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Or just slap their ass back, they obviously like you
/r/newTRP10/09/22 02:48 PM
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Good rule of measure is entirely up to you. What matters to me is different to you. What's important is to set measurable goals, if possible in a timeframe. That way you can sit & think about how far you've come, how far you have to go, and can re-evaluate how to progress further. I done this to get to a certain salary, losing weight & hitting gym about 7 years ago, buying my first car & rolex, and now at 26 I've given myself new targets to hit for the next few years, and some even longer term g…
/r/newTRP13/08/22 09:18 AM
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I remember as a teen I had oneitis for a girl for years (even after dating other girls) Fast forward 7 years, saw her last week, overweight & average - life hits you fast
/r/newTRP28/07/22 01:12 PM
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Find out what it is that gives you confidence, then figure out how to take advantage of that. For me I got super confident once I lost weight & hit the gym, got a muscular body to match a good face.
/r/newTRP01/07/22 08:03 PM
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Bro I was on the same boat as you once, dumped a chick but still weirdly cared after. It's only natural, literally human nature, but will go away after some time. The more girls you dump in future, the easier this gets too.
/r/newTRP01/07/22 07:55 AM
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Think about this for a second, you really want to get a permanent tattoo to impress girls on Insta - pretty sad. Tattoos won't get you pussy. Get your money up, get in shape, improve your social life, that's it.
/r/newTRP12/06/22 08:43 AM
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Don’t be a bad boy, be a grown man.
/r/newTRP16/05/22 06:12 PM
5

Nothing wrong with crying, everyone would actually encourage it. Just don’t cry in public or around people as no one gives a shit and will see it as weakness - keep it to yourself (or for anyone else, a father/brother if you’re lucky to have one)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:24 PM
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Only you know the answer to this, how much I care about n-count is different to you, so anyones advice is worthless - think on it a little longer. In my opinion, very long term (marriage as I want to be “purple” pill eventually) an n-count that high does matter FOR ME For dating/relationship, eh couldn’t give a fuck i’m there to add to her n-count until I find someone marriage worthy (got a long while for this)
/r/newTRP23/03/22 08:24 PM
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There's no definitive answer tbh, but it usually works like this. Women are attracted to both "alpha" men AND security. Security is part and parcel of being a man, this comes in the form of financial security, physical & mental security (strong man) and family security (starting & maintain a family). This is biological human instinct over thousands of years. "Beta" men will usually provide financial security only. Now what we men look for in a women is primarily looks & youth - we don't care for…
/r/newTRP02/02/22 01:13 PM
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Brush it off
/r/newTRP02/02/22 12:21 PM
3

