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yall are so bitter that you can't even accept reality and just want to insult me for a simple dating concept that most people understand as common sense. That's all they do; it's a past time for them. Keep preaching the truth, it's rarely ever popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:43 PM
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lol that is just a damn lie. The "fat acceptance" movement excludes men and is exclusively for women. Fat women reject fat men twice as often as the inverse, fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:56 PM
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Feminism, the ultimate cancer that infects the Western world. Society's downfall will come from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:37 PM
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So men lamenting about it online is not us being "entitled" or "whiny" - it's legitimate frustration that you females attempt to invalidate every step of the way. But you already voiced your intention previously of being rude to LVM, so it's par for the course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:07 PM
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They have friends So do I. I have plenty. They have community I do too. Neither of those can satiate nor replace the desire for romance. I don't understand why females are always so dense about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:59 PM
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Because some of those men demand Most don't. They're still berated as "entitled" anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:57 PM
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Even being Chads didn't prevent some of my friends from being used and abused. Both my brothers - taller (over 6') and better looking - were used and cheated on. One of my good friends was cheated on just because he was short. All but a couple of my friends have had awful, horrible experiences with females. Some of us abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:54 PM
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I do live in the States. Most of my friends date but they're all Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:45 PM
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Men hate chasing unattractive women. Yet men do it anyway. They pay for, simp for, sacrifice for, and die for harlots daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:43 PM
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women that care about their partners do a lot for them. Few and far between. Most females are only out to mooch off of unsuspecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:42 PM
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The non-answer says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:40 PM
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Agreed. Too bad I'll never experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:39 PM
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I actually generally agree with what you wrote (outside of the "love language" nonsense), but this here: Empathy is important. Females continually expect empathy from men but are not willing to give any themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:28 PM
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To go "Above and Beyond", you need to be doing something 1. for the purpose of making your partner happy, and 2. that is specific to that partner and makes them feel that you really care about their interests. So things the females never even contemplate doing but 100% expect men to do unasked. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:20 PM
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relationships and finding love are very important and it’s disingenuous for people to downplay that. So why are LVM insulted, berated, and falsely accused of being "entitled" by females then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:19 PM
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Only good post comes from Eulen (again), go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:06 PM
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Imagine if a man said this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:57 PM
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Pretty sure you crossed the “obnoxious” threshold when you out of the blue accused all awkward men as autists. You females always have to launch into a just world fallacy to justify your shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:56 PM
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At least you acknowledge your privileged position and try to do your best to validate men who do struggle. That’s better than 99.9% of females out there. At least there’s one who’s actually a human being lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:05 PM
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Translation: suck it up and deal with it, loser. Pretty much what you and all you females think of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:07 PM
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100% true and you forgot to mention that the females do it due to their selfishness and their addiction to attention. Their own narcissism and hedonism directs them in nearly all ways of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:25 PM
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It is used by females to invalidate the opinions of LVM along with insulting them to showcase superiority. This is so frequent with females that I’m legitimately surprised you haven’t seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 PM
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Nice personal attack at the OP there at the end. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:43 PM
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Wholly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:28 PM
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Agreed that the quality of the females is truly abysmal. Most are selfish and hedonistic who never think for anyone but themselves. Far cry from the women of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:17 PM
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The answer is obvious: hypergamy. The more things are equal, it didn’t change the females’ desire to mate with men better than themselves. To them, equal men are subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:14 PM
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You saw reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:31 PM
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Okay so why should any woman let any man “use” her? That's why it's important for females to choose wisely and correctly. As such, they mostly go after Chad. Also you’re committing to this woman, as in marriage and kids. Makes it all the more necessary for her to be less ran-through.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:30 PM
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Men feel love more than females, it's just that the females take advantage of it and ravage good men and LVM. Men learn stoicism and callousness which innately turns the females on. Since genuine love is never reciprocated (except to Chad), there is no reason for a man to ruin himself in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:21 PM
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Was gonna go for #2 but then you mentioned her being used also. If they're both gonna hoe I'll go for the bimbo #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:16 PM
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There it is, the typical “get over it” post from women. Y’all just want us to shut up about our legit grievances, yet women post shit about LVMs day and night without recourse. Such “empathy” from females.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:40 AM
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Kid: Sonic the Hedgehog (1-3/S&K), Oregon Trail, SimCity 1999, Madden 95, EA College Football 96 Adolescent: CoD 1&2, CoD Modern Warfare (1-3), CoD Black Ops, Halo Reach, Madden 06-12, NHL 09, GTA IV, Minecraft Beta, Star Wars Battlefront II (2005) Young Adult: GTA V, RDR, CoD Black Ops 3, Madden 15-16, Minecraft, Fallout New Vegas Adult: Cyberpunk 2077, RDR 2, CoD Modern Warfare 2019, CoD Black Ops CW, Cityscapes, Sonic Mania
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:46 AM
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Tough one for sure. A since that's closer to what I have (ugly face, putrid body)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:24 AM
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Working to send packages to selfish hedonistic women while getting tax raped by selfish hedonistic women. A true circle of torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:01 AM
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The life of the average LVM going forward
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:43 AM
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I unfortunately think Paris Hilton is extremely hot, always have. Fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:34 AM
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Because it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:29 AM
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Which makes females’ inane advice of “jUsT wOrK oN yOuRsElF” to be stupid, worthless drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:29 AM
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All these men here commenting how infrequently we get complimented, yet not a single response from a member of the “empathetic” gender. Not surprised. I’ve received more compliments from men than women BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:27 AM
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And? They should not see a cent of my hard-earned tax dollars, nor anyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:52 AM
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I'd rather my money go to the military, I want my country's defenses to be well funded. I want my taxes to go to infrastructure (and not the BS one peddled by Dems, I mean real infrastructure: roads, bridges, rail, etc). I want my taxes to go to innovation. Things that benefit all citizens, not just a select few.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:49 AM
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And that starts with women closing their fucking legs and not getting wet just because Chad walks by. Seriously, it's not hard. Women reject LVMs all the time without any issue. Women have no problems rejecting short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, broke guys, etc. I don't want to hear any bullshit that she "couldn't help it," yes you fucking could. They need to be responsible and not fuck. End. Of. Story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:47 AM
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The child is the responsibility of the parents - not society at large. Society should not pay for a kid just because the mother made bad choices. She needs to buckle down and pay, same with the Chad. Difference is we don't support Chad; we chide and deride him. We celebrate single mothers even though they produce the most criminals per capita and are a net drain on the economy and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:41 AM
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How does that change anything? She created the kid, not me. She needs to figure out a way to pay for the baby with her own money. Not mine, not anyone else's - save the Chad she fucked. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:36 AM
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JDWhiz96/RicePresident_ 2044
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:30 AM
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She's still getting my money that she hasn't earned and is stealing from me. You wanna pop out babies? Do it on your own dime, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:30 AM
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I'd rather spend $25 trillion on that than even one fucking cent on another hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:24 AM
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I'd be more content being single if my taxes didn't disproportionately go to degenerate single mothers who couldn't keep their legs shut. If all my money were mine, at least I could be satisfied knowing my money wasn't being wasted on loser women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:18 AM
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More fearmongering meant to falsely accuse, blame, and demonize LVMs. Sheer gaslighting as per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:09 AM
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His politician choice clearly aligns with this viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:07 AM
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Supporting terrorist Hamas for starters, along with her alien Palestinian friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:06 AM
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Most women are though. I don't see the problem stooping down to their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:05 AM
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She's a fugly illegal alien who's anti-American ass needs to be hauled off out of this land.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:03 AM
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Fine. America.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:50 AM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:50 AM
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And whoever makes abortion illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:49 AM
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Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:46 AM
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Worst of all is reading stories about guys who didn't know that their SOs were complete whores in college and successfully hid that behaviour for years. It's disgusting, degenerate, vile behavior that is all too common from them nowadays. 100% the norm too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:44 AM
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Not on dates. Men pay for females and females siphon from men. Unless it's Chad of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:42 AM
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Outliers don't make the majority. My point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:36 AM
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I understood just fine. My point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:34 AM
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Yes. Money > females
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:31 AM
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Meaning why are you worried about a Capri Sun? If women can get away with doing evil things, of course drinking juice isn't gonna be a red flag. Unlike women, men actually allow their partners to be human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:30 AM
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Just proves that most women nowadays are selfish hoes. Nothing I didn't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:29 AM
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According to women you could commit murder in cold blood and it'd be a fucking green flag. But a man blinking is a sexist incel who needs to be expunged from existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:27 AM
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I feel your pain brother. Women feign "approach anxiety" because they wanna be victims. >99.9% of women don't approach, yet whine about men being sOcIaLlY aWkWaARd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:21 AM
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Lol no bro. I know plenty of frat boys; friends with many. They all act stereotypically. They all shit on other dudes and fail to respect women. They predictably have no issues getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:15 AM
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women value guys who know how to play the game and they enjoy watching men play it because it tells them a lot about the character of the guy in question and how socially capable he is. This (run-on) sentence speaks volumes. Women value flirtation more than things like frat boys bullying socially awkward men and the like because it showcases "social capability." Misplaced priorities for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:54 AM
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Sebastian Back is another celebrity and also has looks to rival Pitt. Not to mention that Skid Row was one of the most prominent and popular hair metal bands during Pitt's rise in the early 90s. Not a good sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:02 PM
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As per u/caption291: There's a difference between the average guy and the average guy you notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:05 PM
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More proof that women rate average guys as ugly. He looks like a solid 5/10, maybe even a 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:47 PM
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"A little bit of this, a little bit of that; it started with a kiss..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:22 PM
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I personally find Selena Gomez to be very attractive and I think Blanco rates worse looks-wise than her, but he's certainly nowhere even close to being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:18 PM
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Some women maybe. Most women I see are all about themselves and eschew children altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:14 PM
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I've seen women on here claiming that because Selena Gomez's BF is ugly, it entirely disproves hypergamy. Two things wrong with this theory: Benny Blanco is not ugly, he's average. That in and of itself proves that women rate normal guys as less-than, proving hypergamy correct. BENNY BLANCO IS FUCKING FAMOUS! Good lord, using him, or any celebrity to attempt to disprove hypergamy is utter foolishness. If anything, it proves hypergamy in it's totality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:12 PM
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The economy was worse in 2001, didn't stop women from paring with men then. The economy was worse in 1991, didn't stop women from pairing with men then. The economy was waaay worse in the 70s, didn't stop women from pairing with men then. The economy was way, WAY worse in 2008, didn't stop women from pairing with men then. The "economy" excuse is just cope honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:37 PM
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That's sooo 2020, mogging simps for crypto.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:55 PM
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So this guy is a CEO making $50k? Why are we even complaining about this then? Plenty of women working internships make more than this chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:54 PM
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And females wonder why men lie. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:50 PM
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So if you're not, why should I trust you? Can you refute my statement without anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:39 PM
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This is all over the place but I'll break it down regardless. have you ever been in a relationship before? No are you a virgin? Yes. I'm fully ready for my opinions to be invalidated now. to say i’m “graced” with my relationship is incorrect No it's not im in this relationship because i’m physically attractive True i made the first move So you're dating a Chad. Cool story bro. Glad you broke the norm for women but considering I've "made the first move" 100+ times, get on my level. but in general…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:35 PM
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Guys mouthing off in a bathroom don't frighten me. You attempt to throw hands and you got another thing comin'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:22 PM
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DM
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:21 PM
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I continue pissing. Dude is likely drunk af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:17 PM
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I raise you autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:17 PM
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We're talking about men without romantic experience. By definition that makes them incels. You mentioned in your original post that men "can't handle" leadership from women. This is largely because men know women will lose attraction to men if the man doesn't lead, or at least have equal share of the leadership duties. It's not that men can't handle this, it's that we know females lose attraction that way. But considering as most women utterly refuse to empathize with LVMs in anyway, it's not wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:16 PM
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Apex fallacy at work here. The only men you see are the top 1%. In reality most men are waaay worse off than you, but you don't even consider them human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:07 PM
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Thinking of yourself as better or superior due to being graced with being able to enter into relationships. You're placing moral superiority on this and a man's "ability" to enter into a relationship. A man is somehow lesser if he's single without experience in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:02 PM
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trust me Why? Are you Japanese? Do you live in East Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:58 PM
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A simple majority, not an absolute majority. That’s too high of a risk to be called out as a creep, barred from places, or be falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:37 PM
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No one's having babies because the women are rejecting all the men. It's a more extreme version of US hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:32 PM
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Vince being a BBC cuck is literally the most predictable thing about this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:52 PM
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Mercedes is one of my go-to OF chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:50 PM
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Women have a hard cutoff nowadays. At least in the 50s it made logical sense. Now, when females on average male more than men while both are in their 20s, it makes no sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:50 PM
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I’m just waiting to get my money up to pay my way through 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:48 PM
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That’s why I said “much” of the Eastern world. The countries that are more aligned to the West (Japan, Thailand, SK) definitely favor females, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:57 PM
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Western world, women, no contest. Much of the East though it’s still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:08 PM
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Actually a refreshing take, particularly on this sub; thank you. And wishing you and your SO well. I will say though that VERY few women are willing to fathom what you did, let alone do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:15 AM
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You’re a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:22 AM
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So a man who’s a virgin without romantic experience is immature? It’s clear y’all think less of LVMs (which I already knew) but the moral gaslighting is out of control. Men aren’t lesser just because they haven’t had sexual success. Yet you all whine about incels. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:22 AM
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It’s clear that the females attach morality to a man’s sexual prowess. Yet they wonder why men are sooo obsessed with losing their virginity and getting into relationships. Gee, I wonder why… It’s due to FEMALES. Not other men, we couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:20 AM
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Selfish is not the only issue - though it is one. It’s the supremacist attitude that’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:12 AM
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Thank you for conducting this survey, sir. Very good research and knowledge here. How do you feel when a person you find unattractive flirts with you or compliments you? M Flattered or neutral 100% I’m annoyed 0% F Flattered or neutral 57% I’m annoyed 43% Not surprised by this at all. It's yet another reason why it's fruitless to ask females out. Never appreciative, never civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:06 PM
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I'm just not feeling it anymore. IDK. Everyone has a finite time on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:46 PM
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I also witness this plenty IRL, but every time I mention my experiences, they're invalidated, mocked, berated, or women fail to believe me. So I choose evidence to counter the falsities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:44 PM
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Bad boy strikes again. Bad boy remains undefeated for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:39 PM
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Literally this. He ain't ugly, never has been, unlike the rest of us blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:16 PM
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Can't showcase affection, insta turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:32 PM
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I got in trouble for linking so I'm now hesitant. If I'm given the A-OK I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:22 PM
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Just read yet another article from a dumbass woman celebrating having an affair not even a full year into her marriage. She didn't apologize, had no remorse, didn't care for her husband's feelings. Yet women are "empathetic" and "understanding." Only thing women are understanding of is themselves, fucking selfish creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:18 PM
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Most incels have far lower attraction thresholds than most men - and men's attraction threshold is already far lower than women's. This fallacy of "incels want a big titty goth gf" is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:26 PM
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That is just not true at all. Most women think like you. Most women, whether rich or poor, will shun a man making $60k. You act like this is not common, but it is. Easily showcases women’s shallowness far more than men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:07 PM
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But if a man were to do that, it'd be derided as upholding the sexist patriarchy in addition to accusations of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:47 PM
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Not to mention women are net takers when it comes to taxing while men are net givers. Only women can partake in WIC - not men. The threshold for a man to partake in TANF or SNAP is significantly higher than it is for a woman, despite women earning more than men from age 18-32.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:41 PM
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Simply put: you explain with reason and logic, and it's rejected due to hurting your feefees.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:39 PM
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Fat females get plenty of attention from men. Oh I forgot, men to women=Chad only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:36 PM
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There's nothing illegal, wrong, immoral, or unethical with anything David did. In fact, it's not even abnormal. You make the ASSumption because you want so badly for the "nice guy" narrative to be true to justify women's shallowness, but in reality, it's false. Additionally, women are FAR more selfish and hedonistic than men, and really only deal with men to siphon resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:35 PM
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Thought the same thing XD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:22 PM
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Describes how women feel about LVM nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:21 PM
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Apparently. Dude, you know the rules by now: women start it and are allowed to continue, but when men retaliate, it's suddenly sinful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:34 PM
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Confidence comes from success. This "I'm confident in myself" crap is modern BS meant to stifle LVM from attempting to improve. A man without success in his desired area will begin to lose confidence in that area. Only natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:21 PM
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The only "confident" nice guys I've seen were all uber attractive, like 8+ out of ten. Why were they confident? Because their experience landed them that credence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:16 PM
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Sometimes “female shallowness” or better known as instinct, is correct. But mostly it's wrong. Y'all turn a blind eye to actual bad boys who commit wrongdoing, but since their victims are usually LVMs, it's justified according to women. What’s the difference between being perceived as creepy, and actually being creepy? Actual creepiness: not taking "no" for an answer, stalking, actual staring (like 30+ seconds uninterrupted), obsessing over things like death or mortification. Faux creepiness: a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:09 PM
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So in your prime, you did go for assholes, answering his question. Women and being uber shallow, name a better duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:22 PM
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It happens 1 out of ever 1.5M times, lol. Let’s be fucking realistic here, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:20 PM
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Stupid and false post. Women go for assholes over nice men, full stop. The only ones who will agree with you are women who think of themselves as morally superior and less shallow (though ofc they’re wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:05 PM
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Anecdotes to try (and fail) to prove that “David” is the real creepy asshole to further your narrative is cheap manipulation to justify yours and other females shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:03 PM
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Women see “ugly” men that date when in reality it’s an above-average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:50 PM
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Launch an experiment to prove it like the men are doing. This is entirely relevant. Just because you hate facts does not make them untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:49 PM
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So instead of refuting his proof (which you can’t) you angrily launch a personal attack because your “women are wonderful” narrative was debunked? Typical, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:48 PM
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Attraction and thresholds therein.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:29 PM
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Congratulations! Celebrate any accomplishment. Your life runs its own course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:22 AM
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Women love men* *the top 20%. The rest are invisible or don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:46 AM
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So, by your own admission, the cure for this near-incel to get out of his inceldom was to...get a girlfriend? What a FANTASTIC idea! This is the type of bullshit that really grinds my gears. Your "nephew" got a girlfriend and suddenly his problems went away. But we're just supposed to be happy alone, neglected, and unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:38 AM
