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Considering you don't know me or what I do, you can think whatever you want and it really doesn't matter to the reality of the situation. Have a nice day 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:47 PM
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Well, I'm dating a beautiful healthy woman in her mid twenties who has a good career going in healthcare, have been with her for three years. Sounds to me like what most men wouldn't mind dating but I don't know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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I can use flowery language instead to describe the same scenario, would that make you feel better about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:03 PM
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What constitutes abuse in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:45 PM
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Why are they trusting a man known for deceit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:50 PM
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People who assert themselves often think that. I enjoyed your story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:39 PM
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Inconsequential to the affect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:51 AM
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Regardless, once it registers as abuse you have a choice to make. The choice is, continue "letting them get away with it", or not. Unfortunately, you only have control over your own actions in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:57 AM
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You're asserting quite a bit here, but I wouldn't expect anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:54 AM
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Is that why women's breath stinks like shit? Quit drinking the turd punch and surely you'll enjoy the party more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:04 PM
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And nearly every woman has a story of "abuse" perpetrated by an ex, so what are they really telling you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:48 AM
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Y'know....if none of you picked the abusive man they'd have no one to abuse, but then again you wouldn't have a boogeyman to complain about then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:35 AM
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The people "letting him get away with it" are the women supposedly complaining about it when they could just walk away instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:30 AM
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This is why forcing their play is the best move, it makes intentions clear and dissuades a lot of the game players who use plausible deniability as a modus operandi. Can't be vague when boundaries are clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:54 AM
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...kinda on you for dating men that don't give head 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:46 AM
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🦗🦗
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:31 AM
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This doesn't challenge OPs debate point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:26 PM
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Holy Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:47 AM
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So women attempting to coerce a man are coming from a healthy place, while all men who aren't doing that, aren't? Quite a conflational take, I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:29 PM
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Yes, so long as it also counts for the ones that actually do get pussy 😸
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:26 PM
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My comment must have been initially rushed to front of the queue seeing as it was newer than any other useless comment yet reaping the upvotes against em Good ol Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:19 PM
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They're all still up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:11 PM
6

Very few of the responses in here are challenging any view, let alone OPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:01 PM
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Agreed, every man that isn't coerced into contract is another woman screeching that her eggs are drying up without someone to fund them. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:37 AM
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This is reality Women say it's men breaking down doors for relationships/marriage yet I've never heard a man crying over not getting married, or heard a scenario where the man puts a stipulation on the woman to get married by a certain date or he leaves. This is heavily woman coded behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:38 AM
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I mean, you set yourself up right and jobs do apply to you 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:09 PM
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Dating a woman is a job? You said it, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:54 AM
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100%, way better to be a smooth talker than competent as it's what most people actually vet for, professionally and romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:14 AM
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Eve (as was Adam) was specifically told not to partake, only one did lol Anyways it doesn't really matter, it's an allegory that man must remain grounded to see through wordly deceit while lending the fact that it is a tale as old as time, at least in Christian thought discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:18 PM
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Adam ate the fruit too, same as Eve. If we really want to get into Christian lore, he was deceived to taste it by the woman he trusted who was sold a dream of knowledge by the great deceiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:02 PM
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You're just telling me what you believe RP is and who you believe are the arbiters of what you consider an ideology that doesn't actually exist in any normal space (like, who are these people you're talking about? Go outside), in attempt to use an appeal to authority fallacy to paint a swath as such. It's just derailment after red herring after derailment. When you actually understand what an ideology is and what it needs to actually be to be defined as such let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:58 PM
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I don't think you understand what an ideology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:34 PM
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Where is this stated in the ideological manifest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:53 AM
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The ideological goal is to make money off losers. That's not how an "ideology" works, try again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:52 AM
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What is the ideological goal of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:39 PM
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Most of the ones I've seen do that are Hispanic construction workers and those dudes are always married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:18 AM
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Unironically, if men just adjusted to the reality they see as opposed to trying to impose what type of reality they want they'd have a lot more success and actually induce the change they want en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:14 AM
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I have no problem with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:02 PM
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Happy you found your Beholder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:52 PM
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Rare to see true RP takes like this on here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:37 AM
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Most men have to find beauty in the average. Eye of the Beholder and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:10 AM
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Within the context of ass ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:03 AM
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So we should just consider any woman with a toxic ex they claim is a narcissist, or who had a bad boy phase mentally ill? I mean, yes? Look up SSRI usage rates by gender if you need help believing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:12 PM
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The ones they choose to marry are of a similar archetype, one they love to complain about. Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:06 PM
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You don't really though, or you would already be shaping your life to live the life you want. I have a hunch you put more energy into the status quo though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:03 PM
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And far too many women want the ceremony and children for IG, but not the marriage, husband, or any of the real life attached to it. It really is a shit deal all around tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:55 AM
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Anyone who has ever had to clean up a mens only space vs womens only space knows this to the core lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:52 AM
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Fish don't wanna be caught. Fish react to stimuli, they don't think about "caught/not caught" at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:59 AM
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Well since you're speaking for other women, curious as to why they'd rack up count with a bunch of men who (they/you say) don't even give them orgasms. Doesn't really follow your logic of enjoying sex is correlated with more bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:24 PM
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If your experience is that many men are selfish what experience are you looking for in sleeping with many of them? Doesn't seem to correlate to good sex to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:16 PM
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I think they lost the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:58 PM
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Good sex doesn't require many partners though. Pleasurable sex and partner count has no correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:54 PM
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Art, TV shows, music, hobbies etc Same thing you'd talk about with anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:21 PM
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Why are they the primary demographic that approaches me, a 38yo man? I mean, I've been dating a 26yo for 3 years now too Seems out of all of the choices they definitely at least consider older guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:01 PM
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How is choosing not to deal with a woman outside of a sexual context rape? Sounds more like he's saying "I don't have the bandwidth to offer anything but dick atm, sorry", which leaves the choice to engage up to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:05 PM
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You believe there is a correlation between body count and sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:44 PM
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Ask a true Canadian how that's going lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:12 PM
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Can women offer more than just ass then? I make my own paycheck, yours is inconsequential
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:08 PM
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Show a woman heaven and she'll complain about the view
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:51 PM
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What is the ideological goal of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:55 PM
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Love seeing some real shit on here 🙌🏻 Gives me hope seeing people understand how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:44 PM
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She sees herself as a carnival game with her vagina as the big stuffed teddy bear That's totally a woman's prerogative as long as she understands the people at her booth are there to win the prize, not to understand the game for anymore than that. 3 balls for $5, step right up!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:53 AM
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If the only thing keeping someone near them is the thing between their legs they're probably not a very interesting person or worth knowing in the first place 🤷🏻 All that situation tells is that women don't like what they view as "sexual competition" if they know they can't leverage their golden puss for something because a man would give it for free. Like, if that's women's reasoning they're saying "despite who I am they'd probably leave me for dick", like don't you have any redeeming features …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:50 PM
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Way ahead of you 😎 It's just hilarious being called a misogynist for helping facilitate true equality, it's like forcing a little kid to eat their broccoli. I know you hate me for it now but it's good for you and you'll thank me later
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:20 PM
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People take what they can get, including men. Your response is inconsequential, if men had any amount of self respect and boundaries "users" would be a non issue either way, women are irrelevant to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:35 PM
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They are, but the only way women can use is if a man lets them. If men had even an ounce of self respect most women wouldn't be able to act like that at all, but a lot of men are pathetic and willing to pay for company so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:30 PM
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A lot of men are pathetic losers willing to pay for company, what else is new
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:27 PM
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I'm just responding to what you told me about your dating wants by telling you yeah, you go for guys who need to pay for it and I go for women who genuinely want to know who I am. No shit we're different lol, I don't pay for it because I get enough attention to pick the one that I want, unlike most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:21 PM
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Don't even need to do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:18 PM
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Yeah but you don't need a pretty nest to get a woman, that's the point Women don't seem to mind no nest at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:08 PM
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If pretty nests got men laid they'd be in every tree you see That's not what gets men laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:55 PM
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And I dodge women who see courtship as "how much can I get for my time" vs. "who is this person I'm interested in and actually getting to know" Like, how fast do you want to have a stranger's kids for fucks sake? You need compensation for figuring out if you're compatible with someone? Yes, I am definitely "selfish" for seeing the context of dating as getting to know someone vs. how much does this stranger want to get her to give me time of day lol Haven't had any real issues regarding my dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:56 PM
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So, bad women who try and force good men into pushing boundaries are garbage humans Pretty much wraps this "debate" up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:47 PM
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Most men use these reasons to force women into sex. Forced sex is rape. Your stance is that most men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:44 PM
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Yes, been in one for three years. Had a few longer term ones before that. Needless to say, I don't date women who view the world as "what can I get for my pussy", which has me dodging a lot of red flags. If you can't just enjoy someones company without alluding towards spending money for your time then you're placing yourself as a product with a minimum buy in, not a selfless equal exchange of trying to get to know someone for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:38 PM
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Men would date a cow if it looked at them with bedroom eyes It's not men who have racial or physical preferences that affects their choices on the whole, not by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:36 PM
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So you do know why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:24 PM
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I am the "bad man" that women pick and I complain about their choices because why are they picking me? I'm straight up that I have no intention of a relationship, if that's not what you're looking for then leave me alone. But they don't, and then complain about their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:10 PM
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We'll all be waiting a good while for that one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:06 PM
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What is the ideological goal of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:46 AM
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I mean, yes, naivete often helps facilitate "happiness" in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:47 PM
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It sounds like female nature is desperate It is when their little brain overrides the big one Seems like half of em won't take "no" for an answer without chimping out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:40 PM
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They lie to themselves more than anyone else if they want it bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:32 PM
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No no no, if you are "bad" you don't get laid, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:36 PM
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Oh I agree, I don't think I'm articulating correctly. My point is, are you "really" changed, or are you practicing CBT to work with who you are as to not have the negative nature manifest? I speak as someone who uses CBT to try and healthily work around my own problems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:58 PM
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So you consider an alcoholic "cured" when they go through recovery? Or are they an alcoholic who has learned to live with their condition, themselves and cope in healthier ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:59 PM
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I liken it to spicing a dish. You aren't going to eat a spoonfull of salt, but for most any good dish would be incomplete without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:29 PM
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I mean yeah, since you view dating as a trade of pussy for future hypotheticals then whatever man isn't interested in seeing the situation as a transaction for pussy access like you do should look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:31 PM
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I haven't paid for "dates" in years. We agree to a mutually enjoyable experience, if you're looking for someone to pay for that then go ask yo dad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:52 PM
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You should take it as he doesn't want to pay for pussy, anything else is just a post hoc rationalization to save ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:49 PM
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Spending your time trying to date women and trying to meet as many of them as possible to learn how to be more comfortable around them and gain confidence is a form of pedestalizing them How so? When I date multiple women I put a little effort into each, it keeps me more grounded around the hotter ones and reverses the pedestalization. Or are you talking about something like an absolute, indiscriminate dating style? Who does that? That's just being a sad sack of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:09 PM
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Being introspective is never a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:52 PM
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Women say they want nice guys but reward fuckbois Round and round we all go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:50 PM
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It was literally declassified. You can keep excusing pedos if you'd like, seems you're in good company nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:46 PM
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Enough with the conspiracy theories, it's just really irrelevant. It's not conspiracy, why are you attempting to paint it as such? Kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:46 PM
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Exactly, quit choosing the guys you say you hate so much and the problem would solve itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:13 PM
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Which begs the question, why are women seeking unsatisfying partners if it isn't doing anything for them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:09 PM
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Because it isn't a "partner choice" thing, it's an "observing most women walking around" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:50 PM
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What ideology are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:36 PM
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It's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:00 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? Probably just not hot and slightly weird, awful people get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:49 PM
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Women shouldn't choose that guy, but they line up to soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:46 PM
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Exclusive FWB is definitely a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:25 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say. They like the predicament they place in front of themselves, let em and just maneuver around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:22 PM
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What is the ideological goal of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:00 PM
1

