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| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Ok then. Believe whatever bullshit you want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Most. None of those women are interested either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What solutions are there for older virgin men?Men don't get to be as picky as women do, especially virgin men over the age of 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.There are lots of men using those apps who are looking for a long term relationship. But they don't get any matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.There used to be online dating platforms exactly like that before online dating exploded in popularity, and some forums still exist, but they are flooded with men, men, and even more men. How would you drive women to use such an app when it's far easier for them to use Tinder/Bumble/Hinge etc.? You need an incentive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.butthurt they can't attract hot any chicks Fixed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 6 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.I agree with that, but people still want others to love them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:08 AM |
| 6 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.That's just straight up delusional. Like, who you tryin' to fool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:28 PM |
| 19 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.save that energy for the women who like you. For a lot of men, following this strategy is a guaranteed path to permanent loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.When men complain about dating, they are complaining about not getting attractive women. Not always. You'll find the stereotypical red-pill bro-dudes who want to sleep around may complain about that, whereas the "forever alone" types are usually complaining about not getting anyone at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Then go fuck ugly/obese/old women. They have high standards too, just like everyone else. Why don't you lower your standards and find a homely looking woman to date? Why do you assume I don't? Last time I tried online dating, I spent a couple of months exclusively trying to match with women who were conventionally unattractive. It doesn't matter. And I find it funny how often I see conflicting advice about standards. Can't get a girl? Standards are too high, you should lower your standards! Lowe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Where did you get the idea that I feel entitled to a relationship? I feel like this is such a common strawman, and it always comes across as projection because, in my experience, women tend to act far more entitled with respect to what they want in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenBoring is just as much of a waste of time as being an asshole even if it's not as bad. Not disagreeing with that. I'm not saying she's intentionally going after men who are assholes, she's just going after traits that correlate with shitty behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenWell it somewhat lines up with what I expected. I was going to suggest that you (or rather, someone in your position when you used OLD) should consider going after what you'd label to be "boring" or passive guys. I know you're probably not attracted to that, but that's likely one part of why you encountered a ton of assholes. Exciting and aggressively confident men aren't usually the most laid back. And who cares if their photos are bad? As long as the person is clearly visible. Personally, I'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenWhat would you say was a common reason you'd swipe left on a man? And I mean common, not extreme cases like "that one guy with a swastika tattooed across his face". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.And you think I was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.And why are you not desperate? Right, because it's easy for you to get a partner, so of course you're not desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.I give zero fucks my guy. Yes you do. You know everyone can read your comments, right? You're fuming with hatred for men who can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:27 PM |
| 7 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenThat doesn't make it your fault. If someone's an asshole, then they are the asshole. But if you keep matching with these men when you don't want to, then obviously you're doing something wrong. You have agency when it comes to selecting the men you match with, do you not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Men on here cry about ramming their dicks in harems of women all day. So that’s all they care about. Seems like a strawman to me. Why do you care so much? about how gruesome men can’t get causal sex You're the one adding the trait "gruesome", not the men posting. I don't think a guy who can't get laid is necessarily gruesome. The rest of this comment is absolutely hilarious. You know almost nothing about me, but as expected, you've invented a whole personality for me. It's just predictable at th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Easy to say for someone who has zero issues getting a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:10 PM |
| 11 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenWell it's not about how attractive they are, as ugly guys can be assholes too. But if you're constantly running into assholes, it makes me wonder what traits you're subconsciously attracted to in someone's profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:10 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenSure, but unicorns like that aren't on OLD for very long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 26 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenThere are tons of men on online dating looking for a genuine relationship, but most of them get zero matches. It's frustrating to hear women like yourself group these men into the same category as the men treating you like prostitution services that you, for some reason, clearly continue(d) to match with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Ok, so you're surrounded by a friend group full of attractive men. Whose mind are you trying to change here? Also, you have the cause and effect backwards. Of course men who are unsuccessful are going to be the group complaining about it. Why would successful men have any reason to complain?? But to tell men that they're alone because they complain anonymously on an internet forum is such a delusional accusation. The cause and effect are totally backwards. Edit: And looking at your other