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Of course I don’t think women are as shallow as you think but just looking at your reasoning Female in-group bias showing. They're far worse than what he described, but since you're not the recipient and it makes females look bad, you refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:34 AM
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Joey Swoll once again being God's gift to humanity. What a freaking legend. May he continue to expose and shutdown these attention whores as they come.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:11 PM
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When I see a woman criticizing her own body I empathize with that experience because I’ve been there before and needed help to overcome that stage of my life. The things men complain about such as not being able to have casual sex aren’t things I understand I get that, but there's nothing wrong with lending a supporting arm, even if you don't understand. That's what women are demanding men do for them, so why is it wrong for the reverse? If all I can offer is empty platitudes and support it’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:57 PM
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My point is that women go out of their way to acquiesce to other women an neuter their feefees, but if a man were to gripe about something, the standard response from women is "get over it," "stop whining," "stop being so entitled," "man up," etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:35 PM
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I am not TRP, but I make $65k annually. With bonuses I make $75-$80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:31 PM
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They won't ever get humbled if women continue to lie and tell ugly/fat/undesirable women that they're tens while silencing any dissenting commentary as sexist/misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:04 PM
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I’m not trying to make anyone feel bad about themselves Unless they're LVMs, but they don't count according to you and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:38 PM
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Having to try out new hobbies from scratch over and over and over again takes more time, more effort, and more money. I don't have time to start over every time just for the offshoot possibility that I'd be attracted to a woman, and an even lesser possibility that said woman would be attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:38 PM
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It makes me so sad/angry when old men check me out I don't see what the problem is- when they’re with their wives Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:36 PM
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Yeah, I don't want AIDS, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:35 PM
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Plus that's your house to own which builds equity and wealth. The primary reason I'm looking to buy in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:20 PM
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The primary reason I'm waiting is to buildup enough money not only for a down payment but my savings reserves. I wanna have at least 6 months liquid cash saved in the case of emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:19 PM
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Based Chaddette
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:16 PM
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Steelers. I'm from Pittsburgh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:11 PM
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So you're in the top <1% of earners in your early 20s then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:57 PM
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we had an extra $30k "gift" (loan) from her parents to help get us to the down payment threshold for our lender. NGL this triggers me lol. I love my parents but they've struggled financially since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:56 PM
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How much do you make to put down 60% and pay it off only two years later?! That's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:55 PM
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I assume you utilized the FHA assistance with 3% down then? Paying PMI would annoy me though in your family's instance it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:54 PM
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NFL and college football
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:53 PM
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It had the option for lower deposit by using a feature where you could borrow a few thousand extra to make up the deposit and if you paid that bit off in five years as well as ordinary repayments you didn't pay interest on that bit. So that bit I paid off fast. So down payment assistance pretty much? I wonder what the APR/interest on that was. The interest rate on the rest of it was very slightly higher than banks, but that didn't fuss me much in part because I'd done well on the special loan fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:52 PM
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Damn that's impressive stuff, congrats dude. I too live with my parents, though my dad got fired from his job last year and I've been helping financially, which has hindered my financial reserves quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 PM
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I meant an apartment! I thought that's what you said XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 PM
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Rates are hovering around 7%, which is insane. I do have two things going for me: like I mentioned, I'm not ready to purchase yet, and my credit is good (which will keep interest rates lower than the nat'l average).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:47 PM
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Welcome to the world 63% of young males live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:45 PM
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Was it a typical 30-year mortgage? Or something more unique/specialized?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:14 PM
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$60 per week in passive income is solid, especially since all that's post-tax via property taxes. That's an extra $3k per year right there. If you don't mind me asking, approximately how much did you put down in terms of dollar amount? Was it just you or did you pool your money with some partners, brokers, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:13 PM
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that sounds like a OP problem not a women problem I agree as it's been said a million times, you can look but if she looks your way you have to look away because if you maintain eye contact, that makes people uncomfortable and is considered creepy behavior. It's considered creepy regardless nowadays lol I don't make social rules so if you don't like this it's really not my problem. I never asked for your understanding or empathy but thank you for reaffirming that most women lack it for LVMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:10 PM
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I didn't realize you were wealthy Kat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
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So you purchased a foreclosed property? Smart. I'm definitely keeping them high on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:07 PM
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How did that work out? I'm 27 myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:07 PM
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Just realized Tim Scott got engaged, LOL. Of all the reasons he was unfit to be president, women and the media zeroed in on the fact that he was a single man in his 50s. Proves what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:50 PM
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To those of you who've purchased a house: at what age did you accomplish this? How much down did you put? My pay increase has afforded me (God-willing) an opportunity to save for a substantial down payment. Not looking to purchase now though; I want a significant DP (40%) in order to keep the monthly payments low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:49 PM
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It's understandable. I've seen countless men go shirtless at the gym, no big deal. Only becomes an issue if women get pissy because a man glanced in her general direction. Women who wear that combo in freezing temps to go 10mi to Walmart though, yeah, they're doing it for the 'gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:47 PM
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Because he gets turned on and horny when looking at the best outfit combo ever created. Wouldn't be an issue if women didn't assume every man who glanced that way was a creepy perv.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:45 PM
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Only by Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:39 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:39 AM
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I've learned. I've learned that nothing I do works. And this "vibe" you speak of, only exists when a certain kind of man enters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:15 AM
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Gotta get to first base before the question can even be asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:14 AM
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Church girls ain't virgins. I say that as a church goer myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:35 PM
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I've approached hundreds of women in my life over the past ten years. Literally was rejected every single time. Sometimes disrespected. Often times mocked. Plenty of insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:28 PM
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Everywhere. They are the most common variant of woman. I LOL every time at women gasping as if these shallow, hedonistic chicks are uncommon. Your bias shows when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:25 PM
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Hypergamy remains undefeated!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:32 AM
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Too bad, you're an independent woman who don't need no man! Girl power!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:42 AM
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MRS. DEGREE RETURNS! And you're red pill now! How the mighty have fallen!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:39 AM
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Jenn Anniston is tired of being single after dating for over half a decade. Finally, a real example of a woman hitting the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:01 AM
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The assertion was not "have incels threatened violence anywhere?" it was "how often have men around here threaten[ed] violence?" That's why we were asking for proof, and so far, you haven't given us any. How can you make an assertive question with vague platitudes as your sole information?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:55 PM
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This definitely tunnel vision and seeing what you wanna see. I stand by my statement in that women do not ever attempt to look at the male side of things. Women escalate and insult men unprovoked on this site and then blame men lol. It'd be fascinating if not frightening. Take a good look from a non-biased perspective and actually empathize with LVMs. Then you'd see for real. But literally no woman considers doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:58 AM
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95% of the comments are women hating on men, particularly LVMs. I see frustrated men who are falsely blamed for being "misogynistic" because we don't auto acquiesce to women's feelings. Women do not ever even attempt to look at the male side on this sub, or anywhere. There are plenty of males in this sub who do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:05 AM
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Waste of my taxpayer dollars. Find real problems and stop feigning new, formulated ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:18 AM
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She can't, don't exist. It's more gaslighting in order to perpetuate the stereotype of the aggro incel young male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:16 AM
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Looks. Intelligence would get me some recognition at the local rec center but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:18 AM
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Yes, because most virgins look like Zac Effron 🙄. We all know why that chick reacted with lovey dovey eyes instead of the realistic disgust of it were a real LVM…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:17 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:13 AM
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You won’t get a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:26 AM
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Whereas women are taught to reward men with romantic attention for being nice or good No they fucking don't. In fact, women reward bad guys and douchey men with sex and attention, not the nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:43 PM
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It's far more likely to see an impressive looking woman with an unimpressive looking man than the reverse Can't agree. I see ugly ass women with striking men way more often both in media and IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:42 PM
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If they took even one fucking second to attempt to view it from the male lens, they wouldn't be so callous. But it no longer surprises me, the lack of empathy despite clamoring for it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:41 PM
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I too wonder why women never run away from these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:35 PM
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LOL no. Even if you were able to quantify that, most women certainly has not tried to date a nerd/dork/dweeb/gamer/introvert. The ones that do and then claim "he was just as bad!! I'm going back to chasing Chad!" never gave those LVM an honest chance. They held the LVMs to unnecessarily and unrealistically high standards, ones they never hold Chads to, and the first moment or indication of the LVM being a human being, the women cast them aside in order to claim their false narrative of "see!! I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:22 PM
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The truth ain't always sunshine and rainbows. Every male I've seen has had far greater success with women while being an ass or fuckboi than actually caring for her. And it's just rich to claim what I wrote is mean-spirited considering what women write about LVMs in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:01 PM
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How would you feel if women described sexually unsuccessful men as milquetoast, boring, autist, asocial and hypersensitive? They literally already do lmao, and they say much worse than that. Try loser, incel, creep, lunatic, bizarre, sexist, misogynist...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:51 PM
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Women. If a man is good, kind, caring, is emotionally open, and has a thoughtful personality, women will get turned off. If a man is rude, uncaring, mean, savage-like, and only thinks of himself, women will get turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:43 PM
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Neither of them have a shortage of women, so no, they're not despised. They're assholes but it doesn't matter, women still love them because they're fucking wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:39 PM
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He has to work 24/7 in order for her to keep her desire, otherwise she'll become bored and uninterested and leave. Most non-Chad men who enter into relationships have to work literally all the time to maintain their relationships while women can relax and take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:38 PM
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lol literally! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:24 PM
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Men claim to hate women yet their actions say otherwise. Women claim to love men yet their actions say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:24 PM
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100% true good sir
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:00 PM
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What I'm saying is getting a friend or multiple friends will not satisfy the loneliness of not having any romantic prospects. Sure, having friends is cool, better than not having any, but at the end of the day they still have their own lives and families to go back to. What do I get? Myself and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:59 PM
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There are plenty of normal, average men who would give them that attention though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:56 PM
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What sickens me is that these women, I'd venture to even say a plurality, would rather chase literal boys than even think about going on a date with a LVM in his 20s or 30s. Yet it's the LVMs fault for being "sexist" or whatever other BS false feminist narrative they conjure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:52 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:42 PM
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Wouldn't know and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:38 PM
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"I know this one guy who's short who has success, therefore it's easy so stop complaining incel!" This is the typical lack of empathy that women showcase. Short men, ugly men, broke men, low value males, we got it significantly harder, and it's all due to women's preferences. No amount of "durr hurr self improvement" can change the average woman's mindset that she is a 10/10 and deserves Chad or nothing at all. It's not about your dumbass just world fallacy of "if you're single, it's because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:18 PM
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Yes, they believe in female supremacy. They believe in rules for thee but not for me. They believe women's preferences are inalienable rights and that men's preferences are bad, evil, misogynistic, and demonic. They believe that men need to adhere to their gender roles while spurning their own. They are insufferable and are ruining society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:05 PM
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Yes I already know I suck, thanks for the constant reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:07 PM
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Literally this, verbatim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:05 PM
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They either refuse to introduce me to them or their female friends reject me quickly. Even my sister won’t ever vouch for me with her friends, despite me doing so for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:57 PM
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Friends will never be able to satisfy the desire for a romantic relationship. Plus I already have enough friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:55 PM
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How does that correlate to not feeling comfortable around my friends? Being cool with them doesn’t mean it satisfies my desire for a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:54 PM
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Who said I wasn’t satisfied being myself around friends? Where did I state that? I’m perfectly fine and comfortable with my friends. Doesn’t help at all with getting into a romantic interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:48 PM
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I got downvoted by a litany of people on a thread yesterday. IDGAF, I ain’t deleting it, lest someone miss the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:44 PM
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So he hits you with facts but you come at him with “gotta take risks bro.” Would you respond the same way to a man whining about not getting oral like you are here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:36 PM
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Another incorrect assumption peddled primarily by females: men’s problems would be solved by having more friends! I have plenty of friends. Hanging out with some of them tonight. Another one of my friends is jealous that I’m hanging out with them without him. Another is continuing to pester me about joining him for some video games. Yet that has done jack shit to satiate my desire for a romantic relationship. Having friends does not help or solve that need, nor will it ever. And y’all know this …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:21 PM
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None of you know suffering. Except maybe Eulen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:17 PM
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No man says “I deserve a 21yo virgin buxom woman.” The “I deserve” trend is what females do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:14 PM
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Females weren’t allowed to have their own standalone bank accounts ‘till 1972, so it kinda checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:07 PM
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I was talking with a couple of my male coworkers today about being a SAHD if the wife makes, say, $4k a week. My one buddy said he’d not only be a stay at home dad, but that he’d be happy to do so, and that he’d throw in free massages and wear a maid’s outfit also 😂. But we all agreed that it’s not a deterrent. The main reason men don’t pursue it is because women are turned off it. Barely any man gives a fuck about what another man does in their own marriage like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:05 PM
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Reported for both contentless rhetoric and personal attack. Funny how women always resort to attacks when they dislike the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:48 PM
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You are but one person. Most women claim to like it, but in reality can the dude. Actions>words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:30 PM
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Many couples who have one primary earner still have the stay-at-home party allot things like bills and fees since they're likelier to have more free time. Again, being the stay-at-home party does not mean a lack of will or freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:27 PM
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IDK about most men feeling like a slave, but most men understand that most women would lose attraction to them if they themselves remain SAHD/H. It's more an understanding on how female attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:25 PM
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In my initial response I already based the financial qualifier as capable. Caring for kids with special needs is becoming increasingly common but it’s still not the norm, majority, or the generality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:02 PM
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WOMEN don’t like a man who goes to or takes therapy. It gives them the ick, whether they admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:46 PM
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Being a SAHM/W does not mean you’re locked in a dungeon 24/7 like Belle. You have your responsibilities (the household) while taking time to do your own hobbies which may or may not be in or outside the house. This “enslavement” narrative is truly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:45 PM
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And this is the problem with modern day relationships. (Particularly women)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:17 PM
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Women are easily more malicious than men, no contest. Entire swaths of men face this wrath daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:02 PM
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Of course you’re selfishly looking at this from a female perspective and don’t even try to view it from a male perspective. Typical of not surprising. If you have the finances capable to support a SAHM/W, it is the ideal scenario. One person brings home the primary income, takes care of finances, and devotes their working effort to those causes, while the other devotes primary effort to maintaining and improving home life. It is a clear, easy, and simple division of labor. It is not enslavement,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:01 PM
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$60k is over the average ($40k) so automatically women are looking for above average men, which we already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:41 AM
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Of course barely any women have posted here, and the ones that have had only posted the female experience or mocked LVM like usual. Can’t be selfless for even one damn post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:08 AM
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Not a good-faith response, though I expected nothing less from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:07 AM
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Women claiming they came here to “help” men are the biggest LARPers. We all know damn well you came here to get your licks in on us LVMs. At least be honest about it instead doing the tired female virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:27 AM
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I think most men "claim" to not want to date PS, but deep down, they wouldn't pass. There was a vid that went viral on YouTube where Teanna Trump asked a legion of men if they would date her, and like, 90% of them said they would. Why? Because she's hot, knows how to fuck, and those men simped over her. Replace Teanna with literally any other PS and the result would likely be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:00 PM
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She makes rules for betas and breaks them for alphas. Well known at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:59 PM
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No answer from women on this, typical. We all know the answer tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:51 PM
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Chad is genuinely desired and loved for who he is. Chad never has to jump through hoops nor does he have to put in unnecessary amounts of effort just to get his SO to glance at him. Chad is allowed to be human and have flaws. LVM are not afforded any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:34 PM
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Dominatrix, are ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:01 AM
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bro you gotta add two for women and subtract two for men. Women notoriously lie "down" and men notoriously lie "up."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:55 AM
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That's the majority of Western women nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:04 PM
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like everyone else, we mature & grow. Translation: AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:56 PM
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Dudes have a fetish for Harley Quinn because she's a scantily-clad hot chick. Same reason why dudes obsess over the likes of Catwoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:50 PM
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You're going to blame the kid who saw her mother use drugs daily since infanthood? I already blamed the mother but let's not get it twisted here. Drugs aren't firearms. Most of these "heavy" drugs serve no purpose other than to get people high and peddlers rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:48 AM
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She had pretty much all the big ones in her system. Heroin, meth, Xanax, coke, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:03 AM
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Her mother (his ex wife; his current wife is awesome), yes. When I say she's a POS, I mean it. She didn't even turn up to her own daughter's viewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:02 AM
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Just went to my boss's daughter's funeral; she was 22. Went to the viewing in support of his daughter. Fuck drugs for real, man. Her POS mother got her hooked in high school and it killed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:33 AM
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I'm only against abortion because I believe life begins at conception. If I didn't believe that, I'd be 100% in favor of abortion. And I sure as hell don't believe the farce politicians believe life begins at conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:56 PM
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How do you think these men developed such low self-esteem in the first place? Confidence is not formed in a vacuum, it takes years of reassurance, acceptance, and success in order to be confident. It's foolish to expect someone who's spent years improving but without any success with women to be confident and not lack self-esteem. All humans need external validation to a degree, no matter how much this current "self-love" narrative is pushed (even though it's not pushed to men). Again, it seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:27 PM
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Downvote the 💩 outta me. Idgaf I didn't downvote you. I hate that as much as anyone, plus it's against sub rules. I've myself railed against it but I digress. If a dude doesn't wanna be an incel, then he needs to learn to love the ladies and accept them, instead of letting his envy drive girls away and keep him sexless That is not what keeps incels single. Incels are single because women reject him despite years and years and years of earnest, honest effort and self-improvement without any succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:29 PM
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has literally never, not once, happened to me. and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:46 PM
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I went there in years past and got shut down without even uttering a word. I got cussed out just for walking near a woman. Got called a creep for literally standing by my table. Meanwhile other dudes of a particular physical disposition were grabbing women’s asses (who they didn’t know) without permission and had to fight to keep the women off their dicks. I know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:01 PM
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You and other women continue to blame men when it primarily is not their fault! You never tell unsuccessful women to change their entire disposition to appeal to men, yet it’s always men’s fault with you. You always blame men when in reality women caused this. The lack of empathy for LVMs is why so many turn to more toxic spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:56 PM
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You are insinuating that watching content keeps men single, when that’s not true. Those men ventured there because they’ve already tried and failed so often they were looking for solutions. And the solutions offered to them previously usually suck, particularly the “be kind, shower, go outside” shit women spew.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:46 PM
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It's always the same angle. Take down a point with logic, "you just want your dick wet, iNcEl!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:00 AM
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Because it's difficult for men to gain the attraction of even a single woman, let alone the attraction of multiple women. It showcases preselection, which women greatly value. It's not hard for pretty much any woman to enter into a relationship, so cheating therefore is easier and far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:49 PM
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Hell no. The BF's a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:46 PM
