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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, kinda. But it's been a rough fucking ride so far. I want something more than "born in the first world" to be thankful for and I'm tired of struggling endlessly where some people just seem to glide effortlessly. I know my options boil down to "keep trying or give up" but fuck me if "keep trying" doesn't feel harder and harder to justify over time; I'm just so far behind and I can't seem to improve enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 07:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just want things to turn out well for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 07:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. As a lonely dude with recurring depressive symptoms, I can tell you first hand that life gets so much easier to tolerate when I think my romantic life is going well. I have an easier time taking care of myself and pursing my goals, I enjoy my hobbies more, hell, swear my morning coffee tastes better. I don't know if I'd call it a need, but I'd sure say it's a component of a life well-lived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 07:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSearching "average woman" online gets me a bunch of above-average women whose pictures I wouldn't feel right sharing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've seen cases where otherwise luckless men were set up with potential partners only to reject them for being unattractive, and I think part of it is what I mentioned there: it's a confirmation of their own self image. The unwillingness of less attractive women to form a relationship with their "looksmatch" would also fall under this (it's right there, looksmatch, a match for her looks). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not talking about most people, I'm talking about people with self-esteem issues. Most people want to fuck hot people, however most people can deal with the fact that since they're within the middle of the bell curve, they likely can't and so fuck not-hot people. I am speculating that in cases where someone is consistently trying to play outside their league, at the expense of their ability to otherwise form relationships, that it likely stems from low, not high self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo there can be no other motive for why someone might obsessively desire only the most attractive partners, even at the expense of their ability to form healthy, satisfying relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think people have the correlation between self-esteem and partner preferences backwards. An attractive person is more likely to have high self-esteems and date desirable partners, but these facts aren't closely related, they're just playing in their league. Whereas someone with low self-esteem would desire better partners as a source of validation, even to the point of trying to play outside their league, since playing within it would confirm their own poor self-image. This is where I think a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a goofy question. Who the fuck has random photos of average people on hand and/or is willing to potentially dox themselves by showing off their acquaintances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:32 PM |
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