Iva3442 Archive

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3	Can you help me clear up a few general dating questions? Yes (in most cases, nothing in this world is ever guaranteed). There are plenty of women who will fuck a guy with very little effort on his part. If he's only out to get laid, he'll drop you for easier pussy if you make him court you first.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/15 03:53 AM
6	Can you help me clear up a few general dating questions? Everyone hates the "so are we" talks, deal with them and do them anyways. A guy who gets all squeamish about it isn't a guy you need to be giving it up to in the first place, if he doesn't respect the fact that you don't fuck outside of the context of a relationship, you don't need to be wasting yourself on him anyways. Lay it out on the table. Tell him that you want the two of you to be in an exclusive, committed relationship before you get sexually involved. If he tries to tell you "let's just…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/15 03:48 AM
3	Can you recover from this? I like having access to a male perspective on issues like this, thank you. That goes for you too, Bortasz!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/15 01:22 PM
3	Can you recover from this? I'll have one, and consider it a token from you :) I'm glad I could be helpful, the sting will go away with time.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/15 04:47 AM
27	Can you recover from this? This is going to fucking suck, but I've been there, so here goes. You're going to have to cut all ties with him. You shouldn't be friends with this guy anymore, and it may even benefit you to express a certain degree of open contempt for him. Firstly, it isn't likely that he's going to see you as LTR material regardless of what you do with yourself. If by some chance he does want to be in a relationship with you, he can do the chasing. So that's reason number 1 to cut ties with him, he has nothi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/15 03:16 AM
4	He doesn't want a Red Pill woman. I'm not sure how exactly you described "Red Pill Woman" but I get the feeling that the way they percieved it was something along the lines of "sex doll that cooks". In any case, the men's board has a very good rule: Do not talk about Red Pill. Implement it in your lifestyle, don't talk about it. Society is still in a place where agreeing with such philosophies is considered bad or wrong, and nobody's going to openly agree with it (especially not a guy) because they don't want to be percieved as …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/15 03:28 AM
3	Teasing It completely depends on the man. Some men like the play and will play back, some men get offended and hurt by it. Pay attention to his cues. And, as in all things, don't dish out anything that you can't take, because men will tease right back.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/15 02:22 PM
6	How do we prevent aging and the wall? Stay out of the sun. It'll dry you out like a prune. Don't you EVER touch a cigarette. Not ever. Collagen creams are a load of crap. A collagen particle is too large to be absorbed transdermally. Use a good antioxidant cream on a regular basis. And sunscreen. Stay hydrated. Start exercising regularly now. Your metabolism is probably ridiculously high right now, but it won't be that way forever, and a regular exercise regiment is much easier to maintain as an established habit than to start up ou…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/15 02:51 AM
2	TRP: Life isn't a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning. (women should do the same?) What a wonderful feminist you are. You might fit in better with the TwoXChromosomes board, I hear they love taking the brutal realities of evolutionary psycology and labeling it "slut shaming". But hey, don't take it from me, take it to your bros on TRP and ask them if they'd rather marry a girl who's fucked 30 guys or a girl who's fucked 3. You might be astonished and dismayed by the amount of slut shaming that goes on among men too.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/15 07:44 PM
5	TRP: Life isn't a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning. (women should do the same?) To put it bluntly, every dick that goes inside your vagina makes you slightly less appealing to every future dick that could possibly go inside your vagina. Fewer sex partners = a higher female smv. As none of these women wound up marrying you, their sexual investment in you was wasted, as they are now slightly more "used" in the eyes of potential husbands than they would be if they had not entered into a relationship with you. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to vilify you, you're a guy doing…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/15 04:57 AM
1	PSA and Discussion: Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship and TRP/RPW A stable, lifelong relationship with a faithful, high status man? I thought that that's what it was about, anyways.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/15 04:48 AM
