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ItsYough123/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:11 PM
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Not hating the man. The type of 18 year old girl who goes after a man near 30? Well they're usually not relationship material, let's just say that.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:45 AM
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I said if she was 18. I also said if she was in her 20s there would be no problem and that she could date 10 years plus older but you chose to ignore that several times. But that's fine, if you think an 18 year old is a catch then so be it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:10 AM
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Where did I say an older man is of lower value? Do you even bloody read what I wrote? Jesus, learn to read and stop presuming.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:12 AM
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Way to make some great judgements about me. I said if she was 18 and getting in a relationship with a 28 yer old then she isn't prime material. She very may well be good looking but no normal girl gets in a relationship at that age with a near 30 year old. The odd fuck here and there? Certainly, nothing wrong with that. Now if she was 21 or so I'm more lenient on these things. I don't see anything wrong with a 10 year gap at that age but when she's 18, lmao.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 04:56 AM
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Respect? By feeding delusions? It's got nothing to do with respect. If a schizophrenic demanded that you had to say their delusions were real would you be okay with that? Others aren't being disrespectful because they won't play pretend with people. In fact, it's pretty disrespectful to demand that others have to pretend you're of the opposite sex when you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 12:22 AM
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lol at thinking you can force someone to call them something they aren't. If you've a vagina I'll call you she/her, if you've a willy i'll call you he/him. Anything else and we're letting the loons take over the asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 11:50 PM
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How long were they dating? If it was 2 years then she would have been 18 when it started. 18 and in a relationship with a 28 year old. Just lol. I'd say her social standing wasn't all that great and he was just looking a younger girl to pump. If she's going for guys that much older at that age then she probably isn't as wise as she thinks.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:03 AM
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I can guarantee you that's not even the real reason. She just wasn't getting the feels from him and others guys were there to provide it. All them things he said and done are just excuses she can bring up when it's over. Wonder how long she was dating that older guy? If it was a year or two then I wouldn't think very highly of her. If she has to go for a someone that much older at that age then she obviously has issues (not saying there is anything wrong with the age gap but at that age a teenag…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 03:58 AM
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But no dating app is ever going to be like real life. The solution is easy. Go out and meet people IRL. Most people already know this though but the ones that don't will continue to hammer on about how unfair online dating is. Not saying you think like this, I'm just saying this for the benefit of others viewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:59 PM
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Or you know they could just meet IRL at the bar lol. No app will ever be able to show how you value yourself and how others treat you. Being in a public place surrounded by lots of strangers is a good way to find out. It gets straight to the point and there's no hiding place. There's no trying to make yourself look pretty in pictures or taking photos with other women to make yourself look like a ladies man or taking cool pics on holidays with mates to make yourself look social. It's you in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:35 PM
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Exactly. I've been harping on about this for ages but I realise it's no use anymore. The guys out at the bars and with a social circle already know this and the guys who only use dating websites will never listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:29 PM
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No they don't. The only men who thought like that were the kissless weirdos who never got any action. The rest of us were out at the local discos having a good time pointing to the girls mates which one we wanted to kiss. But I know a load of men on this sub will disagree and that all the media and moms had such influence in their lives that they just couldn't possibly figure out that women were just normal people, like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:26 PM
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Exactly. That guy truly enjoys life and is totally happy where he is. You can't fake that kind of confidence and a lot of women know it when they see it. Of course, if you don't naturally have that then you should try your best to get it through lifting etc but some guys are just born with naturally good brain chemistry where they have natural confidence and they truly live in the moment. Them guys are nearly always going to have chicks loving them.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 10:19 PM
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Self assurance is the number one panty dropper. Confidence is really attractive as we all know. As you said it doesn't matter where you're going, as long as you're sure doing it. Obviously this might mean you attract different types of girls but you'll attract them all the same. When a women wants to go somewhere she doesn't really care where to. She wants you to have the confidence to own where ever you're going. She wants to see that you're comfortable being in control. If you're confident you…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 10:16 PM
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Nothing to do with science. All they did was socially reject OP because he was ruining the atmosphere of the room. Unless asked, this was definitely not the time to start spouting about macro nutrients lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:41 PM
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I can guarantee you did. You weren't able to read the vibe of the room. They just wanted to mindlessly talk about their new fad diets and didn't want specific help, certainly not from you. In future contribute and make them feel. The feels you brought to the situation made them feel bad. The were chilling and socialising and you told them how they should be dieting. You ruined the atmosphere of the room. Obviously I'm not saying you are autistic but you need to learn how to read a room better. R…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:35 PM
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Exactly. And there's totally nothing wrong with that, it's completely normal. I can tell exactly the way OP was behaving and I'm sure a lot of us have done something similarly when we were younger. Use this as learning experience OP. Joke around and add a little here and there but stop trying to educate your family. It won't get you very far and any future opinion you do give won't hold any weight. If you take that advice and are a fun social guy to be around I bet some of them might even ask yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:28 PM
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Girls hate rejection lol. I mean we hate it too but we all learned how to handle it in an appropriate way. Funny thing is their go to insult is either 'you're ugly' (something that some guys say to girls as well which makes no sense seems they were the ones trying to hookup lol) or the classic 'are you gay?' (lovely bit of shaming. It couldn't possibly be that I'm not attracted to you lol).
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:23 PM
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I don't mind it. I'm quicker to believe this story over 99 percent of the spergs who writes a field report like a thesis lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:18 PM
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What you're saying is correct. What might be submissive is having a big smile at everyone and overly laughing at jokes that aren't very funny in order to fit in. So if you're talking to a cashier give her a little smile but don't grin like a retard looking to impress her. Look at her reaction and live in the moment. That'll tell you if you're smiling too much or not enough. If you're telling a joke and it's genuinely funny don't be afraid to laugh or smile. It's when you're smiling all the time …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:37 AM
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Exactly. You need the genuine confidence to be able to pull off these things. When you're confident you naturally use less filler words. If you've no confidence saying these things it's very easy to come off as rude and as if you read some words on the internet telling you to act a certain way. Having said that (oh no filler words, shame on me!), it's still good to be more assertive and apply some of these things. Just don't change your communication style completely or all at once or people wil…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:46 PM
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How? It does not bother me in the slightest.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:28 PM
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If she's been with guys hotter than me (more than likely) it wouldn't bother me. I'm sure I've had girls hotter than her as well. I've never been with a girl that makes me work for it (are there even girls like that outside of teens who're virgins?). Within 3 dates there's always a smash. And I'm not of the belief that most girls are constantly getting dicked down by guys way out of their league only to settle for their match when they've 'rode the carousel'. I think most girls, at least where I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:00 AM
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I'm from the Uk as well and when I'm in town the couples I see are generally looks matched within a point or 2 of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:39 AM
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Some do make them wait bro even if they are horny, they are obviously in the minority though. Not many wait long once they're out of their teens. Usually the ones that make you wait months or a year are virgins. Can't see that story because it's deleted but was she a virgin before? Honestly, I don't know any women who makes a man wait more that 3 dates. If you're not hitting it within 5 dates it's certainly time to move on. I'm annoyed that you think you've found out some groundbreaking revelati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:56 PM
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She says she has sex with men she's attracted with. That's normal. I'm arguing with you who says that there are a load of girls saying they don't feel aroused until they wait a bit. As you know, most feel aroused from the moment they see a guy they want to have sex with, it's just some wait a bit (usually not long) before giving it out. I'm arguing with your notion that you think many women think that way. A few women might but it's not most. Your cherry picking as most do on this sub. 'but this…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:38 PM
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A man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:28 PM
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Well I just gave one. Another might be she doesn't want to appear to be a slut (maybe she worries about ruining her reputation). Maybe she's really attracted but wants to keep her count down etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:28 PM
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90 percent of people in the UK aged 16 and above go to pubs/nightclubs and it's where the vast majority of pulling happens, either through randoms or through social circle. Seems to be different in america where if you're a girl and go to the club you're some kind of slut(well that's what I'm led to believe judging by what the posters say on here but I'm hoping/fairly sure that's just their bitterness shining though and normal Americans have more nuanced views lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:21 PM
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Men value just as much how hot she is. They value if she doesn't give it out as easily and they are the ones to get it. They value conquering it for the first time. They value the intimacy sex provides. It's not all about the physical pleasure bro. If there was some sex robot made in the morning and it gave men orgasms that shattered what a women could give them men would still hunt for sex, and it wouldn't be to just have babies. A real women who's into them will always be better. Being the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:06 PM
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What a load of horseshit. No one says that. A women can be very aroused from you the moment she meets you but she might make you wait a bit for a number of different reasons. Maybe she's turned on but doesn't wanna give out the goods too quick etc. There's a whole load of other reasons I can't be arsed getting into as well. Dude this whole post makes no sense. Some women have casual sex with people they want to have casual sex with. Same as men. That's what you're saying. Hardly ground breaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:58 PM
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Really? lol Any nightclub I've been in has been a very different story. Lots of indirect approaches by girls for guys they've clearly scouted out so they clearly do 'pick'. I think a mans perspective summed it up to be honest. For a lot of men approaching is clearly a big burden. You're opening yourself up completely and I think that's one of the reasons a lot of women don't do it. It can be very scary if you're not used to it. Let's not pretend it's easy for every guy. I've seen a lot of girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:27 PM
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This is where I disagree. The average man will get married to someone his level. Of course he won't be able to fuck a new hottie every day as he pleases but the girl he ends up with will be a lot better than the ugly girl. The ugly girl, sure she can get cock whenever she wants from guys way better looking than her but if she's to get in a relationship it's going to be with a very ugly dude as well. She wants a relationship with a better looking guy but she's not going to get it. So it depends h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:18 PM
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That's fine for Tinder dates but I personally wouldn't do that if a mutual friend set the two of them up.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 04:31 AM
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Least you know what you should have done. Soon as she said she wasn't attracted you should have said something like 'that's fine, no problem, hope you find what you're looking for' and then casually ended the date. Kind of cringing at you asking her why as I'm sure you are as well, especially all that hot and muscular shit (sounds like you went full sperg incel mode). Still, her social skills weren't all that great either for her to actually say that stuff to you lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 04:29 AM
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My parents are 10 years apart and have a great marriage. A lot of the older generation seemed to have that gap, at least where I'm from. I do think the difference has closed a bit for our generation but it's still not strange to see a 5-10 year gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:55 AM
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Even if you are top 10 percent, the women they'll get online will generally be of a lower quality than those they could pull in real life, so even them guys are getting shafted. As said, use online if you want to empty your balls in some random who's lower than you. That's the right way to use it IMO.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:26 PM
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You really think it's weird if a guy aged 31 started dating a 24/25 year old? Where I'm from that's super common (although obviously not the majority) and no one considers it creepy. That what a lot of girls want. A guy a little older who has experience. These women aren't doing it for dinners lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:23 PM
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I agree, there's a huge difference. The first is creepy and the second might not be the majority but it's certainly common and widely accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:20 PM
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I agree and these women aren't going after his money like how storffish thinks. A lot of them are naturally attracted to guys ever so slightly older than them. These guys have a little more confidence, know more about themselves and are more settled into the world over the early 20s guys. Of course it wouldn't be the majority but nobody where I live thinks it's weird if an early 30s guys dates women 22/23 plus and it isn't uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:18 PM
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While I do agree it's a revenge fantasy for lots of guys on here, early 30s guys do generally date lower-aged girls ranging from early 20s to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:15 PM
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Online is terrible compared to real life. The reason we have so many guys complaining is because they rely on the internet to get them women instead of their social circle, friends of friends and the bar/club for randoms. They see ugly girls rejecting them online (simply because they can when they have really sexy guys desperate to bust a nut in them, we'd do the same if online worked that way for us) and think that women in real life are that picky. Online you're just a number of the many hundr…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 06:38 PM
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I might be wrong but the black pill seems to be 'Fuck improvement, best to just lay down and rot! It's over, It's oveeerrrrrrr! No point in trying because I'll always be ugly. What's the point?'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 02:20 PM
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And that's why you should never take any of this shit seriously. It makes zero sense and it's not what the vast majority of women find attractive. Women want to be taken. They want you to get it and if they aren't interested they'll let you know very quickly. I've never once asked a women for sex or a kiss, even thinking about doing something like that sends my brain in knots. It's like my brain knows 'bro don't do that shit, you know it won't get you laid. You know it's just going to dry her up…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:29 PM
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If she'd any respect for you at all, with you two being alone together she wouldn't have said she was single. Although she was in an awkward position but you kind of set yourself up for that by taking her out in public like you were bf/gf. You know you shouldn't be hanging out with her mate. Would you have been mad if she got dicked down by them? Would you not have felt like a loser if she started playing volleyball with them and then said something like 'you go back to the car, I think me and t…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 06:17 PM
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Meh life is all about balance. I think your previous attitude was wrong but you're probably going to burn out if you go too much the other way. Sure work and go to the gym but I really don't think you need to go overboard, although maybe a lot of guys here think differently. Go to uni, secure a good job, go to the gym 3 times a week, maybe something like 5 a side footy another night and the rest will fall into place. Realistically you're probably not going to become some entrepreneurial genius j…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 06:11 PM
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You already got cucked. You took your ex to a beach. If you want to still fuck her either go to hers or get her to come to yours. None of this date shit. She was the one who cucked you when she said you weren't bf/gf, not the guys. Why would you still want to fuck someone who makes you look so pathetic in public? You looked like her bitchboy while she was trying to desperately signal to the others guys that she was single.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:59 PM
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It's all made up, no one is this stupid. lol at someone taking their ex out on a date, her wanting strange dick and throwing them under the bus yet they still continue to whiteknight her hard. A proper guy would never take their ex out on a date in the first place. If he somehow didn't know that was a bad idea when she said they weren't bf/gf he'd nope the fuck out of there realising that bitch doesn't give a fuck about him. It'd be a harsh lesson for him to never take his ex out on dates lol. B…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:56 PM
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C'mon dude, you have to be trolling. You brought your ex to a beach (fuck would you do that for?), she said she wasn't your gf, obviously wanting some nice volleyball dick, and you felt the need to stick up for her? She played you like a fiddle. 99/100 times you would have got your cunt kicked in, she would have gave them a cheeky smile if not more and you would be seriously injured going back to your car like a loser. This has nothing to do with frame, it's just pure idiocy.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:48 PM
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I don't even know what to say... Did you fly away in doc's delorean afterwards? Assuming this is true, as an adult why are you starting fights with random people twice your size just to impress your ex? Talk about looking for scraps. Your ex wants to fuck new dick and you think it's a good idea to have a lovely date with her on the beach while she does everything in her power to cuck you?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:39 PM
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Never taken LSD but have had the same effect with MDMA. There's so much stuff you miss when you're sober. Obviously don't use it as a crutch but it can open you up to why a lot of girls are attracted to a certain type and can help you see things differently even when you're sober. You can see all the guys in the club who are afraid to make eye contact and who dart there heads around at 100mph. You can see them walking about real fast even though they've nowhere to go. You can see those guys who …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 12:17 PM
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Get off online dating. It's too much effort and the prize is usually of low value even when you get it. Do not message some random girl loads of times thinking you're making real connection. If she doesn't give you her number within 10 messages and meet up shortly after then move on to the next. Not all but a lot of women use online dating for an ego boost and to score guys higher value than them (simply because they can because they have 100s a guys messaging them). Play to your own strengths a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:31 AM
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Do you troll because of how sad your real life is? What are you getting out of this? People who troll generally aren't living great lives and do so because their lives are lacking elesewhere... If you really are a girl how do you know my exs look like 3s compared to you? Maybe a picture with your username would help people take you more serious. How do you know I've never had my dick in an above average looking girl? C'mon buddy, in ten years time you're going to look back at this period in your…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 10:02 AM
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Sure you are;) You're definitely not a bitter, loveless troll.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 09:07 AM
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Maybe stop self projecting buddy;) Just because these things don't happen to you doesn't mean they don't happen to other guys. lol at you thinking girls aren't sexual.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 08:26 AM
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You're an idiot. Go out to any clubs and watch how easy it is for the good looking, male dancers to take girls home. These girls will 'accidentally' bump into them multiple times. The guys will have 3 or 4 girls attacking him from different directions with 'fuck me' eyes. The guy puts no effort into them and takes the girl home and fucks her silly. (has happened to me loads of time and I'm no stud). Believe me, there are a lot of women out there that want to be dicked down by a confident, good l…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:00 AM
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Good attitude to have. The funny thing is when you're lower in the social hierarchy you tend to me be more of a people pleaser. You do more for people but they don't like you as much. You worry more about the group than yourself. When you're in a better position in the group, you do the things you want and people go along with it lol. You're automatically respected a lot more and whatever you do or say is always greeted with more positivity. It's better to look after number 1 first.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 02:39 PM
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To be honest it's not really their fault and it's not yours. I think it's mostly subconscious. We subconsciously place everyone in our social circle as either above or below us. Of course there is give and take though and it's a bit more complicated than that though. In a good social circle everyone usually maintains their own position with some minor shifting around. If one guy(you) all of a sudden makes huge leaps and bounds and you sub consciously don't accept being put below someone anymore …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 02:33 PM
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Because the vast majority of them are like the first one you described. Of course they'll not admit that though. Also, just look at the sub. Pure hatred for women posts are the ones that are most upvoted. When the community largely agrees and revels in them kind of posts it gives you a good indicator on how they really feel. Let's say some really are successful in everything but they don't want the hassle of women. That's fair enough and I've no problem with that. Still, after a few years of bei…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:30 PM
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So pretty much like how it is in men's nature? Why not call it AHALT?(All humans are like that)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:21 PM
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To be honest it's a dumb argument but both of you have valid points. The one way to 'win' these types of talks is by not engaging or by being very sarcastic and over the top. Call her out for using guys in a cheerful way but don't be serious or bitter about it. Play it up and say 'oh I always buy random girls drinks because I want to be their friend for the night;)' or 'I thought girls were meant to be good at reading between the lines, don't all of you pride yourself in that? Surely you know hi…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:13 PM
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Maybe do some cardio if you don't already. Be mindful and control your breathing by taking deep, slow breaths. And as said do some stupid math in your head if you really need to lol.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:42 PM
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It was quite a rant I'll give you that lol. Just wanted to drive the point home but it'll probably go unread. Do you disagree with what I said though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:29 PM
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Good advice on having a mixed social circle. If other girls in a bar see you with good enough looking girls and see them genuinely having a good time with you then your value is automatically higher and they'll want to be apart of that. They can see that you can talk to women already without being a stammering retard so it makes it easier for them to approach. It's not rocket science and of course you don't have to do any of that to get good looking women but all the same it's simple, good advic…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:55 PM
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Nailed it. No successful ladies man would ever say something like that unless he said it sarcastically and really knew his audience. To say something like that to a random cashier, lmao. It's like he's playing a script on what he thinks how alphas are. I can tell OP isn't very socially intelligent but I'm sure he'll disagree with me.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:07 PM
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Couldn't agree more lol. HOW IN THE FUCK DO YOU NERDS UPVOTE THESE POSTS? Just look at what this goof has written lol. I'd love to see a picture of him in real life and what his real social standing is. I can guarantee you this guy is as pathetic as they come. This post screams to me what an autist would do if he were trying to emulate as alpha except not realising he's coming off as a weirdo lol. If you guys can't see that then there is no hope for you guys either.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:04 PM
