JHighMusic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”? If you open up about yourself too early. If you find yourself talking more than she is. If you feel like you're talking about something that she'll like because the conversation went dead. Not having any strong opinions. Agreeing with everything she says. No teasing, no flirting, no leading.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 06:40 AM
0	Amazed By The Negativity Not sure what negativity you’re even talking about. I don’t really see any.	/r/seduction	08/07/21 08:13 PM
2	Update on the grocery store cutie! Keep it casual and don’t come on too strong with too much texting. I would make the date for the coffee shop this weekend, next week is too long and she could be swooped up by another guy by then, change her mind, a number of things. You want to strike while the iron is hot. If too much time goes by it puts you at a disadvantage. Just remember, attraction has an expiration date. When you’re with her, time is your best friend. When you’re away from her, it’s your worst enemy if you haven’t slept …	/r/seduction	08/07/21 08:04 PM
1	I did my first cold approach ever! By not saying he felt awkward asking for her number. By asking her more questions, teasing, flirting. Not leaving lol.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 05:54 PM
1	I did my first cold approach ever! I hope it works out for you next time you see her. Be bold! Take charge and be a man.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 05:53 PM
-1	I did my first cold approach ever! Yeah but why would she mention that in front of him? It’s her letting him know she’s available in a very subtle and non explicit way. I don’t think you realize how many options girls have with guys and the subtleties women give in their communication. She clearly wanted him and was hoping he would take the hint and take charge like a man. If you don’t see that then it’s pretty clear you have little experience with women.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:59 AM
2	Does cold approaching ever become easier? Yes it gets easier the more you do it. Fear is the exact same feeling as excitement. Once you do it you’ll realize it’s nothing you can’t handle and you won’t die or melt into a liquid puddle if she rejects you. If anything you’ll LEARN AND GROW. Like the great Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss all the shots you don’t take”	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:04 AM
31	I did my first cold approach ever! Dude…she tells you she just got out of a relationship and you didn’t ask for her number?! 🤦‍♂️ that’s her way of telling you she’s single and wants you to take her number! Oh well, at least you approached…but man that was a CLEAR green light that you should have been bold and asked for the number. She’s making so many small hints that she wants you and you totally fucked it up. But that’s how you learn. Better luck next time.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 07:41 AM
9	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. You’re absolutely right, you’ve been doing it wrong. All your “maybes” are correct. Playing it safe is not going to build attraction or get you laid. If you’re not at least holding a girl’s hand on the date, or kiss her at some point, what makes you think it’s going to happen later or that she thinks you’re into her? If you have questions like “is this too fast?” or “is this too much?” or you’re doubting yourself, YOU’RE PROBABLY WRONG. “I don’t know if _______.” Or “I’m not really sure what’s g…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 09:25 AM
1	So I went on 5 dates today What city did you do this in?	/r/seduction	29/06/21 08:47 PM
2	I finally approached her at the gym. “You miss all the shots you don’t take” Wayne Gretsky Michael Scott	/r/seduction	29/06/21 03:03 AM
2	I'm not good enough You should honestly talk to a therapist. You sound young. You cannot rely on someone else for your happiness. If you do, you’ll be putting yourself in a very vulnerable position and are way more prone to getting hurt or taken advantage of. You need to focus on yourself and your goals and have a life. Have hobbies and passions. Because at the end of the day, you’re the one who has to wake up and deal with who you are and look at yourself in the mirror every day of your life. So you need to be hap…	/r/seduction	26/06/21 02:59 AM
2	I'm not good enough Not with that attitude. Change your attitude and your mindset right now.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 01:58 AM
2	This girl keeps staring at me and idk what to do Just play it cool and act like you don’t care. And then just be casual and assume she’s into you (because she is no doubt) and she’ll honestly probably do anything you suggest. It just depends if you want to go for it or not. It can be tricky when you work with a girl like that who’s into you, but just be up front about it. If you want to take it to the next level, just go with the flow and don’t make it weird. Just beware that it can be weird if you do hit it since you work together. It’s all a…	/r/seduction	25/06/21 07:34 AM
1	Want to fix all your problems with game? Get Cosmetic Surgery. I don’t have time for teenage judgmental assumption I’m-better-than-you bullshit petty arguments. I don’t give a flying fuck about personality. Enjoy your self masturbation circle jerk of a thread where you can feel better about yourself because you paid for your looks. Nobody cares.	/r/seduction	24/06/21 07:25 AM