1	PSA and Discussion: Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship and TRP/RPW This kind of smells like concern trolling to me. But okay. Don't go to TRP for guidance or really any correlation with RPW. TRP is a board designed for men to get what they want out of sex. RPW is a board for women to get what they want out of sex. The ideal sex life and sexual motivations for a man are extremely different from the ideal sex life and sexual motivations for a woman. If you can actually provide links to comments that explicitely advocate these behaviors and get affirmation from th…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/15 04:34 AM
3	TRP: Life isn't a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning. (women should do the same?) I mean, that's awesome for you, but you haven't married any of these chicks, therefore, their tactics with you did not benefit them in any way. No RPW is in this to be someone's girlfriend, we're pretty much in it for the wife game. Essentially what you've told us all is "Every single one of my girlfriends gave it up fast, and I, in turn, gave them up just as fast". The girls who didn't use their pussy got nexted, okay. But it sounds like the girls who did use their pussy also got nexted, they j…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/15 04:27 AM
18	Becoming a better screener Don't date your fellow students. Date older men, college aged guys aren't looking for long term relationships, and when they do get to a point that they want a long term relationship (that isn't happening anytime soon), they'll most likely be seeking a younger woman themselves. You'll have a better idea of what an older man is going to be doing with his life anyways. As far as screening goes? Just don't sleep with them right away. The ones who are just looking for an easy lay will move on, the o…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/15 01:38 PM
2	50 Shades of Grey Why thank you! I'll add them to my list :)	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/15 03:00 PM
7	50 Shades of Grey I'm... gonna tackle this post from the standpoint of a person who, admittedly, reads a ton of erotica. Unless you're reading Anais Nin or Anne Rice, all erotica is bad. Most of it is terribly written. Most porn out there is also lacking in character development and compelling plotlines. But that's okay. Because that's not what porn is about. And that's not what erotica is about. If you're ever curious, go on amazon, and explore the other erotica that's available out there. It's so bad. But it's …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/15 07:29 PM
4	From a guy: could use your advice with a LTR She most likely believes that she's always going to play second fiddle to your mother and sister, financially and emotionally, and there's a very good chance she's right. She wants your resources to be invested in her and the children you will eventually have with her, not invested in your mother and sister. She's most likely under the impression that you're never going to propose to her. Which poses a giant problem for her, because she's 28. If she breaks up with you now, the possibility of her…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/15 11:58 PM
1	I struggle with fear of abandonment. Any advice? I never considered that there might be a formula, and it totally makes sense. Thanks, man.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/15 02:43 AM
1	I struggle with fear of abandonment. Any advice? The thing is, a woman's SMV lowers over time, a man's stays steady and in some cases increases. If you plan for a slight decline and loyalty is a big priority for you, in the long run, you and your husband's smv should wind up evenly matched, and then you don't have to worry about a husband comparing you to more desirable women he may have been able to land.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/15 01:52 PM
1	I struggle with fear of abandonment. Any advice? Ohhhhhh wow... did not realize I did that. Sorry.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/15 01:50 PM
0	I struggle with fear of abandonment. Any advice? It's a controversial view, I know.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/15 03:19 AM
2	I struggle with fear of abandonment. Any advice? 1: Choose men wisely. If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you. Don't date players, don't date guys with a history of cheating, even if the girl he cheated on was undesirable. 2: While you should and must be attracted to him, there is some validity to the advice "Marry down" 3: You can't control a man and you can't predict his behaviors. The thing you should focus on more than anything else is making yourself to a woman that a man won't want to abandon or risk losing through infidelity. Here'…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/15 02:27 AM
9	How to Become Better? This is rough, and I'm sorry. I say this having no idea where you're from and what your circumstances are, but you may have to relocate. New city, new social circle. If your reputation is that screwed, you may just need a fresh start, if feasible.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/15 04:58 AM