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Finally a post I can agree with. I'm not red pill nor am I blue pill. I'm just a normal guy who tries to use his best judgement. I read the side bar and it has some good information but I always feel like a lot of users take it out of context. The most upvoted crap on here baffles me a lot of the time. It seems to come from bitter, angry guys who seem to hate women and somehow believed they were unicorns that could do no wrong when they were younger. It's this kind of thinking that makes me ques…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:47 PM
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As said, it all boils down to setting realistic expectations. I don't feel sorry for them nor do I feel sorry for the men who complain when their expectations don't get met. These people, if put in the other genders shoes, would have an equally long list of expectations not getting met. We all had silly expectations when we were younger but life just isn't like that. Some people put in the work to get where they want to be, others put in the work and get nowhere because they simply can't due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:37 PM
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It all boils down to these men have no cop on themselves. I mean it wasn't exactly hard to find out what women liked growing through puberty unless you were socially obvious. Also, I agree 'It's not just looks, men have to have a good personality too'. The VAST majority of women will say that and the VAST majority of men will know how to interpret it in the right way. It all boils down to these men interpreting things wrongly, almost looking for a scapegoat in their later years as to why they've…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 12:57 PM
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Some great advice on it that isn't really red pill advice IMO. It's just advice that every guy should already know but a lot of them seemed to miss it growing up. What they get really wrong and what makes people think they are all losers is when they can't hide their bitterness towards women. Their cringy field reports at about 9000 words on going to a bar with all their fancy terms like AMOG and AWALT just screams 'these guys don't know what the fuck they're doing and are obviously very under s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 12:46 AM
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Much like 99 percent of incels who don't realise it's their awful personalities instead of their looks that's the problem when it comes to getting women/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:58 AM
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You're so red pilled you get your panties in a bunch and delete your account because a few, sensible people call you out on your bullshit yet we're to believe you are telling hb9s to fuck off? lmao
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:44 AM
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What a fuck load of supplements. You might be getting some minor results but you're wasting so much money. As you say, eat healthy foods, get good sleep and exercise well and you should be good to go. If not, either go to your doctor for some 'real' help or source that stuff online. Can't imagine what your bedroom room table looks like with all them supplements sitting on it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:03 AM
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Hope you're not in the US... don't want to see any shootings anytime soon...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 06:06 AM
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I'm 5ft 9 and height really doesn't bother me. Had a few guys laugh when they saw photos of me with a girl and she was taller than me with heels on but I was just standing there like 'dude I don't give a fuck, I don't even think about these things'. I could tell even though they were 5ft 11 or 6ft they were actually more insecure about height than me lol. Wouldn't swap my boyish smirking face to be 6ft+ ever lol. If you own it in other areas, height, to a certain extent, is pretty irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:57 AM
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I agree with you if you're talking about the sub conscious level. Their body probably wants that semen. But men at that level are the same. We're programmed not to wear that stupid fucking condom lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:38 AM
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Glad you posted that. I was going to call out enjoy_life88 but thought better of it. A lot of these were girls in their late teens, early 20s still in university. Girls with families who had ayyyylllooooot more money than me and families that would be VERY upset if she got pregnant. Believe me, they didn't want a baby anytime soon. Beside, a lot of them were on the pill. 'they were lying to you, they were not on the pill, they just want you to be a beta bucks, you're so naive!'...
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:35 AM
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lol ok buddy. A breakthrough experience is seeing a girl from a different country have sex with a guy she liked instead of with him even though she never gave him any signals that she'd be interested in him. If you guys really value posts like that then I can safely say you're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:28 AM
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1:You can't be serious. 99 percent of girls in the UK go to pubs and clubs from the age of 16. i.e nearly all of the population. Do they mostly have STDs? 2: You can definitely meet friends at meetups. You just have to have the social grace and tact to be able to meet up outside of them. If you don't ask people to meet outside of the meetup then obviously you probably won't make genuine friends. 3: Again you try to meet up outside of the hobby. For example if you run 5ks and are part of a runnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:24 AM
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Oh for sure. That's always going to be the most important. I'm not trying to over emphasise how men view the n count but it can, and is, a factor for many guys out there, even for those outside of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:24 PM
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Combination of you being more relaxed around them without thinking/planning of ways to fuck them. You become a better talker/listener because you're not dependant on the outcome. They notice your coolness and DGAF attitude and are turned on by it (basically you've made your self a wee bit more 'alpha'). Also girls having what they can't have. They see you with a nice girl and think 'why does she want him, there must be something about him if she's going out with him' You're a bigger prize when a…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:44 AM
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I don't think that's true to be honest. No guy, high value or not, wants to end up with the village bicycle. Sure they may fuck girls who've had a load of partners but they mightn't be keen getting in a relationship with them. Obviously what people consider to be a high n count varies though and not all high value men will give a shit about it either. Personally I don't know any guys who'd be happy to be in a relationship with the local slut but they probably exist. I'd say it's the norm as a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:30 AM
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You on dat dere VPN time Hopeful? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:04 AM
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I've always been a bit careless about condoms but have recently started to change my habits. Every single girl I've ever fucked has let me fuck them raw (a few made me put one on after I'd been in them for a little while). Doesn't matter if it was a first date or a long term relationship. I don't judge them for it to be honest. They want that raw feeling just as much as we do.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:50 AM
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Pretty sure you didn't leave her with the impression that you're sexually dominant. If you were sexually dominant you wouldn't have froze up when she touched your leg. When she said 'you aren't interested in me' that was your cue to show her you were by kissing her (obviously that might depend on how she was saying that but if it's like how I think it was then she wanted you to take action instead of being a pussy with words. Or who knows, maybe she thought you were actually being creepy and it …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 06:51 AM
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You already got rejected bro, no need to get rejected again. Unless she makes it pretty clear I wouldn't try to kiss her because IMO it would be a pretty pathetic thing to do. You need to move on and pursue other girls. Although it shouldn't be the goal (if a girl rejects you once you shouldn't go back to her), her seeing you with other girls might make her get her shit together and actually make her realise what she's missing out on, causing her to give you some serious signals of intent. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 06:40 AM
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Why are you listening to feminists in the first place? If you're a normal guy, when you started going through puberty you should have saw what worked with women and what didn't. The feminine nerd never got the girl but the muscular jock always did. Have you no mind of your own? Don't want to be harsh but who listens to feminists for advice on how to get chicks? lol. That's the problem with so many guys on here. They let stupid online articles shape their world view instead of how most normal guy…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:55 PM
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I agree. Just like the slut isn't necessarily a slut just because she goes to a club. In a lot of cases it's more about the person saying it than the person who they're proclaiming to be the creep/slut. That's why if you hear someone talking like that you call them out in a jokey way if you want. If you can be assed you turn it around on them to make them look stupid. Or you just say nothing when you realise it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. What you don't do is try and change the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:50 PM
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A lot of chicks go into excruciating detail about the sex they have so it's likely her friends know a lot about you. I kind of find it funny because men are the ones who get looked down upon for 'locker room' talk yet that's mostly just bravado or over exaggeration about random women. Women share intimate details that hardly any man would about the women they love. Here's the thing, there's no point in losing any sleep over it. If you're ploughing her good then your dick is probably a few inches…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:37 PM
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We must be in very different places. It's still very common for men and women to call other women sluts for a variety of different reasons. Slut shaming very much still exists (not that I have a problem with it).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:20 PM
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You managed to realise her mouthing off was because of other issues instead of what she was verbally saying? What are you, some sort of non autistic person who can read between the lines?! You shouldn't be around here, you don't fit in!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:18 PM
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This is it. They've read horror stories but have no experience or very little experience doing the act. They get together online and speak like experts on the subject even though if you ask them when was the last time they approached their answer, if being honest, is usually 'never' lol. You try and get them out of their shell but as I've learnt there's no point as it always goes the same way. Me - Meet them in a pub/club Them - But I don't go there, I don't have friends Me - Maybe go to a few m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:13 PM
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Exactly. The kind of guys that get called creeps are the guys in pubs/clubs who go around random girls trying to chat up them all up without regard for social convention. They come out of the blue unexpectantly and there's no non verbal communication before they go into their spiel lol. They think everything is about verbals when that's only a tiny bit of the interaction. The guys who just get it wait for the non verbal signals. i.e she stares are you. She positions her body towards you with ope…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:09 PM
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You make perfect sense to me mate. Why do the people who have problems with such things want to change how the whole world behaves? They need to learn to realise that people say things all the time and there's nothing they can do about it. As you say, if a girl is calling someone creepy ask her why. If her answer is BS then tease her and say 'you're just saying that because he's ugly/socially awkward' etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:02 PM
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True. And there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of men on here look at women and say 'slut' just because she goes to a pub/club lol. You can't stop others from judging you. You can stop how you react to things though. Don't take everything to heart. The people who have issues with such things don't know how to deflect or laugh at such things. Instead of trying to change that (something they're in control of) they try to change the whole world. If you can't do something like changing yourself ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:58 PM
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How does this get upvoted? lol You're either a troll or something is really wrong with you. Ann had sex with a guy she liked. She didn't like you so she didn't have sex with you. Shocker!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 08:51 PM
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What you said makes perfect sense. I can't believe how often this topic comes up around here and I can't believe how childish some of the guys are in relation to not getting the sex thy want. Guys, if she's giving you star fish sex once every two months and you're not satisfied then dump her. It's that easy. I've been in many relationships and never encountered what some of you guys have. If I did I would either work with her, within reason, or I'd dump her. You guys can do the same. To expect h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:27 PM
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I think practically every rational adult knows they settle for their partner. Not settle in a bad way but as in a 'there are still so many other people out there, obviously there are going to be more suitable matches for me' way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:15 PM
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lmao really? That just about sums up that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:10 PM
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Mainstream advice should be what you saw with your own two eyes when you were going through puberty. Did you not see the cocky, confident, muscular guys get the women? That creepy nerd who didn't know how to interact with people wasn't getting girls. That should have made you make a mental note of what most women actually like. That's how most of our own opinions about things are formed and how normal people interpret the world. Why do the people who have problems with women not seem to have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:41 PM
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This. It's like these guys got all their information from some 3rd rate romantic comedy instead of going through puberty like most of us lol. They blame everyone else for their own social obviousness. They don't realise most normal guys simply get it and know how to interact with women and knew not to take movies and what their mum told them as gospel. To me, if they followed such advice and thought it was real kind of shows me they are very socially lacking and that's the reason why they're on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:34 PM
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Most field reports are of nervous guys stuck in their heads interpreting, I'd say mostly wrongly, social situations. The walk into a bar, 'that guy's a blue pill fuck' so I used my red pill 'x power' and then she as expected did 'y'. They are waaaay too long and scream to me that most of what's is happening is all in this socially awkward guy's head while most people at the party are just acting naturally without the need to interact like it's some sort of game to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:30 PM
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When I read the sidebar I agree with some stuff but whatever good points they make they usually end off going down some rabbit hole and jumping to bad conclusions based on shaky studies. Most of the stuff that I agree with on the red pill I, and the vast majority of men, knew when we were in the middle of puberty. The problem is the community. Go into any thread and the most upvoted stuff will usually be from very bitter guys thinking they're acting logically but instead they're more emotional a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:26 PM
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I can guarantee most of what he wrote isn't true, it's fantasy. Anyone who is bitter enough to write something like that isn't getting much sex. Reads like something Elliot Rodger would write. He's obviously a social misfit and blames his parents for his own failures. Roids 10 days a week? lol Prob a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:09 PM
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Dude, nothing has changed. You can't get a woman now and if you were born in the 1940s you wouldn't have been able to get one then either. Women have always had these kinds of traits and there is no problem in the dating market. Most men have no problem fucking/getting in a few relationships over the course of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 02:04 AM
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Who the heck gets explicit consent for a kiss? lol If you're on a date you look her in the eye and lean in most of the way. She'll either go the extra few millimetres to meet you or turn around her head to reject you. How is there any confusion in that? It's the same with sex. The only people who have any sort of problem with these basic things are people who are very socially off. If you FORCE a kiss on her then things get a bit murky, but who the hell does that? And anyway, if you're on a date…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:20 PM
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Exactly. If this girl is known to call guys creepy too often then people are going to believe the guy over her. People (men and women) aren't stupid and generally know if it's the guy or girl is chatting shit. Some girls call guys creeps. Big deal. If you value yourself and know you weren't being creepy then it should mean nothing to you. Some guys call girls sluts. As a guy I can usually evaluate whether the girl is a slut or whether he's just a butt hurt guy calling her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:12 PM
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Hmm I'm not so sure. I hate this idea that you can't meet normal people in bars/clubs. In the UK everybody goes to bars/clubs from the age of 16. That would rule out pretty much everyone if this sub had there way. Go out to pubs with your mates and then get off with their friends or randoms. Just because girls goes to pubs/clubs doesn't mean they don't have their shit together. I always get the impression that people on here think girls that go to clubs/pubs are some kind of sluts. Most are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:41 PM
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If Jay is a social retard with women then that drastically brings down his value. If he sucks with women then he's prob glad a 4/10 is paying him any attention lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 05:38 PM
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This. If this Jay guy is useless with women then he's not a 7/10. My impression is that while he is better looking than her, he's a bit of a social retard. That brings him waaaaaay down the pecking order and is likely the reason why Louise can pull him. Singh never had a chance so I don't know why you even mention him OP. He's just a pathetic friend. As you say, he's a 3/10 and she never had any interest in him. You seem genuinely upset that Singh never got his chance for some unknown reason lol…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 05:37 PM
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Well where else do you pick up random girls? Where I'm from it's done in the pub/club. That's not really limiting yourself. With friends and friends of friends included as well, you have loads of opportunities to pull still. Women put out signs all the time. It's just they are subtle. You have to know how to pick up on them. Online dating is something I wouldn't really recommend unless you just want to get rid of a batch on a significantly uglier girl than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 05:26 PM
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There's no added risk mate. This is just the story of the month. Paper's got to print something when things are calm. I'm a 5ft 9 skinny cunt and I don't have a problem. I approach the women that are giving me signals. I bet you get signals as well only you don't know how to see them. In a pub/club etc, look women in the eye more often and you can tell which ones are interested in you. Go after the ones that purposefully stand near you and who are displaying open body language to you. If you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:34 AM
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Stop using this as an excuse mate. The truth is you're afraid of girls and have no intention of hitting on them because of that. You're getting too much information from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:11 AM
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They won't be approaching women any way so what's the problem? They'll just use this as one more excuse as to why they don't talk to women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:09 AM
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In my circle, any girls who posts up stuff like that is usually a little unhinged. They're often mocked by both men and women and usually don't have great social standing. They are the butt of the joke and they don't even know it. This comment won't fly well with Reddit but just giving my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:07 AM
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Agreed. The only people worried about such things are the guys who never would approach in the first place. Being on the internet, these guys voices are echoed to create a very biased view on how things really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:03 AM
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Most (not all) female bosses I've had were domineering, generally heavily strung and not liked by many. The male bosses tended to be dominant. They knew how to get the best out of their employees and influence them without domineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 01:52 AM
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Put men in that exact same position and they'll cheat as well. It's human nature mate. Most don't cheat but if the prize on offer is too much to resist most (men and women) opt to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 11:23 PM
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Because it's used by autismos on here over the most retarded kind of shit. 'This woman ate a chocolate bar even though she told me she wouldn't eat the chocolate bar. What a liar. All women are stinking liars! AWALT!'.... 300 upvotes lol
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:19 PM
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I understand what you're saying but I still disagree. Before medication I would find it extremely difficult to focus in normal situations. Say a gathering with family. If the tv was on and I wanted to have a conversation, I couldn't have it because the TV would be interrupting my thoughts and my mind would go blank. Similarly, if two other people were having a conversation. In a restaurant I couldn't focus on dates because all I could hear were forks clinking, other people at tables talking etc.…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:54 PM
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I can't focus for shit without medication. Medication has been extremely beneficial to my life and helped me excel in many ways. While I've no doubt some people shouldn't be on it, I don't agree with the notion that it isn't beneficial to some people.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:12 PM
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Taking back a cheating whore is not encouraged at all in society at all. Where do you get that notion out of? It's nonsense like that that gives this place a bad name. Go to the subreddit 'relationships', a place filled with normal people, and 99 percent of people there will say never take back a cheating whore.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:09 PM
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So what you're saying is two people in a shit relationship broke up, the girl fucked someone else and then he took her back like an idiot. Who would have thought that was a bad idea?! Why do people on here have to make a massive story out of something that most normal people know is a bad idea? (taking someone back after the dumping).
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:26 PM
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You've already banged her twice and things seem to be going well so you're in a good position to set it up how you're doing but if it were me I'd alter the text slightly to something like 'I fancy some mingolf next week, you up for that?' Not claiming that I'm some kind of texting genius but I don't think you can really go wrong with that. Your message is a bit flowery with the smiley face and the word planned makes it sound like you've thought about shit way too much before she's even accepted.…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:46 PM
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Do what works for you mate. Understand some of the advice you get on here is from fake alphas who think they're James Bond. While of course asking someone to meet you there and being direct isn't bad, in the context of what you're doing (mingolf), it just sounds so try hard to me. Like as if you're going minigolfing by yourself if she doesn't go lol
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:17 PM
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Is it really that hard to understand? Some people want what they can't have. Do you remember playing as a child with a toy. Your sibling saw and decided to take it off you because it they couldn't have it. You then decided to play with the box that was of no interest to the sibling but somehow after a few minutes the sibling now wants the box instead. They saw you were content with the box and wanted that instead. It's all about having what you can't have. If the child who got the toy taken off …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:02 PM
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This is what I don't get. OP messages sound a bit needy but yours don't work for me either. Say OP is going to minigolf. He texts her 'I'm going minigolfing at 3pm. Meet me there.' To me that sounds pathetic lol. It's so fucking fake alpha. Maybe the kind of girls we meet are different but all I would think is 'oh you're going minigolfing by yourself are ye?' It's so fucking try hard saying something like that lol
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:12 PM
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The thing he doesn't get is you can't be a real leader unless people give you that role. He thinks of himself as the leader yet in reality he is the bitch of the group.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:57 PM
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So what I'm reading is you became a big fake alpha and have creeped your friends out with your awkward behaviour...
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:56 PM
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As far as I can see the insistence on non-monogamy is so they don't develop feelings for one girl too much so they don't end up hurt. I agree they aren't natural and I think they know that as well. Most of the talk on there is fantasy from bitter men who were/are very unsuccessful with women. Of course they won't agree with that but I think we know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:32 PM
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Bingo lol. That's all there is to it. There will always be loney, loser men and women who are useless with the opposite sex and that will never change. The internet just gives them a huge voice. They get together in a hivemind and think the world is getting worse for everybody but that's not true. The vast majority of men have no problem finding a long term relationship or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:26 PM
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See I knew you'd respond saying something like that and that's why I know you're down a very dark hole. NO NORMAL WOMEN ARE SHAMING MEN FOR NOT LIKING FAT WOMEN. Men are allowed to have choices ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:53 PM
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I see what you're saying. It's just I think I view status differently to you. 'Real' status is when you put a bunch of people in a room. Subconsciously people will form themselves into a hierarchy. Men select the 'better' men subconsciously and so do women. How the hierarchy is formed is a bit of a mystery but a lot of it is subconscious and it's denoted through body language, how much your point of view is actually listened to, how cool you are when other men (friends included) banter with you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:51 PM
2

