marry her too after all that. I’m happy for you, man. You found one of the good ones.	/r/MGTOW2	01/05/21 10:49 PM
1	So I’ve come across this on Instagram so I decided to check up on google trends for such and only record I could find was 100 searches or so all from United States but then I got curious and searched the term “kill men” and while they’re consistently around 70-100 searches worldwide The only conclusion I reach from stuff like this is that everyone is terrible.	/r/MensRights	30/04/21 11:02 PM
1	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. I agree that actions like dating, having sex, and marrying someone mean something, but I don’t think they mean what you think they mean. It doesn’t mean “complete acceptance of the romantic partner.” Women stay in sexual relationships even though they aren’t sexually satisfied by their partner. Women stay in committed relationships even though they aren’t emotionally satisfied. Lots of marriages out there have dead bedrooms, infidelity, toxicity, deception, boredom, conflict - and we know about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 08:32 PM
3	A story about two monks and a woman.. Reminds me of the quote from the Sufi port Rumi: “life is a balance of holding on and letting go.”	/r/MGTOW2	25/03/21 09:27 PM
8	Women don't like men as much as men like women. I really appreciate your post - I feel like you've taken something really, really complicated and simplified it into a centralized concept.	/r/MGTOW2	13/02/21 03:21 AM
2	It's just easier to blame men. It explains a lot "I've never seen a man red pill in real time" is the funniest thing I've read on this sub. Kudos.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 11:08 PM
2	Someone please Enlighten me why I am getting downvote!! You can't go through life freaking out about 16 opinions. If it was 16 upvotes I'd say the same thing.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 10:19 PM
3	How do you deal with being single? To quote Don Draper, love is something invented by marketing companies to sell nylons. The idea that you are supposed to accomplish all of your social needs with a romantic partner is a social construct - and a very recent one, dating back to the mid 1800s at the earliest. For instance, If you were a Roman soldier, you'd spend 25 years of your life roaming the world with your comrades, and visit your wife only on rare hiatuses until you retired. I've found that having friends, family and dogs ar…	/r/MGTOW2	04/02/21 01:57 AM
3	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? If I could go back in time and prevent my marriage to my ex wife, I would. I'd go back and prevent myself from ever meeting her. And I don't hate her, I think she's awesome. We had fun adventures, we had a relatively amicable divorce, and we've salvaged a semi-awkward friendship. But meeting an awesome person wasn't worth the divorce. I could also list 100 silver linings and lessons I gleaned from the situation. But wisdom isn't worth all the pain, stress, and damage to my body. I've been diagno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 01:42 AM
10	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. It sounds like OP is assuming sexual selection results in "superior" species. Even Darwin noted that's not necessarily the case. Peacocks would probably be a lot more likely to survive if peahens chose "speed" or "size" instead of "a giant fucking fan tail that makes males slow and conspicuous to predators." There are also female fish that choose male fish for arbitrary reasons like colorful scales that seem to boil down to "sheer whimsy" and actually make the next generation LESS likely to surv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 10:24 PM
8	Women don’t care about sex as much as men do. Let's say you have two roommates : Tony and Thor. Tony is rich and sort of likes Pizza, while Thor is poor and loves Pizza. Tony can afford all the pizza he wants, but he only wants it twice a month. Thor wants Pizza all the time, but can only get it by mooching off Tony, so Thor only gets Pizza twice a month. Tony is privileged in the sense that he has access to as much Pizza as he wants. He never has to deal with wanting Pizza, but not having it. However, I would concede that Thor is privilege…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 02:27 AM
4	The vast majority Girls in their teens and early 20s don’t want and aren’t attracted to men 30+ Both genders have a pretty narrow window of being dateable. We can haggle and hairsplit about the exact details of that, but big picture: we pack a lot of pressure and expectations and hopes into a 10 - 15 year period of our life span. If you live to be 70, that dateable period is only like 20% of your life. I think we should all be complaining about our common enemy here : biology. Biology fucks us all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 01:07 AM
1	[Updated] Excerpts relating promiscuity specifically to infidelity with APA citations Interesting research.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/21 11:50 PM
