| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Having oneitis is like casting yourself as Gunther from F.R.I.E.N.D.S in your own life | ItsTonesOClock | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:02 PM |
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| 1 | How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women?Sounds like cognitive behavioural therapy would help you a lot. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Mental Strength Training - Rejecting WomenThis sounds like a case of the blind leading the blind. Main reason I don't bother with this sub anymore. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 09:23 PM |
| 44 | Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?Take her to random funerals in the area | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | 5 seduction secrets from a woman that they don’t tell youThis is a guy and a creepy one at that. "crumb of cooochie"? | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Taking a tinder girl out for drinks tomorrow. Any tips on how I can make the conversation more sexual in a nine creepy wayStand up, unzip your trousers, flop your dick on the table. | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 11:03 PM |
| 0 | I don't even see the point of going out to nightclubs and bars to meet women anymore these days... am I doing it wrong?If I'm a girl on my way to work the last thing I want is some goon coming on to me. There's a time and a place. Also, r/thathappened | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 08:45 PM |
| -6 | I don't even see the point of going out to nightclubs and bars to meet women anymore these days... am I doing it wrong?Metro? Dude that's fucking creepy. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | How Introverts Should Flirt - The Introvert's Super PowerBecause he's an introvert and thinks that attraction comes down to binary things like introvert vs extravert. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 8 | How to have a strong frame and energy on bad days?You mean to say you're human? You don't have to be on all the time. People who try to be fun all the time can actually be quite annoying and over bearing after a while. Nothing wrong with having some personal time where you're not constantly ON. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:54 PM |
| 9 | Using who you are as a strength is better than trying to become some alpha who you really aren’t meant to be.Improve yourself behind the scenes. Be yourself on the stage. | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Girl at the bus stop!That sounds equal parts cringe and creepy | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Hey and nothing much"when did you menstrate last." it's bold and shows interest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lotYou sound really needy. Like you need to be the centre of a woman's attention from day one until the day that you both die. Get some perspective. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI don't know you so I'm just gonna make a massive assumption that you might be trying too hard and it shows. I went to college with a guy who used to try extremely hard with people and was as nice as he could possibly be but he had and still has no real friends. Don't worry about people liking you and just try to be you. That's way easier said then done but I don't really know what else to tell you. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!I prefer 'fortune favors the brave' | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | 2 yearsAfter 2 years of oneitis I think it was the right thing to dry | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 10:33 AM |
| 2 | 2 yearsWhat | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | She said she was not interested few months ago. Now I think she is interestedWhen you're looking for a certain someones name to see if they saw your story it's most likely oneitis | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | She said she was not interested few months ago. Now I think she is interestedThis advice is a great way to waste years of your life. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 08:26 PM |
| 5 | She said she was not interested few months ago. Now I think she is interestedDon't try again. Have more respect for yourself. Sounds like youre overthinking it and this is probably a bad bout of oneitis. You tried. It didn't go how you'd hoped. Move on. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | My ATTRACTION MANIFESTO : What I've learned in 7 years. From an introvert CEREBRAL guy who went deep down the rabbit whole.Nice, proper advice. Not the vague old "be the best version of yourself" tripe. In terms of attitude what do you think is best. Playing it cool and serious or trying to be friendly and funny. I tend to sing towards the latter. | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Having oneitis is like casting yourself as Gunther from F.R.I.E.N.D.S in your own lifeTed is a shit character in an average show. Barney was the best character in that show. I'd hate to be Ted's friend. He's a boring, whiny, condescending, cringey ass. Barney would be an awesome friend in real life. | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Having oneitis is like casting yourself as Gunther from F.R.I.E.N.D.S in your own lifeAwesome. if youre coping well while hung up on her, imagine how great you'll be when you're over her. Always a good motivater when you're in the gym | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks Part 36 upvotes after 5 minutes with a 13 minute video. How many accounts do you have? | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Key mindset to reach outcome independence, non-neediness and relaxed confidence. Choose. Don't chase.You got downvoted but I kinda agree with you. This sub seems to promote overthinking and doing mental gymnastics when talking to a girl. Just go for it and do your best. Try not to come off as desperate. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.I do a lot of these things and admit I get on with most people as a result. However a lot of these things would be considered being a 'nice guy' in the dating scene. Never argue? Aren't you supposed to stir up interest by not being so agreeable? Seems like this suggests the opposite | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 09:52 PM |
| 29 | A year of approaching women - This is what I learntTrue, I personally need to do this so as to rid myself of a crippling dose of oneitis. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Why Being Mr. Nice Guy Turns Women OffI've tried not being a nice guy. In a conversation with a girl you like, trying not to be a nice guy is like doing mental gymnastics. Get out there and talk to girls. You'll come to realise that they're human and flawed like all other humans. You'll naturally stop putting girls on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Girls who show too much interest.Seeing alot of people say that this happens with both guys and girls and I 100% agree. The harder I try, the worse I generally do with girls. I've never actually gotten with a girl I genuinely liked. Usually girls I didn't give a shit for when I'm drunk enough that they'll do. But how do you get the girl if you can't act interested? I feel like my problem is I don't make a move or engage enough. Its like a catch 22. How can you get to know them if you don't show interest... | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 07:42 PM |
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