Men fat shame women as well, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:40 PM
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He seems to be putting a lot into something and not getting much out of it and he's getting frustrated. It's up to him if he wants to continue or not. Personally, I can only see him getting more frustrated with this endeavour.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:37 PM
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It's their choice, you can't force them to find you attractive lol. It's not shaming if they don't find you attractive. What women shame men for their choices? Give me an example. So is your problem with women taking away jobs from men and your solution is to ensure men have these higher paid jobs? I'd argue if you need a job like that to attract her then you're not attractive to her anyway so don't get in a relationship her her. Simple. Of course feminism doesn't allow women to be wrong. It's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:34 PM
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They're not part of the problem that's why. Neither are men part of the problem. It's just life. No one is enforcing strict gender roles. If you're a man that likes to be feminine then you're probably not going to have the best pick of women. If you're a woman that likes to me masculine then you're probably not going to have the best pick of men. It's as simple as that. Feminist type ugly copers trying to get men to look at them the same way as pretty women have the same problem as men who don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:19 PM
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I just see it as they want normal social guys. The guy who fucks a few chicks in college etc isn't necessarily 'alpha'. He's a normal guy who has a few flings and who will get into a relationship with someone who he wants to when the right girl comes along. It's the same thing 90 percent of normal women. I think anything else is grossly over analysing everything. Maybe we're saying the same thing only with different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:13 PM
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No overthinking should be done here. The only thing you did wrong was invite her out for dinner. Who does that on a first date, especially a Tinder one? Do something cheap and fun. She was way younger than you, she doesn't deserve the dinner treatment. The dinner treatment should be reserved for an actual girlfriend. It's like some of you guys are blind. If you offered something different than dinner would she have went? If the answer is no then she's not interested in you. Not hating but when w…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 02:42 PM
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So they want men who had a normal upbringing, who have fucked a few girls, who maybe have been in a relationship or two? Who would have known that they want normal guys over kissless virgins?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:33 PM
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Most men want companionship with sex. Most men would prefer this to fucking a new random every week. I can't believe people on here think any differently. Most of the hotter guys in uni got in relationships pretty quickly because they prefer relationships over random sex. These are the kind of guys who could get sex every day of the week from different girls. Sure I agree with you that there are guys that can only get sex in a LTR. Still, that doesn't mean most guys would rather fuck randoms tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:29 PM
1

