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ItsOnlyAFleshWound00/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 12:34 AM
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Yep. "I want you to have a fulfilling sex life, etc." But perhaps I should have focused more on him. But it was in response to him asking if I was happy with our current sex life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:17 PM
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That could be. He definitely seems to be more tired than you would expect. I think he sometimes takes short naps in the afternoon (not sure though, but at least once he's mentioned it as a reason he can't get to sleep). He only leaves the house a couple of times a week, if that, and definitely doesn't seem to have much energy to do things after work (example: "The extended deadline for taxes is this week, so I'm going to be busy every day after work doing my independent contractor taxes... actua…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:16 PM
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Spinsterhood = no future man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 04:13 AM
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I believe that he is stressed. But because what is causing his stress is normal life, I can't imagine a future where he isn't stressed all the time. This doesn't feel like a rough patch. It feels like, "holy shit, how would he deal with the stress if we ever had kids?"
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 04:12 AM
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There's more to life than being loved. What use is love if it traps you into a life you feel no pleasure in living? As for his income, I was just using it to point out that financial woes are not a stress on him. I have my own career, and we keep separate finances.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 03:58 AM
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Yes, I have brought up that I feel unfulfilled in the intimacy department. To his credit he has increased the amount of cuddling we do over the past few weeks, but non-bj sex is still a less than weekly occurrence. He says it's because he is stressed, so I try and reduce his stress. I don't know what else I can do though; there aren't any chores of his I can pick up, no outside obligations he can cut back on. I make sure I'm not in his hair all the time by hanging out with friends or going to th…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 03:52 AM
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Tell him you want him to **** you. What is he going to say, no? That is correct. :/
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 03:39 AM
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Yep. This way I don't turn my friends against him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:51 AM
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I figured there would be a chance of there being women here who discovered RP thought too late in life, and who are going to be presumably single forever. Originally the post was going to be about whether I'd made a poor choice of captain. But I thought it devolved too much into complaining. I partially posted here because I just want to ramble at someone. I could tell my friends, but I don't like speaking ill of my partner.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:45 AM
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how well do you think you could do as far as a relationship? This is why the theme is "spinsterhood" not "new boyfriend". I highly doubt I could find a man I want to marry who wants to marry me. I'm a realist, and realize that at 28 the odds highly unfavorable. Maybe give it the old college try and seduce him non-sexually by initiating long kisses, cuddling, and even massaging his neck when he seems stressed. I do this already. We are very physical, he gets long enthusiastic blow jobs multiple t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:31 AM
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I'm reading the link you gave, and wishing it had more things I haven't tried already :/ sometimes a dude just needs his girlfriend to tell him how wonderful he is, suck his dick, and then leave him alone for a while. It's amazing what a panacea that is to the vast majority of men. That is basically my life. I didn't include that detail in the db post, because it doesn't help with my sexual fulfillment.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:11 AM
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Because he's the closest I've come to love. And maybe I do love him. I'm not really sure, I'm not particularly skilled at recognizing it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:08 AM
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Sadly I can't go on a gym date with him, because we belong to different gyms. He's used his $90/month membership only twice. I've tried things like suggesting we go on walks to restaurants (we live in a dense city) but he's not interested. His job is not anymore stressful than most. Software pays well, especially when you're as smart as he is. Everybody has stress in their life; other people handle it just fine. I try to be motivating and helpful and I never nag him. I've probably spent too many…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 01:53 AM
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