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Its_strawberry_blond/r/seduction26/03/19 05:10 PM
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why do you need something to distract you? you love what you're doing and busy as hell. Chances are you either have the confidence in yourself to go talk to her because you love your life and your life fills you with energy so you don't even hesitate OR you got so much shit going on you need downtime.
/r/seduction27/03/19 01:29 AM
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it absolutely does for most people. the only thing that cannot be fixed by living your best life is poor social awareness. some people are just socially inept and of course you're right. but the reality is, the people on this page, are aware. or they wouldn't be here. for most people, they got to much time on their hands doing stuff they don't enjoy and are trying to attract people they have nothing in common with because they are "hawt" and the people around them. They fail and struggle to open…
/r/seduction27/03/19 01:17 AM
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as stated, buy your dude a beer but make sure he stays a little bit so it's not super lame. The big thing is don't go in there knowing your gonna ask her for coffee before even knowing her person. Meet her, have fun, get to know her person a bit, then decide if YOU want to get coffee and like her person. If you don't know anything besides she is hot, not only do your chances go way down... but you're wasting your time.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:02 PM
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This subreddits issue is that it focuses too much on how to play the game. This makes you think that you can control and manipulate another person's reactions to things. That might work, to some degree but this sub encourages the thinking that you can control everything. this sub needs to stop encouraging people to try and manipulate people. Not everybody does it but some do, to some it is a game/facade. This issue is if you play the game, your GOING to get bit. I did, and it led to what was the…
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:55 PM
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Keep in mind what i am looking for. I don't enjoy meaningless hookups, so how i play the game changes a bit. It is fundamentally the same. But if your focused on scoring as many points as you can, your not focusing on getting good looks at the basket. My rules for texting convos- K.I.S.S.... Keep it stupid simple. if it can be said in fewer words... do it. avoid sarcasm. But you can throw in something witty for fun. Don't be so rigid- Sedits has a lot of good qualities, it is great for teaching …
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:41 PM
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I agree with everything you say. I have a slightly alternative point/ idea, that I think is worth something, in regards to your last statement. I don't think he or anybody really has to worry about the "friend zone" because I don't think it is actually a thing. For example, think of somebody who is your friend, who is your same gender. I'll use my friend Steve as an example. We know just about everything about each other. We joke about women we have dated, he knows my family really well, and I k…
/r/seduction11/01/18 12:25 AM
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Currently trying to join a frat and pretty much got told this at a rush week. I pray to god it's a bunch of shit, fucking haze my ass! As long as I ain't drinking goat blood or shaving another dudes nuts I don't really care and I think it would make for a good story. And even if I did shave another dudes nuts, in a year or two it would be funny.
/r/seduction06/09/16 03:42 AM
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Some ones I have used are girls are sitting in a dark corner of a room, and I called em creepy, then immediately changed it to a shit eating grin. And made it fun. I have also scene a group of girls texting at a party, made fun of em for being anti social. Jason capital talks about going up and telling em to get out of your seat in a joking way and screwing with em that way. As for on a plane, I have never games on a plane as I am always flying surrounded by 30+ extended family and know everybod…
/r/seduction05/09/16 07:13 PM
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You are correct however, my point still stands. We look at three things, as shallow as they may be. They look at looks sure but they look at a lot of other things.