I don't think of that as beta. I think of that as men doing their job with a little hassle as possible. Unless it really affects them then why wouldn't they go along with it? I often find it's the 'beta' whiner who tends to disagree more. More relaxed 'alpha' personalities go with the flow UNLESS they really don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:25 PM
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You're an idiot. Men and women both subconsciously treat people they believe lower than them on the hierarchy a little worse. NOTHING WILL EVER STOP THAT. If a feminine man makes them feel like they're above him then nothing can be done to change that. What's your solution? To try and change how women and men think of these types of people? If so, that's an impossible task. It's the same as trying to get me interested in having a relationship with a women he perceives to be ugly. The only way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:14 PM
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You mean the world isn't falling apart like how all the incels would have you believe?! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:09 PM
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Get them all in a bar where a woman doesn't know what their status is. The best looking guys (with their own perceived status) and most social ones will do the best. That could mean he's a stem dude or a guitarist. It really doesn't matter. The ones who are genuinely comfortable with their own self, that are having fun and who need no external validation are the ones that will do the best. So it all comes down to the person, their looks and their personality. Hardly rocket science?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:06 PM
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Look at the amount of fatties who go to something like weight watchers yet they never lose any proper weight. They're paying for the privilege and have access to coaches (whatever they're called) IRL. Of course they all want to lose weight but most don't want to put in the effort. The same can be said for something like this. Just send out your message, if you have one, and some people will listen. If the message is good then it might motivate some of the guys to follow it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:33 PM
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Dude, you're too invested. It's not about the person here, it's about you and your ego wanting to see them succeed. Take a step back. Offer information if you think it'll help but don't get annoyed when they don't follow it. Most people just want to whine and not change their situation. That's true in nearly every aspect of life. What you're trying to achieve isn't possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:16 PM
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His answer is the best on this page. You don't offer a partner anything. They either like you for who you are, and want to get in a relationship with you, or they don't. If you like them similarly then you go out. Who would have known?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:07 PM
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As in I let her into my world. She let's me into hers. That's all it means. We get together and build our only little world (family etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:49 PM
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I'm not personally offering you anything lol. Most people like being in a relationship. Most people want to start a family. Most people like going through life with someone they care about. If you don't fair enough. If your question isn't an attempt at trolling then you have some really weird issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:46 PM
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What a silly, loaded question. As a man, I offer her a part in my life. She offers me the same thing. We suss each other out and try to blend the best of both of us together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:13 PM
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Are these women in your league? When you're laughing with them do you not naturally get close to them and touch/brush off each other? Also, keep up the good work in the gym.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 08:31 PM
4