2	Is it a bit ironic, that people here are so heated and vitriolic on a sub about relationships and dating, which are supposed to involve love and passion? I think OP is ignoring the biological component. Biology throws a giant wrench into men and women’s attempts to love and connect to each other. Cheating causes astronomical pain and suffering every day. People who get cheated on don’t deserve it, they’re often really great people and partners. Cheating happens because it accomplishes a biological imperative, by diversifying your reproductive portfolio, so to speak. If we all focused solely on love and validation and respect, we could just look f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/20 02:02 AM
1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 04:01 AM
2	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. In existentialist philosophy, this vengefulness is called ressentiment. It’s almost as if the ego can only repair itself by invalidating the person who damaged it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 08:17 AM
2	CMV People on PPD suck at debate, mods are not doing enough to improve the quality of this sub No argument there	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/20 07:01 AM
13	Recognizing your own self-worth exists outside of the opinions of others and striving only to compete with who you were yesterday, answering only to your own inner compass, and looking at every imperfect venture as a 'process of elimination' rather than a 'failure to acquire value' So your answer is to do what society says, but just go a little further? Own three houses instead of one? Past 75K, more income doesnt = more happiness. Life isn't about endlessly climbing a social hierarchy, because comparing yourself to other people will ALWAYS make you unhappy, even if you become a billionaire. I think money is important for achieving things you want - family, health, security, travel, fun experiences, or philanthropy or something. But if you approach it as a way to outpace o…	/r/MGTOW2	09/11/20 12:02 AM
3	Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society. Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/20 09:59 AM
4	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. No one should feel obligated to give money, and no one should feel entitled to get money. Same goes for sex, or attention, or commitment. In a healthy relationship, everything should be voluntary. That's what the sociologist Anthony Giddens calls "a pure relationship." It's an ideal, obviously, but that's what people should be striving towards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 08:38 AM
2	how to gain closure from a relationship? Drop the mic!	/r/MGTOW2	09/10/20 11:46 PM
1	Why do some guys complain about women having it easy for being hot but then are the same people who give them attention online? I’m frustrated with late-stage capitalism, but I still go to work every day. The system has me by the balls because a) I need to put food on the table and b) I’m just an individual : powerless to evoke systemic change on my own. I can't change the system, and I can't rewrite my own biological imperatives. So I go to work. Everyone is just responding to incentivization structures. The current situation OP brings up is not the fault of IG models, and it's not the fault of men who look at them. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/20 04:00 AM
2	Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowess Well you don’t have to have sex with models to learn your way around a clitoris. All men can gain experience from whoever theyre sleeping with, as long as they ask questions and can take constructive criticism with aplomb. I’m sure some women are turned off by a guy saying “what do you want?”, Especially if she’s a sub. But I think there are waaaaay more women who would leap at the chance to be able to say “a little more to the left” and have their guy actually take the advice. Experience in and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 07:30 AM
2	Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowess I don’t have a lot of sexual experience with women, but all the experience I have came from asking questions. “Do you like this? How can I do this better? What do you want me to do?” I’ve gotten a Lot of quivering and shaking from my exes by just doing what they said they wanted, rather than making assumptions. So no, I don’t think men suck at sex because “they work so darn much and don’t have time.” It doesn’t take a lot of time to ask a girl what she likes, or read an online forum where women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 07:05 AM
5	Is “men are more visual” a hoax? I think women have a higher capacity for sexual self-control than men do. They’re more pragmatic about it. That might be partly because women have more to lose. I think that’s also why women are more careful about STDs and contraception than men are, and are more likely to turn down sex even with someone they’re attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/20 03:53 AM
7	My brother was a bad boy. Turned simp and never recovered I’m sorry	/r/MGTOW2	28/09/20 10:21 PM
