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| 2 | [Inner game vs Outer game] YouTube channels and productsI've taken a few of the workshops offered by The Fearless Man and have nothing but good things to say. It's helped me get past my roadblocks in a number of areas, including work / financial. Feel free to message me. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Me[18m] have sexual performance anxiety with my gf [18f]Yes it’s just anxiety. Happened to me too — and a lot of guys actually. Try to relax. Don’t force yourself. Maybe even cuddle through the night and go at it in the morning. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 04:43 AM |
| 17 | My gf broke with me. How to get into the game with her?The things that irate her probably have to do with your neediness and you can’t let that go until you let her go and go through a few more dates with other women. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to attract a girl who is head over heels over another guy who is playing her constantlyNo .... And this may be one where you should chat with your friend before making a move unless your willing to toss the friendship away. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Can’t gain control of ex and my relationshipMove on. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | I have a great Tinder opener, but am getting a specific response that I need a follow-up to.Great, I love a challenge. Have you ever ____[ insert sexual / kinky activity here] | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:42 AM |
| 3 | How to spot a bad pick up coachWhy does Tiger Woods have a golfing coach? ;) | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 05:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you turn yourself from a guy, nobody cares about and ignores to a guy who people respect without him having to do much?I simply wouldn’t care in the phone example therefore cannot answer it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:25 PM |
| 6 | How do you turn yourself from a guy, nobody cares about and ignores to a guy who people respect without him having to do much?There are a few factors that go into that: Honesty: Men like this say what they mean and mean what they say. Charisma: Lot of resources out there on this. Presence: Ever meet someone and the whole room seems to gravitate to him? That. Learning to be a grounded, confident and open person is the hardest part and takes the most work. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 06:56 PM |
| 4 | How to do my first cold approach?I haven’t seen that video but owning your actions, and even your embarrassment, can be very attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:58 PM |
| 5 | How to do my first cold approach?Do 3-5 then take a break and let yourself FEEL all the anxiety, fear, etc so you can let go of it. Don’t try to machine gun your way through it. Rushing through it just to get it done won’t help you process out the fear because rushing will just close you off to feeling the emotions, which are still there. After a while, practice making a connection as you say hi or ask a question. Try to develop that into short conversations. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How to do my first cold approach?Where do you live? Maybe someone here will go out with you? Have you tried some of the simpler exercises like saying hello or asking for the time / directions? | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some PUA companies besides RSD?What are your goals? | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Other Vegans Here?I’m a vegetarian and a picky eater. It’s more accepted and understood today than ever before. I never liked dinner as first date and if we do dinner it’s a restaurant I like and have options at. I’m very upfront about my eating habits. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different and hideous than in my tinder pic?Reread what I just said. Have some confidence in yourself. Stop worrying over what you can’t change. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different and hideous than in my tinder pic?Your fine. Stop worrying about your looks. If anything it’s how you dress and carry yourself, your inner confidence. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl I just met out on a movie. Am I moving too fast?Learn to be more direct and ask her on a date not just join you to an event. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Girl I liked just told me I am a piece of sh*t.Pretty much what ^ said. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Got called the ugliest guy at work....how can i improve? UkWhat is “good looking” to you? I can see a few parts: 1 - Hygiene: hair, nails, taking care of your skin 2 - Dress: Your sense of style conveys your personality. I found as my confidence grew I wear more edgy (but professional) styles for example. 3 - Confidence: Or how grounded you are. It’s not a lack of emotion, it’s full access to your emotions and the ability to hold a solid container for yourself and others. That’s why even the ugliest or shortest dudes can be seen with the hot girlfriends… | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Non talkative personLearn how to enjoy that silence. If you are grounded and present with her, she will naturally talk about something. I also like the improv idea for learning to small talk. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 12:43 AM |
| 10 | Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman.Many people start this journey with the simply notion of being more successful with women and relationships. Ultimately those who are the most successful under take a journey of self improvement which is far more painful but definitely rewarding. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 01:56 AM |
| 6 | Benefits of getting in shape?You may feel extra confidence due to feeling good about your body, the health benefits, and taking care of your body/health is a form of self love. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | What are your go to subreddits for info on self improvement?Supplements Microbiome Gut health Nootropics | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 04:06 AM |
| 22 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfGo out with the intention of getting 10 rejections. You caught onto the idea already. It helps desensitize you | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 02:31 PM |
| 10 | I used to think I needed to earn the "right" to be with women. I now see that a better mentality is that I need to earn the "skills" to master interactions. This only comes with hard work.You are built to be attractive to women. You just need to let go of all the learned behaviors and emotional responses you have and quite literally express your authentic self. | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Reading "The Way of the Superior Man" and it is making me wonder, what is your highest purpose?That's a great book. I need to reread it soon | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Fearing STD'sChances are you have been exposed already and either you have it and are asymptomatic or you are immune. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Still not succeeding with pick up at anime cons despite trying hard for a couple of years.How about trying to meet these girls outside of the con? | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Selfimprovment tips / HelpSuggest you move to a new city, start hanging with a better crowd and take your life in new direction. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else feels too "damaged" to get girls?Your confidence is equal to your ability to step into and manage tension, so you'll have to go out and do the things that frighten you. The key is to step just outside your comfort zone until you are comfortable and then take another step. Don't go big right away. Small but consistent steps. | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I am 18 and need help changing my life.Define success in each of your life - money or career, relationships and health. You need to have an idea Of where you want to go. As for the rest I know ton of guys who have crappy jobs and are very successful with women. Because it's how they make them feel. | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | [Virtual wingman needed] Papering over the cracks has caused me 5 years of pain. Time to take action.You should try finding guys in your area who are working on this area of their life and hangout together and hold each other accountable in person. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:43 PM |
| 58 | Those who are trying to improve your physique, please learn from my mistake.Its a common mistake we all make ... if I am able to reach X then I will be happy and when we get to that point, we still feel crappy because we didn't deal with the inner game. Whip cream on shit still sinks. Awesome for you that you achieved a tremendous goal, that is noteworthy and worth celebrating and for the realization. Now you can start going deeper into this. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How exactly does one 'love oneself'?You seem to have some great realizations already but you may want to add guided journaling to your routine that focus on the feelings of self love. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop making excuses to not approach women?Try going out with the intent of getting rejected. Only count the approaches where they reject you. If they don't reject you it doesn't count. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Small Talk/Hang Out Social Anxiety?Part of it is learning to enjoy the silence. What I infer from your post is that you are worrying about things to say, because you want to be clever, or please, or a number of other "nice guy" like behaviors. When you learn to breathe and just let that stuff go, conversation just happens naturally. At its own pace. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 10:03 PM |
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