IworshipKalikadevi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women are some sort of trophy wives to men and Reddit proves that, every single day. This honestly made me so happy as a woman in her early twenties choosing to be single till her 30's. LVMs everywhere and I live someplace where arranged marriage is common. Imagine the males who aren't married yet, how depraved they have to be to not get married or in a serious relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 04:33 AM
1	Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of color Asian women aren't quiet because we are well provided for? That's a weird point to make. It's because talking back or being paranoid can get you killed or permanently disfigured. It's the way we have been raised to be quiet. And this isn't a sex specific thing either, men are often considered 'soft spoken' in my culture. No Asian woman I know is relaxed or happy from their men. It is all an act to protect our image in society	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 06:47 AM
11	Start calling it what it is when you can. And it's not "work" it's abuse of a woman's body. No other job has you in severe mental and physical danger constantly!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 11:40 AM
9	[deleted by user] This is such beautiful advice because I feel like a lot of women are fed the lie that unattractive men will take care of you better because they can't believe such a beautiful woman chose them. The fundamentals of this statement are based on a lie that men think like women. Instead they will actually disrespect the woman for choosing them and then have an inflated ego of thinking they can get better. So yes, stop settling below standards. Don't listen to your mom or grandma (like mine) when they…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 11:33 AM
2	Men who fall off the face of the earth once you get into a relationship. I've had something of the opposite happen as well. I was very good friends with a guy who completely dropped off the planet the second he got a girlfriend. Left me feeling icky because why did he need to do that? To scrotes who lurk, the gf wasn't controlling or anything, she was a lovely woman who I like as well!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 02:31 PM
8	What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14? By that age I was unfortunately exposed to vast amounts of porn so if anything I'd talk to them about how unrealistic and degrading it truly is. As a kid that's what I thought sex was going to be like, which led to me to be in dangerous situations. Just telling them about how it's not real or right would've gone a long way in helping me at that age.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 11:10 PM
28	Navigating the FDS as a WOC As an Indian woman, Indian men are the absolute worst. So many points come to mind: They are never self sufficient or independent because the entire society coddles them. Imagine neckbeards but it's actually socially acceptable to be a recluse reliant on your parents well into your 30's. They view women as property and have a very strong madonna/whore complex. Every woman who isn't their mother/daughter/wife is a sl$t In my community, a woman who dates or has male friends is seen as "no characte…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 07:41 AM
47	Why do south asian girls settle for average As a southasian myself, I have a few reasons in mind: Women are actively encouraged to seek a "nice boy" from society. For older generation women that means a man who won't beat you or abuse you. So you know the bar is already on the floor. Standards are VERY different for men vs women. My own mother used to tell me (smart, pretty, kind) to marry a guy even if he was ugly and dumb if he was kind Lack of experience: not sure if this is common everywhere, but for where I was us girls were not allo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 10:58 AM