| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Should I reach out to her again? | Outer Game | JB_NSA | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 06:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | What are some good openers/approaches in grocery storeI have a girlfriend now, but yes, I've gotten numbers at the grocery store. Among other places. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What are some good openers/approaches in grocery storeSo just bc you haven't experienced it, others havent??? | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:23 PM |
| 9 | What are some good openers/approaches in grocery storeWomen like you, and responses like this, are the reason women complain that men don't initiate. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 11:20 AM |
| 18 | How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!?This. For women, it's literally this simple. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 12:02 AM |
| 62 | Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guyDo it intentionally and obviously. He's not going to pick up on "hints". If you're friends, he definitely won't pick up on any cues out of maintaining respect for the friendship | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Trust after being abused and discarded by a narcissist | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to her again?No. I didn't take her on "a bunch of dates". I took her on a boat trip once. She already put it out there well before that she wasn't interested in dating anyone since she's fresh out of a toxic relationship, and so I respected that. We had plans for a second outing together a few weeks later that she cancelled day of. I don't know where you're getting "acting like a boyfriend" from all of that. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 10:20 PM |
| 7 | I asked this girl out, she rejected me and says she would, but she has boyfriend and doesn't want to do him like that, ended up giving me her # and said if he every fucks up, she'll let me know. What do I do?This kind of shit sickens me. Exactly what my ex did to me behind my back. Have some decency and morals and discard the number. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to her again?Thanks for your reply. Where in my description was I pushy or played the boyfriend role? | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What to do?Respect the fact that she's not ready for you to f**k her. No need for tips, tricks, etc. Just treat her like a person with feelings and it will happen if it's destined to happen. If it doesn't, move on. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeDumb question... what about those of us who don't drink? How. An we alter this with the same results? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:41 AM |
| 163 | I always see stuff about how guys are used as validationGuys looking for validation are labeled as "needy". | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Picked up a girls insta while drivingI don't understand why dudes get all pumped and proud when they get a girls Insta... She can give that anyone and everyone (and probably has before you). What does access to her Instagram or Snapchat actually serve in setting up a date, versus getting her phone number, which is a lot more personal.... | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Treat her like a respectable woman and not like a piece of meat (like the other guys probably are). Don't be pushy... open the door and allow her to walk in on her own. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this weird rejectionWhen I text her she does a complete 180. She doesn’t want to fuck me anymore for some reason. Ummm... did you tell her that you were going out with her b/c of what she said to her friend? If you mentioned anything about fucking her or what you said, you completely blew it. She was probably mortified. You should have just played it cool and let things happen when they happened. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyJust make a comment on her bio, or something you see in one of her photos (NOT a compliment on her appearance). Don't try to be funny or schtick-y if you're not that type of person. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop?Yeah, give up, dude. You're being a simp at this point.Find someone who appreciates your value. Sounds like this one keeps you around simply b/c she likes the attention and validation. If she asks why she doesn't hear from you anymore, just tell her you've been busy. Period. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I was told by two girls that I give off "vanilla vibes", what should I do about this?Start as in starting to go to one... | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 02:49 PM |
| 3 | I was told by two girls that I give off "vanilla vibes", what should I do about this?I just recently started a new church after moving to a new state... so many wonderful people there, so I couldn't agree more. But DON'T go just for the intention of using it as a place to pick up women. If you honestly have no interest in religion or practicing your faith, go with the continuing ed and volunteer options mentioned above | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think think of men getting leg lengthening surgery?WTF??? Is this seriously a thing?? Bro, surgery is risky in and of itself... getting something like this just to earn admiration from a woman, IMO, is ludicrous. And is only feeding into the culture of shallowness that women propagate. Be proud of who you are, and women will find you attractive, no matter your height. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Girl doesn’t know when she will be free due to workJust tell her to reach out to you when she knows she will be free and move on. No need to boost her ego with an endless chase. Plenty of other women out there w more time. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | is it normal for girls to laugh after rejecting youI get that... but could come across as snarky and p/a in context. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | is it normal for girls to laugh after rejecting youShe laughed bc of the comment you made about her BF. It could come off as insecure and passive aggressive. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 20 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the time"huh huh... he said 69..." | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:34 PM |
| 11 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeIt stings the nostrils... | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?^ This... all of this... | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step?Unless a woman gives you a definite and/or enthusiastic "yes", her answer is "no". Move on and don't allow yourself to be treated as an option. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Because there is a long line of alternate guys available for them to try after you. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.I am trying to work through this issue with myself... it's incredibly tough! | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does not caring/ghosting work so well?How many times do you set the date up? | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Mission 1: I approached 5 women and asked them for time.I agree with this. Plus, asking the time was easy before cell phones bc women usually wore them on their wrist. Most likely, they'll have to rummage through their purse to pull out their phone. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 21 | Build a sexual vibe by showing the exampleRight? That would some serious false advertising when you draw that from its holster and she sees its a .38 snub nose... | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 02:05 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter