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Question for BluePillJGR03PG/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:04 PM
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That makes sense. Sorry, I thought I was giving a rebuttal to another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:39 PM
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Please explain. I will follow rules, but I have no idea what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:18 PM
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Yes they do. They are okay alienating women that hate men and children, but women that want families and love their husbands are their target female demographic. Add in anti crime and female only society issues and women start voting more red. The education required to think about progressive ideology fades as life continues with more important acute dynamics and the macro-social concepts diminish in relevance. Family dynamics, social justice, and international affairs become more about their pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:43 AM
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Bahaha… you are not nice. Implying that your magic friend group is better than mine. I am mostly around couples as well. They generally are middle class with a few having million dollar homes in the upper middle class range. Most of the females are decent. A couple of them treat their husbands like subordinates. I have sisters and cousins about the same group and they are medium Depending on which cliche they are around. I would say there are two that are genuinely nice people that put out effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:41 PM
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The common denominator for most guys is that they are put in friend zones as nice guys. This line of reasoning makes me wonder about the nice women. Since they are so sought after, why aren’t there more women trying to be nice people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:45 PM
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Is he really being red pill? Dang, this is just hard to navigate. I think this sounds more like basic social dynamics. Women don’t choose the nice guy until they are low on options. Even then, they are more likely to cheat on that guy or treat him like a subordinate. Those guys know it generally as well. They aren’t getting laid like the alphas and they definitely aren’t getting BJs when she isn’t in the mood for sex. Women try and be a desired woman that can do things for those guys, but if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:21 AM
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I don’t understand what you meant by something is too bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:31 PM
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Not if it functionally doesn’t work. Day after day imagination isn’t going to work. I know you don’t have the same physical demand a male would, but do you have a consistent sexual appetite at all to have any understanding for what you are condemning men for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:09 PM
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I agree with what you wrote in this latest comment, so what is too bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:42 PM
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Sure, but masturbation is a bummer and demoralizing,especially as you get older. Porn has issues, and inspiration becomes limited, unless guys move into a clinical perversion stage. I don’t think that’s the answer you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:45 PM
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It’s not what is implied, but I do think that is how some women take it. Not even in marriage is a women required do anything for her partner’s health or happiness. It’s simply a fact that if appreciated then there at least becomes a discussion as to what to do about those men. If people say, “it’s not that much of a need,” then you’re dismissing the health of half the people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:48 PM
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You troll this often on PPD. Why do you want to push this narrative?. Your argument becomes that men can just jack it more, but that’s not as effective, so it requires more repetition. You may think it’s super fun, but most of the time it’s a nuisance and demoralizing. If it weren’t physically necessary to get through the day, then I bet most guys wouldn’t do it at all. The ones that don’t, and don’t have a partner, have ED so young that they probably don’t have much left to take care of. Porn h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:54 PM
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The argument isn’t strong for sex when you cut out the mental aspect and only value the sexual organs themselves, but here are the negative health aspects. Men are more likely to develop earlier and more severe ED without regular sex, more likely to develop BPH earlier and more severe, and research is expanding to include prostate cancer (and some other cancers) are more likely without sex. Regular is considered about every three days with normal levels of testosterone, but most guys are one or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:15 PM
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Those two examples probably have very joyful people living those lives. I would never want to undo all my years of education and world traveling to have ignorant bliss either, but happy is happy and I don’t look down on those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 AM
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That’s a real answer and similar to my wife and I. She is probably more conservative than I am and we both do what we can for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:40 PM
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Sorry, I only added the one. I cannot find the original article where liberal men were claiming to be more happy in their marriages with more sex. Searching for it comes up with generic data, but everything says more sex = more happiness in marriage. I was just using it as an example of partners that care about their partners happiness is a positive feedback loop for the couple or I guess works in polygamy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:37 PM
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I don’t think people can fathom what abuse is actually like. Most of those people probably had great marriages with typical problems that come with learning how to get along and get through life. Conservative people especially have such a high regard for respect towards people within their community they can’t imagine those people that are carelessly hurting another family member. I’m sorry you were a victim of that ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:30 PM
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Well written and helped me learn the difference between the political ideology of red and blue versus the social ideology of RP/BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:21 PM
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I tried to correct that in the post. I was wrong to associate red pill with conservatism. I tried to find the original article that talked about men being happier with conservative women and since I was following a trail through Reddit and not my search engine, I lost it … so, I don’t mind excluding that, but I did read it. It included the fact that they were having more sex in the relationship relationships with the conservative women. I I see the value for liberal women to try and say that con…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:08 AM
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A duty or simply caring about their partners happiness. Huge difference and one comes from a place of love while the other is one of selfish or conditional or transactional cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:17 AM
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A lot does not mean a majority or commonly. A better phrasing would have been sometimes or rarely. A lot of liberal women will rock your world, a lot of them are lame in bed, and a lot of liberal women are mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:02 AM
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Bahaha. You wish. I’m not that right wing and definitely relate with a lot of progressive people, but there is no way that is opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:54 AM