15	Being Childfree and RPW. Are they compatible? It's totally RPW. Women who genuinely do not want children and will have a happy and fulfilling life without them should not have children and they can be totally Red Pill. Where the trouble lies is the multitudes of women who really and truly do want children, but grow up with the "wanting children is a trite and archaic desire, true fulfillment comes from focusing on your career" message shoved down their throats. Many of them believe this message, and realize (somewhere in their 30-40s) that …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/15 04:24 AM
7	Incidences of masculinity and femininity in Western Society and the Control that Mastering Them Provides I loved this post. And I especially loved the fact that you acknowledged that alpha and beta traits are both desirable and necessary in a healthy relationship. Too often I see "alpha" and "beta" get used as catch-all phrases for "good" and "bad".	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/15 12:31 PM
8	Maxims for the young RPW. This is excellent! One I would add is "The emotional connection that you require to have sex with a man is not necessarily one that a man requires to have sex with you. Men compartmentalize sex and love in a way that you can not fully understand, and you must not assume that the fact that a man wants to have sex with you is a guarantee that he cares for you." I can't tell you how many friends in high school cried on my shoulder because she banged Quarterback Jack under the bleachers last night a…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/15 01:14 PM
3	Fellow single RPW, where are you meeting/trying to meet men? Heh :) Well, I'm from Texas so I don't know if this applies to your local situation, but if church doesn't work for you, go to the gun range.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/15 01:02 PM
10	Fellow single RPW, where are you meeting/trying to meet men? You could find reformed sluts looking for bb's literally anywhere you look, church or otherwise. However, with that attitude, you're more likely to find nobody in your life whatsoever. Don't bring that level of bitterness against women to this board, please, you have TRP for that.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/15 12:58 PM
3	Fellow single RPW, where are you meeting/trying to meet men? Church. Religiously minded guys are less likely to pump and dump you.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/15 04:18 AM
3	The Red Pill made me depressed. What did it do to you? Share your experience! Every preference, drive, and inclination that I have, and every preference, drive, and inclination that men have is ideal and effective in its goal of continuing and perfecting the human race. My urges and desires and the urges and desires of men are the same instincts that allowed my ancestors to survive generation after generation when so many others died with no genetic lineage left behind, the same instincts that are responsible for my existence on this earth today. These instincts may not m…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/15 08:06 PM
3	Does the education level of a woman matter? It doesn't give you an advantage or a disadvantage. If you want an education, you do it only because you want it, it generally won't help you attract a man.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/15 07:26 PM
1	"Send me a Selfie... No, a sexy one." Just anticipate beforehand that any selfie you take is going to wind up on 4chan someday. A guy saying "send me a selfie, no a sexy one" is essentially telling you "send me something I can masturbate to in case I decide to stop talking to you." Don't do it.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/15 03:17 AM
2	My sister: "I feel like I could gain 100 pounds and my SO would still stay with me". I'd like your advice. I'm going to go ahead and try to post this one more time. Give him a copy of this http://www.amazon.com/Married-Man-Life-Primer-2011-ebook/dp/B004W0IRQ8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1420726216&sr=8-1&keywords=Married+man+sex+life+primer Then make damn sure he reads it. You're a guy, so if you go to him and tell him frankly that the relationship is in danger and the sense of comfort he has created is smothering the passion, it's going to mean more coming from you than it will coming from your sister (o…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/15 03:15 PM
1	My sister: "I feel like I could gain 100 pounds and my SO would still stay with me". I'd like your advice. Give him a copy of this http://www.amazon.com/Married-Man-Life-Primer-2011-ebook/dp/B004W0IRQ8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1420726216&sr=8-1&keywords=Married+man+sex+life+primer Then make damn sure he reads it. You're a guy, so if you go to him and tell him frankly that the relationship is in danger and the sense of comfort he has created is smothering the passion, it's going to mean more coming from you than it will coming from your sister (or pretty much any woman). MMSL is the best book I've read …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/15 02:17 PM