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They don't wingwoman for LVM. You have to meet the threshold otherwise you're classified as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:39 PM
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not at work, not at people who can't leave, not at people who are customer service or wait staff, not at 2am on the streets While I generally agree, I've known plenty of people who've dated by meeting at work or at customer service, as a waitress, cashier, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:37 PM
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No. There are plenty of instances where I’ve admitted I was wrong and changed my view. One similar instance on this post where I thanked a woman for not participating in loosely throwing the term incel about carelessly. IME, women rarely, if ever, change their view in relation to a debate with LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:55 PM
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I’ve heard it often. So often. Do you just purposely ignore these insults to conform to your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:46 PM
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You are projecting a great deal in an awful attempt at invalidating his experiences, something women often do when confronted the terrible realities of women shitting on LVM. His negative experiences with women are the catalyst, same with me, not some boogeyman incel site that women claim. Our own real world personal experiences have made us jaded, and rightfully so. It’s not that just had bad experiences (which you quickly try to brush aside), it’s the myriad of bad experiences with the lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:43 PM
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My bad, totally misread that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:04 AM
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That's the oldest Arnie movie you've seen? You've never seen the OG Terminator? Or Predator (1987)? Or Running Man? Would say Total Recall but that came out the same year as Kindergarten Cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:58 AM
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He's thinking of the stereotypical look from the 70s-mid-00s: oversized glasses, braces, snotty-nosed, suspenders, plaid buttoned-down shirt tucked into high-water khakis, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:50 AM
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I appreciate that you try not to use it, but this: I may use them in women-only convos where it's a shorthand for a type of guy we're shittalking is the exact type of thing that harms these men. Obviously if a man is truly misogynistic, sexist, abuse, manipulative, etc., then ofc I don't have a problem with women warning others to stay away, it's only logical. But I've experienced far too often that women tear down a man just because she's not attracted to him and he had the audacity to approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:41 PM
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I initially did not want to link because of Da Rules, but here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:18 PM
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It's one reason I turned to porn so often. I don't find myself fantasizing unrealistically anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:46 PM
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Something about having a large library of VHS/DVDs hit different. Same with music and CDs or cassettes (OG records were past my time).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:44 PM
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So you admit you use it as an ad hominem that shames male sexuality, yet women are the same ones clamoring that men shouldn't put such a premium on their sexuality. Men prioritize it because women prioritize it. Always have, always will. It wouldn't be a big deal if women didn't love shaming men for being virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:03 PM
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She posted in a different thread. Not just pulling this outta my ass. Also, happy cake day! 🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:20 PM
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More female voters than male voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:52 PM
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Most women aren’t nice, especially to LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:51 PM
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J. Lo? Katy Perry still looks good too. Let’s be honest, the wall is cope for LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:50 PM
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I won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:47 PM
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You hate virgin men but willingly hang out with serial cheaters and think they’re morally better than virgin men. Typical. And yes, YTA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:46 PM
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So maybe stop throwing the term incel around to any man who is a reluctant virgin. Not every LVM - in fact most - are not sexist misogynist boogeymen that feminists like to demonize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:40 PM
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This is absolutely correct. It is 100% better to be a toxic, manipulative asshole. You'll see more success both short and long term doing this than whatever other crap is spewed. I've seen it firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:48 AM
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My brother and I were on a bus and some chick randomly started talking to us. We both engaged but she quickly ignored me and only talked to my bro from that point, altering her disposition to block me out and look at my brother. That was a reality check for me that would only ever get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:42 PM
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I do remember CimZim and yes, she was awesome. Ofc she didn't fit into the "Sisterhood" so they blacklisted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:42 PM
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Your first BF was shy, but not ugly. Had he been the latter, he wouldn't have been "shy," he would've been creepy I would need to see a pic of BF #2 but I'm willing to bet the farm that he's not ugly at all. Though I don't doubt your friends prolly thought he was gross. Prolly just a Chad-lite instead of a full-blown Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:36 PM
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Aaylaa Secura anyone? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:12 PM
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My thoughts on what Kathleen Kennedy's doing to Star Wars:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:01 PM
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You do the same to me too Kat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:55 PM
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You didn't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:54 PM
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Who is this "we?" UMC Americans? VCRs were certainly prevalent during the 80s but the boom in home video and subsequent renting culture that came along with it took off in the latter part of the decade. Not denying what you and yours experienced, but I don't think it was as common as you say. EDIT: and what was there even to watch outside of porn on VHS in the early 80s? Most variants of home video didn't appear until 1984 at the earliest, and again, really weren't prevalent until the late 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:53 PM
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That's what happens when you chase Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:46 PM
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This shit makes my stomach curdle. Women literally disregard the men who put in actual effort and go out of their way to make fools out of them. Putrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:35 PM
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Don't worry, she does the same to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:30 PM
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I've been insulted and used far more often and much worse by women IRL than any woman here. Still doesn't help my faith in them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:23 PM
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Normal women want to be with Chads. In fact, all women want to be with Chads. Most men aren't Chad, and therefore cease to exist to women (or are considered subhuman).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:19 PM
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By automatically not jumping to conclusions i.e. assuming an LVM is the way he is due to being a sexist misogynist asshole. Or by actually listening and validating our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:16 PM
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Men are expected to bend over backwards and acquiesce to women. Women are expected to siphon from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:14 PM
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Definitely not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:14 PM
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Remember, Xers had to grow up with porn on VHS, and even then that was only the later Xers, as VHS didn't really take off until the late 80s when VCRs dropped in pricing. They don't know what to do now with the instantaneous porn on the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:00 PM
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Lack of empathy. Constant gaslighting. Constant attacks. Piss poor advice. The hedonism. Hypocritical nature. The non-stop blame and fury unleashed at LVM. The invalidating of our experiences. The quickness to blame LVM but turn around and defend women who are far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:58 PM
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Everyday PPD reinforces my dwindling faith in women. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:52 PM
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Don’t think he meant it as an insult, more so just a reasoning for the explanation. You likely would’ve been dating before the age of extreme height filtering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:23 PM
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Ty <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:44 AM
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Wouldn't say she raised me (had both my parents) but she and my grandfather (who me and my siblings called "pop-pop") were an integral part of my life. Lost my pop-pop years ago and she's been trekking along as a widow. She's a strong woman but what she's dealing with right now is painful to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:42 AM
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Pretty sure my grandmother is in the process of dying rn. Fuck. I knew this time would come but it still hits like a brick when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:38 PM
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And my great-grandfather did the same with my great-grandmother. And his 13 mistresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:34 PM
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If you form a platonic relationship first, the woman then only thinks of you as a friend. It's a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:34 PM
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This has an obvious answer. For the people who engage in casual sex, the risk is absolutely worth it. There are also things like condoms for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:06 PM
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You’re seriously not using your own personal anecdotes to disprove the fact that women largely prefer taller men are you? Like, it’s not up for debate. You just want to shut down facts that women can be and are hedonistic, vapid, and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:11 PM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:16 AM
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Wouldn't even be necessary if women didn't place such a premium on men not being virgins. You create the mess you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:13 PM
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Women and attempting to invalidate a man's experiences, name a better duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:59 PM
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NT guys are not given the chance to set standards because barely any woman wants them. According to women, they should be thankful for who they end up with, even if she's a disgusting old fat single mother slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:51 PM
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a woman doing that could still love their SO too. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:38 PM
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So that means TRP is correct then in telling men not to ask women for advice dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:18 PM
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None of that stuff is supposed to be for "getting chicks" though. Or that's what I've been told by women, as it's wrong to pursue activities with the purpose of meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:12 PM
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Ugly guys certainly do not cheat the most. This is something women say so that they can justify their inhumane treatment of them and their incessant Chad-chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:11 PM
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Could easily be solved by dating a virgin male. Ofc women don't like virgins since they're the spawn of Satan, so the simple, easy solution won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:08 PM
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Women call that "desperation" though, and it gives every woman the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:51 PM
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Luckily it's something I'll never have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:50 PM
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If he jerks it to porn or fucks another woman it's b/c of fleeting and expected horniness I think women would rather a man cheat than watch porn (though barely any would admit as much). Having another woman interested sexually in your husband subliminally reinforces preselection, which is a positive in female attraction. Pretty much all women view men who jerk it to porn as loser incels not worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:49 PM
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A man cheating doesn't mean he doesn't love his SO; odds are he allowed himself to give into sexual lust and temptation. Not good by any stretch, but it's still wholly plausible that he loves his SO. A woman who cheats has no love for her SO left, as women do not give others access to sex easily. It is the physical manifestation of a relationship ending, and there is no repairing a relationship after a woman cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:42 PM
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I have to wait 6-9 months to even be considered for the same chance that other dudes got within weeks? And that Chad got within minutes? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:19 PM
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What type of AF/BB mess is this? If a man is in the friendzone with a woman for 6-9 months, she’s had Chad, Tyrone, Enrique, and Chang pork her all multiple times before even considering the OG guy. No fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:58 PM
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They’re not being dicks, they’re voicing they’re opinions. Women say worse to men daily and y’all celebrate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:56 PM
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That type of woman is the most common variant I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:06 AM
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Women can negate that by approaching, but they never do and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:06 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:27 AM
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Women question men's value all the time. Why shouldn't men be allowed to do the same? Doesn't feel great when the shoe's on the other foot now, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:41 AM
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Laughing and making fun of your ex behind his back. Confirming plenty of red pill narrative about women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:36 AM
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Being famous and good-looking doesn't stop men from being cucked: https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/general-hospital-star-steve-burton-213423931.html
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:32 AM
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Georgia beat the living shit out of them. Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:28 AM
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You know what is also a straightforward question? "What do you bring to the table?" But women seem to hate that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:21 AM
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Dudes get drunk past midnight too. WTF does this have to do with rape?? Seriously??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:19 AM
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Correct. I've never voiced my frustration IRL because a man expressing any emotion of the sort is heavily derided by both men and women. It's shut up and take your lumps as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:17 AM
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I never had a good experience with a woman who was 'spiritual' without being grounded in an actual tradition of some kind. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:15 AM
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Haven't read anything recently. Or watched TV shows. Or seen any movies. Or played any video games. Fuck, what have I done actually?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:14 AM
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Best part about being an unwanted, virgin LVM is that I've never had to shave the nether regions!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:13 AM
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I hate the hiccups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:12 AM
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Looks aren't everything for men attracting women but they sure are the most important. Women are far shallower than men in this regard too. You don't even have a chance to showcase your personality unless you clear the looks threshold. Plenty of my friends who when they acted like douches would bed and get into relationships with women easily. Then there's me, and I'm shut down before I even utter a word. But it's all "personality." Riiiight...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:11 AM
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former athletes, musicians So Chads. You want Chads to preach to Billy Beta how to "respect women" and "just be confident bro." Typical nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:05 AM
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That doesn’t matter. Women will always choose a man better than herself. If all were equal (and let’s be honest we’re pretty much there in the West), women will always choose a man that’s taller, more educated, richer, and better looking if given the choice. And since women often have the choice, they exercise it. It’s women’s fault. Point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:56 PM
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I.E. the just world fallacy. "There's something wrong with those men!" Pretty much proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:01 AM
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The bitterness is a big reason why I dropped out. What do you think made me frustrated to begin with? Why can't you accept that some women are foul people who ruin men they interact with? For women it always has to be the man's fault. So fucking tired of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:59 AM
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Women don't like dating men that much younger than them, because then they'd complain about being their "mommy." If women wanted to date down in age, they could and they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:42 AM
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he probably has some viable reasons to stay single for so long. Women flaunting the just world fallacy yet again to justify LVM being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:39 AM
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Welp, was watching a random video of a dude ranking every episode of Gravity Falls (IDK, never seen the show; past my time), and I realized that the girl is pretty much the same exact character I created for an idea I've had for over five years :| Motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:35 AM
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There is a big culture gap between the East and West, for a number of reasons. It's foolish to assert that a cultural norm that's been established in the West would be normalized to the same degree in the East.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:15 PM
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There are lies, and then there are damned lies. This is a damned lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:27 PM
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Yes I feel threatened because I know the consequences that go with it. Every single time I've been vibing with a woman I'm attracted to and another, better-looking male enters, the entire thing is forgotten and she throws herself at him. Every. Fucking. TIME! I don't need some study to confirm what I already know to be true, but it helps shut down the "oh, what if he were kinder, more attentive, compatible" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:26 PM
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If that woman is selfish it’s just another bad date but that doesn’t mean you’ll never have a good one. Approaching this from the mindset of a woman vs. a man. For that vast, vast majority of women, dating is easy. For men, it's a grind just to get into one singular date at all, let alone scouring to find a good date. If you reach the age I have and have had nothing but awful experiences, it's likely over unless the hand of God is upon me. I don’t consider anything a waste so why approach dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:44 PM
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I see no lies in this post. The bad boy/fuckboi/dark triad dude will always have more success than the kind, understanding man. A prime example of watching what women do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:21 PM
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Height helps but is certainly no guarantee of success. It's just one in a long, long list of requirements to even be considered to be thought of for going on a singular date with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:11 PM
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Your comment is based on the notion that every woman you go on a date with is only doing so for her ego which implies that the women you are going out with are selfish. Even if you don’t think all women are like that, you’re still going into these dates with a negative assumption which doesn’t help at all. You are greatly underestimating the amount of women who do this. Even if it's not every woman (which ofc it isn't), it's still an amount far too high that it poisons the well. I as a man have …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:09 PM
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TBF, I never said all women, I said "some selfish woman" in reference to women who seek men to prop their own ego. Though I do admit there are a large contingent of these women nowadays, especially in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:11 PM
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IME, that's not true. I have interacted with plenty Chads/Tyrones, and have Chad friends. They have no issues not just fucking, but getting into verified relationships. One of my best friends is married with a kid, but he cheated on his wife multiple times. He's made out with random women directly in plain view of his wife; she's never once even threatened to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:09 PM
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Yes I have completely given up. Despite what women and bluepillers say, being social, emotionally intelligent, kind, and aligned does absolutely nothing to enhance a man's odds in dating. Much like u/Reasonable-Watch857, I'm not gonna be a leftover for Chad/Tyrone, I'm not gonna be used to prop up some selfish woman's ego/attention, not gonna be used for a free meal or for favors, and I'm not gonna be used by some fatso or single mom just because their options ran out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:43 PM
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Lol no 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:45 PM
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More and more men are losing the chance to get laid in the first place. This is only a benefit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:45 PM
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Man=bad, women=good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:42 PM
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Dude, if you like nubile females, just say so. Me personally, the most attractive women I’ve found to be about age 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:40 PM
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Fresh uses em too 🤦🏾‍♂️ real HVMs there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:17 PM
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So you're blaming LVM for their disposition then? Even if they've put in the effort to improve and socialize, and are still mistreated by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:58 PM
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You’d be amazed by how many women decry these dates as lazy, low effort inputs by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:45 PM
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I would explain them how their preferences are not reasonable or fair What's wrong with saying this? It's also often true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:37 AM
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Lol @ women taking responsibility after a breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:25 AM
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We all know damn well that nearly every woman has shamelessly exploited men for their own personal gain. The capping in this post is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:09 AM
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Then why do women still overwhelmingly desire men that make more than them? Why do women still overwhelmingly desire men that are taller than them? Stronger? Bulkier? What do those requirements have to do with egalitarian relationships? I guarantee you a man making $35k a year but is emotionally intelligent and is willing to do housework while also providing 50/50 will get spurned for the 6' Chad who won't do anything but hit Becky up for a booty call.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:29 AM
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I have before and it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:13 AM
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The plot was also just so...bleh. Spielberg should be embarrassed to have his name attached to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:46 AM
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Too bad RP1 was a shit movie that was nothing more than a WB orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:14 AM
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For an autistic man? 4/10 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:59 PM
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They've been rewarded for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:09 AM
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You hear that guys? You're not allowed to ask women out in public anymore. Doing so means you're harassing women. Doesn't matter if Chad can slap her ass and say "wanna fuck?" You saying "hello" to the barista is harassment and you're a douchebag for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:14 PM
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50 degrees sounds hot as hell You're Scandinavian, right? If so, that would explain this sentence lol. FYI, these women in question are not working out/exercising; that'd be more understandable. They are literally just shopping in the equivalent of underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:57 PM
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How? Explain please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:55 PM
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Anyone who's had Chad or Chad-lite friends can attest to this as well. Night and day difference. But it's all due to "confidence" or whatever other BP BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:49 PM
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So women dress in short spandex shorts with a sports bra at a grocery store in 50 degree weather...for other women? Yeah, gonna call cap on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:47 PM
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Men turn to porn after experiencing a myriad of rejections without success. Note: I'm not talking about their first exposure to porn, I'm talking about using it as cope. EDIT: Also, watching porn does not mean a man is immoral, lazy, immature, unkind, antipathetic, unclean, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:45 PM
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Hilarious to find out that Amouranth was lying the whole time about her "abuse" lmfao. So fucking obvious too, but all the women and simps ate it up because men=bad, women=good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:30 PM
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Classic r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:27 PM
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I agree that status bolsters opportunity if that's what you're saying. I wholly disagree that Ronaldo would get rejected more and de Vito wouldn't. In 2023, nearly every chick on planet earth is choosing Ronaldo over de Vito.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:06 PM
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one thing is for sure, they would get a lot less chicks. Thanks, Captain Obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:03 PM
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Pft, women couldn't care less about hurting men, yet I and other LVMs who've been damaged beyond repair by women are supposed to care about them. Spare me, FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:51 PM
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Wrong. If Levine and Ronaldo had no money or fame, they'd still pick up chicks with ease. Why? The forbidden word. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:49 PM
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No. De Vito is an example of a famous/popular/wealthy man getting women. Levine and Ronaldo have all those same qualities as de Vito. Only two of them would be accepted by women using the phrase "wanna fuck?" The odd man out would be de Vito, and not because of his wealth/fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:43 PM
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Adam Levine has some of the worst texting game imaginable yet was still able to cheat on his pregnant wife of nearly a decade. Must've just been because he made women "comfortable" and was "respectful" of them. Maybe it was his "emotional intelligence" that boosted him a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:29 PM
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Women pretend to not know to spare the man’s feelings. Most women do know but if they pretend to not know the man’s ego can rest comfortably in this whole idea of well she doesn’t know how I feel about her. Okay, fair enough, I can concede this happens. I still do contend though many do take advantage of men's feelings for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:03 PM
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How exactly are our problems created by our own volition? Women clamor for men to "be better" yet still choose bums due to them looking better than average guys Women continue to waive actual red flags for hedonistic ones like height, unnecessarily high income, hair, etc. Women behave antithetical to how men perceive attraction yet wonder why HVMs only want them as cumdumpsters Women blame and insult men yet wonder why they receive no empathy from them Women don't earn their respect, it's given …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:43 PM
