| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | I still think about him sometimes | SHOWER THOUGHT | Izzy4162305 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 15 | Find yourself a man who supports your dreams - Scientific Proof! | Izzy4162305 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:57 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Came across this today I have no wordsSo, a sex doll. What this guy really likes is an inanimate sex doll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Red flags in female friendshipsShe’s probably trying to hang out with you now so she can retrieve the item she left behind. Just tell her to come on by and pick it up. Hand it to her at the door and say goodbye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:01 AM |
| 6 | The audacity 🙄Women who look like that aren’t going to date a guy who looks like a giant hairy toe but with less personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about 'well meaning' friends and family who try to set you up with some scrote who is far beneath your worth. How do you deal? And what is wrong with your fam/friends to do this to you?!I’m bonkers about the holiday season. I like my Christmas lights like “NASA called, they can see your house from space.” I have a stepdad who celebrates Christmas, we do a tree every year. (My opinion, we don’t use enough lights, but that’s another story.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 9 | Let's talk about 'well meaning' friends and family who try to set you up with some scrote who is far beneath your worth. How do you deal? And what is wrong with your fam/friends to do this to you?!I once had an ex-friend try to set me up with someone because we were both Jewish. It was such a terrible match... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?Does he want you to just lie there like a limp rag and not enjoy it? Because if so, make sure you tell him afterwards how lousy he is in bed. Just... WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:50 AM |
| 31 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.Your life isn’t empty now. It is FULL OF OPPORTUNITY to meet someone who will treat you right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | "He cheated on me and then cried about how life is hard" men: "wow you're abusive for not letting him speak about his feelings, thats why ur single".Fucking what?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | My ex was horrible & I wish I had found this place before I met him...I really like it. My hair gets straight but has body, it’s not completely flat. And it’s not as hot so my hair doesn’t get damaged as much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | My ex was horrible & I wish I had found this place before I met him...I got the Corrale, the flat iron. How is the air wrap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | My ex was horrible & I wish I had found this place before I met him...Just wanted to say: Good for you! Also, do you LOVE your Dyson hair dryer? I just got one and love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 57 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?Pardon my French, but FUCKING WHAT?? The only way the carpet gets that filthy is if he’s a complete pig or the carpet hasn’t been cleaned in at least five years. Neither is a ringing endorsement, she’s going to be playing maid to this slob every damn day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 4 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.Jesus fuck, some guy actually blocked your path? Have you considered carrying pepper spray? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 29 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menI get so pissed off when I hear stories about someone blaming depression or anxiety for what basically amounts to shitty behavior. LOTS of people deal with anxiety and depression, but still manage not to be unfaithful, not to be a complete asshole to others, etc. We ALL have our moments of not being as nice as we could be, especially this past year, but behaving that way consistently makes you a jerk, not mentally ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 34 | "There's no such thing as sex addiction. The only people at the clinic are married men who got caught"THANK YOU for posting this. Any kind of addiction is an illness requiring a specific diagnosis using a comprehensive set of criteria. Sex addiction is NOT common, it’s just commonly used as an excuse to cheat and avoid the consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 17 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.“I have no idea how my dick slipped into her vagina!! I guess it just likes to wander...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 12 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.DAMN those scrotes would be hella mad at me, I’m single and bought myself a whole bunch of new jewelry for Hanukkah and Christmas. 😂 I’ve NEVER waited until I have a man to buy me jewelry, I just buy it for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:51 AM |
| 10 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.And THIS is why we need to have standards and boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 58 | Tales from the Vault III: When my cousin used to bully me, I went crying to my mom for help. She was sitting with my aunt and grandmother, and they all laughed and accused ME of having a crush on HIM. This is just one example of how female socialization grooms girls to tolerate abusive relationshipsHugs to you. You’re so not alone in this. And I’m guessing your cousin didn’t turn out so great - he sounds like a psychopath. I had something similar happen in middle school. This guy would not stop tormenting me, and any time I mentioned it to my dad and stepmom they would tease me and say he has a crush on me. This is probably why I didn’t even think twice when he punched me on the arm and I ended up with a bruise. My dad saw it because I was wearing a t-shirt and asked me what happened, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 49 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.Technically YOU dumped HIM. He tried to make you feel “less” by telling you that you were his second choice, and you said “buh-bye.” I would be surprised if he had been expecting that, he probably thought you would ask him if it means you’re exclusive now or some other bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 15 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!It’s a key ring, so go ahead and show that ring off! Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Mine was more than 10 years ago but it stands out for two reasons. First, I almost married the loser. Second, I’ve never dropped bank on a man again and won’t unless I’m with one who reciprocates. It was an autographed copy of some basketball player’s autobiography. The book was $35, then the cost of shipping both ways to get it to my friend who worked for the team he played for. My ex is a a sports journalist. For my birthday, he got me... a password keeper notebook. (Which I already had purcha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 105 | An (almost?) wholesome thread from r/sex! 🥰🥺It’s almost as if - and hear me out - having real sex is better than watching it being faked onscreen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?The joke is on him when he eventually realizes that as we hit our 30s and 40s, we get to our sexual peak. Meanwhile, he’s heading downhill by the time he hits 30. Good luck keeping up, little man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 19 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himThe comments are MINDBLOWING. Person after person telling her what she surely already knows inside: he isn’t going to marry her. Ever. And she does these unbelievable mental gymnastics to try and excuse him and his negging and jerking around. And then there are those random comments like “But not all of us! Some of us DO want to get married after dragging our feet for a decade,” and it doesn’t occur to them that unlike her scrote, they might not have been as mentally abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Thank god this girl realizes he wants a new mommy. Stay strong girl or you’ll be participating in #kickhimout2020Good grief. I almost married one of these. He actually tried to bring his laundry over one night so I could do his laundry while I was doing mine. I told him I would be happy to show him how to use the machine. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | 4+ years and I JUST walked the door with a small bag and without even a glance let alone a goodbye!Clearly, we are going to need the full story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 30 | The “Blood in the Water” TestThis is excellent advice and I love that you conducted an experiment and scienced the shit outta this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 41 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Well, he sounds exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:15 AM |