Yes, TRP can be used anywhere. Women either like you or not - your bio doesn’t mean shit tbh.
/r/newTRP06/01/22 03:42 PM
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Soft next
/r/newTRP04/01/22 11:09 AM
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It’s something insignificant, look past it and carry on as normal. Try to avoid work drama as much as possible. Only time i’d recommend doing something is if you feel threatened, physically or verbally. Then you stand up for yourself professionally via emails & HR.
/r/newTRP29/12/21 08:56 AM
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From past experience, I draw the line on drug use & mental illness for any female, regardless if its just sex or serious. These women are too much hassle during AND after you’re done with them. I’m not too fussed about N count as long as I don’t know the person. Everything else I can deal with
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 04:06 PM
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Bro, do you even need to ask? You’ve fucked multiple times over a few weeks, she genuinely likes you. Good job
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 08:39 PM
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Depends on the situation. If it’s still early on, she’s seeing how easy you are, whether you have options, basically testing frame (or she’s desperate) Otherwise if it’s been a while, i’d say a month+, it’s genuine desire. Also depends how she tells you. If you’ve been around enough women you’ll know her true intentions
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 06:25 PM
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You’re right, but i’ve been friendzoned by NOT using this mindset when I was young & dumb. Just treat em like the girl they are, don’t put them on a pedestal and the rest is down to confidence
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 11:40 AM
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This! I learned this naturally just by thinking back on all the women that really liked me, and what I did compared to those who didnt like me back. The women that loved me, I treated them like my friends, the women I chased treated me like their friend. Simple as I tell my friends this exact advice and they look at me weird until they try it
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 11:28 AM
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One mistake, SHE texts you “was fun last night, lets do that again”
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:25 PM
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You pull by lightly flirting, showing interest, giving attention - in person this can be as simple as a smile, engaging in conversation, touching. Via text this is giving good replies in quick time. Pushing her away is the literal opposite, in person give a simple reply, sometimes even just “mhm” and let them carry on the convo, sometimes even completely changing the topic. In text this is delaying your responses, giving shit response and even leaving them on “seen”. In regards to your side ques…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:25 PM
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Considering it’s a first conversation, there’s only so many topics you can talk about, the issue is HOW you talk about it. He comes across as a pen-pal. Remember, chicks get hit on everyday, so they go through this same bullshit conversation literally everyday. One thing I like doing is disagreeing on topics to create further conversation & interest (even if you actually agree with it). Don’t tell too much, create an aura of mystery. You want to make her want to see you, and find out more in per…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:47 PM
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Basically. Nothing wrong, but nothing right.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:12 AM
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Another way to think about it is, switch the roles around. If someone texted you that way, would you find them interesting? Or just another person who’s just like the rest? What i’m tryna say is, be different, be interesting.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:01 AM
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Honestly, it’s nothing special. It’s the type of conversation that puts you in the “nice guy” category - out of curiosity, how far did this get you? You’re trying too hard to sell yourself, too much words, too nice. I’d recommend changing topic to something more interesting because nothing dries up pussy more than talking about your city & MBA. Also text how you’d talk in person (as opposed to writing essays). Keep it short, concise and be more upfront with flirting as a real man would. Also ple…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:47 PM
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Being a man is relying on yourself, walking & talking with confidence, knowing when to be assertive and when to ignore (sometimes not everything is worth a response). A man knows what he wants, and grinds for it. A man has an opinion that he believes in, and stands for. A man doesn’t wait or need someone else’s “approval” to do what he wants, he just does it because he’s a man and thats what men do. Men aren’t born with these characteristics, they’re learnt & earned through experience & time.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:40 PM
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In my younger years I was that guy who had oneitis, and it's because I had little to no options available. I would tell myself "women are replaceable" but that didn't mean anything because I just couldn't replace. I also didn't get much attention from females either - I was basically a bitch. What changed now is that I'm in a position to replace because of self-improvement. I got my finances correct, better social life and really hit the gym/diet. Understanding female nature helps too. Women are…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 03:46 PM
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I definitely agree. I discovered TRP a few years back, and overtime my confidence grew by working on myself, finances and understanding female nature, but I was always lacking in the "body/lifting" department as I was a little chubby, albeit with a good looking face. Over the past 6/7 months I've lost 13kg and am nearing 13% BF with a good amount of muscle, not bodybuilder-like, but a good physique, moreso the "yoked" look. Lifting was the missing piece to my puzzle as I had everything else. Bef…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 03:23 PM
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This a big no no for me, I'd next.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:43 PM
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This all depends on your work schedule, is it a typical 9-5 office job? Or you choose your own hours? If you pick your own hours it's so much easier because you can fit work around life. I personally like having a routine. It's good to figure out what needs to be done every week, what can be rearranged, and then work off that.For example, my weekdays are taken up by 9-5 work. Then I hit gym min 5 days p/week, from 7-9pm. The hours in between work & gym are where I focus on day trading & investme…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:06 PM
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Well I was shocked when I saw her, other than that nothing, it’s literally a woman exaggerating what happened. But yes I’ve blocked and not replied.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:12 AM
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You know what, you have a fair point & probably are right to an extent. Would be insane to think that, but what female is sane? Either way she’s blocked now so hopefully that brings her back to reality