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Mine and nearly every other man's experience proves this otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:17 PM
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So you don't have any proof of these attacks then? You just assume that any post that gets removed is automatically bad? You also willingly ignore what I wrote about women acting in poor behavior and attacking men. Do you feel those posts from women should be removed and their accounts banned, or is that only reserved for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:04 PM
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If we do that we get accused of putting women on pedestals and worshiping them. No winning. Besides, many of us have formed connections with singular women only to be burned, without any success at all. I understand many men forgoing that with little investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:50 PM
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Where are these attacks from these men? Anytime any man says anything even remotely against the grain, the comment is removed, the poster banned, and then all men are derided as evil incels who want to take women's rights. It's so ridiculous and such a boogeyman, but women are allowed to willy-nilly call me and other men misogynist incels at will without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:41 PM
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Not reading enough or just reading what you want to believe. Plenty of LVMs have expressed their desire on this site to get into LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:38 PM
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Women know when men are attracted and still continue to retain some semblance of friendship with these men and do the absolute best to not lead them on. That couldn't be further from the truth. Many, many women are either clueless or willfully delusional about their male friends crushing on them, and will lead them on regardless. That, or they're entirely aware, and lead them on to take advantage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:38 PM
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Prove it wrong, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:35 PM
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False. Women take a minority of these men and project it on all of them to get them to shut up. Anything to avoid hearing about LVMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:30 PM
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If anything, women attack men (and get away with it) far more often on this sub and nearly anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:26 PM
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This post is a perfect example of why men should never reserve empathy for women without first being given a verifiable reason. Never did I say or insinuate LVMs needed to be given women as GFs, never did I say men were entitled to sex or a relationship, just that women needed to show empathy. But even THAT was too much to ask. Just proving the narrative correct. Y'all women turn more men into incels quicker than Andrew Tate ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:37 PM
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If you are unable to show empathy, why should anyone give a shit about you? Women were the initial ones without empathy for LVMs. Women need to be the ones to give it first before whining about not receiving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:25 PM
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Men try to attack women all the time over this topic No we most certainly do not. Stop taking any man that disagrees with you as an attack. You're not a victim and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:24 PM
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Most women cannot achieve attractiveness to the levels to obtain Chad. Most women have easy access to all the men at their level. Problem is all women want Chad, despite if they're certified ugly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:10 PM
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I never projected, I said that you giving sympathy does not equate to most or all women doing this. Simple and true. Stop trying to make yourself a victim. You did not comprehend the second paragraph at all; stop getting so triggered for no reason. I said admitting as in admitting that lonely men have been hurt by women have a legit reason to be upset. Not that you had to admit anything. Of course, you're so heated and are not thinking straight that you could not read a simple, well-defined sent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:05 PM
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You giving sympathy =/= most women. You cannot project that to all women just like lonely men cannot project their experience to all women. Furthermore, many, many men have been done wrong by women. Admitting as much isn't being bitter, or sexist, or misogynistic. Unless, of course, you believe women are perfect who are always justified and can commit no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:54 PM
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You are an acute exception to the rule. Seriously, every other woman in this thread either couldn't care less or bombards us with insults/attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:49 PM
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Have you been a lonely man? Who are you to say whether or not we receive sympathy/empathy? You have not lived our life so don't even try to claim what we experience from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:47 PM
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Why don’t women give LVM and incels grace then? It’s never afforded to them, especially from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:24 PM
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Sure, my sister and mother dressed up for me. Excuse me while I puke…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:22 PM
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Unfortunately true 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:21 PM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:19 PM
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I fap into the Christmas tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:19 PM
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I did that and my brothers and friends made fun of me for doing that. Never posted on IG again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:18 PM
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Ignoring is fine, it’s the silencing (i.e. downvotes until the comment is hidden) that angers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:16 PM
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Complete and utter side note: BSB were the biggest simps ever lmao 😂. *NSYNC were the chads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:15 PM
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This is true. Anyone who’s lived with females at any point will see this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:13 PM
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Not the same thing. Wearing an outfit ain’t the same as working out. I also think that’s cope for men: 90% of them workout for female attention, even if they won’t say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:12 PM
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Not every option is bad, that's literally impossible. It's also cope IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:55 PM
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Above
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:55 PM
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Judging by your previous posts here, we can ascertain that you do indeed care very much about a man’s salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:39 PM
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Men are willing to provide for women so as long as they are A’s in other categories. Women never provide for men, despite clamoring on about pErSoNaLiTy and other BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:35 PM
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Men’s shorts are far less revealing and more modest than women’s shorts like 90%+ of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:09 PM
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Isn’t Marie Curie one of the most revered humans in history? Amelia Earhart? Queen Victoria? IDK premise is kinda faulty imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:27 PM
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Based actually, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:26 AM
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Would you have that same energy if the roles were reversed? (man slipping digits to woman?)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:19 AM
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Dude, relax. The only one crying here is you. If you don't like it, fine, but you don't have to be so triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:55 PM
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Similar things women want: time, attention, effort, and investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:19 PM
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This is exactly what we mean by "women lacking empathy." We clearly don't want this, but you desperately want men to want this to justify your warped narrative of "single men = bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:06 AM
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I draw and write comics. I also am self-teaching myself 2D animation so I can adapt my ideas to a better depiction of visual medium. If anything, I just want to prove to myself that I can do it and that I can push my stories through to completion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:40 AM
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WTF?? The thuggish guy is likely to beat the shit out of his SO, then end up in prison leaving the woman to rear the child herself. The working class dude will likely end up being cheated on because he's unable to provide the lifestyle his SO wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:46 PM
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How is it a "crumbling" idea when women still uphold gender norms in dating? You yourself brag about not dating men who make less than you, which upholds the rigid gender norm of men needing to earn a high threshold to be considered a "good" partner. Doesn't matter if he's emotionally intelligent or a genuinely good person, if he doesn't make as much as you, he's automatically a loser unfit for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:42 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I don't think we can equate life and dating in 2023 to life and dating in 1995. Two very different eras, separated by a myriad of cultural changes and advancements (and also setbacks). An average woman in 1997 only had access to men in her immediate area, or some shit on AIM or Craigslist, which was always seedy (fine, I guess some Match Partner equivalents existed back then, but it was rudimentary). In 2023, a woman needs to create an IG profile and upload a single…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:37 PM
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If that's misogynistic, then the famed "manchild" rhetoric women love to spew out is misandrist. He's not saying all women are like that, just those specific ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:26 PM
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I wouldn't chase anyone. As a woman, there'd be no need; just have to exist in proximity to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:20 PM
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Yes ofc, but I was specifically referring to average women, of which there's logically more of. Let's also not underrepresent the amount of average women who falsely proclaim they're "above average" when they're clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:18 PM
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He's not entirely correct. A "dive town" is not necessarily contingent upon population. It's more to do with things like demographics, income levels, crime, types of establishments, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:45 PM
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Lol it’s quite clear your view of men (especially single ones) is skewed and incorrect judging by your pretenses. You seem to have a massive disdain, yet are holding out of a man that doesn’t exist. Average women don’t deserve the type of man you describe in the third paragraph because women don’t bring anything to that man’s life but misery, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:22 PM
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Women are unnecessarily paranoid because plenty have main character syndrome. SA and SH typically happen with close bonds, and women love to exaggerate their stories to make it seem grander than what it really is. Women in the States are also super egotistical, hedonistic, and mostly rude, unlike Brazilian women (for the most part). Women will go out of their way to either avoid average guys or berate them. Exceptions will be made for Chad, and since he’s got all the women fawning after him, he …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:53 PM
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If the only way a woman is happy with a man is if he’s a 666 man, then she’s delusional and needs mental help. Average women do not and never will deserve those men, especially since they never put in any effort to better themselves since “they are the table.” And if we’re not equal, that means men and women should not be held to the same standard. I.e. if a man makes more money, he should be doing less housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:46 PM
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Man is abused. Man gets arrested, charged, and convicted for being abused. DA doesn’t even pursue charges against hoe that abused him. Sound right in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:07 PM
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The real world, where this is unfortunately common. He’s 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:48 PM
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There is nothing wrong with spanking, like at all. If the child makes a physical infraction, a physical punishment is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:43 PM
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So clear that you have no fucking clue about the male experience 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:41 PM
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Nope. Average women deserve average men. Delusional women who think they’re better than men deserves the crap they get. You are not better than men and never will be; we’re all equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:40 PM
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How is the opinion "men aren't as attractive as women and women put more effort into their appearance" unpopular? Pretty sure that's the dominant opinion by BOTH sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:44 PM
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Ofc your comment still had to be a dig toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:31 PM
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Man here: Hookup culture is detrimental to men too, not just women. Men aren’t meant to be slingin their cocks out 24/7 There are creepy men who are, like, legitimately creepy who don’t help their odds or the odds of other men and even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:28 PM
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This does not correlate with my experience at all. Sure, she’s more confidant, but that only leads to a much harsher and rude rejection. The absolute worst and disrespectful rejections I’ve gotten have all come from women in friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:05 AM
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He's not accusing you of being a slut. He's simply stating that your male friends true intentions are likely to get in your pants. He's not stating that you'd accept their offers. Again, it's painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:49 AM
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I do all of it. Because I'm single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:46 AM
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It's painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:42 AM
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Totally false.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:35 AM
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My female friends have never once even attempted to match me with another woman. Even my sister refuses, and we're extremely close.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:32 AM
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True true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:31 AM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:31 AM
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Flirting is poor communication. Instead of voicing attraction like an adult, people (usually women) like to use this BS form of non-direct "communication" to "indicate interest." It's BS and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:27 AM
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Flirting is poor communication. Instead of voicing attraction like an adult, people (usually women) like to use this BS form of non-direct "communication" to "indicate interest." It's BS and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:27 AM
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There is nothing but circlejerking this entire thread (from blue pillers). Would report but I know nothing will come of it since they’re all BP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:44 AM
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Not really. More so just ends with them calling these preferences like I mentioned above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:46 PM
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A lot of women call men who ask for this or seek it out "entitled" or "misogynistic."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:21 PM
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She's suggesting that there's something wrong with guys who can't get dates rather than her just not being attracted to them. Nothing wrong with lacking attraction (even though she and most women are shallow), but assigning some sort of justification such as those guys being "low energy" or having "low motivation," neither of which being true, serves to absolve her of her shallowness by placing blame on the men instead of her own unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:41 PM
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Stop it. This is typical just world fallacy that women like to blubber about to justify their rejection in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:08 PM
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They'd hate Him and claim He "isn't real" just like the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:17 PM
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As has been said and will be said again: free speech does not equate to freedom from consequences. If a private entity decides on their own accord to disallow something according to their values, so as long as it's not discriminating against or promoting hate toward a protected class, then they're in their whole rights to do as they wish. The offending party will not be prosecuted/held liable in criminal court, but they would be in violation of that private party's guidelines. You ain't gotta li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:16 PM
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Who said women aren't ever mistreated by men? I've never seen anyone say that men are all-perfect beings and that women never struggle. It's that women have it far, far easier than men ever will in dating. That's a fact, that women continually excuse, deny, or attempt to justify. And the denial of experiences goes both ways. In fact, I'd argue women attempt to invalidate men's experiences far more often than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:07 PM
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Whining about TRP men cheating doesn't and never will justify your disgusting and heinous infidelity. Keep trying, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:56 PM
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Men on the spectrum “can’t ever relax” and be themselves because themselves can be complete jerks to people and often enjoy the tension and the argument. Like purposely doing and saying abrasive things just because they are legal. Like staring at others, commenting on their appearance, refusing to say please, thank you, and I’m sorry. Like rigid thinking and adherence to his schedule and routine at the expense of others. Like displaying anger when things don’t go according to their singular plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:55 PM
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I think the line of questioning was "what can autistic men do to prevent looking like predators to women." It was not worded properly IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:19 PM
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Like which humans? Criminals are humans too, should we treat women like criminals then? This basis of questioning needs qualification. Men and women are different. Men treating women differently than they treat men does not mean they are not treating them inhumanely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:07 PM
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TBF, I never stated that autistic men are “just being honest, it shouldn’t hurt your feelings” in my post, just that there's a double standard in which men are supposed to accept bluntness and rudeness from women while if in reverse men need to change their behavior to acquiesce to women. I also didn't address the last point in my initial response, so I'll do so here: men cannot ever relax in a relationship with a woman. If they do, they'll be cast aside for "lack of effort."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:05 PM
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Mostly dregs like drug addicts, overly fat women, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:02 PM
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“Lack of tact, lack of empathy, and unvarnished criticism” Funny, LVM are frequent recipients of this, daily even, by women. Yet LVM are expected not only to take it, but to coalesce to women in the process. Funny how that is not reserved for autistic men as companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:01 PM
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Yes but beware, that’d limit his scope of decent women significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:50 PM
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Very, very few women would ever even open themselves up to an opportunity with an autistic man. Consider this: Autistic women don’t want autistic men. Fat women don’t want fat men. Short women don’t want short men. Broke women don’t want broke men. Ugly women don’t want ugly men. Women ALWAYS want better despite not being better themselves. Yet men have to find the diamond in the rough to see who might actually give them a chance outside of being rejected in the first millisecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:25 PM
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Easy to say when you’re neurotypical. How about offering some actual insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:22 PM
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Another woman invalidating a man’s experience. You can’t pick and choose what you want to believe just because something does not conform to your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:59 PM
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This scenario is so unrealistic and foreign for me that it might as well be asking to play basketball on the Sun. It would never happen to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:48 PM
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Thank you, a woman acknowledging that women can and do abuse men in high numbers. Based post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:02 PM
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More lonely young men. More lonely old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:29 PM
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You contradicted yourself. You said earlier that most people are kind, but now are saying most people are mean. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:23 PM
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It’s true that for an average or below average male, women primarily only want us to siphon from us. The quicker this is learned by men, the better prepared they can be. Shoe hurts when it’s on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:20 PM
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Not all, but about 90% of them. Hey, at least she’s honest - that’s better than 98% of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:15 PM
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Women at pubs and bars either go with their friends or SOs. They don’t go there to get approached. I know this from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:08 PM
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Ngl, this is partially what happened to me. My parents even recommended wearing sunglasses so that women “wouldn’t know I was looking.” (Don’t worry ladies, I didn’t even own any sunglasses until like three years ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:22 PM
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Yes, often times we are. Happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:20 PM
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It is just a way to get those with gripes to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:16 PM
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You’re belief is wrong - typical, since you believe women cannot commit wrongdoing toward men. I have indeed been met with hostility and virility from women while still being kind so often that I largely refuse to talk to them. But women like you will invalidate my experiences with all the “women good, men bad” BS you like to spew.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:54 PM
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The evilness of women knows no bounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:11 PM
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Do you not think this creates a negative feedback loop? In that incels look for either advice or empathy, are told to shove it, and the only group that accepts them are the actual violent ones? That's a pretty logical and even likely conclusion that's just dismissed for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:50 AM
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I don’t really compliment men because the ones I’m around dont put much effort into their appearance. This honestly sounds like a way to excuse/justify your shallowness toward them. I also said BF as in boyfriend, not random men. I mean like what we have to tolerate in the relationship. As opposed to what men have to tolerate? Are women perfect angels who do no wrong in relationships? A lot of non-empathic men who expect us to dive head first into domestic labor. And a lot of non-empathetic wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:48 AM
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women refuse to even compliment random men their BF
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:42 AM
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Crickets from the peanut gallery...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:38 AM
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There is a lot between "homeless" and "comfort."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:40 AM
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What's wrong with a man making a minimum wage as long as he's paying his bills? What makes him a lesser man? Or worse, or incapable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:39 AM
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We should rather date a ugly men and eat, then date a sexy man and starve This is the "variance" that women have (and love to claim to make it seem like they aren't chasing the top 10%). There are plenty of women, many on this board even, who couldn't give a flying fuck about how rich a guy is, but you best believe he must look better than Adonis. That's where women's preferences vary. Some women prefer the top 10% in looks, in others it's height, in others it's income. But the qualifier is ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:38 AM
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As far as how we’re expected to behave Many women refuse to even compliment their BF or thank them for a task completed. Often times men are just looking for basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:34 AM
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Where are the stats to back your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:23 AM
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So then, and I ask this question repeatedly yet get no answers, why are LVM gaslit into believing that their lack of romantic success is a moral/ethical failing??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:21 AM
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I have absolutely no SIMPathy for Pardison, like I have negative sympathy. Any hoe who writes a damn song about her "wet ass pussy (barf) is riding the town's meat. It's his own damn fault. Same with Destiny in regards to Melina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:15 AM
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Lol you've clearly demonstrated as such in your comments. Doesn't need to be explicitly said for it to be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:13 AM
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Single-fathers train and rear upstanding children. Single-mothers add to the welfare and criminal dole by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:44 PM
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You hate LVM, so you do have 0 empathy for some swaths of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:44 PM
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Ofc you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:42 PM
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Possibly. I’m not entirely opposed, though pair-bonding does exist (despite what BPers claim). The problem is a woman with a high n count would almost never go for a virgin (i.e. me).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:27 PM
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I don’t feel lost energy for being nice. I don’t like being unkind in most scenarios. I just hate the amount of effort, time, and involved in trying new crap that I’m not even guaranteed to like only to gain nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:24 PM
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That’s kinda what I mean. Like, I get there’s many guys who just don’t try and have never tried. I’m not one of them. There are a large contingent of men who do put in actual effort and reap nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:22 PM
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Nope. Mutually engaged. Still got labeled a creep for escalating what seemed mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:21 PM
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I used to flirt before women called me creepy despite not breaking “norms.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:25 PM
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My god, thank you! Never did I demand a GF nor have I ever. Jeez Louise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:24 PM
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Yes. I got called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:21 PM
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I’ve mentioned this in plenty of other threads, but I’ve asked out 11 women over the past 12 months before hanging it up for good in April. Over the course of my life, I’ve asked out over 100 women. That doesn’t include apps. Don’t make ASSumptions about a person you’ve never met just to satisfy the illusion in your head, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:20 PM
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An answer I can get down with. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:19 PM
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I wrote this because yes while there are obviously antisocial incels who don’t even put in effort, there are plenty of us - a plurality even - who have no issues with socialization yet still struggle. Hearing the “advice” to put yourself out there and make new friend groups when I’ve already done that 10x over is akin to insanity IMO. Would you agree that if you put in X amount of hours into something without reaping any benefits, it’d be a wasted effort? At some point reciprocation is necessary…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:14 PM
