| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | "We're pretty incompatible" = I unmatched | THINGS SCROTES SAY | IwillMasticateYou | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:44 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | If a guy says he wants to marry you, how soon is this proposal?Is that FDS? Proposed after a year? | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.What book is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 12 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningYou should really check out this series on Netflix called Dolly Parton's Heartstrings. Every episode is about one of her songs reenacted. They do Jolene justice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Am I being ghosted?Does it matter? | /r/askFDS | 08/04/21 01:49 AM |
| 8 | Missing cuddlingCould not recommend a weighted blanket enough - seriously | /r/askFDS | 16/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 29 | I’m married to a LVM. Realized this after marriage. He’s making small amounts of progress. Now what?Imagine having an actual good relationship with someone who isn't dragging you down. Is this marriage you have worth sacrificing that? | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 19 | It finally hit me, I’m 26 and feel like time is running out. Does anyone else feel anxious about aging?This ^ OP you should read the section in the handbook called "Why men telling you you'll max out at 30 is their biggest cope". I used to be annoyed with how much people say "read the handbook". But it answers so many of the questions on this sub. And if you've read it once, read it again. Read it every 3 months. Summary of that section is: don't lower your standards. Your value is not tied to a number. | /r/askFDS | 30/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 18 | Why is it that mothers coddle their sons and do everything for them but if the have daughters, you are told to be independent at a young age??Witches is too good a word for them 🧹🔮 | /r/askFDS | 29/01/21 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Do you give out your social medias or withhold them from the men you date?I've heard of other women being afraid to give out their phone number - why? What kind of information can they get from it? I just figured if it ever went badly I would block them and that would be enough. | /r/askFDS | 27/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 55 | Why do Men lead you on by faking interests just to dump you after?He probably just wanted easy sex and when he realized you respected yourself, he decided to go after someone faster. | /r/askFDS | 14/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 33 | NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before himCan someone help translate? Why do men always want to be the first of something? And if not its ruined? Like I want to be your first sex tape. Or your first time trying anal or something like that? I had an ex who didnt want to go to the same date spot I'd been with other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:19 PM |
| -3 | "We're pretty incompatible" = I unmatchedUsually yes 100% but in LA there is no other option | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 7 | "We're pretty incompatible" = I unmatchedWe live in LA so no dining at the moment. But yes definitely got the vibe of lazy and "chase me." My last relationship ended because I was doing all the planning and I knew that was a mistake. Didnt want to do that again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Own It!!Ive got RBF too and so glad for masks now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 16 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️I like when my date is chatty with the waiter/bartender/server. It shows charisma and that they are outgoing. I went on an awful date where the guy couldn't even look at the waiter and wasn't able to order for himself. It really turns me off when they can't make small talk with costumer service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Happy Friday QueensI took a women's history class in college that talked about this. Undergarments changed around when bicycles were invented so they could ride them. I don't know the difference between tightlacing and corsets, but the previous undergarments were too restrictive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Happy Friday QueensExcept corsets where so tight women werent physically capable of riding a bike. I don't think women were supporters of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:11 AM |
| 8 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeWhile I don't personally agree with waiting to have sex until marriage, I think the idea of "sexual incompatibility" is a myth perpetrated by men. They say that to women to get in their pants sooner. "What if we aren't compatible?" they whine. You could have good sex with anyone. It comes from building trust and intimacy. It also can be improved with open communication. OP can vet her bf's tendencies in bed without sleeping with him. Does he notice her nonverbal communications? Is he selfless an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 4 | This is posted on Bumble's IG page, meaning they condone it. It's dangerous and there are so many women fawning over it.I can't think of a worse pairing than sushi and wine. Hell, beer like saporo is even better. But sake would be best. Then at least he would have an understanding of pairing alcohol and food. Guys throw in 'wine' acting like it will make a girl swoon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:44 PM |
| 37 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksI love what she says about compassion being seen as women's best quality. We are too good at it. We forgive misdoings by men. But it's not other women saying "I love how forgiving and understanding you are," it's men. They want us to be accepting of all the terrible stuff they do. It's at around 18:30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 17 | Don't lower your vibration for anyone!Oooooo I really like this and am going to remember it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 18 | Male shouldn't be the *standard* of successful careers.I had my Anthropology professor refer to God as She and I loved it. However, he would sometimes do the whole men and female, when he should have said women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 16 | Male shouldn't be the *standard* of successful careers.Oooo I really want to try this! I love a good ol' gender flip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 16 | How do you progress in online dating in this climate?How convenient for them /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | How much time do you guys give to see if he can make you orgasm?I like the idea of waiting around 3 months to have penetrative sex, how long do you wait for oral or fingering? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 15 | The future daughters of FDS!I've always hated the "let's hangout/go on an adventure" Or even worse when people are hooking up but they call it talking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Second dateI can be this way too. I feel like that's why the 3 month rule can be good to follow. You keep seeing them to figure it out and don't go too far sexually. That way you get to know them first and see if they can maintain being a HVM. It's better to be attracted to personality than looks. Any good looking guy can be a LVM. If they are super hot they can become a fuckboi and can get away with treating women badly. That's just a generalization though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | HELP! The Apps are becoming a full-time job... How do I get this under control?Any reason on 9? I'm interested to hear more about it. Sorry this thread is old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 11 | HELP! The Apps are becoming a full-time job... How do I get this under control?How many matches are you getting a day? 100 messages a day seems like a lot! I can't handle messaging more than a few people at a time. I also try to go on the app only once or twice a day. You don't need to be constantly messaging them, let them wait. When I have a few people that I'm talking to, I stop swiping. Otherwise it does get overwhelming. Once I've weeded through those, then I swipe some more. It sounds like you're just spending too much time on it. The more you're on it, the more mess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 18 | I broke up with him and regret itYou didn't cut him off out of no where. He gave you minimal effort and didn't prioritize you. I think you have a crush on him and are inflating his feelings. He doesn't seem that interested. I'm very impressed you told him you're feelings about losing interest etc. I say block and delete. That's the best method. Sending hugs to you! You can do better and deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 10 | I like simpler things, how do I know if I've crossed the line into being a pickmeisha?Yes, I've been wanting to say something along these lines! I actually think its kind of lazy just to take a women out to dinner. It takes zero effort. All you do it sit down and order food. A picnic takes planning, shopping ahead, finding the right place, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:43 PM |
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