6	What do religious women think of non-religious men? I'm not religious and even I think of non-religious men as egomaniacal douchebags who are only taking the non-religious stance as a desperate attempt to lash out at their parents/society and feed a special snowflake obsession with being superior to their peers without ever actually doing something superior with their lives. I know it's incredibly nasty, judgemental, and harsh, but the Fedora wearing Brony atheists of the world have ruined atheism/agnosticism/ambivalence to religion in general fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/15 04:21 AM
2	RPW with mental health issues. TL;DR: I'm batshit crazy and it's ruining my relationship. Has anyone successfully managed their mental health problems to have a happy red pill relationship? She sounds pretty legit. Focus more on the advice that goes along the lines of "how to change your behavior" rather than "how to change him to accommodate your behavior". For the reasons A) he sounds like his patience is thread bare right now and B) there's no guarantee that he's going to make that adjustment, and he isn't obligated to.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/15 04:11 AM
14	RPW with mental health issues. TL;DR: I'm batshit crazy and it's ruining my relationship. Has anyone successfully managed their mental health problems to have a happy red pill relationship? Your therapist seems to be telling you "get your man to do more" when you're very obviously telling us that the guy has no reserves left. Tell me a bit about your therapist's approach to therapy, is she CBT, does she work with borderline patients a lot? Unfortunately I seem to have burnt him out. Now when I cry there is no more warmth. I feel completely alone This is a very telling part of your post and I invite you to analyze it. You cry, and the fact that there is no more warmth is distressing…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/15 04:42 PM
3	Infidelity/"Beta" LTR Alpha traits and beta traits happen on a continuum, and a guy should be capable of displaying both behaviors. A pure alpha is going to give you the hottest sex of your life along with the 40 other girls he's juggling, and the moment you develop crow's eyes, he'll abandon you. A pure beta will be loyal and stable and so insufferably boring that you'll be begging him to abandon you. One is bad for creating a stable home in which you can successfully raise a family, one is bad for creating any spar…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/15 03:57 AM
3	Is virginity the gold standard? Oh hell yeah, the cartoons were awesome :)	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/15 03:07 AM
4	Is virginity the gold standard? Those are rough questions, and I for one, appreciate how fucked up it is that I have no idea where love fits into the courtship process, or how to define it. As a clumsy stab at it though? I think we fall in love when we're ready to fall in love, and if you meet someone loveable when you're not in a mindset to be in love, you'll pass them right by. One of the most haunting quotes that I ever heard was "people don't marry their one true love, they marry whoever it is that they're in a relationshi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/15 03:01 AM
3	Is virginity the gold standard? Good questions, very good questions. I personally would reveal that information only if/when she asks about it, not because you have something horrible to hide, but as a sign that you don't let that part of your past define you. (Different guidelines apply for promiscuous girls, I think.) As for good evidence of past behavior being in the past, you might want to start a separate, dedicated thread for this, both on RPW and TRP. I know a dynamic that would work within my social circle, but I think…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/15 02:55 AM
1	Do we really have no value?? 1) A lot of those guys are in the anger phase, don't let it get you down. 2) TRP is a board by men for men. And as unsavory as it may seem... that's just sort of the way that men talk when you get them together in a male dominated social setting (excluding the Freemasons. I think.). They can get kind of crass.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/15 02:44 AM
7	No, Your Intelligence Isn't the Problem "He's intimidated by my intelligence" is code for "My ego is too fragile to accept the fact that men aren't attracted to my FUPA and bitchy attitude, so I'm going to attribute it to my intellect so they can seem like the bad guys." "Men only want stupid bimbos, they aren't attracted to intelligent women like me" is the female equivalent of "Women only go after assholes, they aren't attracted to nice guys like me."	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/15 03:35 AM
10	Is virginity the gold standard? Pretty much what Kizombeiro said, the seductive appeal of reforming the bad boy. Swallowing the pill is rough, and one of the roughest things about it is coming to terms with the reality that you are not special. Girls get sold a million stories and wild fantasies that some tough, promiscuous alpha bad boy is going to come into their lives, and he’s so wild and so untameable, but then he meets us, and there’s something about us that’s SO special, SO unique that he turns his back on all of it and…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/15 03:19 AM