/r/askTRP15/05/21 11:43 PM
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Good possibility of that being the case too, regardless she’s blocked now with no reply sent. No way she’s coming back in.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 10:39 PM
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Thanks bro. You’re right she’s trying to get a response from me. No response is the best response
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:14 PM
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Definitely. I just dislike the tone of her message trying to make me look like I’m in the wrong somehow? Definitely jealousy.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:11 PM
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Exactly. You can’t stop me driving down a road I need to drive through on a regularly. She didn’t message me the other times she saw me (alone) but did now she saw me with a better looking female. I guess blocking is the best thing. Sometimes no response is the best response
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:08 PM
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Truthfully bro, it wouldn’t be worth the effort and time to MAYBE salvage something. When a female is interested in you, you won’t have to put any effort. I’d recommend finding a new girl. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Goodluck
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:21 PM
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Do you really need to ask? Clearly she’s not interested
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:53 PM
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I see you really want her. Give it a couple weeks for her to contact you, if she doesn't just go get her back - women always take their man back, especially if you have a high enough SMV - just don't simp out. Only advice I can give you is to not make decisions in the heat of the moment, it doesn't help your image in front of your girl. For next time, tell your girl that SHE can leave, instead of you leaving her. Only leave a woman if you're 100% sure you want to leave.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:52 AM
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You're right bro. If you're man enough to be "redpill" and have multiple females in one go, why would you cry when YOU left her?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:47 AM
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There's two perspectives to this 1) If you want to truly be redpill, get another girl. Simple. 2) The fact you cheated on her, left her, but still want her back indicates you're not as redpill as I imagine. If you really want her, give it a week or two for her to miss you & contact. If she doesn't, then send her a non-simpy message after 2 weeks and take it from there depending on her interest level. KEEP IN MIND: The fact you broke up with her (and not the other way round) shows she still had i…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:37 AM
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Maybe i didnt get it across well, but i been dealing with this chick for months before, i just wanted to see what happens if i go blue pill afterwards. I told her “i love you” after 3 months of being red pill, and then after just under 3 weeks of being blue pill
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 11:10 PM
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Appreciated bro - It took me a while to get this threesome btw, it didnt happen straight away as soon as she came back - just wanna clear that up
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:52 PM
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You’re very smart you know, there is definitely strategy in that to see intention. Not sure if you saw my edit, I added to my comment above. She’s 24, same as me.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:44 PM
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It depends. If you’re a little more serious with them, then nothing wrong with it. But the context I asked her was in blue-pill and sounding needy, I can’t explain in full on the post otherwise it’d be too long lol
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:36 PM
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I’m glad you see it as an abundance mindset, not many see it that way. Doing this was the best thing I did in a while, it was like confirmation that red pill works, and blue pill will always lead down the same path.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:29 PM
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EDIT: Just read your last sentence, you might be right I never thought of that - wow holy fuck Well, she’s one of three girls I’m fucking. We been seeing each other for 5 months now (knew each other from school days though), but never at the relationship stage, more of the “still getting to know each other and having fun”. I think she brought up marriage when I was giving her attention in my beta phase, which I never gave before during my redpill phase. But just like cake, 1 slice is good, 2 is …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:25 PM
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She isn’t my girl or LTR, she’s one of three girls I fuck. I was eventually gonna drop her, but instead of just nexting I thought “let me be blue pill and see where it goes”. It was actually helpful because I consciously knew what I was doing, and it only reaffirms how important it is to be redpill. That’s it literally, I guess I was bored and wanted to see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:21 PM
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I was fucking her before bro. She’s a plate I don’t mind losing, I see it as having abundance. It was the best thing I done as it reminded me why I never used to get bitches when I was a beta in school/Uni. I’m more redpilled with my girls now.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:05 PM
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I got you bro. I been redpilled 5 years. Wanted to see what happens if I blue-pill on a plate I’m happy losing to see if this Redpill/Bluepill stuff matters with a secured plate. I start being needy on text & validating. Her interest goes up first. We mentioned LTR when meeting up, I even said “love you”, sent goodmorning texts etc - you catch my drift. She “broke up” with me real quick as soon as I turned beta. Turns out being blue-pill really doesnt work. I ignore afterwards as I got 2 other c…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 08:44 PM
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You’re right, I think I mentioned this on a comment here or AskTRP. I had to try get back into the blue pill mindset and it’s the only thing I could come up with - it’s difficult really once you get into the red pill mindset, but you’re 100% correct, a little too far, especially in such a short time, and deviating so far from my “redpilledness” she was used to.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 07:52 PM
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Eh you right, but this is literally what 90% of beta’s do so it’s normal. It’s good to remind yourself of what turns women on, and off, it’s made me even more redpilled with my other chicks.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:17 PM
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Will definitely check it out once I get home from work, thanks. Maybe you're more alpha than I, that your girls see through it hahaha. But it was good to remind myself what beta's go through - if anything it's made me more alpha with my other girls.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:49 PM
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Understood, I’m more than happy for the post to be deleted if you feel so.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:32 PM