1	Want to fix all your problems with game? Get Cosmetic Surgery. First off I’m not your bro. Secondly, nobody cares about your looks you had to pay for and that you’re getting some kind of satisfaction that people are not agreeing with you here. Let’s see some before and after photos hot shot	/r/seduction	24/06/21 07:10 AM
5	Want to fix all your problems with game? Get Cosmetic Surgery. You sound like a terrible superficial person	/r/seduction	24/06/21 06:56 AM
3	Hundreds of first dates, here are my tips Interesting…I’ll have to try that out.	/r/seduction	22/06/21 09:03 AM
9	Hundreds of first dates, here are my tips Definitely disagree about not going for the kiss on the goodbye, that is not a hard and fast rule. It's worked for me more times than not. If they're into you and you both had a good date, they'll be receptive and do it.	/r/seduction	21/06/21 11:26 PM
2	How do I flirt back to a girl without feeling like a creep? Don’t overthink. Thinking is your worst enemy when it comes to meeting women.	/r/seduction	12/06/21 04:20 AM
1	Knees touching when sitting side by side Yes 🤦‍♂️	/r/seduction	11/06/21 09:48 AM
1	Any good recs for forums/ subs on tindr/online or just overall best forums? No idea maybe message the moderators. You should still be able to browse the threads.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 04:25 AM
1	Any good recs for forums/ subs on tindr/online or just overall best forums? Covert Pickup sub on Reddit but you have to have an invite	/r/seduction	09/06/21 10:20 PM
10	The number one trait you need to get laid. Confidence is still and will always be #1 let’s not get ahead of ourselves	/r/seduction	21/05/21 06:21 PM
1	A gorgeous girl is walking past you at the shops. You make eye contact and she holds her gaze for a moment. In a few seconds you will never see her again. What do you say? Try that line and get back to me. It’s an instant conversation starter.	/r/seduction	13/05/21 07:10 AM
9	A gorgeous girl is walking past you at the shops. You make eye contact and she holds her gaze for a moment. In a few seconds you will never see her again. What do you say? “You know, if you’re going to look at a guy like that you could just say hi” You’re overthinking this wayyyyyyy too much dude.	/r/seduction	13/05/21 03:17 AM
3	How do you guys screen women? Yeah, especially the ones who have to come on Reddit asking for advice on how to screen women because they’re pos creeps with no class or game. Take a lap. Let us know how asking women to see your dick works out for you post high school. Pathetic.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 07:16 AM
2	How do you guys screen women? You sound like a real POS	/r/seduction	08/05/21 05:53 AM
0	As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older? In short, yes you’ll regret it when you’re older. If you’re turning down sex that much you might want to check your sexual orientation. Most guys can only dream of having the option of turning down sex as much as you. I guarantee when you look back on this thread you made 5 even 10 years from now you’re going to be like “wow wtf was I thinking?” I’m honestly appalled. You only live once. You’re just so young right now with little real world experience you have no clue how good you have it.	/r/seduction	07/05/21 07:48 PM
1	The 12 Most Attractive Qualities A Man Could Show And I’m sure you have better advice right?	/r/seduction	04/05/21 11:36 PM
2	I have INCREDIBLY crippling approach anxiety and I’m so fucking tired of it. How can I solve this issue? I suggest you do Glenn Pearce’s 3 month bootcamp if he’s still offering it. It’s a good chunk of money but it was worth it for me, changed my life. Here’s something you can do to start. Say “hello” to a random woman once a day for a week straight. Can be any age or hotness level, doesn’t matter. IF THEY DON’T SAY HI BACK, IT DOESN’T COUNT. The following week say hello to 2 women a day and randomly high five one woman sometime week 2. Same rules apply. If that one woman doesn’t high five you back…	/r/seduction	02/05/21 09:16 PM
33	Female Perspective On Online Dating More proof that women care mostly about how much money you make. Same as it ever was...	/r/seduction	28/04/21 08:26 AM
1	Dear “nice guys”........ “Pay attention to me, but also leave me alone. I don’t know what I want for dinner ever, but I’m hungry and you always have to pick, but then I’m going to not like it. I’m going to order the most expensive thing on the menu that you as the man will pay for, but only take a few bites. We want to be loved and a nice guy and given attention. but too much love and being too nice and too much attention is a turn off. Love us and care for us, but only on our terms.” So frustrating trying to please a w…	/r/seduction	28/04/21 12:48 AM
5	8 Surprising Ways To Beat Approach Anxiety Cold approaching rapidly accelerates your skills with women. Social circles are comfortable. The brain seeks comfort. Also how many times have you seen a hot girl on the street or in a store and wanted to talk to her? That situation comes up far more often than waiting for a social circle situation. Cold approaching is also exciting because the potential and what could happen is far greater. It takes tremendous balls and confidence. Plus if you’re still in school and not in the real world yet, t…	/r/seduction	23/04/21 06:51 PM
1	i rejected a girl this weekend and could possibly have gotten laid Meh, you’re in college and there will be plenty more opportunities. It will be the best time in your life to have sex with as many women as possible. If I were you I’d take advantage, you might regret it later in life. But if you’re not like that, that’s okay too. She’ll either want you more or she’ll get what she wants elsewhere. Either way, plenty of fish in the sea.	/r/seduction	19/04/21 07:02 PM