10	Is virginity the gold standard? Actually, yeah, you definitely can. Most girls do believe that men can transition from promiscuity to monogamy, but those two lifestyles are mutually exclusive. The less savvy girls out there are going to believe that they can convince a man to make that transition out of love, the smarter girls out there are going to realize that a man’s desire to go from plate spinning to LTRs has to come from within and that if he’s not in a place where he wants a relationship, no amount of love, sex, or affe…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/15 02:59 AM
21	Is virginity the gold standard? Unfortunately man, gauging his commitment starts before the first date, before the possibility of a first date is even discussed. Take a girl for instance, she could be as virginal and virtuous as a nun, but if she's got her tits spilling out of her shirt, a skirt that barely covers her ass, and a Betty Boop tattoo on her neck, you're probably going to write her off as wife material before even approaching her. Same goes for men. It isn't fair exactly, but stereotypes exist for a reason. If a gu…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/15 09:26 PM
4	Is virginity the gold standard? The ex should be placed on the same level as any other female friend in that case. No special treatment, no interactions with her in any setting other than a public social setting with other mutual friends.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/15 09:21 PM
22	Is virginity the gold standard? The problem is that when you take a guy who's constantly gaming girls, you have no guarantee whatsoever that he isn't going to do the same thing to you. A top tier 10/10 ubermench alpha billionaire is every bit as useless as an Omega niceguy if his only intention is to fuck you and discard you with the rest of his whores. An ideal man is one who has the potential to game girls as often as he pleases, but chooses not to in favor of long term relationships. A beta's wife is still better off than a…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/15 09:06 PM
8	Is virginity the gold standard? Ideally? Sex partner count wouldn't factor in too much for me as long as he wasn't a virgin (unless he's relatively young) or a complete man whore. The number of serious relationships he's been in sort of matters (if he falls madly in love with anything that says 'hello' to him, it doesn't spell good things for you when it comes to monogamy and stability. See http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qdfap/the_parable_of_mark_and_lauren/.) The most important factor to me is how intertwined hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/15 05:40 PM
5	Tips for a new rpw? I read the sidebar but I still would like some advice. Also! A side note for makeup beginners. Makeup takes practice, and the time to bust out and perfect your skills for the first time is not 10 minutes before you have to walk out the door to some devastatingly important social function. Take a couple of free hours on the weekend in front of the bathroom mirror and just practice putting on your face and seeing what works and what doesn't. Trust me on this. And when it comes to powder, using a brush gets me way smoother results than using a powder p…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/14 03:01 PM
6	Tips for a new rpw? I read the sidebar but I still would like some advice. You are welcome, and I'm glad you liked it! Unfortunately, a sad fact of the computer/video game enthusiast community is that a lot of them don't work out. Hopefully, you can inspire them to change their habits by setting an example. Don't you ever downgrade your value to make yourself seem less "intimidating" though. If a man is imtimidated by a woman, either one of two things is happening: A) The woman is actively brandishing a weapon B) The man is a pussy, and you sure as hell don't want to p…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/14 02:52 PM
19	Tips for a new rpw? I read the sidebar but I still would like some advice. Most of my friends are also feminist and strive to be dominant over men. Thus in order to become a rpw, I'm in an environment that would be much less supportive and accepting. Almost all of my friends are 'you go, girl' neo feminists who piss with rage a the mention of Red Pill or anything that hints at it. It sucks, but you deal. Implement Red Pill philosophy in the way you live and the way you conduct yourself, it's not necessary to talk about it to the public (that's what you have this board …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/14 02:21 PM
5	What do women think about this "sexodus" "opting out of relationships" trend men are doing? Is love lost? Well, let me clarify on that, it’s not really a big deal for anyone frequenting this board. I personally think that the loss of men from the sexodus will be marginal at worst, but let’s say for the sake of argument that 20% of men drop out of the game. Under ordinary circumstances, when women and men pair up with each other, the 10s pair off with 10s, 6’s pair off with other 6’s, 2s pair off with 2s, etc. And then the sexodus takes place. Women who are 10s will continue to pair off with men who …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/14 04:33 PM