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The truth comes out. Though I already knew the answer. If the roles were reversed and it was women levying these complaints you can bet your ass there’s be empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:04 PM
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This is a good answer here, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:49 PM
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Planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:01 AM
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This is a personal attack and I’ve reported it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:46 AM
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Women dating women is not the equivalent of a man dating women. Apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:11 AM
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I agree that the proper argument would’ve been fuck bois/Chads are more misogynistic than incels, which I would agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:40 AM
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In generalities, yes, I agree. Though I’ve read some incel posts that ofc lead to Elliot Roger shit. That’s worse than anything the fuck bois do/did, and it weighs worse for incels IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:38 AM
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I have seen it, often, which is why I posed the question. It’s not some randomly posed question. Also thanks for the downvote. You’re a veteran and should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:21 AM
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AF/BB at work here fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:27 AM
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Hell yeah, Sky High. One of my all-time favorites!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:10 AM
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I love nerf guns. Had a massive nerf gun war at my old church in the early 2010s. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:09 AM
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And what if his opinion is negative due to harsh and unjust treatment from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:03 AM
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My siblings and I grew up in a family that made about 30-40k per year and lost one of our parents growing up. Raised by single mom. Every one of us graduated from college, 3/4 from grad school as well. I’ve been financially independent since age 17 and worked my tail off to get a full ride scholarship since that was the only way I could afford an education. Now I have a profitable career and zero debt. You can come from a disadvantaged upbringing and still succeed.. it just requires a ton of har…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:18 AM
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This is classic just world fallacy at work. “Good people make good choices which means they succeed.” Absolutely not. Good people make bad choices from time to time, and it’s utterly ridiculous to say or assert that the majority of good people are successful. Being successful at life has no bearing on how good you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:11 AM
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Bryce Young really does fking suck like my god dude. Never thought he'd be this bad in the pros.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:18 AM
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I’m 27. There was a question similar to this a few days ago, but youngest I’ll date is 19 and oldest is 37. No diff between long and short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:17 AM
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My mom is 1. Don’t know the exact count of my dad, but he was a player, so I’m guesstimating around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:14 AM
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Tf? Aging out of chores? My mom would’ve had my ass if I didn’t do the dishes even at age 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:13 AM
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Why do you type “women” like “wxmen”? It’s not a cuss word to actually say “women”. You’re not gonna catch cooties. I do agree with your premise in that men are often shamed and/or berated for voicing their boundaries, but the whole “wxmen” thing does throw this off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:12 AM
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1 hour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:14 PM
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I recommend you don't watch any rated R movies prior to 2000 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:30 PM
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That classifies you as a soyboy sissy. Unless you're Timothee Chalomet, that'll be sure to dry women up quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:29 PM
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A waifu
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:28 PM
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I'm sorry, but this is just an asinine take. In no way is not disclosing your orientation equivalent to crimes. This is getting ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:31 PM
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I'm sure men who struggle with dating have heard this all the time. "Be grateful, it could be worse" and chances are they have tried that approach but there are men who want children/ life partner. Literally this. Thank you for smacking some sense into this, hot damn. There are certainly men who do not put in the effort yet still complain, but for those of us who've tried for years upon years, it's not as simple as "you get what you get and you're gonna like it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:18 PM
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Beautifully stated and very factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:50 PM
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I am using this whenever someone else decides to spout that nonsense about “single women happier.” Great insight my guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:42 PM
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So sex workers = good, but sex buyers = bad? More unnecessary man blame drone a woman like usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:11 PM
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How can a 5’6” dude “rise to the occasion” to magically become 6’4”? Sheer foolishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:52 PM
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You've never seen Charlie (M0istCr1tikal) before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/LW4Gci3qics?t=253 Imagine being such a Chad that you can show your wife your old PUA vids, have her seethe with jealousy as she desperately tries to proclaim her love and admiration for you, but you shrug it off because women have thrown themselves at you for your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:51 PM
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Women need more attention and it's not close. Men live with being invisible every damn day, it's the predominant way of life for all men save Chad. Women literally drive themselves insane without the ability to garner attention. The amount of women responding that "durr hurr men need it more!" is yet more proof that women cannot even accept basic verifiable truths without attempting to make themselves seem more virtuous or blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:27 PM
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Future Trunks is awesome due to his impeccable character and his focus. He’s one of the few OG characters that doesn’t F around with his opponents like Goku, Vegeta, Gohan, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:11 PM
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TMTNT mania at the end of the 80s too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:08 PM
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There was a comment where a woman claimed misandry was always in response to misogyny. When given the facts that a young man who’d been abused by a woman would be jaded, she blamed the man for being “misogynistic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:06 PM
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If one pattern is more consistent than all the others then one would be assumed to take measures to combat it. The popular Gen Z term for the bad boy phenomenon is “love bombing.” I mean, it’s so common there’s a fucking phrase for it! But women STILL fall for this crap, generation after generation. Yet we’re supposed to believe the guy who nervously stutters when asking out his crush of two years is the REAL misogynist. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:19 PM
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My point still stands. If women can smell the "misogyny" of the "nice guy" who fell for his friend a mile away, then y'all should be able to detect these bad boys also. As such, it all comes down to attraction and that women choose to DQ the nice guy while actively looking for ways to qualify the bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:03 PM
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Way too much circlejerking from women in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:57 PM
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Women love to claim that they can "sense" a male's "misogyny" from the outset. If this is the case, then why can't they "sense" the abusive partner from the outset? Why haven't women evolved to figure this out since it's apparently so common? Perhaps it's that women actively look for traits that abusive men are more likely to have than that of good, studious men? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:51 PM
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TRP was wrong, but another pill was spot on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:49 PM
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Why tf would I lie about being happy? Do you want me to smile more to appease you? Like a clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:47 PM
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0/0 I hate middle parts in hair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:44 PM
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Melina is a fucking awful degenerate skank. I do feel for Destiny, but he needs to live with the consequences of dating such a whore as awful as Melina since everyone told him what would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:27 PM
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Much ado about nothing man. Can we stick to debating topics and not grammar?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:41 AM
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Ofc you're with a more experienced guy. Never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:00 AM
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Most women want attention, but most women won’t respect those who do give them attention. A woman does respect attention when she has to earn it; she doesn’t have to earn attention from Billy or the normal simp, they give it to her for free. But the HVM doesn’t, creating a dichotomy where the woman, prolly for the first time ever, had to put in effort to get what she wants. As for your question? It depends. Once the woman attains attention from the HVM, she may start to lose respect as the dog h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:22 PM
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Last work day before three straight days off. Tonight’s gonna drag so hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:45 PM
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Men understand me well. Women will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:40 PM
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“Halfway attractive” = giga Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:39 PM
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I cringed immediately when I saw that. More credence to male spaces being infiltrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:33 PM
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If they’re women, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:29 PM
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No, it’s the fact that if women treat men poorly it’s accepted, praised, and justified, while if men are leery of women, it’s “you raging sexist! Pick yourself up from your bootstraps you entitled misogynist!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:05 PM
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"If you don't fight back when a man insists..."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:44 AM
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Most professional settings (school, work) have some semblance of a dress code. Work, yes. School, no. Girls purposely go to school in the skimpiest outfits and then get all "surprised Pikachu" when they're sent to the office because of dress code violations. Even then, most are allowed to be half-nude nowadays (unless you're Catholic).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:16 AM
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Yup, if a woman makes a post deriding men in any way, it's excused under the pretense of "she must've been hurt," or "she's got a reason/is justified for feeling that way." A man makes a similar post and it's "yOu sExIsT aSsHoLe!!1!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:14 AM
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Women would actually have to put in effort and work instead of relying on men to do it for them. Men would also be far less willing to acquiesce to women's bullshit, and would be more willing to actually hold them accountable for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:10 AM
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Magenta pill is red-leaning purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:24 AM
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What do you mean "look her up?" How old are you my guy lol? I listened to her stuff back in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:20 PM
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That is not the majority of men, or anywhere near it. Ime, it is the majority of women who do not respond well to any type of critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:02 PM
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The response I have would veer under the context of "woe is me," so I won't go there. Just know that there's a large subset of men who invest a great amount of expense, time, and effort into bettering themselves yet yield no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:42 PM
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I literally wrote this in another post but: expressing frustration =/= whining/entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:31 PM
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Nope, because asking women out without a single acceptance over the course of 15+ years, in addition to the false accusations, mocking, teasing, humiliation, ghosting, etc., has led me to the end of the road. I'm quitting giving women free validation and attention, at least without anything in return. It's porn-only for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:10 PM
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It's not "whining", it's legitimate frustration. It's not just someone putting 1/10th of the effort and reaping 10x the rewards, it's folks actively engaging in detrimental and degenerate behavior being rewarded in addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:06 PM
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Would you prefer if I would've said Chad, I guess? I mean, I'm black myself and it's commonly known that "Tyrone" is the black male equivalent of "Chad." Either way, it's not even close to the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:48 PM
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You're not entitled to anything My god, if I have to hear this one more time. These low value men already know they aren't "entitled" to anyone, they are merely frustrated at their lack of success despite effort. Frustration =/= entitlement. The boogeyman of "men requiring women to be bangmaids" is a fallacy conjured up to blame these men. <1% of men actually even spew that crap, let alone believe it. You should learn from the rejections And many men will continue to be rejected despite learning…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:45 PM
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I asked out 11. Stopped after being told to "fuck off" by a woman in a club back in April. That same woman left with a Tyrone and his girlfriend later that evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:37 PM
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What actually happens: Woman finally gives the average nice guy a "chance," while simultaneously looking for red flags in order to DQ him. All of a sudden the nice guy has one moment where he's not perfect and the woman get's to go "SEE! I told you he was only faking it! ALL nice guys suck! I gave one a chance and he ABUSED me! Time to go back to Chad to get pumped and dumped while pretending he loves me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:32 PM
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working on yourself often includes actually asking people on dates rather than just thinking about it Many men already do ask women out and are constantly rejected. Why do you think we're so frustrated? Jeez. It means becoming a better person rather than worse The just world fallacy strikes again. Women and top 20% men don't ever need to become better people in order to date. mUh pErSoNaLiTy has no bearing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:25 PM
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I don’t stare at anyone at all. I don’t even give passing glances because I know women will misconstrue them as stares. I don’t use transit but if I did, I likely wouldn’t stare. However, staring is not illegal, and while you claim no one has the right to feel uncomfortable, it is also not against anyone’s rights to be given inherent comfort based upon a single individual’s restrictions. Staring does not infringe upon anyone’s right to life, liberty, or even happiness. Often times yes, it is bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:57 PM
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I.e. women got ugly and was rejected by the men she truly liked, now has to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:30 PM
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Still didn’t answer the question he posed. Why should any LVM/single lonely male have empathy for entitled women like those aforementioned two when we not only never receive it from women, but are actively blamed by them instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:11 PM
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*Most women. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:26 PM
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Why should we empathize AT ALL when women NEVER empathize with men? Especially LVMs/single lonely men? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:32 PM
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Telling posters to STFU in a public forum where debate is encouraged is antithetical to PPD. Yet ofc it’s allowed given your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:29 PM
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Here we go again with the just world fallacy. You women bring it up so often yet it’s so easily disproved. News flash: women date and have sex with evil, horrific men all the time. Being a “good person” with a great pErSoNaLiTy may still lend you to be involuntarily single, because women are NOT attracted to that by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:17 PM
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Using an ultra-smart, well-known celebrity as your example definitely does not correlate to the rest of the male populace...at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:57 PM
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No, they do. It's just that the women they date don't want them to interact with their old single buddies at all. Therefore, an ultimatum is given, in which men generally side with their GF over their old friends. The men then get new and "mature" male friends who are already in relationships/marriage, because the GF approves of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:55 PM
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Not true at all. That's a cope women try to use to justify rejecting normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:46 PM
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What people also omit with the whole "man gets GF and leaves friends behind" trope is that it's the WOMEN who force their BFs to stop interacting with their old friends. This has happened to my old friends time and again. Things like "why are you hanging out with them and not me?!" or, "you're in a relationship now. Grow up and leave them behind for more mature friends!" It's primarily women forcing men to give up their OG friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:44 PM
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We already know virtually all women exclude neurodivergent men. You’re not unique or exclusive in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:00 PM
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No, he’s just not attractive. Does not mean he isn’t an objectively good human or partner. She’d never even give him a shot tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:57 PM
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Most women are not obese. That’s just for the US (unfortunately).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:52 PM
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I didn’t understand the cooking thing either. Gordon Ramsey exists after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:47 PM
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Don’t agree at all. My male friendships have always been and currently are amazing. Sure I’ve lost a few friends along the way, who hasn’t, but I’ve never been viscerally wronged or disrespected by men like I have women. Even so-called “enemies” I’ve had throughout the years have all since been reconciled and are on great terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:46 PM
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I mean, I wouldn’t call a newborn a neophyte lol 💀. But I do agree with your point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:36 PM
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Women get so tied up with terms and not what’s being said. No man is denying your right to go out and act slutty. The hold up is that it’s a turn off for many men, and most good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:35 PM
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Let’s get real. Those chicks wouldn’t have even given those men the time of day had they not been hot in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:58 PM
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You clearly insinuated that men are lonely due to being bad people. Stop pussyfooting around it and take some damn responsibility for your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:37 PM
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No one shames virgin men So you just invalidated all the times women have shamed me for my virginity IRL. Since you seem to think it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:42 AM
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So the worst thing you've ever done to a man that required personal accountability was merely scheduling too many things at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:41 AM
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W.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:40 AM
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W.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:39 AM
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You are one of the few women I've ever known that actually is in the 1%, so this doesn't necessarily apply to you. Still, W of a post as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:39 AM
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Based. W.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:36 AM
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I mean, technically that's only one incident. The second one is too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:34 AM
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I think DV takes the cake. W.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:48 AM
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I’ve got excellent anti-virus software so I’m good ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:46 AM
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There are many examples, but most of them are quite personal. Seems like a copout, but fine, I'll accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:17 PM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:13 PM
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Second one is kinda vague but given your track record I'll accept it as valid. W.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:13 PM
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Women ALWAYS say that dating isn't a competition. Y'all contradict each other ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:05 PM
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Q4W and simultaneously CMV: Name two times you did a man wrong and owned up to your actions and took responsibility - without blaming the man, whether directly or indirectly. The CMV is that women have an almost impossible time accepting responsibility, especially when wronging a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:53 PM
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And this here is the problem. Normal skills are "boring," so women gravitate to the rambunctious bad boy because even though he's a douche, he's "interesting."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:49 PM
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Women shame virgin men all the time, especially on here, calling us misogynist, sexist assholes without warrant or repercussion. No one calls them out on their slander and accusations, but a man expresses distaste in promiscuous women and all hell breaks loose. Women need to deal with the consequences of their actions. If a woman wants to hoe it up, go ahead, but be aware that many good men can and justifiably will find that repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:45 PM
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Right. It's called "consequences," though women seem to think only men have to deal with negative ones and that they themselves are always exempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:43 PM
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That's exactly why I'm downloading it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:52 PM
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My porn is taking way too long to download SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:41 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that women are sexualizing themselves. It's not just some innocent "women made this to dance with friends!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:34 PM
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It's not unfounded. All it takes is one woman's claim that a random man was making her feel "uncomfortable" because he was "staring." Doesn't have to be true at all, and the establishment will kick him out for it. It's not just a bit "sucky," it infringes on the man's rights and forces him into odd and non-normal behavior in order to acquiesce to women. Even then it's not a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:25 PM
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When women first entered all these industries they were dominanted by men at the top But most men are at the bottom. I don't know why women judge men based off the top 1% of power holders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:16 PM
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I partially believe this. It is true that there are no men in the video and it's not explicitly meant for men. However, no one can be so obtuse so as to deny the literal lyrics of the song. Women are lying to themselves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:15 PM
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So trying and failing is the equivalent of an "empty promise?" A man can "do the work" and put himself out there and still see no success. How is that man supposed to be confident? Why isn't he allowed to have self-esteem issues when all he's known is failure despite effort? Why should he be punished despite investment? Women are not expected to put in that effort without a reward at the end. That, or traumatized women are allowed to enter relationships despite lack of effort and the man is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:06 PM
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So men have to accept women with trust issues and need to acquiesce in order to make them feel comfortable, but damn the men who bother to have a bit of human acceptance issues. The hypocrisy is stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:34 PM
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If people will never be “complete,” then why do women constantly push the BS “improvement” to incels and the like when they’ll never be complete?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:04 PM
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But that opens the door to being bullied without the ability to stand up for yourself. Personal example: one of my sister’s friends threw me into an AC unit when I was 2/3. Even though I was a literal toddler, I was not allowed to retaliate in any way to a chick who was three years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:02 PM
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This proves women can’t take accountability. Most of the answers either implicate men or they say “both sexes need to improve” without sining women. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:56 PM
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Yes, and the women’s job is to vet to see if he’s viable. You can’t control what the man does so why worry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:49 PM
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This is about what WOMEN can do to improve, not men. There’s literally thousands of threads and articles for that. For once, it’s time to actually discuss women putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:45 PM
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So you admit this question was not asked in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:39 PM
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This is prime Just World Fallacy here. "Only good, non-sexist men see romantic success with women." This has been disproven time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:09 AM
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What’s the point of this post? Men’s preferences being shamed yet again? Gee, I’m SHOCKED I tell you! News flash: men, like women, will find different things attractive. In the 1910s, fat women were seen as most attractive. In the 1950s, fuller yet curvy women were seen as most attractive. In the 90s it was the super skinny model-esquires chicks that got the title. Right now it happens to be the “slim thick” look. But really, for every man that prefers the trend, there’s another that couldn’t ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:48 AM
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Similar thing happened to me. Women love negating our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:29 AM
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Sounds like you’ve been alpha widowed. Do you think you were longing for something he ultimately wasn’t up for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:02 AM
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Not never, but that's still being disingenuous. Women will be like: I'm taking pics with friends at the beach! And then post thirst traps of herself in suggestive poses wearing a thong onto IG. Then they'll have the nerve to get angry when her BF dislikes it. It is totally reasonable to expect behavior that is acceptable when single to become unacceptable when in a relationship. This is one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:14 AM
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Be honest now. Women post many pics of themselves while scantily clad and without anyone but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:09 AM
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Yes, because not wanting your SO to wear just a sports bra and booty shorts in 50 degree weather to the grocery store is equivalent to only showing the eyes. /s A false equivalency if I ever saw one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:07 AM
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Is this wrong? MAYBE. Stop the lies - you know it's wrong. The least you could do is accept responsibility. If you're going to ruin an innocent man's reputation based off your own insecurities, the least you could do is own up to your actions. Instead, you try to shy away from it and justify your poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:52 PM