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Red pill seem to defining it as women are manipulative and hold the cards. Men being trampled on by women should be less acceptable by society. I would say a lot of men can relate in a small degree, but that is their fault for choosing women that don’t care about their happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:59 PM
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So liberal people don’t have an expectation of joy in their partnerships? I mean, I guess I see that. The liberal people I am around the most don’t have much sex and BJs are only part of foreplay while reciprocal action is usually to finish sex, the husbands drink quite a lot, the kids have emotional problems, and they constantly have a political fight going on for things, but don’t really do anything about it. I think generally I see them having more education and propensity to think, but there…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:30 PM
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What advantage are you referring to then I can’t even guess what you’re alluding to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:20 PM
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There was a blue pill woman that answered with marriage being a scam. This I thought would be a more common answer as it aligns with the idea that liberal women feel there is subjugation in marriage. if they are truly a believer in liberty, then they wouldn’t want that. Marriage is a cooperation and with men having higher testosterone levels there has to be some expectation of more sex than a woman would give without some kind of testosterone boost. If women feel that’s a burden then that’s a su…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:17 PM
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I really thought this would be more of an answer from liberal women. If they feel there is some subjugation in marriage then Liberty means they don’t want to be part of that. Marriage is a cooperation and for healthy men with testosterone that means a lot of sex that put some kind of burden on women without those high levels of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:10 PM
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I’ll add them to the post that seems to be a common question instead of answering the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:08 PM
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Doesn’t blue pill just mean that you are accepting of the biases. How is that normal people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:58 PM
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Absolutely no one I know. This is a terrible narrative to demonize people that have happy lives. Maybe, you are projecting how bad logic undermines potential happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:45 PM
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Exactly. Power struggles are abusive and not beneficial for any partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:32 PM
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She’s not saying something very factual, so hopefully that helps you feel better. No one should have to bear abuse, but verbal abuse being the most common is also something that can be overcome with education. Actually, physical abuse can be as well, but physical abusers rarely seek treatment unless court ordered. Too bad more people weren’t court ordered for verbal and mental abusive behaviors when kids are involved because they grow up to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:29 PM
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I think I made a mistake in my premise that red pill was more aligned with traditional conservative people men or women. I am learning this is not the case. Liberal men are more likely to cheat and just as likely to be abusive. Liberal women on the other hand are more likely to cheat AND more likely to be abusive. Abuse isn’t just physical, but I think the concept of being abusive (disrespectful) towards someone is very antithetical to a conservative person helps keep that number low.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:26 PM
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I don’t know how gay relates, but I want them to be happy too. I have conservative friends that have been married for 7 years and seem very happy. Maybe it’s true for those two guys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:22 PM
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Yes, I think I’m pushing the boundaries on what defines a red pill person versus a blue pill person, and more leaning into the traditional roles of red and blue. Men married to traditional conservative women no matter what background was the original basis of my question, but more research led into even liberal men married to conservative women reported these higher statistics. It seems kind of obvious, but I’m around both groups often whereas most people stick to their tribe even at work or soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:18 PM
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I know a couple where the husband has Irish twins. The two mothers are now friends and help each other. Probably happier that way than conflict, but that’s just one example compared to yours. I also knew a very BP type gal that moved in her husband’s baby mother to be. It went okay and then dissolved in the worst for wife, husband, mistress, and baby. Well… I don’t know the baby and mistress moved away. I don’t know any doormat conservative women, but I can see how that would effect your viewpoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:43 PM
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The Men and Women are reporting to be more happy. Are you saying they are more likely to have money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:17 PM
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It might be all the times we read on this discussion board the hate BP has for RP “because” RP are haters. I was so much more blue before getting on this sub and realizing how fascist the BP are. It’s either men need to cuck themselves or they don’t matter. Maybe there just aren’t real RP on here for me to read them doing the opposite/same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:33 PM
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There are also educated women that aren’t liberal. I’m not saying they are smarter, but they will love a man as a man, and that lasts at a much higher rate, especially if they are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:28 AM
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It is said that liberal women may not be as good at sex for a long term relationship, but one night stands they can rock your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:25 PM
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Does it have to be that they hate them? They disagree, but hate sounds harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:23 PM
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I cited an article (of several if you just how many die from lack of healthcare) that describes the numbers and breaks down how many die without insurance or because of lack of access. “Poor people get healthcare” That is something that elevates the status of our healthcare system in the world. Without that, we are ranked much lower. I didn’t look for that statistic because it’s obvious and I get bored debating narratives instead of reality. “World leader in cancer research” We are ranked fourth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:43 PM
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You haven’t had to look for treatment and realize it’s only available in other countries. That would definitely change your mind if you lost a loved one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:31 AM
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You are trying to push a narrative that just isn’t true. The U.S. does not have the best doctors, best treatments, best facilities. We do have some great doctors, some great treatments/procedures available to some people, we some good overall hospitals, but we do not have the best in almost anything… not cancer, not organ transplant, disease treatments. As for wait times killing people. We have a horrible record for people with health insurance. Add in the people without access and we are 10s of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:27 AM
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That’s the rudeness that got you lost. I thought you started out okay, but your attitude makes you sound like you have less perspective than you might otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:24 PM
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We still have enough helium that it is cheap for birthday balloons. The amount of doctors is obviously based on how much college costs. We aren’t below the top 20 in quality healthcare because of rare resources. We are ranked even lower in over healthcare system because so few people have access to it. We have longer wait times than most for clinical care, urgent care, and emergency care. We are ranked low for the profit exclusion and political weaponry of class separation. This bleeds into othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:17 PM
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Both of you had a discussion I wanted to hear, but then you got to attack mode and lost track of your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:35 PM
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Yeah, my wife switched to teaching when we had kids and is home all summer and Christmas break. It was a huge cut in pay, but she is SAHWM when it matters most. She also rolls hers eyes at women complaining about how hard it is or complaining about their husbands asking for things. Our kids are pretty darn successful with her around and I know it makes a difference for me and what I have accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:42 PM
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Being a successful wife and mother takes a lot of work. I don’t think your definition goes with a traditional wife. It’s even harder for women to be successful wives if they are also working and need a spouse to be supportive of them. I guess on a side tangent that may be where your Mormon wife is in there. They need an extra spouse to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:35 AM
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Not really a tradwife if she isn’t thoughtful and kind and by being those things there is at least an effort to be a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:10 AM
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A lot of these hot women are realizing they can do the trad wife thing and continue the pedestal lifestyle they are used to. This takes money and status on the guys part, but it does open a lot of doors for the “superficial” and “lower scores” previously characterized by the earlier comments. It’s really about a work ethic and discipline these women have. I remember in cheerleading a girl worked hard to get homework done, look good, physically fit, and supportive in ways that are almost unbeliev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:13 PM
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My favorite sexual time in my life I was a pass around. After hooking up with one girl, she would tell a friend and then she would want the experience. I hooked up with seven girls in one friend group. I enjoyed sisters and a mom/daughter. None of it was a potential relationship though and one girl was pretty mean about telling me my skin was too dark to meet her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:59 AM
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I don’t use porn and don’t have to masturbate very often because I have a great wife, but I don’t speak for everyone on how much of an orgasm they get from masturbation. I would write that if you are having orgasms every time you masturbate then that is not normal. Ejaculation is not the orgasm. My brother told me when he hit 35 he stopped having orgasms at all from masturbation. He said it felt about as relieving as going pee. He would say it was only good for killing the beast. I still have or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:50 AM
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Why are you trying to create some weird narrative where sex doesn’t matter and men should just masterbate to survive? You started off with no scientific evidence there is a difference in ejaculation from different qualities of orgasm, which is not true. You must have just made that up. It takes two minutes to find the contrary. The other two answers are even more silly. Why make this demeaning narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:57 AM
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That’s not true … ugh. There is definitely a big difference between the relief from sex than masturbation. Ejaculation is not an orgasm or vice versa. Expressing the prostate is the necessary part of sexual health maintenance, so to your point, a guy can masturbate and get some relief. This often comes without an orgasm, unless they watch porn or have some sexual stimulation that enhances it. The release is also half or a third of what sex triggers. Good sex can really give bigger releases. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:38 PM
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You are trying to argue against facts. I have spent years dealing with prostate issues since Iraq. It has been explained to me by many doctors. My aunt has her own OBGYN practice that she also works with her brother (an MD) that has a fertility clinic also advising me for years. Her brother specializes in getting men back to health for fertility purposes and often it’s because of low sexual health maintenance. Maybe you have breastfed and remember milk glands that are very similar to prostate gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:58 PM
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Three days is actually a pretty long time for most guys. Some guys can have their prostate fill in hours and depending on environment become uncomfortable often. Low maintenance causes earlier and more severe ED. Use it or lose it is true of all things in nature and sexual organs in men and women are no exception. You are right about the research for women. There are things that are true for both sexes with better sleep, improved immune system, lower anxiety, less headaches, etc, but there are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:14 AM
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Oh yes! Great point. Hormonal urges feel very compulsory. It’s still different than the pain from an unrelieved prostate, but the significance is probably higher and lower at different times. Guys have a cycle of hours like the sun and gals months like the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:50 AM
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Feminity is bad? It makes the world a better place, so not sure why you’re a downplaying it with this OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:08 PM
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The community you have experienced must be some rare awful place that isn’t typical in a practical sense or statistically. Just now are men finally getting to a place where we are trying to lift each other up over the heavy burdens we live with. I feel like that is why red pill is getting so much traction. The hardship of being a man is still there and getting harder, but the support from women isn’t there the way it used to be. I was a cheerleader in college and I know just the spirit of liftin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:02 PM
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Not the same though. Men have to have regular sex every three days or so just for basic sexual health. Until recent research said women need sex about once a week for sexual health, mentally there was nothing driving them to have sex. For males the prostate starts sending signals stronger and stronger as the time goes without relief. There is no mechanism for women that pushes them to find relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:51 PM
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So women only get to have fun sex with no ties if they also have sex with every guy they may see a future with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:38 PM
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There is a general consensus of people not caring about other people and disregarding the other gender is easy. The needs are inherently different, especially with more masculine men and feminine women, so the wedge grows as the entitlement grows to be served instead of submitting to cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:39 PM
