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| 2 | Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist?yeah, I tried to keep an open mind but honestly just go on any dating app and filter to 33+ and its like a different species of woman most of the time. a woman that actually stays good looking into their mid 30s or beyond is harder to find than twenty-somethings that are 10s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest?current GF says its because she relates to video games, but I also have my income statement on there so lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:07 PM |
| – | Do women really care about social status !women want to be with a winner, thats what it means. though social status is mostly just a euphemism for financial status in most cases. if someone is making 300k they're probably placed fairly high up in a network of successful people, have interesting experiences, are used to getting respect, and basically come off as more of a winner than some sales dude working at Best Buy there's some cases of someone being broke and high status, like a really good artist, or rich and no status, like a lott… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How are people supposed to find partners?nobody cares about your sob story and the first thing you're doing wrong is wasting any of your time time telling it to people under the belief it'll somehow alter their perception of you with any kind of positive allowance. maybe as a child your parents or teachers would be like oh poor you, and you developed the false notion that this would translate to anybody else. reality is the real world doesn't give a fuck I'm a short, mediocre looking, ethnic, former fatass who dropped out of school twi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How are people supposed to find partners?I didn't need to expand this thread to know the answer would be 'make excuses and complain on reddit while continuing to do nothing' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP and feminism have similar underlying beliefs about what a woman "brings to the table".I actually agree. Both are full of hucksters basically fleecing lonely angry people for likes and money, and neither really treat men or women as humans. My impression of the various pill dudes as well as feminists is that there's very few happy people to be found. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Generational differences in hotness standardsI think reddit is the congregation spot for the bottom of the barrel in terms of dating prowess, so it's overblown. However, I do think that older men are dating younger than before. Various reasons for this, but I think stuff being more expensive is a big reason - men need more time before they're feeling stable enough to start a family, while the ideal female age for starting a family is still what it's always been. As far as actual psychological bias, I don't think so. My gf is 28, I'm 37 and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting you for moneymost guys reject this because most guys cant make 1% money but end of the day nobody wants to date a loser and we live in a society where making lots of money = winner, so whenever guys bitch about 'it not being real' to me its an excuse for why they aren't focusing more / have better results with earning money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What does it cost to be a top 1% man?totally agree, and keep at it bro. you can tell a lot about someone based on their reaction when they get told they actually have to put in work it's just easier for lazy dudes to complain that they weren't born looking like Chris Hemsworth and it's unfair, than actually do something that might stand them out in the crowd im 5'6 - 5'7, ethnic, and used to be 260lbs. immigrant family with zero money; parents didn't even make more than 40k until I was out of the house. in my 20s I barely had any p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | What does it cost to be a top 1% man?top 1% is just be in shape, make 100k, and not be a raging douche. you don't have to be Elvis, cmon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI can confirm as a 5'7 asian guy I only got dates with hot white women when I 1) got into shape and 2) started making north of 200k. before that, being an obese nerd in my 20s, I got nada even when I was regarded as funny and cool and a good person by my social group. life's tough out there, men unfortunately need to stop thinking they can get laid by just going to the gym. the gym is easy, literally anybody can go to the gym and get jacked. make 10% money, thats hard because you literally need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What age does pretty privilege run out for women?depends on the woman and race, but I'd say about 37 for a normal girl who isn't drinking and sleeping around too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:08 PM |
| 13 | Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization?this guy probably doesn't even have 1k followers on tiktok, what does he know about anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Whats the most extreme example of the WORST side of female or male nature?I dated this woman who was every sort of woke, standing up for every kind of social justice, lectured me that I should always tell someone I'm breaking up with them instead of ghosting anybody ... and yet her stance on getting with married guys or involved guys was "oh well it's not my business". It was like really, you literally make everything your business unless its getting in the way of your need to get railed? I railed her for a couple months and moved on. DID NOT GHOST HER THO overall I f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 16 | Are you aware of any red pill/purple pill content creators who are females?I feel like the intent of the various pills has changed from "here's actionable advice to actually motivate you and get results" to either "here's why its not your fault and you can give up" or "here's some bad advice you can never action, so you can't blame me, but you'll keep watching my content". 80% of the "manosphere" is toxic IMO and just people trying to make money from views and shilling books or lessons. the name itself is stupid, it sounds like a ridiculous super weapon made by gru fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:59 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolthat's pretty generous of you, 30% of the population being okay looking (the whole population and not the dating population?) and only 10% being too fat for you. I think most people are more stringent in the filters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What level of maturity are girls attracted to in guysYou can be about your business without being some high blood pressure alpha loud person all the time, and I think this is what most people want. Someone who knows when to be serious (which is NOT most of the time) but can be serious and show leadership if it's a actually a serious situation. If you have your shit together it's not about pretending, it's about being actually secure in life to where most times you are chill because most things don't matter in your big picture serenity. Guy cuts me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:45 PM |