I need to invoke some IDDQD for this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:52 PM
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Who's adhering to what beliefs? Personally, I just watch people and laugh when it often lines up with that particular praxeology over many others, but I don't follow how observing people in reality acting in ways the praxeology describes means anyone is adhering to prescribed beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:05 PM
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Men aren't the one's hounding women for children and marriage Women want that crap way more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:55 PM
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🎶 Gotta Catch 'Em All STD's!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:51 PM
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It's a praxeology, not an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:58 PM
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There are only like two or three places in the US known for "pretty" people, outside of that the average person kinda looks like a bloated foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:53 PM
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Gotta orchestrate the dream to play
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:38 PM
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I'd like for you to point out a stud that encapsulates the "non-toxic / obnoxious traits" they think entails acting like a man consists of instead of the typical route they tend to go with Women's own charicature of men is acting out like a doofus that most of us men laugh at but realize women love for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:53 PM
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Her stance is that most women are conservative while pretending not to be. Tbh I agree with that assessment, look how quickly they call you a homophobic slur when you don't want anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:51 PM
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It isn't a terrible decision for a lot of men if women respond to it positively Sounds like the women who experience this are in quite the pickle here, oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:33 PM
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Because women respond to it in kind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:25 PM
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Non applicable here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:33 PM
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Yes, the proof is in the pudding so to speak, if enough men agree that's what they're seeing then that's how it works. The criminal doesn't get let off because the only evidence is that many people saw them do it. I'm curious, what demographic do I belong to other than man who observes? Seems we're starting with the heuristics already
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:07 PM
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Anecdotal evidence = isolated examples or personal stories. We're finding this is a remarkable repeatable phenomenon that many men experience. Observing the same thing over and over in reality doesn't have much to do with one's own ego, moreso how the world operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:59 PM
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That would qualify as empirical evidence, seeing as it's a repeatable, easily perceived scenario. Empirical evidence ≠ anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:34 PM
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Because they're putting forward a cognitive dissonance for you to maneuver, cognitive dissonance involves not understanding that your simultaneous actions/thoughts are directly opposed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:03 PM
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It's always funny watching one woman suggest that most other women are mentally unstable for doing something that most of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:00 PM
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You're assuming that people are generally introspective of their actions, subconscious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:51 PM
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Ime there is but there's more correlation with body / frame size / height
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:15 AM
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Agreed, but if you're actually good at holding that frame they're going to absolutely hate you for it while simultaneously trying to vie for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:51 PM
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You're not wrong, quite a few women have no idea how to have any real type of sexually charged or playful discourse, the man usually does most of this for them initially. I know in my experiences most women who have "hit on" me are actually pretty annoying because they're dry as fuck and have no idea about how to even cast a sexual atmosphere, then call you gay when you aren't interested in their sauceless ass. EDIT: Oh, I saw the context of the communication you were talking about. Outside of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:49 PM
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Still waiting for em to put their money where their mouth is, I suspect I'll be waiting a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:41 PM
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Why would they disagree with that? Large part of what they preach is self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:51 PM
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Men aren't the ones hounding women for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:42 PM
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I don't think they actually understand the simple concept that if there's nothing remarkable about them we'll still entertain them for a night if they're pretty enough to have sex with. The ones that are remarkable enough to be remembered for more than just ass are treated as such, it's such a self own for a woman to admit that she thinks "all most men want is sex" because really what she's saying is that "all most men want from me is sex"; they don't offer anything men actually want except that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:40 PM
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Sounds like an equal exchange to me What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:35 PM
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Rules 1 and 2 are the most important rules, c'mon we went over this yesterday Net negative to be a dick when you're ugly, net positive when you're hot, according to how the ladies react.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:45 PM
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I'm asking why they do if they just want to complain about the very thing they're incentivizing. Is the goal to have something to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:03 PM
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He stated that women tend to like the "problem". Why would women like the problem, and incentivize men to be the problem they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:55 PM
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People in this sub love taking the rope to hang themselves with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:53 PM
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I can pipe in if you really want a first hand experience on this I am dating a mid 20s woman now, but when I was single out cruising I'd run through a couple of women a week with not a lot of effort expended, and it worked a lot better being an asshole than it did being nice. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:40 PM
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The only thing he stated are that women tend to like them So I guess if he wants women to like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:34 PM
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Men aren't women, a lot of them are pretty happy being picked at all to be "default acceptable", unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:12 PM
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Exactly, it's damn near the most honest exchange you can get from a woman at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:09 PM
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I've picked up on this phenomenon myself in the last year or so, it's super noticeable irl and definitely bleeds over into internet spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:55 PM
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No, I'm trying to understand if you were forced to do something or not. If you were, the person forcing you is accountable for subjecting you to whatever circumstances those may be If you weren't, then you're to blame for the voluntary act of choosing to stay with whatever individual behaviors fall under the "shitty" category in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:04 PM
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No, I'm wondering if anyone outside of yourself forced you to interact with that particular person, in which case it would be the person who forced you to interact with someone you didn't want to interact with who's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:51 PM
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Was it an arrangement where you had no say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:36 PM
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Do you have agency or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:45 PM
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A man finally showing full equality to women as he would a man Truer feminism than this cannot be achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:11 PM
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This is describing women's aversion to traditional values I'm not even RP and the concept is clear, c'mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:52 PM
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It is the only "powerful" thing they have to leverage, ofc they're going to keep bringing it back to that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:43 PM
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I suppose the takeaway is that men need to do their part to ensure equality in this context. I know I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:23 PM
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I've been seeing recently that "ICE agent" has been trending in women's roleplay AI 'Foids be gooning worse than men nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:10 PM
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Women themselves are showing these guys the information, how could TRP be giving what the women are showing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:07 PM
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Yes, a woman needs to do more than offer puss to stand out to me in a dating context, unfortunately most don't try further than leveraging that like it's the only one in town, or that I am going to respond like they think a man should. Truly, I wish more of you thought I wasn't a catch because then I wouldn't need to deal with yet another one thinking her vag is dipped in gold instead of just using her brain. Apologies for expecting more from y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:27 AM
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Bottomless pits, it's not like they haven't written about this exact concept for millennia People seriously need to read more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:57 PM
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You don't even need that much as long as you look good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:27 PM
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Not particularly, it's a "woman not having to understand value past her vagina" problem because the world coddles her for it. It's not my problem that most women don't understand that, I just accommodate what they do understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:01 PM
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At least for me, I am reflective in what I offer. If a woman can't offer me anything other than "being a sex doll" then that's what she set her worth at, and all I'll see her as. Unfortunately most women don't offer much more than that, and orbit around attempting to leverage this concept instead of understanding you have more to you than just your puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:39 PM
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"I don't want to get skinny because then I'll be too hot for these men to control themselves" I'm betting it's just because you can't put down the Cheetos, but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:34 PM
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Ideology is identity now, for many to give up the culture war is to give up sense of self. It ain't happening, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:12 PM
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Probably the ones she picked to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:00 PM
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They also realized that being a hoe isn't going to get them what they want, it's why faux traditionalism has made a comeback and is all the rage nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:50 PM
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Uh oh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:31 PM
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Fish react impulsively to stimuli, they don't think about caught / not caught at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:58 PM
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This is what my gf (a conservative leaning mid 20s woman) says as well, "men prefer baddies and then complain about them so they never notice normal girls". As someone who doesn't have an issue attracting women, I asked her "well where were you that I would have been able to run into you instead of that baddie?" Her response? "Hanging with my friends at their house". Ok, so you're salty that men like me picked women who were in spaces doing fun things with us instead of kicking down your door an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:02 PM
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They always have someone willing to fuck but that's about as good as it goes nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:55 PM
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Shrek wasn't a Disney movie, and Shrek isn't a prince. He's an ogre who gets a "princess" to recognize her actual level
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:28 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:26 PM
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Stoicism in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:13 PM
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That's the no gender roles thing everyone wanted so please, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:17 PM
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Looks like those grandpas better have some money if they're looking to be cared for If not oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:09 PM
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Who said all? I'm only saying the large majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:36 AM
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A lot of men don't have much choice outside of their own hand so they can ILF whatever they want, and I'd encourage them to fuck whatever they could at that point as well considering their circumstances. The actual point is what people think of as a MILF and what it actually entails are pretty different things in reality. You can disagree if you want and say yeah, most women look better after having kids, which sounds like you have a vested interest in that particular demographic seeing as most …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:40 PM
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Because that's the reality, not a porn category. Your idea of a MILF is very different from the typical reality of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:23 PM
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No one's thinking of the blown out overweight lady with 3 kids when they think of a MILF bro They're thinking of the "fantasy" of a hot chick with "mom qualities" that happens to have a kid, not the reality of what that usually entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:12 PM
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Yes, there are a lot of sad sack men with little options out there who will take what they can get. I thought this was one of the few things we all knew and agreed on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:06 PM
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He's 20, give him a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:41 AM
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This is me as well. I'm late 30s and for the latter half of my 30s I've noticed a definite shift in age of the women who've shown interest in me. Most nowadays are in their early-mid 20s, the woman I'm currently dating is now 25 and she pursued me when she was 23. There's definitely a large minority of young women who genuinely like "older" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:56 PM
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Just goes to show what kind of men they're typically hooking up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:49 PM
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We aren't saying our anecdotes are statistics, only that they align and lend to what the statistics are saying. You're conflating opinion and observable reality with statistics in a specific context, which I'm making clear that even though it is just an opinion it reflects reality as many men see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:08 PM
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Yes yes I'm weird, autistic and have tiktok brain. Anything else? When you reinforce RP talking points and I agree it's real, but when I do it's just "reinforcing tik tok brain"? All that sounds like are that different people are coming to similar conclusions about things. Most men have a tale of at least one ex complaining about prior abuse from their choice in men, if you're not aware of that then I suppose men and women must live in two different realities. I have to wonder which one is more …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:36 PM
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I'm not RP, don't have tik tok or any of that nonsense, I operate in reality just as you supposedly do. Most women I've interacted with in this context and space (reality) have a tale of some abuse or trauma an ex has bestowed upon them, and most men would likely agree. Before you assume again, my friend groups are roughly half women and span many different backgrounds. Observable reality doesn't self insert "RP ideologies", it reflects what is happening, some of which are considered RP. Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:19 PM
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I'm not autistic though, just observant and aware of the statistics. It plays a role in most choices, if you don't use them that's your prerogative, I just like to lean towards described reality when making decisions. If I like someone who's statistically likely to be problematic and shows signs as such it isn't autistic to heed the information. Personally I believe this speaks in part as to why women always have an "abusive ex" as well, you generally don't pay attention and let things "just hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:37 PM
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TIL recognizing probabilities in statistics regarding anything other than dating is smart, but doing it within the context of dating it's "autistic". Interesting stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:53 PM
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Lot of folks do, and I think it's weird myself. I thought it would be a rare thing considering what I've heard from women throughout my life; maybe I just attract bisexual women more often than not. Either way, my anecdote leans to your point. I agree with you that more women are sharing nowadays vs. what they used to do, as it wasn't at this level until the last 5 years or so for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:30 PM
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I'm not even poly or anything like that and most of the women I date tend to eventually want to bring in another woman for both of us to play with, I can totally see this having some bearing on the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:22 PM
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You genuinely think people make bad decisions just because? Easy to say when a normal development and a brain that is structured around that can't comprehend how or why the brain structure built around chaos has trouble performing outside of that space. Yes, ultimately it is the person's choice, but the choices they see as normal stem from upbringing that is different from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:11 PM
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I've noticed this type of fallacy is a very typical MO here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:45 PM
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That's what you frame the appeal as, understanding why you frame it as such would probably help you but questioning that line of thought is apparently more difficult or it's believers unwilling enough to do so that facilitating and operating in an actual functioning patriarchal based theocratic society is easier, so who am I to argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:46 PM
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Men don't mind marriage when marriage isn't considered the state inserting itself as a middleman saying "everything between you two is done through me" and supplying a strongarm contract as the only ways of validating the agreement. If that's considered "marriage" nowadays, most men have no care for that and wouldn't deal with it if they could reliably get children elsewhere (e.g. artificial wombs) Personally, I wouldn't mind marriage if it wasn't such a lopsided agreement, however, it is. As a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:32 PM
