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| 5 | [FR] Two nights, two different JBs, cockblocked by same friend. | J-seducer | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 09:53 PM |
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| 0 | Do you hang out with the girl for the rest of the night or go and have fun with your mates?Depends on what you really want to do. Do you want to hang out with your buddies, or do you want to f-close this girl tonight? If I wanted to sleep with her that night I would do my typical routine I do on japanese women: Bounce her to another location where we can sit next to each other. I would then increase the physical attraction at this point by escalating kino and doing something that would surprise the shit out of her. One thing I recently did was physically picking her up and saying some… | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?I pull off relationship debate type openers pretty well. The jealous girlfriend one and the girl kissing another girl at a club are two that always get some sort of conversation started. I also like roleplaying. The husband/wife roleplay is my favorite. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, we need to talkI really have nothing to add except that I agree with this post completely. Whenever I see those inner game posts I think of the age-old shitty advice; "Just be yourself." Yea, at the end of the day that is what you want to do, but what is the best way of being yourself? Inner game only really helps me execute my outer game well. If I had no outer game (especially when I started), I wouldn't be successful at all because I wouldn't know what the hell I am doing. Pure inner game can get you lucky … | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 05:10 AM |
| 20 | Opening is easy, the next part sucksDon't be afraid to talk about unimportant things. When I first talk to a woman it is like 90% me just blabbing away. I completely ignore anything about the girl's personality and just continue blabbing like I just met an old friend in the bar. I remember one time I talked to a girl about stepping on a cockroach. This led to a huge conversation about how huge and gross the roaches are here. If she mentions something that you can make a story out of, don't hesitate to tell that story. The more you… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Anyone have anxiety over choosing to flirt with one person in public since a random girl next to them might think "Awww...he didn't talk to me"It is stupid to care about that It isn't like they are going to be following you around saying you are such a despicable person for trying to pick up girls. Just create a bubble between you and the woman you are trying to pick up. Anything outside of that bubble is completely irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what is the best way for a girl to grab a guy's attention?Why wait for the guys to approach you? Just go up to a guy that you like and tell him you find him attractive. Things would be so much easier if every girl that was into me actually did this instead of waiting for me to walk over and say something. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Who's got Openers!! I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.I used this one last night with success. The girl was crossing the street and I was about to pass her in the intersection: Stop. You have beautiful eyes, I need to get to know you. What is your name? | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the motives behind girls going out?I wouldn't think like that. Maybe she is just shy and for whatever retarded reason is throwing that out as a shit test. Hell, just recently a guy posted that he threw the excuse "I have girlfriend" because of his anxiety. People can say ultra weird shit because of their shyness. You are talking to the girl for a reason, I wouldn't dismiss her so quickly because of some sort of shit test. Now if she continues with the BS that you dont like just dump her, but I wouldn't abandon something you like … | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Hitting on Foreigners with a Language Barrier at Popular Tourist SpotsFinally a topic for me! If you want a bit of history on the magnificent j-seducer just read my post history (I haven't been on seddit in a while because I've been wasting my time with some Estonian girls, but I decided to finally ditch them so hopefully there will be more wild japanese sexcapades in store for me in the future!). I speak no japanese at all but I can consistently close these tourists. The key? Extreme confidence, kino at the right times, and bouncing them to another location right… | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phoneA million times this. I had someone text me "You gotta go for the f-close with that country girl." while I was talking to the country girl, while the phone was in plain view of her. As soon as I was lone I turned that text message preview off. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Tips about ignoring everyone else around you. Go.I have a similar problem. I don't care bout getting rejected in front of other guys, but the idea of other people judging me affects my game. Since I only really go after japanese girls, I get extra attention from everyone in the room. I never got over this and it affects my game to this day. Just last night I hooked a two set in front of a convience store. Quite literally there were like 4 guys looking at me with the look of "Lets see how this goes." I felt like I was putting on a performance f… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Where do single women go?There is a little story behind the origin of the term. Me and my friend were making fun of all the terms in the pick up community, relating them to military acronyms. That day was also the day we took our ussr tanker helmets and wired radios to them. To test our awesome helmets out we decided to talk using mostly pua terms with them. Example: Me: hb presenting strong IOIs at my 9. Permission to open. Him: give me the situation Me: hb7 in a three set. Him: you are clear to open, disable the obsta… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 09:52 PM |