I don't mean to sound harsh buddy. Why didn't you kiss her at the end? Nearly all dates end with at least a kiss unless something really went wrong. And why were you being so awkward at the end of the date with when you'd see her next? Dude, that wasn't smooth like how you maybe think it was. I could dissect the whole thing but that'd be pointless. Just be yourself mate. This girl seems to like you. You don't need to pretend you're James bloody Bond. You might think you're acting like an alpha b…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:51 PM
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Waow, I don't personally know anybody on here but if I were to put a label on some of the guys I would have said exactly what you did lol. Even just reading the field reports gives a good indication to how robotically they must speak IRL. Nuance and simply just feeling a situation out is not a strong point for them. Consistently, the must upvoted shit on here is where some dude talks like a spergy scientist. I think there is good info on here but most of it is simply common sense to most normal …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:35 PM
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That's exactly the impression I got. Looks like he read too much red pill shit but doesn't really get the message of it. All that happened here was he talked like an awkward cunt on a date, analysed the shit out of everything, thinks he's an alpha(lol), and at the end got nowhere. The end.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:13 PM
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Well I can see why you're a virgin. You talk like a bloody try-hard robot. Why the hell are you talking to her about what men are and aren't? lol. Believe me, if you talked like this to most ladies they'd have a good time laughing at you behind your back to their pals. All this talk and you didn't kiss/bang her? Perhaps skip all the advice until you at least get your first lay mate. Not hating but you going out on a date and it not going anywhere is hardly worthy of a post.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:10 PM
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It gets watched. It's as simple as that. Same reason why pop music is all the same etc. That's all there is too it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 03:58 AM
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He's been reading too much info online on what's alpha and beta lol. Dude, if you want to fuck her in the ass and she doesn't let you then you need another girl. If it's not a big deal and she's satisfying you otherwise then get over it. Only you can answer whether this is a big deal or not for you. Don't let other red pill fucks dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing, that's the real beta move lol
/r/askTRP03/12/17 12:49 AM
1

No. Anyone who thinks otherwise is living in some red pill superhero fantasy.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 12:44 AM
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You can stop hanging around with these kind of guys. That won't really help you in future when something like this enviably happens again though. My solution would be just to say something like 'OK', with only a tiny touch of condescension in your voice, have a smirk on your face and look him in the eye. This will probably make him go on a further rant to try and justify himself and that's when you go, when he's finished, 'Calm down, mate, stop getting so worked up' also said in a similar way. D…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 12:42 AM
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You are pathetic lol. Obviously some guys are fucked no matter what they do. I rate them kind of guys to be less than 5 percent of all guys though. Most guys with some improvement can start getting chicks in their league. Most incels, such as yourself, actually aren't so ugly that they cant be improved. But wallow in that self pity boy lol. Noone is saying repulsive guys can go from getting nothing to getting model chicks you moron.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:10 PM
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Stop projecting your incel life mate lol
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:03 PM
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What the fuck are you on about? I couldn't give a fuck about the red pill and certainly don't look at their articles like they're gospel. In fact I challenge a lot of the beliefs on here lol. A 7 out of 10 who's socially dominant naturally (as in men look up to him and his opinion is always valued) will do better than men better looking than him who don't have that personality about them, usually. Can you argue with that? I know a lot of guys like that who have their pick of women over countless…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:02 PM
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Someone who is the same attractiveness as myself. Not a 10 but not a 3 either. My sex drive is usually higher when I'm in a relationship but when I'm not I'm pretty content to nut about twice a week in a woman. Fair enough, let them have their sexbots. I can still view it as odd, with my own opinion and it's not women or the media forming that opinion.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:11 PM
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You only think it's over my head lol. Had sex twice, really don't need more unless I'm in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:51 PM
2

What, when did this place become incels? MOST men can get sex. If you can't, use your cum bot. I still can laugh at how pathetic it is and at the same time feel sympathy for them. I shit on men to appease female matters? Where did you get that from? lol
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:01 PM
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haha she was super affectionate. She got a lot out of sex even without the whole not cumming thing lol
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:57 PM
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Guys are free to use them if they want. I think it's weird. The media nor female shaming hasn't effected my judgement on this. The kind of guys who uses a fleshlight usually does so because they can't get pussy. That's a fact. We're not going to see eye to eye on this though.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:38 PM
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*For your deleted message, I brought game into it because I knew you'd assume that the sexy skinny guy would have a hunched back. You'd say the guy with the best physique would have more confidence lifting etc so I thought I'd be able to cut all that chat out by saying they were the same game wise but evidently that flew over your head...
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:26 PM
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Your first sentence still stands buddy. I can see there is no point arguing with you. Of course all them other things are important though. A 5ft 7 sexy faced twig who has game will do better than an ugly faced 6ft ripped guy with game. If you don't get that then that's not my fault. I'm pretty sure you do though and you're just being a pedantic redditor cunt;)
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:12 PM
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You said physique matters more than face, that's why. I'm not arguing with you any more if you don't get that.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:57 PM
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A sexy faced guy won't be fat. If he has game he won't be hunched over. Physique does not matter more than face. Some of the things a physique can give a man (confidence, standing up straight etc) are obviously going to be sexier than a guy who doesn't have any but I didn't say other wise. The sexy faced guy can still have those characteristics without working out. I said a sexy faced guy who has game (so he has good posture, isn't hunched over etc) and an average body is going so do better than…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:31 PM
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lol nope. It's weird for a man to have a sex box. Just like it's fucking weird a girl to have a sybian.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:24 PM
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It's fucking pathetic isn't it. These virgins whine that they can't get any sex and then when they can get it they complain about it. OP, you sound like a woman. Wanting to toy with a fatty? How fucking pathetic of you. Taking out all your pain on a fatty just because you don't know how to get laid. Either fuck her or don't. If I was in your position I'd fuck her. You can learn a lot. You'll learn how to naturally undress someone etc. When you go to fuck that next girl a little hotter than her i…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:22 PM
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If you can make her cum easily do it. Don't get hung up on whether she cums every single time though. Don't make it your mission like you're playing a computer game or something. Lose yourself with her and she'll more than likely go along for the ride. If she keeps coming back then that speaks for itself. The moment you get hung up and worried that you haven't made her cum yet is when things go wrong IMO. When I was younger I used to give a shit about making the girl come. Now I don't worry abou…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:11 PM
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Bingo. Looks matter a lot but there are a lot uglier guys getting laid who have good personality/game on the regular than some 9/10 aspie/boring guy. Can't even believe this kind of thing needs explained lol.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:04 PM
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I'm going to disagree with that. A sexy faced guy, with an average body that has game brings home the girl a lot more times than the muscled averaged faced guy (not even going to make it fair by saying ugly faced because it wouldn't even be a competition then lol) with the same game.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:01 PM
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Maybe I underestimate just how many lonely men are out there who can't get sex. The only people not getting sex out of the people I know are a tiny minority and they are usually creepy fucks. Maybe america is different.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:38 AM
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A man can masturbate all he wants, same as a girl. If he has a sex bot then I'm allowed to think it's weird. I'm not purposefully shaming him at all, it just gives me an icky feeling. Just like if a girl has a sex bot I'd laugh at her as well as well lol. If she has a dildo I'm not exactly cheering her on either.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:37 AM
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It's mainstream but it's still pretty much that lol. The men who use online dating usually end up with a very rough deal so they kind of are losers still.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:32 PM
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But in real life, you think most normal men will prefer fucking a regular girl over a quality sex doll? I refuse to believe it lol. Do you believe it? The only people who prefer sex dolls over real girls are the one's who can't get real girls IMO, or the tiny minority with a really weird fetish.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:44 PM
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Your line of thinking isn't bad but she isn't the right girl for this. The girls who are good social proof for you should be ones already in your social circle, usually through friends, friends of friends or work colleagues. And anyway, if you are doing so much better now with the ladies then you shouldn't be giving a fuck about this girl. Re-adding her was pretty weak from you.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:30 PM
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Just to reiterate what others have said, stop messaging her so much. Are you even having sex with her? You shouldn't be constantly messaging any girl who you're not having sex with. If you're currently fucking her then keep doing that if you want but don't get in a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:10 PM
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Let's say you're in work. When you're chatting a girl one on one do you notice her fiddling about with her hair a lot? Does she waft it about? Do you notice her trying to get close to you by showing you some stupid meme on her phone? Does she ever play punch you? Does she go out of her way to talk to you more than others? Is she constantly smiling when talking to you? etc There's just a few signs. Obviously even with her doing all that it doesn't mean she wants you for sure. Subconsciously it pr…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:40 PM
2

Get you a beer? You're barely the age to drink lol. Hope you get over your angry phase mate. Well done on thinking I'm a woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:54 PM
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What kind of normal guys have fleshlights? lol. The day my son brings home a sex bot is the day I go chris benoit on the whole family lol
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:37 PM
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lol Let your bitterness flow mate. Maybe bang a few women and you'll realise they're not that bad;)
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:36 PM
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Oh dear. If you don't know how to act around women in the workplace then that's not my fault. Just lol at giving a crap about the media. I though you awesome red pillers didn't let shit like that get to you except nope you're letting some woman's tv show dictate how you interact with the world lol. I have my own two eyes and I know when people are being creepy or not. The girls know who the creeps in the office are as well. If you're a normal, social guy you know what's creepy and what isn't wit…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:07 PM
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Anybody, man or woman, who has more negative things to say about the opposite sex than positive is clearly not in a great place. I'd argue it's mostly because they're not successful with them, in whatever way they deem success. Of course they'll not admit that but we all know the truth deep down;P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 04:54 PM
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lol nice to see bitter women on here for a change to go along with all the bitter guys. Very refreshing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 04:43 PM
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What has that got to do with being afraid to talk or look at a woman at work? I swear half the guys on here live their lives through the media. If you're a normal, social guy you've got nothing to be fucking worried about. Stop letting the media get you so scared over nothing.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:39 PM
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Your title just gives me the creeps. And shouldn't you be mad at the courts for ripping your dad off? So if we look at things logically, men are the reason for women getting a load of money in divorce because they're the ones who set up the laws that way?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:23 PM
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Am I so out of touch? Do you guys actually think fucking sexbots is going to be a regular thing? I can't think of anything more pathetic lol. It's going to be mainly for the losers who could never get women in the first place. Sexbots are not going to become the norm for most normal men. Most normal guys who can get sex will continue to get it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:17 PM
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Bars/clubs/hobbies. You need to improve your social circle. For most guys, that's going to be the key thing to improving their sex lives.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:10 PM
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Have you ever been with a woman or are you just a bitter cunt?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:07 PM
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If we're going to exaggerate like fuck, I guess the population is going to die out in the very near future. Damn mobile phones stopping everyone from fucking!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:04 PM
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Of course, can't believe OP doesn't know this. You're very naive if you think she's no idea what she's doing. A girl puts herself in the position to get pursued. If you make the right moves she'll want you. At the end of the day IMO that's her still choosing. Having said that, congrats on getting that nice bit of ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:02 PM
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How does this shit get upvoted? Is this what the red pill is about? All this just reeks of bitterness and hating women. Good luck trying to change the world by looking like a sperg to your colleagues OP lol
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:43 PM
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Are you being serious? Why are you trying to pick up girls in parking lots? lol. What type of bars/clubs do you go to where people are always on their phones? The people like that are usually not very open to being chatted up so leave them alone. Go out and have a genuinely good time and you'll see the people who want to be part of that good time/open up to you. Go to the dancefloor/smoking area and you'll find plenty of girls to dance/chat to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 07:56 AM
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Truly, I think what you're asking isn't possible. There are a number of ways to improve confidence, charisma and social skills that you can find on Google. Any advice I could give you would only be rehashed in a shittier way. The thing is, if you're not naturally socially confident then you're never going to be on par with the people who get something out of it. Of course you can put yourself out there but it'll be draining to you, unlike the people who naturally love interacting with people. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 07:24 AM
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Just to add, do you think any of that support does them any good? Of course it doesn't. Look at the incels. When they used to post on here a lot of people would initially support them and say 'ahh, that's very hard for you. I can see why you're frustrated'. i.e they were getting support. Do you think any of them gave a fuck about that support? Of course not lol. They still weren't getting pussy (something they wanted). Just like most of the fat, ugly girls aren't getting into relationships they …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 05:05 AM
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You all sound like the most normal women in the world. Baffling how most guys on certain subreddits don't realise most women naturally progress as you and your friends did. Generally the ones with no term term boyfriend experience by their mid 20s are either frigid, overrate themselves or sluts. I imagine for most girls how you and your girlfriends progressed through life is the standard way to do it properly, and it's what most girls want. Not saying every girl gets to do it that way but the va…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:54 AM
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robot sperg 900 - You did not form a fully completed sentence. I have no way to work out what you mean. Computer overload. System malfunction! /robot sperg 900
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:12 AM
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Used correctly it's beneficial. Most guys don't use it correctly though. Tinder should be used as a last resort for dating/fucking. It should be used when you're on a dry spell and just need to nut. I'm willing to bet the vast majority of guys who use it don't approach girls in real life and use it as their number one tool and so that's why their so frustrated with dating in general. They use Tinder because they don't have to really feel rejection. It's the easy way out for them but it doesn't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:07 AM
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Of course it's vague. Everything bloody depends. Have you ever had sex? You sound like an autistic friend we had in uni. 'So what do I do when I get her back to my room?' 'And then what do i do?' 'and then if she does x, what do I do?' 'I have my dick in her, now what do I do?' Interacting isn't like programming logic. You have to take risks and follow intuition. If you can't do that and are looking for a play by play in every scenario then it's never going to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:50 AM
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Damn you are rigid man. Stop looking at everything as black and white lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:47 AM
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How do you know he did? He said they hang out and then they see if there is a spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:46 AM
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Stop calling him an incel. If he doesn't identify as one, he doesn't. To most people an incel isn't simply a person who can't get sex. The whole hatred thing and blaming everyone else/women is a big part of it. To not want to be part of that group isn't hating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:44 AM
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How is that being dishonest? You go in with intentions of being friends but overtime you find out you like them sexually. It happens to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:41 AM
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Women do this shit as well bro. It's not a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:39 AM
1