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I think a ban is over the top. I didnt know about the main sub, I don’t use reddit often but I’ve posted there too. I’m more than happy for a mod to delete my post, but it also received good feedback so hopefully it helps someone (before it gets deleted)
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:23 PM
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Bro honestly, when I was a beta I thought the same. I also don’t want to pretend I’m some Brad Pitt who fucks 1000 bitches, but I do well for myself. I’ve learned to have a “redpill” mentality now over 5 years, during my prime. These things happen to those who are reallt about it. I’ve experienced it, my friends have, my cousins etc. Thanks fkr the comment
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:21 PM
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I’m surprised how fast a woman’s mind can change. Doing this was the best thing I ever did as it clearly showed me female nature, it’s helped me become even more redpilled in a sense.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 06:11 PM
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Hahaha, maybe if I was a little older then yeah i’d go into a LTR, but i’m only 24 and have other options - not fussed hence why I done it to test if being bluepill works
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:48 PM
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Very good example. It’s like cake. A slice once in a while is nice, but no one eats cake everyday for breakfast, lunch & dinner.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:30 PM
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Good question (Keep in mind we was fucking before I momentarily turned bluepill). First meetup yes. It was still early in my bluepilling timeline with her, and I still kept frame when face to face as it's natural, so she probably still saw me as redpill at this point, with some beta tendancies. Second meetup nope as I had something unexpected pop up, third meetup nope she wouldn't take it there at all. Edit: For context, we met up 3 times within the space of 8 days, whereas before we was meeting…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:42 PM
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Hahaha. I done it to prove it to myself, but after she came back I thought i'd share the story.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:38 PM
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Sure thing. Should it not be posted here?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:32 PM
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This dude Redpill Pro Max+, got a stronger economy than the government
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:41 PM
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You’re very smart, I like the way you think
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:07 PM
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I'd suggest option 2 as you'll have to let your employer know anyway, but mention you love working where you do and would like to continue doing so if the salary is matched. There's nothing wrong with pulling this move more than once as it'd show loyalty because you would consider staying should the benefits be right.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:26 PM
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Keep trying
/r/askTRP14/02/21 06:10 PM
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You’re right, favours are good but it’s only the start. Get her to financially invest in you. Start it off with a “get me a bottle of water on your way”, little things here and there.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:53 PM
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Women like fun. It’s fun being chased, but once they know you like them, the fun is gone because they’ve got what they wanted.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:58 AM
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I think I remember you (or someone else?) posting something similar recently, she definitely likes you & is seeking your validation. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:55 AM
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Bro, you shouldn't even care about what they like. If she's feeling you, you could put on a WW2 documentary and dick her down 20 mins into it.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:16 PM
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"would you still look cute with them off?" This way you get your intentions across, whilst letting her know you have potential interest, but not too much because you're not directly validating her, and she'll think "ohhh, does he actually like me or not?", it gets her overthinking - this increases her interest. You also set her up to come back with a sexual response too - win/win situation. ​ Edit: Keep in mind, that's just one reply you can send, there's a million other replies you could say. T…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:42 AM
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Exactly, being desperate is a turn off. Just switch the roles around, the girls who are/were desperate over you usually come across as creepy, right? Don't be a creep. Also don't come across as a cunt either, there's a fine line between being a man, and being a cunt. You want to give her the indication that you might be into her, and for her to start chasing you for validation. I'd also suggest improving the way you type, you'll be an adult soon and females want a MAN, not a boy.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:17 AM
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She comes back because she likes the attention, and is confused because she's not sure if you actually like her or not. (you're giving mixed signals, which isn't too bad). I'd say next time you speak to her, keep it simple & cool. Don't ever tell a female you like her straight up, be smart when validating and only feed her scraps. This way you get the power back and can keep the conversation flowing and progressing. If you hadn't ghosted her after telling her you like her, she would've ghosted y…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:00 AM
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The perfect response, i'd give you an award if I could
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:40 PM
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Finally someone with some sense. Idk why everyone says "ignore/next", I've come to realise 90% of people here don't actually know what they're doing.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:58 PM
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Not everything is a shit-test bro, and ignoring should be a trump card used once in a while, not over her wanting a compliment. You literally could've gave a sly back-handed compliment, you could've just changed the topic, you could've even replied "only my mum get's called beautiful". You still need to communicate with women.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:56 PM
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That would be the US during its golden period of having hegemony over the world. Now the US is filled with blue pill betas and females, look how the mighty have fallen. China is redpill af now.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:38 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:41 PM
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Usually subconscious, but couldn’t advise you further without more info bro. All it is her seeing how much you value & need her. She realised you don’t and misses your attention, it’s human nature. Same as above in regards to hitting her up, I don’t know your situation too well. But off assumptions, the fact you rejected sex will increase your value, so it doesn’t matter if you hit her up in a few days or you wait for her to hit you up - she’ll appreciate your time more. I personally wait for he…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:35 PM