9	Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny. Dear Men: Pay attention to us but also leave us alone. Shower us with compliments, but do it too much and it’s unattractive. We’re always hungry but we won’t tell you what we want to eat and never know. We’re strong independent women but will you please kill that spider? Thaaaanks! Signed, Women	/r/seduction	13/04/21 02:56 AM
1	The window of opportunity seems incredibly narrow with most women? I didn’t have sex for a year and a half before my current gf, and I’ve gone longer. Most women will be impressed and grateful that you’re not looking for quick sex and only that. Thinking is your worst enemy when it comes to meeting women. I know it’s not easy. Just trust the process that not every woman will click with you. It’s all about what YOU want.	/r/seduction	08/04/21 07:52 AM
1	The window of opportunity seems incredibly narrow with most women? You’re correct, you want them to FEEL. Any time there’s resistance is when their logical brain kicks in and they’re thinking about things. That’s why you don’t want to give them a chance to think! :) Well, first of all you should be flirting with interactions. Try some role playing. Women LOVE role play. Like if you see some hot girl smoking a cigarette and you want to approach her, I might say “OMG you’re smoking again?! My mom is gonna kill you, you know she hates smokers. Sweetie you promised…	/r/seduction	08/04/21 07:46 AM
2	The window of opportunity seems incredibly narrow with most women? I think your issues are more inner game related. Or, you’re just not dating or finding the type of women you want to date! What kind of woman do you want to date?? Make a list of traits you want in a partner, and traits you don’t want. Then think of places you can go where you can meet the kind of women you’re interested in with the traits you want. If you think you need to step it up and sexualize on the date, you’ve already lost. All depends on what you want. But I can tell you, most women eve…	/r/seduction	08/04/21 07:21 AM
1	The window of opportunity seems incredibly narrow with most women? I think you should really take the time to research what women find attractive in men and what they want. If anything, women are emotional beings. They want to feel EMOTION and crave being in high emotional states. Think of how you can engage them and ask them questions that AREN’T BORING and that are different and engage them emotionally. Always be looking for things to connect with them on. If you aren’t naturally a sexual person then that’s a tough one. Women love sex. It’s a way of bonding n…	/r/seduction	08/04/21 07:05 AM
5	The window of opportunity seems incredibly narrow with most women? It’s a total numbers game. You’re not going to vibe and click with every woman. Most women do not get approached in real life often. Most are receptive. Of they are and are attracted to you, you capitalize and move fast and lead the interaction. Grab her number. If she doesn’t reply to a text, move on. If she does, set up a date ASAP. Don’t text all day, only to set up the date. Be bold and make moves on the date. Attraction does have an expiration date but it’s usually not super super fast. I t…	/r/seduction	08/04/21 04:51 AM
5	I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances? I hate to say this, but living with your parents is really hindering your chances. You can greatly improve your chances by moving out and getting your own place. And Google dating advice for men. Make friends with guys who are good with women who want to help you.	/r/seduction	08/04/21 04:42 AM
2	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Nice bro! Don’t force it. Sex doesn’t always happen first date. You have time. If you were making out for an hour then next time you’ll definitely smang it. Just be confident and LEAD the interaction the entire time. You’re already in, the hard part is over!	/r/seduction	07/04/21 08:16 AM
3	Bar specific tips? Body language. Reading their facial expressions and mood. Are they sitting openly, genuinely in a relaxed mood looking around? Or are they closed off and glued to their phone the entire time?	/r/seduction	05/04/21 04:45 AM
2	Bar specific tips? You straight up just need to approach women at bars you are interested in, regardless of eye contact. Some will be receptive. Others might be totally cold. You will have situations where the girl seems totally disinterested but will sleep with you. Others where they seem totally interested but you won’t end up sleeping with them. Doesn’t matter. You seem a little too attached to the outcome or the idea of getting rejected. You need to be totally comfortable with failing because in this world you…	/r/seduction	05/04/21 04:34 AM
2	Most common mistakes men make on dates Women have much more risk of being drugged, raped and being put in a very dangerous situation when on a date. They become much more emotionally involved when they decide they want to bang someone.. Their challenge is finding a guy who is more than just a quick fling or someone that wants to be with them other than sex, or wants them for more than just their looks.	/r/seduction	23/03/21 06:21 PM
4	I slid in the dm's and got rejected I’ve done this to a girl I was interested in and didn’t even get a response at all, just that she had seen the message. So, count yourself lucky.	/r/seduction	21/03/21 11:15 PM
1	If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy. Can’t rely on someone else for your own happiness. Took a few heart breaking relationships to find that out. Happiness is a choice. Some of the best advice I ever received about women and seduction is, you’re happy when you’re with her, but you have to be just as happy without her. She is not the priority in life.	/r/seduction	08/03/21 05:56 PM
