IvarIsALie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	What does constitute a HVM?		IvarIsALie	/r/askFDS	13/07/20 09:56 AM

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2	Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable? Think you've said the most important thing in this whole topic: absence of sex doesn't mean absence of mutual attraction. And it is extremely important to show that to your partner, thru something called "love language". Each one of us has their own and it's very important to learn what is the language of your partner, so when at times you do not have as much sex as you wish you'd have both of you still are sure that the attraction is still there and strong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 12:49 PM
0	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women Someone didnt have women in his life when growing up huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:12 AM
1	Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much? Your title is correct, not the post itself. People on the "X pill" are genuinely fucking dumb and overanalyze and hate the other gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 10:10 AM
13	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? Not mad buddy. Just sad that people still are being that cancercringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 12:22 AM
28	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? I am waiting for the day when all the brainlets realise that anyone unironically using beta/alpha terms is genuinely fucking stupid and sounds like a insecure 10yo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 12:21 AM
2	Only promiscuous women can give men actual good dating advice Yeah and there is no adversarial natural relationship between men and women. Hence why it's fucking nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:43 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Read read with understanding what I wrote, young one. I won't repeat mysefl a-fucking-gane, because you just try to misquote me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:32 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Man, report me because i pointed how dumb you act. Come on. Dew it. In the meantime, when you'll be done, educate yourself on words you use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:30 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Thats not I fucking said, to add to list of descriptive insults: you can't fucking read. Scroll up buddy, read thru "people who fall into either or either are mentally damaged individuals" part and "maddona complex is a distinctly male sexual disorder" part aswell. Ten to twenty times, very slowly, so you can understand what I wrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:26 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Buddy, it's not me who sees the world thru the maddona complex eyes (and really, visit a therapist because you really need to work on the causes of it). I don't see anyone as anything but that person, highly recommend. *EDIT: It was just normal insult all the time, using "ad hominem" to sound smart does you no favor. I just called you an uneducated idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:21 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks This is not reverse ad hominem, im just plainly calling you stupid. What you described as "dichotomous thinking" is an opinion which you misunderstand and flex to fit your worldview. It's not "either good father or good" but "that guy fucks well but is a bad father". People who fall into "either or either" are usually mentally scarred and anxiety filled individuals not ready for any kind of relationship .	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:16 PM
2	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Do you really think you are talking with an idiot? Don't twist my words and don't add made up shit to what I said. The 'maddona complex' is a male sexual disorder and don't try to wheasle out of the fact that you had no fucking clue what it actually is but still using it as an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:01 PM
3	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Did we read the same post or are you just making things up? Or maybe you just glanced at it and came to the conclusion you made without reading it? Not even going to mention that the maddona complex is how men look at women (or the be brutally honest and accurate: it's a sexual disorder) not an actual description of female behaviour. Using that as an argument shows you are uneducated and should actively work with a therapist	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:54 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Know of and understand are two extremely different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:43 PM
3	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Hey, it's okay to not know things. Don't fucking throw entire group of people because you don't understand what causes certain types of behaviours (even though you are good example of that despite refusing it)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:32 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks In what way exactly? I read thru the post 3 times now and what you are saying is bs, wondering if I'm suddenly dumb and don't know words mean anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:30 PM
8	Alpha fucks Beta bucks It's "the same story" because, again, that shit is horrifyingly common. It's the "same story" because psychological responses people (or women in this case) have, to deal with such truama, are similar. It's called a psychological pattern for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:22 PM
6	Alpha fucks Beta bucks Yeah they are suspiciously common because sexual assault and rape are horrifingly common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:18 PM
1	Alpha fucks Beta bucks And I wonder how damaged and how badly you deal with that to generalise entire sex because of your bad experience. Wish you get professional help bud, it really makes life much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:13 PM
13	Alpha fucks Beta bucks It is not an excuse but an explanation of her actions. Also, the way she acts - it's so fucking clear that she has deep, psychological trauma (most likely sexual assault) that it's crazy to me noone mentions it. Again, not a fucking excuse you smoothbrains, but an explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 05:06 PM
5	Only promiscuous women can give men actual good dating advice The fish part is one of the most nonsensical things I've read on this sub so far. And that's saying a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 04:07 PM
7	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? For men, this is not only a dating advice but also a outlook on life and it fucking suck and every guy should fucking stop it - "your value as a man equals to how many chicks you can fuck" Nuh brother, a fucking looser with a gf is still a looser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 11:51 PM
1	There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts. That's factually incorrect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 02:02 PM
2	The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry. Great advice as long as accompanied by "don't marry", since if divorce happens your life is most likely gonna get fucked up for a while Literally has fuck all with what I said. Marry if you want said person to be in your life for the rest of it. If you are not antisocial spaz who's communication skills are that of a 4yo, you'll be fine (as a vast majority of marriages are). We are all rootless strangers now. Anyone can be anything to anyone for an intermediate amount of time. Vetting is an ego s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 10:27 PM
6	The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry. Because I am not going to marry someone after two months? Marriage is not some sort of handed down to you decision you have no influence over. If someone I'm dating has fucked up, sexist views - I will not date them, let alone marry them. Good tip for life btw: live an amazing life. Do not let your partner ever be the center of it. Your partner is meant to enrich you, not make you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 10:19 PM
4	The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry. They are both not factual and not mainstream. Many people believe that earth is fucking flat bro. It doesn't make it either mainstream or true. Also, don't take Google, YouTube or other algorithm platform word as gospel. Why? Do you remember one of these "how did I end up here and why is this wierd shit popping up on my homepage 3 weeks later" YouTube benders? Algorithm based platforms create echochambers that are meant to keep you engaged in the platform, not serve you reality. Are these views …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 10:14 PM
3	The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry. All 3 "mainstream ideas" you've stated are so demonstrably false it's fucking funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 10:08 PM
3	CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations. You are mistaking "successful" with "long lasting". There is nothing successful in a marriage when the wife is ruled over a sexist pussy of a man and cheats with a neighbor for decades, it only created two miserable human beings and mentally harmed offspring. A marriage that ended because both parties have realised that the love is gone and respectfully parted ways is infinitely more successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 05:10 PM
2	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Not sure if sarcastic or not, so thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 02:01 AM
3	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. 1) bullshit, all people know a fuckton of things. Yeah, they will have an interest in or two but can be engaged on a mitiad of topic. Every. Single. Human. Being 2) so fucking what they "vocally judge each othe Ron their partner's status". If so, it's time to say 'shut the fuck up bitch' and find new friends. End of that story. You are individual, stop basing your own value on retarded thoughts of retarded people and have value in yourself. Stop crying. And stop making shit up when you don't und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 02:00 AM
1	Can we all agree that power games is fucking exhausting? There is no power games in dating. If you are a normal, functioning human being who's brain is not fried by human interaction - power games do not exist and dating is a whole lotta fun. Stop overcomplicating shit just because you are afraid of women Helen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 01:50 AM
1	Can we all agree that power games is fucking exhausting? Yeah and mgtow mongoloids also believe that women piss out of their vagina and that's Earth is flat. Z	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 01:49 AM
2	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. And super idiotic. As if it is done on purpose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 01:47 AM
21	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Sweet Jesus, stop. Stop spreading this idiotic and toxic idea that mans worth is based on how the opposite sex thinks of him, holy shit. You know your post says, fucking screams even? "I have serious self-esteem issues, I don't value other men as human beings but as marks I compare myself to and I don't treat women as human beings but as dolls that gotta look good, but speak much.' Seriously, woman can be a great partner if she's not a model but is an amazing person. And yes, physical attraction…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 03:08 PM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? Dude, are you surprised? If your opinion is a popular one, then fuck me, nuclear holidays do not seem so bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 06:52 PM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? Yeah, I retract my statement. Some people genuinely shouldn't communicate. Or speak. At all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 05:22 PM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? That's absolutely incorrect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 02:07 PM
3	Men are just as “shallow” as women Yeah, it is "a science".. to a degree. You are trying to portray something as sterile facts, when it can't be done like that due to the "human factor". Our tastes, things we find attractive - are not universal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 02:07 PM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? Learn. To. Fucking. Communicate. Seriously, 99% of the problems men and women have in their relationships is because they can't fucking communicate with each other. Most relationship problems are in fact quite simple to solve and do not have to result in a break-up. So my advice is this: take a course on how to effectively communicate with others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 12:29 PM
4	Men are just as “shallow” as women OH BOI I LOVE THIS ARGUMENT SO MUCH. Because how comically it is presented. My man/woman/however you identify - data you are providing doesn't really prove your point in the slightest. You can't put up one piece of data and say "AHA, THAT IS THE MAGICAL PROOF OF MY POINT" - that's called confirmation bias. The fact that women "swipe right" much less than men is only a starter of a further "study" on differences in behaviour of sexes. It doesn't prove anything but that women and men use dating ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 12:24 PM
2	Men are just as “shallow” as women It's not muddying the waters, it's very descriptive. Most people, both men and women, are extremely shallow. Even those who are not considered as such - still have parts of their personality that are. But the thing is, that it is not a negative unless that shallow part is combined with being a toxic human being. It's okay to like certain things and being completely uninterested in others. We all are fucking shallow and that's fine - as long as we treat eachother with due respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 12:19 PM
3	Promiscuity is bad for men and women Um.. no. It does not make us colder. People who are cold naturally usually sleep around a lot because they don't give a fuck about relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 02:57 AM
2	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? No. I try to live by philosophy of "never regret anything that happened, because it shaped you into a person you are today".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 02:27 PM
1	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Yea, sure they are. Yhym. Sure they are buddy. And you absolutely have no fucked view on human body KEK	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 05:13 AM
0	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Yeah, sure. I'm 99.9999% sure they are just normal women and you expect to fuck a model everyday. Get a grip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 03:22 AM
0	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Wtf do you live? In the middle of woods, 500km from the next human and with no car? Are you a 110cm high hobgoblin that has bigger numbers in his weight than in his height and smells like a mix of rotten tomatoes with onion? I fucking doubt so. Stop crying about not getting laid. Take care of yourself, stop aiming for 10/10 girls when you are a 4 and then you'll start having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 03:08 AM
2	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Nope, never. Sex is amazing and enjoyable. Why would I get rid of the want to do it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 02:27 AM
3	In vino veritas (In wine, there is truth) That's.. sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/21 11:36 AM
1	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. No, it is not erroneous. It is 100% true. When you'll understand the difference between "want" and "need" maybe you'll get it. Hope you can do it asap. And no. You are in no way, shape or form entitled to any social interaction. Why? Because if you were, that would mean that free will, freedom of body and space would be invaded every time you interact with someone. Any social interaction is an act of free will of both parties - and you need a double side consent for that interaction to continue.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 06:39 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Ayy there we go, "ur a gurl lmao" insult. Gotta love your fragile egos	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 05:47 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Trust me I'm not angry. I'm laughing at ya bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 05:39 PM
1	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Didn't say it was near replacement level. Please read what wrote. We were talking about sex being necessary for survival of the species. And it isn't anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 04:13 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) God, I have never read a statement from someone who so hardly never touched a titty in his life. Cool bud, we 100% believe in a fact that your 'girlfriend' is okay with you thinking so lowly about other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 04:04 PM
-2	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. No, I did not claim that all humans need period are the basic survival shit. What I said, quite clearly, that you don't need to bust a nut to live a comfy life and nobody ever is entitled to sex. That's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 04:00 PM
-2	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Yeh. It was. Still is, somewhat. Thankfully, due to modern tech, it's not necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 03:43 PM
-1	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Yeh. It was. Still is, somewhat. Thankfully, due to modern tech, it's not necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 03:43 PM
0	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. It's a response. To what you wrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 03:21 PM
6	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Sorry, but the only people dismantling male friendships are insecure and incapable of communication dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 01:26 PM
10	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Oh dude, visit some incel boards and you'll see plenty of people who think that having sex is their god damn right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 01:25 PM