comment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Sex is all they want to complain about. Because it's the first barrier, and the most challenging one at that. You can't get a loving relationship with a girl if she finds you too unattractive to sleep with in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Lots of men start out with high standards too, but unlike you, they quickly realize that having high standards is going to lead them to a life of permanent loneliness. Thus, they lower their standards to compensate. Most men don't get to have standards; that's a very gendered privilege that heavily favors women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out just after meeting creepy?Because of stereotypes attached to ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Typo? I can't figure out what you meant to type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.How will You get some excitement in the relationship if You stay Home all the time? That sounds like the perfect relationship to me. But not everyone is looking for the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Lmao, right? My standards are low as fuck, but I'd probably just leave if I had a girlfriend with these kinds of expectations. What's the point? I know I wouldn't expect a woman to meet these wonky standards, I'd want someone who wants to be with me frequently. That's a positive thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you be bothered if your partner wouldn't have social connections?Lol yes they can. What are you even talking about? I can agree that someone with zero friends most likely has mental health issues that prevent them from either wanting or needing friends. But are men with mental health issues not allowed to seek a partner? Lots of women have mental health issues as well, but for some reason people seem to be a lot more accommodating and accepting of their conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you be bothered if your partner wouldn't have social connections?No? One can comfortably participate in society without actively hanging out with friends. And if someone is seeking a romantic relationship, they obviously want some social connection. They may just prefer romantic relationships to platonic, and would otherwise be comfortable by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you be bothered if your partner wouldn't have social connections?How'd you get from that to accusing the man of being misanthropic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | While I can sympathize with men and how they feel about the lack of sex/intimacy, a lot of men are simping extremely hard and don’t even realize it, and men’s intense desire for women is only pushing women awayMen who need a woman (ANY woman) to be happy should stick with dating women who are also that needy for a man (ANY man). Great! Now how exactly do I find a woman as you describe? 'Cause that sounds perfectly fine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | While I can sympathize with men and how they feel about the lack of sex/intimacy, a lot of men are simping extremely hard and don’t even realize it, and men’s intense desire for women is only pushing women awayIt would only get you a slew of women telling you to lower your standards. You can't win, and it's always your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you be bothered if your partner wouldn't have social connections?Why does it have to be about sex? Do you not think it's possible for a man to desire a loving connection and emotional intimacy as a priority? A romantic relationship is a lot more than just platonic with bonus sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Would you be bothered if your partner wouldn't have social connections?Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, and I may even prefer it. Also, that's not necessarily antisocial, they may simply be asocial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USYou’re right it doesn’t matter because women can’t just jump in relationships with whoever we want. I NEVER said or implied it would be with "whoever you want". You aren't even listening to the central part of what I'm telling you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USApps, offline, it doesn't really matter. But what I'm saying applies very strongly in online dating. There are tons of men with zero standards just waiting for anyone to accept them. All a woman needs to do is give any one of them a chance and her work is done. There's average and even ugly men who look for perfect partners as well. Never said there wasn't. But an ugly man looking for a perfect partner is just delusional. It's hard enough for an ugly man to get an ugly woman as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USNot exactly. I specifically said women who want relationship and are willing to settle for someone less attractive. You can't just drop the second part of that, because it's the whole point. Of course if you're looking for a perfect partner it'll still be challenging. But that's not comparable to men struggling to get anything at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USShow up as in appear on the list of people you can pick from within the time you are using the app. None of that second paragraph negates what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USThat can be explained by the fact that those men have a higher elo score (or whatever scoring system is used now) and are thus more likely to show up. The only people winning is women who want strictly sex and that's rare. And also women who want a relationship and are willing to settle for someone less attractive. And they'll have total control over the relationship too since many of these men have no other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USI still want you explain how a therapist is going to make someone more huggable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USI genuinely don't believe that at all, but I'm willing to be proven wrong. Still, that doesn't explain why men who are looking for a relationship are the ones who struggle greatly with online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?I can't choose to be a CIO. But anyway, I don't understand why any of this is relevant to this discussion. Sure, lets say I have other privileges in life. You don't know me, but I am aware of what privilege I have, and I'm not saying "Boy, I wish I could be a poor, disabled, abused, oppressed woman so that I could at least have easy sex!" I'm not even trying to make a comparison. All I was saying is that I just want somebody who is nice to me and wants me back. How is that coming from a place of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USSo men like myself just don't exist, or are we just a rare commodity? If women are truly wanting a