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Yes, bad contracts are best avoided. What are you proposing otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:22 PM
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They'd prefer to be put in burqas rather than listen to an appeal Nothing you can do about it except hedge bet and put yourself on the side that will likely come out on top, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:21 PM
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So you're going for sad guys that don't really have choices? Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:57 PM
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How is cause / effect ego-based? Sad men don't get puss handed to them, they have to pay for it. Positioning yourself as a prostitute looking to skim some from sad men in this structure isn't the best if you're looking for anything regarding normal relations or retaining respect, but women are free to do as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:50 PM
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"Nuh uh they do and they're even worse!" Crazy, I've never seen one of even heard of one. It's more logically consistent to you that men don't have these sites (or they're not popular) because they're cool sharing, rather than we just don't need these sites because we actually view women on realistic scale and don't typically all chase the same woman? Fairly telling, definitely paints a better picture of what kind of men you hang around lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:15 PM
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Why would the guy you would like to take you on a date pay for your food to get puss when he can get it for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:07 PM
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A sad man will pay to access the puss, this isn't new or revolutionary thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:59 PM
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How come men don't need these types of groups to verify the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:46 PM
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A dismissive, defensive woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:00 PM
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Yeah, and keeping what's actually the most important aspect of sex to most women out of their reach until they prove they're worth it: commitment Since y'all don't value the sex I'll just take that thank you, I and most men have no issues with keeping this type of situation indefinitely, much to the chagrin of most women All I ask is if this is the situation you're asking for then please quit threatening the men you actually want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:21 PM
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Yeah, and keeping what's actually the most important aspect of sex to most women out of their reach: commitment Since y'all don't value the sex I'll just take that thank you, I and most men have no issues with keeping this type of situation indefinitely, much to the chagrin of most women All I ask is if this is the situation you're asking for then please quit threatening the men you actually want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:20 PM
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Women have threatened to stab me or blow up my car because they think a dicking down means we're dating, unfortunately big girl words seem to elude them in these circumstances. Regardless, it's inconsequential to my point; we're all getting what we want here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:02 PM
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Alright, so guys can keep clapping lower tier chicks shooting higher than they're worth and neither will get relationships regardless. Problem solved 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:48 PM
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Men aren't the ones complaining they're used for sex without commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:45 AM
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So, as with the men in this situation, women are aware of the choices they make in this scenario and are able to construe this experience from their perspective role in the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:20 PM
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Great, so stop being pedantic about ubiquitous concepts then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:06 PM
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Seriously, the sooner women give up the main reason society holds them high the sooner it can sidestep women in the holdup of having a baby altogether. They'll become a liability to the state once their tax credits and programs cost the government more than a plastic womb, and the sooner women have to compete with a societal made "golem" that challenges their inherent worth yet is "good for things" the sooner women will understand what men have been talking about for a few decades now. We're all…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:17 PM
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Another man here to corroborate, I think that too despite being a victim myself back in the day. I was a fucking idiot to stick around such a person, now I know better. You either get it or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:52 PM
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You jest, yet having the bag in the club gets em lining up If you're just trolling for ass clubby girls are always a good bet if you know how to work the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:48 PM
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Yep, go into it acting like a friend and they'll relate to you like a friend no matter what you "think" you're doing. Made this mistake a bunch when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:42 PM
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Oh boy...we're really going with the age equals emotional maturity argument here? You'd hope this is the case but unfortunately isn't true in the slightest, most people are overemotional teenagers regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:08 PM
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I'm not saying that family is the only fulfillment for men, I'm more alluding towards the idea that "stuff" doesn't actually fill a hole and that relying on that for true fulfillment will not give you what you're looking for. As someone who's gotten most of things that men are supposed to "want", when you get it and finally have it you often go "now what" after you're bored with it and it becomes a liability. And I'm not saying I chased everyone else's dreams for what's supposed to be a fulfilli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:23 PM
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Understandable, but I feel that understanding the drive to achieve and where that comes from in each individual is key here. I feel for a majority of men the main driver is the thought of having a fulfilling life with a family and your own little slice of the dream. When that seems unattainable? Well, why work towards what you'll never receive no matter how hard you work? If the amount of work to achieve what you actually want is insurmountable, why do it? It's a fatalistic approach but even wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:44 PM
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If you're dating as a man that's about the most realistic expectation you could have regarding this context. I'm the funny one in every relationship I've had, however my previous GFs have had their moments. Personally, I feel most men aren't funny and an even greater amount of women are even less generally funny than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:29 PM
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Now that's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:25 PM
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Regardless, you still require exceptionally less as a single man vs what you'd need to invest to entertain a woman as well. The joke that men would still be living in caves if women didn't demand more is only slightly tongue in cheek. Hypothetically, I could definitely see most men who felt fated to never experiencing life stages to essentially lie down and stop producing. They already have a term for a similar concept, calling them herbivore men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:30 AM
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I'm saying despite these men already paying taxes, birth rates are plummeting faster than ever. This is the situation happening in reality. As such, we can see that taxes do not guarantee more kids or workforce in the future despite the work sector. This is why the west is in an immigration debate worldwide right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:59 PM
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I don't see the correlation of never being able to have your own kids yet being forced to pay for others because of potential care home employees? There will always be women having kids, yet birth rates are still plummeting despite men like that paying taxes. There is nothing to suggest paying for others children will guarantee or even hedge in your favor having caretakers when you're decrepit. I think most people in the west feel that their rights and style of living are going to change fairly …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:22 PM
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The price of everything is skyrocketing. How do you intend to feed shelter and clothe yourself working part time I do that right now lol. I became a specialist in something that few people do and now do consulting and contracting projects in that area. I work a couple of weeks a month and make as much as someone working in STEM. I legit took this whole month off because I wanted to just chill for a bit, excited to get back to doing shit in October though, it's looking to be a good one. It might …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:58 PM
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I got more of a "I don't want to pay for the parts of society that society has effectively iced me out of" vibe from it, nothing particularly crazy about that statement other than your framing of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:33 PM
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I suppose, but in order to get someone to work there has to be a ROI, no one works for free. If a man isn't going to get the returns, he doesn't actually need to work that hard at all because the only thing he needs to support is himself. This idea is fine in theory until swaths of the taxable workforce decide to do minimal contributions, social services and general societal cohesion start to crack. This is where we're at now because of, in part shitty money management, imagine if a decent perce…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:25 PM
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What delusion is that? Do you date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:43 PM
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Just posting to say, I relate to your experience 100% and have gone through very similar trails and tribulations. You're spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:58 PM
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So if that's the case, it's not affecting you. What are you complaining about? That women actively reward those types of men with sex and they should say no? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:49 PM
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Women lose most of their leverage dating a bi guy, that's why they prefer not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:40 PM
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His face looks average to me. <image> Average is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:59 PM
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Have to consent before you agree, c'mon we learned this ages ago
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:28 PM
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BPs really having trouble understanding this concept in here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:26 PM
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Uh huh, and what is the "value" they generate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:27 AM
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Problem comes from you assuming what isn't there instead of asking for elaboration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:10 PM
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Yeah she doesn't realize she's just putting herself in the fuck-only position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:04 PM
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Quite a lot of assumption and anecdote doing some heavy lifting there, always enjoy reading the tales people spin of what they think I am on here, or what point I'm purporting to back. I'm not being cryptic, I'm saying most other men aren't worth hanging with just as most wine bars aren't where I'd decide to be on a Friday or Saturday night either. Considering I work in entertainment stemming from previous art / music / hobbies, I have more friend groups and know more people than I almost wish t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:54 PM
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I can understand single guys not wanting to spend money at a wine bar, but they aren’t even outside with me. Well, what are you doing? And even though it doesn't need to be said, more money spent ≠ better experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:44 PM
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Wish it were more of you, I've found that more operate closer to what I experience than not when it comes to initial attraction, first "dates" and responses stemming from that. They have a choice to either act like you, or act like what I'm describing and unfortunately they often act more like what I'm describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:00 PM
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Au contraire, I've met many women who've just wanted to fuck and I'm kind of an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:45 AM
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Why would you be shocked? Women make up roughly 85% of discretionary spending, seems like a typical night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:25 AM
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Good, means there's a greater chance you stand on actual principle instead of ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:45 PM
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What part of Florida are you in? I primarily live / work here and do a lot of work up and down the coast as well as in California in what would be considered entertainment industries, things seem to be business as usual to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:33 PM
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Yep, see what they're doing with the NYC mayor electoral race right now? Same shit, different decade
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:26 PM
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Reality: Women drive the majority of consumer spending
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:26 AM
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You're so eager to hear what you want that you don't look at what they're actually showing you. Actually listen and watch, you can afford not to fuck the guy you think you like for a few weeks while you figure out this huge pitfall you guys supposedly put so much such stock in but can't seem to ever get past. You're acting like men don't have women tell them bullshit all the time. It's pretty clear who's doing what if you look past the pretty face, but then you wouldn't get dicked down like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:48 PM
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Maybe talk about it instead of assuming and fucking if "feeling used" is really that important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:53 PM
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Let's just put it this way, most are plain oatmeal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:06 PM
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It's because most people hold cognitively dissonant thoughts often based on identity structures. Bad behavior is excused and moralized nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:10 PM
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You'd take the main reason the government throws any support your way away and think that it would bode well for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:53 PM
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If a woman dates a regular guy, and it's going well, and then over time has to break up with him because the relationship isn't working out, what is she going to say to others post-breakup? "He was so nice, I loved him"? No, she's going to say all the bad things about him Why would she say bad things about him unless he was a piece of shit? I thought he was "a regular guy"? You do realize that people break up with each other for reasons other than "being a piece of shit", right? Like growing apa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:06 PM
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Most of the women I've met from various social circles are fairly dysfunctional, but then again so are most people. Unfortunately this behavior isn't considered "dysfunctional" in women though, at least on a societal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:45 PM
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It's not a tiny amount, or men wouldn't be hearing every woman cry about having an abusive ex. Women are overwhelmingly going for that "tiny amount" they love to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:43 PM
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Like I said, let me know what I can do to stop you from procreating with a deadbeat, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:04 AM
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When they fuck and create the criminals they complain about it is pretty much their problem, nothing I could do in that situation to keep it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:04 PM
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We already do that, and they still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:59 PM
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If they use that "logic" then what they actually believe is that women are inherently clean despite the job and sex workers are just dirty despite the gender, only because sex workers can also be men. Most sing a different tune of who's considered what when the context is a woman using a male sex worker. Just another use of roundabout logic and ideological hueristics to justify "supporting" hard bias against what they "don't like".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:41 PM
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If you want an old blown out lady with kids they're dime a dozen, no need to get sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:06 PM
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Old moms filtering themselves out of anything but casual sex should be hope fuel for y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:03 PM
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This is why I joke with my friends "no matter what they say, who's still on their knees at the end of the night?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:57 PM
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Sigh Yep, neither are most men, but looking at why isn't going to land you in a majority opinion, nor is it going to condone healthy societal structures in regards to identifying problems those particular men bring about that you want other men to "correct".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:47 PM
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Sigh Ok, first we should look at what groups of men are performing what crimes to figure out who, statistically, are causing the issues you're complaining about. Then we can find a solution for those particular groups of men causing the crime you complain about. There you go, that's what you want when applied to reality. See any issues with that system?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:42 PM
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Exotic? More like your run of the mill seagull if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:07 PM
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Same reason women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:30 AM
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You must be in a red state. In California we complain about conservative men matching with us. There are more registered Republicans in California than there are in Florida, I've never seen em complaining 🤷🏻 As a SF native if anything I see the local women abhor the typical liberal techie city type and pine for a more grounded assertive type of guy who actually has a personality outside of his portfolio and boring ass tech job. Those dudes typically look "conservative" to locals even though they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:45 PM
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I lived with and shared a bathroom with a gay man that complained less about my cleanliness than most women I've dated, really sheds some light on and helps maintain a realistic perception of what's considered normal expectations of cleanliness in the household. Unfortunately, most women are barn animals in this respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:09 PM
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Because according to everyone here I should be an anomaly that doesn't exist. It's also fun to read the half baked takes and circular reasoning of each demographic of people, all in all surprises are rarely found around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:43 PM
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Damn straight, now feed me my grapes slave
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:02 PM
2