In that case, the answer you're looking for is simply 'it depends'. Everything else is complete waffle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:36 AM
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Here's the thing. it doesn't matter what advice you're given here because everything is contextual and everyone has a different way about doing things. There is no definite way to know for sure if she's 100 percent into you and won't reject you. She could be giving you all the right signals but still not want to go out. So if you want to kiss/fuck her that's a risk you have to take. As you get more experienced you learn to know which girls have more interest in you that way. Judging from your po…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:33 AM
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This is how you view the world when you're in your head all the time OP. A lot of men aren't petrified of the opposite sex and don't need to go all autismy and say 'just to clarify, would you like a date?' And as you say, most women will give you subtle hints that she wants a kiss etc. Either by eye contact, hanging around you, touching you etc. You're still going to more than likely have to be the one to open her up though. Or you could play your game, being afraid to lead, waiting for a scrap …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:16 AM
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It's not weird at all. Lots of girls get to know their partner through work. They could be seeing them day to day for 6 months and have the hots for them. They only find the courage/opportunity to kiss/fuck them when they all go out for work drinks 6 months later. Your thinking is what happens when you see articles written about their being less desire if the man doesn't seal the deal quickly but it's certainly not totally abnormal for a woman to have a crush on a guy for a long time only to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:11 AM
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What has that got to do with society indulging them? So it's easier to get sex as an ugly girl than as an ugly man, who cares? Most of the ugly girls are sick of getting pumped and dumped and find it very difficult to find a relationship as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:20 PM
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You're getting swept up in all of this mate. LMAO at the fat acceptance movement. Of course some guys fuck a fat lady here and there. Every guy who's been with more than a few women has fucked a fatty. That's nature. Try getting them fit guys to get into a relationship with them fatties though and you'll not see too many of them doing so lol. 'Woman have it easier than me when trying to get someone to fuck them, whhhaaaaaaaaa!'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:02 PM
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What's society? A few random outliers on Twitter who are in their own hivemind? A shitty talk show aimed at women? What has been done for the acceptance of fat women? Absolutely nothing. Ruin a guys life by making a pass? Just lol. You've been reading too many news stories mate. If you fuck a woman and you're genuinely not raping her then you've got little to worry about. But you're not going to believe that. You'll find some shitty stories and say 'you can't even look at a woman now without bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:32 PM
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Maybe this world is a lot stranger than we think. Maybe we're all connected in a really weird way and something tells them when you're having a good time with another lady. Or maybe I'm just chatting shite lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 02:18 PM
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And who agrees with that message? No one but the fatties themselves. Their friends tell them 'you go girl' but do you really think that makes them feel any less shitty when all her hot friends are getting the guys? The acceptance that you think is there is very hollow (unlike their stomachs, ohhhhhh!). She knows her fatness and people saying it's alright is pure cope. It's still not going to make a man attracted to you. Simply like being a 'nice guy' isn't going to make them sort of guys attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 01:07 PM
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We've hit a winner! You often find guys who aren't as successful seem to react to the girl instead of the other way around. Now that's not to say you don't mirror behaviour etc and end up being an awkward cunt, it's just means sometime's it's good to be aware of what you're doing. Let her be the one to come up to you, let her be the one who tries to touch you. If you're walking down in the shop and meet a girl and she's walking towards you, giving you lots of eye contact, let her be the one who …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:06 PM
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hmm, you're in the US so there's no chance of you getting into any bars/clubs? Do any of you guys do park drinking in america? We used to do that in the UK when we were about 15 and you could always meet girls that way. I think the only solution is to try and connect with people who go to parties. How you do that is up to you. I'm not sure how cliquey america is but judging from movies (lol) it seems like it's going to be hard to get into one of these more popular groups. Have you long left at s…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:57 AM
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He's a faggot who trolls like a 16 year old virgin. Cannot listen to him.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:07 AM
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If she doesn't tell you to stop when you whip out your penis and start masturbating, she likes you.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:00 AM
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Here's the thing you need to understand with these guys on here. They believed all the disney movies growing up. They were apparently oblivious to which kind of guys were getting women growing up as a teenager lol. They find a few women/blogs saying women like nice guys and think all women think that. They take everything out of context whereas if they just sat down with a few women in real life and the lady said she likes nice guys they'd be able to probe her and get her to reveal that that's o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:54 AM
1

Of course. That's where genetics come into play. Even if you were brought up right, if you're prone to anxiety, sometimes you can't help that. Sure there are ways to reduce it but you're having to think about it unlike that natural person who can't even imagine the world you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:34 AM
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What's he saying is right. If you can truly live in the present you will be most happiest. Not many people can do that though. Some people will find it more difficult (anxiety/depression/etc) while others naturally live in the present because of how their brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:31 AM
1

Bingo. While external validation does play apart, the biggest part about feeling good about yourself is how you're chemically made up. You can change this to a degree with exercise, good habits and reaching goals but a lot about being happy with yourself is how the chemicals in your body are. You ever remember some of those lads who were shy pre puberty and all of a sudden they just grew in confidence? Everyone was treating them the same way, it's just when puberty hit they were blessed with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:29 AM
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You speak utter shit. How does society indulge them? No one gives a fuck about all the ugly girls either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:16 AM
1

Keep your same social group. Do you guys go out to parties? If you arrive with these guys and you're that much better than them then you will automatically get first pick of the girls. If you do this often enough other, cooler guys are going to want to be your friend as well. Getting jacked will help you socially because it'll in still confidence in you. Having said that, having a goal to make friends with the popular kids is very pathetic. If they do hang around with you you'll probably become …
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:14 AM
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Do not fucking talk to them about space OP lol. Unless you can work that in socially (meaning you're good at socialising, you're the top of the chain, both things which you aren't) then you're just going to look like a sperg.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:04 AM
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Here's the thing that will annoy you. You either have it or you don't. Lifting and becoming more confident in yourself will help you outwardly express yourself better. It still won't get you on par with those guys who neurochemcials are naturally like that though. In your hypomania state, everything just made sense. You didn't have to think about it. There are so many subconious things involved that it's pretty much impossible to fake. If you stare at that girl for 5 seconds not in your hypomani…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:43 AM
1

Also, there is a whole world of IOIs out there. I think a lot of guys in their sober state fail to see them though. It's not that they aren't getting them when sober (although yeah I agree they will be definitely getting them less than a person under some influence) it's just that they don't see them as well. Under certain drugs (and bloody hypo-mania lol) we see things differently. We see things without that voice in your head telling us not to be creepy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:27 AM
1

In the right state, there is a whole different world out there. I notice when I'm on MDMA women constantly eye fuck me and want to get near me. It's because of a number of things. My body posture is radiating confidence and my eye contact is unwavering. I'm totally happy with myself, have no fears, want to bring positive energy everywhere and women notice that. My movements are purposeful and not sudden/jerky like how most of us are sober. The combination reeks of true dominance and it's very at…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:22 AM
5

Him and that Lewis guy remind me of the old people who read something like the daily mail and then get their panties in a bunch over stuff that isn't actually true. 'This country is going to the dogs!' 'The youth of today are going to kill this country!' They read some shitty article about a 400lb woman coping with her shitty life and think society now deems these women to be on par with attractive girls. They miss the point totally. They don't realise no man or normal women like that takes it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:52 AM
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You've just proved high status people (like yourself) get other high status girls. Don't need to be on the red pill to work that out. With a little game, like how you're denying her, you're driving her crazy, therefore making you a LITTLE bit more attractive. That doesn't come as a surprise to me. You think the average guy on here who lifts and is a 4-HB6.5 can do the same thing? Of course he can't. He might be able to get someone similar to him lose her shit if he games her right but he'll not …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:20 AM
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Let's assume OP is a HB9 who's rich and has superb game. If that's true (and I've no reason to believe it isn't) then none of this comes as a surprise to me. He's just playing in his league, some of the time below it. The skills of the red pill enable him to have an abundance mentality. The average guy is a 5. If he's to game girls like this then he needs to be aiming in the 3-5.5 range, kind of like how OP aims down as well. It's very difficult for the average looking guy to have 5 girls, in th…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:11 AM
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Every guy's banged a fatty and some uglies if he's been with a few girls lol. I'd rate her at about a 6. Perfect girl next door type. She appeals to everyone and we'd all happily bang her. Not saying my ratings are scripture but they're probably more accurate than those given by most on here.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:16 PM
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The vast majority of field reports on here are mostly exaggerated. These are guys who went from no women to suddenly getting the cream of the crop and having them bow down to everything they say? lol. I guarantee you their rating for women is waaayy off. I've seen redditors rate each other before in other threads and let's just say they tend to be very inflated i.e 3s are 5, 5s are 7 and 6.5s are 9s. Even the way some of them write just gives me the chills. I can tell they aren't the social gods…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:57 PM
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Assuming it's all true, I guarantee his version of a HB9 is a lot different to ours, let's just say that;)
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:50 PM
3

Some of it works, some of it doesn't. I honestly think most of the stuff that works the vast majority of guys, blue pilled, red pilled, whatever, don't really need to be taught it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:52 AM
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This is very true. Make no mistake, the majority of women that actually bump into you in these scenarios are very open to you either consciously or subconsciously. Whatever body language and energy you're bringing she wants a piece (you were obviously comfortable in your own skin and that really resonated with her). Now this doesn't mean it's a sure thing for you. It just means if you have the right attitude and aren't a pussy there is a very big chance of you getting your way with her. I have a…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:00 AM
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Where did she say it was immoral to ask a random woman for sex? Them are your thoughts. She said it's a panty dryer. It turns her off. And so just because someone doesn't immediately ask for sex, or if it's someone like Charles Manson, that doesn't mean she's going to fuck them. Jesus, answer me this question you've been ignoring. Are you autistic? Because you are driving me mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:31 AM
1

Fuck, I have to give it to you, you sure do know how to miss the point every single time while you think you're being smart lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:28 AM
1

Perfect analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:22 AM
1

You think the awareness campaigns are going to get the autistic people on a level playing feel? Of course they won't. They'll just make autism more acceptable. It won't mean people are going to be receptive to such a socially oblivious encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:17 AM
1

Fair enough buddy! Can't argue with them wise words.
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 07:02 AM
1

Frequency of drug use is 4-5 times a year. Age 27. And mate, I understand MDMA every well. I researched it extensively before I ever took any. I understand totally why I'm more attractive on MDMA. But I was (wrongly) under the impression that this sub thought it was all about the looks and so wanted to show some of my findings to people who thought that way. I wanted to ask the question to see what people would say (or what excuses they would come up with) but they have totally understood my vie…
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 06:58 AM
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Anyone's free to judge anyone's success though. If someone thinks you're unsuccessful at something then they're free to think that. I think most modern feminists are unsuccessful with men and that's why they hate them so much. They mightn't agree with me though lol.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:27 PM
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No idea what that means lol.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:22 PM
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I guess they're entitled to that opinion but it's not one I share. And I'm not going to try and convince them otherwise lol.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:21 PM
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Ahh that's fair enough buddy. Always good to put that advice out there for anyone looking on. I take one pill a night, usually a dutch press(highly reputable and usually clean) so they are usually about 180-200mg. Break into 2/3rd then an hour and a half later take the last 3rd, so slightly over the recommendation but not by much. Have never felt the need to up the dosage and I've been taking for about 3 years now.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:14 PM
1

