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Itsametoad/r/seduction30/04/19 01:27 AM
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Itsametoad/r/seduction10/04/19 12:04 AM
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Idk seems like he came on top to me, he's settled down now with a cute girl, they're raising a kid together. He still looks pretty much the same so if he wanted to he could pull those stunts again. He never had a hard time getting women interested, he's a pretty good looking guy. He's kinda short too, meanwhile I'm 6ft and didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:38 PM
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My friend used to be a huge fuck boy when we were in college and he was fucking a new girl almost everyday despite having a gf. One time he was talking to me about it and he said that once he nuts it's pretty much over and he would send them on their way. My virgin ass at the time was like "wait bro what about them, don't try to make them cum too?" And he said "if they cum before me then that's great but if they don't then it's too bad". Now did a lot of these girls come back for more? Not super…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:32 AM
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I don't think it's that bad for a guy to date a single mom, but if he wants to have his own kids he should check first to see if she's down to have more, otherwise it's definitely not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:29 PM
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Yo where was this cosplay at? I'm about to move. In my state anime is pretty mainstream and you see the normiest looking people and couples at conventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:55 AM
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Bro there's less then 1M people in alaska I'm not surprised at all. Also if most men in Alaska are shorter then average then what choice do people have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:49 PM
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Definitely relevant, you guys have a lower population and the dating scene probably isn't as fucked as the US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:45 PM
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I mean idk if you'll believe me but yes l do. Don't even play DnD, not a huge fan and me and my friends don't have the attention span to consistently play for weeks without getting sidetracked. I go out to clubs less now that it's been a few years since I graduated college, but my social life has survived. Get invited to a lot more house parties now and my social group keeps expanding because I keep befriending my friends friends. I don't have a hard time at all at making new friends tbh, people…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:44 PM
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It's a good thing I'm not being dramatic then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:53 PM
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Rip well I didn't date in middle school and I suck at flirting, a few years away from 30. Imma just kms tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:34 PM
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I have a pretty big friend group and I'm not autistic. No gf tho so looks like you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:28 PM
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May I ask where you live? Because when I go out pretty much anywhere I try pretty hard to find some of these ugly and fat men with girl friends. Most guys I see in relationships are either average or above that. I feel like I should've seen so many by now but I haven't. And if the guys that I see in relationships are considered ugly then I'm in big trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:26 PM
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I mean i didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 and I didn't die. Haven't gotten laid in 3 years, not by choice but it be like that sometimes.To me a need is something you actually can't survive without it. But tbh I see what you're saying tho and I guess it makes sense when you put it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:40 PM
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Surprised I guess. Tho tbh I do not view sex as a need, but it's cool that you feel for those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:18 PM
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Damn did not expect you to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:12 PM
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If sex is a need then I guess incels are right to be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:52 PM
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So you agree, women do not like black men that look nerdy. Checks out with my experience, all of my friends that first that description do not do well. They're all in pretty good shape and fun people to be around too. On the other hand I've seen some dorky ass white guys have women go crazy for them, mostly non white women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:13 PM
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All the ones I've been too in MA only have autistic fat men attending the events. Where tf do you live that women are pulling up to these places? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:02 PM
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Her profile
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:57 PM
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Yoo look at her profile you're so right lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:55 PM
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I think most guys know that when women say they like nerdy men they mean white tall nerdy men. Never seen a women simp over a guy that looks like Urkel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:53 PM
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Yeah it makes sense tbh, if you're dating a single mom might as well have your own kids with her. My friend's stepdad had a couple more kids with his mom and he told me that he definitely saw his dad have a preference for his brothers but overall he was still a good father to him. One of my friends seems to be in a serious relationship with a single mother that wants more kids. He makes pretty decent money so I told him he should probably start working on getting his own kids ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:55 PM
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Tbh I think that's not even that bad if the guy can have his own kids with her as well. A few of my friends dads did this but they seem pretty happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:52 PM
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Already working on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:05 PM
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My 6'4 white shy midly autistic friend had none of those traits you mentioned and yet he would have women come up to grind on him at clubs. It was funny to watch because he had no clue what to do and that did not turn these women off, some would invite him back to their place and he would just leave with them. Everyone in our friend group, even the women say that the only reason he can pull is due to his looks and height
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:35 PM
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They haven't been good for me. But that's most likely because I look nerdy and there aren't many women thristing for black nerd men. Not were I live at least
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:09 PM
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Damn I never thought about It this way but you make a pretty good point.
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:33 PM
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Men get through most of their lives without this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:07 PM
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Nope, I never got recruited into anything. I was struggling with dating, went online for advice and was told I was a loser. Then I found certain places that didn't think I was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:36 PM
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Nah I doubt that would bring down the amount of men getting involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:32 PM
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Why do you have such a hard time believing that others haven't seen these types of couples? Every time I'm out I am actively searching for a couple where the guy is less attractive, you'd think I wouldve found one by now but it hasn't happened. Seems like this is less common then you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:44 PM
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You must live a place where there's a lot of ugly people or something because I spend a lot of time outside and never have I seen this. I've been to 10 states at this point and still haven't encountered this. Seems like my odds of finding a rare shiny Pokémon are higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:40 PM
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Ah yes the reddit classic ugly dude that somehow managed to get in a relationship with a girl out of his league. I hope to one day day see this mythical beast
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:39 PM
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Nah my engineering program mostly had white guys and then a mix of minorities. Is there something wrong with Indians and Asians?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:52 PM
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Nah they can just lie about being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:46 PM
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Nah I don't. It's pretty normal if you go to an engineering school
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:15 PM
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I mean who cares tbh a lot of people settle eventually. If you're not attractive you already know from a young age that you're not gonna be desired by most people so why does it matter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:47 AM
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Wym men do this all the time. A bunch of my homies lowered their standards cuz they're weren't doing well and are just average looking guys. They settled for nice girls who weren't that attractive either and they seem to be happy. So it's definitely something that can be done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:42 AM
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People on Reddit have a very hard time understanding this. If they looked at my post history, they'd probably say that I'm a miserable person to be around, have no friends and that's the reason I'm gonna die alone or something like that. In reality I have a pretty big social group, get invited to parties or clubbing every weekend and don't have a hard time making friends. People just seem to like me for some reason. If I killed myself tomorrow literally everyone would be surprised and wouldn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:10 PM
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Damn I must be way below average then because judging by the amount of women I'm friends with I'd say they must definitely find me relaxing and non threatening, since they enjoy hanging out with me alone. Even women I don't know seem to be pretty comfortable talking to me. Despite this it took me until I was 24 to lose my virginity, it's been two years since that and I haven't gotten laid again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:02 PM
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Seems like you don't live in the US. Makes sense why you out here seeing average guys getting laid all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:46 PM
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Sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:56 PM
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Yo I'll take your advice. Mind if I dm you my profile and some of my convos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:45 PM
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Idk that wasn't really the case for me. I was a virgin until I was 24 and i guess i randomly got lucky one day that liked me enough to have sex with me s few times. That was almost two years ago at this point and I've never had sex again. I did have some confidence for a while, but not being able to get laid again made that all go away and I'm back where i started
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:30 AM
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What if you're not interested in depraved sex acts tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:16 PM
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I mean it's great that it made this guy feel better even tho he doesn't realize this girl was just doing her job. But when I was a Virgin paying for an escort would've 100% made me feel worse and wouldn't help at all. I've seen tons of other virgins or dudes claiming to be incels on this site who paid for it and they talk about how the regret it.
