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IzzyTheAmazing/r/seduction22/05/14 04:54 PM
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It's quite cyclical. Nobody likes being rejected, so someone becomes a shit to the other person and becomes cynical and jaded and angry. They pass it on to the next person, and so it continues.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:24 PM
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Girl chiming in. It's very possible that she just wanted a simple FWB situation, but sometimes men and women have different ideas about the friends part. Not to mention, her feelings could change (just like yours could have, had she been a particularly awesome match for you). So while you do need to clarify your intentions (to remind her), there's no reason to feel like an asshole. Don't do something that you don't want to do, it does you both no favor - but let her know that so that she has the…
/r/seduction14/09/14 03:23 PM
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It doesn't really change anything. You're not wanting to rush into another relationship, but meeting girls is how you'll meet your next relationship. Some you'll take home and you won't want to call, others you'll see if they wanna get coffee sometime. Then a game changer will come along and you won't want her to leave the next day, and she won't want to either. Enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction09/08/14 12:42 PM
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I agree with the suggestion of therapy a whole freaking lot, but not for the reasons you, OP, might feel when someone tells you to "go to therapy." First of all, obviously you're feeling down - and given your situation, anyone would be feeling down. The problem is that if you continue the route you're going to get worse. Your anxiety is going to increase - you need to be able to openly talk to someone and have them talk some sense into you. You need someone to encourage you to move forward and g…
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:44 PM
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10/10 would go to his side.
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:09 PM
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This is actually the only way I'll let a guy pay for me, and interestingly enough it almost always results in at least a second date because I feel urged to want to repay. Clearly not every girl is like me, of course I'd imagine it would be a good way to learn more about her.
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:59 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:29 PM
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"Surprise!"
/r/seduction23/05/14 10:29 AM
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I definitely understand where you are coming from. It sounds like you speak from a place of having been rejected yourself, so I wonder if you have considered something. I wonder if there is a bit of a disconnect between what girls say, and what guys hear? What I mean is this - what does being yourself exactly mean? To one person it could mean to keep your humor rolling, to another it could mean to be sweet or confident. What does be a gentleman mean? If could mean to the girl that we want to be …
/r/seduction23/05/14 04:21 AM
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He turned around and even did a half wave.
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:56 AM
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that feeling is just impossible to shake. It will definitely be impossible if you think like that!
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:36 PM
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"What? You want to know how to make women feel more comfortable in conversation? You PIG!"
/r/seduction22/05/14 08:49 PM
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I don't know! I can't do it because I'm too shy to approach people in person. Society teaches women to be pursued, and I think it's done us quite the disservice, it's actually why I'm on this sub. But, that in itself is something to take away from this - imagine how many women ARE shy and DO want someone to approach them.
/r/seduction22/05/14 08:49 PM
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You know, I find it really interesting how many people are so against pick up artists. Especially women. But it's not like we don't wanna get laid, too. And it's not like we don't WANT to be approached, but negative experiences in the past definitely make many of us less inclined to be open to a random approach. Things like this "manipulation" make it easier for us to feel comfortable. Who doesn't wanna feel more comfortable and have more opportunities to make meaningful connections? At least th…
/r/seduction22/05/14 07:32 PM
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Protip: You never know if you're attractive to a girl unless you try. Bonus protip: Attractiveness isn't always physical. Sorry, it's just stuff like this really makes me feel sad for every guy (and girl) out there that thinks themselves to be unattractive - because what is unattractive is a guy that's too scared to put himself out there, that's too closed off from the rest of the world that he is standoffish. What is unattractive is a guy that thinks he's a the best thing since sliced bread bec…
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:19 PM
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There was nothing remarkable about his appearance, to me. But confidence (or at least courage to do something scary like that) is one of the most wildly attractive traits to myself and most girls I know - so, I found him to be very attractive in an overall sense of the word.
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:10 PM
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I rest my case.
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:04 PM
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So am I understanding correctly that in a way, it's a tiny version of "wanting what I can't have?"
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:02 PM
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It could be just a super confident guy, I'm not sure - but I figured I'd share anyway since it didn't make his form any less effective.
/r/seduction22/05/14 05:53 PM
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It's the way it's done that seems to make a difference. In a dark parking lot is probably not such a great time to get my attention, but it you have something neutral to talk about then I am probably gonna bullshit with you for a second. I do wonder if a place like a coffee shop or a bookstore is the perfect place to pick up a girl, now that I reflect on it. I didn't have makeup on, I was wearing just normal casual wear - so I wasn't thinking "oh I am going to attract someone today," and moreove…
/r/seduction22/05/14 05:49 PM
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I'm terrible at wordsing. Don't mind me, nothing to see here, move along...
/r/seduction22/05/14 05:38 PM
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Just to buy me a cup of coffee. My point was that he allowed there to be a pause, and let me walk away before asking. :)
/r/seduction22/05/14 05:25 PM
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Just out of curiosity, is this the only thing that you can get off to? Most people have a variety of fetishes in the bedroom, many people are "switch." Also, something to think about is that you can be dominant and submissive at the same time. My boyfriend and I were talking about how a single act of drying someone off after the shower could be taken as a dominant or submissive thing. I could be the domme that is drying off my little toy, or he could be the dom that is making me service him. I r…
/r/seduction16/03/14 10:07 PM
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So I have to admit, as a female, I still do this unintentionally to guys that I'm not not really wanting to get involved but at the same time I do like, perhaps starting to like more-than-just friends. Basically meaning, I'm kind of confused about my feelings for the person, and a bit wishy washy. I mean, almost word for word what you said.
/r/seduction08/03/14 11:12 PM
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We women are taught from a very young age that men are our biggest danger. We assume, at best, that men are only after one thing. At worst, that we're in danger of being raped in the alley behind the building. So we put up our guard. Hence why we're so easy when you've got solid PU techniques. You not being interested in us = safety = us relaxing. You being in a relationship = you not interested (the primal assumption) or unavailable = safety = us relaxing and flirting more. Moreover, men in rel…
/r/seduction08/01/14 08:09 AM
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*They're. *You're
/r/seduction25/08/13 07:40 AM
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As a female I would be highly put off by this. The exception that MAY work is if you're going to her house, and you don't give them TO her, ask for a vase and put them on the table.
/r/seduction25/08/13 07:10 AM
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I do this all the time if a guy makes too much eye contact with me. I start to feel super shy and uncomfortable. Directing his eyes to another place on my face or my hands while I talk helps me relax.
/r/seduction25/08/13 07:08 AM
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