Iyob Archive

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7	Father’s Day means nothing to society There was a thread yesterday in AskMen - "Wife just asked what I was doing with the kids for Father's Day, she wants a girl's day out." Fun read with all the comments, and others telling their stories. Too many people marrying the wrong people for the wrong reasons. Or there's just too many communication problems that keep piling up. There's still proper women out there who will treat you amazing, as long as you do the same, but it's up to you to find her. Who cares what society says. Do not bec…	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 04:33 AM
0	The porn problem will never be solved No mate, I'll entertain you with this, and then I'll be done. I had to speak it to God. I was tired of needing to masturbate, so I quite literally, "God, I hate this, I know you hate this. I surrender. Help." Obviously, there's more detail to that, but that's the basics of it. If you ever get tired of your suffering, just dial Jer-33:3. Also funny clip that just popped up to explain the "schizo." A comment a left a while ago was basically: It sounds so schizophrenic, that if I didn't experience …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 11:20 AM
0	The porn problem will never be solved Yee, it's why faith is above intellect, reasoning, and emotions. Until you try it for yourself, you won't ever see. From 12-27 up until a month ago, I needed to masturbate at least once or twice a day to "control my libido," to within a week of giving it up to God, I didn't need to do that anymore. Now at ~30 days free from masturbation that dropped off completely, to peaking at porn ~7 times within the whole month. Porn at this point is to show myself "that's what I'm actually jonesing about ??…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 10:37 AM
1	The porn problem will never be solved Nah quite the opposite. I have a high sex drive, but I just gave it to real Christian God (not the fake one, the West has corrupted), and he dealt with it. In turn, I get an ungodly-amount of self-control, discipline, but of course, I have to die to myself every single day. I get to be a bright light to everyone around me, my joy, and peace is rarely ever disturbed. There's so many benefits for men to not be driven by their lusts, and retaining their seed. Ain't nobody trying to tell them that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 10:19 AM
1	The porn problem will never be solved Until men want to actually put effort into bettering themselves for the people around them, they'll never understand how much freedom there is to be able to completely drop their lust. It shouldn't be about getting fed, it should be more about self-control, discipline, and sacrificing yourself. But that's probably a different pill people aren't ready to swallow yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 05:10 AM
1	It's like my addiction is beating me and I'm lost! Man, this is so hard to explain properly, because I'm almost recovering from this same thing ! I simply cannot be told to not do X because Y said so, I need reasons. So for the last few months my interest in Semen Retention spiked, I would like to believe the Holy Spirit whispered this to me. This is a subreddit that has some unbiblical ties such as kundalini, chakras, monks, and whatever else - I ignored these things and kept reading their actual good posts. I then stumbled upon Pure Retention …	/r/RPChristians	24/07/23 07:41 AM
-2	How far do we let it go? How did we fight the Nazis? Good vs Evil ≠ Evil vs Evil. Just because another person did something wrong, it doesn't make it any less wrong if you do it. Did we forget about the saying, "Two wrongs don't make a right ?" Being nice doesn't mean you need to be a pushover. You can still be nice and have boundaries.	/r/MensRights	21/07/23 02:03 PM
-8	How far do we let it go? Are you speaking through feelings, or are you speaking through logic right now ? Simply, be the better person. Do not stoop down to the toxic feminity/feminists levels, at that point you're just playing into their hands, and giving them what they want so they can turn it back around. Hate typically comes from jealousy, resentment, fear, and one more I'm forgetting. If you want to turn this around, we have something as men to offer to the ones who do eventually turn over to our side. If one perso…	/r/MensRights	21/07/23 12:03 PM
-15	How far do we let it go? You do not fight evil with evil. I honestly hate the gender war, but here I am participating. We're supposed to help each other because we both have different skill sets that benefit each other. It's honestly a shame that one side hates the other and vice versa. This is bordering on incel logic, and it's no better than the hate from either side.	/r/MensRights	21/07/23 11:04 AM
1	Can Christians have anal sex in marriage? Yeah the sins of Sodom and Gomorrah were something completely different. In fact, the word sodomy didn't get its current meaning until recently.	/r/RPChristians	22/05/23 03:26 AM
1	Male VS Female Sexuality How'd you just describe my experience rejecting someone but in a nicer way...	/r/MensRights	22/05/23 02:23 AM
5	Why Men Are NOT APPROACHING WOMEN At The Work Place Anymore Pretty much this. I work in a female dominated field, there's only one who I can bantz and joke with out of like 20 or so. There's another one who gets caught in the crossfire, but she only hangs out with the same person I do, and won't talk outside of brief interactions.	/r/MensRights	03/03/23 04:38 AM
2	I think purging male spaces online is a bad idea, because the feed back can help men become better IRL. Yeah I want the self-improvement aspect, not the hate towards either side. It's stupid when we're supposed to work together. No gender is better than the other, we just have different skill sets to bring to each other. It's cool to be informed what's going on around me with the dating world, but I can't relate to like 90% of it, simply because I haven't looked too much into it, but also people are just kind of a different breed around me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 08:49 AM
6	Disrespect will be your Downfall Explaining and asking, along with tone goes a really long way for me at least. Don't tell us. The first two quotes would make me paranoid for being nagged at a bit. The last one would make me more careful, a genuine appreciation, and a boundary I wouldn't want cross. Explaining is a double edge sword, make a point, but don't over-explain.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/23 10:46 AM
15	Fucked up my 20's, i am a 30yo loser. How many people you have had sex with. Ideally you should be going into marriage as a virgin, because they are 80% more happier in marriage, but it drops down to 30% with 5 or more partners. If you have already had sex, stop now, and don't add to your number. Learn to control your lust. Quit masturbating too.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/22 09:32 PM
2	Is it expected? My first suggestion is always to read The Empowered Wife. That's a really good book ! Just reading a quick synopsis from there. I might need to pick up this book for myself... A book to give a man, if they're from a Christian background. Husbands and Fathers by Dereck Prince, which I find I agree with him a lot ! Which isn't just Christian values, but values we all should have towards one another ! And of course, everyone should read The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/22 04:37 PM