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NP, btw staying off tinder will improve your game because you will be forced to work on your interpersonal skills directly instead of having the luxury of hiding behind the screen as you do this more the shyness will go away and it will feel normal
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:55 PM
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Show interest, ask questions, invite them to hang out somewhere outside of the conference so you can get some 1-on-1 time and then take it from there. Grab their dick (i personally prefer getting my dick grabbed but this is def for if you just want to hook up). It's going to take some trail, error, and experience. But over time your game will get better. I get approached and some females have better game than others, but what always kills their game and approach, is self doubt. Also know that gu…
/r/seduction18/12/19 06:48 PM
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you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink but real talk you aren't gonna change anyone's mindset over the internet best to make friends with someone in real life
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:36 AM
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same as any other girl man
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:35 AM
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half the women i got with didn't like me instantly, but over time really got to fall in love with me the other half are women who liked me when they saw me, and liked me even more when they got to know me it really depends on the situation but looks and first impressions are still important. however higher quality relationships develop with people who grow to like u over time
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:29 AM
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lol ok elliot roger
/r/seduction18/07/19 08:44 PM
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/r/seduction18/07/19 08:43 PM
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Depends on the situation. the "don't buy drinks" situation usually applies to when you're trying to cold approach or have barely struck up convo and are trying to buy her approval if you're already intimately conversing and clearly feeling each other after talking for awhile then yeah offer a drink when the waiter comes but ONLY if you're getting a drink yourself
/r/seduction18/07/19 08:38 PM
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this post 100 % For those wanting to fix their place up but don't want to waste money, the best thing is to start slow. Bad idea to blow a ton of money trying to pimp out your pad over night. Many items can be bought secondhand for extremely low prices off craigslist, goodwill, or even picked up for free when people leave them out. (just dont pick up stuff that could be contaminated with bedbugs and dust mites such as couches, mattresses, stuff with upholstery etc.) You dont need to start with t…
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:54 PM
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The Art of Mackin by Tariq Nasheed - Read this in high school. More of a collection of game tips that a pimp would give you than a "guide". Some of its dated, but it's an entertaining read none the less. 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene - Helped me understand social power dynamics. Not necessarily dating-specific, but gave me general social skills to ethically manipulate social situations to my advantage, or at least for the best situational outcome. Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport - Helped m…
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:12 AM
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fuck off spammer
/r/seduction10/06/19 05:18 AM
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I actually tried to get through this book a few years ago but theres just waaay too much flulff and filler. Maybe I'll look at the cliffnotes. Thanks for reminding me about it.
/r/seduction08/05/19 10:27 PM
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Thank you. These are great for formal, or planned occassions! Any tips for unplanned moments, say, in passing, running into them unexpectedly, quick meet and go? Stuff I currently say is: "Hi Mom!" instead of her name "Now I see where she gets her beauty from" "Is this your sister? You look very similar" (pretending not to know shes the mother, indirectly complimenting her youthful appearance) If at their home I always offer to help out with stuff, clean up stuff I put up, ask politely before I …
/r/seduction07/05/19 12:41 AM
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facts. the one time its ok to buy a drink is if youre talking/dancing for awhile and you both decided together that you want to get more drinks and the chemistry is already very warm
/r/seduction07/05/19 12:30 AM
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post pic and give more info about yourself, age, lifestyle, etc so we can give better advice
/r/seduction07/05/19 12:28 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction01/05/19 11:01 AM
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Were things more organic 6 year ago? How long have you been dating again? ​ edit: again as in, getting back into regularly dating
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:50 AM
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Not all girls like it. I last way too long and it kinda tires some girls out, but it also depends on how connected she is and how sexually compatible we are. It should be a fair balance. Always make the girl cum first. I'll say this: foreplay is everything.
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:58 PM
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I'd suggest building your own real life network of social support, friends, community, activity partners, buddies etc.
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:48 PM
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You don't have to "approach with your daygame", just talk to people like they're normal humans. If you manage to get a nice conversation going and build some chemistry, or if the girl clearly shows interest, sure ask them to lunch, or an activity that you brought up during the conversation. Also being a confident man and approaching with a smile and friendly/good intention never gives you a bad rep. Girls might reject you but it never makes you look like a bad person.
