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| 45 | How I became MGTOW | Itz_VonVon | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 03:43 PM | |
| 3 | I Wished everyone Merry Christmas and this was her response | Itz_VonVon | /r/MGTOW | 25/12/19 11:29 PM |
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| 1 | Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic.Yea unfortunately she doesnt seem too interested her responses take forever and she doesnt seem too enthused. While ur free to do what you like id prolly just say ive decided to go out with someone else tuesday you dont seem too interested. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic.From experience if she makes excuses its a no go but sometimes she can be genuinely busy . So I usually say if I give a date and get an excuse ask again if its another excuse drop it unless she provides a date to reschedule to then maybe. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?Also just to add on a quote I get from women when they see my book collection. "guys obsessed with self improvement tend to feel too perfect and boring and makes me feel like I need to be better to deserve him but you have ur flaws and feel more real" I paraphrased it a bit but most have said something along this line. Being too perfect can feel to out of range for her and make her feel she doesnt deserve you yet. Have ur quirks and flaws and she doesnt feel like ur too above her but rather that… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?Think the diff between you and the certified sex haver is he seems more comfortable with himself and operates from a place of I do what I want for the benefit of me. In my opinion Most guys including myself when we start are journey of self improvement its done from a place of I want to improve my odds in the dating market vs most guys who were alreadt getting laid and not working on themselves who just did things from a place of this is fun I wanna do it. I understand where your coming from tho… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrongTo add to this you dont always get the girl right away sometimes it takes time for them to come around. Weeks months sometimes a year later. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrongYea I know what thats like been there before still happens occasionally. A girl is a waste of time if she makes it hard to get a first or second date. If she takes hours or days to reply waste of time. Always making excuses waste of time. Although your vibe can be throwing them off. What I would do is to approach different women ones that you are attracted to and ones you arent into at all. Talk to them make a mental note of how the interaction went and then write it down. After that change ur a… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrongHow to be an Asshole? ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF ABOVE EVERYONE. Dont strive to be an asshole strive to become a mam whos valued. Work on having better fashion Better Haircut Work out so you have a great body Learn to have a convo Learn to flirt Learn when and how to get physical with women. Approach and talk to women Learn to know which ones are wasting ur time. Make more money and do everything the inner kid wanted to do. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:10 PM |
| 6 | What am I doing wrongExactly never had a girl who wanted to sleep with me say im nice till after knowing me for a while its always "I hate you " or "you asshole" | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:00 PM |
| 5 | What am I doing wrongCouldnt say it any better myself | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?Not worth the trouble my friend while you can get laid its alot of jumping through hoops. If ur looking for something long term sure. But if its smash or pass honestly the effort isnt worth it plus its dishonest lying to get close to them. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?From my experience it gets better the older u get im 24 and while dating and getting girls is an up and down trend ive realised the older I get the more opportunities come. Im not rich or in a great place financially but I can cover my needs and stuff. I work out and take care of myself both inner and outer and women tend to like that alot. So id say work out and stay healthy u dont need to be buff. Dress well. Read books and level up ur mind so that you are emotionally stable and confidence wil… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Things you can do to become more attractiveTo simplify If shes laughing at you , your the clown If she laughing with you , your frame is still good If your laughing at her youre a jerk Best thing is to Strike a balance between humor n tension. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 0 | I'm gentle and intimate during sex, which apparently is bad?Too much to explain but basically u gotta mix it up . Umm think Daniel rose has a book call sex for method or something like that I can prolly find the audio book on YouTube give it a listen | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Please helpBro never desire to fight another guy over ur girl. That's how you get killed or end up in jail and someone still ends up plowing her. A lot of us have been there too best thing you can do is avoid parties n go take care of yourself and take ur time to heal. If u really wanna make it burn then try meeting n hooking up with a lot of girls too just as how she flirting pisses u off u doing the same will piss her off. And most likely she did it to piss u off cuz that's what women do. Nothing hurts a… | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | She doesn’t know that I’ve gained weight..Also king don't let them Covid 19 pounds gather up start burning them off trust me they crept up on me and I gained 20 pounds and I'm tryna burn it off it aint easy | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | She doesn’t know that I’ve gained weight..Ohh well most of my points still stand tho only change