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Oh I definitely agree to a certain extent, me and my girlfriend who I love to death have talked about this because we both doubt marriage but understand that it's just a societal label.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/18 12:04 AM
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I definitely see what you mean, it's one of the reasons I question marriage as a good thing, but I'm not out of hope as I've seen happily married people but it's quite rare and hard to come by. I primarily think it's communication issues, and a lack of connection between married people that can cause issues, but hey I'm probably wrong, who knows.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/18 12:31 AM
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Thanks for your personal insight, I'm sorry for the abuse you had to go through, I hope all is well. But yes I've begun to realize this as time has gone by since that moment I was with all those men. I've realized that their perspective was botched and all they did was spout ignorance and hatred towards more than women. This made me realize that their wives probably had a thing or two to say about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 03:00 PM
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Wow that's an amazing perspective, I was being told all of this information that I posted about by a bunch of men who were all college friends back in the day and I was just tagging along with my father and they began to talk the way I posted as they talked more about women. But now that I'm out of that environment, I've realized that I never analyzed their behavior and saw that there's a reason they might have the wives they have because their personalities match the description of the wives th…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 02:57 PM
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That's awesome advice, thank you. Yeah I've thought about marriage and realized it's something I really need to feel out before going down that path. Because it's a path that can be beyond rewarding or very punishing.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 02:54 PM
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You have a good point, and now that I'm back home and able to see and analyze things for myself I've realized this. It's just hard when your environment is full of men.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 02:53 PM
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He makes pretty good points with regards to mental illnesses/personality disorders having an impact on a relationship through narcissistic qualities of the females or males. But around 10:52 he refrains from this by taking that original term "love bombing" and creating his own term called "soft love bombing" which he equates to women in general rather than women with a personality disorder. This is the issue I have with the video as he's cherry picking the qualities of the original term and crea…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/18 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the awesome post, this video was created by a MGTOW follower so he has good insight on how the narcissistic part works but equates some kind of "soft love bombing" to most women which is in my opinion a wrong conjecture.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/18 09:22 PM
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You're definitely right, I just need to learn to get past this. Cause I'm scared to even go on YouTube without seeing a MGTOW video and then it causing me anxiety. Also I hate when people who believe in Red Pill drift in here and talk about how Red Pill will fix my problems or some shit. Idk my subconscious brain is insanely irrational and it's hard to get myself out of this cycle of thought. Especially when I see on the MGTOW and Red Pill subreddit people saying that exredpill is just people fe…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 08:12 PM
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No I'm saying that women are always on the lookout for an opportunistic relationship because they like to have more emotional attention and their sex drives decrease more over time.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 05:56 PM
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Because I'm looking for an alternative perspective, I already have the red pill perspective, just look at my post.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 05:48 PM
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Yeah I probably should've worded that differently but I see it from their perspective that it's the wrong conditions to love a person I guess. If you watch the video he talks about how women aren't into conditional love based off of quality traits but are more about an opportunistic love that's only about finding someone that will listen to them and praise them I guess. Just playing devil's advocate because of my anxiety lol sorry.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 03:29 AM
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I definitely agree with you, I'm coming from a position of paranoia and anxiety so I tend to play Devil's advocate at times. I just worry that the video is true that I linked above. I mean he has some truth about women and men having different ways of rationalizing emotions. And I think he said that women tend to put all their emotional issues on men instead of dealing with it from a problem solving perspective. Idk if that's true from personal experience but I'm just trying to get support I gue…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 03:25 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/18 04:47 AM
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I lift weights, exercise and I have a girlfriend as well. I suffer from an anxiety disorder so it's hard to rationalize the bullshit away.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/18 12:18 AM
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I agree with you on that fact, and I see that these grouped variabilities can be identified but not completely defined as an exact thing. Often MGTOW cites the idea of hypergamy as an example of the horrible nature of women but I see it as a biological process that has definitely leveled out but still remains due to recent evolutionary processes.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:34 PM
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So from your studies, do you see the "female" brain as variable and very undefined? As it would be hard to determine that there's conformity among all women at the neurological level?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:10 PM
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Not from my experience with a majority of the comments from this community, one person I met had repill tendencies but was on the fence and was open for discussion.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 06:41 AM
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What does that have to do with the post?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 06:37 AM
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That's interesting, do you have any more content about the nature of women that proves the TRP and MGTOW community wrong?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 05:30 AM