/r/seduction05/09/16 05:47 PM
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1) sure she can ask like that. Your still a stranger that she can't get away from. And if you flip shit she is now PART of a scene. It has nothing to do with her past experiences. People don't want to deal with screaming babies. She doesn't know how you will react if she shoots you down and SHE CANt LEAVE if she wants to. This is the key right here. Your ignoring this part. you started the convo twice, you put in all of the work. Since she can't leave, it makes it impossible to tell if she was b…
/r/seduction05/09/16 08:02 AM
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Yo man, chill. Contrary to what this sub might lean towards it's not always a good time to lay it on. I am not saying not to game on a plane. It's just an incredibly tricky spot. You have to be hyper aware to be respectful to the chick. If a chick flat out shot you down and walked away you wouldn't continue to go after her. Problem is in pickup that is the only real way you KNOW if they are into you or not. People on this sub say all the time. If they are still standing their keep going. IOI don…
/r/seduction05/09/16 04:04 AM
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You opened, she wasn't receptive. You continued, after a while and she couldn't leave. Making eye contact does not mean she is interested and laughing at your shit means nothing. IOIs are just that. Indicators. They suggest something might be their but are far from concrete. The only thing that matters in pick up is "is she still their". Any decent human being looks at who they are talking to. While it wasn't a rapey you forced yourself, you wanted opinions. I think flirting with people who can'…
/r/seduction05/09/16 02:51 AM
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My advice, don't flirt with chicks who can't get away. It's one thing to open the door and wait for them to make a move. It's another to force yourself upon somebody who can't get away. She dropped numerous indicators she was not interested. She let the conversation die, told you it was odd, literally said she didn't trust you after talking to her on a plane for a while. That persistence is fine when they can leave. But don't flirt with em so much when your stuck on a plane. Or if their car is b…
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:33 PM
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Their has also been a lot of evidence that find women find CONFIDENCE the most attractive thing. Watch PUA. Most aren't attractive, hell most are balding. They get more action then anybody on this sub. The proof is in the pudding. If they haven't noticed you because you aren't attractive you still got a shot because they haven't made up their mind. Women are much more emotional and below the surface then men. Men look around the room and rate every women, immediately deciding who they would slee…
/r/seduction04/09/16 05:18 PM
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I gotta disagree with this program. For one, anything more then 8 reps is encouraging a lot of time under tension, and is more in the body building range. While body builders are strong, they are A LOT of water. It's actually sarcoplasm, which holds a lot of energy in the form of glycosomes. However if you are in a calorie deficit you don't have the energy to dedicate to storing it in muscles. On top of that, HIIT is a workout in its own not something you do to keep your heart rate up between se…
/r/seduction04/09/16 05:05 PM
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Confidence is the most attractive thing a man can have to most women. Aside from killer good lucks obviously, but we can't really control that. The problem with your theory is twofold. 1) you either have to be really good looking for your theory to work with ANY consistency. 2) chicks know within a few seconds of seeing a guy if they would sleep with him. Unfortunately, if you again aren't attractive, they probably won't notice you. So you gotta make them notice you by just introducing yourself …
/r/seduction04/09/16 02:30 PM
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Cause you bent her over her squad car?/s
/r/seduction01/09/16 05:53 AM
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It's crazy true though. It's incredibly ironic how these guys like teamcapital, whom I think has some great stuff, or maybe some pump up video on YouTube makes you wanna force it and be unstoppable. When in reality all you gotta do is get the ball rolling and keep it rolling and it will get done quicker and you will be successful. But if you force it like your unstoppable, it won't work at all and you will end up frustrated.
/r/seduction31/08/16 07:20 PM
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His point about not taking yourself too seriously is the real deal. I know I always find myself starting to slip when I am really trying to improve and trying to really grind. Which just makes me tense and feel like I am forcing it, which makes me terrible. And honestly it's the key to just about anybody who is trying to improve their game. Just don't take yourself so seriously. The game will come quicker and it will be easier to continue grinding if you relax and have fun.
/r/seduction30/08/16 02:08 AM
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Pretty much anything that is short and quick and calls it out while not being TOO confrontational.
/r/seduction18/08/16 01:00 AM
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I like it. I find your calling out shit tests examples a little to confrontational. Granted those were some tough ones and better dealt with humor I think. Good hard shit tests i find are best dealt with a "what does that mean?". I forget who I saw that does it but it pretty much just works to make them explain it if it's a snide remark. But be careful to not come across like it hurt you. A strong "what is that supposed to mean?" Let's her know you won't let her walk all over you. A weak one sho…
/r/seduction17/08/16 06:16 AM
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It's also worth noting Some women are just gonna flake no mater how forward you are. It's a game to them like it is to us. Which is ok. My freshmen year of college I was doing homework with a friend when one of her friends came in and talked about how she was gonna cancel on this guy for a first date because essentially the chase was over and now that he was interested she was ready to bail. Now she had a very high value of herself. Personally, I don't really know how to get around that. It was …
/r/seduction17/08/16 01:40 AM
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I think of seduction as more of a map. Some people naturally know the way, some people eventually find the way, and some use a map. Regardless of what method you use, you still gotta walk there.
/r/seduction17/08/16 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't burn those bridges. Just be patient. Keep em but continue to sarge. And don't take it so seriously. It's a game man.
/r/seduction13/08/16 05:46 AM
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I would say no. They more then likely just don't know how to play the game, which coincidently is mostly confidence and not being needy, but since they don't know, they lack confidence and are needy, which only perpetuates itself. Movies teach us that it needs to be a big magical moment for y'all to meet, so some look for a big grand opening they can't fuck up. Or society teaches us to suppress our sexuality because it objectifies women as just tools for our sexual pleasure. Which is bull shit b…
/r/seduction13/08/16 05:45 AM
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The only time they can stop you from gaming is if you are in an exclusive, monogamous, serious relationship. At that point it comes down to y'all talking. If your in a relationship their isn't much point in sarging, and it can create problems. You might Have to pick and think about if something serious is actually for you. But you shouldn't stop sarging because you have abundance. Keep doing it, or you loose the abundance.