1	Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore? A growth rate that’s slowing its acceleration can still be a lot of growth if you’re starting at a high point. From 2018 to 2019, the American economy’s growth rate shrunk from 5.4% to 4.1%. But that means It still grew by $848 billion dollars. With a) the population levels were facing, even with the declines you mentioned, b) increased levels of consumerism and 3) higher life expectancy, our planet is facing a serious problem. We need populations to start shrinking if we’re also going to be pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/20 01:50 PM
1	Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore? Obviously they mean not having kids is LESS selfish than having them. Obviously, we’re all intrinsically selfish for wanting to continue existing and expending resources on ourselves. Theres a spectrum of selfishness, you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/20 01:27 PM
2	Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreed Damn. Drop the mic	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 10:04 AM
1	How emotional trauma preserves your brain. Why you are bound to go your own way! Your story about trauma is very relatable. As George Bernard Shaw once said, a second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.	/r/MGTOW2	07/07/20 01:30 PM
1	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. Let's try an example. Let's say that there's two criminals on trial for embezzling money or whatever, and you're on the jury. Both men know they embezzled the money, they're firsthand witnesses and their testimony would shed some light on what happened. But what if the first guy is in denial of what he did and why he did it. He's tortured by cognitive dissonance, and so his mind constructs a narrative that says he wasn't really embezzling, he was just borrowing with the full intention of putting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 10:49 PM
1	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. It is not logical to take people at their word. The mind frequently misrepresents its thoughts and motivations, in order to a) just feel better about itself or b) navigate social contexts and gain social rewards. Here are some examples: Misrepresenting ourselves to ourselves: introspection illusion illusory superiority egocentric bias Misrepresenting ourselves to others: impression management theory virtue signalling social desirability bias Since people cannot be trusted to represent their thou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 02:46 AM
8	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. Yes, N-count itself doesn't tell us the reason why. But it almost seems like what you're saying is that N-count can be an indirect red flag - it can indicate that something traumatic occurred preceding the casual phase. One reason people engage in casual strs is because they are going through a phase where they need to control the terms of relationship, in ways that shield them from emotional risk. That's not what it always means, but that's what it can mean. I'm one of those young divorced peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/20 10:30 PM
2	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. Im very passionate about fallacies, so don't take this as like an angry rant, I'm not coming from a place of judgment or emotion. I'm just about to nerd out, lol. 1) FAE is about situational attributions versus personality attributions. You can speculate about bad faith using either. Either "that man is lying because of the situation he's in," or"hes lying because he's just a liar." Even if FAE says were more likely to do the latter, that doesn't mean bad faith assumptions are about FAE. 2) What…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/20 10:01 PM
5	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. I agree with what you're saying about the difference in validation, and that's why I'm not freaked out women's N-count, but I think the female advantage in dating also means that women have more opportunities to fall in and out of love and get their heartbroken before they settle down with a guy their age. Some boyfriend / girlfriend relationships are so intense, it feels like a divorce when they breakup. And that's a problem. When a 28 year old woman marries a 28 year old man, chances are, she'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/20 09:30 PM
1	"Banned from MGTOW" mega-thread" Do you have any historical examples?	/r/MGTOW2	24/06/20 11:32 PM
1	It's more important than ever to become a grey man. Keep to yourself & be wise with what information you share. Trust others with caution. I agree with the overall sentiment that social interaction is becoming more risky against the backdrop of cancel culture and the Internet. The cost/benefit analysis is shifting towards the cost column. And the cost column was already pretty dense. However, becoming a grey man to the degree OP recommends bears its own risks and opportunity costs, just like every choice in life. People don't trust you when they don't know anything about you. We become suspicious of people who appear to be conceali…	/r/MGTOW2	23/06/20 04:41 AM
