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| 1 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?The "no sex" thing is pretty noble. But the problem most guys have with FDS's version is that it promotes not having sex with said partner, but having multiple sex partner on the side for sexual relief. FDS women want high value men right? NO HVM on the planet would tolerate that crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?You seem to be one of the few people who use the term incel/femcel with it's original intent/meaning. Incel/femcel originally meant "people that want to get laid but can't because they were too ugly or mentally ill to have any social calibration." But nowadays, the definition has changed to "if you spout any TRP/FDS ideology, you're an incel/femcel." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?MGTOW is absolutely not mainstream. Most men laugh at the idea of avoiding women. If some guy wants to go MGTOW, most people won't follow. They'll just be like "oh, he's out of the dating market? Okay, more girls for me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?I highly doubt it. Anyone who's read your posts, it's extremely obvious that you're miserable with your life. Reading your posts, no one will actually believe that you're in good mental health. Miserable people have a certain way of expressing themselves, it sticks out like a sore thumb. Not trying to attack you. If it makes you feel better, I'm not in the best place either. It takes one to know one. The difference is, I'm pretty honest with myself. But encouraging that behavior will absolutely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.You're trying way too hard to discredit how successful men can become once they work on themselves. I think it truly bothers you that men have that leverage while women don't. He can compensate for bone structure and height with other things that attract women (wealth, fame, social status, social media leverage). Have you seen what models do for Saudi Princes in Dubai? And, where did you get the idea that men are looking for LTR with 23 year old women? You do realize that guys who follow TRP phi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Human beings are social creatures at the end of the day. You cannot just turn that off like a switch. Saying things like "I don't need a man" or "I don't need women" isn't believable at all. We are hardwired through years of evolution to WANT to be with the opposite sex (if you're straight). The need for romantic validation is something that most people cannot turn off. For those who are lucky enough to be happy single for the rest of their lives, it is indeed a superpower. I doubt it's any more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I love entitled women and hags from FDS. They make good content for Kevin Samuels lol Reality hits them square in the face when they hit late 30s and realize their boyfriend is checking out younger girls at the mall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.That's a good thing. Most men don't realize their full potential and decide to pine for the closest woman in his social sphere just because that's all he can get. If all men understood their potential, looksmaxxed, strived for financial success, worked out at the gym twice a week, they'd be getting girls much more easily. It's not that they can't achieve it, it's just that they don't have the knowledge to. If men don't have the knowledge to reach their full potential, then who will date the ugly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?That is not an anecdote. Guys who are in their 30s, taking care of their finances and looks do well with younger women. That is a general fact that rings true in all societies. You probably don't hang out with enough guys to know this. I'd argue that the women you met at your women's gym are anecdotal. For a lot of girls, age doesn't matter as long as he's not too old to be a grandpa. If he's in his 30s or 40s and looks good/ well financed, he has good chances when it comes to shagging her. Even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the YouTuber FaceandLMS?I've done a lot of research on hair restoration and transplants. They are nowhere near the level of making one's hair look attractive. Most hair transplants look like shit. And even if you get a good/expensive one, it's even more expensive and costly to maintain it because you have to take propecia/rogaine for the rest of your life. This is a fact, you must commit to those drugs post transplantation. Also, facial surgery is nowhere near the level of fixing bad genes. Bone structure in the face i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?Men don't need to "want" this to be true. Go to your local gym and you'll find tons of attractive 30+ year olds spending time with girls in their 20s. It's not a matter of "wanting this to be true," it just is true by default. That's why men spend so much time building themselves up to be the perfect version of themselves so by the time they hit 30, they'll be set for the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:06 PM |
| -1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.That does not prove anything. It only proves that 26% are able to get that relationship. More men absolutely prefer younger/attractive women (20s), but most men aren't able to achieve that. But if most men had a choice, they'd absolutely go for a 20 year old version of their wife rather than a 30 year old version. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 0 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.If you're talking about redpill guys, then yea. But in real life, most men are not red-pilled. Most 30 year olds who are dating younger girls aren't predators. They're just using success as a leverage, similar to how women use their beauty as leverage. When you go to a pet store to adopt a dog, are you going to pick the dog who has a history of traumatic baggage? Or the dog with the least amount of baggage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:07 AM |