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There is a general consensus of people not caring about other people and disregarding the other gender is easy. The needs are inherently different, especially with more masculine men and feminine women, so the wedge grows as the entitlement grows to be served instead of submitting to cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:38 PM
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What?!! The Taliban is a right wing movement that was mostly built on the dissatisfaction in women’s behavior having become too liberal. An Afghan Major even told me how he remembered liberal women were wearing makeup and dresses that showed their legs… Women there aren’t even allowed to use numbers let alone education. They can say for instance some kids, but not three kids or the brown cup, but not 2 tablespoons or a half cup. They didn’t like secular education talking about evolution or worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:31 PM
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Ha… I may have wrote that wrong. I didn’t marry my wife just for sex, but we are best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:58 AM
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Okay, that makes sense, but what is a low commitment long term friend with benefits called? Married… I’m out of loop on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:50 AM
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They would probably continue the STRs as LTRs if the sex was still available without LT commitments. Maybe some emotional support or minor financial support, but not kids and mortgages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:28 AM
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Not what he said… He’s just not conceding to over assumed value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:23 AM
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Illegal, is a good point for establishing a moral code. In the military, they have something called restricted reporting where you reported that it happened, but you’re not pressing any charges just documenting that you felt. There was a possibility of the situation being unethical then the accused doesn’t face a trial and the mission is not interrupted. I think that’s because for the victim the situation can make them feel that much worse ruining life for their peers, so basically, they have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:28 PM
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That’s interesting because I have more heard guys just blow it off… like it’s an understood power dynamic sometimes. The very specific example I gave, she was an amazing boss, person, and mother. She was also attractive, but there was not a mutual desire for sexual relationship. Ultimately, life worked out fine, so I’m not sure how to characterize it. If the guy accepts the harassment and capitulates (copulates) is it illegal what the boss even did?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:20 PM
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I don’t know if it’s more common or just more reported. Waking up to a woman having sex with you without wanting her to is not going to be reported. The effort, the ruination of someone’s life, the effect it has on your life, and the lost time to something negative instead of enjoying life just doesn’t make it worth it. I’ll add that a boss pressuring a guy into sex doesn’t work well to say no. In both instances the no was life damning on so many facets, while the saying yes could easily be just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:38 AM
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I’m married and beyond the age where false accusations happen anyway. I get where constantly having to ask for consent is unsexy. Also, sexual assault is a much different scene that where you’re worried about enough expressed consent from someone and regret or manipulation takes the other person by surprise. It’s hard to know the truth, but I know four guys that lost their careers and families after they had affairs with married women that had to reframe the story. The most recent one seems incr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:21 AM
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That’s absolutely true except after… definitely not the next day with some kind of regret caused by hangover, different hormones, etc. I agree, being in the moment is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:43 PM
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It’s a weird dynamic because it doesn’t address the amount of times there was consent, but later regret turned into non consent. Without the form with initials and signatures it’s still the same dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:46 AM
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Moved comment to below. This thread goes better that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:45 AM
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I extended my response 👆👇🏾, since I kept getting downvotes for saying she worded her comment really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:14 AM
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I would add though that the biggest turnoffs are turnoffs. When someone doesn’t know someone else they can only try the things they know, especially if it’s the things they are good at. This one girl put her tongue in my ear like the best ear job I can imagine there is possible and yet it wasn’t my thing, so I had to kinda let it work its course. A couple times it gave me cringe, but on the flip side it also made my blood intensify … especially at the end. I didn’t have girl do it again until th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:11 AM
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A girl can restart a guy if she catches him early enough, but it depends more on if he has good sexual health habits. Otherwise, she is waiting for the prostate to refill enough to start signaling out for some hormones again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:43 AM
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There is some unfair biology I guess. A guy is trying to express a gland that needs relief (like going pee) that hopefully is in concert with great sex that creates an orgasm. Ejaculation does not mean orgasm, especially for a guy that’s had a lot of good sex and then having bad sex…, but relief is relief and that’s hormonal relief (which means it is also mental relief) For a guy to want to go again there needs to be some build up that is more than the ejaculation and the hormones are thriving m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:39 AM
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I’m kinda squeezing this comment in, but here goes. There is a saying that average girls don’t do many things or let you do many things in bed. Good girls they will swallow your dick or give anal on birthdays and anniversaries (maybe vacations), but the slutty women they actually want all those things. They are begging for dick in their mouth and wish they could have it inside them at the same time. They’ve dreamed about a dp since the first time they had anal. There are more euphemistic example…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:29 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think most guys get to practice much and when they do they probably don’t get much interaction. Women get real used to their backs on the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:17 AM
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A girl once liked playing with my balls when giving head. I didn’t really like it, but it made sense that for her it was more fun to have more to play with than just stroking. I like boobs, but most women are limited how much they get out of that. The labia is fun to play with especially during head, so is grabbing butt cheeks, but they are not often appreciated. Mostly it’s “do this one thing that involves my small clit and be satisfied with that.” (It’s probably unfair that bigger clits are ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:04 AM
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Very well worded
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:43 AM