The girls who who I hook up with are generally respectable. They are either in uni or are have just started their professional career. Not everyone who does a few drugs recreationally is some drug fiend.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:08 PM
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Who says I use MDMA to get through life? You're making a lot of presumptions. You guys really have a problem with some guys who recreationally use drugs a few times a year?
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:06 PM
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Oh I definitely use safely. Probably about 4 or 5 times a year. Where I come from I've known men in their 40s and 50s who used to take every week for several years and it didn't have a major impact on them (Not that I'd advise anyone doing that as I know there is usually severe consequences for being so silly with such a chemical).
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:01 PM
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What? I'm not abusing substances. This is something I do 4 or 5 times a year, on special occasions to enjoy with friends while seeing some awesome DJs. I don't have any problems picking up women sober. I'm just stating that women view me as more attractive and they're easier to pick up under the influence of some MDMA. I'm not using it as a crutch like you're implying.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 07:58 PM
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I only do it once every few months, I'm sure I'll grow out of it. It's not like I'm taking it daily/weekly and using it as a crutch. I think it gives perspective when people say it's all about the looks when that's only part of it (although I now know this sub doesn't think this way so my post is irrelevant anyway).
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 07:46 PM
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I don't think it's stupidity in this case. It made me more fun and confident in myself which I'm sure we can all agree makes you more attractive to a woman
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:54 PM
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No need to be rude. I asked a question under the impression people on here thought it was all about the looks.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:52 PM
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I understand that now. For some reason I got the impression that this sub thought confidence didn't matter and that it was all about the looks but judging from the replies I was wrong about that.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:45 PM
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My bad, I thought here thought the same but I'm obviously mistaken!
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:35 PM
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Ahh sorry, my bad! I agree with you.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:35 PM
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Some do take, some don't. It's the same place whether I do alcohol or MDMA. Judging by everything really. The amount of women who start dancing with me, who start flirty conversations and ultimately the amount of women I take home. Hmm, maybe that last point could be right but I'm not so sure as the attraction is there even if I never say a word. I could say the same words to them on alcohol but obviously I wouldn't say it with the same coolness and assured dominance/confidence that MDMA gives m…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:34 PM
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But them guys mostly know this works. But reading the sidebar I'm under the impression that most people here would view this as PUA stuff and that doesn't work, according to most on here? Just interested to see if anyone here has any opinions as to why I'm more successful if I'm still the same person? I understand some people might feel like I'm attacking but that's not my intention. I'm willing to hear any credible theories as to why I'm more attractive on MDMA even though I've got the same loo…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:24 PM
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Which one do you recommend to ask this question to MGTOW guys?
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:15 PM
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Well if you ever do take it you'll understand why girls are a lot more 'feels' oriented and why someone with no confidence and status asking a random girl for sex will generally get looks of disgust. You'll understand why they value talking about stuff so much and you'll pick up on a lot of the subtle stuff confident guys do that women love. It's just great getting a different perspective on things which some drugs allow us to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:57 PM
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They don't like it because it turns them off among many other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:50 PM
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lmao. Have you taken it before? If you correctly it'll allow you to see the world how a lot of women see it. You'll easily see why the no confidence guys come off as pathetic and repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:48 PM
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If a really autistic guy joins a social group and starts acting really inappropriate asking personal things he's no right to ask then he'll often find himself at the bottom of the hierarchy. Would you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:45 PM
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Of course that's it. I really don't see why some guys have a problem understanding that. If you can make her feel horny without mentioning sex (at least certainly not before you've buttered her up via words, body language whatever) she'll thrive on you and want a piece. For the autists, I really recommend them getting a dose of MDMA and taking it in a club where it's acceptable to take. It'll hopefully open them up to the world a little more how women see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:40 PM
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They're insulted that a grown man who maybe they might have been interested in doesn't know how to play the game. They can't hide the fact you make their panties dry with your lack of understanding of social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:35 PM
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She knows why you're chatting her at the bar, you know why you're chatting her and that raises the sexual tension (how she feels for you). If you ask 'do you want to have sex' with no tension then you're not going to have a good time, unless you can raise it in another way, like by dancing, showing confident body language, good eye contact etc. It's like when you see a good comedian who knows how to read the crowd. He knows how to reel you in and then lay some heavy shit on you and he'll have ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:31 PM
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You think that answer will be good enough for oneprettycoolcat or do you think he'll respond 'but why does it turn them off?!'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:22 PM
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Aye I said that but you're making it sound like they are getting really insulted as if it's on equal standing as saying the holocaust was a great thing. I'll ask you again. Are you autistic or do your family or relatives think you're on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:12 PM
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Do you really think the type of people asking these questions have the sort of status, coolness and ability to read a woman's body language to ask a randomer do they want a fuck? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:54 PM
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sperg mode But how can you make your intentions obvious if you don't directly ask her 'do you want sex?' :O:O:O:O:O
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:51 PM
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Not many people are saying that but I'm sure you'll find me a source where it's been said like that. We're saying you'll come off as a creep, get laughed out of town, get looks of disgust and you'll lose any standing you had in the social group if you don't know how to follow this basic social norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:50 PM
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Because there's no tact to that. Catch a girl who's really horny for you and you can be blunt all you want. A random girl who isn't showing you many signs though? You'll come off as a creep. You're killing the vibe before it's even got time to go anywhere. Say it if you want, I'm sure a lot of girls won't be that offended. They'll probably laugh and want to get away from the weirdo who doesn't know how to act in public though. Watch some birds in the wild. Some of the males have to dance before …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:46 PM
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There's no helping this guy. He can't understand why a woman would lose attraction to a guy she doesn't know when he's blatantly asking for sex instead of playing the game like normal people. I imagine he's one of those redditors that when he's about to stick his cock in a woman he says, 'just to clarify, we are about to have consensual sex now?'. He doesn't understand, within reason and obviously with someone she's attracted to, body language and being skilled with words is what will make a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:37 PM
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It doesn't turn them on. It negates the dance they enjoy. It's a very personal question to ask someone, especially in front of others. It's signalling to her that you aren't good socially therefore lowering your perceived rating (her friends will think you're off) Is some of them good enough reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:22 PM
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No, I don't have any female friends where people mistake us for a couple that I hold hands with, cuddle and buy them gifts. But each to their own. If you're happy, she's happy and so is the boyfriend then who am I to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:08 PM
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I honestly don't think 99 percent is an overestimation. I don't know anyone who'd be comfortable with the relationship you have with this friend. It's very out there and would raise a lot of red flags to any partner. But obviously you are proof that some people are OK with it so I can't argue with that. Why are you buying this man's woman expensive gifts? That shit isn't normal and I fail to see what you're getting out of this? The only thing I can think of is that you're happy/proud every so of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 11:39 AM
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Fair enough. If everyone's happy then so be it. I just know I wouldn't be comfortable having a partner who has another man doing those type of things with her. It's not that I'm controlling either, it's just I see the things you and her are doing as crossing boundaries that I'm pretty sure 99 percent of people wouldn't be comfortable with. Do you have a girlfriend yourself? If so is she be comfortable with the arrangement you have with this girl? If not, do you think many potential girlfriends w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:05 AM
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Oh I believe him. The thing he's probably leaving out is this guy is so much more attractive that the person he's trying to have sex with that she's more willing to allow him to break social norms. And anyway, messaging a stranger on Tinder is a completely different social situation to asking a stranger IRL if they want sex. Not that oneprettycoolcat will be able to differ on why it's a more acceptable thing to do there than IRL though. And of course some guys can ask for sex in real life and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 07:25 AM
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You said they should change their behaviour. I'm fairly sure that means you want them to change their behaviour. But as usual, you'll probably point out some little thing in an autistic way to make yourself sound smart. Noone normal has a problem with their behaviour so why should they change it? The only people who do have a problem are those who don't know how to read and act properly in a social situation i.e you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 07:17 AM
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If you want to cry about your dad being dead then have a good cry. That doesn't mean to ball your eyes out for months but there's an acceptable time period to feel sad about it. Fucking lol at worrying about suppressing your emotions at such a time in life because you're afraid your gf/wife might think less of you. This is when you take the red pill too seriously
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:44 AM
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Which do you think is going to be easier - To get the vast majority of people who instinctively get how people work to change their ways or for you to adapt and do what most normal people think is the right way about going about things? Serious question, have you ever being diagnosed with autism or had a lot of people thinking you have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:36 AM
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Of course he's free to do so, just don't be surprised when he internally or externally labels you as a nosy fucker and thinks you're a bit 'off'. Same as when you ask a woman you don't know if she wants sex, without feeling her out first, that she labels you as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:22 AM
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Send me a pic of yourself. Well if you don't see a problem with it then you have some social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:51 AM
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It's pretty understandable why you can't get anyone to fuck you. I bet I know uglier guys than you getting laid. Let's say you go into a store and the place seems to be very busy. You wonder, jezz how much is the owner making in here, it must be a killing. You don't know him. Do you think it would be appropriate for you to go up and ask him how much the place is making?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:17 AM
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Most people don't and that's not what I said. Most people see the creepy guy chatting a girl, not doing the dance right and making her uncomfortable. They note not to do the same. Kids learn from others what work and what doesn't. They don't always get it right, same as adults, but the normal people adjust themselves and get better at whatever they're trying to do. People aren't just following social norms blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:15 AM
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Social rules are not even rules. Most people don't have to think to follow them, they come naturally. They are important because if they weren't there then this place would be a shit hole and we'd all be a bunch of savages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:02 AM
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It's a personal question and people don't feel like you've earned the right to ask such a question, especially in public. You wouldn't ask someone a different kind of personal question if you didn't know them well enough under other circumstances so this is much the same. People have boundaries and asking someone do they want sex, right off the bat, under most circumstances, is going to smash that boundary to pieces and she's going to not go along with what you want. If you play the game right y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:59 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it but don't be surprised when it makes you socially ostracised. As I said, it's a game and you're free to do whatever you want. Asking someone how many people they've banged as an initial question might not be socially acceptable either. You can do it but under most circumstances it won't fair well for you. Would you use that as an opening line as well? This is not about philosophy, it's about you not getting what you want. If you don't do the dance well then don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:52 AM
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Think of it like this. You want sex. That is the outcome you want. Being blunt like you are, for the most part, isn't going to get you what you want. So you can either change your method or you can continue not getting sex. I'm sure I could list many reasons why it's uncomfortable for them but in the end that doesn't matter because that still isn't going to get you what you want. Women like to play. You're not very good at the game. You can either learn to play or disregard the game totally. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:33 AM
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Why why why why why, Your parents must have been glad when you moved out of the house lol. It makes them uncomfortable because they think it's creepy. Why is it creepy? Because you don't have enough status to disregard social norms. We could play the why game forever if you want but it still won't matter. Try and change the world all you want, it doesn't mean most people are going to go along with you. You should accept that you're making people uncomfortable and that you're not getting what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:13 AM
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Does he know when you're alone you both hold hands and pretty much act like a couple? Here's a hypothetical. Let's say you meet up someday and she says, 'we've built this up for so long, let's fuck' - would you fuck her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:01 AM
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She you do know the rules only you pretend you don't. If the guy is way hotter than her, a celebrity or he can say it in the right tone with the right body language then he still has a chance of having sex with her even if he does that. She's having sex with him in spite of his social obliviousness because he's waaayyy out of her league. He can break the social rules (anyone can really) but it's still not the best way to go about it. Social norms can be broken but don't be surprised when people …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:25 AM
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It makes people uncomfortable, for the umpteenth time. That's the reason. Is that not a good enough reason for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:16 AM
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It's about the dance. Seeing if his traits will compliment hers etc. Feeling him out. Not everything is about looks. If you suck at the dance then it easy to see why you want to get rid of it. The dance is a big important part of finding out do you actually want to have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:15 AM
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You really need versed on why social rules exist? Go into a shop, they're social norms in there. Get on a plane, there are social norms there. Waiting for a doctors appointment, there are social norms there. They exist for a number of reasons. You've been given the reason that it makes people uncomfortable, is that not good enough for you? Also it shows you don't even know how to socially ask for sex, and being good socially is one of the most important things women like about a guy so you're fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:12 AM
1

