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| -1 | Tonight it kind of went nuclear, off the rails, need help!Yes, it's a good thing when you need it. As this man clearly does. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Tonight it kind of went nuclear, off the rails, need help!Wow, telling someone who needs help to seek therapy is trolling now, you're a model citizen aren't you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 12:05 PM |
| -5 | Tonight it kind of went nuclear, off the rails, need help!I think that your first impulse is correct - it's probably not the best idea to seek advice from people on the Internet. You've been married for twenty years and you're getting older; I'm sure that most of the people on this subreddit are less than half of your age, are they really the people that you want to go to for advice? Have you sought out therapy for yourself? Is your wife currently seeing a therapist? Would you consider going to couple's therapy with your wife? A trained professional (w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit Test^ Maintaining his frame | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:44 PM |
| -3 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit TestYou were doing really well there until you called your wife a four-year old. Is your wife a mature, grown-ass woman or not? I assume that she is, since apparently you picked her to be your first officer. If so, you should communicate with her. The estrogen does not hamper her mind's ability to function. Does your testosterone impair your ability to negotiate and empathize? A lot of women think similar things about men, and they're wrong. Very sad that you would project analogous features onto yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 02:53 AM |
| -2 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit TestYou guys need to make up your minds. Is she my mother or my teen daughter? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 11:03 PM |
| -5 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit TestMust be a sad life being married to a child. Unless you're in to that kind of thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 10:50 PM |
| -3 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit Test^ Alpha as fuck | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 10:40 PM |
| -2 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit TestIt sounds a lot to me like you're talking about dealing with a child throwing a temper tantrum or an invalid instead of your wife, who supposedly is mentally competent but has but has been hurt before and has reservations about her husband going out of town alone. If an operating assumption in your marriage is that your partner is not a rational person, then you should probably reevaluate whether or not you want to be married. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The Vetting ProcessWaiting to have sex (not necessarily until marriage) is a good idea. Waiting to marry until you are sure that you want to marry your wife is a good idea. If the woman is the right one for you, you'll be able to talk openly about each other's pasts and none of it will matter much. If it does matter (or she refuses to talk about it), then you probably shouldn't want the sex or the marriage! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Reciprocal Obligation vs Shit TestYou shouldn't be made to feel bad for wanting to hang out alone with your friends. You wife shouldn't either, even if she normally does not do the same. Now clearly, you don't want to start an arms race with your wife over who can make the other the most paranoid. I don't know how much you communicate with your wife, but it sounds like you two need to work together to figure out what an acceptable level of communication is when you are separated. It's harder to make the argument that you're in V… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 06:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wife asked me to make dinner for her...lol you know how "tourists" deal with it? Not making simple, stress free situations difficult. You a troll bro? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/15 03:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Wife asked me to make dinner for her...Yeah! First he's making her dinner, next he's washing her feet every night and painting her nails while she get tag-teamed by two hairy men with thirteen-inch cocks. Is this mentality fucking common? Do men actually get married believing that they're going to go through life in competition with their wives? If so, why even get married? That sounds incredibly sad... Also, what schlock do you eat for dinner that takes five minutes to prepare? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/15 05:01 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Wife asked me to make dinner for her...There's nothing wrong with doing something because your wife asked you. It's not "testing your frame", it's her asking you to make dinner because she cannot. This makes sense because you are partners, and you have agreed legally (and perhaps spiritually) to work as a team. It's not a zero-sum game. You don't lose "Relationship Points" when your wife makes a reasonable suggestion and you agree with her. If anything, you lose when you disagree, because you made a simple situation more complicated. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody else struggling with this?If your wife says something that you think is rude and hurts your feelings, say so. Your wife is not a mind reader who understands every trial and tribulation that you are dealing with. Neither are you. Is it really that ridiculous of an idea that you should talk to your wife, the woman who swore to love you forever? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing? Or fail the ultimate shit test?So, let me get this straight: you got cozy enough with your wife's friend that would cheat given the opportunity, hid the extent of the relationship from your wife, and your wife is wrong for wanting you to stop talking to her? Here's the deal: relationships are a two way street. You complain that your wife isn't giving you "proper" attention. Are you giving her "proper" attention, or was that attention going to liaison? You were clearly investing emotionally in another woman, so my guess is tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 03:07 AM |
| -1 | Shit test from the wife due to dread game??Don't play games with your wife. If you want to wear cologne to change it up just say that. If you want to wear cologne because you want to smell good for her and you want to ravish her later, say something to that effect. Is she right to be concerned? I don't know, since I have no idea how often you decide to wear cologne. I don't know the dynamics of your relationship. If this is an example of how you normally behave, they're probably pretty shitty. Good relationships aren't built on pushing p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 05:49 PM |
| -3 | The hardest thing for a woman to see is your back as you walk awayToday, in things that totally happened... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/15 06:20 AM |
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