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This just increases your SMV, it's a blessing in disguise. Women like men, who are liked by other women - it's human nature. You should thank whoever snitched on you.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:46 PM
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Most likely, but you played it perfectly. Looks like you know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:30 PM
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Fair enough bro, regardless you rejecting to fuck her is a sign of high value. Win/win situation for you, just don’t simp out.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:14 PM
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It is the best answer you received. To add onto it, i'd suggest ignoring the issue at first and withdrawing attention slightly. If it carries on, then do as he explained & tell her where she fucked up (whilst not sounding needy) and withdraw more attention.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:48 PM
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Read sidebar /s In all seriousness, start looking for a new job, or work on turning one of your hobbies/talents into $. We'll always be in the corporate rat race until you yourself decide to get out of it and change your life around. I haven't been in your situation so can't advise too much other than the above. A career coach wouldn't really help, if they was so good at finding a career they'd have a better job themself. You can do this by yourself with help from family & friends. Best of luck …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:30 PM
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What worked for me in the past is literally moving on to new woman. Trust me on this, once you meet someone new who's giving you the right vibes & attention, you will forget everything about your ex. (Basically what your ex did, it's human nature).
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:22 PM
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If you haven't met/spoke with her yet, you have to get her initial attraction first. You don't need all the below, but a mix of a few is key - females are attracted to: - Good looking guys (Nice face or body) - Social Status/Good social life - Have other females who like him - Have money (I don't recommend using money as attraction unless you're very rich) Once you have these, it's easy to attract females, but now they key is keeping them attracted. To do this you have to be a MAN around her, no…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:19 PM
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Two reasons, she's either shit-testing you to see if you're a simp and chase her, or she really doesn't like you. The way you deal with it is by pulling back yourself, just as she is. If she likes you, she'll hit you up again. If she doesn't, she doesn't. If you still chase her after she pulls back, you automatically lose (hence why you pull back too) ​ Also try not to block too soon. I only block if they're disrespectful otherwise I always keep my options open. Blocking someone because they tak…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:01 PM
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Tell her you was tired. Get's her thinking a lot, because no man is ever too tired to bust a nut.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 11:04 AM
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If she leaves you on 'read', do not, and i repeat, DO NOT pop up to her again, she has to come back to you. If she likes you enough, she will especially after a few days of no talking. If she doesn't, eh, move on. Edit: In future try not to be too "goofy" or a clown around women. They want a man (key word, man). You can be funny in other ways rather than sticking your tongue out, whilst you're with other guys.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:16 AM
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From my experience, I personally disagree.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:24 PM
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She should be asking you to do it again, not the other way round.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:22 PM
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Pretty much yeah, not much more to it, chances are she’ll comply. Just be prepared there’s a chance you could lose her, but being redpilled you shouldn’t care - but just a heads up.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:03 PM
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Nothing wrong with actually liking a female though, it’s human nature. Redpill is about how you carry yourself, how you think, how you act in order to attract females, especially those you like. Redpill isn’t about not liking women. Do your thing bro, enjoy.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:40 PM
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The point is I gave my my opinion to help OP have another perspective. You told me not to assume whilst assuming yourself... hence the second reply, tbh I'm surprised you're stupid enough not to understand this hence this third reply. OP, do what you want, that's the most redpill thing you can do.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:25 PM
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Why would I ignore females who didn't like me then, but like me now? They're the first ones I fucked and left.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:17 PM
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Aren't you.. assuming too? All we can do is assume, from my perspective he's doing well, from your perspective he's not. None of us are right or wrong.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:13 PM
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I disagree, from his brief post he isn't giving non-sexual validation. She's asking him to meet up for stupid reasons, and he's telling her that he's busy and increasing his value. He's playing it well, she's just pushing for a relationship.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:57 PM
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This. If she's pushing for a relationship, she can only push for so long until she realises it's not working and will back off. Keep in mind she, just like you, most likely is talking to other people so she has options, you're just her best, but there's always a plan-b incase plan-a doesn't work. In my opinion I would string her along for as long as you can, otherwise you risk her backing off.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:51 PM
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You've kinda answered your own question, having abundance and options. Think about it, if you only talk to one girl and you like her, there's higher chances you fall for her because she's the only person giving you attention - happens to everyone tbh, this is how oneitis happens. If you're talking to 2, 3 or even 4+ females, chances are you don't fall for any - you may like one more than another - but it's hard to "fall" for someone, because you have options. You don't care if you lose 1, becaus…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:24 PM
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Hobbies as in things you’re interested in doing. For example playing football, doing art, going running, gaming, cooking, whatever you’re interested in, do it and find others who do too. I meant as in, it’s the same as going gym. You’re doing something beneficial which will increase your confidence, and bring you into more social groups.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:18 PM
7