17	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright I think you're right that women are motivated to downplay these trends, but that's because they're human, not because they're female. Humans in general have an "extremely strong, pathological need to feel good about themselves". It's called an "ego," and everyone's got one. There's an excellent theory about this phenomenon called "impression management theory." The research suggests both genders engage in impression management, while using varying tactics. For instance, women wear makeup and jew…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 01:01 AM
1	"Banned from MGTOW" mega-thread" Someone said all civilizations throughout history were destroyed by feminism. I said, "I'm not a fan of feminism, but from a historical perspective, that's simply not true." I was banned immediately.	/r/MGTOW2	21/06/20 06:20 AM
1	Do Women Attempt to Set Up Society For Access to Alpha Males? Well said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 12:20 AM
14	Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer? I don't think commitment or marriage can be used as a gauge of other people's mental health. A more precise barometer of mental health night be whether people are actually happily married - or happily single with many close relationships. Commitment doesn't necessarily mean you're a well-adjusted person. Lots of people get married for the wrong reasons - social legitimacy and "appearances," an anxiety about being alone, a desire to raise kids combined with the mistaken belief that marriage is th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 06:43 PM
3	Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer? That makes sense to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 06:20 PM
6	Do Women Attempt to Set Up Society For Access to Alpha Males? Well, the way OP is talking about "the laws that are being passed, the ideologies being formulated", that sounded like a silly "cabals meeting in smoky rooms" argument to me. How would women find common ground over access to a scarce pool of powerful men? Sexuality and romance already activate very primal, possessive and competitive emotions in people - not exactly the sort of mindset that leads to strategic collaborative activism. There was already a lot of infighting within feminist activists …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 11:41 PM
6	Do Women Attempt to Set Up Society For Access to Alpha Males? Obviously, individual powerful men and pretty women look for ways to gain access to each other. It's like how Aristotle Onassis said "without women, all the money in the world would have no meaning." But that's a statement about individuals pursuing their own goals. Aristotle Onassis didn't rig society so he could fuck Jackie O. He realized he lived inside a society where rich men get laid, and made a bunch of money to get laid. Jackie O realized she lived in a society where only a powerful man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 10:58 PM
20	Do Women Attempt to Set Up Society For Access to Alpha Males? I think your argument is punching above its weight by inferring a top-level social restructuring from the fact that reporters talk to athletes. It's like saying Halloween is proof that children are orchestrating society behind the scenes so they can get more candy. I think society is an emergent phenomenon, arising organically from the interactions of billions of people. At its core, it's not designed or organized by anyone. We're a bunch of selfish animals collaborating when it suits us, and vy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 09:42 PM
9	Men are clearly no longer a economically privileged gender. Interesting - I learned something	/r/MensRights	11/06/20 10:30 AM
52	Men are clearly no longer a economically privileged gender. Theres a name for this bias, it is called ultimate attribution error "It is also the belief that positive acts performed by ingroup members are as a result of their personality, whereas, if an ingroup member behaves negatively (which is believed to be rare), it is a result of situational factors."	/r/MensRights	10/06/20 08:52 PM
4	Came across this post on Instagram just a few moments back. If someone is tameable, they're not strong, and if someone is strong, they're not going to be tameable.	/r/MGTOW2	08/06/20 10:42 AM
3	Feminism is cancer The real mistake is expecting an artificially constructed social system to be capable of maintaining a chocolate meritocracy. The idea of America is you work hard and receive a proportional amount of chocolate, but the reality is, no one gets the chocolate they deserve, and no one deserves the chocolate they get. When chocolate systems are intrinsically unfair, then logically, everyone should stop deriving their sense of self-worth from that system, whether they're male or female. If you care ab…	/r/MGTOW2	08/06/20 10:18 AM