6	What do women think about this "sexodus" "opting out of relationships" trend men are doing? Is love lost? It's not really that big a deal. The women who don't know how to attract and keep a man will run the risk of spinsterhood. The women who do know how to attract and keep a man will just have to step their game up to attain and maintain a relationship. Women who cultivate their looks, learn to cook, and aren't complete bitches to their men will come out of it just fine.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/14 04:51 AM
4	Advice About Paternity Tests Only if people are unkind to her.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/14 10:52 PM
8	Advice About Paternity Tests I don't think you're actually stressed on whether he's had a paternity test done on his kids, I think you're stressed about the prospect of marrying a guy with two children from previous relationships, and the prospect of having to split financial and emotional resources between your future children and his current children. Yes you are being self serving. Human beings are, by nature, self serving, so don't get mired in self loathing about it, it's just going to warp your view of your motivation…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/14 09:48 PM
0	Feel like I am failing as a girlfriend. On letting the conversations drift into the topics you want to talk about naturally? They probably won't. Just bring them up. Men generally should be the ones to take the initiative on things, but when it comes to vebal communication, that tends to be a domain where women dominate. Don't expect a man to take the initiative in a traditionally feminine domain, just start the conversation. Do it. You have to do it. If you're not sure what his stance on marriage, kids, or the future is, then you rea…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/14 09:42 PM
5	I'm tall and self-conscious because it makes me feel unfeminine. Can RPW weigh in on this? 5'8 and a half. This thing that you are worrying yourself about is not a thing to be worried about. Retain your femininity? There's nothing unfeminine about you. You're tall. If you've got huge biceps or broad shoulders you might have a problem, but tall? Dudes don't care. If someone does care, fuck 'em, you never had a chance to get with that guy anyways, so why downgrade your appearance to temporarily impress him? Are you sure that heels are crushing your chance to get with guys? Like, have yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/14 02:17 AM
2	Getting through the hard stuff together in a marriage- maybe a FR? I hope for the best for both of you, both in regards to the children and the marriage. This is an awesome post on how to keep a relationship strong in midst of a really awful situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/14 12:02 PM
1	Those celebrating a long, happy marriage, what was the kicker to change the dynamic? Haven't been in your situation personally, but I've been told that the Married Man Sex Life stuff by Athol Kay is a good resource (there is guidance for women too, despite the name). Best of luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/14 11:59 AM
18	I need advice on a boyfriend who seems to be unwilling to commit. Guys don't bring girls home from bars with the intention of "not doing anything with them". And he hasn't even said "I love you" after a year? He's not acting like a pretty good boyfriend, he's acting like a half assed sugar daddy. The dude is plating you, go find someone who wants an actual relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/14 02:09 AM
17	DAE have this "problem"? (Embarrassing... Please be nice) Work those pectorals, girl! Pushups and other muscle building exercises focusing on that region with build your pecotrals up and give your boobs a little boost. Regardless of whether the boobs shrink a bit, overall, you're going to be hotter with the weight loss, so keep at it.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/14 11:27 PM
2	I need to overcome my trust issues & jealousy before it ruins every relationship I ever have. You're not controlling and crazy. Or maybe you are, but in this situation it's impossible to tell. If I'd been fucking a guy for four months and he was still saying "Yeah, nah, I'm still not 100% sure what I want to do with you yet" I'd be a bit neurotic too. I'll be honest, he doesn't sound like a good catch, like, at all. But there are plenty of good men out there, and you'll find one (probably not on Tinder, though.)	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/14 02:02 PM
