| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 256 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks.. | Lifestyle | J4nosch | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Date journal | Fundamentals | J4nosch | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 08:05 PM |
| 0 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel room | Field Report | J4nosch | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 10:18 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Getting Pussy is too hardIt’s easy | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 03:52 PM |
| 38 | Field Report: Threesome on a first dateGreat post. You should write books man | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I think I finally understood what game isGAME. I love this word | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Why many don't need ANY advice... yetI think many people in this subreddit only complain but don’t apply. That’s it | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why many don't need ANY advice... yetAnd then there are people that argue when a girl likes you already you don’t need any of these tactics | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Why many don't need ANY advice... yetOk you named everything that doesn’t work out yet. Cool. Now to the why, let me ask your these questions: - Did you max out your appearance? Doing sports? - Are you sad after a failed approach or do you say it’s a numbers game next one? - did you max out your dating profile by checking what other guys are doing well? - did you read any of the 1 billion available posts on this subreddit where people are sharing exactly your issues and others provide them the solution? No? Then stop complaining, w… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomthank you, I won’t. Every woman is different in the end and I shouldn’t treat them differently because of some past experience where I didn’t get what I wanted | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 11:17 AM |
| 1 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomyeah probably | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomAfraid of what? | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomI take it 🫡 | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:06 AM |
| 0 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomBut why she kiss and hug me then?? Can you explain it to me? Sometimes while kissing I leaned back or went slower and noticed she’s always going for it. For me the discrepancy of her actions just doesn’t make any sense. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:59 AM |
| 2 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomYou got me there. I don’t know after we kissed and hugged a lot maybe my inner feelings were pretty strong and wanted more. And hers didn’t. I’ll try to get this more under control. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 3 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomActually no. She initiated taking my hand. Then we started holding hands. Then I went for the kiss. I think we kissed like 30 min in total in various moments. That’s just why I’m so confused. Because at that moment as a guy that likes this woman physically and thinks there is a vibe of course I’ll seek for more. But yeah bummer she stopped me at that point.. As you’re asking me this you’re right: I should focus more on flirting and sexual tension. But you know I don’t wanna come off as needy or … | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:39 AM |
| 0 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomWhat dating goal do you put in your profile? „Open where things go“ or „Looking for something casual“ | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 6 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomI don’t do dinners anymore because of similar experiences | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:29 AM |
| 2 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomYoure right. At the moment I noticed she put me in the role that Im now trying convince her (by her saying „one more hug pls / one more kiss.“ but then denying my request), I just said „alright it’s your decision.“ (she replied „oh but I don’t want you to feel bad“ - WHAAAT?? some girls can turn you crazy wtf) | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:27 AM |
| 4 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomI don’t do that anymore because of experiences like this one. Just walk and talk | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:22 AM |
| -9 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomYou did quickies with women who put „LTR only“ in their profile by telling them before hand you only want casual? I think that’s not possible | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Do yall go out to just cold approach or does it just happen?This is so true. It unlocks something idk how to describe it | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I let a woman down easy?Please don’t!! I’ve also thought and acted like this multiple times before. It’s not worth it and won’t work out. And as I said before, you’re both just wasting each others mental energy and time to find someone else | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Stats for Top GuysMany INTJs here (including me). We’re just analyzing everything | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 09:31 PM |
| 0 | How do I let a woman down easy?Blocking isn’t a bad thing as long as everything has been said. I think it’s very freeing. Of course you should tell her first that you both aren’t compatible and it’s nothing personal. But then go for the block (after like 1-2 replies). It’s better for both of you. Trust me I always regretted it not blocking earlier. Also there are so many women in this world. Not being compatible is completely fine. Just move on and let both of you find someone else that is compatible. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?Im successful with dating platforms. The thing that bothers me with nightclubs (had no game that time) is the setting and probably the quality of women. Idk I prefer to drink less and don’t smoke. But never approached in a nightclub before. Would you say there are also quality women? | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 11:32 PM |
| 6 | fellas, would you rather keep up the dry spell in hopes of something better or keeping fucking these 4-5s?„But it’s a numbers game“ | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 10:08 PM |
| 13 | Woman who I cold approached in a department store complained to securityThis is the reason why most people are scared of cold approaching. There is that 1% of women that have issues. The majority will never react like this (of course if you don’t act like a creep/dumbass) | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 7 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions?Because they are emotional like children | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 01:07 PM |
| 6 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?For me it’s also time before approaching. To fix this I remind myself of this fact: Every approach needs low latency. So just shorten the thinking process: - do I look good? (Kick) - will it be awkward? (Kick) - what if she’s busy? (kick) - is she worth it? (Kick because if you noticed her and already think about it, it will be worth it no matter the outcome) You also mentioned motivation. It’s not about that. It’s discipline. Do it anyways even if you don’t feel like it or you will regret you d… | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Reducing HER anxiety is the biggest initial factor to an approachI see it like that: every woman has a protection shield activated when you approach her. It’s the the same thing everyone does have to protect yourself from potential danger / scam etc. Example: „Sorry no“, „I’m in a rush“, *doesn’t reply* Many of us get scared when we encounter it and stop the approach but that’s the mistake and where your tips come in. Just continue with your talking and make her feel more comfortable in that moment. Then there is the second shield that can activate: „Sorry I … | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 04:44 PM |