| 0 | I'm living in Korea. The game here is totally different from what I know. Enlighten PUA's in East Asia.No experience with Korean women but my pick-up senses went off when you mentioned Japanese women so here we go: In my experience Japanese women are not that much different than any other woman. Their politeness can easily be mistaken as an ioi, but once you calibrate it isn't an issue. My usual routine with JBs is the same as any woman; open, kino, dhv, bounce to a new location, more kino, comfort, bounce to seduction location and then close. Type of close depends on how much I fucked up earlier… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm 20 years old. I've never kissed a girl. I'm horrendously insecure. I am very close to giving up -- I need a mentor.I didn't kiss a girl till I was 24 and didn't lose my virginity till I was 25. This was all thanks to the puck up community. Now I am basically just picking-up foreign Japanese ladies for fun. I never would have thought my life would have ended up like this. My main problem was confidence and neediness. Once you truly believe that you do not need a woman and that you can easily please any if them, you will be able to get just about any woman you want. If you live in Hawaii I would gladly go sarg… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:25 AM |
| 3 | IDK if this belongs here but I'm a woman and I want to ask men out instead of the other way around - how do I do it?When it comes to attraction males and females are completely different. If we were that similar, the whole pick up community wouldnt need to exist. I don't have much time so I will quickly go through your questions. Kino is the act of touching someone for the purposes of attraction. My kino with a woman starts with a hand on the shoulder and gradually escalates to kissing. I'm pretty sure there is something about kino in the sidebar. If you want to know more check out the kino escalation ladder.… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Where do single women go?Jailbait? Close enough. Maybe I should create a new account named jb_means_japanese_babe. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 07:20 PM |
| 11 | IDK if this belongs here but I'm a woman and I want to ask men out instead of the other way around - how do I do it?Oh please. She is just asking for a good looking guy who takes care of his body that is not an asshole. This fits the bill of like 75% of the older (25+) marines I know. Hell, I would say I fit her description, im a pretty selfless person (last week I brought a pie, ate one slice and then gave the rest to random people on the street because I didn't want it to go to waste. If that isn't good guy Greg, I don't know what is. That pie night was a good night btw, led to some great adventures and a d… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 08:20 AM |
| 3 | IDK if this belongs here but I'm a woman and I want to ask men out instead of the other way around - how do I do it?Not a bad idea, actually. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Okay seddit, I've browsed you for months and now I'm asking for advice when I need it the most.Have you been approaching women? Approaching women and getting positive results usually brings my mood up. Even if I am in a slump where I cannot get any results, just hooking a set lightens my mood. If I cant hook I just take a break for a few days and I'm usually good. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 04:37 AM |
| 9 | Where do single women go?I wouldn't worry about women being single or not and just approach them anyway. Hell, I would even approach a mixed two-set. There is a good chance that the guy is just a friend and the hot lady is a single woman that is waiting for a guy with the balls to hit on her while she is out with her male friend. WARNING ANOTHER JB STORY FROM J-SEDUCER* I approached what appeared to be a seated 3-set of JBs at a resteraunt. After about 4 minutes two extremely confused and slightly irritated Japanese men… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 04:31 AM |
| 6 | IDK if this belongs here but I'm a woman and I want to ask men out instead of the other way around - how do I do it?A street near where I practice my street game has hookers on it. From time to time I try to game them for shits and giggles. This led to me becoming friends with them and me sometimes hanging out with them when they are not working. I think about half of my wit comes from talking with them because they have great comebacks for just about anything I say. Anyway, I have learned a few things about picking up guys from them. You would be surprised how much prostitutes actually have to work to get gu… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 04:16 AM |
| 0 | I'm 0/70 this summer in approaches. Any advice so I can get something going before I wasted my whole summer?Not exactly related to your situation, but I had the same problem as you when I first started my j-seducing career. Since they rarely speak english I found it hard to keep them interested or get some sort of conversation going. I would get them hooked, but I would not be able to go anywhere because they did not respond that well to english. Everything I learned in the past was failing me. My solution ended up coming from another PUA in my area that I ended up winging for a night. Whenever he ran… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 01:36 AM |
| 1 | 19 year old virgin(never had gf) in the military what am I doing wrong?I joined the military when I was 21 and didn't even kiss a girl till I was 25. My problem was that girls that were interested always waited for me to approach. As soon as I started approaching the numbers/dates came easy. Talking to women isn't hard, it just requires practice. Sorry I had to cut the post early because I had to run a j-set (number closed ;D). I was just going to explain that what flirting is is nothing more than light teasing. In pick-up it is called push-pull. That is the basics… | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 07:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed?When I was in high school I was told I was ugly by both girls and guys. I was kinda fat back then, though. When I was 21 I joined the military and was forced o turn that weight into muscle. I still thought I was ugly (your personal look on yourself doesn't change that fast) but I always got looks from girls when I was in public. Even though I got a bit fatter since boot camp, girls in sets I run compliment me on my looks at least half the time. This rebuilt my confidence greatly and I can carry … | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How much should I talk?You are over-thinking it. In the beginning of the pick-up I talk a lot and I just end up coming off as the talkative guy. It is also a bit of strategy of mine, keeps them more in a reactive mode, and allows me to lead the interaction a lot easier. The further on I go in the pick-up (comfort and seduction) I let her talk a lot more. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:30 PM |