You've gotten the cause/effect flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:23 PM
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She's asking for things she doesn't actually want just to see if she can stumble some low IQ folks in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:39 AM
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Funny that people want to be looked at as different, then say shit like this. Nah, it's just identity adoption in place of self discovered truths and values, things that existed before the political party you back even existed. It's black and white hueristics at best, a way to frame people without introducing much critical thought to the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:34 PM
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Interesting that you only consider the physical labor tier of blue collar as the only true blue collar, and compare it to the medical industry as a whole. 🤷🏻 I'm from California, now living in Florida and have lived in major metros across the US. I sees what I sees and it stays consistent, only medical I've seen consistently outpacing my contemporaries honestly really should be, because they're doctors and it took them an inordinate amount of time to earn that role. Your run of the mill MA that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:22 PM
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You're correct, tbh unless you're doing higher end medical it doesn't really pay more than anything else if you're at that level. Sure, my surgeon grandfather reaped the benefits, but the P/RTs, OR techs, RNs etc that are my friends make the same or less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:54 PM
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Don't know about that, I make more than my RN gf working part time in a technical position in "blue collar".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:15 PM
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You're going to find quite a few replying to this topic need an adversary for their "identity" to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:08 PM
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Who's putting out negativity? No judgements were made, all it shows are potential logic paths common in certain types of people and helps you make a more informed choice whether you want to be with that type of person or not. You can choose to prescribe whether that's considered "bad" or "good" to you but that's not really the point of the observation or even relevant to the information gleaned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:09 PM
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It's a proxy for other behaviors common in that type of person. Generally things such as impulsivity, general inhibition, reinforcement learning, what charges them emotionally and how they respond to it, etc. It paints a full enough picture to help make a call if you want to be with a personality type like that, not really difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:35 PM
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Your joking right? The dude in his interviews was spouting pure esoteric nonsense. You're starting to understand what "charisma" means to the fairer sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:23 PM
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I for one am appreciative to have this secret power of influence, I didn't even realize my power! It's unfortunate that it only goes so far as to affect specifically only lesbian relationships, and only when it comes to them beating each other's ass after they also both somehow each exclusively dated a specific type of man (that they're also not sexually attracted to, because, y'know, lesbian) Yep makes sense to me, wrap it up and ship it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:07 PM
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Having gem mine owners for parents probably helped him out a little bit but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:22 PM
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I mean, you're the one in here relating a consensual act to people who sexually assault and traffic. Pretty telling where your mind tends to go first when something inconsequential to what subject we were discussing is what you want to have brought up. So, what about sexual assault in those contexts would you like to discuss? I can derail just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:12 PM
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I agree with this observation, happens to me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:57 PM
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Exactly, that is best case scenario and what I wished happened more often, even better when they think it's their idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:13 PM
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I don't care and am "good at it"...when you understand how it works and are jaded enough about the results (good or bad) yet your biological imperative tells you to play it regardless it's pretty easy to do it well and "not care", especially when how you act shows little difference in the results anyways. Really the only thing about it I "care about" is the fact that I have to approach it this way to retain the semblance of sanity, it is a shield against the mask of ego and it's a sad thing to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:33 PM
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I know, because it would force you to examine self. So would any elaboration to your answer, so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:16 PM
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The point is that sociological/cultural upbringing has more to do with it than anything else, but that would force an issue of personal identity and what's actually considered relative moral truths with most who are bringing up the "problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:05 PM
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Shhhh it's our fault they love BS, so just roll with it and get what you want. You're gonna get blamed for something they "don't like" regardless, and they stick around "despite" it anyways soooooo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:13 PM
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Here's hoping!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:42 PM
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Legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:31 PM
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Depends on body structure, but 19bmi is pretty lean. I usually sit around 20bmi and I look fit with low body fat, but I also have the slim waist / wide shoulder frame that looks good under a spread of different weights. I just like staying low body fat because I've noticed that's what gets the most results by far, regardless of musculature (as long as there's something there that looks good defined)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:53 PM
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Communism in a nutshell is pro community, anti society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:56 PM
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Lucifer's wife. What other thoughts on the subject would you expect? Just another succubus on a power trip. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:55 PM
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Ok, so what exactly are you debating here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:03 PM
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I mean yes I agree, but what does that have to do with the logical inconsistency?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:07 PM
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Thing is, she ain't getting any of that from a red pilled dude unless she's already suckin', so I don't understand the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:10 PM
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♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:16 PM
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We aren't afraid, we knew y'all wanted to be the man for decades now. Ladies just have a problem when it comes to actually doing the man shit they require for them to respect a man, and don't think it applies to them. For someone who despises general gender roles and especially feminist reinforced ones such as this, I just flip the concept. If she wants to play a shit version of masc then I'll play the shit version of fem, so pay up Ms. Man. Strangely enough this also turns on a cohort of women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:07 PM
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Women are used as leverage by the machine to keep men on the farm. Men will be pay pigs until they gain actual realization of and step back from the strength of their biological imperative and let the scheme set around it falter, more news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:49 PM
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Damn, guess that's what happens when the family courts are in your favor and award kids as prizes 🤷🏻 Maybe just learn to enjoy the responsibility I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:58 PM
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Going by your statement, how are men supposedly doing it but women aren't? Even with the extra support you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:30 PM
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Women statistically face higher threat of poverty after a divorce than men do, and men have an easier time getting back on their feet financially years afterwards compared to women’s ability. What happened to all the support networks you guys have over men? Aren't they helping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:07 PM
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Time invested vs ROI
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:38 PM
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To my understanding, he's saying that a woman in his life had a certain version of him in her mind that she subconsciously wanted filled and when he didn't she was upset at the reality before her. I can see where OP is going with this (even if his example wasn't great), and it is definitely a phenomena to behold; women tend to lie to themselves about the very man standing before them and then complain about the results. Often, the complaints are about not doing what she wants; essentially subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:59 PM
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Men heard submission and domination and saw it played out as a popular romance trope and decided that’s what all women want since the book became popular. Ime after the movies came out I had a lot more women asking to be beat on or tied up. Didn't really have anything to do with my wants or desires at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:56 PM
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My point is they shouldn't perpetuate what they want to see less of in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:10 PM
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It has to me, and it's more than annoying especially when they're doing the same shit they scream men should quit doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:41 PM
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I would not want to be a woman because I don't want to go through the harassment that many women go through from men. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean they stop 😂 If anything they're more emboldened to touch you and bother you because there's no repercussion for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:40 PM
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She's from a Muslim country, should explain her viewpoints on the topic quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:14 PM
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C'mon now, you're obviously gonna get the "B-b-but men big and scawy, how could I dare say no?" response to that question Round and round we go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:21 PM
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This. I drive a nicer car that a lot of women I've dated in California tend to hate on, whereas the women I date in the South seem to love it. Different strokes, but the only real info to glean is that anyone interested in you for your ride is a sack o shit, ultimately it never mattered when it came down to actually getting laid anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:00 AM
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She don't live on Earth lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:25 AM
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Example A of the crazy you're not supposed to stick your dick into, even though sometimes it just feels so damn good. 😻 might be good, but it'll put you in the nuthouse dealing with the objectionable thing that's attached to the rest of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 AM
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Top tier 😻 often isn't attached to a top tier lady. That's your first mistake, and many mens' as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:07 AM
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Most of them are child brides or being coerced or forced into the marriage in some way. Look at Afghanistan. Sounds like you have an issue with Muslims operating their way in mostly Islamic dominant countries, not really anything to do with recent western dating practices. If that's what you consider "pattern recognition" you should unpack and reexamine why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:45 PM
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This is how I operate as well, works way better and keeps the mind light. To me, people are fleeting, impulsive and not in short supply. My tolerance for a specific person's bullshit is pretty low, especially when it's coming from a place of ego. No anger there, just a realization that it's a choice to stay and deal with that indefinitely, or not. So I don't lol, there's always another one. How many people on this planet now, 8-9 billion? Having this mindset actually kills it with most women I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:40 PM
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Just feed their insecurities with bewilderment. "Yup, we're gay. I love hairy man ass. Now what?" Disarms all attempts of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:25 PM
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I make six figs for myself, who gives a shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:22 PM
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Most men would admit that life is about women. Like yeah hobbies and interests are great and necessary, but it's better to have woman and no hobbies than the other way around. Speak for yourself bub. It's thought structure like this that keeps you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:47 PM
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I'm not saying you are, a lot of people do suffer through that for no other reason other than "maybe I'll eventually prove I'm a 'good one'" though. Just didn't want to see you fall down a hole of self flagellation just because someone close to you can't comprehend logic and understand that social happenings aren't personal issues that you're responsible for. Her choosing to attach personal identity to fluctuating social constructs is only going to net you a fluctuating person with no ground und…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:43 PM
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Then have some boundaries about shouldering negative repercussions from someone who harbors negative resentment of you despite being an ally and find a normal person to have sex with. You aren't going to be able to reason out of that one, you're inherently bad now no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:36 PM
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Something something 80% of consumer spending
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:20 PM
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Read some books friend. Bin Laden's goal was to create internal ideological rot of the west using the military industrial complex as a catalyst against itself. It worked, and here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:40 PM
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Are you going to actually debate the points of content or just how you think it's written?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:04 AM
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It started with 9/11. Russia having any type of influence in American politics as it does now would be a laughable thought 25 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:55 AM
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It's just straight up inverted causality This. The cause and effect principle is so misunderstood that people don't even apply the logic to their argument, they're often saying the effect is the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:06 PM
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You believe men manifested the either/or by themselves, just to be keepers of their own cage? Not very logically congruent to me but maybe I'm missing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:34 PM
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People who haven't lived it will never know. It's fucking gross and really shows you what the general person values when you go from not getting any dates at all to fucking chicks you've known for two hours outside the bar in their car and you're exactly the same (or even objectively worse!) except now you're "aesthetic". I've gotten so much pushback from this info/stance that I've had to show people in real time how much different people would react to me comparative to previous instances, quit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:26 PM
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Bro I was obese, lost 90lbs and found I actually had good natural body shape and musculature which I did my best to accentuate. Night and day difference, from women literally laughing in my face about how I looked to coming out from behind their work counter in a busy store only to tell me how gorgeous I am when I walked by. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:15 PM
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And I think that attaching yourself to external political ideology as a stand in for sense of self is a betrayal to true self, to the point where there are only parts of true self exposed at best and at worst internal strife for not following ideology, "yourself", to the T. This leads to things like lying about "what you believe" in the first place. Only you can damage your own self image, that's why it's called self image.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:04 PM
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I believe we're talking about two different things here. I'm not disagreeing with your entire statement, I just disagree with the premise that politics = self, because it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:33 PM
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You're attaching your "identity" to ideology instead of true self found from insight. It's not self identity at that point, it is a reflection of ideology that you think represents self. That is the lie that you should be worrying about, lying to self. That is what allows damage to "self-image", because it is not true self image. You are not an idealogy, true self is not found by others giving it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:16 PM
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Political affiliation isn't "who you are", and self image is difficult for others to "injure" when it is a true reflection of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:44 AM
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No one's speaking for others, however using emotion based anecdotes to derail and shut down debate is considered debate fallacy, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:18 PM
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It's an appeal to emotion debate fallacy, that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:06 PM
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Identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:25 PM
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No one is jumping to conclusions They're following your logic to its natural end and finding the points you've attempted to make unsustainable, refuting them and asking you to create a legitimate debate point that holds water.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:13 AM
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Because no matter how easy things get most people are still inherently lazy sacks of shit. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:24 PM
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There isn't anything insulting about being gay, y'all do your best to use it as a pejorative though. Kinda wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:24 PM
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You're right, they just load the deck because some people can't compete, and yet they're still not making the quota hires 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:46 AM
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I have the same experience, most of the attention I get is from younger women but the moment you say that you're the problem. If they didn't like it they're free not to approach yet they keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:09 PM
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Strong indicator, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:59 PM
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Predator trying to find a mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:30 PM
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So, if I consistently pull the "less than 1%" crowd I must look like a movie star then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:08 PM
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It's not "life", it's complacency, poor impulse control and victim mentality. Not everyone's genes all of a sudden changed in one generation. If people don't want to try they don't have to, they just have no right to complain about what they get if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:18 PM
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If you prioritize burgers and vidya over fine women then you'll get exactly what you want: a gut, double chin and no women. And then you'll complain about that too. Willpower is completely lost on y'all, you're not a farm animal you're a sentient being. Quit feeling sorry for yourselves and do something. You're a man, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:42 PM
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So you’re saying it’s possible for the majority of men to be at a healthy weight when statistically most men and women aren’t? Yes, are you saying you're going to let statistics convince you to give up and be a slob? Pretty weak mindset, and everyone ultimately gets what they ask for. I was obese and lost over 90lbs over the course of two years because, guess what, I wanted a certain caliber of woman that didn't want me when I was looking like that. You have to prioritize what you actually want,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:39 PM
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Just because I am benefitting from the system doesn't mean that there aren't huge issues with how it's operating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:43 PM
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Hate is a reflection of love. True indifference is being free from that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:03 AM
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TIL it's gay to play volleyball and party with gym girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:03 PM
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Honestly it's pretty easy to basically not work if you don't want to. I work like, maybe a week a month? And live a block from the beach in SoFlo. Not single though, although she doesn't make any money yet either (younger and still in college).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:50 PM
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They perpetuate the chaos they want to see less of in the world. It's amazing how people think that will create positive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:53 PM
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Because progressive spaces don't automatically turn into a "race to the bottom" that ends with someone committing a crime and getting jailed? I take it you haven't hung out in Berkeley much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:48 PM
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It’s being pushed that we accept whoever says they’re non binary or trans into women’s spaces to the point it’s no longer women’s spaces. When can we just stop including everyone. I mean, this is what y'all wanted lmao. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:28 PM
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Maybe, I just wish I lived in a place where women here say exist because it certainly isn't where I'm at. They have no problem coming up and touching you inappropriately if they feel like it, doing the exact same thing they complain about men doing. Only difference is I can't call the bouncer over or even really complain about it. Please tell your fellow ladies to practice what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:27 PM
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The people grabbing you while you walk in a concert/club, being very insistent, trying to get you attention is a very male thing I wish I lived where you do, where I'm from women are worse about this than men are, however it's only for a subset of men y'all deem worthy. As one who's seemingly deemed worthy by y'all I wish you'd take your own advice and keep your hands to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:15 PM
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Let the gluttons feast
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:29 PM
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Hot take nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:22 PM
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It was a joke, thank god Kojima is still based tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:24 PM
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Only women are forced to work those jobs? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:31 PM
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They love telling on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:30 PM
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Exactly, it's supposed to be an escape from reality 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:17 PM
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It just "is", no need for anyone to believe anything. Proof is in the action, whichever side that lies on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:49 PM
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Pick a different career then, no one's forcing you to work a low paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:30 PM
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This is why I even comment here. I am a guy who has no issue getting the attention of attractive women nowadays, and that wasn't always the case. Considering that 90% of the rebuttal towards men here is essentially "sorry you can't get laid 😋" I like to at least provide anecdote as someone on the complete opposite side of the coin who still yet has grievances with the status quo; it seems to shake a preconceived image of who people think they're talking to on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:31 PM
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Nah, as someone in the live entertainment industry who would go dancing 3-4 nights a week (up until COVID) the amount of women who would throw themselves at me for a hookup was honestly too much for comfort, way more than you'd expect. It takes two to tango, however the amount of approaches by women who supposedly had a date on their arm was ridiculous to the point that I stopped trusting women completely in that context. Not saying it's indicative of a type of person but it definitely appeals t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:22 PM
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This is an unpopular opinion? I agree, however pressuring a man for marriage and kids on a dated timeline when you hit your early 30s isn't going to imply that you're attempting to do this healthily either. Just asking to keep the same energy and open-mindedness when it comes that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:48 PM
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He wasn't even selling the dream, they were just that desperate to buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:39 PM
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It took me a long time to stop being a shithead just because of how well women responded to it, I understand the dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:15 PM
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Yeah, I understand that, but how does that generate PROFIT? Really what it comes down to in simple terms is that it's just marketing that hits an individual on a deeper and more personal level than ever before because the individual wraps their identity in a shared group bloc that is easily emotionally charged/swayed and marketed to, from something as tangible as a product to ideas that drive certain decisions/market effects in industry or consumer spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:55 AM
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This is just idealization, common occurrence in individuals with unhealthy views on attachment and/or experiencing mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:47 AM
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While not exclusively a "man" thing I have a strong suspicion that hate fucking is primarily a male-centric process
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:42 AM
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A shit test is one we want you to pass, it's a social fuax paux that shows intention, and it's one you set yourself up for. How you deal with the situation you presented shows your intention, one we can make a call on. I can afford much more than I'm willing to spend on, it's why I have money to spend in the first place, and that's besides the point anyways. You and I both know that a girl buying her own video games isn't considered high maintenance unless she's a bitch to her boyfriend for not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:54 PM
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This is the man's version of a shit test and y'all are failing it pretty badly, in this context it's clear that there is a plausible underlying covert contract at play and is a great way for women to tell on themselves. You know as well as I that reducing it down to " enjoying small, simple things" that are considered "unreasonable" isn't what anyone is talking about in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:25 PM
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They leverage control over whoever is subscribed to the idea, it's why identity politics has become such a thing in the last 10 years. It's generally pretty easy to see how people think and maneuver through their world when they use others' ideas of identity as their own, and are then guided towards correct thinking using "identity".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:58 PM
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everything makes sense if you throw logic and rationality out the window and only consider these things in the context of ever fluid and ever changing emotions that are different from woman to woman and different from moment to moment. One of the most important things a man can learn to do is create ambiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:53 PM
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Ime women are generally only clingy when you have the ability to trade them in, the average guy has no leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:21 PM
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Allowing another person to be 100% responsible and accountable for their actions isn't exploitative, if anything it is a very healthy, non-judgemental way of approaching it. I respect their agency and whatever comes of it because I have no expectation nor do I really care. However, just because you're allowed to make mistakes doesn't mean that others need to coddle you from the repercussions of your own choices, that's not my responsibility and you're gonna have a bad time if you're placing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:34 PM
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Not trying to tell you who you are! Just wish more women were as truthful in this context as you claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:13 PM
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You're what every woman says she is until you actually bone and then she won't leave you alone, a classic "cool girl" that doesn't actually work that way and isn't being true to themselves. I wish more women like you actually existed because damn near every woman who's come to me for some casual dicking wanted more than casual in quick order.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:48 PM
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That's because you're listening to narratives. I have no issues with women wanting to be "whores" because I'm lucky enough to have my fill of that if I so please, the more the better. However, even going along with what you want doesn't necessarily mean that I think it's the healthiest thing to do, I just think that men are more resilient to how it affects the mental state due to biology. I want to dump loads and there's plenty of good looking women who want the loads with nothing else, who am I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:46 PM
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That's all my point was, ime most women are not built for the mindset that the women in this thread say that they ("women") "may" operate in. The only women I know who can even somewhat consistently operate in that mindset usually have diagnosed mental illness and poor impulse control, not someone you'd want for more than a quick romp anyways. If they can handle it healthily, great! We can both get what we want and be on our merry way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:30 PM
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There is no real issue here, however the issue arises when one party starts wanting more out of the arrangement. As long as women aren't lying to themselves about the situation all's good, however I've found that most definitely do lie to themselves in this situation, it's not men who have to offer more for sex it's now women have to offer something other than that for men to stay, and boy do they like feeling a type of way when you say "I'm only here for what we initially agreed on". Like I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:45 PM
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Both of them, because it's a mutual arrangement? Unfortunately you know as well as I that most women do not frame this situation as such. I truly hope they think and feel that though, despite what I've seen!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:35 PM
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If a woman is handing out pussy with or without commitment who is winning there? According to most women, men would be winning in that scenario, especially if they're getting it without putting anything in. So, if you're going to "hold” something (relationship) over a man that you guys generally pressure us for who do you think is going to fold first? Hint: it ain't gonna be whoever is getting the pussy with no commitment. Tl;dr you're projecting what you think entices us to be with you when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:44 PM
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I know and I'm glad as it suits the male biological imperative, unfortunately the type of women who partake in this lifestyle are usually pretty fucked in the head or I would have stuck around them a bit longer. Get your nut and onto the next just like they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:30 PM
1

Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:25 PM
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Or, women lie to themselves if it means getting dicked by someone they want. Has nothing to do with me except for being the object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:43 PM
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If women want to feed the male imperative of operating that's on y'all, we just don't want to hear that no one actually sticks around after. Women think they can play that game but outside of the ones that are fucked in the head this doesn't really align with how most women think, women don't want all of the accountability that comes with the burden of choice when it comes to being the "man" in the relationship, she doesn't want to tell you where to ask her to go for dinner. So they won't commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:32 PM
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He's right though, any woman who came to me as a "I don't need no man" type while still actively participating in dating really just wanted a man, and when I would say "no, we agreed to just having fun just like you wanted" is when they'd really flip their shit because they all want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:16 PM
1

Some of the best advice I've ever gotten? "To be an interesting person you must lead an interesting life"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:22 PM
1

I don't know about that, most of my gay friends hate on straight women because they co-opt their gay spaces and treat gay men like a little pet. Maybe my gay friends just see through the straight woman BS better? Never made sense to me why gay guys would generally want to hang around women anyways, especially in a gay club. As a straight guy I go to gay clubs with my gay friends to pick up the women who think they can co-opt a gay space that no one invited them to 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:38 PM
8

This happened to me when I was fat as well, mid women would go for the jugular. I was at a BMI of 31. Over a couple of years of calisthenics and cardio I worked myself down to a BMI of 19-20 and now the mids won't fuck off, I will say it's a bit of a flip serving them the humble pie. Humans gonna human, if you want a mid woman's attention you gotta be better than them because then you're something that they can't normally have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:06 PM
2

This is literally what I'm doing at the moment 😂 I live in a high rise in Miami on a part time gig, I'm doing fuckall except smoking weed and maybe contracting out here and there doing cool art stuff while messing around with the local ladies. The only reason I'm doing this is because I know no woman wants a guy who took off into the mountains for solitude, they want one that looks engaged and winning in what society thinks of as the "win". Once I've gotten my fill of this place I'm taking my mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:49 PM
1

Considering you don't have a plan or even any semblance of one, I'd assume you'd like for us to use statistical data, considering that's probably the best source we have for figuring out which men are the violent men we're supposed to be taking it up with? Pretty racist if you ask me but hey if that's what y'all need to feel "safe" then I suppose that's what y'all want, nothing I can do about it other than disagree with you and ask for you to come up with a better system for solving your issues.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:33 PM
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How is that racist? Lol you think men of only one race perpetuate violence? Most violence is interracial so you bringing up race is contradicting my logic. If you want men to take it up with other violent men, who do we look out for? What are we looking out for? There's statistics we can go off of that makes this picture a bit clearer if you'd like, or was there some other system you had in mind? Please let us know who we need to throw in the camp to make you feel safe. At this point it sounds l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:32 PM
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Anyways if men want less violence against themselves they need to take it up with violent men not women that’s what I’m saying. Pretty slippery slope you're asking for there...are you genuinely asking men to deal with what is statistically the most violent group of men there are? Seems pretty racist if that's what you want us to do, so what are you actually asking for here? Sorry, but if someone's going to take it up with "dangerous men" it's going to be the women that are painting certain group…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:46 PM
2

My mistake, I mixed it up and read that as shorthand for Aspergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:35 PM
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I didn't realize having autism also made your eyes stop working 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:38 PM
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You just grow up feeling like a monster for being born the way you are. That you've done a great injustice to everyone around you and that you need to repent for it. That you have these feelings that are unnatural and wrong and your a bad person for having them. That the world would be better off without your kind. Once I realized this is all just the new age version of religion and a ways to keep people in line I quickly stopped pretending to listen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:42 PM
3

The poison and the cure, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:28 PM
1

Sounds like we actually agree, whatever the woman needs to justify to herself is fine as long as positive results are obtained.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:35 AM
1

Frame it however you want, the fact of the matter is that it has a subconscious positive correlation until a certain point, which is arbitrary depending on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:36 PM
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You're attempting to obfuscate the general truth about it, sure you might be able to draw a definitive line in the sand of just how much of an asshole can you be before you get diminishing results but as it stands you still get positive results for doing it right up until you're just labeled a wholly disagreeable asshole by whatever person's individual idea of that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:09 PM
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If y'all think this way then just leave us alone, I mean shit I'm dating an early 20s woman as a late 30s man and she initially came onto me. It isn't the first time a woman 10+ years my junior approached me in a public space. She's very normal and pretty attractive, culturally Hispanic but born in the US. There's a lot of them out there, they're just shamed about what they want by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:16 PM
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You're a communist, you get how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:22 PM
2

Too common, to the point where I've had more women than what could be considered a coincidence who were in what I thought were very committed and loving relationships make a pass at me on the DL. I actually see it often enough that I generally don't even date women anymore because it was getting to be too much, I just keep it casual like they like it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:25 PM
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Sure if ideally every man could get the perfect woman as his wife most men would be married. But if most women are acting like hos then we are just going to sleep around with the hos. I've always regarded my actions in this context as "society's mirror" as I'm a guy who doesn't generally have trouble getting laid or having relationships depending on what works out best for me personally at that time. If women largely want to ho themselves out at a low cost I will be snapping that shit up on disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:08 PM
2

They continually sexualize women as children and attempt to skew the legally defined and accepted boundary of what age someone is considered an adult to 25+ years old. I really don't understand how we've ended up with a bunch of women thinking of other young adult women as stupid people that shouldn't be making their own decisions at best, or at worst framing other young adult women as sexualized children. Something is wrong with the collective brain if that's how they view an adult person and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:16 PM
1

Oftentimes we try to tell the woman the reality of the situation but they want to believe what they want to believe, after enough times of going through that you tend to just nod your head and let them believe whatever they come up with. You don't need to obfuscate anything when people lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:12 PM
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Fellas, is having boundaries killing yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:41 PM
1

It really is just a projection of self when you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:35 PM
2

The flip side of that is a bunch of angry and disillusioned men, that only goes on for so long before history repeats itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:08 PM
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The problem with this is then you invite in a conflict of interest, a third party middleman that obfuscates the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:41 PM
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Ted-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:35 PM
1

That's...not what you're doing though. Shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:10 PM
0

You're equating poor with criminal offenders and rich with non criminals? For shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:26 PM
1

It's an appeal to emotion, a logical fallacy, in a debate forum. Sorry, but completely inconsequential to the point of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:01 PM
3

A lot of men feel weirdly emasculated if the woman makes more than he does. A lot of women have an ego that won't let them be seen with what they consider a "lesser" man. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:12 PM
1

Not talking about me, just look around. The social agreement is eroding. So tell me, what moral obligations are we all agreeing on to move forward in developing society?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:10 PM
2

You think a moral obligation to...what, exactly is going to keep people in line? This could only plausibly work in a homogeneous society in which the USA is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:33 PM
1

I take it you haven't actually read the whole story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:08 PM
3

Just gonna let you know that no one has time for or cares about that loser talk though, especially coming from a man. Really it comes down to get good or don't lil bro, doesn't mean shit to me what you choose but it seems you enjoy the crying victim route so I doubt we'll be seeing much difference out of this GenZ kid. Y'all make me money being this way so I don't mind. Enjoy your iPad and applesauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:02 PM
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Imagine even caring what iPad kids think, we've seen how you act your whole life. Petulant, loud and ignorant to the world around them with little emotional control when they don't get their way. Need I say more? Enjoy that life of bitching bud, you can blame me all you want 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:50 PM
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I just wish it was illegal to use the internet if you were born before the late 90s and after the mid-00s We're the ones building and maintaining your touchpad existence, can't tell you how many dumb ass GenZ kids I have to teach to do anything because they don't know shit about how a computer works other than how to open TikTok 😂 It's really no wonder why you're bitching about everything, my only advice is get good scrub. It's not hard when most of y'all's generation are as useless and apatheti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:39 PM
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I'm not judgemental towards them, I just agree to accept what they're offering and nothing more. If they don't enjoy that type of experience then they have the agency to not participate in that behavior anymore, it's not hypocritical to accept a free cheap coffee when you usually and would rather "pay" for one worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:29 PM
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Men and women view the "respect" thing very differently, that should help answer most of those questions for you. What makes you think you’re any different from them them? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:23 PM
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Mid 30s millennial here, this was my exact experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:34 PM
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Yes, I started doing this in my mid 20's when I got out of a long term relationship and realized everyone was slutting it up and not worth any actual commitment and half of the people in relationships were cheating anyways. So I jumped on that train with all of those newly empowered women and am still riding it. I'll literally never forget buying a cute engineer girl I had just met a slice of pizza and her politely asking me during convo if she could just give me head 🤷🏻 and I was 10 years older…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:20 PM
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Playing that butt jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:38 PM
5

Why are you fucking all of these small dicked weird balls guys who nut in you immediately? Do you actually enjoy that or do you just like to complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:33 PM
1

Just call me a weirdo then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:13 PM
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I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying here. Men have niche marketing aimed at them but that is inconsequential to the point that women drive 80% of consumer spending. Why would the majority of industry market to a niche share that statistically doesn't spend? It makes no logical sense from a business standpoint, unless you're implying that all women are subservient to the "go-buy" commands of a man who is entranced by some titties selling him something? Or are you saying that tittie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:51 PM
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If women make most of the family purchases why are they advertising to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:53 PM
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Probably moreso that social media has stoked neuroticism in women to such incredible levels that they can't see men any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:49 PM
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When 80% of consumer spending is done by women I think we can safely make the conclusion that women are easier to market to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:47 PM
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Nah, it's just a protection of ego so when they wind up with nothing it was because no one lived up to their expectational bar, which is on the floor btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:48 PM
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The thought police will never take me alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:19 PM
1

That isn't the "issue", that's the other side of the coin of the "ask". It just is. Unfortunately when you try to warn women who ask for this you're just a misogynist. It's a lot easier to just give them what they want and just smirk inside a little when they're not fulfilled with or understanding of the results and consequences of the ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:10 PM
1

Then we wouldn't be constantly hearing about a lack of them, which we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:59 AM
1