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Great to hear that you endorse and have engaged in bullying of men. Yet you whine about men "mistreating" women constantly. By your logic, women just need to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:50 PM
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But most men here complain literaly that women don't want to fuck them. I don't think it's most men, I think it's a very vocal minority. Many men don't know how to express themselves eloquently if I'm honest, but I'm willing to bet that most single lonely guys here and elsewhere long for a fulfilling relationship more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:30 PM
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Do you mean "you" in the general sense? Because if you're talking about me specifically, I certainly do (or did) long for a meaningful relationship. I even responded in the main thread as much. One of my biggest dreams was to start a family and be a soccer dad. Not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:22 PM
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when there's an assumption of you that's out there that taints discourse with someone, you'd want to clear the air. Yup. You don't want to be associated with something negative due to something you have no control over. No different than a black person not wanting to automatically be associated with gangs and crime* *Race was mentioned as an apt comparison, not to bait or promote ignorant discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:19 PM
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Much of the male-posts are deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:00 PM
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Gonna have to disagree with OP here. Yes, people have their own free will and yes women make their beds and need to lay in it in regards to being willing sex dolls, but let's not sit here and pretend that some men don't play the game insipidly. Plenty of guys know how to manipulate women's heartstrings to use them for sex-only. This is a well-known fact and has been going on for literal centuries. Do I think most men do this? No. Is it a large portion of sexually attractive males who know the ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:00 PM
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I don't understand men not wanting love. I think a lot of it is c0pe to be honest. Most humans - man, woman, indifferent - want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:55 PM
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No, I don't want to be settled for, which is one massive reason why I remain single. I refuse to be settled for and I refuse to settle myself. And on the contrary, I do (or at least did) long for love and true intimacy. I had to learn to STOP loving so hard because women just didn't put in the amount of effort I did, which led to me getting ran over time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:54 PM
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But women usually don't actively hurt men. That is a lie. Women absolutely do actively hurt men, and it is often. Now I'm not gonna say the majority of women seek to actively hurt men, but definitely a strong contingent do. Women are willing to listen and talk about it. No they aren't. If y'all were, you wouldn't dismiss an agitated lonely male as a sexist creep within seconds of him describing his misfortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:51 PM
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This is such a loaded question. Does it ever occur that the reason he's agitated is due to his lack of success? I mean, people who are successful are not guaranteed to be happier than the opposite, but mostly, they are. You're being dishonest if you cannot plainly see that lack of success directly leads to destitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:02 PM
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You exist as a woman, you are sexy by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:32 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:58 PM
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Totally. This is the equivalent of a dick measuring contest…that only he’s participating in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:55 PM
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For a woman, yes, that would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:54 PM
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I…am stunned. I agree with both u/DreaminChocolate and u/TSquaredRecovers in the same thread? I did a double take there. But I agree with both of y’all’s posts. Even if it is a majority of men doing this, there are plenty of men who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:36 PM
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Women are far more shallow and selfish than men, and it isn’t close either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:38 PM
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True xD. I’m just going by what she said lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:35 PM
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So now women are forcing men to date women with literal genital herpes: https://www.insider.com/10-million-people-watched-womans-reaction-herpes-diagnosis-2023-11 And women don’t want other women to feel shame or face rejection due to their diagnosis, despite the fact that the subject rejected men with the same disease before. Hypocrites and women, name a better duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:34 PM
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Most do not want to deal with walking red flags. Yet Chad's red flags are excused time and again while the virgin's are enflamed and multiplied beyond what they truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:22 PM
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When 2+2 ends up equaling 666.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:14 PM
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Non-sequitur. You also avoided the point entirely. Women have a bad habit of projecting the worst qualities of men they hate onto the entire profile of men who fit it, yet excusing the worst qualities of the men they prefer. This often ends up as women continuing to give abusers chance after chance while fleeing from a good man after he gets frustrated one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:08 PM
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What is this "treating them normal" nonsense? If a man is interested in a woman, he's going to treat her differently than he would someone he's not interested in. That's normal for anyone, women included. It's so dumb and tired this trope of accusing men of being insidious when in reality they're just practicing normal human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:05 PM
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"I tried it twice, therefore all men who fit that profile are bad, teehee!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:03 PM
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nO iNcEl cOnTeNt!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:02 PM
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I also think some men do not look into body language enough. If she’s shrinking away from from you or trying to face away she might not like you. Let's not be obtuse and assume women's body language isn't ambiguous or purposefully vague. Women pride themselves on their plausible deniability in order to avoid confrontation/rejection, so they purposely make their body language ambiguous. Perfect examples of this include rapid blinking, giggling, hair twirling/flipping, touching, flirting, etc. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:01 PM
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Because according to them that's the most insidious, evil variant of male there is. They'd rather be beaten and bruised by Chad than even give that dude a chance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:55 PM
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Time to Palestinemaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:43 PM
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Barely anyone took it seriously? She reported it to police, he was arrested, and he was convicted. Sounds like they took it seriously to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:41 PM
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Megan tha Stallion looking to take advantage of betabuxx now that her slut days are over: https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/megan-thee-stallion-going-stingy-140820310.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:15 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:04 PM
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I agree. Two things are at play here though, one I think you'll agree with and the other not so much. But I've experienced both: The leeway given to how much Chad can do and get away with outside of social graces increases due to his disposition. An innocent gesture (i.e. a passing glance) is demonized by a normal man while welcomed by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:55 PM
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And that gets into the forbidden “L” word discussion because of Chad’s physical disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:56 PM
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That’s why I’m now mostly a homebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:52 PM
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So your equivalent to getting approached by an average man is a man getting approached by a literal criminal? What a dumbass comparison, not even worth discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:48 PM
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That’s the excuse I hear but never see. I’ve actually seen far more women insult men than the other way around. When a man finally breaks due to the abuse and retorts back in self defense, women are all “gotcha!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:46 PM
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I know, I interact with women daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:44 PM
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Of course it's the ruling principle, nothing's changed outside some men groggily waking form their slumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:32 AM
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Just world fallacy. Most men who struggle put in effort, but predictably you refuse to notice or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:45 PM
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27 and 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:51 PM
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Many men don't have issues talking with women, it's talking to women they're attracted to. This isn't even unique to men, as women also have fear when talking to guys they're crushing on. It's just that, to the naked eye, it seems men fall for women more often, thus leading them to be more nervous around women they're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:39 AM
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Through the darkness of the night…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:07 AM
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I scrutinize women more for many reasons, none the least of which being their free-pass given to them at nearly any and all levels of Western society. For a long time I subscribed that men were worse than women, but the behavior of women gradually changed my reality. Men are far kinder and more thoughtful to me than women, save for my relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:50 AM
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I don’t think so in that case. If drunk people can’t consent, there’s no logical way for them to defend either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:13 AM
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You hope that the woman accepts your advances and reciprocates interest. Whether that be her giving you her number, accepting a date, chilling together after closing time, etc. Ofc many men want sex (though I'm not a casual sex guy), but it all starts with the offer of a drink. It is a clear form of communication that's been used for over a century now, that is until women have started abusing the function.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:39 PM
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The OP's example was a good one. There's chemistry between you two but when you ask her out or for her number, she blurts out "I have a boyfriend." If she had a boyfriend, then why did she accept an invitation for a clear act of romantic interest? The man isn't using or misleading the woman by purchasing a drink - in fact, he's being quite honest. It's the dishonesty that irritates me and other men the most. If you're not interested in anything other than talking, fine, but don't accept my gestu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:36 PM
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For romantic/sexual interest. Bars are one of the few acceptable "third-spaces" left available for people to socialize and meet to form relationships. As such, a man treating a woman to a drink is a clear invitation of interest to open communication. There's also a clear "yes/no" for the woman to bow out gracefully yet safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:32 PM
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There are literally thousands of movies with female leads. This blatantly false narrative of movies lacking female leads needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:27 PM
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Wrong. Jenny hurt Forrest and Forrest Jr. due to her actions. Her actions were not victimless at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:23 PM
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No, it's the premise. I don't mind spending money if the women has shown to be interested genuinely. If the woman feigns attraction to get free and complimentary stuff (which is common), that's what drives my ire. And if the reverse were to happen, women would never let men hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:22 PM
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She was a broken person. That doesn't excuse her faults and the damage she caused. Would we defend a man acting the same way? I got the answer to that: hell no. And she still exhibited behaviors similar to other women by chasing the bad boy and saving the good guy for sloppy seconds. Was it due to the same reasons as most women? No. Did she still do it anyway? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:18 PM
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She didn't run off to chase some Chad Thundercock. She wasn't doing some beta bux bullshit Honest question: have you watched Forrest Gump? Because that's exactly what she did in the film. Okay, it wasn't Chad - it was a bad boy - but she put him on the backburner until she ran out of time. Not to mention she never told Forrest she was dying and could've infected him also.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:58 PM
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No one's required to share their time, but if she's not interested in giving the man her time, then decline the drink. A man giving a woman a drink is an indication of interest. Only the most socially awkward do not understand this, and apparently it's mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:40 PM
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Because unless you're socially awkward, everyone knows that a man buying a drink for a woman indicates romantic/sexual interest. Don't play coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:39 PM
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I clearly stated that if it were JUST flirting between two parties it wouldn't be a problem. It's the act of buying a drink and her accepting, full-well knowing what the connotation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:36 PM
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He's talking about what's realistic, not about what happens <1% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:40 PM
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I'd be pissed because not only did I waste time, I wasted both that AND money. All to prop a bitchy woman's ego without anything in return. If it were just flirtation I wouldn't be mad, both parties had their time wasted equally. But men almost always expend more money than the woman during courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:39 PM
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Friends blocking other friends from doing stupid things they may not realize is perfectly fine and what true friends should do. People operate with rose-tinted glasses on and sometimes an objective third-party is necessary to intervene. The problem is women only cock-block when the dude is [redacted]; it's got nothing to do with morality outside of projection. For the bully, sexist, abusive Chad, the friend encourages her to swallow his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:37 PM
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Watch it with your lack of civility. You used Harley Quinn as an example. Seriously? She's exalted as a hero nowadays. She got her own TV show and movie for Pete's sake! And for every female villain, you can name two or three male villains, especially over the course of the last 30 years. Not my fault Eve disobeyed the Lord first before Adam. God still punished them both if you ever bothered to actually read the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:11 PM
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Why? Forrest was a genuinely good human being who cared for those around him. His mother, Bubba, Lt. Dan, etc. Far cry from the "fake nice guy" women claim to say. And Jenny still took advantage of him year after year. Forrest was far better morally than Jenny, it's not close, and honestly it's not subjective either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:36 PM
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Why? Is media not allowed to portray women as being poor human beings while portraying men as good? I think I answered my own question actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:34 PM
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You missed the point: no one pursued him! He lucked into success but was still unsuccessful with women. They pretty much predicted the current dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:33 PM
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Lol, Matt Rife's biggest fans are female simps who only like him due to his [redacted]. The reason he's allowed to say the inflammatory stuff he says is because women allow it. They're his audience, not men. It's telling how you have to go back 30+ years in order to find arbitrary, vague examples of your victim narrative. I live in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:58 PM
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If men don’t like to read about women expressing frustration it’s super easy to simply not read it. No. Women hating men is mainstream. It's everywhere in media, from journalism, to news outlets, to music, to TV, to movies, to books, to magazines, to comics, to video games, etc. It is and has been en vogue to be misandrist for sometime now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:57 PM
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But similar male spaces are shut down and excoriated as sexist, incel hellholes. No one gives a damn about why those men are angry, jaded, degraded, and upset. No one attempts to meet those men where they are, which is why any male space to commiserate is immediately shut down. Whereas women's spaces are allowed to exist as misandrist pits because women are allowed to voice their frustration however they see fit, even if it means painting all men as evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:48 PM
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LMAO @ those who think friends can replicate, satiate, or replace the desire for a romantic relationship. Friends =/= romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:08 PM
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It's the selfishness and the heinous attempts at justifying it along with the hypocrisy that get me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:07 PM
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Chad problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:26 PM
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nO iNcEl cOnTeNt!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:15 PM
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Women don’t have to bring much to the table because they have crevices that men will literally kill to get into. I do agree with others that if men didn’t think with our little heads so often we’d see a lot clearer and have higher standards. Instead, we simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:43 AM
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Not being 6 feet, not having a $100k+ job, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:41 PM
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This makes no sense. The instant that becomes public, the employer faces the threat of job loss and legal litigation, not to mention public scrutiny. Also, it's against the law. I've never heard of such a thing happening in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:52 AM
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I don't understand his premise. I've hugged my male friends since childhood. Apparently I'm not supposed to be doing that? lmao. Am I not allowed to hug my dad or my brothers either?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:28 AM
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No. I hug them because they’re my friends. I hug my male friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:40 PM
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There's a reason they're divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 PM
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Dude, what is your obsession with calling everyone Yankees? Did you teleport from Georgia circa 1910?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:53 PM
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Women don't compliment men lol (excluding Chad ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:50 PM
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Of course all the women come out en masse in order to back each other up in order to make women seem superior to men. I swear their in-group bias is so heavy they will NEVER call another woman out no matter the circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:07 PM
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I certainly respect that you as a woman are asking men out. That is beyond rare. May I ask what the type of man you are pursuing is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:47 AM
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First off, I did not know this. I can’t imagine the crap you had to go through. My god. Secondly and more apt to the OP, I think there’s a difference between a woman who chooses to do OF on her own accord vs someone (let alone a child) being forced into it against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:40 AM
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Firstly, that’s not nearly the only thing we discuss. Sports, video games, work, etc. Secondly, it’s just a matter of fact that there are women who cause issues in men’s lives. For some reason it’s considered evil, wrong, or sexist to acknowledge this. If a man did a woman wrong we’d call him out on it - actually, we do. But a woman aggrieves a man and all of a sudden we tell the man “get over it,” “take responsibility,” “pull yourself up from your bootstraps,” “women don’t owe you anything,” et…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:56 PM
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Honestly, I personally don’t have a problem with female fan fiction (it’s fiction after all). The premise we’re debating on right now is faulty to say the least. My frustration lies more at the hypocrisy: women who objectify men in fan fiction getting worked up over men objectifying women in their media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:51 PM
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It’s been getting called out for decades. Literally since the 90s when people were angry that Chun-Li showed too much leg. Also, sexualization of women =/= creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:19 PM
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Having friends does not negate nor satiate the desire for a romantic relationship. It is entirely possible for someone to have a strong friend circle yet still be lonely due to a lack of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:17 PM
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Small areolas>big areolas don't @ me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:32 PM
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They gon' come for her dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:31 PM
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Pretty much all negative behavior from women is swept under the rug and/or justified IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:30 PM
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Women are entitled to a physically appealing man as much as vice versa. This sounds like some "nice guy" BS. No one is entitled to a physically appealing partner. We men are told that daily, but I knew women dismiss this for themselves ofc. And what does it say about men's standards for themselves when only a woman who has no choice in the matter selects them? The point is that in the past women had the option to select good looking men but forewent them for men who were not nearly as good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:27 PM
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I'm of the opinion that cleavage or ridiculously short/booty shorts/hotpants shouldn't be shown on TV or in public but I know I'm in the vast minority of opinion on that. Plus that'd limit women's swimwear, competitive sportswear, etc, and I don't think that's fair either. So I manage to deal with it despite my own opinions otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:20 PM
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I don't think she's fake. I've seen her resolutions for being TRP before and I think they make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah, that's low. Everything should be aired in the public debate forum with as little ad homs as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:16 PM
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Considering that "underboob" and "sideboob" aren't considered "nudity" or being "scantily clad" anymore, I'm begrudgingly inclined to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:14 PM
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This is why I am neither. Women don't lose at all in this current realm. Only men are losers, and women let men know every damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:43 PM
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Vague personal attack is still a personal attack. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:42 PM
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I have attempted to organize male-only meetings IRL and online. I meet with my friends (males) to touch base on our lives. A lot of my good friends are being raked over the coals (by women) and we vent to and with each other. But if anyone were to find out, our group would immediately be labeled "misogynist" or "sexist" for voicing our real and logical concerns and life situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:09 PM
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What video games have a prevalence of "male creepiness?" Most video games anymore are objective based and do not feature anything of the sort unless it's to drive the story forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:03 PM
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That's just the norm everywhere dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:27 PM
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You missed the part that said those women were happy despite those men's looks. Meaning those men were actually good men despite your narrative that good men = good looking. In 2023, those men would be rejected before even approaching due to women's hedonistic egos. And there are an equal amount of ugly average men and women, but women refuse to date their equivalent due to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:21 PM
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If they approach, they get shut down, falsely accused, and/or are considered creepy. Women repeatedly make it clear that they aren’t interested in being approached by men so men listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:16 PM
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Only true answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:10 PM
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Because women will say basic shit like that but in reality will allow all that from Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:07 PM
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Most of the things you claim are “vile” aren’t even close to being such, and are far tamer than what women call men. There was never a trending hashtag for “killallwomen” for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:45 AM
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True. I used to watch porn sporadically. Now I watch nearly everyday since I threw in the towel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:03 AM
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It was sarcasm my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:17 PM
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No incl content
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:30 AM
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Why do you assume most men have no effort? Repeating false stereotypes of single men in order to gaslight them into believing they are putting in no effort - typical. Most of these dudes will never meet the ever rising attraction threshold of the average woman, which is indeed becoming delusional. Women want men who are in the top 20% of looks, even if they themselves are bottom 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:19 AM
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You seem to think that courting women is “easy.” Explains your abject lack of empathy for men and bias toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:10 AM
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Actually the women in those videos are the norm nowadays. It is indeed a reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:08 AM
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Looks dictate n count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:49 PM
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They’ll never be satisfied. It’s like a cat chasing a toy: once it grabs it, the fun ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:49 PM
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ALL men? What projection. If women’s self esteem is on the floor that’s 100% their own fault. People actually give a damn about women’s self esteem. They couldn’t care any less about a man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:31 PM
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“I personally don’t see it, therefore it doesn’t exist.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:24 PM
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Average men are by definition average looking, just like average women. Difference is average women spurn average men daily because they think they "deserve" better (they don't).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:12 AM
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That is still better than getting nothing at all. And don’t lie, most women are not only getting approached by “undesirable” men like y’all scream and whine about. You’re getting approached by average guys but will still reject them due to ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:08 PM
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That is still better than getting nothing at all. And don’t lie, most women are not only getting approached by “undesirable” men like y’all scream and whine about. You’re getting approached by average guys but will still reject them due to ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:07 PM
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That was a poor example but all one needs to do is look here at PPD. Men disagree with each other all the time, and a large contingent defend and back up women. Women just double down on each other and never even attempt to see the man’s side lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:02 PM
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They don’t have to offer anything I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:56 PM
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He’s judging based on reality. Women will always take n count numbers down while men always take them up. Doesn’t matter if the poll is anonymous. That’s why the famous 63% survey was so damning. That men, even anonymously, told them that 63% of them were single means the REAL numbers are likely far, far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:55 PM
