JCAmsterdam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. Remember that even if she would have accepted, that doesn’t automatically mean she is interested. It can also means she is using you as an ATM. I (F) have friends who accept everything from guys and still friendzone them with no chance of ever getting anywhere and they date the next guy who never gives them anything but they are totally in love.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 09:04 AM
2	Old school tip: The Brad Pitt Rule But that won’t keep me warm in the middle of the night…	/r/seduction	20/04/23 04:09 PM
1	Old school tip: The Brad Pitt Rule Hahaha I do feel the Brad Pitt rule only applies to Brad Pitt. The rest of you guys just need to work a little bit harder. And to be fair, as a girl, yes I would re-schedule Brad Pitt at least once just to make a point 😂	/r/seduction	20/04/23 04:07 PM
0	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates Wait. So if you would have kissed her then it would be okay to pay? And after sex? She is entitled to unlimited dinners? This doesn’t work the way you think it does bud…	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:42 PM
1	What is it like to date or have a gf? .	/r/seduction	29/08/22 03:44 PM
1	Bad social skills ruined my life 😞 Now that is creepy…	/r/seduction	18/08/22 09:43 AM
0	Cougar You literally say “I wouldn’t talk to a guy or even look at him if I didn’t find them attractive in a way” Seems you are the slow one if you can’t even recall your own text.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 09:34 PM
2	Cougar I hear what you are saying. And I don’t disagree. It just sound so incredibly bitter that I can’t just be nice to someone because I need to worry they take it the wrong way… Maybe I am just naïeve, but I just believe in not being a bitch in general and yes that sometimes causes issues. It has caused me a few friendships to have to tell a good friend that I don’t share the same feelings when they confess being in love.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 08:46 PM
2	Cougar Didn’t your mother taught you better than that? (Pun intended ) You don’t greet your neighbors ? Make small Talk with co-workers? You know, just be a decent human being to others?	/r/seduction	17/08/22 08:12 PM
19	Cougar I am going to tell you a secret, you know from all women world wide (yes we have meetings) SOMETIMES WE JUST TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO BE NICE please don’t assume that any women that is nice to you wants something from you. More often than not, we don’t.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 08:05 PM
1	Spam approaches don't work personally I never realized how much time guys spent on this… starting to realize how easy we girls have it.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 04:38 PM
4	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. Oh yes absolutely, he is a complete idiot and oblivious for hints. That’s why I liked your post. I only disagree on the dancing part, I can easily dance with someone for a longer time without being attracted to them. But yes, if he wanted to kiss her, go get her a drink, talk to her, see if she actually likes him.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 04:57 PM
6	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. Neah. Clubs are dark. People are drunk. As long as he isn’t inappropriate you could easily dance with a guy for a long time. Sometimes girl just want the attention, but not anything else. So this is always the issue, when we are being nice guys automatically assume we are into them. But if we are not nice we are bitches. Sometimes we are just nice and that’s it.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 04:39 PM
3	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. Not sure why people downvoted you. Seems like guys don’t want to hear this.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 03:58 PM
7	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. Yeah I am not too sure. Sometimes we just dance and have fun, doesn’t mean I am automatically attracted to him. Sometimes we’re just being nice and just dancing can be just that sometimes.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 03:54 PM
3	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. Wait, so this random girl you didn’t know and danced with you for 10 whole minutes didn’t want to kiss you ?!?! THE AUDACITY Dude, that was super creepy. You obviously are horrible at picking up signals. Let’s just assume, for your sake, that no girl ever is into kissing you after 10 min. Also, when in doubt, don’t make the move. Also, at least you should have talked to her and see if there is a connection. When you “feel” it is right after all that, maybe, maybe lean in and see how she reacts b…	/r/seduction	13/08/22 03:52 PM
6	Why do girls do this? Dude, you talk about “really loving someone” as if they are married. We are talking casual hook ups while dating and it turning into something a little more serious. Of course they don’t “really love someone” at that point. There is never an excuse for hurting someone, but you are not being realistic. You demand that every one out there knows exactly what they want and when they want it. It just doesn’t work that way, people just go with the flow, sometimes they get into something before they re…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 04:03 PM
3	Why do girls do this? You’re missing the whole point. Fear of commitment is not “not wanting a relationship”, it is the fear of feeling stuck or trapped when you are getting into one. You act like these people should have themselves completely figured out and exactly know what they want. Newsflash: very few people, especially when we are younger, have their shit figured out. They just panicked. Of course is this what they “SHOULD” do. But you know… people rarely do what we should in a perfect world. Also, that first …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 01:44 PM
24	Why do girls do this? Girls are allowed to have fear of commitment too you know… Pro tip: you reaction dictates everything. She is probably only panicking and you can still get it right. Just take some distance. Be a little more “hard to get”. Pull back yourself. If this happens in an actual conversation about having a relationship than just tell her you understand things are moving to fast and say you’ll give her space to figure it out. That you won’t contact her and she can contact you. 9 out of 10 times people wil…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 07:47 AM
1	Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers? I am sorry, I am a women, but I absolutely do not see how anyone can find him attractive.	/r/seduction	24/05/22 08:35 PM
1	quick, I need a response for "Are you always so funny?" I like this one	/r/seduction	07/10/21 08:02 PM
6	quick, I need a response for "Are you always so funny?" I would roll my eyes so hard if someone would answer like this…	/r/seduction	07/10/21 08:01 PM
4	quick, I need a response for "Are you always so funny?" “Only one way to find out!” This is btw the only correct answer.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 08:01 PM
1	What’s the best way to make girls chase you? We start chasing you 😂	/r/seduction	30/09/21 09:37 PM
1	What’s the best way to make girls chase you? I will be suspended for life from girls night for this but here we go: Give us attention and then pull back. It’s a game and I don’t recommend playing games but this totally works. So be very friendly, give her a attention, flatter, compliment etc. (But not in a weird way, don’t over-do it, feel the room and give just a little extra) and then just stop. Make yourself less available, or unavailable, while you made her feel like you were interested before. Works every time.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 07:35 PM
1	[deleted by user] Dude… and we are having discussions how not to be too smart and successful because it “scares men away” and now you’re telling me you guys are also fake being stupid…	/r/seduction	29/09/21 10:00 PM
2	[deleted by user] Nailed it	/r/seduction	29/09/21 09:57 PM
1	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Well actually that is hard to answer, because I don’t go for looks as much as I would go for attitude. But I would not say “no” based on looks if that is your question.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 02:24 PM
1	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? I don’t believe that no girl ever shown interest. Or maybe you don’t read the signs 🤣 we can be difficult to read	/r/seduction	04/09/21 12:02 PM
1	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Yeah... no I don’t buy this story	/r/seduction	03/09/21 08:10 PM
-2	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet Agreed it’s unfair but women do want taller men, just a fact. Although it isn’t a dealbreaker for some women I have never met a girl that said: oh I like shorter guys.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 10:23 AM
-34	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet Now THAT is short... for a guy I mean.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 10:20 AM
3	Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMA “See me in my avatar, that’s me” I am going to allow this. Based on the fact he truly isn’t ugly. 8/9/10 probably depends on personal taste... the rest he talks about is absolute bullshit. But I’ll allow it 😂	/r/seduction	08/08/21 01:41 AM
4	Going out with extrovert friends indirectly kills my confidence with girls Don’t. If you are better on other occasions then why try to find girls in clubs? Also, believe me, girls like the more quiet, mysterious ones.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 08:24 PM