| -5 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?You do not have the statistical data, nor enough anecdotal evidence to support your claim that it happens in most cases. You used your limited anecdotal experiences to paint all women who date older men under the same brush. Broken/damaged are very clear adjectives to describe the women you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?You actually have self-awareness. Your intellect is far superior than the average FDS hag because of that alone. You don't blame men for your problems. The problem with FDS is they assume that it's all the men's fault. There is no self reflection and personal criticism for FDS women. Its all men's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 9 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Most of the hags on FDS will not achieve their ideal relationship. Any man who is HMV will not tolerate bullshit. I'm not a HMV, but I do hang out with them. They have a certain aura about them where you can tell they don't take shit from anybody. These guys have women lined up to date them, all the way to Mississippi. They're not going to tolerate the bullshit that any FDS hag throws at them. For the FDS women that end up dating one of these men, I have a question. What do you think will happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts on the YouTuber FaceandLMS?I hope we get to live in a society where we acknowledge that looks DO matter. That way, we'll get some real technological/medical advancements in cosmetics (hair restoration, facial surgery, etc.) Because everything we have now for improving your looks currently sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 13 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?Ah yes, it's always that women are victims. It can't possibly be that she's attracted to someone who earned a decent living, worked out and achieved a decent body, worked on his personality. Basically, your point is that only stupid/broken/damaged women would go for older successful men. No 'REAL WOMAN" would do such a thing. Seems like a shaming tactic disguised as sympathy/concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.The problem is that a lot of women dump their past emotional trauma on men that have nothing to do with them. If you were a man, what would want to deal with a woman who is older with baggage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:18 AM |
| -1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.You've mistaken the motives of most men. Most men want to fuck hot 18 year olds, not be in relationships with them. A lot of men want the gangster-rap/miami lifestyle. Pump and dump is more appealing to men than relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:13 AM |
| 6 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.He has a point though. Successful men are always minding their own business. Look at Leonardo Dicaprio, dating all the 24 year olds he wants. He likes young-adult/beautiful women. He's got an extravagant dating life and is enjoying his time on this Earth. But it's always women that have to harp on how to live his life, and trying to shame him for enjoying the company of beautiful women instead of old hags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:09 AM |
| 25 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.People who frequent FDS and TRP on a regular basis are not the average person. They probably live miserable lives. Most people I know are too busy trying to focus on their career, hobbies, etc. I pity the folks that frequent toxic subs. I know so many men and women and couples that dont' fit what TRP/FDS views as reality. I know so many couples that go against the core values of these subs and live happy lives. TRP: For men who suck with women and want to view every relationship as a toxic "game… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm calling cap on that story. You have any proof? Sounds insane people would go that far unless you did something like physically touch the girls' ass or something. Then you deserved the ass whopping. But if it's just regular approach, nobody should've attacked you. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Mental game ruined by small penis. What's the point of all this?There are many ways to give girls an orgasm that doesn't involve a penis. I forget who the pornhub account was, but there's a guy literally on pornhub that makes videos of himself giving girls heavy orgasms without hardcore 10inch penetration. He uses his tongue mostly | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | how do you leave a woman better than she was?You don't have to ghost someone. Just tell them that the spark in the relationship is no longer there. Thank for for the memories. Thank her for all the good times you had together. Communication is key. Give her a goodbye hug and move on. You can't babysit other adults, man. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Why men?No matter how old you get, you still want to bang hot younger women. Nothing more complicated than that. Look at Nicholas Cage's hot 25 year old Japanese wife. Look at Steven Bauer who's in his 60s and dating someone in their early 20s. Men like hot young women. Nothing more complicated than that. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]For a lot of guys who are new to dating or don't usually get much interaction from women, even a flawed human being is preferable to long-term loneliness. Most women will not understand this concept. I'm not saying this is a good idea but it's something a lot of guys put up with when they have little to no options. I'd say let the OP have some fun as long as he's not taking the relationship seriously. But from the looks of this post, he seems to have feelings for her, which means trouble for him… | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:41 AM |
| 7 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Depends what kind of indian. If you're a fob, then people will likely avoid you. Indian/desi fobs get a bad wrap here in Canada. Girls tend to avoid them because a lot of them have creepy behavior that turns off a lot of girls. I've literally had girls tell me straight up they don't like fob indian guys. But if you're an indian guy who's grown up here an don't have an accent, you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 0 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareNo they don't. That doesn't make them "incel terminology." TRP also uses terms like chad and simp. Many manosphere communities that aren't incel spaces uses these terms. Even PUA communities uses them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareSimp, chad, and soyboy are not "incel terminology. They have been used way before the incel movement or blackpill movement ever became a thing. The right winged politics sphere used these terms before incel movements were ever a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you regret not living the life script?Maybe your social circle is filled with assholes then. In my social circle, we understand that not everyone is blessed with good looks, charisma. So some people have no choice but to pay for it. It's a sad reality, but that's life. Most of my social circle is filled with decent looking guys, and gym-bros. But we're not deluded into thinking that a good personality alone will land you women. We live near Silicon tech area, and there's a lot of people that just aren't cut out for dating. They have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you regret not living the life script?"Prostitution is for losers." Exactly. Read the OPs post. He himself feels like a loser, so why not go down this route? He can always move forward and improve his life along with seeing prostitutes. They're not mutually exclusive decisions. You can go out and meet new girls, focus on self-improvement, while also banging a couple of hookers once a month or so. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:39 AM |
| -3 | Do you regret not living the life script?Look dude, once Corona is over, get a plane trip to Thailand, Colombia, Kazakhstan, Korea, China, or any country with a booming underground sex industry. Set aside 10,000 and use them on some smoke-show hookers. And trust me, the countries I mentioned have some dime-pieces. You will have more fun in that 2 week vacation than you ever did in those "college years" of awkwardly trying to get into a girls pants. The amount of fun you'll have in that one trip will make all your college buddies jealou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Should HVM be allowed to Cheat since they have "options"The men who make 200k-1 million a year still have trouble attracting women but this guy claims women throw themselves at 6 figure earners. Personally, many of the single women in these cities are annoyed by these men who think they can buy love. Yeah, I don't believe that for a second. If they're putting themselves on the dating market even a little bit, their financial earnings will definitely help attract women. Money definitely will get you dates. There's tons of gold diggers out there. TONS.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menEven reprehensible people can have a few good ideas. For example, I'm not a big fan of the youtuber named "Coach Red Pill." He seems like a douche, but his video "Don't be a step father" is one of the most influential videos I've ever seen. I'm glad I watched it because it opened my eyes to some hard truths that most people are generally afraid to speak out on (because it would make them sound like a dick). It was an important video because I want to be a father in the future. Only a red piller … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?The plastic surgery industry is not as sophisticated as advertised. People act like plastic surgeons can sculpt you into any beautiful person. This is simply not true. Plastic surgery is still very limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?I'm going to be honest man. Being in love with a flawed person is better for your mental health than being alone for many years. We humans are hard wired to WANT to be with other people. It takes a very special/gifted individual to be able to resist the need for social validation. Most men/women are not capable of this. So even if the person you're replying to is in a disadvantageous position, he is still saving himself from the mental burden of loneliness and not being wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?No need to go to a club. Just take a course at a local university/college. Once schools open up again, you can go to your class and hang out at the school afterwards to meet girls. That way, you have permission to be at the school, rather than trespassing. You have more options at a University rather than just one club/bar/mutual friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Don't take this the wrong way, but I promise you, you have no clue what you're talking about. What you're proposing only works on paper, but in practicality has dire consequences. If you're a mama's boy, then yes you will get teased for it by the other boys on the playground. Boys who grow up without father figures and over-bearing mothers are more likely to get bullied because they're more likely to adopt effeminate traits. Boys with effeminate traits are less likely to fight back and defend th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?You act as if he's missing out on life because he didn't have those experiences with his mother. I can't even being to explain how boring and torturous that experience would be. I have a great relationship with my mother and I never had the need to talk to her about romance or have a conversation about heroines in movies. I actually feel bad for men who did this because it just proves they had no social life and probably got bullied at school. All the other boys would pounce on him if they found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?But you're assuming girls will want to be with him in the first place. Guys who are in that scenario (being low value genetically) will usually get avoided by women/rejected constantly. You're speaking as if he can pick and choose his options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Earn money, gain some sort of notoriety. Even in highschool, you don't have to be the most popular guy, but you just have to be someone. You can be the "artist," or the guy with the coolest parties, or the funny/comedian guy. Or the guy who's really good at cooking. If you're known for something, people will notice you and think you're cool, even if you're not an athletic stud. There are so many ways to achieve validation from others, it doesn't have to be how you look. Hell, most of the success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?As a man, I would take a page out of FDS and tell him that no woman owes him anything. Even if he's faced years of rejection and formed a sense of bitterness and negative emotions, I'd tell him exactly what FDS would tell him. "Women are not there to fix your problems. No woman owes you their time." And if he ends up killing himself, I'll just mark on his grave, "oh well, one less incel. The world is a better place now." Obviously, I'm kidding. I would make enough money in my life and make sure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I would really like to see the studies on this because I might end up as an older father because I'm in my dating phase now, and may get married much later down the road. So I have a vested interest in this issue. Can you link to some studies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 12:51 PM |
| 5 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Thank you for understanding our plight. Reading these comments, I've also gained a lot of sympathy for what women have to go through as well, when it comes to dating. Especially with clingy men that respond aggressively/rudely when girls don't text them back. I can understand guys being upset when a girl isn't interested, it hurts. But I wish these men took out their anger in a productive manner such as a punching bag or lifting weights, instead of throwing a hissy-fit in a text message. For guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I hope you don't text her back or add her as a friend. Thanks for sharing your story, it resonated with me and will probably stick with me for years to come. The "you can't save her" mentality is a very important lesson that I needed to learn, and I'm glad I learned it through your comment, rather than personal life experience. It would destroy me knowing that I tried to help someone (with the expectation of wanting nothing in return other than for them to be happy), only for them to fuck it up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:07 AM |
| -1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."The problem is, normalization of those types of things takes decades of progress. For example, having to normalize make-up for straight men would probably take half a century due to how negative the stigma is for men wearing make up. By that time, most of us will be old/dead. And I'm not really looking to be a martyr for a social cause xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."That would be a nightmare scenario for my ego. I don't usually spend time reading comments that are as long as yours, but I was genuinely intrigued. Instead of breezing through your comment, I re-read it slowly and thoroughly enjoyed ever bit of the story, no matter how unpleasant the outcome was. I can only imagine myself in this scenario. Spending all that time trying to help someone, only for all that hard work to be all for nothing. In the end, she spat in your face by going back to her abus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."This doesn't make any sense. You're basically saying that a strong man is intimidated by the idea of a woman choosing a weaker man? When is this ever a thing? Since when were women ever attracted to physically weak men to the point where Alpha/tough guys were feeling insecure about it? This is not a trend that has ever occurred in any TRP community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 9 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I really hate to be that guy, but I agree with your post completely, Dylan. I believe you are correct, and that story may be made-up, especially since it happened recently and there's not one news article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Since when is sharing a story about a woman getting almost raped help fit into my TRP fantasy? My mind is boggled by your comment. You really think what I wrote in my post is out of the bounds of reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Here's another example off the top of my head: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=no7FuVwcn6w Just remember, most women aren't like this (at least I hope to God they're not). But these types definitely exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 13 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Holy shit, that sounds fucking terrible. Do you happen to have an article of this happening? Would like to read more about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 17 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."In these types of situations, the best thing to tell those men would be. "I'm sorry for what you're going through. I sympathize, but that's all you'll get from me." Something along those lines, making it clear that you will never date them or lead them on, but at the same time understanding that their struggles are definitely real/valid, and their bitterness is understandable (although not acceptable). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 17 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."For me, I always try to sympathize with a lonely person, whether they're a man/woman. If you end up not getting any love/affection from the opposite sex for years. You will eventually spiral into a bitterness. It is unavoidable no matter how much mental fortitude you have. Many psychologists have studied human behavior over the years, and many have come to the conclusion that humans' primary motivation for success is to be accepted by others (especially the opposite sex). It's not something peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 12 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."A couple guys tried to rob them. The initial purpose was a robbery, but then I guess the perpetrators got a little to comfortable and thought they could get away with more. Neighbors heard screaming and barged in. The issue was that he genuinely TRIED to help but wasn't physically able to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 0 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."What I'm saying is, let's just say your girlfriend gets into an altercation with a dangerous perpetrator. You jump in to try and defend her, but you end up failing because you weren't strong enough. In turn, our GF gets beaten and maybe raped. At that point is "trying your best" wasn't enough no matter how much you wanted to defend her. The thought isn't what counts because your GF got beaten/raped at the end of the day. Even if she doesn't want to look at you negatively, she may look at you wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Another thing I have noticed is that people who act all sympathetic/empathetic really have no sympathy. They will be merciful to the cruel and cruel to the merciful. Can you elaborate more on this, with specific examples? I find it interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 5 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I wish it were like that, but the world ain't like that. Sometimes, it's not "the thought that counts." The end result is the only thing that matters. And trust me, I don't like this answer too (because I'm not a huge/aggressive guy either). I'm built enough to the point where people won't fuck with me. But I'd be useless in a fight because I'm still healing from a past surgery that went wrong. If my girl were to ever be assaulted, I'd have to hope and pray I can knock the guy out in a few punch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?I know you don't actually feel that way, and you're probably projecting your own insecurities. Sorry, but you ain't fooling anyone through the internet. Psychologists around the world, for many years have stated the same thing "most of human motivation and existence is based around wanting other people to like you." Humans are social creatures at the end of the day, and you cannot escape this wiring through hard-will. Even for those people that claim "I love myself, I don't need anyone." They ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?This absolutely happens with women in their 20s. We even see this with ugly duckling syndrome, where the whole idea is the ugly girl gets the last laugh because she ends up being the beautiful one in her adult years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?It absolutely wasn't part of the question. The question was about how women treat other women. Not how women treat other guys. But out of nowhere, you just made this into a competition against men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:09 PM |
| -1 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?Women using make-up everyday is direct proof that their lives revolve around how attractive men find them. Unless you want to tell me that women make up for themselves, right? Also, women above 16 fight these battles all the time in particular groups. Being the most attractive has social power over other girls. Have you ever been around San Diego or Miami where women are competing to move up the social ladder? Obviously not all women do this, but some do, and I wanted to get into the heads of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 01:36 PM |
| -1 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?Obviously, most women would not bring this up in a direct conversation. But the reason I made this post is to ask if women "think" it in their head, but not admit it out-loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?I'm not going to lie, I have a terrible friends group. I've lived in places like Miami and San Diego over the years, so a lot of my galpals are always trying to one-up each other in the social ladder. For the women that I hang out with, they can be nasty to each other and lesser attractive women. Men have a similar dynamic. Where if 2 men get into an argument that ends up escalating into beef, the beef would revolve around who could kick each other's asses. Even if there was no fight that took p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 0 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?I never claimed that women use their attractiveness as a way to win arguments. What I meant was, a particular woman may lose the battle with her logic against a wittier woman, but she'll win the war with her looks. An example of this is a beautiful woman who gets her ass kicked by a less attractive woman. Although the beautiful woman got humiliated in the most primal manner, that doesn't change the fact that men would generally prefer to be with the more attractive woman rather than the lesser-l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?I understand what you're saying. But, I'm not implying that most women would actually go and steal the other girl's man. But just knowing they have the power to do that makes the other woman feel somewhat powerless. Men have a similar dynamic. Where if 2 men get into an argument that ends up escalating into beef, the beef would revolve around who could kick each other's asses. Even if there was no fight that took place, and the weaker man won the argument. The stronger man would walk away with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 6 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Agree with you. Incel-hating is the same as virgin shaming. Back 7 years ago, you'd get made fun of for being a virgin. Nothing has changed. Literally nothing in the culture has changed except a new buzzword: "incel." I don't get it, are people really that surprised? If you get no love from the opposite sex, you're going to be bitter. This isn't rocket science. This goes for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?That's a beautiful comment. If I met you in real life, I'd buy you dinner just because you seem pure of heart. I hope I can be like you one day. Even after you faced rejection, your ability to tell others that you don't have any ill will towards them and you wish them the best, that is the mark of a remarkable human being. I wish I had that in me. As of right now, my relationship with women is great, but I fear that I will become bitter if I ever come to a point where I lose my looks. I don't wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 2 | “women are much harsher on male virgins than are other men” — is that a true statement?This is absolutely the definition of fear. The fact that you called men's opinions "hot takes" is enough for me to understand that you can't hang once an opposing viewpoint is offered. It's a fear of confrontation with viewpoints that may shatter your world view OR cause you to take responsibility for your actions. Silencing the opposing side only makes for useful conversations if you're looking to circlejerk your opinion. This is not an argument you're going to win. If you're the type of subred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?First of all, I'm jealous and happy for you at the same time. I'm really happy you found your passion. I've been searching for years, and