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This is same from women. What she wrote was very well worded and could have been flipped to be women failing to try at all. The arguing about what I like, I chuckled remembering females doing the same thing. Also, something fun for us, but not necessarily for for them becomes a don’t just because it’s not her thing. So many women are like, “well, it’s not my thing so you can’t play for your entertainment. You make do with these couple things I like.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:40 AM
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Those are some superb foundations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:47 AM
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Do you have comments where your husband is happy? There are women that are trying to get a man, create happiness in a relationship, got their man in submission and grateful for what he gets out life, or man haters that don’t want men to be happy ever. There is obviously other variations of the blue to red spectrum, but I think he is questioning your place here within that as seeking better understanding or telling men they should be less red for their happiness to be valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:28 PM
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Save all that for something else or a post of some significance. That was a well thought out personal experience that somehow also relates to others, including me, without the words to describe it. Our salvations are different (I had excellent grandparents), but you write hope, where we all want to be better than the generation before us and our kids be better than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:20 PM
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You just confirmed the point of the person you responded to. Your bias took the real concern of education environments for males and made it some intelligence deficiency of the males for wanting to be valued. People know when they are in a successful place of learning versus difficult to learn. One of the smartest guys I ever met (even bought stock in Netflix in the 90s with college money) was a high testosterone, very masculine, muscular kid, but he complained about school. He aced tests and go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:48 PM
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That’s where it’s difficult. In the military female is formal and using respect. To call a female girl or woman is considered using a lack of respect, so there’s a whole population trying to be respectful on the contrary to the interpretation of un unknown group. We also don’t call guys men… they are males
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:44 PM
2

Is woman better than female? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:20 AM
1

It was the beginning of the Arab Spring that led to liberal and democratic reform in the Mideast… and the beginning of ISIS to refute them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:29 PM
5

Very true insecurity isn’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:34 PM
2

Oh yeah, the demand for us to call girls females out of respect in the military is not true on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:39 PM
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Not really the same way. The greater time it takes to meet a female and give her time to get comfortable and safe is not the same timeline for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:37 PM
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I think you beat down his argument really harsh. He had a valid point that you were disregarding with aggressive attacks. You probably keep your women check with the same dominance that he doesn’t have. He’s probably an average guy that is doing the best he can, but a guy 2% better can replace him at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:28 PM
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What kool-aid?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:51 AM
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I totally agree, but he was coveted by the guys with deadbed wives living off porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:39 AM
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They are a very right wing republic with fascist political ideologies that doesn’t like democratic resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:56 AM
0

That’s probably true in mainly Christian societies, but that’s not most of USA let alone most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:45 AM
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I have a friend who loved being a mistress. She didn’t want a man interfering with her home life (with her daughter). She sometimes had a girlfriend that was a more personal relationship, but her hetero relationships were married men that didn’t sleep over very often and took her on trips. She has stayed friends with almost all of them as well, so a couple times she has been there to help them through hard times. She made a good income owning an elite childcare service (she had a master’s degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:37 AM
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And work a lot even then. We work so many more hours for less money than 1st world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:18 AM
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Capitalism reverting back to its feudalism roots…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:15 AM
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Ukraine did seem like a good cause similar to WWII, but now it would be about mineral rights being negotiated. At least Iraq was supposed to be about freeing people and protecting USA, and Afghanistan we were asked by the Mas Shurif to take down the Taliban and Al Qaeda (probably more interested in getting rid of their conservative political rivals), but a war for minerals feels like a war for oil in Iraq and rare earth minerals in Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:12 AM
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I know a guy that said the same thing. They still have scheduled sex at least once a week after 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:07 PM
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You don’t do things for your partner unless it benefits you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:05 PM
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Exactly, we can upvote every logical person saying why it’s a dealbreaker, because nobody wants to live on pity sex, maintenance sex, or looking for non loving sex from other people. When passionate sex is the top of the line, an asexual doesn’t have that emotional chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:02 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean. Generalizations are sometimes right or sometimes wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:04 AM
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Holy moly! That is an evil assessment of men. I have never heard men talk like that and I was military 22 years and industrial worker otherwise. I saw some men be disrespectful to women and the women like it … I really didn’t understand it. I didn’t know those guys really, so I don’t know how they spoke about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:43 PM
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The point I was alluding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:20 PM
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Misogyny doesn’t mean they are the extremes of abusive and oppressive. Probably, the majority of misogynists are super kind men putting women on a pedestal. Their passenger princesses like the ride and mostly just have to worry about being sweet and pretty. I am a feminist for the most part, but it seems like a good deal for a woman that doesn’t have the IQ to be a rocket scientist or surgeon. I’m on the side where I really enjoyed my wife going back to college and getting all intellectual and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:09 PM
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I don’t see the connection on these two. There was someone writing about a woman being in service to her man if they have a cooperative relationship. I could go back and look through the comments, but they seem to be buried and I don’t feel like digging. I think maybe the person had an axe to grind or just baiting 🤷. I’m off this one though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:32 AM