| 11 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolyes, I have experienced this too. the most attractive women don't get used by anybody and most creepy guys are too intimidated to hit on them, whereas the normal women get tossed aside by chads / hit on by creeps so build up a more negative view of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:41 PM |
| -1 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themnice Sherlock you exposed me I literally said being penetrated is being dominated, it wasn't a big secret. I would hold up a sign that says that. most feminine women like being with masculine men so they can feel safe and submissive. you can try to cuck yourself into getting female attention if you want, or you can just go with the last 30,000 years of evolution its whatever to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 0 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themthat's some weird circular reasoning and I don't think it applies to me. being penetrated is a very important role and it's equally "worth" as much as being the penetrator. I don't think less of women for having this very important role, nor do I think more of men for having theirs. you asked for an opinion of if I would find it degrading as a man and my answer remains yes. if I went to jail and got raped because the other inmates saw me as the weak male, I'd feel pretty degraded. in a bedroom I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameI think its because all men, even the 'chads' probably at some point were uncomfortable with their ability to get women. Many of us had to work through a lot of things to get to a better place of attraction. So understanding that mindset as a man, I'm not going to throw that term on my fellow men lightly because honestly if a few things went a different way I could be an incel too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Women’s main mating strategies are embarrassingmen change too. after a decade of not caring about LTRs, now I'm looking for a LTR. I wasn't looking for a LTR in my 20s because I was working on myself, and now I'm looking for one because I'm happy with myself more or less and don't think I'd be settling anymore that being said, I'm not looking for women above the age of 28 lol. I understand I'm taking away potential women from guys in their 20s but they can and should do what I did and they'll be happier for it in 10 years everybody should gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is a successful man attractive?it depends on how 'big' / important the area is. for example if the area is your career, being top 10% at your career probably means you have a good network, confidence from your accomplishments, intelligence, drive, etc ... not to mention money. all these things bleed into being successful at other things. if the area is you are really good at making model trains, nobody gives a shit unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:13 PM |
| -1 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themyes I would find it degrading for the man to be taking the woman's place terms of who is being penetrated. firstly, this is how inmates disgrace weaker men, so there's some primal understanding this is a the case. second, any situation where a man is being submissive is not hot to me, although clearly a bunch of sissy guys are into being submissive (good for them, it doesn't change my mind that its not masculine behavior). its like if I wore a bib and pretended to be a baby while I got spanked, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 5 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?its over for 4ft 2 midgetcels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?if you have the money, sugaring is a legit way to develop dating skills on easy mode. unless you are a truly repulsive person they will be receptive as if you were a chad. then you can go back to regular dating, which is basically increasing the difficulty back to normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the samewhy shouldn't they base their self worth on success with the opposite set? it's literally the qualifier for all other organisms on earth, and also how humans have worked for 98% of the existence of humanity. if a man can't get laid with anybody despite really wanting to, I view him as a straight up loser. same for a woman, although I don't know any woman who has that predicament. anybody who wants something, can't get it despite their efforts, is a failure and worthy of pity. that's dictionary d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?epic comment and 100% spot on. not just for dating, but for any kind of life problem, this is how I immediately separate those who are capable of dealing with life vs those who are just going to whine about how unfair it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?lol its like when you're talking to someone and they talk about the time they were abducted by UFOs and you're like oh...oh you're one of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?my man self improvement is good but you gotta set a deadline or it just becomes an excuse. saying you don't have bandwidth to date thats the first sign. make time or you're going to be some ripped guy with a good career and creep vibes because you don't have romantic experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:05 PM |
| 3 | The Average Man is so Pathetic/Low Effort that There are No Excuses Unless You Have AWFUL Genetics and/or are extremely unlucky.yep, when women say hobbies they mean hobbies that you can get paid being good at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | The Average Man is so Pathetic/Low Effort that There are No Excuses Unless You Have AWFUL Genetics and/or are extremely unlucky.it's not hard to go to the gym and get into shape, almost anybody can do it as long as they don't have loser levels of discipline or an eating disorder getting into normal or even good shape is like 10x easier than having a good job, and in my experience the good job (translated into money and status) is 10x more important than being super fit (can't be obese though) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 5 | How long would the average guy have to hang at a bar/club for an approach/IOI?eventually he'd dance himself into shape, although it wouldn't help his height. some say he is still dancing out there :'( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 12:31 AM |
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