| 7 | Best way to work with shy, inexperienced girls?One JB I was with last weekend was extremely shy. Like she was completely unresponsive to my kino. I thought I was doing something wrong. The only way I could tell she was even attracted is when she started following me. Since I had no indicators I just kept going like she was giving it to me. She didn't start to respond until things got more sexual. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Too much freakin information out there!The best thing for you to do is to just go out and field test what you read and see what works for you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit, What do you do that makes you an interesting person?My trade is a military intelligence operator. For JBs I have to call myself a spy, which usually gets me into their pants quickly. Other than that, I do enjoy doing physical things and my family. Girls love seeing photos of me hiking, biking, taking care of my niece, and showing them all the different places I have been in the world. But really being interesting is all about selling it. If you just say "Yea, I went hiking this weekend it was cool." that wouldn't generate any interest. Now if you… | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Quick question.If you are going to go direct and call a girl out on her looks and keep complimenting, you better keep on going with that and stay extremely sexual. Usually when a girl says she doesn't have a boyfriend I just say "I dont have a girlfriend, lets be each other's boyfriend and girlfriend." When this does work allows me escalate kino more quickly than I would have otherwise. I only tried this on JBs, though. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Have you gone to Vegas when you turned 21? What do you wish you had known or suggest to someone who will be going in August?Like I said, just be sure you are very social in the club. The second you walk in, you better start opening sets. If you cannot dance, it isn't a big deal (I cant), just find a quiet area of the club where you can talk to people. If you cant find a quiet area, you can open using your phone. Find an app that you can type words on (SMS messages, a notepad, etc) and use that + dominating body language (grab her hand and lead her) to take her to a more quiet area. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, we need to talk about FRsYea I was thinking this earlier while I was reading field reports. Sex is the easy part, there is not much to learn about that. I want to read more detailed reports about how they got the girl, which is extremely lacking. Even if the person didn't get the girl, we could analyze where we went wrong. We are all internet friends here, no need to fucking DHV us. Most of the stuff I learned from pick up was from my failed sets anyway. The only field report I made here I think is detailed enough and w… | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Night game: Sober or not sober?When I first started I wanted to do everything sober as well, but after a while I realized it didn't really matter. If you have AA dont cure it with alcohol, get rid of the AA first. Once you have been gaming for a while, I found it doesn't really matter. Well, for me at least. Everyone reacts to alcohol differently so know your limits. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 03:30 AM |
| 3 | aPUA here: on Reddit Blue so I don't see a sidebar. What's something basic I can practice tonight?To get rid of AA just approach as many sets you can. I got rid of my AA in like one day by say random things like "Did you see those two black guys fighting outside?" or "I noticed you have an accent, where is it from?" Once you get into conversations with a enough people your AA will be gone. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Have you gone to Vegas when you turned 21? What do you wish you had known or suggest to someone who will be going in August?Vegas is what got me sold on this PUA stuff. I dont know if I just was trying puck-up for the first time, but people were extremely easy to talk to there. My first day I met like 4 girls, and hooked up with both a japanese and chinese girl later on (this was the beginning of my j-seducing carrer btw). Hell, I even got in with some models who got me into clubs/parties with like a $100 cover charge for free. Whatever party they went to had hot girls everywhere. I'm talking about like a HB7 minimum… | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Experienced PUAS and seduction artists: In your opinion, how much is PUA integrated into mainstream society?I use pua terms in the bar all the time and no one ever knows what I am talking about. I have also never been called out or anything. PUAs are more popular now but it is nowhere near mainstream. There sure as hell isn't that many guys out there practicing this stuff either. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 03:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Two nights, two different JBs, cockblocked by same friend.They are routines I have discovered a long time ago and could probably br discovered with a google search. The husband/wife routine is just a husband/wife roleplay. You go through the whole marriage up to the divorce. Works best when you intergrate heavy kino. Builds attraction and it is funny. I never had a time where it didn't work. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Souring a venue?It is my speciality | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Souring a venue?Me and my friends bring different japanese girls to the same bar every other night. Everyone on the staff knows what we are doing and they dont seem to care. The bartender and his girlfriend that visits always makes jokes asking us "So how many asian girls are you going to bring back here tonight?" Picking up the JBs from the same bar happens often as well, but they dont tend to frequent there. The owner of the place is awesome about it as well and I actually think he likes seeing us bringing th… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 09:59 PM |
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