| 3 | But who cheats when they’re happy in a relationship?Spoiler Alert: She posted an update, she decided to get back together with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 21 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingHe may act like a great guy to the new woman in his life, but you already know better. He’s going to abuse them emotionally and physically, just as he did to you. Stop checking on him. All you see when you do is lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Old post but has FDS energyLMAO a smart woman doesn’t eat a hotdog off the ground, she goes and gets herself a filet mignon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Hating on your own gender to make men like you...Well, if she means “men are basic fools and simpletons” then maybe she got a point but other than that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 26 | Leveling up is the best revenge.Mine still calls every few years to see if I’m interested in getting back together. He actually made one of those calls shortly before he got engaged, I didn’t even realize the timing until I randomly bumped into him a few years later and he told me he got engaged, married, blah blah. I feel terrible for his now-ex-wife, she deserved better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I used FDS in my career. Dealing with a recruiter.Of course, I don’t take it the wrong way. But don’t discount previous connections. They went to school in various parts of the country and have their own connections who have moved away, some of them to the area you have moved to. If there are people from your previous professional life or university that you do want to connect with, you should. Take a look on LinkedIn at alumni of your university, you never know what or who you’ll find to connect with. Good luck! I’m pulling for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I used FDS in my career. Dealing with a recruiter.I got a professional headshot to use for my profile pic. Start by searching for people you work with, either directly or with other companies that your company does business with. Then look at their connections on LinkedIn and the ones you know or you think will be useful for you in business, send them an invitation to connect. Your network will continue to grow. Make sure your profile lists your current and previous work experience, people can search by companies and may find you that way as we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 3 | I used FDS in my career. Dealing with a recruiter.It’s only happened to me once. I’m grateful it hasn’t happened more, I keep making a lot of connections. Thankfully professional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 32 | I used FDS in my career. Dealing with a recruiter.WTF is with people using LinkedIn like a dating app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 8 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.Good for the wife. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Today I broke up with a nice guy. Explanation in comments. Trigger: mentions deathJudge. I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 15 | Today I broke up with a nice guy. Explanation in comments. Trigger: mentions deathGood for you for listening to your instincts. As an aside, what does that guy have against punctuation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:16 AM |
| 19 | This girl supported her “aspiring author“ boyfriend for 4 years, then he proposed and demanded a prenup because he’s actually super wealthy and never told her.... where would you even start??It gets worse. OP tells more in the comments. She had to sell her late mother’s violin to pay for surgery that their dog needed. I shit you not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Why do men seem to get enjoyment/pleasure from telling women they look tired?I don’t know, but my go-to response is now “Thanks SO much, Mr. Universe.” Make sure to use a heavily sarcastic tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:06 AM |
| 7 | Getting real tired of my pickme friends.I had a couple of friends like this. Eventually I had to say “You know how to change this, you choose to stay with someone who treats you like shit.” After so many years of listening to them complain about it, I gave them a blunt opinion once, then after that when they would complain, I just sat there and didn’t really engage in the conversation. It’s clear they don’t want advice and don’t want to change the situation, and I’m not their therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 22 | Getting real tired of my pickme friends.Have you ever asked any of these friends if they ever get tired of being treated like shit by the men they treat like gold? I mean, I’m sure they’ll get defensive about it, which is when you go through the laundry list of bullshit their men put them through, and ask them what they are getting from the relationship other than mistreated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?There may have been some nice qualities to him, but inviting you to dinner at a high end restaurant and then trying to drop half the bill on you is kind of a dick move, and telling about his true nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 9 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.Welcome to the Patriarchy. This is why we’re trying to tear it down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 9 | Men aggressively "flirting" read harrasing in public during these timesHoly tits on America. We cover our faces and we STILL get harassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Humble men of MatchHe sounds exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:13 AM |
| 13 | Update: confronting cheating fianceI have to know: How did his family find out? Who to,d them? What was their reaction? Give us GLORIOUS details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 18 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.On the other hand, thanks to this LVM for putting it out there for everyone to see how lousy he is in bed so we can avoid him like the latest plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 17 | The scrotacity 🤦♀️And his diatribe is missing so many periods, it needs to take a pregnancy test | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:39 AM |
| 10 | Disgusting, random scrote gives unnecessary advise to me about my body at the grocery storeNext time a scrote does that, take one of those treats and stuff the whole thing in your mouth, not breaking eye contact with him the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | 🙄The truth of these statements just blows my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Mood: Auckland Law School Parady of Blurred LinesHoly shit. This is awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 10 | A boy tried to convince me to break quarantine. I said no, and he blocked me on social media afterwards.You dodged that bullet and a possible Coronavirus exposure, so look at it as two benefits in one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeMy stepmom taught me how to buy cars like this, and so help me until I read your post it didn’t occur to me that this was FDA! Well, it sure does work, even in car buying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Moderator help!I’m in Miami. Willing to go on a cruise or travel for a gathering! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 04:08 PM |
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