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I definitely agree, but also allowing myself to logically think about everything MGTOW argues has helped me see the problems and holes in their belief system. For instance this article was linked in a MGTOW forum: https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269 Which claims women are reflecting their self hatred on the quality of men they choose, although the article at the end states something quite different lol.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 05:19 AM
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Sounds good to me, I just need to stick to this logic and hopefully rid myself of this horrible anxiety.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:32 AM
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I'm starting to realize that, but something in the back of my head says it's womens nature or some stupid shit like that.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:31 AM
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Really, what's an incel?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:30 AM
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I know it can, It's so hard to silence my thoughts but they can literally stop me and my tracks and change my entire mood. It's absolutely horrible and I wouldn't wish it on anybody. I just need to learn how to stop.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:29 AM
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Thanks so much, I definitely just need to indulge myself in more positive content and hang out with my gf more. It's another dip in anxiety and it's a common occurrence for me to go through this throughout the year. I just need time to recover and get a therapist for sure. Thanks again.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/18 09:12 PM
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Thanks so much for recognizing what's going on, I feel so drained and mentally exhausted after the last day just dealing with all this shit. I definitely need to start therapy and meditate,as they've helped me in the past. It's so hard dealing with these compulsions and intruding thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/18 04:45 AM
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Thanks for being so helpful, it's been tough but I've been talking over it with my gf and things have been working out great. Over time I've been able to rationally stop indulging in this content but it pops up momentarily.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/18 12:16 AM
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I know, I've been telling myself that but this guy's channel I linked is trying to convince people that it's womens nature to be manipulative.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/18 08:56 PM
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Okay, thanks for putting up with my irrationality, I see that it's ridiculous logic they have but anxiety is ridiculous. But I'm starting to think more rationally and realize that you really can't generalize anything about anyone anymore. There's so many factors at play in reality.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/18 02:20 PM
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Yeah I know that it's probably extremely bad for me to continue but I have this inherent fear that women are deeply programmed at a biological level to be manipulative and not have the ability to love. https://youtu.be/XzOJW1noHfk This channel im particular bothers the hell out of me as the person is extremely logical (has a video about logical fallacies and used to debate religious people) so it seems there must be some kind of inherent evidence or logic pointing out that women are biologically…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/18 02:30 AM
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Thanks so much for thw addition and response, you guys have really helped. I definitely see what you guys mean, I just don't understand why my mind is acting so irrational and buying into this crap, it just seems like such a long video like that would obviously have some truth to it and all those comments are so convincing, idk. It also has made me doubt my own gf and worry she's just subconsciously using me. As if it's human nature. But I guess the best way to understand is to just live the lif…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/18 01:38 AM
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Thanks so much, Im falling into this huge pit of anxiety where I'm obsessing over whether this information is true or not, it's like a leach that never stops sucking. It's extremely exhausting but I'm working at it, I love my gf to death I just have these extreme amounts of worry because I read comments from all these men who have been in alot of relationships and all of them say women don't love you and it's all an illusion to get emotional support. It just scares the ever living shit out of me…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/18 11:31 PM
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Thanks so much I appreciate it. I definitely agree that women gave contributed alot towards society and that these MGTOW people focus on the negatives to push a narrative forward. By just spending time with my amazing GF those thoughts diminished and I started to realize how amazing women are.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/18 09:11 PM
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I thought this was what you meant, I tend to over analyze shit so I second guess myself alot. I definitely agree with you, life's not about pussying out and retreating like MGTOW, it's about taking shit head on.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 03:35 PM
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Interesting response, I have plenty if male friends in my life that offer an alternate perspective on life versus women. I have an anxiety disorder that causes my subconscious brain to latch onto any thought or idea I disagree with, no matter what it is. This is just part of the cycle and I've had plenty of other obsessions about things thag didn't make any sense (contracting rare diseases, havong rare medical conditions, worrying about superstitions like stepping on cracks and such). My purpose…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 03:25 PM
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I kind of see where you're going with this, im not completely sure how this ties into what I originally said, could you further clarify?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 05:54 AM
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Thanks for the tip, I'll keep this in mind every time the intrusive thoughts come up and scratch away at me.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 12:00 AM
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Thanks for the response, I've definitely been telling myself this, it's like the idea of racism and how we patronize a couple bad people within a group or culture. I'm just glad I'm getting responses because it's nice to read things that push a positive narrative.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 12:00 AM
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