18	I need to overcome my trust issues & jealousy before it ruins every relationship I ever have. We're still dating, we're not official. GET. OFFICIAL. Get official now. This "just dating" thing is a waste of your time. Get official. No wonder you're jealous and insecure, you have absolutely no idea where you are, what you mean to him, or where this is going. Get official. If he won't get official with you, next him, immediately, he is playing you. And I know I'm probably, like, twice your age, but the words "Tinder date" fucking make my skin crawl. Since you're four months in, I'm going to…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/14 03:10 AM
2	Feeding and watering your boyfriend? Can you cook the food at your current location and bring it to him, wherever he's staying?	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/14 09:42 PM
13	Things I've learned as an attorney to make me a better RPW A while back, some book came out called "Executive Presence" that was all about helping women succeed and be taken seriously in the workplace. A pack of my dumbass female acquaintences lost their shit about it because it featured advice along the lines of "Dress professionally, don't yell, don't get overemotional". This advice was completely sexist, women should be able to be taken seriously in the workplace even if her tits are spilling out of her shirt, a woman should be able to dress any way …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/14 09:32 PM
8	Boyfriend won't drop the threesome thing. What should I do? Ai yai. I think there's actually a red pill thread on a similar subject as this right now. You're either threesome friendly or not threesome friendly. Various sex acts can't suddenly become more or less palatable to you depending on how badly you want this guy to wife you. You were open to a threesome when you weren't serious about the relationship and you're not open to a threesome now that you are serious about the relationship. Here's the message that sends to a guy "While you are plating me,…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/14 07:34 PM
8	Question: How do you feel about "never say no?" The thing is, (assuming you're a girl) imagine if some funny/weird/profound thing happens to you one morning and you just can't wait to tell your man about it when you see him that night, and you're all worked up and excited and then you come home or he comes home and you rush up to him and say "Baby, you won't believe the funny/weird/profound thing that happened to me today-" and he says "Sorry honey, I'm busy/tired/have a headache, I don't want to talk tonight." and you just spend the rest of …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/14 01:26 AM
2	Can a red pill woman be a doctor? Sure you can! But there are prices to be paid for everything. If you're aiming for a red pill household (ie: The man makes the bulk of the income, your take care of the household and family) then that's going to be really, really tricky to pull off. Doctors have next to no free time, and if you're planning to have children in the future, it's going to be extremely difficult to find time for both your career and your kids. A pretty excellent compromise (that gets next to no PR despite how the pro…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/14 08:43 PM
14	Why do men say they don't like make up on women? "I don't like makeup on women" Lies. Lies lies lies, lies. But generally they don't know they're lying. When a guy says "I don't like makeup on women" what he probably means is "I like a woman who looks like she has no makeup on, but still looks hot". This is the "natural look". It requires an insane amount of makeup and proper technique to pull off correctly. The ideal is a woman who looks absolutely drop dead gorgeous sans makeup. A true natural beauty. Most women aren't natural beauties. I lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/14 01:19 AM
10	The Double Standard "Would an average sized rowboat support you without capsizing?"	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/14 01:01 AM
6	The pill, histocompatibility complex genes, and sexual satisfaction/attraction I've heard a theory that the hormonal influence from birth control pills could be responsible for a fair number of divorces, actually. Essentially, a woman meets a man while she's on hormonal birth control, she's attracted to his (I dunno, pheremones? Hormonal makeup?), she falls in love, they get married, she goes off of birth control, finds that she's now attracted to a completely different hormonal makeup, no longer finds her man attractive, falls out of love, divorce and massive amounts of h…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/14 12:59 AM
1	Has hypergamy made your romantic life better or worse? Why/How? There is no better or worse. Women are hypergamous by nature, there's no non-hypergamous state that we would be aware of to compare it to. Asking us if hypergamy has made our romantic life better or worse is like asking us if being bipedal organisms has made our walking experience better or worse. We dunno.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/14 01:03 AM