1	Approaching females tmrw first time in a long time. Any advice?? Do some warming up before you approach. Make small talk with 3-5 different people, any age, any gender. The store clerk, the old lady, doesn’t matter. Repeat some positive affirmations to yourself before you go to bed and first thing when you wake up on the mirror. Just remember, even if you get rejected it’s no big deal, what matters is that you did approach and talk to her. Not every woman is going to like you. Also keep in mind, women do not get cold approached often. You will stand out. Be f…	/r/seduction	28/01/21 03:46 AM
4	how to be handsome Women love a stubble beard, not just clean shaven or beard	/r/seduction	23/12/20 10:40 PM
19	The number one sign that a girl likes you is proximity Just move on to the next one there’s no shortage of women out there	/r/seduction	10/12/20 04:43 PM
2	Why is cold approaching the best method? Idk just practice talking to strangers, everyone you meet. The old lady, the construction worker, the guy at the register. Anyone, any age, any gender.	/r/seduction	07/12/20 08:21 PM
1	Why do girls become disinterested in me after first date? You miss all the shots you don’t take. Just move on if that happens.	/r/seduction	07/12/20 08:19 PM
6	Why is cold approaching the best method? Cold approach works so well because girls don’t get approached very often because most guys don’t have the balls to do it. I’m talking about approaches during the day, not at a bar or club. I’ve met girls with a cold approach at the super market, a restaurant server, and a bookstore and have had sex with them within a few hours. Think about it: Online dating is easier, but the quality is much lower unless you have the looks of a model. Real life approaching is much harder but the women are much …	/r/seduction	07/12/20 08:43 AM
39	Why do girls become disinterested in me after first date? Maybe you’re being too nice, not escalating the situation. Do you ever invite them back to your place? Do you ever go for the kiss at the end of the date?? Do you ever try and be more physical and give them subtle touches or even try and hold their hand?? Because if you don’t and they seem interested but you’re not taking the lead, it’s no wonder they don’t become interested after the first date, they think you don’t want them and/or you’re really not paying attention to the signals they’re givi…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 08:37 AM
2	My girlfriend sent me a booty pic and idk what to do Seriously?? You don’t know what to do??? Come on man. You gotta be trolling.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 08:22 AM
3	Yeah. I’m a nice guy. And i dunno if that’s ever gonna truly change Nice guys finish last. If you’re too nice you’re seen as a pushover with no spine to women. You are realizing that being nice isn’t getting you anywhere with women. So stop being so nice. If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 08:20 AM
1	girl calls my flirting weird You’re reading into it way too much. If she’s saying “haha” that’s a good sign. If she’s still responding to you in general, then everything’s fine.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 07:31 AM
3	Should texting be only for setting up dates Yes texting is only for setting up dates, until you’ve had sex. You can ask a question if you haven’t talked for a few days and show that you care but you should be focused on the date, texts are not for conversations if you don’t really know them or haven’t had sex with them yet. Make a plan with a time date and place, then a “Great see you then!” Then GET OFF THE PHONE.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 07:28 AM
1	What is stopping you from cold approaching? Not having a lot of money. I literally had to start over with my career taking a super low paying job because covid completely screwed the music industry and it was the only thing I could get. It was and is soul crushing. Also, I feel like the hotter they are the more out of reach they seem. And that they want men with money. And if you can’t provide that, they don’t really want anything to do with you.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 07:14 AM
62	How To Overcome Feelings Of Inadequacy & Avoid Burnout Mindset is everything. You have to LOVE failing. Eventually you’ll beat your head enough on the brick wall that you’ll break through it. Truth, every small win is a win and a learning experience.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 06:16 AM
6	A new perspective on approaching woman? "I have a hard time trusting people and rarely believe any good will come from interaction with strangers, especially if it's just talking for talkings sake" There's your biggest problem. That's a terrible mindset to have. You need to have a more positive mindset and BELIEVE in yourself and have massive confidence. It's all about confidence and LEADING the interaction from start to finish. You're overthinking it. Stop thinking so much. Thinking is your worst enemy when it comes to meeting women.…	/r/seduction	27/11/20 07:45 PM
1	Tips on attracting men for women? Is this a serious question?!? I would be thrilled if a woman approached me. Eye contact is not enough. Say something if you’re interested. And to stand out, just look hot and dress well. Men are all visual. What do guys really want? Some want a relationship but most want sex, it’s the cold hard truth.	/r/seduction	24/11/20 12:22 AM