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:22 AM
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theres no pussy like new pussy but real talk: its ok to date one girl and like her a lot man, just don't go too overboard too soon. Have your own irl social network, friends, community, social outlets so your not obsessing to much over one person. No one likes to be smothered unless its with money
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:16 AM
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believe it or not, yes, you can start conversations with most of the people you meet
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:15 AM
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seriously i take at least 2/3 of my matches out on dates and still bang most the ones I do take out. follow up game must be ass but then again tinder sucks in terms of matchmaking other than appearance/pics im speaking on my experience with okc and match irl > online anyway
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:12 AM
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this is why tinder sucks tbh okcupid has better matchmaking system with the questions,. and encourages profile-building so you can learn more about each others personality
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:11 AM
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please don't use this (probably false) statistic to defend living a sad a pathetic life
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:09 AM
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repeated unplanned interacton is the best ​ me: - mutual friends - salsa clubs - dancer events - yoga classes - school , college classes - work - customers/clients - open mics - meditation groups
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:42 AM
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whenever I cut out porn, I pull way more girls and connect with people way more. In fact, when I'm watching porn all the time, I have low success and almost zero initiative. so personally I hardly watch it anymore, as it weakens my social drive, drive to approach/call girls, likeliness to follow up etc. Make much better eye contact, better body language, more intimate personal connection without it. Shit, many times when I'm porn bingeing I just turn into a bitch ass hermit like I'm a scared mid…
/r/seduction05/04/19 10:19 PM
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stop watching porn
/r/seduction05/04/19 09:59 PM
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https://insightla.org/Media/Audio-and-Video
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:26 PM
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depends on the situation, where you take her, how much chemistry you have built up, the girl's personality, etc. there's no absolute answer.
/r/seduction01/04/19 12:25 AM
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Damn man that sucks. When I lost my V I felt like a new man. One of the happiest days of my life. I even threw a party and invited all my friends over to celebrate lol
/r/seduction01/04/19 12:20 AM
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You'll feel better when you start fuckin good again. It's been a long time so you're really rusty and out of practice. You'll get there.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:14 PM
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don't take your anger/pain/embarassment out on the girl walk away reflect to see if you were being to aggressive, etc pretend you're with an invisible friend who agrees and say "wow this person was a dick, etc" as part of self-talk maybe, give a light calm response like "sorry to bother you" or "now I see why my mom told me not to talk to strangers" or "that was a very mean thing to say. have a nice day" it really depends on the situation though. you need to give more details.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:01 PM
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In case the reference was missed /u/notanervousboy0905 , i was trying to explain that you should try to be the guy you see in the pornos, not just jacking off to other people having sex. Over-consumption of Porn has a lot of negative effects on social motivation, neurochemistry, relationships, and a fuels an unhealthy mentality around sex. Instead of seeking to masturbate to other people having sex, Seek to obtain sexual experiences of your own. I hope the rest of my post, tips from others, and …
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:14 AM
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yeah it kinda manifests in microexpressions, body language, sensitivity to certain subjects, thirst, etc...mainly in general behavior which is why the inverse is also true, girls can tell when youre sexually active, you just have this glow and relaxation about you it's not always a bad thing, though. sometimes that extra thirst is the drive that pushes you to succeed or man up and be willing to put out more chase and work that certain girls want. Not all girls wants a guy who already gets laid a…
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:07 AM
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Shit my bad got distracted imma pm it rn
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:01 AM
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so because someone uses a few words you don't like (in a non-harmful manner), you completely ignore and disregard everything they say? sounds like it's a personal problem on your end also, venting on the internet accomplishes nothing in your life
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:52 AM
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I think OP might just be unexposed to different people, cultures, vernacular like a lot of people who sit on the internet and live in their bubble are.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:38 AM
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OP, not everyone talks like you or uses the same verbage as you. We're not all trying to be macho or alpha, it's just how a lot of us guys talk. But have fun judging people on the internet who speak differently than you, I guess. It might help to expose yourself to different cultures, lifestyles, generations, backgrounds, upbringings, etc.. That, or you can just man up, sissyfingers.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:32 AM
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Haha that's cool. I can't say I'd ever post other girls on my SM lol I like to keep my sex life private. I also can't risk putting stuff on there due to my public image. I keep my shit pretty safe and oriented towards my brand. But send me some swimmers and volleyball players if you're in LA bro. I'll hook you up with some earth girls and office sluts.