That's the thing, apparently it's not getting them what they want because the two things are mutually exclusive. You can't tell people you want to be treated special and also not be treated special at the same time. I mean, you can say all you want but there's no realistic or logical way to respond to or navigate that ask, hence the reason you hear women responding in droves to the results of this situation with "there aren't any chivalrous men anymore". Men were asked to step aside while pillar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:00 PM
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Are they? I didn't realize chivalry lies in statistically higher domestic violence occupations, I would like to think it's the opposite but hey if that's what floats your boat I guess. Women didn't want it anymore and that's still the prevailing thought structure of society today. Society stopped condoning chivalry when women said they wanted to be men and not looked at as inferior but as a tool, so that's what they got. Hence the reason you hear incessant bitching about how chivalry is dead, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:32 PM
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I'll never forget my gf at the time putting sunscreen on my back at a festival we went to with a group of friends and all of the other dudes asking me "your gf actually does things for you?" Sad world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:22 PM
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Not when the overlaying social thought structure is the opposite of that, it only makes you a fool that traps himself in rules that others don't play by anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:31 PM
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Agreed, just seems to be that the way we think about it isn't as common as we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:06 PM
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They do that way more often than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:42 PM
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Crazy to think everyone's genetics changed in a generation when it's really just processed shit food in inordinate amounts coupled with poor willpower and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:21 PM
2

Honestly, I've been all over the financial spectrum and I always consistently pull the hottest baddies when I'm slumming it. Maybe at that point I just don't give a fuck any more and it works to my advantage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:33 AM
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I'm 37, been dating a 23yo for a little bit now. I asked her about it and she replied that she doesn't usually date older guys but was having serious trouble finding someone her age with any amount of seriousness or stability that she was looking for in a relationship so she decided to look a little outside of her normal bounds, and that I'm "handsome af" according to her. Her grandma was actually the one that originally suggested she date older if that's what she was looking for, we just happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:44 PM
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36yo here dating a 23yo, tell me again how it doesn't happen or they're not out here looking for it 😂 I guess it should be said I'm more often looked at as "bad boy" rather than stable / dependable guy until they get to know me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:43 PM
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Cause and effect elude way too many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:19 PM
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You haven't read enough if that's your take on it. I'm not even religious but science and religion go hand in hand if you aren't reading a completely bastardized version of a work meant for control, you'll find nothing of value in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:53 PM
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Nah, it's just more neuroticism fueled by social media. Y'all swallow it whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:46 PM
1

I'll never understand how they just don't get that the freedom of choice comes with the burden of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:24 PM
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Don't care, still gonna do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:42 PM
1

20 girls in two years isn't an insane amount, especially if you have the tools to play the game well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:03 PM
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Essentially, I have more options therefore I'm able to be more discretionary with who I choose to allow into my space. Day to day there are a lot of nuanced things between interactions that are noticeable as well. I feel my pov is kind of an anomaly in this case as I went through my teens and early 20s as a no fashion having trending near obese kid. I went through an extremely rough breakup in my mid 20s, going through a deep depression then got into fitness and food science pretty deep and real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:00 PM
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I am considered an attractive man. The advantage I notice is that I can act like a woman when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:12 PM
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Ah, so the rat race? The "rat race" is an entirely different concept than what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:30 PM
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You're part of the cause so don't be upset when the effect rears it's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:49 PM
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I don’t know what that means but I notice you didn’t disagree How are you even in a debate forum if you don't understand what logical fallacies are?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:20 PM
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Meanwhile, you men are out here acting like your farts in some busy single woman's bedsheets are a great gift. I mean, for a saddenly large number of women that's really the best they should hope for considering what they actually offer. If they don't like it there's the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:46 PM
1

Exactly, dump a load and move onto the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:10 PM
1

Damn, you insinuate quite a lot my guy, I don't know the guy you're talking about. You seem to have a set idea of who I am though so keep on brotha 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:05 PM
1

So if I'm stacking pussy does that refute this entire "argument"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:31 PM
1

You lose me however at trying to blame everything on women and trying dehumanize and vilify them for how you feel. I don’t see the logic in that frankly. I even assume some evil things have been done by people with mindsets as these. I don't believe in this either, truly I don't believe in anything rationalized into any structured "pill" thought form anyways. I lurk this sub because I think relationship dynamics nowadays especially are fascinating, did you think I was RP? What I tend to think is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:19 PM
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No, I mean you're right about that. All I'm saying is that while that is the majority of what we see here on Reddit there are also a sizeable amount of men who are pretty successful with women while still understanding how things work in reality. There's just not much reason to post anything about it because hey, it's working out for me and I'm satisfied with that part of my life. Even still, based on (and maybe despite of) my many very lovely experiences with women I can still see the situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:43 PM
1

I mean, I'm piping who I want and kind of always have. Doesn't mean I don't realize shits fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:10 PM
1

It's kind of hilarious you think the only ones complaining are the ones who can't get puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:22 PM
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I call the women in my life who do that "really good friends" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:10 PM
2

You were 16 in 1999, you're telling me that you, as a young teenager, were stacking em up for those two years since you lost your V-card? I will say the quote by your handle is 100% accurate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:29 PM
2

Yes, but that's not what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:34 PM
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Girlfriending a tinder hoe isn't winning the game in any normal man's eyes, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:06 PM
1

Meh, most men stagnate when they partner up, it's pretty sad to witness. The highest amount of growth either I or my friends experienced was when we weren't preoccupied with trying to appease someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:26 PM
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IQ = aptitude and how quickly you grasp concepts, not motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:39 PM
1

Yep, as a matter of fact I asked the new girl I've been hooking up with last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:06 PM
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I can see that, I feel that people just think about it far too much. Mental gridlock and high inhibition are their greatest enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:34 PM
1

Dating isn't difficult, it's finding someone worth sticking around that's difficult. Unfortunately most people are basic NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:02 PM
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Meh I mean I'm chasing dollars and have a pretty nice QoL especially for the city I'm in but still carve out enough time to be talking to multiple ladies at once. Maybe that's not typical but for some reason a lot of people on this sub think it's an either or situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:07 PM
5

More like a codependent thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:20 PM
1

Tbh in SoFlo everyone's tryna holla
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:29 PM
2

For real, sluts are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:37 PM
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That's not how it works at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:59 AM
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Not particularly, it's just common sense. Whoever has the edge in a particular power dynamic is responsible for the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:30 PM
0

When women are the choosers for sexual intercourse the onus is on them to choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:33 PM
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Are you unable to answer the question friend? If you can't refute it then we have nothing more to discuss, your non answers tell what I wanted to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:02 AM
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You're getting off topic. If not for front hole what would be the inherent value you're claiming exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:59 PM
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Well yeah, you need to have front hole around to incentivise the men. This is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:55 PM
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Always funny to notice someone who made their handle "woke" insisting women are primarily valued for their front hole. Or is there another point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:35 PM
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Only 23.7% of women have ever even had an abortion Holy fuck, nearly one out of four? I support abortion rights but god damn it's like a national sport for y'all now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:43 PM
2

Waaay more MtF trans than there are FtM. I'm curious as to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:35 PM
1

yawn Anything else jabroni?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:19 PM
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Not true at all. I've fucked a lot of women while simultaneously wishing you lot held more respect for yourselves. Married women (found out after the fact), educated women, women in positions of power, rarely what you'd consider a low class type of woman (although they're fun as well). I've curtailed my expectations of modern women because apparently all I need to do is appeal to your baser instincts to get what I want, it's pretty sad that you genuinely don't demand more from the men you choose…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:07 PM
1

Couldn't be more wrong but go at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:46 PM
1

Fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes, unfortunately in today's society it requires great sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:36 PM
1

Failed state, don't be upset at the effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:24 PM
11

This is a strong point. It's not intimidation, it's being insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:21 PM
15

That's a pretty reasonable standard, if you're fat you're just not attractive to most of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:24 PM
2

I mean, y'all kind of did but I do thank you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:21 PM
1

I live in San Francisco, lower class can't afford it or fit into the culture here. It's specifically feminist women (are there any other kind here?) who are coincidentally mostly tech workers/engineers who are tired of the typical nice guy/tech bro that I tend to hook up with, sorry to pop the fantasy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:16 AM
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Not in my neck of the woods lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:14 PM
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When pre-existing social structures that actually enforced that are nuked without real replacement in the name of progress you end up with the situation y'all have so much disdain for. What did you think was going to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:50 PM
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I agree, empowered women are the easiest to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:52 PM
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To me that's a bit different of a scenario, there's a big difference in wording things so they have positive connotation vs. straight up lying/gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:25 PM
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Mmm, for me it's easier to play the game imho, it's really not much effort to learn how to be mindful with how you communicate and language/connotation is powerful. I went to speech classes to really understand how to be mindful with how I speak to people specifically to be better at my job. It just happens to work really well in all social avenues, it is a tool for you to use when needed. People tend to appreciate when you can help them feel at ease with how you speak, it's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:53 PM
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Just knowing that should inspire you to learn "soft" language.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:55 PM
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The only way I was able to overcome it was by always trying to understand more about myself. By reading the works of truly great men of the past. Personally, this is truly the best way to assauge the troubled mind; I'm not knocking therapy but reading some of the greats has done more for understanding who I am in the world and finding comfort in being just that than years of therapy, it was truly grounding. It 100% changed my life and outlook on the world I live in, it pulled me from the negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:28 AM
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Yeah, I'm not saying that it's the norm for most guys so much as it's definitely a sizeable amount of women despite women not wanting it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:40 PM
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Its hilarious reading stuff like this when as a mid 30s guy I get more attention from women your age (24-28) than from anyone else (except maybe the gays).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:40 PM
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Was anyone who "slut shamed" you in these anecdotes not a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:23 PM
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Anecdotal but I make low six figure in a blue collar industry but am in an "office" position while also living in one of the most highly educated and salaried places in the US; I really have no issue appealing to and dating quality women in my area. That being said I am not at all what you've described as a typical "blue collar" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:59 PM
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If she could realistically get positive results from that situation then she'd try and wouldn't think that good looking guy = red flag, which isn't a logical thought anyways. The end result is the same, I'm just saying how it's internally framed to make that flawed thought feel justified, unless you're saying that you believe that enough good looking people who go for less attractive people are indeed just fishing them for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:24 PM
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But realistically it most likely wouldn't, she's thinking "I didn't even want it anyways" before it even gets to that point. Her "red flag" is good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:54 PM
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It's just self selection that's made up to be her choice, they're in different leagues physically so it wouldn't work out, it's just framed this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:23 PM
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Exactly, it's a manufactured "choice" they "choose". Basically, the biggest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:00 PM
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Over time I learned to use the info for my benefit and to just give them what they want. I get the puss, they get what they wanted(?) and we're both fulfilled with the experience. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:58 PM
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Without getting in to specifics, there are things about me physically and otherwise that can make women assume that I am a "bad boy". And they become attracted to me based on that assumption. When they find out that I'm in fact the opposite, they're very disappointed and lose interest immediately. This is me, always fun seeing that one play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:49 PM
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When you treat a woman like you treat a man they often think it's "mean".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:54 PM
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I'm surprised that what you got out of what she was trying to say lies in the logic of cause and effect when she's actually saying a mystic judgement of morality (a human invention) will be what gets you in the end lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:47 PM
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Me neither, has no one heard the old adage "all's fair in love and war"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:39 PM
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Quite a few of my friends are gay/trans, they generally dislike that you're in their spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:56 PM
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Were you loose like wizards sleeve?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:58 PM
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Damaged people projecting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:06 PM
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Your girls last man thought so too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:14 PM
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So how are you putting that knowledge into practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:34 PM
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I view all women I date as options. Is it not optional?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:06 PM
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Can you please spread the knowledge to your fellow ladies? All I'm saying is that I've passed on more than a few wonderful women just because they really had no idea what to do with a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:09 PM
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but ALL women can at least do well enough to show a guy a good time for a few nights. Y'all really hold your front hole in high regard lol, I'm sorry but as much as I wish it was this isn't true by a long shot. Most women really don't know how to please a man sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:50 PM
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Not being fat is the best dating "strategy" for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:20 PM
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It's sad that most of the western world doesn't understand this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:22 AM
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Because you have the choice to not pick the ass, it's the burden of responsibility you wanted. Asses will always exist, if you can't discern the difference and want to live in an ass free world when that just isn't something that is realistic maybe you shouldn't have the responsibility of even being able to choose ass for your own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:02 PM
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The world is your oyster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:33 PM
2

