JDCalifornia19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough? Exactly this. Self improvement is a journey, not an end goal to be reached.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 08:40 PM
2	First time ever asking a girl out and she said yes!! Hell yeah, congrats man!	/r/seduction	15/04/22 03:37 AM
1	Getting rejected for height Rejection sucks, but those people don’t determine your value. Remind yourself of that, and if this is something you experience regularly,(which would be a bit surprising if you’re 5’9”), then perhaps come up with some responses suited to your personality to reframe the situation.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 03:35 AM
1	Getting rejected for height Time to bust out the Heelies lmao. But honestly, you could wear padding in your shoes if people are really giving you shit. And as far as long term relationships go, no one worthwhile will care about immutable factors like being above-average height, you’re valid man.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 03:26 AM
2	I feel a lot of pressure to "perform" socially. This causes me to say and do stupid stuff since I'm just looking for validation. However, if I don't "perform", I feel like I'm too boring It’s so cliche, but just be yourself man. Sure, there’s lots of good advice in books about human psychology and how to frame social situations, but you shouldn’t view them as an elaborate act, they should be pieces to add to your already great personality. And as others have said, don’t seek validation from individuals; try to learn to validate yourself. You have the cognitive capacity to recognize the kind of person you’d want to be around and whether you’re exhibiting likable traits, you don’t…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 03:06 AM
12	Why do people think babyface and gym body is a good combo? A lot of fat people with facial hair would trade places with you in an instant. Make the most of what you’ve got and practice positive self talk, most people don’t think about our appearance nearly as much as ourselves.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 02:12 AM
1	I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck. Doesn’t have to be one or the other! Don’t push yourself too hard with new lifestyle changes, and remember that you’re in this for YOU. Big life chances take time, so make sure you enjoy the journey and make time for self care!	/r/seduction	11/04/22 12:54 AM
1	I picked a attractive older woman yesterday but tomorrow I turn 20 and I can't help but feel so envious and inferior to teenage boys who are already having sex and gained more experienced with dating than me. plus dating and sex as a teenager seems so much fun and exciting. how can I get over this? Dude, you’re still super young. And that dating in your teens shit is definitely not all it’s cracked up to be. Look ahead and be proud of yourself for taking the initiative now! You’ve got this	/r/seduction	11/04/22 12:46 AM
2	She wants to be my business partner… Hell no man, trust your gut instinct on that	/r/seduction	29/03/22 06:40 PM