2	Why is it always "female hypergamy" and not shameless male thirst that is complained about? Everyone IS complaining about shameless male thirst. Women complain about fuckboys all the time- as they should. Feminists talk about the "male gaze." #MeToo is about making thirsty men who harass women accountable for reprehensible actions. Laws like Title IX protect college women from stalking. The Bumble app was created to protect women from a tsunami of messages. PUAs talk about "outcome independence." Red pill talks about "taking pussy off the pedestal" and avoiding "one-itis." MGTOW is abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/20 05:20 AM
1	Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society? "It takes a village to destroy a child." Damn. That's heavy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/20 11:55 PM
1	Do you guys think this is true? Yeah it all boils down to ingroups and outgroups. People feel a sense of loyalty to their gender, almost like a football team. Men and women are like the Eagles and the Cowboys. It's really hard for people to simultaneously acknowledge that both men and women face challenges and disadvantages. Maybe it's mental laziness. Maybe it's just simpler to separate everyone into "us vs. them" and call it a day, then it is to confront the complexity of reality.	/r/MensRights	28/05/20 09:35 AM
3	Do you guys think this is true? I agree with the first half of your point but you lost me at the end. Second wave feminists used to say, "the personal is political." And they have a point. Our romantic lives are heavily influenced by social, cultural, legal, and technological phenomena. And if you're recognizing that influence but saying we should try to wall off our romantic lives from that external influence, I gotta say, that train has sailed. For better and for worse. Insert "we live in a society..." Joke here. Even our ca…	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 10:09 PM
5	Do you guys think this is true? It is absolutely insane	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 09:27 PM
2	Do you guys think this is true? Well said	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 09:24 PM
11	Do you guys think this is true? Yes I think everyone benefits. We all passively perpetuate it. Every time I go fishing, I think to myself, "man I'm glad I can just buy a can of tuna someone else caught." The last catfish I caught was basically a single dinners worth of food, but I had to wait for it, catch it, transport it, kill it humanely, saw its head off, gut it with my hands, wash the viscera out of the chest cavity, skin it, fillet it, and cook it. It was gross as hell and took me half a day. And I just went to a river -…	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 09:22 PM
1	Do you guys think this is true? I like to call this idea "the instrumentalization of men," the tendency to treat men as tools or resources or means to an end. Other men and women actively participate in reinforcing this trend, or just passively benefit from it. Lots of people treat men like useful stepping stones to success, rather than human beings. When my grandfather fought in the battle of the bulge in WW2, a lieutenant ordered him to charge up a hill, with no cover, to take a German machine gun nest. My grandfather looked…	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 08:47 PM
3	Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video) Online dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 08:37 PM
9	Making shit matter - Penalties for abandonment during illness, no-fault divorce, and more! What we really need is to abandon a single one-size-fits-all approach to marriage as a legal agreement. Imagine if every business in the US had to use the same exact contract template. It would grind our economy to a halt! There should at least be two marriages: 1)the current flimsy no-fault divorce situation for people who just want a ceremony and don't actually want to be legally bound by anything 2) a more secure marriage agreement that sets terms and conditions for dissolution. Any spouse ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 12:34 AM
1	70% of top 1% male earners have stay-at-home spouses Fountain valley in Orange county	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 03:21 PM
3	What would be your advice on maximizing the length of a relationship? I agree. Ive noticed that women give new guys an introductory "free trial period" where the guy just has to show up and he gets affection. Then the woman starts ratcheting up standards and expectations, and both people become unhappier with the relationship. I believe it's because women feel emotionally unsatisfied by the relationship and don't know why, so they assume the guy needs to be doing something more to make her feel more, when it's really just dopamine dynamics. It's a tale as old as t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 11:49 PM
5	70% of top 1% male earners have stay-at-home spouses Traffic jams on the 5 freeway? Sociopathic drivers? Overcrowding? Expensive gas? Fake people? Ridiculous laws? I've lived in SoCal all my life and I would leave in a heartbeat if my family would go with me, but alas, they've all put down roots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 10:57 PM