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Lol most women in 2023 are shallow 😂. Finding a down to earth woman is more difficult than walking on water.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:51 PM
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Nope. There are more good men now than ever before. The difference is that women are now more shallow than ever before. They want it all because they’ve been preached that they can get whatever they want while being worse of a person than her mother and grandmother. Women only consider men “good” if they’re good [redacted], tall (over 6’), if they make over $100k (minimum), work an “acceptable” job (no blue collar losers), and have “acceptable” hobbies (no gaming). Overall, to women it may seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:38 PM
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Nope. You get the examples I wrote out. Since you clearly won’t be convinced either way and judging by your heinous and contemptuous, combative attitude, that’s all you’ll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:32 PM
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I literally gave a personal example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:32 AM
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iCarly was a far more creative concept which was actually ahead of its time. Victorious was fking hilarious at times but the show just turned into Schneider’s outlet to try batshit crazy stuff that made no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:07 PM
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And most can’t even do that. Either the men aren’t chosen or the women divorce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:06 PM
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Lol for real. Convicted pedo>single lonely male
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:00 PM
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And they are continually shut down the moment women find out because either it doesn’t include them, or it’s “misogynist.” Hence square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:43 PM
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I gave examples in lilith’s response. Available for everyone to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:42 PM
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I actually agree with this but for different reasons. Women only get with old men for their checkbooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:24 PM
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And where have the echo chambers for men gone? They've been infiltrated by unempathetic women or shut down due to false accusations of "misogyny." Women's echo chambers are supported, endorsed, and subsidized - often by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:40 PM
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It was never about nice guys who thought they were owed something This is a direct quote from the OP. Clearly did not read to the end. You're just hung up on your "men are owed!" narrative you can't see objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:03 PM
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If they don't admit it, they lose the victim narrative. Women would then have to admit their shallowness, which will absolutely never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:48 PM
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This is one of the most factual posts ever posted here. Well done sir. No doubt people will try to justify and excuse women's behavior like usual though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:47 PM
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So warning another poster about someone who is not arguing in good faith now counts as a "personal attack?" It wasn't "behind your back," it was on a public forum - in the same thread - that you've posted on. I wasn't hiding anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:19 PM
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Do not attempt to smear me. What I stated was not a personal attack. You did in fact twist my words. Own it like you claim men need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:05 PM
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I should have specified "more extreme in their anti-male bias."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:37 PM
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Don't bother. She'll twist your words and examples to conform to her own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:18 PM
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Most of my friends are unattractive males and females, so yes, I would've talked to her otherwise. Nice projection though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:17 PM
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Did you completely negate the fact that it was a WOMAN who suggested me to do that? It was never on my radar until she suggested it. It was the one and only time I'd ever done that, and it obviously didn't work. Yet you blame me instead of the woman twice my age who gave me the bad advice. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:16 PM
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The left is more extreme than the right and the left is predominant in mainstream culture. However, the one constant from the left and right is the denigration of lonely males. No matter whether a woman is left or right, it is very likely neither will have any sort of empathy for single lonely men at all. For the left, it's all about the sexism angle; for the right, it's all about the "personal responsibility" angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:14 PM
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I literally posted a personal example following this. You see what you wanna see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:08 PM
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I am a registered independent. I lean center-right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:03 PM
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You’re moving goalposts now (typical). But I’ll use a personal example: Back in the day I had the hots for this one chick. I asked a female friend who was much older than me for advice. She told me to be her friend first and then see where it goes. So I tried it out and became my crush’s friend. Was all fine and dandy till another guy came in and circumvented that - amazingly, he didn’t need to be her friend. He nabbed her and I was left in the friendzone. All the women I went to afterward as I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:53 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:47 PM
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It should be obvious but here are some common ones: “I was friends with this woman for a while before developing feelings. I told her the truth and she was offended; I got friendzoned.” “OMG, shame on you! You’re not supposed to use female friendships to get into relationships!” “I joined some social clubs and attempted to interact with the women there but no one reciprocated. I made friends but I’m still lonely.” “OMG, shame on you! Join social clubs for the activity, not to meet girls you frea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:46 PM
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Misery loves company. If he isn’t breaking laws let him be. Especially since being altruistic and kind will still garner the same accusations otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:27 AM
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Not true. Someone can be negatively influenced by life experiences. People who’ve been gaslit and beat down their whole lives are understandably going to be less kind than those whose outlook hasn’t been ruined. Therefore, he was legitimately nice beforehand, now he’s justifiably jaded. This is allowed for women of course but disallowed for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:26 AM
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It sucks but she’ll be praised because gIrL pOwEr!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:06 PM
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Thank you. Music is an influence, but it's more often than not a reflection of culture, not the forerunner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:08 AM
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This is why I cannot debate with you. You are gaslighting and accusing me of something that is false. You will not ever empathize with men because your priority is find find fault with us and accuse us while expunging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:28 PM
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If we're referring to the men who commonly complain online, they are not doing so in "calm or muted manners" Not true, most are calm. You are only taking the extremely small minority into account. they're calling for government-appointed sex slaves Again, that is an extremely small minority doing this. It's disingenuous to claim otherwise. You are being gentle and calm with Eilish whereas men are never given such benefit of the doubt. You saw her pain and anguish yet immediately claim single lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:56 AM
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The women here who are justifying, agreeing with, and praising Eilish are more evidence that women not only lack empathy for these men (especially ugly or single lonely men), but that they actively enjoy taking part of their denigration. Eilish has a long history of lambasting these guys needlessly, yet she is excused because "women are wonderful!" Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:32 AM
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Many men have negative experiences with women, but we're not allowed to convey our frustrations even in calm or muted manners. We must "suck it up" otherwise we're whining, complaining, entitled, sexist, etc. But women, even privileged ones like Eilish, are allowed to denigrate and make asinine comments continually and are either excused from them (like you're doing) or are praised for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:29 AM
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Why should we overlook, justify, or forgive Eilish's derogatory comments toward ugly men? If a man were to say this, what would you say? Would you attempt to look at where he was coming from like you did Eilish? Or would you blame him for being sexist and/or misogynist and perpetuating the patriarchy? My guess is the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:25 AM
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We are literally taking her comments at her word, along with her insidious history of making snide remarks toward ugly men in particular. This isn't a one-off, it's not a fluke. She clearly is jaded against ugly men and lashes out at them in particular. She's attempting to influence young girls to stay away from ugly men under the incorrect and false premise that ugly=morally wrong. It has nothing to do with this "underage" made-up BS that you are attempting (and failing) to peddle about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:23 AM
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You are making excuses for women yet blaming men for the same things. You bring up confirmation bias yet you're the one using it. Is it possible for once for women to say "you know what, you're right, those were ugly comments and weren't right or justified." Instead, you say she's justified and excuse her of wrong until after age 30, whereas you blame teenage boys. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:18 AM
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No it's not true. Just because <1% of ugly men do it does not mean it's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:14 AM
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It absolutely is by women and bluepillers who are the majority of participants now on this subreddit. Even if it was common here (it isn't), PPD is clearly a niche within a niche (Reddit) within one subset of a subset of society. It clearly ain't mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:11 AM
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You continue to make snide remarks and comment in bad faith. I clearly made a delineation that there are some who buck the trend. But instead of wondering what shaped my experiences, you invalidate them, something I'm certain you'd never do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:10 AM
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This makes no sense. If I saw someone coming in to follow up with their job app at my job there's a 99% chance I'd hire them for the job. In fact I have done that. They're screwing you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:35 AM
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Yes they are. Women know this truly but the sisterhood must never blame one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:34 AM
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I agree, but that doesn't mean she isn't a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:29 AM
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She's a young woman. Over 18. Stop moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:03 AM
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He's not saying you can't say that. He's saying it should be culturally shamed, just as if a man were to utter those things he'd instantly be labeled a sexist. Women are applauded for saying what Gold_Supermarket1956 wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:41 AM
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Yes. One is a normal guy who women think is useless, disgusting, ugly, sexist, and misogynist. The others are Chad and Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:41 PM
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Swiss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:39 PM
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I purposely suppressed my desire on numerous occasions because I knew there was no shot in hell I'd have a chance with them or other women. That's how I've managed to only get burned a few times rather than all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:31 PM
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How is it underrated lmao? It is literally the most common of all “tropes” whether in media or IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:14 PM
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I had about three crushes in HS. None of ‘em wanted anything to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:13 PM
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Men are told not to enter social groups for meeting women. Had this conversation with another redditor yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:12 PM
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Women reward those men with attention, devotion, sex, and relationships. The bullied are outcast and neglected. I know it’s cute to virtue signal, but women perpetuate this just as much as men and are often the driving influence as to why men do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:28 AM
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I don’t date men because I am a straight male attracted to women. This shouldn’t even have to be stated. Many women are devoid of personality, and the epidemic is getting worse. Still, there are a few that possess the ability to be interesting and fun. For a while for me it was worth it to search and put in effort. I’ve long since given up though. I find it funny how women like you always attempt to discredit mine and other men’s experiences though. This gaslighting and invalidation would be cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:18 AM
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This is a straight up sexist comment. Men and women are on the same level, but women’s inflated egos have them thinking they’re God’s gift to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:01 AM
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In English please?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:00 AM
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Drunk driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:02 AM
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So if people care about the wellbeing as you say, then why don't women follow that same advice when it comes to single lonely men? Why does the care for those guys' wellbeing not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:57 AM
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Fine, make it a prerequisite that they need to either have graduated high school or emancipated first. My opinion outside of that stands unchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:19 AM
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Many fuckboys are not at all "laid-back." Many are hyper, aggressive, ornery, rude, selfish, narcissistic, sexist, and straight up bad. Still doesn't hurt their chances whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:04 AM
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I personally think alcohol should be reduced to age 18 too but I'm not gonna whine about it being "unfair" or anything. Same with smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:03 AM
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Not letting people of able age make their own choices/decisions. That's what it comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:00 AM
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No. In the US in most states, the legal age constituting an adult is 18. You can be drafted into the military at 18 (well men, women are of course exempt). You can live on your own without having to go through the emancipation process. Porn should not be restricted to 21+ just because you personally don't like it. Let it also be known that most women in the US choose to go into porn on their own! Quit it with this "poor wittle women" narrative. They have agency and choice like anyone else, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:51 AM
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The argument is that he continues to talk to women in hopes that one may actually be able to carry out a conversation, not that he'd get with an uninterested woman. And women will divorce men regardless because modern women will divorce for any and all minute reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:43 AM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:30 AM
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lol having a family is not at all rock bottom. It's this mindset that is ruining the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:26 AM
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This is the excuse making that is oddly available to fuckboys but an awkward man saying "hello" is unafforded. Automatically assuming the fuckboy's actions are made in jest and excuses are made for him while the awkward man is called a sexist incel for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:16 AM
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Because maybe we would like to get married and have a family of our own? What type of question is this? Honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:13 AM
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Why? Who are you to tell someone that? That's what women AND men have done since the dawn of time. Now, women have decided that they are somehow better than men and refuse to bring any semblance of effort and leave at the first sight of an "ick."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:05 AM
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Because men aren't women. What get's women off is different than what gets men off. I can't even believe I read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:01 AM
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So how come men are often criticized for being "insecure" like it's the worst sin?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:55 PM
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Don't be obtuse. You've made plenty of comments along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:50 PM
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No, these men do NOT exist in high numbers. Prove it if you're so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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Firstly, women post pictures of themselves for attention due to narcissism. If you really wanted to see how good you look you'd look into a damn mirror. Now, for men: It serves no benefit because most women find most men ugly Men would automatically be accused of being selfish and/or narcissistic Men would be gaslit as "effeminate" due to taking selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:58 PM
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Marriage is mutual. This fear of marriage from modern women is ridiculous and unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:12 PM
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And why is he miserable? Because he wants to enter a relationship and is unable to. You act like wanting a relationship is an evil thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:53 PM
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At least we know it's hereditary for her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:47 PM
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That woman could've had any man she wanted, yet she chose to pursue a fucking kid. I guarantee you though she prolly rejected hordes of good men because "they don't deserve me" or some BS. She deserves to rot under the prison for what she did. Absolute scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:42 PM
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I highly doubt he's lying about being a virgin. I do think he and the chick he's with are totally fabricating his "relationship" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:40 PM
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Circlejerking is allowed if you’re the right gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:36 AM
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There is no “set topic” on daily threads…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:40 PM
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You can’t change preferences. Shoe0nHead’s videos prove though that it is possible for women to have empathy without automatically blaming these men. That’s what I personally want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:37 PM
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That's almost a full paycheck (after taxes) for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:28 AM
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Ngl this the first time I’ve ever heard this happening from a woman (not hyperbole). I certainly would be more attracted to a kind woman than a cruddy woman with a stick up her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:31 PM
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Because Guy A is likely blue pill who’s believed society’s lies that any and all faults are men’s fault. As a result, he wrongfully blames himself for things that women do wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:09 PM
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It's not insinuating cheating. It's insinuating that women will leave if the conditions don't meet her levels of acceptability. This is true, and the divorce initiations prove this. There is no "ride or die" as women will leave men at the hint of discomfort, even for stupid, minute crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:32 PM
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There are plenty of women who don’t care what income their man makes Most do care. they’re all over this thread Even if the Reddit population accounted for 0.01% of all women (it's not nearly that high ofc), it'd still be but a microcosm of the actual population of women. And they, of course, wildly prefer men who make at least equal to them and preferably more. Once again, there is nothing wrong with a man whose goals don’t include that Most women do believe there's something wrong though, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:15 PM
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Women lie to Guy A so that he can still provide for them without reciprocation and so that Guy A won't wise up and revolt from an obvious losing position. Those men still need to provide something, whether it's resources, entertainment, attention, services, etc. A man that does nothing is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:08 PM
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Where did I say monolith? I am speaking in generalities, and we'd be daft to be blind to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:35 PM
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Most maternity leaves in the US last for 10 or more weeks now (at full pay). You would not be solely relying on your partner's income for those two-and-a-half months. Your post proves that women do not like SAHD as has been mentioned before. Women prefer men who are at least at their equal income level, preferably more, because men are worthless otherwise. Not wanting to move up in professions is not an indicator of lack of ambition/laziness. Perhaps he's content with his state in life. Perhaps …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:34 PM
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But you had and likely still do have a problem with a man that currently earns $40k without prospects of moving up, despite this not being an indicator of being a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:57 PM
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Man dating women =/= woman dating women. Nowhere near equivalent or the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:55 PM
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lol that's like saying you rejected a Rolls Royce for the Porsche. When you get to a certain point of luxury, you're just comparing luxuries, which is a privilege 99.9% most men will not ever experience, even in their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:41 PM
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Are you a man dating women? No? Then how would you truly know what works when attracting women? Most men know this and more and more are willing to be honest about it instead of lying to appease female shallowness. Truth hurts and ain't flattering to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:38 PM
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How is "she's not yours, it's just your turn" even misogynistic? That is nowhere near close to these (false) accusations of blaming women. It's understanding what a good large portion of women will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:33 PM
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I want women to be honest and: Not lie that women want men with nice personalities when in reality they chase bad boys Not lie and say looks don't matter a lot while they chase Chad Not gaslight virgin men into believing they're morally inferior just because women wouldn't go out with them Have empathy for single lonely men instead of brushing them off or telling them to "get responsibility" Stop calling single lonely men sexist/misogynist just because they express frustration at a lack of luck …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:30 PM
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Most women are superficial though, so improving superficial qualities that are within one's control is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:25 PM
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What does stonewalling have to do with this? You claimed that men who are continually rejected must have either something wrong with himself or is at fault. But plenty of evil men get into relationships without issue, which means there's nothing wrong with those men and they're never at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:09 PM
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So you started dating when he was upper middle class, and now he’s wealthy. Your example proves that women deny any normal man opportunity if given options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:42 PM
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So you apply that a man who is single is morally inferior than serial killers who get GFs. I always knew women apply morality to sexual status, and this is proof right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:37 PM
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Guy B. Women will lie and say they’d love guy A, but reality paints a different picture. Guy B will have far more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:34 PM
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I suffered from allergic hives for years just by smelling strawberries, I’d be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 AM
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Worked a 10.5 hr day and gotta go back in for the night shift another 9 hrs. Yippee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 AM
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Def neat. Wouldn’t say hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:56 AM
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Older men are far more understanding, more empathetic, kinder, more realistic even if not 100% perfect, and give actual tangible advice. Women gaslight, give shit advice “jUsT bE yOUrSelF!!!1!”, are not empathetic in the slightest, and generally hold contempt for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:43 PM
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Yes at the supermarket, no on the battlefield. Militaries require uniforms and dress codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:17 PM
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Not talking about a club. Talking about everyday life, like the library, grocery store, mall, DMV, etc. Women dress in only bras and booty shorts in 50 degree weather - this is not hyperbole. So for women to complain about "unrealistic" wear in video games when women IRL are more provocative, it is quite hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:51 AM
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The amount of people triggered by this post means it’s truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:37 AM
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Honestly women IRL are more scantily clad than in video games. The “problem” with females in video games is manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:28 AM
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Nearly every post of yours reveals true shallow and manipulative female behavior. You attempt to justify any and all wrongdoing from women while blaming men incessantly. Freaking A.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:16 AM
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Many people - especially women - invalidate these men's experiences. It happens often, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:46 PM
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Couldn't have stated it better myself!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:44 PM
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My last time playing I was so rusty to start out I had a KDR of .4 for most of the game. The lobby was so bad however that I ended the game on a 15 killstreak and was the top performer. Nothing like how it was back in '09.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 PM
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I'm just watching Jev's playthrough xD . I actually was a fan of the campaigns in both MW2019 and MWII (especially MWII), but I don't have the time nor the patience to play myself. Plus I love his overreactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:06 PM
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Is anyone actually gonna play MWIII? I stopped playing COD around December.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:52 PM
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Ariana is absolute garbage yes. Of course nearly every Millennial and Zoomer chick idolizes her and wants to be her though. I've been out of the modern music scene and pop culture in general since around 2017. I remember being hyped for Infinity War and Endgame, and the Warzone craze, but that's about it. Mostly listen to old 80s and 2k songs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:42 PM
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She sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:32 PM
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No one shamed, bullied, or ridiculed those folks away. Those men combated the clearly awful "advice" being given to them and were promptly falsely accused as creeps and misogynists. Most people "helping" lonely men are doing it to get them to shut up, not to genuinely improve their situation. So no, how about YOU stop gaslighting and blaming lonely men for things outside their control. Like I said, a serious lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:01 PM
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Incels are the last acceptable group in the West to mock, shame, gaslight, blame, and berate. Liberals hate them because "sexism," and conservatives hate them because "muh personal responsibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:56 PM