If this was the case women wouldn't be the ones pushing for marriage 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:23 PM
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This is pretty disheartening as I feel exactly like this and I'm probably ~20 years your junior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:40 AM
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It definitely is, however I don't ask because I myself am high N and figure if we traded information I'd be the one potentially put at a disadvantage. Plus, not asking is a good look and indicates "respect" like I don't care about those things, it's a win-win situation for me personally not to open that can of worms. It's much better to just watch for character indicators as they'll better tell you what you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:02 PM
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It's the man's version of a shit test if that clears it up any for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:08 PM
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I don't know, when looking at those countries and how people want to emulate them I'm always surprised and concerned it's feminists saying they want to follow the ideals of a white homogeneous nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:06 PM
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Perfect man bot is much more arbitrary, until they have AI that can pass the turing test I don't think women would be happy with a male sex bot, then they wouldn't be happy at all because then it's just like the man they're trying to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:52 PM
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Hopefully we can one day skew the market by creating fake women who are complete super sluts. Basically make it seem like the market is flooded with women who just bend over and take it as soon as possible. I mean, that's already halfway the case right now? Women put out without even having to have any sort of label on it anymore, there is no shame or accountability so take advantage of their fervour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:48 PM
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Agreed. When I read about all of the men on here bitching about "the 20%" I always laugh, have you looked at your fellow man? It's never been easier to be amongst the 20%. Most people are fucking lazy, myself included but if what I perceive as what I've invested into myself as minimal work and I'm still competing pretty well then I suppose most people are just pretty fucking awful at maintaining a life and growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:44 PM
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Someone's jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:54 PM
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Exactly :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:16 PM
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There's a lot of truth to this statement except it's now ketamine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:32 PM
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I suppose I also consider things outside of the criminal aspect such as general mental health and propensity towards understanding and accepting accountability, I know a few men and women who are a mess but aren't bad people, if anything some of them are the most brilliant and interesting people I know. I just also know that trying to date that person would probably bring a lot of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:37 PM
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Maybe we define "friends" a bit differently? In addition to a few close circles of friends I have a loose association of friends that's fairly wide, and these are definitely friends, as in we're on friendly terms, not just acquaintances. These people span all walks of life, and while I don't necessarily hang out with criminals some of them do tread towards outlaw but they're well intentioned people (I limit my association with people who cause active harm and wouldn't waste my time). Everybody o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:13 AM
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They're not shitty people, it's just easy to look at them objectively in a relationship sense. Why would I choose to be intentionally delusional with who people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:10 AM
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It seems to me that you don't actually know what stoic philosophy consists of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:25 AM
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Also understanding that you should only worry about decisions that you actually have influence over and minimize negative emotions towards things you can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:23 AM
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I have literally heard that on a date, funny thing is my android was more expensive than her cracked ass base model iPhone. Still beat tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:06 AM
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The movement was created to get out of accepting responsibility for your actions, hence the reason it's pretty much a women's movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:16 PM
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100%, duality permeates our universe and those who think that they can have the "good" without the "bad" are delusional and in for a rough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:20 AM
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I don't subscribe to keto you smooth brain. You're just lashing out because of your choices, hopefully one day you can attain some peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:32 PM
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Found the HAES advocate who can't take accountability for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:16 PM
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Yep, my BMR is ~1800kcal a day and can fluctuate from 2300 to 2800 running around all day at work + other various activities throughout the day. I'm a 5'8 male on the thin side of BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:12 PM
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"The duality of man is an uncomfortable truth and I don't want it to exist, so with what power I have I'll help perpetuate the chaos I'm trying to see less of in the world". Sorry sister, thems the breaks. You receive the energy you put out, if you have an issue with it take it up with the cosmos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:37 AM
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Some of it is so cutting edge and forward thinking musically, jazz of the modern era.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:32 PM
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The men that claim this are more likely to hold misogynistic views toward women. Is this true or no? It's not, and those "misogynistic views" don't sprout from a vacuum. They're the effect, and just "are". That's what all of those men are telling you. How does a man better his romantic life without using this phrase as a self defeating mantra? You're thinking the mantra is the cause, it's not but at least you're getting closer to the realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:37 PM
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Are you seriously implying that an overwhelmingly white ethnostate would bring happiness and success?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:34 PM
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"Too individualistic, big problem!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:13 PM
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Agreed, if a woman is bad in bed it's on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:09 PM
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I always see this cope yet Serena Williams is built as hell yet falls squarely in the middle of a healthy BMI. It applies to you unless you're a competitive athlete and even then the overwhelming majority will still fall under general BMI rules. I do MMA and fight at bantamweight, at 5'8 and ~12%bf I'm still at a pretty low BMI of about 20.5. Even if I added 20 more pounds I'd still be well within healthy ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:19 PM
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Completely disagree, most of my LTRs began with us meeting and having sex within the first day or two (sometimes hour or two). Two of those women were low N and these relationships obviously developed into a more well rounded relationship but they started out as reciprocal lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:11 PM
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It really doesn't matter if it's the first time or the tenth time, if "a lot of the time" I did something sucked I probably wouldn't do it any more. I take it you're into masochism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:49 PM
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Why do you keep fucking these types of guys? At least I have the excuse of biological imperative for fucking women that suck, but if it's that bad for you as a woman why do you keep subjecting yourself to it? Is your bar just that low? Do you just enjoy complaining about bad sex that much? Or do you overstate the issue to feel chummy with other women? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:44 PM
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Yes, it is however unfortunate seeing just how many different women respond to something as insignificant as novelty despite whatever their situation is at the moment and has painted a real landscape of dispair of my thoughts and feelings on relationships today. I still hold the ideal but realize it's mostly fantasy, consequently I don't prescribe any mental weight unto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:13 PM
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I totally agree except it's more specific to the novelty, not someone specifically being a douche. Over the years countless women have mentioned that they were drawn to me for my soft edge (extreme piercings, tattoos, style etc.) while simultaneously coming across as "safe enough" for the standard normie girl to feel like she could potentially have this guy who's look indicates he'd probably never be interested in her all of a sudden giving her attention because I'm also "normal" enough to appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:11 PM
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The question is an obvious setup to gauge your reaction, it's a power play. I usually just tell them that I normally don't meet women off of apps (which in my case is true). It makes it seem more special while alluding that you're personable enough not to need apps to talk to women. Basically just answer with a non answer that gives positive connotation and an easy way to turn conversation, it's usually more than satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:46 PM
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Once I realized everything I do within the context of dating is potentially perceived as slight I just decided to do what I want irrespective of how anyone feels about it because why would I change myself for a mind that changes how it feels about things every other day? Funnily enough this produces positive results. If you're able to work around this issue in an alluring way all the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:07 PM
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Women want it to be but there isn't, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:12 PM
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Oooh shit, what do you have to say about that u/wateriswetbot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:26 PM
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Are you just being cathartic or actually looking for a solution? Because what you're suggesting isn't feasible in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:48 PM
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I'm the opposite with a high sex drive and don't find most women attractive at all either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:39 PM
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Honestly though gay bars are a great place to pick up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:34 PM
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Nobody should have to deal with shitty behavior but hey, we live in reality. It is what it is so take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:56 AM
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So you're asking men to enforce thought crime punishment? What would you like me to do about your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:35 PM
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Would "the fresh stuff" be more appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:11 PM
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Maybe you just aren't generally able to nurture those emotions in someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:56 PM
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I think humanity should look at the grander picture instead of letting capitalist corporations ruin our humanity with attention seeking, short term gratification and addictive technology. Kaczynski was really onto something, shame he was a madman/murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:18 PM
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Everyone is a true wierdo that's what makes the world go around. 🤷‍♂️ If you believe that's true then great, however I disagree. All you have to do is look around to see how many individuals allow others to do their thinking for them, true originality within the context of cognitive structure is rare. What quantifies the uniqueness of "you" is essentially spices to a basic dish, people are much easier to read than you give them credit for. All in all it works great for me, the feedback speaks fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:50 AM
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The thoughts and ways you go about the world are not unique, you were not born in a vacuum. Unless you're a true wierdo hermit chances are you less than a couple of standard deviations from the norm. Tell me, when was the last time you had a truly unique thought or idea on the way anything works in this world? Really men just have to appeal to the mass attributes that most women react to while figuring out the few specific things that make that particular individual react.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah but you're all still running on the same OS, your "uniqueness" makes up about 30% of your personality at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:16 AM
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Half of the "debaters" in this sub can't even debate properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:48 PM
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You don't, you just observe. Like I said it's indicative of character and people are not infinitely complex when it comes to socially accepted thought structures. Character traits do not exist in a vacuum, once you can pinpoint other traits found in promiscuous women's personalities you're able to fill in the blanks. These blanks obviously require more time vetting to verify and see if maybe I read you wrong or if you're really just another hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:01 PM
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Mostly because successfully vetting a promiscuous woman for a LTR is a near futile effort with less "reward" vs. vetting a "normal" woman for one. As they say, can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:23 PM
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For some reason you're still forcing yourself to look at it through a negative lens. I have an N of 34 and have no issue seriously dating a woman with a higher N than mine, however I will have to do much more vetting with this woman than I would with one who shows different pairing traits, they're fundamentally just two different ways of going about it. This is all assuming the context of trying for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:05 PM
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You understand to the extent needed how she tends to frame interactions with peers and her views on relationships. You're then able to see if that's something you want in your life with that person or not. It's just one of the usual tells for a "type" of woman, not that that particular woman is "bad" or "good" based on such actions. Personally I enjoy the company and am good friends with some of these types of women so I don't feel that being promiscuous is an inherently negative character trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:42 PM
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So casual sex and enjoying it is a negative tick on the character trait. You said that, not me. I'm just saying that it provides insight to how she thinks and what she reacts to, not prescribing a moral standpoint to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:54 PM
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Enjoying sex has little to do with partner count, I'm unsure why you brought that up? It's an insight to how they view their world and their personal relationships with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:46 PM
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It's a character indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:12 PM
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If she only wants is to be looked at as a sleeping partner then yes, that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:39 PM
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I totally get it, my first serious gf had a lot of issues surrounding sex due to being raised religious even though she wasn't active in it. Her story sounds a lot like yours in what she had to do to help overcome those issues. For PIV I have to be teases first and have build up, then I need direct clitoral stimulation and I need to tense arse cheeks. I can't just lie back and think of England. Well yeah, if you aren't getting into foreplay you're not having good sex imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:11 PM
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I think it's depressing that to some people an orgasm is such a high bar. It's the minimal expectation I have for sex. I've touched on that with my previous comment: some women cum easily, some don't. Since you're comfortable enough with your own sexuality good orgasms are not difficult for you personally to achieve. IME this isn't typical and is furthering the concept by listening to just how many women complain about not achieving orgasms at all during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:01 PM
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Sure, but there's orgasms and then there's "orgasms". Also, some women cum easily, some don't. IME being able to make a woman comfortable enough to orgasm hard with you (not even getting into the sexual skill/competency involved in getting to that point and especially with one who's previously voiced issues with being able to get themselves to orgasm solo or with other partners) tends to get them thinking a certain way about you. With all of the talk about men not being able to please I can defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:36 PM
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I agree, if you're good at making a woman cum you'll pretty much have her wrapped around your finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:01 PM
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I'm similar to you, 5'8 and considered pretty good looking. I'm open to dating a woman of any height, previously dating a runway model (5'10) and an IG 'fit girl' influencer (6'0); honestly I feel it's easier to date taller women than shorter women just because fewer guys tend to approach, however tall women tend to sometimes be insecure about the height difference. All that being said most of my serious relationships were with women between 5'0-5'2 and under 110lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:51 PM
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I eat burgers, pasta, donuts etc 3-4x a week and drink often enough, still ~12% BF in my early / mid 30s. Pretty easy to maintain, just don't gorge yourself on crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:58 PM
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It's quite literally just not putting food in your mouth, really all I did to lose ~80 pounds. The only excuse is that you're lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:08 AM
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You should probably ask all of the women who date those types of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:35 PM
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Still pretty easy to knock up someone you're not married to if you want kids that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:52 PM
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Can I answer anything specific for you? Actually yeah, just if you're able to answer this really: For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:33 AM
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Literally every "answer" in this thread is a non-answer aiming to deflect lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:01 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:24 PM
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Of course, regardless it's why men get married nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:51 PM
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If that's the case, why is the man getting married? Kids. Men I only have sex with are WAY less valuable to me than men I'd actually date or marry. Funny because men generally see it as the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:03 PM
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🤷‍♂️ Don't know what else to tell ya, just what I've seen over the last 15+ years. I've only had to get confrontational with maybe two or three guys who were putting hands on my lady friends (as in, woman friends) in all those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:41 AM
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Unfortunately I've seen way more women getting handsy than men and I've spent a lot of time at big parties/events/clubs. What else do you expect when you get a free pass to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:07 AM
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You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:38 AM
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Nah, honestly I assume it's how women view men's dicks: Some are loose (woman's version of small dick), some are tight (big dick) but most are kinda "in the middle" somewhere. Some can be too tight, probably what a woman means when she says she doesn't like comically giant dick, and some too loose. One of my ex's did kegels and holy fuck 😍 it was almost like she could control it lol Edit: my bad, I forgot all women's vaginas were perfect and tight in every way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:26 AM
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TIL I'm in between EXTREMELY attractive and celeb status
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:28 PM
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Guess it's lose-lose for you then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:26 PM
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You're getting it twisted, but I expected nothing less. If you don't like the dynamic and want it to change go ask some men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:07 PM
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That's some grade A projection going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:06 PM
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Men aren't reactive by sexual nature, they're the pursuers. Women play the reactive role. If this wasn't the case women would be just as pursuant as men, which they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:02 PM
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Lowest I'll go is average face and a little chubby, basically a hard 5/10. I'm picky though. Edit: I also live in an area where there are quite a few better looking women than what society considers "average" nowadays, aka 29+bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:45 PM
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I agree with you in that most people are pretty much losers, I'm just saying that being paired or not has no bearing on vice or hobbies. I know just as many paired up people (maybe more) who exhibit these traits than singles. Personally I'm single by choice because most people who want to pair are these traits to a T and I don't entertain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:10 PM
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Wait, are you talking about single people or married here? Because I know way more miserable married people who do these things than singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:06 PM
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I can agree with this, all of the gf's and wives I've slept with went back to their man after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:55 PM
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I was 5'11 and 230ish pounds with 6% BF. I actually lol'd at that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:10 AM
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By watching how people react to each other in different scenarios with how they worded conversations and seeing the results. I've been into psychology since I was a young teenager, if you can grasp how people think and more importantly why people think the things they do you'll have an advantage. Being able to make someone feel a certain way with how you interact with them is the key, I eventually became so good at it that I actually turned it into a very successful job (sales). It isn't PUA bs,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:54 PM
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He somehow thinks the two are mutually exclusive and if a woman ever wants to monetize her body, then she gives up her basic rights. It's more that if you put a price on your ass you're now the equivalent to a 12 pack of beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:43 AM
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More like 5'4 and 170lbs, as that's "average" 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:39 PM
1

