JDRP29_2015 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Advice sought		JDRP29_2015	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 06:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Advice sought Excellent response. Thank you for taking the time. This helps. You are allowing her to do this... not through action, but through what you aren't doing. Game her during the day. Make everything sexual in some way. Flirt with her, touch her, kiss her. Walk up behind her, cup her tits, rub your groin on her ass, say something dirty, and then walk away. Do shit like this all day and then be more dominant in the bedroom. I do, I'm overtly sexual. Often though she rejects overtly too. I can handle th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/07/15 05:35 PM
1	Advice sought I like this. Thank you	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:40 PM
1	Advice sought Well done on 8% bodyfat! Thanks for the encouragement. Glad to hear things worked out. Question. Now that you have got over this hurdle, do you find life easier kind of like a rolling ball of momentum, or do you find you still fight everyday for what you have?	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:29 PM
1	Advice sought Thanks buddy. Sometimes it is blatantly unacceptable bordering on abuse. Then again, I may just being a pussy about it - hard to gauge that line. You're right, she is just being a woman, she doesn't know how to be anything else. I take responsibility for the way I respond. Sometimes I do well, sometimes not so much. It is definitely hard mode, some days I feel like a king, other times I have a rough few days with her and wish I was spinning plates with breaks in between. But, I try to be just th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:26 PM
1	Advice sought Agreed. Thanks	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:23 PM
1	Advice sought It is for me though. If I am acting bp and I don't realize, I want to hone in on it and change. I understand your point though. Edit: her cycle is a big issue. She has a melt down once a month and I know when. It still causes anger every month in me as she behaves unacceptably. I try to hold frame, it is extremely difficult.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:10 PM
1	Advice sought Agreed. I am in charge of myself. Good career, personality, looks etc. (Not a brag, I'm nothing special but i have it together) I could be more ripped, but typically I've been good at playing a good mental game with girls and getting them hot. Agree she is just not lusting. The power play comes in that she knows she has to engage sexually and I see her being quite irritating in the lead up as a bit of defiance ie why aren't you the kind of guy that can just settle into a bp relationship - why do…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:09 PM
1	Advice sought I know what I'm doing and I enjoy doing it. The lack of enthusiasm is generally at the beginning. Once we're going, she generally gets into it. That's when i can start to dominate a bit more. She can't come vaginally but she gets off during intercourse with a vibe. In my sexual history I have generally had women who come vaginally. No meds but suffers from anxiety sometimes. When she is feeling good she is very sexual. It seems to go in waves. I try to figure out if it's related to my actions, o…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 07:02 PM
1	Advice sought Yes I do. She knows I have an abundance mentality. I have decent inner game. Sometimes I mess up and lose my cool, but I am mindful about what I do and I will reset and start again. Sometimes I don't know how to build tension with her as she doesn't seem responsive to it. Often it feels like I'm bringing all the sexual energy to the table. She knows I could find other sexual opportunity if I wanted.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 06:50 PM
1	Advice sought Yes I'm M she is F. I lift, but not enough. I am relatively in shape and eat well etc. I know I need to get in the gym more. Thanks for your input. Edit: Yes this a concern I have. It's gotten a little boring. When she's in this mood though, she doesn't respond well to being thrown around and she dislikes being told what to do in an aggressive way. Thanks again.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/15 06:31 PM