/r/seduction13/08/16 05:29 AM
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But show me somebody who is not confident and isnt clingy. Going to have a hard time.
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:45 PM
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So clingy is cute? Confidence just means that your fine with who you are and can put yourself out their. Not confident people are notoriously clingy. Their is a difference between confident and dominant.
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:35 PM
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Which leads us to the hot girl paradox. Since their confidence is not from within, well it kinda does come from within... Hehe... Their confidence is fragile. Their confidence comes from the fact that everybody wants to fuck them, don't act like that right away, and make them work for your attention and you have broken their confidence because all of a sudden they have no "natural value".
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:33 PM
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Your missing the whole point of it all. Confident people don't require ego stroking or coddling to get them to go do shit. Confident people will wear what they want, because they like it not because they are afraid of their stomach popping through. Confident people don't let the fear of interacting with randoms or doing something they haven't done before hold them back from trying something. He literally described a friend of mine from college. Goes around in baggy shirts and sweat pants all the…
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:30 PM
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God my friends and I have always joked about this. Lemme know how it goes.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:08 PM
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Dude your missing the point. It's like a canned line but he's grunting. U may be right and it might fail miserably. It could work to. The point is it's funny and that's all.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:08 PM
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It's ok don't listen to everybody on here. Your one opinion vs the other 50 is probably right /s
/r/seduction05/08/16 04:45 PM
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Let's look at this here. 1. Over react to a comment everybody in every actual dating relationship has ever made. Some people have like three famous people they are allowed to cheat on, some people have one, but the truth is a lot of it is just talk if it's actually a serious relationship. 2. Call her a slut, for making a comment about how she would screw some model she has no chance with when YOU ACTUALLY FUCKED 5 OTHER WOMEN SINCE BEING IN A "monogamous" RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. You are the fucki…
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:40 PM
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Lemme know how it goes.
/r/seduction03/08/16 04:11 AM
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No problem man. Let me know how it goes. Also if they are already eyeing you up, you don't need to say anything important, not that anybody needs to anyway, but if they are, it could just be some tongue in cheek statement with a shit eating grin. Open the door and they will probably jam their foot in and do the rest. If they don't you will get used to opening, which is the freakiest part for most people.
/r/seduction03/08/16 03:23 AM
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Science has proven 2 things about women, they shit just like us, and they think about sex as much as us. Accept these, and approaching during the day becomes easier, and it takes them off a pedestal. I always imagine myself having sex with them, because it helps get the right vibe, and if I get nervous, I imagine them shitting. Boom. Right vibe, authentic smile/shit eating grin, and no longer nervous. You may have to play with the order, or visualize different things. My goal is not to get turne…
/r/seduction03/08/16 12:46 AM
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I agree with most of that. I just read it in a different way then was meant. Otherwise I think you make some super solid points.
/r/seduction03/08/16 12:36 AM
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I find 3 to be a load of shit. If what people are looking for is a relationship then that's what they can do. It doesn't make to make a blanket statement like that. Your experience, about women being the one to bring up relationships is just that, your experience, somebody else might date a bunch of women, but might be the first to try and make it exclusive, it also might be less then three months and that doesn't make anybody clingy. Clingy is about a lack of confidence in oneself.
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:54 PM
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I disagree with competence guy. Their is a lot of people who are bad at something but still confident, most of us know somebody like that sports wise, or maybe even socially. To me it is outcome independence. That doesn't mean i don't go fuck yea it worked, or shit i fucked up. It just means that I know it really has little to no impact in the grand scheme of thing and can learn and move on and not dwell. That guy who jacks up 25 shots at game playing pickup ball, and makes 5. He clearly doesn't…
/r/seduction31/07/16 07:05 PM
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So probably don't go for the ass grab to judge how comfortable she is. That could end very badly. Personal rule is if she is fine with you touching her face and neck, she is fine with you kissing her. Ass could get you in trouble.
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:05 AM
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Another thing to remember is that awesome is relative to each individual person. Just do things that make you happy, be confident, which I know is hard to do, and you will meet the right people/person. If you want to meet girls with similar interests then go out and do those things in a group. If you love a book/movie/video game, look for clubs to join those kinda things. Even most of the things in the sidebar will still apply. Take them with a grain of salt and change the unimportant details to…
/r/seduction18/07/16 09:16 PM
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Awesome in the sense that you are happy with who you are independent of the relationship. You know who you are, and are perfectly fine and happy and healthy without a relationship but the two of you make it even better. As an example, I went to a wedding recently and their was this super gorgeous but she was absolutely all over her boyfriend in a annoying way, didn't even leave him alone for the garder. It's not to say that people can't need varying levels off attention from their partner but th…
/r/seduction18/07/16 09:09 PM
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Haha this is some TRP shit.