4	A key difference between how men and women treat each other. And how it affects us. You know, the therapists never gave Patton's slap therapy a chance. Maybe slapping is actually a bona fide cure for PTSD and the most patriotic thing we could do to help our vets is to slap the trauma out of them. /s	/r/MGTOW2	13/05/20 10:42 PM
1	Female dating strategy seems to think that all female rape goes unreported apparently I think the reason why people assume "hey this thing is natural" will be followed with "so this thing is totally morally acceptable, let's get crazy!" is a response to the way stupid people have used the appeal to nature fallacy throughout history. Of course, jumping to the conclusion that someone is about to make an appeal to nature fallacy is a kind of dumb fallacy in and of itself.	/r/MensRights	10/05/20 10:40 PM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. I think fixating on alphas and betas is dumb. Sex is awesome and all, and it's important to our well being, but it's not this important. Fixating on having the most sex possible, or who's having more sex than you, or where you fall on the sexual success spectrum, is such animalistic nonsense. Women are not conquests, they're people. Virgins aren't failures, they're people. Chads aren't demigods, they're just people. Having no sex or some sex or a lot of sex doesn't change your value. These conce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:12 AM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? Even with the paper, we're still playing pretend. Making a breakup into a more complicated / drawn out process doesn't make people more committed. It doesn't keep people from cheating or leaving. It doesn't cultivate a climate of intimacy, beyond the honeymoon. Positive behaviors strengthen relationships - not the government bureaucracy. The paper merely dictates the timeline and conditions of the breakup. It does nothing to make a couple closer, safer, or happier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 12:22 PM
3	How do I Go My Own Way? Well said	/r/MGTOW2	24/03/20 10:28 AM
3	An Epidemic of Self-Trust A skeptic after my own heart! I like the way you think. Here's my counterpoint - If I believe all this as a self-serving narrative, that would be hilariously ironic, but it could be seen as an instance that confirms my point : people self-deceive. (Just anecdotal evidence though.) Secondly, I could be a self-unaware hypocrite - and still be right about this. Trying to undermine my theory by undermining me is an "ad hominem" logical fallacy, and a red herring. Third, "People aren't as skilled at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/20 12:55 PM
4	All the RP anger about “being lied to” is a red herring I think OP is downplaying some of the negative ramifications of being lied to. “Being lied to” is not just a simple intellectual correction, like “oh I thought that Spielberg directed The Shining, but it was actually Kubrick, silly me.” That’s a very low-impact course correction. Realizing you’ve been misled can involve a subsequent realization that you’ve wasted years and years and years of your life making decisions based on that misconception. Years that you will never get back. This is somet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/20 08:53 PM
1	Modern Dating is a Problem of Systems Your comment made me lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/20 02:16 AM
2	Modern Dating is a Problem of Systems This is the best post I have seen on here. You’ve found a way to integrate pan-gender perspectives with empathy, and draw attention to systemic issues of supply and demand that are fucking everyone in the ass with a sandpaper dildo. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/20 01:58 AM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Great comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 11:17 PM
1	TRP, FDS, the prisoner's dilemma, and the endgame. Yeah, so whats your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/20 06:21 AM
1	TRP, FDS, the prisoner's dilemma, and the endgame. Underrated comment. Reputational incentives are the only effective counterweight to shitty selfish behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/20 09:20 AM
1	Late christmas present for myself - Nieto Chaman. Gonna field test it soon enough, when i go my own way in the wilderness. Is this a quality brand of knife? I'm looking for a decent hunting knife but I don't know which ones are worth it.	/r/MGTOW2	07/01/20 06:56 PM
6	Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etc Romantic relationships activate some of the most intensely negative emotional experiences life can throw at you. Divorce is the 2nd most stressful life experience, and Marriage is the 7th, according to the: Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 10:54 AM
5	Empathy for the hot chick Damn	/r/MGTOW2	05/12/19 06:03 PM
0	Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women? Country songs really push the lie. Literally every song is about a perfect girl who’s just down to hang out sitting on your tailgate and kick back a few beers while looking at a sunset. she’s this angelic being who wears sun dresses all the time and she loves fishing and she’s loyal and sweet and flirty and easy to talk to. There’s No mention of figuring how to reconcile different life goals or preferences, incompatibility, nagging, financial conflict, infidelity, boredom, divorce - none of that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 10:05 PM