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😩 it’s you. You are wrong and probably just baiting, because it is definitely common knowledge how wrong you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:42 PM
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It was framed that wanting to be healthy was oppressive, but it’s more likely they just want to live healthy and happy. I didn’t realize the original comment was saying it often said that a woman should settle with a guy she doesn’t care about and have regular sex with him. Basically because… I have never heard a guy ever express that, but I do see women turning it into that. Settling is a real concept for more women than men I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:33 PM
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To want sexual health in a partnership is one of the top three things a man can do to be healthy behind exercise and not doing unhealthy activities like drugs… more important than eating healthy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:10 PM
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Weird reply… not related… again. I will try to notice your name in future and not respond to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:07 PM
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Your response has nothing to do with the price of tea in China. It looks like you do this a lot in other comments. You make up weird contention tangents to get more comments. What you just wrote describes someone with some extreme problem, not men wanting to have fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:05 PM
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For men to want to be healthy…? Darn men, they are so bad for existing as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:50 PM
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I’ll ask again. Do you think there are somehow men that don’t care about their sexual health and they are better men? ETA: men generally feel guilty about the burden of their sexuality these days because so many women now feel we are bad because it is such big part of our general health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:48 PM
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Why are so many people framing it this way on this sub? A guy needing good sexual health is not him oppressing his partner. Does he hope she cares about him? Yes, his health, his happiness are not nothing. Just because guys want good sexual health doesn’t mean they are trying to impose hardship on their partners. Do you think there are men that don’t want good sexual health and those are somehow better men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:38 PM
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You are disgusting in the way you write about it. Every time you are the one making into some servitude for both people. In Romantic relationships, based on love and respect, both people try to nurture and support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:14 PM
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I think almost no one is rubbing feet if there is no dick sucking, so you can turn it into an exchange process, but it’s really about trying to lift up your partner. It doesn’t have to be rubbing feet because that’s not really a need. Providing important necessities are real needs and for men that includes sexual health in a day to day burden. Your partner is either involved in your care or is it but that doesn’t make it less of a need. It helps that research is showing how good sexual health im…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:24 PM
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You gave the bad examples. You introduced them to the conversation and yes, they are not part of caring relationships. Care is not a fetish. Getting rocks off is a disgusting way of describing men’s health. It might fit in a discussion about people and sexuality, but you seem to have a degrading way of discussing it all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:10 PM
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Those are all weird attitudes. None of that applies to caring relationships. In response though; I wish I could go down on my wife more. I am so good at it and enjoy it immensely, but my wife doesn’t care for it. Since kids she almost only orgasms through penetration sex (sometimes too fast, so it’s me at the end trying to finish without “dragging it out” - ha). The third kid definitely did the most change on her vagina and she just doesn’t get pleasure from oral anymore. I can rub, but it’s def…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:36 PM
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Why drained? I think it sounds more like emotionally extended, but to your point there is probably more a feeling of loss. That can make a guy sacrifice expectations to not lose another person or possibly not be able to feel as fulfilled in future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:14 AM
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Sure, but I understand the argument were past lovers are a negative to future relationships. There will be good things that you miss, and the more partners you’ve had, the more of those good things stack up. Probably, None of them did all of those things, and No future relationship is going to be able to do all of those things. Rarely do partners try and improve themselves to make your life more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:46 PM
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Why were you in the relationship? The woman who emotionally abused me in ways that I may never not have sickening flashbacks from still had great sex, cooking, and humor. Plus, she has this way of making you feel special when she didn’t have to abuse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:35 PM
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Actually, that’s a cool response
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:49 PM
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Then not sure how that relates to the subject of the light switch effect. I guess I responded to a slight meaning of what you wrote trying to stay in context
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:34 AM
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I would have just put a laugh emoji… crazy can be incidental, environmental, hormonal, or combination, but the “cause” is only as considerable as the way a person handles those contributing factors. Outsmarting crazy is a thing. Coping skills are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:04 AM
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The cousin is justified in getting out of the relationship and it is something genuine about her heart that she still has affection for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:56 AM
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Love comes from something good in us that we value. Love for our parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, best friends… when a lover gets that kind of connection from us, it’s from the best part of us. I have some baggage of hurtful relationships or misguided mentoring, but I try to improve and grow beyond the imperfections of how my love is expressed. Do women love only with conditions that it meets criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:53 AM
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Do you have fond memories of your past at all? I love the romance of my life with family, friends, girlfriends, mentors, workmates. I don’t have significant love for most of them, but some I do have fond memories that were created with a loving heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:49 AM
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That’s when a woman gets broke up with on a one sided split. I bet he still has some fondness for her too, but didn’t think lifetime partnership was going to work. I think your point is true that women have a hard time not getting closure. I’m not sure it’s more than men, but if 90% of extreme cases are women… then maybe 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:43 AM
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That doesn’t really explain why the woman holds no fondness for the good times, unless maybe she was always holding out, not really invested, but she would have been once he conformed to perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:37 AM