1	What does RPW think about female hypergamy? You hear a lot of bitching and rage about females being hypergamous. It's survival of species at work and nothing to get mad or worked up over. It's a sexual strategy that allowed human women to produce high quality offspring, who knows, it may have been one of the reasons homo sapiens didn't die off when so many other species did. Getting pissed about women being hypergamous is like getting pissed about men seeking out young chicks with big tits. In monogamous cultures like ours, hypergamy does…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/14 12:52 AM
11	Approaching the wall Okay. You've got crippling self esteem issues. Like, for serious. You're probably not as ugly as you think you are because you're seeing yourself through shit colored glasses, but on the off chance that you are ugly, whatever. Ugly girls get husbands and have families all the time. It's a disadvantage, not a death sentence. You probably won't wind up with the same sort of guy that a 19 year old supermodel will. The dude you wind up with may be older, beta, or ugly himself. Whatever. Comparison i…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/14 05:56 AM
2	Approaching the wall ^ Thanks for the clarification, chica.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/14 05:03 AM
2	My Relationship Doesn't Seem To Be What I Thought It Was. You aren't crazy, but I think you might be young. Men think about all the other girls they could be sleeping with on a more or less constant basis because it's the way they're wired. It doesn't mean they're going to act on these feelings, but all the love and adoration in the world isn't going to shut those feelings down. That's biology and hormones at work. Think of it this way. Do you binge eat a gallon of Haagen Dazs every night? Of course you don't. But you know the Haagen Dazs is available.…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/14 04:16 AM
1	Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up? First things first, you're two days out from this. Your wounds are still raw. You're not going to be able to think straight for a bit, much less make rational long term decisions. There's no normal recuperating time. It's going to be its own thing that progresses in its own way (probably not linearly). Take each day as it comes. Be patient with yourself, and be patient with your emotions. This could hurt for a while. Keeping touch with him is not a horrendously bad move, but it is a bad move. Th…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/14 01:40 AM
3	RPW opinion on pushup bra? A hot wife is a status symbol for a man. My husband loves it when I look my absolute best when we're out, because when I look good, he looks good.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/14 06:06 PM
9	RPW opinion on pushup bra? Woah NO. Like, not no to the push up bra thing, sure, wear it if it looks awesome and doesn't completely exaggerate what you're packing (basically do exactly what BlackMilkwPinkNails says) but the whole "the only attribute for a woman is her youth and appearance" needs a bit of clarification, chica. If you're after a guy for a roll in the hay and nothing else, (basically, if you're what RP guys call a "plate") then, yes, your youth and appearance are pretty much going to be the only things that …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/14 03:05 AM
8	Collected Thoughts on the Street Harassment Video. There wasn't much harassment at all in this video. Most of it was just guys going "She's attractive, I wonder if she'd be receptive to sexual advances. No? Okay, time to move on with my life." If this counts as harassment, the majority of these guys are the politest, most gentlemanly harassers I've ever seen in my life.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/14 03:18 AM
2	How to deal with not being in the mood? If penetration hurts, this could be a medical issue. If you're hurting because you're dry, have him do more foreplay before you get down to business, or invest in some KY. If you're lubed up and it's still hurting, you should schedule some time with your obgyn to talk about this. It's called dysparaunia, and it's not uncommon.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/14 11:11 PM
15	Body acceptance v fat acceptance Don't. Say. A. Word. Seriously, I hate to give that advice, but as the thinnest girl in a group of overweight chicks, the shitstorm of outrage that you will find yourself swept away in if you even mention the possibility of losing weight is not, I repeat NOT, worth the exceedingly slim possibility that your advice will cause them to make a meaningful change in their lives. There's nothing wrong with fat acceptance as a concept. Fat acceptance is totally fine. Unfortunately, most girls in the fat…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/14 06:31 PM
5	Advice on meeting his friends for the first time Oh my God, no!! Wear your heels! It's the way that the two of you conduct yourselves that's going to establish power dynamics, not how tall you are compared to him. Trust me, the perk that heels add to your legs and butt is more than going to make up for the tiny little boost in your height. As for how to conduct yourself, don't sweat it. Seriously. Let him steer the conversation and don't interrupt, but participate in the conversation. If the group is discussing something you're familiar with a…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/14 02:24 PM