Change your mentality, #1. Start walking and talking like a man. Keep your back straight, shoulders back and head up. Be assertive and dominant when talking. People will see you as confident, and will treat you as such. Stop giving a fuck. Literally. Ever since I’ve stopped giving a fuck and doing what I want to do (to an extent, cant be like this at my 9-5 job), my life has improved because I’m doing what I want, under my rules and I don’t let anyone get to me. I try not to let emotions control…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:08 PM
2

You're overthinking this, a lot. If you've come across as 'beta' to her, chances are she's not even thinking about you. I've been with a depressed female before, and once we broke up she started mentioning "this is exactly why I take my medication" and even bringing up suicide... Thankfully I dodged a bullet and so have you. Do not, and I repeat, DO NOT date any women who have mental issues because it will cause you more stress long-term, than you're feeling now. Thank yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:27 PM
5

I guess it depends where you live. I'm from London, so I tend not to use tinder anymore, mainly because it's too much effort. Women get 100+ matches per day - they have the ultimate abundance on there and are automatically in a position of power to us. I stick to real life when meeting females, and having a solid instagram to DM any other chicks I'm attracted to. Having a good social media profile is important in today's time in my opinion, just don't overdo it and keep it simple.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:19 PM
3

Not enough context, but from initial thought’s she has low/medium interest. Not sure how i’d play it personally, but if she’s really attractive and you’re confident, do the date. If she’s just “eh” i’d next her. Edit: also try speed up the time between messages. No one is THAT busy, especially now. Sometimes you have to put a little effort in, to get effort out of her. Think of it like starting a car with an old engine - just don’t chase.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:08 PM
1

It's definitely a good sign, play along with it. Tell her you hate her more.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:25 PM
1

Here's the thing, whichever country you live in, you will not like it because you're doing boring tasks such as working. That's why we enjoy holidays abroad, because we go to see the place and come back home (as opposed to living there). I recommend you stay where the money is, and only move if you can find a similar/better salary elsewhere. At the end of the day, money is what matters above anything else.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:49 AM
3

Just like the other comments said, the most alpha way to go about this is to not call her out, especially as she has a boyfriend. The second you call her out, she'll see you as beta because you look needy, desperate and a little bit crazy for calling out a girl who's not even your girlfriend. To give an alternative, you slowly pullback to gauge her interest level, and take it from there. There's a chance she'll forget about you.. as she has a boyfriend - but do not call her out.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:44 AM
11

Once a new female walks in your life, you'll forget about her.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:01 PM
1

Try using the concepts during everyday life, and not with just females you want to get with. Make it become natural so you don't have to think about it. Try being redpilled (tone it down a little maybe) in your workplace, with your family, friends, just make sure everything you do, you do as a MAN. Going monk mode like another comment suggested is good as long as you actually work on yourself. Getting a nice body, saving more money etc will automatically give you confidence and an alpha mindset.…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:10 PM
8

