JDMWeeb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	There's so much deficiency in male upbringing Trying my best	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 09:11 PM
1	There's so much deficiency in male upbringing Yeah. Sadly my mind has been absolutely wrecked from years of being told that. I have tons of trust problems (partially due to that) and thus I struggle to open up to people in fear. Therapy has been great but I have a long ways to go.	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 08:54 PM
1	There's so much deficiency in male upbringing I honestly wish I was born female, so I didn't have to deal with people calling me unmanly for showing emotions	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 07:37 PM
2	Why don’t women have sympathy for men? Yes I'd get crapped on for showing emotions and feelings. In fact I was told for years by teachers (females) that I was unmanly for showing emotions. My parents do the same.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 06:55 PM
5	Men of Reddit, have you ever been shamed for expressing emotions such as sadness or coming out with your struggles? By my family for my whole life and my elementary/middle school teachers for 10 years	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 06:40 PM
8	What was a time that you, as a man, experienced sexism or misandry? Being told for years by my elementary/middle school teachers (and also neglected by councelors) that my emotions were invalid because I was a guy and that I was a baby and unmanly for doing so. Didn't help that I was severely bullied not just by them but by my classmates till the 8th grade (when I moved). So nearly 10 years of emotional invalidation from them and lifelong from my own family really screwed me up. I have severe trust issues among other problems.	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 05:53 PM
2	Poll: Have you ever been physically, sexually, emotionally or financially abused by a Female? Yes to all, minus the sexual abuse	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 06:43 PM
2	Literally terrified of dating I'm the same way	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 06:41 PM
13	Boys, have you ever been bullied by a girl? Please share your experiences in the comments! Everyone bullied me regardless of gender. But I do remember one paticulat female teacher of mine call me a baby and unmanly for opening up about my problems... so yeah	/r/MensRights	06/10/24 02:37 AM
31	I don't feel bad for her at all. She was basically bashing men the whole time but when got called out, she started crying I like the faces of everyone else there	/r/MensRights	02/10/24 09:27 PM
2	Anyone else have narcissistic mothers? Thanks	/r/MensRights	01/10/24 06:59 PM
2	Anyone else have narcissistic mothers? Same here, tho I'm 28	/r/MensRights	01/10/24 07:26 AM
8	Anyone else have narcissistic mothers? Both my parents are narcs so yeah	/r/MensRights	01/10/24 03:15 AM
9	When was the first time in your life when you realized it just isn't fair and started to look more into discrimination against men and men's rights? I was heavily bullied and abused not only by my parents but my classmates too. As my parents would easily dismiss any problems I've had (basically emotional neglect), I turned to my teachers but they degraded and insulted me for being "unmanly" and a "baby" (not the only thing they bullied me for btw). Never did that to anyone else... I was the scapegoat to absolutely everyone but I thought it was normal since I was just an oblivious kid. And no, I didn't get help from a specialist as it was sho…	/r/MensRights	20/09/24 04:09 PM
2	I am and have a ton of sensitive friends and I appreciate all my sensitive dudes out here. I know some folks might not like it, I’m enjoying the softening. Been wanting to be happy and loved for pretty much my whole life but I've always been given bad cards. A part of me still hopes for better days ahead tho.	/r/MensRights	12/09/24 11:11 PM
3	I am and have a ton of sensitive friends and I appreciate all my sensitive dudes out here. I know some folks might not like it, I’m enjoying the softening. I'm suffering from lifelong abuse and neglect from a lot of people including my parents which has turned me into someone who isn't "masculine" at all. I was laughed and patronized for opening up, called names and just told to "suck it up" which caused me to never open up to anyone including my friends. Luckily therapy has allowed me to open up more than I could ever, but I still have a long ways to go	/r/MensRights	12/09/24 07:04 PM
2	If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you? Yes, I'd love that honestly	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 02:45 PM
1	Support the women who support men 👩👩🏼👩🏻👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿 Facts	/r/MensRights	07/09/24 02:39 AM
3	When did you realise that, as a man, nobody has cared, cares or will care about you and your well being? And that you will only be used for the resources you can produce and be immediatly thrown away like trash if you yield fewer resources than previously? Literally when I was in elementary school. My teachers called me a baby and unmanly and bullied and berated me for showing emotions, my parents were and still are emotionally unavailable and also berate me, I had no friends growing up and was socially isolated due to the bullying and abuse. This happened for 10 years and only stopped after we moved but the trauma that I've dealt with my entire life has made me not be able to open up and have severe trust issues among other problems	/r/MensRights	05/09/24 03:52 PM
1	Why do many men lack self worth so much? For me it's emotions. I was constantly put down and belittled for talking about my feelings and meoyions	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 11:54 PM
3	Female teachers discriminate against boys when grading, give girls unfairly higher grades than boys. Right true	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 05:27 PM
3	Female teachers discriminate against boys when grading, give girls unfairly higher grades than boys. Hopefully there's someone like that for me. I've never dated partially due to that.	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 05:12 PM