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:09 PM
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Bro the girl I was seeing would treat me this way and so nice, never in my life have I ever received that much affection. Sucks that she got back with her ex
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/22 01:42 PM
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Dope! Will do
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:28 PM
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Lmk when you pull up to Boston my dude lmao
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:33 AM
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I've never understood the hate for cargo shorts, they're pretty comfortable and have so many pockets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:46 PM
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Lol these aren't good examples, all of those dudes are good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:36 PM
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Im one of those guys, my game is non-existent lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:13 PM
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In just a month? Damn what's your secret bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:58 AM
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I mean, I leave my house and go to social events all the time. I've even been breaking my schools rules about Covid and have been going to my friends dorm for game nights and parties. Still havent gotten laid out of that yet, so guess I must be ugly then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:28 AM
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I mean as someone whose never gotten laid at a party, I've only seen this work for attractive dudes. So I guess this advice doesn't apply to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:31 PM
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That only works for generic looking black dudes tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:26 PM
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I mean the dude is good looking, he was just dressed as a stereotypical nerd. I thought this video was gonna show an actual ugly dude smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:36 PM
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Bro I'm also Domincan, lived there most my life and I can tell you that most people would definitely judge you fro seeing a prostitute. It's a very Catholic country, maybe Dominicans in the U.S don't have a problem with that, and they're most likely not a majority either. Because I used to live in a very Dominican city in MA and the people I meet there were also very against prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:40 AM
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Maybe some do, but tbh one of my friends is basically a Chad and he invites me over to parties, game nights, and just to hang out. I'm definitely not a Chad, and honestly some of the other dudes that hang out at his dorm aren't either really. I have meet a lot more women through hanging out with him then when I hang out with my more nerdy friends. And even though I haven't got laid out of that, but I have made a lot of friends which is pretty dope anyways. Last time I hung out with him he was te…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:20 PM
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Oof I must be absolute bottom tier then, graduating in December and have never even kissed anyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:24 PM
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I've been to plenty of parties, nothing came out of that either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:20 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:57 PM
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What if I have never dated anyone but have been on dates, would that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 04:48 PM
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I wonder how interesting you are. Sounds like you just have a different definition of what interesting is to you tbh. I've done some pretty risky things, and do some drugs occasionally, but I'm still able to find people interesting even if they spend a lot of time at home watching t.v.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:59 PM
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Yep, I got bullied from grade school till the end of high school. Didn't get to do the things most teens do because of that and now I'm playing catch up at 23. It's not the worse thing I guess, though it does make me feel sad sometimes
/r/seduction06/01/21 06:15 PM
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Not OP but I'm also pretty touch starved but I would hate cuddling with my friends, like I don't want to be that close with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:33 PM
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I mean pretty much yeah, I grew up outside of the U.S so most of the stuff that fucked me up growing up are things my American born friends will never be able to relate to. I also know they wouldn't understand because we have lived completely different lives. I'm not really sure what you mean by that last part, Its not like I act emotionless all the time I just don't talk about them to my friends. I'm also pretty happy to pay someone to talk about my feelings knowing they won't tell anyone, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:40 PM
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I mean I talk to strangers on the internet about my feelings, I'd rather do that then tell my friends. Plus they wouldn't understand. When I talk about my feelings I don't need support, if I'm talking about them it's because I want a solution to no longer feel that way. Me and my friends still have deep conversations about life and stuff, just not about my feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:53 PM
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Not OP but I think it's best to just save emotions for my therapist, my friends are qualified for that and it seems pointless to talk to them about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:19 PM
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Idk a lot of those postive thoughts seem pretty unrealistic to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:17 AM
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I kinda agree with you, but it sounds like you had some self esteem in high school. I'm pretty sure most if not all guys that identify as incels didn't. I don't consider myself one but I was pretty much bullied for my looks and anything else from middle school till I graduated HS. A lot of the bullying came from women too. So I mean it's no surprise that I had no self esteem or confidence by the time I was out, I didnt even really start hanging out with girls until I started college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:11 AM
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Bro do you really think some men refuse to meet women in person because of Autism?? Like have you ever heard of depression, anxiety, and having no social skills? Also what the fuck is this talk about plastic causing Autism??? You can't be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:16 PM
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Nah man I definitely need a guide book, I have no idea of how to flirt or express my interest. I just make then laugh by joking and goofing around but that's all I got. First and last time I actually tried asking someone out irl, I choked up and literally couldn't say anything. Made me feel like a high schooler.
/r/seduction02/11/20 02:00 PM
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Also, if you live in the States how are you gonna go speak to people?