Can’t help you with finding a therapist, but sometimes I ask myself questions as a therapist would, and answer everything logically without letting emotion effect me - become your own therapist and find peace within yourself.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:13 PM
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Don’t do it. You gain nothing from it, you only lose.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:10 PM
21

Why do you care? If you want to do it, do it. Relax a little & enjoy yourself, just be safe.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:31 PM
1

Glad I could help
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:52 AM
1

You're 18, it's time to be a man and grow up. You seem to have Oneitis, the more you show you care, the less she cares. I very very highly recommend you watch Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube, it will change your life. I wish I knew TRP at your age.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:33 AM
1

Status, just like looks, are a form of initial attraction. But what actually keeps her attracted is frame & game. There's a big difference between initial attraction, and KEEPING someone attracted.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:30 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:11 AM
1

Always remember, less is more. I think having a good social media profile is important in today's time, so don't listen to those who say "forget social media", that's nonsense. If you're referring to Insta, I personally have my 6 best pictures up. As long as you look good/are with friends/social environment/or on holiday, then keep the picture, whereas archive anything else that's subpar/selfies etc. I also have my fitness page linked in the bio of my main profile (this way females see I live a …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:09 AM
2

Be a man, treat her like a woman. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:39 PM
3

Having your own place is vital at your age. Im 24 so still saving up, house prices in London are insane
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:37 PM
1

Especially when her guts have been rearranged
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:16 PM
2

Depends on her interest level, but there's only one way to find out, just do it and keep us updated. Tbh do whatever you want as long as you're fine with potentially losing her. Only thing I'd suggest is to not ghost for too long, because no one is THAT busy especially during a pandemic - you have to be somewhat realistic.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:18 AM
2

Thanks man, Appreciate the replies
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:30 PM
1

It was a soft rejection. I told her theres somethings she does that sit wrong with me and I cant overlook, and I see past her games she playing, she told me she’d change etc. Funnily enough we both messaged each other “maybe we’ll cross paths again” at the same time. She even messaged saying she doesnt want to end on bad terms. (This worked according to plan lol). It’s been about 2 weeks now since we last spoke. One thing is I as the man cannot chase the female, by doing that she automatically w…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:26 PM
1

She’s just a plate I’m trying something different with because fuck it why not. I have interest in her obviously otherwise I wouldn’t speak to her at all. So to answer my question, do women still chase after rejection? Appreciate your input though
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:17 PM
6

Hahaha, she was waiting for that yes for ages i bet. I’ve always wondered from a redpill perspective what rejecting a woman does to her though
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:40 PM
-1

As AMS once said “thick is in”. Anything along those lines works.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:41 PM
0

Bro, I’m asking a very specific question for future reference. I don’t need to prove to you whether the date went well or if she “see’s my weak frame”. I know myself how well the date went because we fucked, and that’s what matters.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:02 PM
0

I’m pretty sure talking very briefly about past relationships is not a shit test, it was maybe a 1 minute conversation max... Either way I wanted her to know idgaf and leave women if I get bored - i passed the supposed shit test with flying colours
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:51 PM
2

True, my intentions initially were to fuck, but wouldn’t mind a relationship either. But you’re right, my mindset behind it was to show that idgaf and have options, i’m not afraid to leave women.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:00 PM
3

Thanks, now I know for next time
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:52 PM
4

Eh, you live & you learn. Appreciated
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:52 PM
1

You mind PM’ing me too? Im interested, im bad with pickup lines
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:32 PM
1

Attraction is more than just height. That’s a slice of the pie, but you don’t NEED it.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:46 PM
11

You being 5’8 or 6’0 only helps the females initial attraction to you. What keeps her going crazy over you is your frame & game, height doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:35 AM
2

Hmm, she may be shit testing you by cancelling/pulling away? If I was you I would leave it as it is, and wait for her to respond back or come up with another date (this is considering she has interest in you as you've already went out once?). One thing you don't want to do is chase her up again like a dog, like she's the only girl in your life. If she's actually interested in you, she will come back to you after you ghost for a bit.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:14 PM
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This really depends on a lot of factors. How exactly did she decline? What is her interest level in you? I generally only leave females on 'read' if it's warranted such as her flaking on a date, or if i'm "pulling back" so shit testing her, but usually a simple reply that's not 'needy' works wonders at the early stages, but never chase for a second date (or swim), let her chase you for it. A simple reply works at the early stages.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:10 PM
3