28	Female teachers discriminate against boys when grading, give girls unfairly higher grades than boys. Somewhat related but I was called a baby and unmanly for showing emotions and opening up to teachers while they never did the same to my female classmates	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:46 PM
2	Mental Health Check Up. Thanks	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 06:27 AM
2	Mental Health Check Up. I'm trying but like I said every single day is a struggle	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 06:06 AM
2	Mental Health Check Up. Dismissed any help because I'm "fine" and gaslit me my entire life that therapy was a waste of time and money so I surpressed everything. They were emotionally neglectful also. Didn't help that I was severely bullied and socially isolated (also had ADHD tendencies) in my childhood and anyone I tried to talk to about my feelings either dismissed it or laughed/patronized me for being a "baby" and "unmanly" for showing emotions and opening up. I have severe trust problems partially because of that …	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 05:25 AM
2	Mental Health Check Up. I started going to emergency therapy last year against my parent's wishes just because it was too much for me to handle	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 05:09 AM
2	Mental Health Check Up. I hope so too	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 04:26 AM
2	Mental Health Check Up. Every day is a struggle/battle due to 28 years of abuse and neglect affecting me all at once	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 03:00 AM
7	Are men and women equal only when men are weak? Ugh...screw that. I've always been crap in PE myself	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 08:07 PM
27	Are men and women equal only when men are weak? I was also called a baby and unmanly for showing emotions	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 05:54 PM
37	A post from another sub: "My wife’s mother said it wasn’t normal of me to cry when my daughter was born" Reminds me of my childhood when I was berated for showing emotions	/r/MensRights	15/07/24 09:00 PM
7	I really hate how a double standard where men are not allowed to showing Every. Single. Emotion. Even including affection?! While women allowed to showing every single emotion?! An absolute failure of the adults	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 09:35 PM
9	I really hate how a double standard where men are not allowed to showing Every. Single. Emotion. Even including affection?! While women allowed to showing every single emotion?! I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah I've been wanting to jump into dating (as I never dated) but seeing how the dating scene is, that's a big nope for me.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 04:20 PM
59	I really hate how a double standard where men are not allowed to showing Every. Single. Emotion. Even including affection?! While women allowed to showing every single emotion?! I was heavily abused and bullied as a kid by my classmates and when I tried to ask teachers for help they laughed and belittled me, calling me a baby and unmanly for showing emotions. 10 years of that plus the lifelong abuse from my own family made me completely shut down emotionally. Yay.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 04:02 PM
4	Man gets falsely accused of giving a woman HIV and almost commits suicide. Even after showing proof he didn’t give the woman HIV and the woman confessing she lied, no one apologized. I remember this story	/r/MensRights	13/07/24 03:23 AM
6	Woman blatantly abusing boyfriend and no one seems to care... imagine a man doing this in public Yeah, I just have a lot of hoops to go through for me to be comfortable in dating (like trust). But I haven't given up.	/r/MensRights	12/07/24 09:31 PM
47	Woman blatantly abusing boyfriend and no one seems to care... imagine a man doing this in public This is one of the reasons why I'm terrified of dating. I'm a very sensitive person and a lifelong victim of abuse, especially verbal and emotional.	/r/MensRights	12/07/24 05:39 PM
20	Why men must never open up to women. I was berated and mocked by my female (and male but mostly female) teachers/adults for showing emotions due to the fact I was severely bullied and abused by not just my classmates but my own family and I also struggled in studies. I was told things like "stop being such a baby", "suck it up", and "showing emotions as a guy is unmanly". This happened all through elementary and middle school and it stopped when I was forced to move due to the bullying getting unbearable. My family also is neglectf…	/r/MensRights	11/07/24 06:00 PM
1	Experience of men growing up: What was your life like from childhood to adulthood? (Or to current age) I nearly died at birth and went through tons of surgeries to keep me alive, which is one of the reasons I have body dysmorphia and various health issues. I was heavily bullied and abused by kids and adults alike in elementary and middle school, including lifelong abuse from my own family. Kids would physically, verbally and mentally abuse me. I desperately needed someone to talk to about my feelings but any adult at school I went to laughed in my face, told me to suck it up and stop being such a…	/r/MensRights	10/07/24 07:17 PM
2	Let’s talk Growing up, I was heavily bullied physically and verbally from my classmates and teachers in elementary/middle school, not to mention the abuse and physical/emotional neglect from my own family. I tried to ask for help from any adult that would listen but I was told to suck it up and to not cry because "crying is unmanly". Nearly 10 years of that and I have severe trust issues, never open up to people, and other problems. I have been doing therapy for almost a year now, but I still have a long w…	/r/MensRights	08/07/24 09:04 PM
1	How do you feel about fictional female characters? I'm cool with them	/r/MensRights	08/07/24 08:43 PM