7	Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be. Brosky/Dudette. Sex is not needed to survive. You won't die without it and having sex doesn't magically make you fucking immortal as your post implies. Sex has become a nice feature of our life, not a tool for survival of the species. Enjoy it. Don't try to make it something it isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 01:24 PM
5	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Yeah trust me, 99.999% of men prefer having sex with their partners than to jack off. Problem with this arises when we look at a couple that does not have a perfect sexual compatibility. Then that case of "just have sex with eachother" can only cover, for a random example, 1/3 of partners sexual needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:45 PM
3	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) It is hard not to have a "type" you are attracted to. Like.. that's normal??	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:41 PM
6	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Not all couples are completely compatible in terms of sexual needs. Hence why masturbation is a really nice tool, as you don't have to feel too "hungry" waiting for your partner to have the want for sex. Argument of "you could just have sex with eachother" does not work, as it sometimes is not possible and either pary wants some relief. (sorry for bad wording at times, english is not my first language)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:39 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) "I cannot feel attracted to a man who has a gross fetish" GOOOD. That's good. Sharing your fetishes and kinks is a very, very important part of the sexual conversation every couple should go thru - if they want to have a satisfying and rich sex life. Or a relationship at all, since hiding certain "special kinks" can lead to a relationship breaking shock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:37 PM
2	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) source plz	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:35 PM
3	The trope that married men are more successful is ridiculous and even dangerous Circumstancial evidence or personal anecdotes prove nothing. Family does not make a man more responsibile. Being responsible for others wellbeing? Yea, that can. That for others might be family, but might be your workers, your dog, whatever. Starting family does not give you some sort of magic insight into life my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 12:45 PM
3	The trope that married men are more successful is ridiculous and even dangerous Idk my man, I interact with quite a lot of people and the only people who try to push marriage on me are some older guys at my job who think that it was the best thing that happened to.them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:25 AM
3	The trope that married men are more successful is ridiculous and even dangerous That's.. not at all true. Yeah, maybe in some circles. Maybe that happened to you. But it is waaaay too specific for you to be able to make even a slightest generalisation out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:24 AM
2	The trope that married men are more successful is ridiculous and even dangerous Fucking where? Maybe X decades ago. But in the western world the only people who genuinely get pressured to put a ring on are women (ofcourse, men who are being pressured to do so also exist). Seriously, we guys are pretty much free to do whatever the fuck we want to. Ladies? Ye sure she can, but what will auntie Welma say to the entire family about her? Societal pressures (that relate to sex, marriage or kids at least) mainly exist on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:15 AM
4	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) It's not only on that sub. Most of the subs that are focused on this kind of thing is just.. oof, hard to stomach for a rational human being. That includes FDS and all the incel boards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:01 AM
3	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) I know they did. But from what I understand it was written like that out of choice, not lack of skill in the language	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:58 AM
11	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) In what world, does watching porn "harrases sexual exclusivity"? Whilst I can and do understand why the thought of your partner masturbating to someone else can make someone uncomfortable and/or not ok with that, comparing it to infidelity is just pure overreaching. edit/addition Also: the way you wrote this makes the post half unreadable. It almost looks like you had a stroke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:45 AM
1	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. Yeah I read it. And literally everything in it is solved with proper communication between two (or more in the cases of non-monogamous relationships) people involved in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/20 03:05 AM
0	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. It is tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/20 02:26 AM
8	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. That's the saddest take I have ever read. Bud, just because you are a failed "player", doesn't mean that women who had plenty of sexual partners are bad romantic partners. Also, really, learn what communication actually means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 02:47 PM
4	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. Not really. Essence of the entire post is "communicate how you feel, what you want and expect". And that's every second post on here. Really, most things do not need more words to explain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 10:01 AM
49	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. It's fucking amazing to me, that this entire sub is overthinking the simple idea of "learn to properly communicate with eachother" without being to say it straight once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 08:50 AM
1	Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to. I'll go even further than you OP - men and women can be friends after the breakup, after having sex etc. It's about being able to communicate and being mature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 02:02 AM