170lbs looks big on a woman unless it's a tall ass woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:00 AM
9

Yep, I remember a woman I dated who was a senior chemical engineer and team leader. She always said that she just wanted someone who took power and assertiveness in the bedroom because she wanted someone to tell her what to do for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 07:14 PM
6

Ok...we care enough to the point where we're no longer inconvenienced by your lack of money. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:53 PM
6

We don't as long as you're not a leech.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:26 PM
1

Not necessarily...I've had good relationships with HVW and I rarely do anything dating wise that costs me a lot. I just know how to make things interesting so that I appear a lot different than most schlubs who have to spend to impress. Not saying I don't want a relationship, just that I don't need to jump through most of the hoops for sex or a relationship and why would I when I'm successfully getting what I want with the effort I'm putting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:50 PM
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If I can get good casual sex with little effort why would I want to go through the extra steps and waste money/time? I'm not being facetious, I'd just like to hear the reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:14 PM
3

She's average looking, just thin. Musk isn't much of a looker either, they're on each other's level looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 06:41 PM
1

Well your example wasn't the best... If I based what I thought someone's IQ is off of programming ability vs. the ability to pick up programming then yeah, dumb as fuck. 40 IQ points is the difference between genius and barely average, if you can't detect the difference then I have some news for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:37 PM
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So basically you'd have to be dumb as fuck to misperceive 40 IQ points difference in a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:28 PM
2

Birth control makes that point irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:26 PM
4

Substitute "man" with "black" and you'll see why it's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:39 PM
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Hell nah, I take the opposite approach, everyone should be much more considerate and realize we live in a community, and all of us should be more mindful to be taking care of each other’s wellbeing. This isn't the opposite of what he was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:36 PM
1

Go eat some puss already 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:15 PM
1

I bought a caliper tool which if used correctly it's supposed to be fairly accurate, really as accurate as can be without special equipment to figure it out e.g. hydrostatic weighing. Under 10% BF is lean af for a man and difficult to maintain, I've been there and unless you have decent musculature you'll just look very thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:32 AM
1

I'm sure I could but I'd love to hear your reasoning, not my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:02 AM
1

No. Why don't you give me a few?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:52 AM
1

I feel it's mostly about keeping relatively low body fat. I'm around 19-20bmi with 10-12% BF and feel skinny af but I do receive a lot of compliments. I'm also lucky have good bone structure and am mildly muscular but the low BF really helps accentuate what's already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:10 AM
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Are you in the south? I don't know a single man who's not ugly af who'd wait that long unless he was getting some on the side, it could just be the region I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:24 PM
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If you make me wait I'll be banging other women I'm dating in the meantime, it's almost never worth waiting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:21 PM
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So, any specific group as long as it falls within your very specific stipulations which in turn narrows it down to one group of people you personally happen to have vitriol for. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:25 AM
1

So you're implying that any specific group of people who has a space made for them are "losers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:12 AM
1

I live in West Oakland now, it's seeped in through and through out here unless you're talking about the "old" residents before it got gentrified. Wherabouts on the coast are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:00 PM
3

This is very similar to my experiences with married friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:53 PM
5

Exactly, fuck sluts and stay single, win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:55 PM
2

So you're talking specifically about the Williamsburg hipster?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:37 PM
7

Certainly not free from draining old balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:26 PM
7

He seems like the type of man who doesn't care that his wife to be takes D for green paper lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:18 PM
1

Why are you dating men like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:22 PM
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They don't have a men's pill because every man would take it and we'd have almost complete control over the decision of creating children. It's not sustainable for society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:15 PM
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As a professional who handles it I appreciate the lack of ability my customers exhibit, keeps me swimming in dosh. I do understand just truly not wanting to do it though, I usually pay my techs through work favors to work on my cars for me nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:13 AM
2

When both men and women are nearing 70% overweight/obese then the truest observation is actually "most people are unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:20 PM
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So many that it's a point of contention when talking about dating with a lot of the women around here. Some really like the soyboy thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:32 PM
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I'm in a blue collar field with no degree making well into six figures while sitting in an office (no hard physical labor). Most of the women I date tend to be highly educated although they usually make less than me. Could just be because I'm in the Bay though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:07 PM
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Thing is you don't have to do any of that to get the puss unless you're married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 07:05 PM
1

Alright then, sit in silence while I enjoy my Slurpee.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:07 PM
2

Asking for something is confrontational nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:05 PM
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And if you work out or play sports you're probably in the top 10%. It's really not that difficult, the bar is the lowest it's been in recent history.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:02 PM
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Agreed, facial aesthetics nearly take precedence in my experiences as well. I have very good luck dating desirable women as a slightly shorter than average guy who's also skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 12:08 AM
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Um sex is literally the main means by which new human life is created. Sex is practically the most pivotal thing we do as humans as it is the main means of facilitating human life on this planet. If there is nothing special about sex there is nothing special about life itself and maybe you’re a nihilist but most people aren’t. The advent of birth control and the choice to have sex without children negates this whole argument and reduces sex back down to "there's nothing special or unique about s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 10:52 PM
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Have you read Industrial Society and it's Future? If you can look past the writer's personal bias' you'll see some very good viewpoints on exactly what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 08:07 AM
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I mean, there's a subsection of gay men that are extremely demanding regarding fitness but it's not even close to all of them. One of my best friends is a prominent gay DJ in my area (San Francisco), I go to his shows and usually they're pretty LGBQT oriented. There were times I'd have a literal line of gay guys coming up and complimenting me and buying me drinks, and I'm about as skinny as can be with average height, just good bone structure and style. I do pretty well attracting all genders re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:16 PM
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If you're ripped you're not the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 01:22 AM
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Most people are fat, if you aren't seeing fat people at bars how the hell are they even staying open considering that's most of their customer base? Considering I live in what's considered one of the fittest areas of the country I think I have a pretty good representation of how people look and there's still a lot of fat people in the general pop, you aren't going to be able to avoid nearly 70% of the public. If you're going to embellish your story at least have it hold water.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:41 AM
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Again, you're sidestepping the point. I'm a professional living in a big city, there are a lot of fat guys my age (late 20's / early 30's) that basically outright bitch about women not liking them despite them being a finance or tech bro, like that absolves any and all other large shortcomings (physically and mentally/personality wise). Are there less fat people on average here? Yes, but as someone who's lived/worked throughout the country it's not really as drastic a difference as you'd think u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:45 PM
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You're getting distracted from the topic at hand, the fact is that 98% of guys 200lbs+ would look much, much better if they dropped some weight. Most pull some "info" like this to help validate themselves because it's easier than actually doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:05 PM
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Yes, with juicing and a heavy routine you can reach those results, however being a professional athlete puts him in the "outlier" section of BMI/muscularity regardless. That is not considered the norm, the average 200lb+ dude walking down the street looks like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 06:03 PM
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Thats because he's an outlier (professional athlete), even still medically he's overweight for his height. Take a look at Serena Williams, shes built as fuck and is squarely right in the middle of a healthy BMI range. Most people who are overweight/obese are pretty obviously overweight/obese, not professional athletes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 05:41 PM
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That's the issue, for 200lbs. to be considered a healthy weight you'd have to be at least 6'3".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:50 AM
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And your intent on that was?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:20 AM
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If you want to argue over insinuations find someone else, if you'd like to debate I'm listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:14 AM
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It may seem a little far fetched at first considering mainstream religions have for years have been trying to paint it as "mysticism", but only because the prevailing religions of today have painted it as such to try and discredit it to maintain power. When you boil it down and try to see what they're actually trying to explain though it's actually a pretty rational explanation for things considering the context of when and where it came to be, much better than how most modern religions teach it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:16 AM
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I'm not religious in at all. I love the book of Ecclesiastes in the Bible. Everybody (religious or not) should read it. I agree, people think of religious texts as strictly such when they're actually a (while heavily biased through the writer's perspective and the context of social dynamics / politics at that time) great source of documentation on human history, science/religion, politics at the time, etc. Have you only read the King James version? If so you should read about Gnosticism, it's es…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:27 PM
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A lot of women have called me gay for having a skincare routine too. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:24 AM
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I'm a man who "takes care of himself", e.g. dresses well, skincare routine, good hair, smells good, in shape etc. A lot of women just assume I'm gay because of it but I suppose I do attract a lot of good looking women as well (vs. my friends / most guys).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:17 PM
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By definition these men are the ones women are trying to partner with or they wouldn't have a high count in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 09:15 PM
1

You give yourselves way too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:30 PM
1

I mean, I'm only 5'8 and I pull better than most guys, even those who are 6ft+.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 03:42 AM
3

Don't know about that, most of the most beautiful women I've dated were also some of the kindest people I've met. Sounds like you don't get many hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 11:43 PM
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You're assuming both that everyone would play by the rules and that only countries involved in NATO would be willing to offer support. There are many ways for any country to support another (or an uprising) without necessarily making the claim of representing their country through these actions (which could lead to sticky situations) such as offering finances, mercenaries and weapons on the down low. Just read on how many coups come to fruition through underlying contributions from other countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:15 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:55 AM
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au contraire, any nation with a vested interest in seeing the U.S. lose global political power would be enticed to help. So quite a bit of the world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:50 PM
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Exactly, anyone with an interest in destabilizing the U.S. government would be first to help, "the enemy of my enemy is my friend" even if the goals behind it are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:22 PM
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They wouldn't risk a relationship with what would be a tyrannical, unhinged government that's actively burning itself alive on the world stage if it started to kill it's own citizens? Ok. Have you no idea how other countries help rebels in their own country? They almost never do a boots on the ground approach, they funnel resources to rebels to maintain plausible deniability, just like the U.S. does when they're trying to topple a regime to install a puppet government. It's nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 07:15 PM
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I suppose I could see a certain subsection(s) of the population labeled terrorists and hunted as so. It's getting dangerously close to that reality now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:07 PM
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Do you really think the rest of the world would sit by idly as the U.S. used it's military on it's own citizens? Also it doesn't matter how intricate the maps, guerilla fighters are much quicker and flexible in all regards, if it popped off the rebellion would go on for years because "everyone" is the enemy to the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:59 PM
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We got smacked by a bunch of guys in the desert with %.0001 of the funding our military has too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:38 PM
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Her viewpoint isn't that left at all. Liberals aren't left, they're just left of conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 07:45 AM
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As a guy I genuinely don't understand how other guys don't get this shit. It takes half a brain cell to put together a good look and do some minor grooming and the payback in attention is exponential. I pull eyes everywhere I go and receive compliments from women (and men) at least a few times a week on my style and it isn't high dollar, you just have to be aware of why certain things look good/bad on particular body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, unfortunately most have stuck with the same styling they had when they were 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:24 PM
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It's really not that complicated and it pays back more than you can imagine because you'll look better than 90% of the guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:17 PM
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I do the same thing you do, I just don't ascribe it as my point in life is all. It holds the same significance to me as having children does, none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:43 PM
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Salty about what? I work and make the fat paychecks too, however selling my time to a company is the last thing I want to do. Working isn't an achievement, it's a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:18 PM
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Imagine thinking that being a cog in the machine is an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:50 PM
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Chicks are usually only ok with fat guys if they're also tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:52 PM
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It's on the verge of obesity, "a bit chubby" would be 30lbs less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:14 AM
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I disagree, nobody wants to have sex with a fat slob unless it's a fetish or you don't have any other choice. 99.99% of people would look vastly better at a healthy BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:10 AM
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What this woman says is pretty spot on, a lot of guys are just too much of a puss nowadays to even make a move like a man should. Because of that there are now so many women desperate for a guy's attention that even approaching one they don't even know how to respond half the time because they're so caught off guard by something that doesn't happen much anymore. Most guys are offput by this scenario and also don't know how to navigate normal interaction with a woman to build an attractive allure…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:04 AM
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It's easier now than ever before 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:31 AM
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Until it's full of pencil shavings and doesn't work quite right, then everyone uses a different sharpener lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:34 PM
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Exactly, you don't see men going up to other random men and asking them out for coffee or a drink. Wonder why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:14 PM
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All I can say to people that want to have sex, is to be sexy. That's probably most of the issue right there, just taking a good look at the general public will answer OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:05 PM
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Oh fuck that, maybe it's because I was born and raised in a very open minded area but personally I prefer dark skinned women to white women, and I'm white. Your white boyfriend is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:46 AM
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That man is in for a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:51 PM
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I dunno, I'm skinny with average height and I pull better than most guys do. Imo being skinny is better than almost all of the other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:59 PM
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100% on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:23 AM
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Why not head down to San Fransisco and check out the 7 or 8 million soft ass dudes living there compared to the 30,000 working the oil fields in rural Canada. This is why it's easy as fuck to pull down here (SF). If you're a guy who actually revels in their masculinity instead of acting like it's the devil and downplaying it you are definitely in the minority and therefor actively stand out to women here. Sure, some people hate on it but it's seemingly enticing to a much larger percentage of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:46 AM
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Somewhere around mid 30's. I don't think it's an exceptional amount but I also don't think it qualifies as low or even average for both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:32 AM
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I disagree completely. As a high N count man I want nothing more than a monogamous relationship with a well adjusted, pleasant and cute woman who understands me. I've never cheated or even entertained the idea when I'm in a serious, exclusive relationship. The reason I have high N count is because most women tend to be mental and just want to sleep with me a few times to check off a box or something, and if I don't bang them someone else will so why not? It's all good fun, however it isn't my en…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:19 PM
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