Iwillnotbegoverned Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Experiences in Society What’s a million net worth household, just out of curiosity? Like his parents have a million net worth or your fiancé? In any case that’s not a lot of money… tons of middle class families have that in their retirement savings.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/22 05:16 PM
2	Bf wants to split finances “50/50” That’s valid I guess, it’s just kind of putting a bandaid on OP’s situation and not really solving the fact that her and her boyfriend probably have incompatible values in terms of the man having to provide. A provider would never insist upon a “50/50” split unless it was some kind of dire situation with lack of income that they would be desperately working to fix.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/05/22 01:33 PM
13	Bf wants to split finances “50/50” This is literally absurd. She had to PRETEND in public that her man is a provider and then Zelle him in private? It’s embarrassing because it should be, this is not a behavior of a high value man who intends to be a provider. How about he actually provides and doesn’t just make it appear so?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/05/22 12:33 PM
3	Bf wants to split finances “50/50” Like hell would I ever submit to anyone that makes me pay 50/50. If a man can’t hold up his end of the bargain and provide, then I won’t in any way consider him a leader and act feminine around him. If I have to pay for my own lifestyle then I will naturally be making all my own decisions and thus leading myself, the man in this instance becomes superfluous more than anything. More like a friend/roommate than a traditional relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/05/22 12:29 PM
3	Honesty about cooking for him Just curious, what is he doing for you that is the equivalent of cooking every day? Since you both have full time jobs, domestic responsibilities can’t solely fall on you, that’s not fair or sustainable. My fiancé does the dishes and I cook almost every day but sometimes I’m busy with work or tired and he cooks for himself. There’s absolutely no expectation that I will cook every meal since we both work.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/22 08:54 PM
15	"Reformed RPWs": Do you feel bad reading all the stories of other women waiting until marriage when you didn't? This is exactly it. I don’t know where these people live that being a virgin until marriage is “expected” and considered a virtue. Where I am from in the U.S., the only virgins over 21-22 are either weird with no social skills or come from very strictly religious families or those first-generation immigrant ethnic groups that you mentioned. The religious girls and immigrant girls who remain virgins until marriage marry within their communities 100% of the time, and the only remaining virgins are…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/22 12:28 PM
3	What questions to ask before you think of marrying a HVM? Kind of a lot for a first date, no? Besides, I feel like the answers to a lot of these could change throughout the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/22 03:15 AM
8	What's your take on prenup? That literally doesn’t make any sense, so you’re willing to receive state support but not your husbands support beyond pocket money in the event of the divorce? I pay tax money for that shit and would really rather prefer if your husband would step up and pay for his own child.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/22 12:49 PM
8	Boyfriend (M36) is unemployed, not looking for a job, and I worry about our future stability… Sorry to be harsh, but if you are looking for someone who you can rely on financially in the future so you can take time off to care for your kids, then why did you spend 4 years dating someone who only has a seasonal job? That seems irrational, considering you have a career and he doesn’t. His current unemployment seems like the least of your problems tbh. I would seriously reevaluate what you want from life and a relationship before you invest any more time with this man.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 03:19 PM
28	Are there still men out there who want to take care of their woman financially? What type of guy is he and where do you meet him? There’s plenty to do around the house even after the kids are grown. If the man is the sole provider, the obvious expectation is that the woman cleans, cooks and keeps the household running smoothly. That in itself takes many hours a day and is a job without weekends, so that the provider can come home and relax and not worry about cleaning/finding a housekeeper/shopping for groceries/cooking/ordering takeout every night. I hate that a lot of people minimize the job of a housewife and validate i…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/22 04:23 AM
6	Traditional boyfriend wanting me to start paying on dates.... It’s interesting to me how so many of the commenters want to pick and choose which traditional gender roles they want to follow in a relationship. If a man wants a woman with traditional views, he needs to be ready and willing to provide and that includes paying for dates because that’s the traditional thing to do, period. And yes, that 100% applies before marriage because that’s the vetting period where each partner displays how they will be in a marriage. If they’re not willing to pay for date…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/22 01:46 AM
20	In a new relationship that is moving FAST, I’m wanting to hear the RPW perspective on my situation Why would you do this 😂😂 I mean, I get why, your post reeks of someone trying to get pregnant by a rich man for child support. But really, do you think so lowly of yourself that you believe this 58 year old with questionable intentions is the best you could do? Also a weird place to ask about this, there’s nothing traditional about what you’re suggesting.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/22 01:25 PM