relationship, and want men who are also looking for a relationship, shouldn't I be getting flooded with matches due to how rare we supposedly are? Oh wait, I'm not. I've gotten 0 matches in 7 years. Funny, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USAre you going up to people you’ve never spoken to before and hugging them? You're the one who admitted to hugging a complete stranger. I still want you explain how a therapist is going to make someone more huggable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USA lot of men on those apps are looking for quick sex only. Sure, no disagreement there. But there's also a lot of men who aren't looking for only sex. And fortunately, there are enough of them to go around considering how skewed the gender ratio is online. Also, it's likely that dating apps push these hookup profiles to the top of your feed, which sucks, but it's what makes dating apps profitable for the companies behind them. A successful match is 2 lost customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USA hug is absolutely labeled as sexual harassment if the receiver of the hug does not feel comfortable with it. And I'm not whining about that, I get it. Most people aren't going to be comfortable with some random person touching them, and people are allowed to have boundaries. Either way, this is missing the point. What are you expecting the therapist to solve, given that it's the suggestion you gave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?CIO? Anyway, this isn't even an accurate comparison, because I don't currently have any success with women. Per your analogy, I'm the slave on auction that nobody wants to buy. I'd still like for you to explain what privilege you think I currently have in my dating life, because I genuinely don't understand your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USMost men also want something permanent, but women don't go after those kinds of men... for some reason. Those men are effectively invisible. If a women wants a relationship, there are lots of suitors waiting in line. If she'll only accept a relationship with a super attractive man (that is more likely to use her as a fleshlight and throw her out the next morning), then I agree it's going to be challenging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.If the man is attractive enough, suddenly the lack of a job is no longer an issue. (Relevant comment I read less than an hour before reading yours.) It's easy to find reasons to not like someone after you've already decided you don't find them attractive. Everyone has some sort of flaw you can pick apart and blame them for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USAnd how exactly is a therapist going to make people want to hug this hypothetical man? Are you expecting the therapist to hug him? It ain't social awkwardness. Forget strangers, even trying to hug a girl you've known for awhile is percieved as extremely creepy coming from an ugly guy. It's borderline sexual harassment depending on how the reciever reacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?Not sure what you're point is. If I couldn't get a job and was completely broke, of course I'd rather be a slave than die on the streets. Doesn't mean its ideal, but I'd still take it. What "privilege" do I have that's relevant to this topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USWell it's far easier for men to get sex than a full blown relationship. The former is basically a precursor for the latter, unless you're trying for an asexual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?Damn. It's crazy how much easier it is for super attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?If you say yes, then it just means you have no other options. Such is the case for a large amount of men. We don't all have the priceless luxury of being picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?I think a lot of men would answer yes to those questions. I just want somebody who is nice to me and wants me back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Only if you're already attracted to him though. Otherwise it's insanely creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?Perfect example of the No true Scotsman fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 0 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?Yes, that's the stereotype. Believe it or not, not all incels are misogynistic super pedo rapist terrorists like you've been told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?"This guy I matched with was mean to me? Might as well blame it on the virgins!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.Sex is just the first barrier. If you can't get sex, then you definitely can't get a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?Because of the above, I tend to screen for different criteria and it turns out, it's easier to tell if the guy will be a good hookup than if he'll be a good partner. Rewarding men who fail your criteria with sex is precisely why dating is such a nonsensical ass-backwards maze for men. If being a piece-of-shit man is rewarded with sex, why would these men ever want to change that? And then the guys who do meet your supposed criteria feel like they fucked up since you withheld sex from them, and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinAnd what makes them a cold, half eaten hot dog, lying in the dirt? That's the crux of the problem. Your entire argument is basically "Well, yes, women have lots of men to choose from... uh... but.... uh... oh I know! Every single one of them is trash!" It's just lazy hand-waving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guyshow many guys are into a girl “because she’s nice” I think a lot of guys are, including myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinit's because they offer nothing Based on what? We're talking about hypothetical people here, remember. Why are you trying to invent a personality for imaginary people to justify rejecting them? talking like you. This isn't about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinOk, and what about a third option: Having sex with a man who genuinely wants a relationship with you and cares about you? 'Cause I bet you still have a ton of options, but you reject every single one of them that belong to this group and then gaslight us by either pretending these men don't exist, or that all of them are trash for some contrived reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinwomen whine about no commitment ... from extremely attractive men. There are lots of men looking for a genuine relationship, but they don't even get a chance, and then they are basically told they don't even exist (see this thread for examples). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinOr, as you can see from the women in this thread, they continue to go after those same men and complain about how men only want them for casual sex, ignoring the countless men who would be willing to have a genuine relationship with them by comparing them all to trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 9 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinSeems to just reaffirm the fact that women view the majority of men as below average if you're comparing all these men to dirty hot dogs just because they aren't attractive enough to land a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 15 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinAsk any woman and you'll find how hard it is to find a man who both genuinely wants a relationship and actually, after getting to know you, wants it with you It's incredibly easy. But if you keep going after men who just want casual sex with you while pretending no other men exist, of course you'd think this way. There are tons of men looking for a genuine relationship, but they get rejected ad nauseam, and are forced to listen to women complain about all the men they have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?I don't see how wanting to date someone who shares some of your most important values is having high standards. I'm not judging you for having high standards, I just want you to admit it. Most men would get laughed at for saying "I want a woman who eats a certain way and has no children". Men don't get to have standards, lest we get accused of having a sense of entitlement, and we still have nothing to choose from. At least you have 100+ men to choose from even if they aren't perfect for you. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?Yep, that's pretty much exactly what she said. No guys meet her extremely high standards, and somehow that's equivalent to a guy with no standards having nothing. It's almost hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?Seems pretty insane to think none of 100+ matches are sufficiently compatible with you, but you likely have much higher standards than guys can afford to have. You're just annoyed you can't find literal perfection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?or perhaps it’s actually because of their attitude No, it's usually because of their looks. "Creep" has just become a dog whistle for "ugly guy I'm uncomfortable around". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.No. Please read my original reply to you again. You are severely misunderstanding my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.So if they aren't violent, you'll change your mind and say yes? I highly doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?Why? I wouldn't judge a woman for doing the same. Why judge a man for it. And not only would I not judge her, it would make me feel a lot more comfortable about being open, so it's actually a positive if anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?He told me months after fucking Seems like he made the right choice then. I wouldn’t have cared whether he was a virgin or not. Actions speak louder than words, and these words mean nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?Because it might be either that or permanent loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?Of course you would prefer it, that's obvious. The question is whether admitting to it benefits the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.whether or not they take no for an answer. If you're already telling them no, then how they respond literally doesn't matter because you've already rejected them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?And why is that a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.You brought it up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Not disagreeing with you, but it's also not relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 0 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.it seems pretty normal to be more interested in men who've been vetted for negative personality traits by other women like yourself Sure, except that assumes that women are good at vetting negative personality traits, which we all know is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 08:19 PM |
| -1 | Is it possible for a woman to be thin and below-average looking in today’s dating market like it’s possible for men?If she hits them up she may get pumped and dumped Only if she's going for the most attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | She’s crying because she got caughtYou must be thinking of the wrong person. I never defended it. I never made a claim, and I wouldn't make that claim even if you asked me to. You're asking me to prove something I never claimed to believe. You said "It’s mostly incel dudes LARPing as “sluts”". This is a positive assertion. If you have any evidence or justification for it, I'm genuinely interested. Edit: Nevermind, I just realized you're a troll anyway. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | She’s crying because she got caughtI never made that claim. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | She’s crying because she got caughtNo, you're the one trying to make a point. The burden of proof is not on me to prove anything, it's entirely on you. Your evidence was basically "well it's obvious!" which is literally not evidence for anything. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 5 | She’s crying because she got caughtThat's not evidence for anything. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 8 | She’s crying because she got caughtAnd you base that on what evidence? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | We got you broThen you wouldn't say you "would probably" do it. So I'm calling bullshit on that one. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 11:42 PM |
| 4 | We got you broProbably... but you know you actually won't. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 08:52 AM |
| 6 | Like hello?I'm trying to say that it's not a context based thing. Also your definition of a noun isn't correct, they include abstract concepts as well. For example, here are some nouns: apple, boy, cartwheel, death, excitement, fidelity, gender, height. | /r/MGTOW | 15/01/19 09:57 AM |
| 9 | Like hello?Well read your own comment for a simple test. Every time you used the word patriarchy you used it as a noun, so you must intuitively know that it's a noun. Would it make sense to say "Today I am going to patriarchy. I patriarchied yesterday too, but patriarching is worth it." Nah that doesn't really work. | /r/MGTOW | 15/01/19 09:37 AM |
| 17 | Like hello?Patriarchy is a verb, not a noun. Despite the rest of your comment, the word patriarchy is definitely not a verb. The lexical category it belongs to isn't really up for debate. | /r/MGTOW | 15/01/19 09:20 AM |