| 0 | What I Learned Approaching 2,000 Women in 1 YearGreat stuff, thank you | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth more„So find yourself a girl with a 7 face, but a 9 body and you've hit the jackpot, both sexually and personality-wise.“ So her body tells about her personality? whaat | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?This is golden advice. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 12:17 PM |
| 8 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?Is it comparable to the job market? I always hear people saying it’s very bad right now. But are those also the ones who are stuck in the same job for years or have never really tried? | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 01:31 AM |
| 9 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?Can you elaborate what reactive means in this case? | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approach might be KeyTotally agreed. It’s the hardest of all games. Once you perform well there the others will be easy. And regarding the other advantages in life you won’t realize before that’s also exactly what I’ve experienced | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Did it a few times and just confirmed my thinking. Not worth it | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:03 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Then go to a 2-star rating restaurant if you think ratings are disinformation. I’ll stick with the high rating. Because why should I waste my time there if I know many people had a better time at the other one? | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:01 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..I mean I get your point but scales give us a way to orientate ourselves. You could also say google ratings are bullshit or any type of feedback with a rating scale. I know every human is different but so are restaurants for example. Some of them almost everyone will like (10/10) because they look fancy and some only a few people will like because let’s say it has bad smell inside (3/10) In the end that rating ISNT subjective because if 99% of the people would say afterwards they really liked the… | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Never mention this scale to woman bro lol. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 10:34 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..It is. Because from the 99 you’ll gain tons of experience. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..😂 | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 03:29 PM |
| 3 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Adrenaline, experience and proving myself I can do it | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 03:28 PM |
| -1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..I said lookwise. Not in total | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 03:24 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Yessir. Ready for the roller coaster 🎢 | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 10:23 PM |
| 5 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Im not neglecting that. But my goal is someone with 10/10 looks. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 10:08 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..And in bed? | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 10:06 PM |
| 3 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..I think everyone needs to make this experience. So you start appreciating real value. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 09:21 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Good tips! Why was it exhausting though? | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 08:54 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Yes 23. thank you and congrats man! | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 08:51 PM |
| 5 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..It’s just a Numbers game | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 07:35 PM |
| 7 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..What’s the feeling like afterwards? Somebody mentioned in his comment that it’s like tasting the forbidden fruit and wanting it again because now you know you can do it | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Yes I’ll try my best and put in the efforts. And I’m not aiming for long-term because as you and many others said those women tend to have a bad personality because they can be assholes and will still be liked. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..100% | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 04:16 PM |
| 43 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Never judge the book ☝️ | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 04:00 PM |
| 4 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..I know that’s pretty generic advice because it depends on many factors especially the stage you’re in with her. But your confirming the fact that lots of guys are giving her compliments so she will get used to that sooner or later, see it as given and at some point be annoyed of it. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 52 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..You’ve got a point here and I would confirm it’s always gonna be stressful with those because of the attention they get and what they expect. But I wanna make the experience by myself. Deep down I know..the real queens are the 8s for sure | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..genetics entered the chat | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:24 PM |
| 7 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Very valid points. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:21 PM |
| 28 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Ok so this only applies to looks and that’s just to give it a scale of course it depends on taste etc but a 10/10 in looks is someone where 99% of the guys would say she’s very beautiful. And with the number going down so does the percentage. That’s my definition at least | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:19 PM |
| 13 | What experience forced you to completely rethink dating?May be true BUT it fixes approaching anxiety which is a great skill, because you will shoot your shot when you see the perfect woman on the street without telling yourself excuses like „I have my friends female friends“. So doing both is the real superpower | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approach is a Lifestyle, Not a Hobbythank you bro | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Cold Approach is a Lifestyle, Not a HobbySocial Media algorithms just confirm your thinking. If you believe in cold approach you will see content proving it and sharing tips..and if you don’t you’ll see the content that says it’s impossible. It’s all about your own mindset. And that can be fixed with this one line: every approach is just data no matter the outcome, the more often you do it the better you know AND the higher the chance of succeeding. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 07:37 PM |
| 17 | Cold Approach is a Lifestyle, Not a HobbySaw a girl today eating ice cream with her 2 friends. She was beautiful so I just approached her. Turns out she has a boyfriend. Here is the BUT: - She said she respects my courage of approaching her - I felt very good afterwards because better being rejected than regretting the whole day not doing it. So yeah you’re right it’s just a numbers game and also I think most women respect you for approaching them. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 07:28 PM |
| 3 | My Uni has a lot of asian exchange studentsWhats your specific struggle? Like what are you scared of right now | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 01:52 PM |
| 7 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessCan you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | You’ll Never Reach Your Potential Without Real Life ApproachesHey, how old are you? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | A guide on improving with womennew to seduction. Can you elaborate why? | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 07:21 PM |
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