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So you're encouraging lying then, because like I mentioned, those dudes literally do not give a shit about your (general you) interests. And all those good-looking Chads are in it just to get in women's pants, but it doesn't seem to hurt them one bit. As long as they "flirt" (and flirting is literally building sexual attraction), it's apparently okay. But god forbid an average man is honest and respectful with his intentions...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:54 PM
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JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:50 PM
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Men already do this; women don't. Women are far pickier than men and these guys' supposed equals are Chad chasing just like all the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:34 PM
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Yes those bad boys feign interest, but it's easy to see when in occurs. Example: Super hot guy walks up to a woman: Interesting tattoo, what does it mean? Average awkward guy walks up to a woman: E-excuse me, b-but I just wanted to tell you I-I think you're pretty. Women will dismiss guy two and/or call him a creep while throwing themselves at guy one, even though guy two is genuine and guy one couldn't give a single fuck about tattoos; he just wants to get in her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:31 PM
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Men on this sub aren't misogynistic. More gaslighting to accuse lonely men of being morally wrong. That last point is just false lmao. Bad boys, evil men, actual misogynists will feign "respect" for women to get laid. Even other women know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:24 PM
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Height Hair (don't tell me this is mutable, hair plugs are dangerous and Rogaine shit doesn't always work) Face (i.e. jawline) Voice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:22 PM
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More lies. Misogynistic men get laid and laid often. "Caring for others" is absolutely not a prerequisite for getting laid, and can be omitted entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:09 PM
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Wrong. No one takes pity on unsuccessful lonely men. It's always "suck it up, pick yourself up from your bootstraps, no one owes you anything!" No one truly listens or empathizes, which of course causes natural resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:06 PM
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There are, particularly for men, but no one wants to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:04 PM
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This is actually based to a degree. Don't agree fully but there's no doubt that women are capping when they continuously claim women being kind and chatty to men are just "doing their jobs."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:50 PM
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100% truepilled right here. I know a few men who were so good looking women literally fought over them…while I was the initial one to break the ice. I’ve had to deal with lizard brain activation my whole life over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:53 AM
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I do avert my eyes, because I’ve been creep shamed more than once for just glancing in the general direction of a woman. So to avoid this happening, I do my best to shut down anything that could be misconstrued as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:51 AM
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Women have and always will fall for bad boys. Disgusting and illogical, but irrefutable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:49 AM
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More gaslighting to make it seem as if nice guys are the real villains. This is the shoddy justification women use to make themselves seem righteous and not shallow. It doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:48 AM
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That got on my freaking nerves back in the day. Sucks that it’s still happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:45 AM
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We’ll still get accused of being “manipulative” regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:15 PM
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I wouldn't say he fully got what he needed. I'm fairly certain he's bipolar and/or has Asperger's. He is in a better state and while my parents strongly dislike his current therapist, my brother seems to trust her and confides in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:36 PM
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What people are missing about teen love is not that the relationships formed as a teen lasting; indeed, most relationships during adolescence don't last long. The important aspect that many daft folks miss is the experience and social proof gained by being chosen. In a relationship, at least one woman approved you and went out of her way to see something in you. You gain confidence knowing that even if any other woman in the world thought you were an ugly hag, at least one didn't; that builds co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:04 PM
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Therapy can work, but the lengths it takes to find even a semi-competent therapist (especially as a man) is too long. I will use a personal example. My brother suffers from severe Tourette's (and likely other neurotypical disorders), but it took over ten years for doctors to diagnose him and over 5 different therapists. My parents shelled out over $20k in money they didn't have just for the therapists to tell them "nothing's wrong with your son" all while he is literally convulsing involuntarily…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:58 PM
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I work in the public sphere if that's what you're saying. I'd say 50% of couples are looksmatched, 40% the man is better looking, and 10% the woman is better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:09 PM
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No. Ugly men asked women what they needed to do to attract their crushes. These men already suspected that the primary reason for their rejection was due to their inherent physical appearance. Women instead lied and gaslit them by telling them they have a chance as long as they "just were themselves." This gave these ugly men a false sense of hope and benefits women so that they can siphon labor and resources from these men without forcing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:43 PM
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By taking women at their word when women claimed “looks don’t matter” or “it’s all about personality” or “just be yourself.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:10 PM
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Off topic: have you ever hooked up with a celebrity? If so, then who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:07 AM
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Fine. Have a good relationship with mom, grandmothers, aunts, and sissy. I avoid women in public now if I can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:40 PM
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Which is so dumb. That can be and often is a mask for garbage men. It has nothing to do with how "trustworthy" they are but how comfortable they make women feel. These guys are often still garbage men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:39 PM
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I'm also a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:34 PM
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Good bod #1: Skinny with slight curvature (e.g. Ava Max below) <image> Good bod #2: Fit with curves (e.g. Molly Querim) Bad bod: Fat lard (e.g. Lizzo)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:32 PM
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I've had a good relationship with my female relatives at least. Non-related females though have been a travesty. My one friend's girlfriend for instance continually mocks me and calls me an incel and sexist every time I say anything. She made it so bad that I don't even like to interact with him anymore; we used to be best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:28 PM
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Facts my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:25 PM
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Why are women so obsessed with men having female friends? Y'all aren't entitled to friendship just like men aren't entitled to relationships. Oh, and every female friendship I've had I was used and taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:25 PM
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Vag from behind in doggy is hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:33 PM
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Acknowledge the pain and hear those men out without gaslighting them or accusing them of sexism or misogyny would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:31 PM
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Takes a lot of motivation to write. I would know, as I'm currently in a months-long drought of procrastination.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 PM
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I love Sheetz!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 AM
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Sounds like all that RP stuff about the "wall" ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:56 AM
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I don't think it does either, was just answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:13 AM
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The Discord is actually more tame in my experience than the sub imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:57 AM
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Non-denominational, but if I had to choose the closest one I'd say Anglican.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 AM
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Girls from church are often more promiscuous than the scantily clad ones. I would know, I grew up in the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:51 AM
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I have a picture on my profile. I've been ridiculed by fellow PPD members and others offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:26 PM
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Remember though, China is trying to poster as the "anti-Western" alternative, and Israel has been aligned with the West since its modern inception. China is hoping to rebuff any of that, a big reason why they're toe-to-toe with Putin and courting the Taliban.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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They're ruled by the Houthis, who are aligned with Hamas and backed by Iran. Of course, they swear by Israel's destruction. The Saudis attempted to stage a coup and insurgency to overthrow the Houthis and failed spectacularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:23 PM
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I honestly don't wanna say 'cause I'm not about to get banned again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:21 PM
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Nah, you’ll get banned for just normal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:20 PM
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The difference is what women find attractive is a very, very small percentage of the male populace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:31 PM
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I’ve seen that, but when good women are paired with god-awful men. The men’s looks though we’re still top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:29 PM
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This one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:26 AM
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Wrong, your comment WAS missing empathy. In fact, every comment by women here (including yours) is in gist “get over it” or “deal with it.” No empathy or understanding at all. You don’t even hear what the others are saying. Such hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:22 AM
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I am willing to date down in intelligence which is apparently "not normal" for women Women will date down in intelligence if the man is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:14 AM
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Only had them flirt with me a handful of times. It's so freaking weird lmao. Anything you say and/or do is welcomed and seen as cute or funny. Any other time it's one-word responses, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:02 AM
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It's such an obvious sign too. Like damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:57 AM
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Problem is I am not attracted to the majority of black women. The black women I am attracted to typically have "whiter" features. Not proud of it but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:45 AM
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I got flagged for saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:26 AM
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This is the only part of me that kind of wishes I grew up in the city, or at least a black-majority suburb. I would be more apt to be attracted to those features than stereotypical suburban features, which are often white (in America).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:18 AM
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Can't get customs for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:03 AM
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Uh, sure man, totally!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:03 AM
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LMFAO xD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:56 PM
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So the new custom porn video from one of my favorite stars that I spent $$$ on arrived today and it was...meh. Pretty bummed out right now tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:54 PM
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It's inarguable that Watson was nearly universally considered among the most beautiful women by conventional standards. I agree with Inject in that Watson was definitely more prominent during the 10s. Never liked Megan Fox though. Heard about how friggin gross and disgusting she is and turned me off forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:53 PM
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Ben Shapiro is a hypocrite who cries victim when it suits him, Matt Walsh yells incessantly for no reason, and I have no idea who the last guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:16 PM
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lol if you actually believe she ain't baggin' while being "single."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:14 PM
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Chadier than the Chadiest Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:13 PM
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Yeah, that pesky murder charge...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:12 PM
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TBF I wasn't arguing the point that women were expected to wear skirts/dresses (I assume you're talking about professional wear though? It was absolutely accepted for women to wear pants casually in the 80s). I did miss the generic "you" though, I admit, so thanks for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:44 AM
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It’s not that attractive men are inherently bad, it’s that there’s no incentive for them to be good, so they’re often not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:42 AM
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I literally said that I AM willing to take a stand. But just like all women didn’t participate in the feminist movements, not all men are participating in this awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:22 AM
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In the 50s it was commonplace for men to pinch their secretary’s ass at the office Only the high-ranking officials had their own suites with secretaries. Why do many women decide to use the top 10% of men to describe the majority? Most men never had a secretary in their life, including the 50s. But onto the point. Yes, it takes a stand to make a stand. However, it has to be worth the cost. I'm one of the few willing to take a stand to call out women's delusion, which is social, professional, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:48 PM
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That's logical yes, but once bitten, twice as shy. If the rejection continually happens despite making efforts to change and improve, you're gonna form a conclusion at some point. It's what humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:44 PM
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Nah, I'm gonna challenge you on this. What's creepy and/or weird about a man approaching a woman in a public place? Did he not walk the proper way that you would've liked? Did you not care for the octave of his voice? Was he wearing a crew-neck tee instead of a vee-neck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:43 PM
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Less than 3 hours ago I was cold approached by a man as I was getting out of my car at the gym. That's not harassment. Approaching in a public place is not evil, creepy, weird, or out of the norm. Just because you don't like it doesn't make it harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:12 PM
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When women are in power, women absolutely abuse it. Look at all the stories of teachers abusing their male students recently. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:04 PM
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Calling out the behavior gets us called misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:03 PM
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Pretty sure everyone knows women get away with all the awkward/creepy behavior that'd get men cancelled. Not exactly new news at this point, though the denial is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:02 PM
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Your second paragraph insinuated that the reason those men have trouble with women is due to resentment. I argue that the constant rejection without any success is what leads to warranted resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:53 PM
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Resentment kicks in after the consistent rejection and gaslighting. You don’t care though, as you only want to blame the men. Typical lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:42 AM
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Yup. The classic “I gave one a (dishonest) chance after dating 20 Chads. I was waiting for him to slip up, then he did (cause he’s not perfect), and now I get to say GOTCHA!”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:40 AM
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So you’re saying that men have to act masculine and uphold the patriarchy to be attractive. Men already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:35 AM
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Another astonishing lack of empathy from a female. Plenty of men haven’t had anything but negative experiences from women. They’ve voiced them here too, but are continually dismissed and told their actual experiences are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:30 AM
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Personal experience and also the experience of others such as public, media, friends, and family. My sister for instance has done numerous types of drugs, especially during college, driven impaired, and was only "detained" for trespassing (I put it in quotation marks because she wasn't even put in the back of the cop car). My brother and I one day had to carry her into my grandparents' house when she was blackout drunk - after only three drinks. My grandparents are super religious and barely dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:49 PM
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That's clearly a hypothetical. It's disingenuous too because anyone knows that scantily clad women are far more likely to be cat called/approached/harassed. Not really even up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:28 PM
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I've also fallen into ignoring red flags in the search for that spark with someone, at great personal cost. Well, at least you admit it. I wouldn't be shocked if you disqualified good men due to arbitrary icks while falling for this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:20 PM
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OP's point is not that "vibes" aren't important at all, but that too much of a premium is placed on men's ability to woo women with said "vibes." Women will ignore obvious red flags and pine over evil, disgusting men all because he had that "vibe." Meanwhile, average good guy is DQ'd and ghosted after date #1 because he wore converse sneakers as an "ick."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:19 PM
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This is another dishonest attempt to shut down debate. Utterly disgraceful. I'm tired of anytime a man here explains something in earnest and women shut it down due to statements like this. It's getting ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:12 PM
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Yep, a mutually beneficial experience. Wrong. Woman falsely believes Chad loves her. Chad, Timothy, and anyone with a brain knows Chad is just using woman as a cumdumpster. Chad will dispose of woman as soon as the hotter babe from South Korea arrives. You mean the woman who isn't remotely romantically or physically attracted to him? This is true. Sure, because timothy pretended to be her platonic friend and she confided her disappointment to him. That's how friendships work. But orbiters don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:09 PM
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The reason Homer was (yes, past tense) funny was because he was part of a broader caricature of late-20th century American life. Yes he was dumb and had a short fuse but also legitimately cared for his family and works a thankless job under an evil, maniacal boss to do so. Marge was the straight woman who also got tired of her family’s antics but worked to stay strong in spite of it. Bart was a misfit who resorted to being a brat after subconsciously not fitting in. Etc. Homer’s schtick got old …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:09 PM
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Men are already pairing with unattractive women at large. An ugly chick is just as likely, if not likelier, than a 1% male to get matches on OLD for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:02 PM
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So you presume to know how every man thinks and operates? I agree with the others in that women can’t be objectified without first objectifying themselves. Y’all remove any and all accountability from women in order to blame men but this is ridiculous here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:00 PM
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This is idiotic. That means 90% of men would have to move on since women don’t initiate anything. Even old fashioned subtle signs are discouraged. And don’t come at me with “she blinked at you thrice, she’s into you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:59 PM
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I used to watch F&F pretty regularly. I still think there's plenty of truth in some of what they say. It's clear though that they're grifters looking to profit of of men's loneliness and that they don't call out abusive behaviors. Can't justify plenty of what's said on their show (i.e. Charleston White, women can't cheat but men can, etc.). That said, while the majority of women the put on their program are OF chicks or strippers, they do have plenty of "educated" (i.e. girls in college) girls o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:07 PM
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Dang, this perfectly encapsulates this phenom perfectly while not auto-blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:01 PM
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Are there "MAN DUMB" woman shows? Western television since 1990.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:00 PM
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Usually I strongly disagree because many women just hate seeing men voice their grievances caused by women, but in the case of F&F, it's true. They had Charleston White on the show - an avowed rape apologist. Don't really see how that's defensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:58 PM
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Yes, specifically Myron Gaines (i.e. "Fit"). The screenshot I saw showed that he was "picky."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:57 PM
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I live in a college town now; I grew up in the suburbs. I've spent plenty of time in the city and country though. I largely avoid women now, but when I did socialize, the ones my age (younger Millennials and older Zoomers) absolutely did act that way though. People think I make this stuff up but all this is borne from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:01 PM
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A woman that gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:33 PM
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Most men do not because being single as a woman is nowhere near the same as being single as a man. You as a woman get universal affection, priority, can enter into a relationship or have sex on tap if you so choose at any moment, etc. A single man does not have that freedom. Being single as a man is a restriction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:13 PM
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even if women are more likely to orgasm from Oral. I don't claim to know about women's sexual pleasure but this just seems blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:07 AM
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Anecdotes of PPD women<Every other woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:55 AM
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You do know women act like this IRL, right? I'd say the TikToks are actually a reflection of real life and not an imitation. Perhaps a slight exaggeration, but those catty women are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:53 AM
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Andrew Tate does not exist in a vacuum. It's time women admit that the constant denigration of men, our preferences, our livelihoods, and our behavior has its consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:42 AM
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Those are anecdotes just like how your criticized OP's anecdote. Plenty of other "socially awkward" situations that aren't blatantly wrong or crossing a known boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:38 AM
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Women do often hate quiet/shy/introverted/awkward guys. I've seen what women write and say about us in private (due to a few extremely good-looking friends who landed me good social proof). They smear us, insult us, mock us, and are genuinely disgusted by us. Hate is the appropriate term, along with disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:36 AM
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You see any dude that ain’t in the 10% as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:19 PM
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Honesty pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:14 PM
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Men “objectively” have worse profiles in your opinion? If it’s your opinion by definition it cannot be objective, that makes it subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:12 PM
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Come on now. People who don’t drink alcohol, regardless of gender, generally also don’t like the scene that goes with it. The extremely lowered inhibitions, the rowdy behavior, and occasionally violent behavior. People who abstain from alcohol generally avoid any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:10 PM
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What matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:30 PM
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"This shows women in a negative light so it must be false!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:17 PM
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Not in this forum, but they complain elsewhere ad nauseum. "Where are all the good men at?" "Why can't I find a good man?" "Why do I keep dating narcissists?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:16 PM
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Most men that women consider "ugly" are equals to their female counterparts or actually supersede the females' attraction. So if anyone needs to take accountability, it's women, though they seem to be allergic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:59 PM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:48 PM
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Most men's dating profiles are FAR better than female's. Men usually write bios, have a wider variety of photos, and actually present something. Most women do not write bios or have something with no effort like "I don't text first" or "entertain me." Men have to do 100% of the heavy lifting. Women just want the top 20% like usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:36 PM
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Fantastic post and 100% true. I also think it’s yet another opportunity for women to flex their ego so they get to reject men while also teasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:31 PM
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Spaces for lonely men are continually shut down or invaded by other groups. That or they’re accused of “misogyny.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:20 PM
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You are continuously failing to take responsibility in order to put the blame on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:15 PM
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Existing. This is the problem: the assumption that the man must be doing something wrong to warrant that response. Many, many women are just plain bad and nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:03 AM
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Scottie must've forgotten to defend his wife from Michael's son then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:12 PM
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Plenty of women, I’d venture to say the majority, are absolutely not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:16 PM
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If we don’t go out with strangers then that limits us to going with friends, which means we’d be using our friends for something other than friendship. That turns us into nice guys, which apparently is also a no-no. Can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:52 PM
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What do you mean “spend money?” Women overwhelmingly do not pay on dates, even if she makes less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:45 PM
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The naïveté. Most men get NO matches from OLD - none! Couldn’t have been less empathetic than this. OLD is not even a thing for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:40 PM
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I don't think uninhibited casual sex is good for anyone but I agree that it's more detrimental for women. Studies show that women who have higher n counts are less faithful and more likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:40 PM
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But the idea that there was at least a temporary relationship is an improvement over not being able to form a relationship at all. And this right here is why guys continue to be douchebags and continuously get away with treating women like dirt. Being a scrub human is not as much of a red flag as being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:22 PM
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To be fair, I never insinuated that having an STD is a good thing, just less detrimental than being a virgin. Or less of an obvious red flag with morality attached. High expectations in sex or just in general? Many women who are virgins are still in relationships, unlike male virgins. I just think it's hypocritical for women to balk at virgin guys while simultaneously being up in arms when men prefer virgin women or lower n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:09 PM
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