nothing has been able to override that intense endorphin rush of getting validation from the opposite sex. I'm still trying to fight it to this day. I don't like my existence being determined by how women see me, but I can't shake off the feeling. Seriously, kudos to you! I'm happy you found skiing. Also, I was wondering if you've ever been to Alaska, because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I'm sorry, can you elaborate what you said? It's actually interesting. You said that pretty women don't want to make friends with unattractive women? I thought cute girls like hanging out with an ugly friend so they stand out at bars or something? I didn't know that women picked friends based on attractiveness. Is it because you know that an ugly woman will be jealous of you and the friendship won't last because of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?You may think it's odd that people care so much about validation from the opposite sex, but I think it's because of people's past experiences of rejection/social isolation. I didn't used to be good looking until I hit around 25. That's when I started to put effort into my looks (almost to the point of making self-improvement my fulltime job). I was severely bullied by both sexes due to teen acne. After a few surgical procedures to get rid of acne scars, I finally got my skin to look normal for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I think what you said is very important. At a certain point, I want to settle down, and the last thing I'd want is for my wife to not view me as "desirable." That's how the cheating starts with spouses. I'll keep what you said in mind, as that's what matters at the end of the day. Less about how others view me, but how my life-partner views me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Nah, trust me. I've known him for a month now, and see him on a regular. I can get a good understanding of people pretty fast. He truly doesn't feel bothered at all when it comes to not having sexual prospects. That's the main reason I made this thread in the first place. I want to know if others have a similar way of thinking as my art friend. Maybe I can learn a thing or two. I'm good at smelling bullshit, and my friend is anything but a bullshitter. It seems that most people value themselves … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Yes (at my current state). Yes, but I find myself learning new things every day and shaming myself for doing something stupid only a week ago. I feel like I've "found" myself. I don't know if there's anything else to find in my age. Unless it's a hobby that will fulfill me like it did my new friend. Being validated by a hobby rather than being validated by the opinions of the opposite sex. That's something I've been trying to find since the past 15 years. No luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 9 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Wow dude, did you enjoy your power-trip while you were giving that baseless lecture? Where did you get the idea that I was "watching porn?" You act like "finding self validation" is an easy thing to do. If it were that easy, the world of psychiatry wouldn't exist. I don't even know who you're trying to preach at lol Plus, you haven't read my post properly. I'm 34 and have found many hobbies throughout the years. The reason I made this post is because no matter what hobbies I find or get good at,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?This is what I'm saying. One day we will all get old (if we're lucky enough to reach old age). I wonder how I will perceive my own self-worth when I can no longer pick up girls as I do now. One day, I will grow old, lose my hair, lose muscle-mass, and lose to the younger more athletic studs who walk into the bar. I hope I don't lose a part of my happiness along with it. I hope I can find something to keep me happy but it's unlikely. I'm already 34 and still can't find a hobby that can override t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I would not call him MGTOW by any means. He's not on "team men." And he's not on team women either. A lot of MGTOWs are cheerleaders for their own gender. Maybe the movement originally started off as men truly going their own way, but now it is a circle jerk unfortunately. But then again, every positive social movement eventually falters into a more sinister version of it's original intentions. I'm pretty sure FDS started off as something positive, but ended up turning into cancerous subreddit f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 8 | “women are much harsher on male virgins than are other men” — is that a true statement?Dude really? He's giving a response and your brilliant IQ take is "hurr durr, okay bro, if you say so." If you look at FDS, they are terrified of ANYONE giving an opposite viewpoint. God forbid you're a man and you post on that subreddit. Are you denying this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."This is untrue in my eyes. If you're enjoying your youthful years getting hot sex with beautiful men/women, then it's a good trade off. Think about it, from the ages of 17 to 40, you're youthful and sexually desirable. Within those years, you end up having a great sex life, that's a very worthwhile trade off considering how many people would die to be in your shoes. Think of the amount of people that have friends/family but are still unhappy because they're not experiencing a great sex-life. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 8 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Not only would I throw away all of it. I would throw away my family and 10 years of my life. If I was supposed to live up to the age of 80, but this magic deal causes me to live up to 70, I'll fucking take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?After playing the game "The Last of Us," I'd strongly prefer the adopted kid that I get to raise. I used to be one of those people that thought that adopting was a way of "cucking out," but this video game changed the way I viewed life and relationships. The relationship between Ellie and Joel is heart-warming. I'd love to be able to raise a kid and bond with them and see them grow to be strong. It must be a rewarding feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 01:19 AM |
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