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:01 PM
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Ignore that guy. Their is hope. Your on seddit. Seddit isn't all about getting laid. It's about self improvement, and understanding the game so you can play the game, and yes, getting laid. Check out the sidebar and other information. Confidence is generally a must in just about any sort of sexual relationship, it's signals you probably got your shit together, and any HEALTHY, good relationship, even hookups, is between two usually confident and awesome people. You wouldn't want to have sex with…
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:46 PM
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Yea but random chicks won't pad your ego like that. They have no reason to.
/r/seduction02/07/16 02:04 PM
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He is closer then you are as far as pick up strategy goes. You gotta make your self stand out, one common way to not come across as just another chumbalode is to not buy drinks for her, hold her drink for her, do stuff for random people for no reason. Pretty much it's don't be a spineless person people take advantage of. Now if who you are is a nice guy but can still have a spine then your fine, but most guys buy drinks for chicks out of insecurity in an attempt to buy their attention. That does…
/r/seduction02/07/16 04:58 AM
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Absolutely not. Chicks can get folded anytime they want and pretty much from anyone. If it was bad and you aren't dating/exclusive she ain't sticking around.
/r/seduction02/07/16 04:47 AM
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it's just the everyday things. I practiced just being more confident when I talked to people everyday. At work, work on your eye contact when your anywhere with people, talk slow, make sure your talking in your natural voice. I talked a little higher then Normal because my natural voice is a little low to always here and I talked fast. As for going out, go out alone. Start with the dudes at the bar, the bartender, anybody. Or snag any friend, snag an acquaintance, go alone. One of my favorite th…
/r/seduction19/06/16 01:46 AM
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Bad idea. Could create alcohol dependency. Best to just get used to being uncomfortable and learning To game like that. plus it makes you oblivious and do stupid things.
/r/seduction18/06/16 03:50 PM
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Well you gotta tell us what you do, if you go out, where you go out, give us a field report, tell us what your struggling with. You haven't given us enough information to work with. You say you have been in the game for a while, does that mean you have been reading about it for a while and and going out rarely to try and implement it or have you been going out a lot and getting no where? Most people have to go out and work on it on a daily basis to get somewhere. That doesn't mean party every ni…
/r/seduction18/06/16 02:38 PM
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No problem. Most people have made the same mistake. Good luck man!
/r/seduction02/05/16 01:54 PM
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The best way I have heard it explained is this - when you try to talk to somebody in a chaotic environment like when they are dancing at a club. It's like she is getting fucked, metaphorically speaking, and you walk in the door and start making small talk with her. Chaotic environment game, like the dance floor, is a different kind of game. If she is being metaphorically fucked and shows interest, you gotta go in there and METAPHORICALLY, and I can't over state metaphorically enough here, play w…
/r/seduction02/05/16 04:55 AM
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Good ole "what are you wearing?;)". It's timeless and straight to the point.
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:57 PM
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Hold up boss. Alpha male is nothing other Then somebody who oozes confidence. They just are who they are and nobody will change that and they don't have to prove them selves to anybody. They could be calm and quiet or loud and obnoxious. What matters is confidence.
/r/seduction16/04/16 05:25 AM
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Shit buddy if you use your hands properly, they will practically kiss you. Use your hands to show desire. Do what your hands would do if you were fucking em like that. Minus touching anything that could get you in trouble.
/r/seduction15/04/16 01:46 PM
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Then your game is the weak point. Literally go watch people on YouTube do it. They say very little about themselves, or anything of substance. All they really do is come off fun and not serious and super confident. or you can give us a field report and we will give you suggestions. But we can't help you unless you show us where your struggling.
/r/seduction13/04/16 09:04 PM
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So, what I am seeing from your posts are that your lying to yourself by saying your fine with being alone. But you actually want company, and are just embarrassed because you can't figure it out. All of which is ok. Part of this sub is being able to understand when your lying to yourself to make yourself feel better which we all do. If you want help, ask an honest question without the vulgarity and attitude. Clearly your frustrated, but you have a shitty unclear post and to call somebody a dumb …
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:22 PM
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Fuck buddy, friends with benefits
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:16 PM
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It has nothing to do with what you say. It's about how you say it. This one is pretty solid, if you say it right and In a fun manner and actually flirt with them. But you gotta follow through.
/r/seduction13/04/16 01:29 AM
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That's some deep shit
/r/seduction13/04/16 01:26 AM
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