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That can’t be a real comment. Every guy has dated at least one if not several “crazy!” women. Most of us have mothers, sisters, aunts and cousins etc. warning and protecting us from the signs because they know these types. You are surely someone’s family that cares about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:34 AM
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Especially, the crazy ones! When they were cool and lively there were great experiences, more love, more teamwork. When they were crazy, life is chaotic, you walk on eggshells, love becomes conditional, and they sabotage you to beat you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:30 AM
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Also, … those scenarios mean she doesn’t think back fondly of anything? If flipped and the guy was the one trying to make it work and she is take it my way or leave it, he will still feel fondly of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:26 AM
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Yeah, that’s part of the point. I still have fond feelings for a woman that cheated on me, abused access to my bank account, and was not intellectual enough to be that interesting, but she had good attributes as well. She was very sweet and nurturing like a personal cheerleader that helped me be more successful at work and college. She wasn’t beautiful, but she wore clever outfits (even thrift store finds), had a keen sense of what lingerie does for a night out, and she liked board games, card g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:53 AM
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It’s not like that, but my wife is a very fun person that has a great time in life in general. ETA: What about hand jobs or BJs? Does your wife never offer those as care. Do you think that is different than rubbing your wife’s feet with loving care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:32 AM
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This is a great point because less sex means less sex perpetually. The sexual health deteriorates and it doesn’t ever come back completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:53 PM
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Or… check this out we really love that our partners care about us. My wife is awesome with sex for my health. I also enjoy rubbing my wife’s feet and massage in general. As far as “duty sex” as you put it, that premise is a bad attitude. My wife loves that after health sex, she knows I will rub her face, run my hands through her hair, rub her neck behind her ears, or massage her jaw (usually all of it though) till she falls asleep. We are healthy people about most elements of our lives though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:51 PM
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She was amazing. We spent very full hours together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:26 AM
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Yes, that is a well written description. Edit to add: I love that authentic action. I mean you are never the exact same person from day to day if you grow, so living in an authentic present means you are contributing to the best experience for everyone in that moment in a way you enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:58 AM
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I am new here and talking about things that I haven’t thought about in a while. What is your criticism of this memory? I don’t think I hold some undo nostalgia for it. The bond with my wife has so much connection that I don’t feel bad about a past version of myself that led me to who I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:57 AM
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Not necessarily that the guy MADE them feel safe. Sometimes a guy gives everything with open and compassionate arms, but the woman holds out for some anonymous dude she meets while on a business trip. I (25 then) remember having this conversation with a guy whose wife cheated on him this way. I had a couple experiences with older women in their 30s married to great guys, but they weren’t giving their selves to them they way they did to me. ETA: The “safe” connotation actually sounds a little cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:17 AM
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I have had this conversation with an older bachelor that never married until he met my grandmother. They met square dancing and had a cute romance, but drugs were required for intimacy. He was not the first person to tell me use it or lose it, but he felt guilty about not having tried to maintain his sexual health. I also worked with an older gentleman that said a similar thing and said maybe it would have been different if the internet came out earlier, but he was ashamed to buy porn at stores …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:18 PM
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Probably the difference is the amount of sex. Sexually healthy men have a better attitude about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:19 PM
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They feel sexual desires all the time and that’s a fact No, they do not. Why are you trying to make something up? Any person, but especially men start losing sexual desire within a few months of celibacy and dramatically diminishes as years go by. The only way to maintain sexual health is to be sexually active. Even masturbation can help do this, but being truly celibate like a monk or priest, they are not supposed to even masterbate for this very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:39 PM
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That’s not true at all no matter how many times you write it. If they aren’t using their sexual organs then they deteriorate. Meaning… they shrink along with producing less sexual hormones. They won’t have urges without the signals to the brain to have them. The only way the urges continue is if they continue to be sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:23 PM
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Are you talking about a gay community? Your point doesn’t seem to be following a path of logic. Either they have sex or they don’t and if they don’t the ability goes away. Use it or lose it is true with anything in nature. ETA: Monks and priests don’t have sex as a variable in their community. They are an asexual network that support each other in almost every way except sexual health.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:12 AM
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Ugh… gross you went there. What they are doing is a perverse sexual activity, and while they deserve to have their sexual organs to deteriorate, since they are active they are not going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:10 AM
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Why are you using sex to explain the symbiosis of a relationship? These monks have a very organized support community and sexual organs almost nonexistent later in life. They are also more likely to have prostate cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:46 PM
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Bad anatomy - your answer only considers the psychological aspect. In reality the sexual organs deteriorate and as they die off, so do the masculine hormones they produce, which is less “desire.” They simply aren’t hungry anymore… or thirsty whatever you call the signals to the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:41 PM
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Yes Ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:49 PM
1

Do you think the extent of a man’s labor is what measures their man card?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:26 PM
1

I am indulging you too much really, but the sacrifices I made are something I either have to take pride in sacrifices or resentment will take over. Not every combat vet is wandering around homeless. Most of us are still navigating life with a perspective you will never understand about war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:07 PM
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What does college have to do with the price of tea in China? You’re weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:07 PM