Yes, proper dominance gets the ladies wet and it can't really be faked, unless you take drugs. Working out and leading a successful life will help you become more dominant although we must accept some people simply have better chemical makeup than us so they'll be more dominant without even trying. That happy uncle that always seems to be the centre of attention at family parties is dominant, and every loves him and would go out of their way to do anything for his, that's how to be truly dominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 12:45 AM
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So you've just learned women cheat sometimes? Well so do men. That's the ugly truth. A lot of married people have cheated at least once in the relationship. It's not a women issue. It's a human issue. When we're young we're brought up thinking cheating is something that never happens but as well get older we start to learn that's false. It's extremely rare for someone to only fuck the same person for 40 plus years. If you pick a good person it might mean no cheating or maybe just the one night o…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:28 AM
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Why would any decent lad even talk to her? If you're a lonely sack of shit then fair enough, give her money all you want. At the end of the day it's the same as those girls getting money for their snapchat. It's just a form of prostitution, something that's been around forever. This isn't a normal thing for a woman to do. Don't try and convince me that 99 percent of girls wouldn't view her as a slut. This girl would be a social outcast to most people if they knew about this. Any man who gives he…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:21 AM
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TV makes people money and people like to watch it. That's why it's been so successful. No need to put on a tinfoil hat.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:00 AM
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One man said he never felt put down by the media and I agreed with him so for us it's obviously about the media. Or can you not answer me and instead want to speak in riddles? Surely if you're a man who takes red pill advice and you are now a big confident man something like the media putting down men will only make you chuckle. Can we at least agree with that?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 08:18 AM
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I'm not here to troll. I'm genuinely interested how seeing something like this on tv could upset anyone. If you have any sort of self worth you're going to laugh if some women are putting down men on tv. You'll just see it as cope from the women and be laughing at them instead of feeling attacked like how some feminist would if men did the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 08:04 AM
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It doesn't have a negative effect on me or my friends. I don't understand how a man can get upset at what a few movies and tv shows say lol. You still haven't explained why any normal guy who isn't afraid of women nor has social difficulties would feel put down by a bit of tv. Any man who listens to the TV and feels put down because of what a few broads are saying is definitely not wired right lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 07:25 AM
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And why does that bother you and what negative effect does it have on men? If some TV/movie is enough to get you upset then you're pretty pathetic IMO and not cut out to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:38 AM
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Well you sound pathetic... and pretty bitter too.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:01 AM
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That sounds like a bunch of bitter cope. My sisters love their partners and I've had partners love me. But I'm not going to try and convince you otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:45 AM
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You did not have a relationship if you didn't even have sex with her. Stop calling her your ex unless you're 15. People your age don't have exs they never fucked. And if that other girl is still interested in you, go out with her. At least give her the D and get it out of the way. You honestly sound like some sort of 'nice guy' posting all of that.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:40 PM
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After a few weeks of doing this, won't your body get used to the stimulation and not release as much of the chemicals you want? Kind of like if you take certain drugs for too long you need to up the dose. Kind of like when you abstain from junk food for a while you get a big dopamine release when you finally cave in but if you eat it regularly you don't get the same release?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:25 PM
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I agree. You can do all this stuff if you want but most people will probably end up looking like a tensed try hard. OP can say not to overdo it but if you have to think about these things then I can assure you other people will subconsciously know you're faking it and you won't be as convincing as you think you are. When on certain drugs we stand up straighter and have better posture all because of the chemicals and hormones it produces. If you don't have these chemicals naturally then it's hard…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:16 PM
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This is what you get when you over analyse every little thing even though it's mostly going on inside your own head. Standard shit post on here tbf.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 09:37 PM
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I've never felt put down by the media either. If a few women squabbling on a talk show makes you feel put down, and you let that get to you, then you're hardly a man in my eyes. Most normal guys laugh at such things but not on here, they cry like little girls even thought they pretend to be big 'alphas' lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 09:33 PM
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All the most social and attractive guys I know are constantly in relationships throughout their 20s. There may be a few that don't want that but they're in the minority. I'm a man with many friends so I understand them as well as you do buddy. Call them fake, call them whatever, those type of women are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:57 PM
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As others have said, it's a classic zero to hero kind of thing. People want to watch the underdog and see them succeed. What I'd like to know is why is there so many people, particularly on these kinds of subs, that never realised TV is for entertainment and generally to make you feel good? When you saw Santa flying about in his sleigh do you use the same logic and are mad that that's fake as well? Or are you a normal person who realises a lot of TV is fantasy? Yet another autistic (yes, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:35 PM
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I reckon most guys prefer a relationship. If it was acceptable to get pussy on the side, without any jealousy issues, while their partner wasn't allowed to get other cock then they'd probably prefer that as well. But that obviously isn't going to be the case for most relationships. You could say the solution would be to open relationships up but that isn't going to work either because most people get jealous and can't handle that. So having said, do you really believe most men would rather be si…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:18 PM
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Every guy should know this already. These women don't want to be with you, they want you for the lifestyle you can provide. That's why it's generally seen as pathetic for guys to go hunting for women over there.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 08:56 PM
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Most men past the age of 20 don't think banging another girl every other night is better than being in a relationship with someone you love. Parts of the red pill have good advice but other parts are like some 15 year olds fantasy that most men tire of very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:30 PM
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Well said. I look at the red pill and it's got some good advice along with a shit load of bad conclusions and misogyny. The thing is the good advice is something nearly every lad learned when they were about 12 so I don't see why they think they're making some groundbreaking discoveries on how women work. It seems most of the people on there never learnt that being a social, attractive lad meant you were going to do better with the ladies than being a shy, introverted 'nice' guy. The place reeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:20 PM
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'I thought that all women were special and innocent and could do no wrong. That they needed my protection to navigate this world. That if only I could show them what a great guy I was, one day they would realize what they were missing and come running.' This seems to come up a lot. I don't know what gave you guys this impression growing up. How did you simply not view women as similar to guys, as in they vary wildly? Please don't say the media told you or your mom told you nice guys get the girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 11:12 PM
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Regarding your first question - Let's say the high quality women is getting dick but not commitment. Do you think her friends would be envious of her or do you think they would be like 'why can't she get him to commit?'. I think it would be the latter. It easy to get dick as a woman. It isn't easy to get a high quality man to commit though. And of course before anyone says otherwise I'm not talking about all women. I know plenty are fine with their fwb relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 05:54 AM
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Every relationship consists of transactions of some sort. That includes friendships and any business relationships. You hang out with your mates because they make you feel good and vice versa. Surely that's a transaction? You get married because you enjoy each others company and like having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:00 PM
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Well said. Some people just don't have that experience to know yet and want to believe. 3d look at a low bf percentage is the number one give away. Any natural who cuts loses a lot of muscle and goes flat, no matter how on point their cut or diet is. Yeah they can still look good but they won't have full muscles like all these fake natties do.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 07:29 PM
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Believe me, the guy on is roids. Look at his newer videos where he currently is off the juice and he's noticeably smaller. He's a lot more flat, like how naturals are. Once he hops back on he'll get his fullness back though.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 07:24 PM
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I think they have some good ideas but most of them are like 'yeah, no shit, I instinctively know that, how do you need anyone to tell you that?'. Then you have comments getting upvoted that simply are hating on women. A lot of times their initial idea is good but they can't control their hatred for long so they end up making huge jumps in logic to arrive at their mostly false conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:58 PM
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It must be part of the reason. Their retaliation might be all girls are like that but I don't think that's true. Most women in good relationships won't entertain that guy messaging out of the blue. They'll either ignore them or tell them to piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:32 PM
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You pick a lady where you don't need to do any of that. In the relationships I've been in their social media use has went down naturally as we've progressed from dating to boyfriend/girlfriend. You don't control their use or even mention it. Have you any way to know for sure that they're not texting/being slutty with some beta orbiter? Totally not. But it's usually not to hard to find if she's acting suspiciously with her phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:27 PM
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Sounds pretty reasonable when you put it like that. I'd just call that talking to a stranger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:31 AM
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What is cold approaching then? Give me an example of the most normal cold approach ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:25 AM
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There's nothing weird about interacting with people. There's nothing weird about doing your shopping and then talking to a girl naturally. However, there's something weird about scouting a place out, waiting for attractive girls to come and then spitting some game at them in the middle of the day. I'm willing to bet most girls will agree with me, 99/100, probably more in my own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:22 AM
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Try that in my country and you're going to get labelled pretty quickly, and rightly so lol. It's something a social outcast would do. Do you not think it's weird for a guy to spend some of his free time doing that? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:15 AM
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I went to an all boys school as well. Within reason it was still easy to know which guys were going to do better with girls though based on their looks and how they were treated by others. Going out to the disco proved this as well. I disagree with your last point. The vast majority of guys already know looks are important and they always have. Just because a few outliers on the internet only figured it out later than they should have doesn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:29 PM
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Me and my friends are no social savvy guys but we all know how to put two and two together and no when cope is being thrown our way. Blaming movies, ffs mate. So the first time you saw the nerd get the girl you didn't think 'this would never happen in real life?'. Your first reaction was 'nerds do get the girls, it's what my mom always told me!'? And personality does matter, quite a bit as well, but not as in a nice guy personality. I know really attractive guys who struggle with women because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:10 PM
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Look matter a lot which shouldn't be a surprise to anyone. And when women say personality matters as well they don't mean how nice he is, they mean how he responds to others and how others respond to him. I find it really difficult to believe how people don't instinctively get these things growing up, unless they have some social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:04 PM
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So it's perfectly normal for you to stand in a street, wait to scout someone out and then go and try to get a date with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:47 PM
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They all basically said looks matter. But they also said personality matters if there's going to be a future. They flat out say looks are the most important part in that video so I don't see how it proves your point. As I thought, more blaming parents for telling them they were good looking. When a fat girl doesn't get the guy and she goes home crying to her mommy, does the mommy usually say you didn't get him because you are fat? No, she comforts hers. If the girl has a brain she'll know a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:46 PM
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Cold approaching where I come from is extremely out of the norm. To be honest most women will look at you like you've two heads. Stooping to such things will probably get you made fun of in 99/100 cases. They'll think you're a creep who doesn't go about his day in a normal way. If you need to cold approach then that means you aren't getting enough action either from going out to bars/clubs or through your social circle. Maybe it's different in America though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:33 PM
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I could ask a load of my girl friends right now and they'd all say looks matter. Except I don't need to because I'm a normal person who realised that when I was 10. If they don't mention looks first then it's implied. If you don't get that it's implied then there is no helping you. Where have all these guys got the notion that looks don't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:24 PM
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The girl said she always scans the room for potential cock. If you're aware you can see most women do this on nights out. Chances are if you're cold approaching them you might already be on their radar and mightn't be aware of it. Not sure if I'm going off on a tangent now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:05 PM
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They don't have to but it helps. Yeah I have but I usually know which ones want to be approached. In a bar/club you can see them staring over at you or they get that little bit too close to you 'on accident'. Is that considered cold approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 09:55 PM
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Ok, officer Lewis, please don't report me! Your rigid ways must be a real hit with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:56 PM
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You do seem like you enjoy rules of what people can and can't do;P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:46 PM
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I seriously do not understand you. Teasing back and forth is good flirting. Perhaps because you're a social retard you don't know the line between teasing and shitting on someone? If you think a woman teasing you makes her a bitch then maybe you're the one who's a bitch because you can't take a bit of light flirting. A man who isn't bitch wouldn't get upset by it. He actually enjoys it and knows to play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:30 PM
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The women are going for men they like. When they're younger they don't think about money etc because it hasn't even crossed their mind. When they're older, and realise money is important, it's obviously important to consider if you want a relationship with someone. So let's say she finds someone who has a decent job at 25 plus, that means she still has to like him/find him sexually attractive in order to pursue a relationship with him. This notion that women only go for pussy slaying chads when …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:42 PM
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In relationships I've never had a girl who has these orbiters texting her. I wouldn't stand for it. I wouldn't need to say anything to her because she wouldn't entertain them in the first place. If you're looking to lock down a relationship with a girl wouldn't you already know not to go there if she was doing such things? Like a girl will naturally stop texting these people if she's into you. If she still goes on one on one dates with 'guy friends' then she won't be getting in a relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:22 PM
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I don't think that's true. Women show signs of interest all the time. It's just they are subtle about it. They won't make the first move, as in talking to a guy, but they'll open themselves up in a way which shows they're interested. The men with good 'game' are able to know which girls women are into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:01 PM
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But these guys can have feminine faces and be skinny. I admit they usually don't walk femininely though. I agree with you pretty much but I'm not sure if our definitions of masculinity are the same. If you're a truly confident guy that goes a long way towards attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:54 PM
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This. What is all this game talk about? A girl usually makes it pretty obvious if she wants you or not before any words have been spoken. They position themselves near the guy they want to fuck and make it nearly impossible not to notice them lol. Going after random girls looking away from you/not paying you any attention is usually a recipe for disaster. Wait for them to show you some signals goddammit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:45 PM
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I find dominant behaviour pretty interesting. I think most people who think they're acting dominant actually fail at being dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:05 PM
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What do you mean by masculinity though? The guys who I see doing really well with women can be skinny/muscular or anything in between. The thing they have in common is that they have presence. They hold their ground but don't need to act tough. Their subconscious body language screams that they're comfortable in situations. In a bar they don't need to make themselves bigger, whatever way they naturally stand/sit just makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:03 PM
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Looks matter of course but if you truly are 'alpha' then women will gravitate towards you, even if you don't have the best of looks. There is no such thing as acting alpha. An alpha doesn't need to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 10:53 PM
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What are the signs? The only girls I see with them kind of guys are usually thugs themselves. You'll get the odd outlier but it's rare. Women will take a nice lad (as in a genuinely nice lad who has the personality and looks she's after) over a confident thug with the same looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:45 AM
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Of course they could be all those things. So could the stable guy as well. She's no way of knowing until she has a go. If she meets them at a bar - Who's going to leave the better impression? The confident guy obviously is. Who's to say he isn't nice? That stable guy might be a passive aggressive cunt. Women aren't seeking for bad traits either. They're seeking confident guys. That's a good trait. You think she wants someone mean, cruel or violent? No she wants someone who can stand up for thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:17 AM
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If you mean bad boys to mean confident guys who don't have their shit together then yeah I'm sure they'd rather fuck them over stable but non confident guys. Men prefer good looking crazy girls over kind, stable, ugly, fat girls. See how we can both play this pointless game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:51 AM
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Yeah I did. I asked you to clarify because the people who use the term bad boy get it all wrong. They see a confident guy getting girls and assume he's a bad boy lol. So a woman says she prefers nice guys over bad guys. I'd believe that. My definition of a nice guy (and I'd say all women's) is different to the red pills definition though. So her saying she likes nice guys isn't her lying. I'm a fan of a lot of red pill stuff. There are a lot of truths in the observations that I think most men kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:38 AM
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When I've been in relationships I've had a lot more fun fucking my girlfriends than random hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:06 AM
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What do you mean by bad boys? Women like confident men. That should come as no surprise to anyone. You can be nice and confident at the same time. That nervous guy who breaks into people's house's isn't going to be on her radar yet he's technically a bad boy. That nice lad who takes care of his mum but when he walks into the room he naturally owns it, they like him. Saying women likes bad boys is just such a childish and naive way of looking at it and is a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:00 AM
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Where are you meeting these women? Any relationship I've been in has been 50/50 in regards to money and effort. Are you guys specifically choosing women who want to be taken for a free ride? There are lots of women out there who pay their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 11:46 PM
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Exactly. When I was in my teens I used to do so much pointless texting. With online dating it's the same. You're never going to make a proper connection until you meet in person. Until then you're just another random guy messaging her, among the many of other hundreds already in her inbox. I shoot for a meetup asap. Of course not all are willing but it's cuts out the MANY women who're just looking texting entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:06 PM
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Solid advice. Great to see someone using Tinder the way it's meant to be. You clearly state your intentions and don't stand for bullshit. You don't spend much time worrying about the right things to say. That's why you get all these guys complaining about girls wasting their time. If you're direct from the start and next them if they're not playing ball then your time can't be wasted. Obviously if you spent time getting to know them you'd be able to land better girls but that's waste of time. Th…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:23 PM
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I only smoke weed alone. It's like the opposite of MDMA for me. My natural instinct, timing, stance and ability to see what women (and men) want all go away. My natural conversation skills plummet from the first smoke lol. Everyone lights up before we head out and I simply refuse now because I know it messes with me lol. It interesting how different drugs are more suited to others. In regards to conversational/being instinctive skills, for me weed = being blind. Normal life = Can see but not the…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:40 AM
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Totally agree on the energy. I usually keep these kind of thoughts to myself as they are a bit out there. When you get into this state you're like a play thing to a girl. They love interacting with you. Whatever way your body naturally relaxes it passes all their shit tests effortlessly and they immediately are in play mode. Your body in this higher state is totally dominant. But not the kind of dominance most men think of. It's easy to see the big fake dominant guys when you're in this state.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:32 AM
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I can still pull when not on drugs. I'm just saying how much easier it is when I'm high. It's like I know which girls want me to approach so it makes the game a lot easier. It's written all over their face that they want me. Without I still see signs but they are a lot more subtle and I have to do more work in order to get there. It feels more like I'm chasing rather than instinctively knowing what girls want me. It's not just about being confident but I bet that's a lot to do with it. It's the …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:20 AM
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We're thinking very similarly. Some drugs let you know just how much women are into you. It's written all over their faces and body. It's like you can see subtle things you'd never see sober. The difference is night and day. I wonder are more women checking me out when I'm sober but I don't realise because I can't pick up on the subtle cues as well? They probably are but nowhere near to the extent while I'm on molly. As well as your perception getting better, I think a large part of attracting w…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:07 PM
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It's mostly subconscious. It's not like they think about it. I'm very average but I'll tell you how my experience with women changes in two different scenarios. When I go out to the club on MDMA I see all the stuff girls do. I'm full of confidence, my chest is stuck out, my walk is slow and purposeful. I'm not aware I'm even doing all these things and I'm truly living in the moment. On the dance floor I find my own spot. Not joking but within minutes I notice girls pointing to their friends and …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:28 PM
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The key is to read the situation and then act in a way where she can tell you to stop if she's not into you. For example when you go to touch her first you're already beside her face to face making eye contact. You're in her space and she hasn't moved away or given you any reason to think she's not into it. Then you slowly move your hands on her. She has every chance to pull away or show you she's not into it before you actually touch her. It's not like you come out of nowhere and randomly place…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:52 PM
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I've had women do exactly this. There's no smooth lines, it's knowing what people want. Let's say we're strangers and haven't kissed but I see her eye fucking me all night. I go up to her and slowly place my hands on her hips/ass without any 'consent'. I know she wants it. She knows she wants it yet we haven't spoke a word. If she didn't want it she wouldn't be looking at me smiling all seductively and when I went to put my hands on her hips/ass she would have backed away if she didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:03 PM
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My god why do you people take everything out of context? It's clear you know what he's saying and what he's saying is totally OK. Most women do want to be 'groped' at least by people they want to have sex with. Taking the imitative is hot for most girls. In all my years of sex I've never once asked for sex verbally. I'd get laughed out of town if I did. Forgot I was on Reddit. Where you have to have a solid, backup 10,000 word essay on why you made a tiny point or else people who can't read betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:58 PM
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But as said, good flirting isn't really flirting at all. It comes naturally. I just think it's having a good natural rapport with someone of the opposite sex. Someone thinking 'this is me flirting now' is doing it all wrong and I can see why that might make the other person uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:36 PM
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Pure random bullshit made up by me on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:21 PM
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Massive fake tits were in style in the early 2000s but now they look really chavvy/stupid. Every few years something new comes into style. Just like every few months new fashion for women comes into style to show a certain body part in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:30 PM
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You did imply that. A user said 'According to r/incels only 10/10 looking 6"5 male supermodels with chiselled features can get women. But somehow all these average and ugly looking people keep getting born and finding partners.' You said 'How? Through beta men settling down? Yeah. It’s not fun though' You implied that average guys can only get women if they're betabux. We have talked and now agree that that isn't the case and that average men can get sex from women without providing for them etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:38 PM
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So you can now see average men can get sex without being a betabux? That wasn't what you were saying earlier. You implied such things were reserved for chads only. Surely now that you know average men can get sex without being a betabux, that women actually get wet for them strictly because of attraction, some of the other things you think about women might be false as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:11 PM
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But answer my other question instead of looking at the negatives all the time. How is it possible for me to be slaying? You said a man like me can't slay. Are you agreeing with me that you're wrong about that point at least? That you have overestimated that women only want sex with chads and that they do in actual fact have sex with random average guys, strictly because they're attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:59 PM
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I know a few guys your height slaying. I'm not saying it's easy but you can make up for it in other ways. But that's beside the point. Didn't you imply previously that it'd be impossible for someone like me to get sex without being a betabux?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:44 PM
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5ft 9 and skinny lol. According to incels I should be able to be is a 'betabux' but that clearly isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:36 PM
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5.3/10 guy here. Get sex from girls, taking them home from nightclubs and through social circle. Don't pay them at all and they aren't settling down with me. Strictly sex. How is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:13 PM
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I've done what you think should be done many times only to get abuse shouted back at me. I've told them I know it's going to be harder for them than the average guy and have given them great advice but they don't want to hear it. Most people giving them advice do so out of the kindness of their heart but they get nothing but abuse back. This is when people start to get fed up with them. Only a tiny minority outright portrays them like how you did with your second statement. Most give very nuance…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:32 PM
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I suppose you're right. Best to stay inside so the normies don't have to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:25 AM
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If you don't go out how are you going to meet women? Can't you organise something with your engineer mates, tell them to bring their GFs and a few of their friends for a big night out? If you don't go out you can't meet women. It's as simple as that. Things don't fall into place unless you make some moves. That applies for 99 percent of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:12 AM
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Most incels I've talked to seem to be severely lacking in any sort of social circle but I'm glad you're not. So a Friday or Saturday night when you're all drinking together, what happens? Do your friends not try to get their friends at least somewhat interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:04 AM
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Of course looks matter, we all learnt that from an early age. What are you doing to meet women in real life though? What's your social circle like? Does it include women? Or are you a typical incel who doesn't have any social life and no real way of meeting women but think your problems are entirely due to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:59 AM
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I might cut out a picture of a sexy woman and put it on the face of my female dog and then fuck it silly. Sure they're practically human. Got titties and pussy, what more do you want? You're a bigot if you say other wise! Got a feeling OP is on that trolling time. Or is either one severely messed up individual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 11:39 PM
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It's as simple as that OP. Either she thinks she can get guys who are more attractive than her to commit, which they won't because they just see her as a cum bucket. Or the guys actually are on her level but she has some personality issues so they don't pursue her after a few smashes/want anything more than smashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 08:21 PM
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Wanting your own spot on the dancefloor to get lost in the music but all the good looking girls keep annoying you trying to get your attention lol Not even joking, when I'm on MDMA I have to swat them away. I go to a normal shitty top 40 nightclub where I'm obviously not having as good of a time and attracting girls is not impossible but it's A LOT harder. That should be an eye opener to incels. Like I'm the same person with the same looks but just because my confidence is sky high in places lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:50 PM
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Nightclubs can be shite and they can be awesome. Top 40 nightclubs where everybody is there to be seen and the music is crap? Absolutely terrible night out, most of the time, unless you're with good mates. Underground techno/house night with international djs? Awesome. one of the best things in the world actually. Everybody is on mdma/speed/their drug of choice so everyone is relaxed and fully into the music. Makes it really easy to get lost in the music or to talk to girls on a level without fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:15 PM
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I'm an average man and I go out and fuck women in nightclubs. I don't offer them any money and they have sex with me. Surely that's impossible according to you? Why do you find it so hard to believe? No one is bragging here. Be average looking, go out to places where you're having genuine fun and women will want to get taken home to get pounded. It's not some myth you think it is. It happens everyday, all over the world. And it's not all happening to chads. And these women are getting very wet, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 01:07 AM
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lmao You're a lost cause. You clearly know nothing. But keep getting your information about women from other incels who are too ugly to even be a 'beta bux'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 01:00 AM
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If women's standards stay the same then why are even hotter girls looking for sex with the guy now? You are missing the point, I can't believe this. THE GUY HAS AGED BETTER AND GOT BETTER LOOKING. HIS SMV HAS INCREASED BUT IT STILL DOESN'T MAKE HER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Why? Because she doesn't view him like that anymore because they've been living together for a year/2 and whatever he's done in that time has caused her to lose attraction even though he objectively might be better looking n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 12:57 AM
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Keeping attraction isn't solely based on looks. Even good looking people struggle to keep attraction for each other in some relationships and it's got nothing to do with one of them getting uglier (although, yes of course it can be for this reason as well). And initial attraction isn't solely based on looks either. Yeah it's a big part of it but it's not the total thing. If I go out to a top 40 nightclub and I'm not having a good time because I don't like the music then I usually will find it di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 12:47 AM
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Attraction isn't solely based on looks. It is to a large extent but not totally. You do realise some people don't want to have sex with their BF/GF after a few years because they don't turn them on anymore? The guy might even be better looking than he originally was but something about him doesn't turn her on anymore. Why he doesn't turn her on any more could be for a number of reasons but let's take looks out of the question. The girl has no one better lined up yet she doesn't want sex with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 12:26 AM
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You are again missing the point. Are you a troll or do you have social difficulties? Not being a dick but how do you not get the point I'm making?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 12:07 AM
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I think most people, men and women, have no problems working these things out. A lot of things are said to try and make us feel better or to protect us. I really like 'the men won't buy the cow if they can get the milk for free'. If you take it as one hundred percent seriously you're not going to get too far but at the same time it has it's benefits. If a girl is after a relationship then she shouldn't be surprised she's not getting it when she's immediately giving out sex to everyone she goes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 11:19 PM
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You're missing the point. Maybe a girl wants to stop fucking after a year or 2 because they're not attracted to the guy anymore, even though that guy is still the same person. Other, even hotter girls than his GF, still want to fuck him. He makes them wet. What do you make of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 10:09 PM
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You seriously think that? Some people get tired fucking the same person for 15 years. That person can be good looking and would have no problem getting another attractive person. Or are you saying that's impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:36 PM
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That's fair enough, mario kart is definitely more suitable than being sexual at that age lol. But surely when you started puberty and saw popular, social, attractive guys getting the girls you started to question things? I believed in Santa Claus when I was very young. It didn't take me long to figure it out though. I certainly wasn't one of those guys who needed to be told at 12 years of age he wasn't real. Did you only stop believing when your mum and dad told you? Maybe not entirely relevant …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 06:42 PM
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Good points. But could they not have learned some things from just watching the more successful teens? Like seeing a girl getting teased in a flirting way and she loves it - why don't they look at that and conclude girls obviously like it when you're jokey/flirty/jerky with them (if the girl actually likes them)? My intuition tells me all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 06:20 PM
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'But, "love what's on the inside?" "Be yourself?" "There's someone out there for everyone?" "Everyone is equal?" Those kinds of nonsensical platitudes were the sorts that were parroted around, most often in public school, that are on their face false once you get to be an adult.' How did you truly believe in any of that though? How could you not see that that was someone trying to make you feel/cope better? While there is some small truths to them things it doesn't take a genius to know they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 06:10 PM
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This has been my experience as well and if I asked a hundred guys in real life they'd say the same, I'm willing to bet. I'm just baffled that some guys are using the 'my mum told me girls like nice guys so that means I can be a shy, antisocial nerd and that'll get girls wetter than those strong, confident social sport-playing guys'. How could they miss this kind of stuff going through puberty? How can they be so oblivious? It just seems like weak excuses to me. They all deep down thought that be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:55 PM
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While you make a good point, I know of several good looking guys who're attractive to other women but their wives might not necessarily get wet for them simply because they are so used to them. Put them in a room with another women and they'll get them dripping in no time as well. Even the top guys experience problems like this and it isn't something totally related to being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:25 PM
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This is what I don't get about the rep pill as well. ALL of these things are spelt out to us from a young age. It's mind boggling how some people don't pick up on these things. Age 12/13/14, all the confident, normal sized kids are getting girls while the fatties aren't. Can they not work it out? Surely even if your mom told you that women only care about personality you'd have the cop on right there and then to realise the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 01:40 PM
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I'd argue the voice on here is a very small amount of people compared to the real world. I don't know anyone who think's women don't care about looks but we obviously live in two very different places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:55 AM
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Fair enough if that's your experience. 99 percent of guys know this truth instinctively already though (and any girl will admit it to me if I ask them, not that I'd need to because it'd be like asking water if it's wet) so I don't see what you will get out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:47 AM
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That's where you look at her, tell her she's full of crap, smirk and both of you end up laughing because she knows you caught her out and she herself knows she full of crap. Win win? Or do you want some big seminar where women all come out and say 'yes, looks do matter to us and each of us has a certain threshold you need to pass if you want to date/fuck us. (shocking revelation).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:41 AM
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What if you pointed to a really ugly guy who had a great personality and said to her 'would you go out with him if you were single?', she'd say 'yes of course'? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:36 AM
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Believe me buddy they will. It's just also a lot about how you present yourself and how confident you are as well looks etc. C'mon, you know this so why are you upset about it? You seriously think if I asked 20 women IRL are looks important to a woman she'd say 'no, I don't care about them. You can look like anything as long as you're kind/generous etc.'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:31 AM
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Where have all you guys got this idea from? Anyone about the age of 12 knows women care about looks and status. It's like your mom told you as a child that women prefer all these nice traits and you just went along with it? Seems to be a big thing among the incel community. The vast majority of women will tell you it's about looks if you ask them. It's just also about his status and confidence as well. All them other things about being nice and generous are what they like in a partner. I'm sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:19 AM
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I don't understand people who always pay. Are there really guys like that out there? First date, I take them somewhere cheap and cheerful. Could be ice skating or mini golf. I always pay for this and won't be messing around trying to get separate bills or anything lol. After the activity, if there are drinks, they will usually buy them. If I have to buy the first drinks afterwards, I'll definitely not be buying anymore than one round unless they get the next. If they don't offer to get drinks af…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 12:31 PM
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This is a very key point that is often ignored. There is a huge difference between online and real life relationships and what women expect from both. I consider myself a 6 out of 10 and have zero problems picking up cute girls in a club to strictly take home for sex. The girls are on my level and are sexually attracted to me. Online, these girls would barely chat and if we did talk I would have to put in more effort than I should. Online, if I want sex I go for girls uglier than me simply becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 11:59 AM
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