Oh I misread, thanks for bringing up - guess I have to edit my original comment
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:47 PM
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Editing my original comment; if she is attracted to you, it'll be tough to stay friends with her and her social group. Keep in mind, if a female is into you, she wants you to be her man, and not her friend. Females would rather cut you off in the hope that in the future you'll be in a relationship, rather than stay as friends. (I hope that makes sense). She's most likely already told her friends she's into you, and if you ruin the friendship with her, it won't go well with the friendship group. …
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:40 PM
2

Tbh I think it's best everyone goes MM during lockdown, it's an opportunity to improve and come out a better man. Lockdown showed me that I need a better social life and to get over oneitis too (which I have recently, but don't want it to be reoccuring..), but thankfully has helped me save lots of money just by staying in more and I've got time to rebuild my body even better than it is. Sidenote, I remember replying to your post yesterday, hope it's going good bro.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:23 AM
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Lockdowns really have ruined a lot, but going to the park is probably the best/only idea available, just tough as I'm still working 9-5 at least 6 days per week. Going back to a former is a no/no, automatic loss, but I'm expecting some formers to come back to me (just a waiting game). I'm just using the lockdown to my advantage, saving as much money as possible and cutting/running, might just have to monk mode it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:00 AM
2

Anytime bro. That's the thing though, women need validation, but once they get validation they get bored - don't stress over her work colleague (unless hes redpill), she'd always come back to you. Just remember, she is a woman, looking for a MAN, not a friend, or a boy, she wants a MAN, and you'll be good. Goodluck
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:42 PM
2

You have to decide yourself what YOU want, do you want to be with her or not? I see you're stuck in two minds, nothing wrong about it. If you still want to be with her, best thing I'd advise you to do is get your power back. Distance yourself a bit, delay your messages to her, see her slightly less, even cancel on her once or twice - just don't go over the top. She'll pick up on this like a shark looking for blood. She will NEED your validation and will make her attracted to you more. If you don…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:35 PM
2

This is a decision you have to come up with, and stick by. Leaving her is the most alpha/redpill thing you can do, it will literally make her NEED you. Females don't get "dumped" enough, but once they do, they go crazy after the guy they can't have. It will be tough on you too at first, but remind yourself why you're doing it, understand you have the upper hand and there's a billion other females (plus she will come back to you eventually, so you always have that). Not sure if you saw my edited …
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:55 PM
2

Let's switch the roles. Females will string you along until she finds a better guy, and will leave you without notice & wouldn't give a shit. You do the same - walking away from her will actually make her want you more! Just make sure you don't simp about when you "break up", be firm and stand by what you said. ​ Edit: I'm literally going through a similar process, not as long of a relationship but I left my girl a week ago because there's some red flags that I can't accept. After the breakup sh…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:46 PM
1

Understandably, my instagram (& tinder) profile is on point for sure, that's not the issue haha. I've got 6 nice pictures showing "high social value", I look good, athletic build, but have purposely kept my followers & following under 100 to only follow people I actually stay with/like (not sure if that helps attract women, but I like staying lowkey). I'm just shit at dm'ing and this lockdown is ruining my real life game. Appreciate the replies bro.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:06 PM
1

That makes sense, I see why it works. Nothing wrong with Tinder, I've tried it but i'm not the greatest at opening a conversation via social media/dating apps - it's a different ball game to real life. I can hold good conversation on text/social media being RP when I know the person, but getting to know someone firstly on social media is a different story, I just don't have the experience I guess.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:42 PM
1

Appreciated, will check it out. I hate pursuing via social media because it automatically gives the female the upper hand in a sense, I'm at my best in real face to face situations. But it genuinely is the only option available as England is in full lockdown, it's pretty much impossible to meet new people now.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:16 PM
1

Very true, but only after a couple hours of texting through a dating app?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:52 PM
2

So you've only spoken to her for a few hours and she already wants to fuck? You're either a god, or she's a guy and wants to rob you. In my opinion you done well. Don't get in contact with her, and if she's really into you she'll message you back eventually - if she don't, her loss. You win either way.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:31 PM
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You shouldnt have asked those questions in the first place, in my opinion. But good you cut her off regardless.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:37 AM
2

You’re a man. Get up and do what you have to do.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:47 PM
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