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M4, M9, 240 (gunner on convoy), also qualified on 50 cal. I was CLS (combat life saver) for my team (4 or 5 depending on what we travelled on helicopter, fixed wing or convoy). CE is the infantry for the Air Force. My combat roles required combat skills at Ft Bliss before two deployments. ECAC for one deployment. Air Force combat skill course thought by JTACs, PJs and Combat weathermen was required to be a candidate for one of my deployments. Again, you have no idea what you’re talking about. To…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:01 PM
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How can you work in Engineering and not know the risks of industrial environments (even if you could never understand a war zone)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:53 PM
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Also, RR is still one of the most risky occupations in U.S. with workers dying every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:52 PM
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😳 woah!! You don’t know what you’re saying then!! I escaped death by a couple feet and will always be grateful. I was in more combat posts in … Edited for privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:51 PM
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Edited for privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:44 PM
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That’s pretty funny… and I imagine the advice is to man up. Guys trying to get the benefits without the hardship. Worse, I think when guys use philosophy or religion to compel women to patriarchy without accomplishing the masculine tenants of their philosophy or religion create hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:40 PM
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Men also only want the benefits of patriarchy and complain about the hardships. I think it’s just more of a debate now that there are almost no benefits (except for men with women that still subscribe) and more hardships (especially for men that elevate their female cohorts).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:27 PM
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That sounds like compassion. Nothing you can do or should have to do, but being a caring person at least is positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:30 PM
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I think in general guys have a system to kill the beast at least and maybe some health maintenance, but the daily demand alone can’t feel great. especially when it’s harder to be in the mood without inspiration. If I am away from my wife on a trip I can go a couple days without really “feeling the brink”, but if I am spending time with my wife, I am still completely turned on by her on a regular basis and hormones stay pretty insistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:13 PM
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I guess that’s evolution of the strongest or something. Single guys with smart careers, or respect for women, or some other distracting aspect are less likely to impregnate women and reproduce… The pity sex kinda made me chuckle… a person’s health is not someone else’s responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:13 PM
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This seems to be a popular subject on Purple Pill… the health factors for these men are bad. Just yesterday a blue pill woman seemed to be surprised by all the negative health effects of men not having sex. The most obvious daily pain of a full prostate and the hormones that get secreted to drive anxiety for not emptying it. Along with that comes the diminished sleep, less mental clarity, early onset ED, and higher risk for prostate cancer etc. The answer given yesterday was that men should get …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:02 PM
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Sometimes, the sex wasn’t that good, so the next date was less appealing. That can be for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:19 AM
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There is going to be a different world by the time it matters. Robots will be an integral part of society. The middle and lower class will have less reason to get married with needs being met by AI relationships. Babies will have more stable provision with less damaging psychological influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:04 AM
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https://www.webmd.com/sex/ss/slideshow-effects-stop-sex ETA: people should aspire to live their best life. Checking off boxes that promote that are basic fundamentals. I was Unit Fitness Program Manager for my squadron and briefed Airmen all the time that physical health is linked to mental health and vice versa. Studies proven over and over. Work is easier and when you are healthy you can handle stress better and accomplish more. Sexual health is a factor to include better sleep, mental health,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:00 AM
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Masturbation does basically work to kill the beast, but most men will tell you it doesn’t last as long and in older age it takes a lot more inspiration for it to work. Add in how humiliating it can feel to have to masturbate when you aren’t in a sexual mood. Throw in porn and it becomes an issue of worry for the exploitation that might be happening… ugh. The point is that it’s a hassle. You don’t have to care about the hassle, but it is for men and a burden. There is pain and frustration that ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:54 AM
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WebMD says men who have sex less than once a week are twice as likely to have ED early in life. It also says women who don’t have sex more than once a week also have problems with thinning tissue in the vagina and over time lose sensation… use it or lose it is true of everything in nature, not just sexual organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:49 AM
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If you get into the sociological aspect then that is when the discussion goes into whether or not it’s unfair for a man to put that burden on someone else. A partner may want to be your partner, but only on limited terms and that’s their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:33 AM
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I really didn’t realize this was something not commonly understood. Everything needs exercise to be in good shape. All muscles, all organs… even your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:28 AM
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Also, what is ETA? I only know it as estimated time of arrival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:26 AM
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I googled “does the prostate deteriorate” and it is says “yes, ….” and lists the obvious things that go wrong. Sex is literally the main driver in keeping it healthy. Bad diet, drugs and alcohol can damage it, but those are influences, which is different than what we are talking about. Milk glands also deteriorate (since the use of die off wasn’t clinical enough and I am okay with that nuance) elder women can induce lactation at older ages, but it becomes harder and they are less productive and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:23 AM
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Think of other glands. The easiest analogy my wife (43 labor and delivery nurse 15 years professor of Obstetrics 8 years master’s degree) uses is the milk glands in the breast. They get engorged and have to be released. Even before they become painful, they start sending messages to the brain to be released. Engorged is probably like when guys have “blue balls” (poorly named and not the right anatomy) as both are filled to the max. They both kinda die off without use. Both breast cancer and pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:24 PM
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It’s a hardship of being a man. We have this daily battle of our prostate filling up and when it doesn’t release it sends out more hormones to rage the brain into understanding the urgency. As adults we find ways to kill the beast, endure the nuisance until a partner helps, or some just let their prostate die off and try to rekindle it with medicine later in life. I think society would have a simpler dynamic if we could evolve where men could turn this on and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:50 PM
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