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:46 AM
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Massage Therapy is a decent alternative as it creates a similar anti-stress and soothing response. Try to get a good masseuse that can connect very well. Might have to shop around a bit. Yoga works as well.
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:41 PM
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this is also correct /u/jonnywhoop sometimes a girl giving the social instead is a softer form of rejection or that she just wants attention/followers on her social or she wants to see if your social has more to offer about you since she wasn't convinced she's interested in you yet (meaning you didn't game her up enough) it really just depends on the situation but personally i skip the sm games and get straight to the number, so i can bring her out on a date. Not dragging it on through stalking …
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:33 PM
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PM'ed
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:25 PM
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I see what you mean. However the way you worded it came off like it was a necessity to get laid. Personally, I just learned from my peers and making mistakes, and a saying I read once: How do you acheive success? Good Decisions. How do you make good decisions? Experience. How do you get experience? Bad Decisions. It's also important to understand you should never take one persons advice 100%. Like I said in my disclaimer: every personality is different, every person is different, every situation…
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:19 PM
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Totally get what you mean and can agree in many ways. For me, I prefer to learn about someone just from talking to them, hanging out with them, getting to know them naturally. The relationship develops more organically that way. I feel like SM spoils things sometimes, and creates distorted impressions of them that doesn't always hold true to character. I'd rather learn about her interests, hobbies, experiences from her personally, not her profile. When I stopped relying on it and just focused on…
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:09 PM
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Which is why I wrote: Have this conversation after you have sex a few times, as a girl's opinion in this situation will change dramatically after you give her multiple orgasms + I'll reinforce being responsible about it. Don't just shallowly use someone if you're just straight up lying to them.
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:57 PM
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You don't need a mentor you just need to put yourself out there and learn from experience like everyone else has to do. There's no easy way around it.
/r/seduction25/03/19 08:25 AM
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/r/SkincareAddiction is a good start. Read their FAQ / sidebar
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:33 AM
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Ok.
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:14 AM
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Edit: funny how OP replied to this saying it's a waste of energy, got downvoted and deleted his comment. Big karma ho lol. You waste more energy when you engage the number than an Instagram and with much less efficiency Your edit is the kind of toxic reddit behavior I talked about. I deleted my original comment because I realized your response wasn't specific enough for me to give any real feedback on, being that you didn't elaborate. Nobody cares about internet points my friend. <3
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:08 AM
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Honestly things just came together naturally as I started getting proactive about my health, hobbies, interests, and pursuits. Before I aimed to get girls, I aimed to fulfill my need to socialize. In doing this my social skills improved naturally. What I personally did was: Doing stuff related to my music interests, AA meetings, Meditation groups, cooking classes, open mics, community college classes on the side, and socializing more with coworkers. I still haven't managed to build my ideal soci…
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:28 AM
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You might be interested in some of the studies on social media and mental health & lifestyle. I really like this Podcast on Digital Minimalism
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:07 AM
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Enjoy having actual sex in real life with a human.
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:26 AM
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FOMO vs JOMO
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:14 AM
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Try lunch instead, it's more casual. Or coffee. Or tea. Something short and sweet. Even better if you can find someplace that feels cute and friendly. However, It depends on how much rapport you have built up already. If you already have a certain amount of comfort and familiarity established, dinner is fine. With experience you'll know how to feel things out better. You'll also hopefully build up a certain amount of "spots" that you can take dates to. It doesn't hurt to do some research and fin…
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:13 AM
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thank you
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:09 AM
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game her up some more or just move on
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:32 AM
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you're just using my post to plug your blog man thats really not what i said boils down to at all
/r/seduction23/03/19 10:38 PM
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From reading your post history it sounds like you're deflecting some deeper issues you have, Also, The Real Truth About Dad Bods: It's worse than ebola
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:00 PM
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Hey bro, this is OP from this post. while not perfected, I been able to work on this a lot through getting sober, getting out of self-isolating lifestyle, socializing more, and dealing with resentment not just resentment towards others, but resentment towards myself Every week i try to do this forgiveness meditation and its been slowly helping me, along with the other meditations on this site. https://insightla.org/Media/Audio-and-Video/Talk/TalkID/148
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:34 PM
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2 months later responding to this, but getting sober and using a forgiveness meditation from insightla.com has helped me a lot with this. Realized I had a lot of resentment, not towards others, but against myself, that kept me from letting go and moving on. Its an endless effort, but its been very rewarding
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:29 PM
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