4	Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit test Okay, sometimes. Not always. People forget how powerful human self-reflect and ability to think critically about ourselves actually are. They allow us to not follow our instincts whilst taking them to account together with a multitude of other things. Humans are insanely complicated and individualistic beings and choking it all up to 'at the core we are animals like everything else' is seriously untrue and deeply disrespectful to every human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 07:58 PM
1	Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women? It depends and I think same goes for everyone - no matter if a man or a woman. I genuinely don't think that satisfaction with sex has anything to do with gender or gender identity. It all has to do with: your partner - you can't quess if he's good or not you knowing what you want and like in bed and not being afraid to say so you being able to guide your partner towards mutual pleasure 2/3 but from your partners perspective. That's all. If you are a hypersexual person, don't get into a relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 11:30 PM
2	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR People genuinely are. Men may think that being open and honest makes them less masculine (like the OP does), usually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 04:24 AM
1	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR What can be better? Having a relationship where you are not afraid to speak your mind or have a conversation with your partner? What a wuss thing to say or want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 02:54 AM
3	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR Oh gotcha. If you guys already have a sex life, then having an open communication with her, being very honest and straightforward is even better. Not in 'sit down woman and listen!' kind of way but 'babe, let's talk' way. And dunno if its you or these books but communicating and having a healthy, open talk with your partner is delfinately not begging or anything like that. It's being mature, and if you want to have a LTR with her - she should find that attractive, instead of you using manipulati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 02:53 AM
8	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR For too many people relationships are about games and manipulations. I have no fucking clue where that comes from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 02:21 AM
2	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR The right words are true, without any type of dancing around the topic and not whiny. That's it. You don't need to overthink it. You want to have intimate relationship with her and there is nothing wrong with that. She can refuse and that's fine too. Every guy can wait for that. If you don't want to - that's cool too, but then you should leave her (without any drama or being a dick) and find someone who fits you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 02:20 AM
5	Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTR Bruh the hell did I just read. "Where a man can use effective communication without lowering his attractivness"??? The fuck does that mean. If you ain't able to effectively communicate with the person you are with you should not.be looking at long term relationships my dude but at tips on how to learn to do that. Nobody, literally nobody looses on attractivness if they can communicate, quite the god damn opposite. "I've read the rational male, art of seduction, and attached." I'm pretty sure the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 02:16 AM
1	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? FDS’er in particular seem to hate modern feminist because the modern dating world is a result of their actions decades ago which inadvertently sprung forth generations of pickmeishas and brad and kyles. forgot to respond to that - whilst FDS'ers can make some good points they are no different to RedPill or MGTOW movements. Misgonism runs rampant there. Taking them seriously is a bit hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:20 AM
1	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Sexual Revolution actually freed both sexes (and all inbetween) to do whatever the hell they want with their sex life. Hence why slut-shaming etc is not a good thing - because it's restricting people's sexual wants and needs. The only thing that should be repressed in sexual terms are things that have the intention to hurt someone else, do something against their will. Nothing else. " Men were no longer obligated to one just one women, didn’t need to marry if she just freely put out for sex, get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:18 AM
1	What does constitute a HVM? I mean I wouldn't say so per say? Ofcourse, am judging from my own perspective as anyone else. Personally I am fairly "cold" but not as something to be proud of anything else, just a character trait. It also goes along with being a independ and fairly introverted (nothing wrong with it, introverted people just have different personalities). But am going off-topic. What I'm trying to say is that conversation and overall healthy communication is really important. Because I don't really see 'never …	/r/askFDS	15/07/20 12:40 AM
2	What does constitute a HVM? Hm.. Overall yeah I would agree but please, explain to me why being independent from other people is a bad thing? Personally I believe that a person should be able to live a happy and fulfilling life by themselves and their partner should only compliment it. Making it happier, not happy.	/r/askFDS	14/07/20 11:04 PM
4	What does constitute a HVM? Hey, thanks for your input! Decided to post here since I want to find someone stable in my life and didn't want just my own thoughts on the matter. Much appreciated and am happy to see that am thinking in similar way.	/r/askFDS	13/07/20 07:34 PM
2	Genital Piercings LVM? Not sure if am breaking the sub rules for commenting under a post that is not mine. If so, am sorry and I'll just delete this. Mind explaining to me how a cosmetic procedure would lead to sexual depravity or being pornsick? Not being an ass here, just genuinely trying to understand your point of view. ^	/r/askFDS	13/07/20 01:35 PM