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| 2 | Even as a moderately okay person in all aspects, I feel like no one will ever be attracted to meI'm probably 10 years older than you, also hapa. I would say it's great that you are working to improve yourself at such a young age, and you should definitely take advantage of it. If you practice and work at it, you can be great at conversing and gaming girls. Some tips to start: - Talk to everyone you can; examples from my day; talked to someone on the plane for about 20 min (gave me good career advice), talked to someone waiting for the elevator, talked to the hotel receptionist (who gave me… | /r/seduction | 19/05/17 04:15 AM |
| 2 | How to keep a conversation going?I'm not much of a talker either, but I do enjoy (and want) social interaction with others. What I try to do is get the other person to do most of the talking. You just have to break their shell and find what they like to talk about. Practice conversing with everyone, especially new people, this will carry over talking with girls. Thread the needle: Listen to what people mention, they could be used as conversation topics. Relate to others: relate to what they say, this is a good way to reciprocat… | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym to work on strength/body = great way to self-improve. But I can't because of long term injuries. This fucking irritates meI understand, I'm sorry to hear that. I was in a motorcycle accident in January, had to be hospitalized. I was able to make a full recovery after a couple months, but I thought I broke my neck when it happened. I really hope PT works out for you, and I would consider that to still be a form of working out. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 01:52 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of ConfidenceI absolute agree with everything you said, and enjoyed your insight. My remark is from my own personal experience/observation. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 01:43 AM |
| 2 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)Always try new things! You may find something you love, at worst; new life experience (that you can talk about). Travel whenever you get a chance, especially to new places. I would recommend doing an outdoor hobby/activity of some kind. A cheap one is hiking. Sports are great too. Always try to be as social as possible, talking to others is great for building your conversation skills and confidence. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | A summary of my 14 years of experience in and out of the game.Great post! I haven't listened to John Mayer but you've convinced me to. I absolutely believe in vibes. After I started working on inner game, it's happened a few times where older women have outright said I "have a very mellow energy" or vibe. It's interesting trying to get them to quantify what they mean, they just feel it. I've also noticed a lot lately when I dance at clubs or music festivals, women will just be drawn toward me; anywhere from coming into my space and closing distance, to rep… | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Are you really that busy that you can't approach a girl or are you just using it as an excuse? If you're actually busy and you find a girl attractive, go up and say "this is totally random, but I thought you were cute and would like to get to know you. Let me get your number". If you're not busy, then approach and talk to her for a bit, see what happens. Rejection is good. It happens. It's nature's way of saying it wouldn't work out. And you can go on knowing that it wouldn't have worked out ins… | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Can an injury be sexy or just pitifulThat's exactly what I tell people, "I'm lucky". Also I said that last sentence in the first paragraph weird, I meant more like "If they want to know more about it, they will ask questions." Usually the Q & A for me goes: "What's that from?" "Motorcycle accident" "Oh, was it bad?" "Yeah, but I got really lucky" if they still want to know more "What happened?" or "Did you break anything?" I find it's better to shrug it off and be strong initially, instead of acting like a victim. When you get into… | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Can an injury be sexy or just pitifulI was in a pretty bad motorcycle accident a couple months ago, and had/have visible bandages/scarring. I found showing off to both men and women basically came off as bragging, and they didn't really care. I find its best to let them point it out and be brief/ambiguous about it. If they want to know more about it, they will ask questions. If they mention they had a near death experience, I can relate my incident, and show some scars. | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym to work on strength/body = great way to self-improve. But I can't because of long term injuries. This fucking irritates meIf you're doing PT, then stick to it, not much you can do outside of that unfortunately. Being swole isn't everything though, just try to be in shape until you can lift. If you have some body fat you want to get rid of, that comes from dieting. You don't need muscles to seduce a woman, it helps a little, but there are other ways to improve appearance; having good posture, wearing properly fitted clothing, head up and confidence. | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym to work on strength/body = great way to self-improve. But I can't because of long term injuries. This fucking irritates meGo to physical therapy and lift light. | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 06:41 AM |
| 4 | The Myth of ConfidenceNeedy: I need to prove myself to others, I need to prove I'm cool, smart, successful, have some money. I do this by bragging, playing for pity, any sort of comments for attention or approval. The man a woman wants isn't needy, he's happy with exactly what he has. He doesn't need her or her approval, he will go on just the same with or without her. When I was hitting on the two cute girls this week, they didn't ask anything about me, and I didn't say anything about myself besides relate to what t… | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 11:35 PM |
| 5 | The Myth of ConfidenceThis week has been a trip for me, this post covers what has happened to me. I'm a LTR nice guy (or hopefully was), my last relationship was really rough; crazy chick whom I kept taking back and getting hurt again, despite how nice I was and didn't do anything wrong. It's been a few months since then, and I started getting into the game since last month. I have a lot of pretty good social skills already from my work, I'm attractive and successful, but was still having trouble getting girls (crash… | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 08:58 PM |
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