| 88 | High quality H2OThat sounds like prostitution with extra steps. Ah, you've realized what most dating is. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Graham´s Hierarchy of Dissent. Check the bottom.Those insults are hurled at a much larger group of people than that. But even if you were right, why would it make sense to respond to bad arguments or name-calling with more name-calling? | /r/MGTOW | 19/12/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Graham´s Hierarchy of Dissent. Check the bottom.Just don't act like MGTOW is immune. There's literally a glossary of common insults used here. Examples include beta, cuck, whore, and snowflake. | /r/MGTOW | 18/12/18 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Pay yo taxes bitchIts not that hard to unsubscribe. Quit your job, stop purchasing products, don't own land, don't use any services that charge tax. Boom, that was easy. Now you don't have to pay taxes. Oh what's that? You actually wanted all of those services? Then pay your fucking taxes. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/11/18 04:28 AM |
| -15 | Xpost from r/anarchocapitalismBut "men's rights" is totally okay, right? Edit: Love the downvotes. I guess you guys need some method of supressing your own cognitive dissonance. | /r/MGTOW | 27/09/18 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Love me when am fat but I won't be monogamous when am hotMy mother is like this. She weighed about 370lbs at her heaviest and got surgery to lose weight (she still eats like a pig and throws up nearly every meal 10 years later). Anyway, about 1 month after the surgery she dumped her boyfriend for not caring enough about her, or some bullshit. She wasn't even skinny yet, but she already knew she'd no longer need him. He had a shit job and was terrible with money. | /r/MGTOW | 02/09/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Need to gtfo of this CountryI don't know much about immigration over there so I can't really recommend anything specific. I just suggest it because most of that area is very traditional and conservative and women don't have any power at all. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/18 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Need to gtfo of this CountryThere are quite a few countries in the middle east that would probably suit you. Moving to Tijuana likely isn't going to make the difference you want. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/18 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Male Feminists Are Traitors To Our GenderYou misunderstand me. Democrats may want to raise taxes in some areas, but not for the things you mentioned. But still, they aren't raising taxes just to throw your money into a giant bonfire, those tax dollars go to things that generally benefit you. The Democrats always keep preaching raise taxes on everyone so we can "save the poor single mothers and illegal aliens " and them trying to import more violent refugee savages from a 3rd nation. No they don't. Whoever told you this is just trying t… | /r/MGTOW | 26/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Male Feminists Are Traitors To Our GenderEveryone in the left wants to raise taxes on even the middle class so they can pay for welfare for single mothers, illegal aliens and refugees. The vast majority of us don't want any of that, I don't know where you got that from. We just want common sense when it comes to public funding, like healthcare. Actually if you want your taxes to go down you should support universal healthcare. You guys in America pay publically with taxes already (which is already way more than other developed countrie… | /r/MGTOW | 26/07/18 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Male Feminists Are Traitors To Our GenderI mean, I'm a feminist if you want to go by the original definition of it, but I wouldn't call myself a feminist because I don't agree with the current movement. | /r/MGTOW | 26/07/18 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Reddit Placing Negative Search Results When Looking Up MGTOWI'm far from feminist, but okay then. Believe whatever you want. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Reddit Placing Negative Search Results When Looking Up MGTOWHey I don't really care if we're "spreading hate", I just think it's pointless to play dumb and pretend we're not. Nobody is stupid enough to actually fall for that. And who exactly are my victims? | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 03:35 PM |
| -4 | Reddit Placing Negative Search Results When Looking Up MGTOWOh come on, the premise of this sub may not hateful, but at least half the posts are, and that's coming from someone who browses a lot here. We can at least admit to that much. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | wanna get a good laugh?How dare you call me "you". I self-identity as "herself". Please use "herself" when referring to me from now on. | /r/MGTOW | 08/07/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | This is why you don't tell people you believe in mgtowI'm assuming you're American? You may be far more conservative than I am, but both the Democratic and Republican party have been on the right for a long time now. America in general is a very right-wing nation compared to the majority of the world. Sure, I agree that there's lots of liberal citizens, but the two parties and current administration sure as fuck don't represent them (unless you count Sanders). | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | This is why you don't tell people you believe in mgtowwill keep swinging left forever. Uh if you haven't noticed, it's been swinging pretty fucking far right in the past couple years. Whether it's good or bad, it's definitely not moving left. | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | attracting relationships when I really just want casual sex?Ah okay, so essentially the goal is to state it very indirectly while still making the intent obvious. Understood. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 12:02 AM |
| 1 | attracting relationships when I really just want casual sex?Alright, could you provide an example? I just can't fathom how you could go about telling someone that you only want them for sex, without it coming across in a strictly negative way. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:45 PM |
| -9 | attracting relationships when I really just want casual sex?That's step 1 to being labelled as a total creep. Edit: Am I really wrong? If you ask a women "Will you be willing to have sex with me?" you're going to be labelled as creepy by society. Honesty does not always work when your intentions are looked down upon. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 05:09 AM |
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