would be how slow you take it then since u already hit it you should be alright with hanging out near ur place and carrying things back there. Or Go for it right of the bat invite her over and see how it goes. Lemme know what happens either way. | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 0 | She doesn’t know that I’ve gained weight..Mention it first the worst thing you can do is have her think u look the same and then be disappointed. Secondly just jokingly slide it in while talking with her at least it won't be a big deal if u joke about it. E.g.. yeah Alot of things have changed since u last saw me I'm a lot more cuddly now... then slowly let her know u gained a little weight. You risk her losing interest when you tell her either way but it's best you tell her than to disappoint her when she sees you. Plus if she is that … | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 05:46 AM |
| 17 | Date flaked on me last minute.If a girl flakes and doesn't suggest a time, suggest another time at a later date DO NOT NEGOTIATE more than once e.g. Hey since tomorrow isn't gud how about Saturday? If she gives an excuse just say OK and DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN. She will either never text u back or be like hey I'm free x day u free? By which you say no and set a date on your term DO NOT NEGOTIATE because if u say yes to her suggestions u seem available and she will flake again . If she doesn't message u back... great I get to s… | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 03:04 AM |
| 4 | How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women?Bonus: Relationships aren't all that these days. Enjoy your life as best as you can | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 7 | How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women?I lost my virginity at 16 at the time I was in high school and most guys I hung out with were getting laid on the regular. Meanwhile for me I had no luck . I don't want this post to be long... here are my two scents, I'm 23 now I've gotten laid quite often since then. Money and looking fit won't get you girls. Meeting women and developing your social skills will. Money and looks just bring you up on the status scale which if you don't have the tools to utilize, then what's the point. Patience Fr… | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 09:33 PM |
| -1 | Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way?Tbh I'd say just do it get it out the way , youre a virgin so most likely ur giving off a desperation vibe that kinda kills your chances with women, you'll most likely be like wow sex this is really what I was chasing... then ur gonna get over it after you've done it and be a lot more relaxed around women. It will not be an addiction as long as you don't use it as a substitute for meeting women and interacting with them and building a relationship. When we go without sex for a while we get despe… | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 7 | If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically?My thoughts exactly she prolly called Chad the next day to toss her salad but if he's lucky he'll have another shot | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 33 | If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically?Dude if a girl invites you to her place or offer to come over.... initiate. Stop treating this like women are dumb animals that don't know what they're doing cuz they do. The only way she doesn't want you to initiate is If ur at her place and she constantly maintains a distance . | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here read "Open Her" by Karen Brody?Read it... models was more useful but having many references is good because you can test n figure out what works n what doesn't | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 15 | How Do I Confidently Express My Sexuality As A Man?Try to be as relaxed as possible from my experience trying to or trying not to be sexual will come off as weird or creepy. I've had the most consistent success when I'm relaxed and nonchalant about flirting or bringing up sex the less of a big deal u make it out to be the better. In terms of being Charismatic and charming ; Smile, maintain confident body language, relax your shoulders, head up. Talk about you, make her talk about herself, talk about n make fun of the surrounding or someone in yo… | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What can a man do if he wants sex but he is going on his way?Strippers, or just meet n bang women going your own way doesnt mean being celibate it means doing whatever you want to the best of your ability and the greatest benefit to you without harming another or breaking the law | /r/MGTOW | 06/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How I became MGTOWWhenever I could I would but often times I didn't because they'd often direct theyre anger at me as if I knew she was taken | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How I became MGTOWOK let me clarify sumn before you judge me wrong. I was cheated on so I have a rule never to bang a girl I KNOW is in a relationship. She's gonna screw someone's regardless but it won't be me... The women I banged who were married or about to be I found out AFTER the sex they'd either tell me or I'd see them with a ring on another time or something... It doesn't take much to hide a ring and lie. | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 9 | How I became MGTOWYup I was blinded by love back then and ignored the signs... My father would've knocked me out if he was alive n knew I let that slide.. | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | How I became MGTOWAwesome | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, don’t be this guy.Natural selection why aren't you doing your thing? Natural selection : I would.... but that's too fucked up and I don't wanna be a part of that | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 02:44 PM |
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