/r/seduction23/10/20 11:54 PM
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I feel like I'd rather die having never summoned the strength to go down that path, seems like a waste of time to me
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:43 AM
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I mean isnt that how life works though? We're all doing things to feel better for a minute, but I doubt that there are people out there that live completely happy lives
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:41 AM
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Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:00 PM
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That's completely understandable then, though I'd expect most people to be way more comfortable by the 2nd time if they were nervous at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:51 PM
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But sometimes being nervous makes people act awkwardly, is being nervous now a bad thing too? I thought that was just a normal human emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:14 PM
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I agree, but I just think that sometimes people can be awkward because they're nervous and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Incels on those sites are really something else though, I remember when they had their sub on reddit they'd talk about how their sisters, moms or cousins owe them sex. Or how their hot sisters would have sex with Chads. Really makes you think what else is going in their minds, because I don't think frustration is the cause of all those thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:15 PM
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People on reddit love talking about this stuff, but I have never seen any proof of this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:33 PM
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I know plenty of people with low self esteem and I have no issue talking to them, maybe you're just not as good at talking to people as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:32 PM
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How is being awkward a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:22 PM
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I get knowing how to cook is nice to save money and stuff, but I don't see what's wrong in just eating out or eating microwave meals if you can afford it. I know how to cook, but it's boring, I get distracted easily so shit burns and it's just not enjoyable. I'd rather just eat out or throw something in the microwave, it all ends up In the same place anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:10 AM
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What the heck is flirty eye contact supposed to look like?
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:07 PM
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I don't really know dude. Like when a friend compliments me on my looks its similar to when my mom or one of my aunt's says "what a handsome young man you are" like of course they're gonna say that because they care about me. But that doesn't mean its true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:53 AM
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Yeah i do, most times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:38 PM
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I mean compliments from my male friends don't really mean much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:11 PM
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How does one even flirt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:11 PM
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That's exactly why i liked it, the idea of going to a different city doesn't sound too bad either tbh. Clubs and bars wont be reopening basically till the end of summer along with most places that where a lot of people would gather. So i guess it might have to wait a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:17 PM
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Thank you, this is the most straight forward explanation someone has giving me about flirting. Now i guess i just need to gain the confidence to actually say something like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:59 PM
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As someone who doesn't understand how to flirt, could you please explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:29 PM
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Both of you guys made really good points
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:27 PM
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There's plenty, just join a Hispanic anime community and you'll see them everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:42 PM
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Dude i just checked and you're so right. It looks like they mostly comment on clearly attractive peoples post, mostly womens and give them 5-6 ratings. Such a weird place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:46 PM
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What's wrong about that though? Its just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:32 PM
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I mean some dudes lower their standards so they can actually get laid, i don't think its a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:28 PM
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Yep, i'm totally a nurse 😂
/r/MGTOW17/04/20 06:13 PM
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Sorry bro but when did thoughts and prayers ever solve anything? Imagine being mad at this lmao
/r/MGTOW17/04/20 05:08 PM
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I agree, getting the date and the date actually happening are the hardest parts. I had my first date ever a few months ago and I'll admit I was pretty nervous about it, but when I texted the girl that I was on my way and she told me she was already there. So her being 20 mins early somehow helped me relax. We talked for like two hours and had a really good time, 2nd date never happened but I guess this is how these things work.
/r/seduction06/01/20 05:35 AM
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Its probably easier to realize after you had it loo
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:16 AM
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Yoo Boston here boi what's good!
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:51 AM
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Boston hereeee
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:50 AM
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Oh I usually take a while to text back because i'm usually busy, even when I'm not I just wait a bit before responding.
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:21 AM
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I check out some of his videos and they're pretty good, thanks for the advice man!
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:19 AM
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Part of my concern is her becoming bored because I get sick of texting pretty quickly, so I think I might be asking her out. But yeah, you are right on that first part, I my attitude does need some tweaking
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:35 AM
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Tomorrow three days will have passed, so I guess that means I'll be good to call her? Also, do you think I should ask her out soon?
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:33 AM
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We sometimes reply quickly but we're both pretty busy. So should I just like call with like no heads up?
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:09 AM
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k kkk
/r/seduction13/04/19 09:24 PM
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I completely understand the work thing and you're right about me over thinking this too much. I was gonna ask for a number but got kinda nervous and went for that instead, being around so many people didn't help lol. Thanks for the advice though!
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:26 AM
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Like retail? Cuz it hasn't for me lol
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:18 AM
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Is there actually a brotherhood? Because i would like to join lol
/r/seduction14/11/18 05:17 AM
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