1	Everyone here should read Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging by Sebastian Junger. Marriage is isolating, not MGTOW. “As Chekhov put it, “If you’re afraid of loneliness, don’t marry.” He might have been on to something. In a review of two national surveys, the sociologists Natalia Sarkisian of Boston College and Naomi Gerstel of the University of Massachusetts at Amherst found that marriage actually weakens other social ties. Compared with those who stay single, married folks are less likely to visit or call parents and siblings—and less inclined to offer them emotional suppor…	/r/MGTOW2	22/11/19 06:37 PM
4	Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up? Yeah. Sometimes women sabotage relationships that have potential because they are terrified. A girl once told me she felt safer with assholes because “better the devil you know”. She met a guy who seemed perfect and she ran away from him before she could fall in love and get hurt. She was messed up in the head. Running counterfactuals in your mind (“what if I’d done this? What if I hadn’t done that?”) is nonproductive. Maybe there wasnt a perfect algorithm of words and tactics you could’ve done.…	/r/askTRP	31/10/19 11:19 PM
3	Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up? your assessment is accurate. I think her childhood is probably 80% to 90% of the cause. Look up the “fearful avoidant attachment style.” Or “childhood emotional neglect syndrome.” And it will probably explain a lot. Your girl sounds exactly like my ex-wife. Women with fearful avoidant attachment styles are even more unpredictable than the average woman. They swing from needy to cold and back to needy every few hours. So dread could backfire in in the morning, but work like a charm in the afterno…	/r/askTRP	31/10/19 05:41 PM
8	Not being able to cum with ONS Ironically it's easier to get there if you don't fixate on the outcome so much. If you pressure yourself with "I have to Climax otherwise this is pointless" then it's harder to Climax. If you just think, "hey let's just see what happens and I'll have a good time regardless of whether I get there or not," then your brain is more relaxed, and youre more likely to finish.	/r/askTRP	31/10/19 04:28 AM
7	Does one gender need the other more then the reverse? If they made a Sci fi movie about this scenario called "Into the Pussyverse." I would watch the shit out of that shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 04:27 PM
2	The PPD Demographic is too Abstract / Fringe to Have Well Rounded Discussions Around Modern Dating Shots fired!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 07:58 PM
4	Why is being taken care of and provided for not seen as a privilege? When you say "What's new?" It kind of sounds like you're saying that because it's normal, therefore we should accept it and stop talking about it. But I thought the point of this sub was to think critically about things that the rest of society takes for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/19 05:23 PM
3	Imagine a world where men were far more picky and hypergamous the reason why is because it's not culturally acceptable for billionaires to do that in modern Western culture - hence the illegality of polygamy. However, If you look at men throughout history who were the relative equivalents of billionaires, in cultures that accepted polygamy, they DID have crazy amounts of kids: Here's a sultan that fathered at least 867 children. Ismail ibn sharif	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/19 09:33 AM
1	Men do a lot of talking about what they hate about women, but what they really hate is accountability. First of all, I absolutely agree with you that there's a tendency in human beings to try and avoid accountability, and to resent people who point out our mistakes or flaws. Socrates called himself the "gadfly stinging the horse of Athens." Because he was basically a philosophical nagger, and Athens responded by condemning him to death. Ayn Rand said "The hardest thing to explain is the glaringly evident which everybody had decided not to see." And our flaws and mistakes are often one of those th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/19 06:54 PM
54	Child support and alimony really isn’t the boon that the manosphere thinks it is I think your solutions seem kind of unreasonable. Proposing that men quit their jobs, close their bank accounts, or go off the grid is like saying, “don’t complain about red lights and traffic when you could just sell your car! And go live like an animal in the forest. No more traffic!” There are lots of difficult situations that could be bypassed by unplugging and going off the grid, but under a just and reasonable system, honest people wouldn’t have to. That seems to indicate that our system i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 06:58 PM
1	Cognitive Dissonance Word	/r/MGTOW	29/09/18 07:13 PM