JJEng1989 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Progression		JJEng1989	/r/seduction	26/06/18 12:38 AM

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1	The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it) Yes, online I have done 1000 once, I counted. Irl, I probably only did a few hundred. Ive varied my methods from asking straight for sex or sometimes asking for a date, tactics from, "The mystery method," just being myself, meetup, etc. Ill still gear up a go out once every few months on principle. Sure, ill never win if I dont try. Most of the time, ill get numbers with no answers when I call. However, when I tried walking up to random women and just asking for sex straight up, I got a makeout …	/r/seduction	07/11/18 01:41 AM
1	The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it) So, when you make a scientific theory, there must be grounds for when the theory breaks. If there is no possible condition for a theory to be wrong, it is a useless theory. So, when is it acceptable to give up if you are just wasting your time on seduction? I am all for getting back on the horse, but there has to be a quitting point somewhere. Call me crazy, but never quitting seems like insanity to me.	/r/seduction	06/11/18 06:12 AM
2	The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it) So, when you make a scientific theory, there must be grounds for when the theory breaks. If there is no possible condition for a theory to be wrong, it is a useless theory. So, when is it acceptable to give up if you are just wasting your time on seduction? I am all for getting back on the horse, but there has to be a quitting point somewhere. Call me crazy, but never quitting seems like insanity to me.	/r/seduction	06/11/18 06:11 AM
1	Asperger's Autism ASD - Conversation Skills Improvement Yes, this is me. https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/129/082/2xym.jpg?1306969758	/r/seduction	27/10/18 09:34 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Sorry	/r/seduction	27/10/18 06:22 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? I can only tell you where I am at in my latest trial-error. I can only give honest descriptions of what I see, and my opinions. ...like many girls just wanna have fun, as the song goes. They want to meet a fun guy for a night. There are two styles of game that I have read. "Inner Game," and, "Outer Game." I am sure you already know what I am talking about. The modern seduction community uses these terms. "The Mystery Method," is usually labeled, "Outer Game," but I think it is best geared toward…	/r/seduction	26/10/18 08:35 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Hopefully, you, me, or both of us can keep earning more dollars and social capital, and finding hacks to work around our problems. Until then, I try not to think about the possibility that I might never get booty or get married.	/r/seduction	24/10/18 11:25 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Ah, I understandn now, sorry. When I gear up, I get my van setup, and I go to the bars. I will say I am just passing through town, and if things go well, ill go to the restroom and reserve a hotel with my smart phone. I havent gotten that far yet. Although, sometimes I just tell them the truth straight, and I tell them I choose this life, because I am a free spirit. Some reactions to the free spirit thing are positive. I dont think they ever want to sleep with me, but I try to test everything a …	/r/seduction	24/10/18 06:46 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Would you try to reword your question? I just found it difficult to parse is all.	/r/seduction	24/10/18 03:30 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Sorry if I over-elaborated. I think my point of view is contextual to me, and I have to express a bigger picture to be understood. I think most people have a different experience in the job market than me. I am not anti-engineering, or anti-money, or anti-1950's lifestyle. I just didn't see the appeal for me.	/r/seduction	23/10/18 07:27 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Are you able to deduce the most logical reason you can't get booty, etc, is that you don't have the right answer as to what you do, how you live, etc? I guess the classical logic would be something like... Money is a storage of value. The more money you have, the more value you have. Women want valuable men. There are other forms of value, like social capital, that women aim for aside from money. If you want the pride of having loads of money and having friends with loads of money, go for it. Ho…	/r/seduction	23/10/18 06:12 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Are you able to deduce the most logical reason you can't get booty, etc, is that you don't have the right answer as to what you do, how you live, etc? Im having a little trouble understanding the question. My best interpretation out of a few is, "Do you understand that you are not living the most logical life, and this illogic is why you cannot get booty?" My answer is, "We might argue on the logic, but I can understand that my life choices/values dont jive with the average American female." How…	/r/seduction	23/10/18 04:55 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Or if it isnt autism, it is a deep social unawareness. I kind of onow my problems. I just dont have solutions.	/r/seduction	22/10/18 05:23 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Lack of cash might be killing my game now. I am a janitor who lives in a van. I used to be an electrical engineer who made $80,000/yr. I had the house money all set up too. I think I was too miserable then to be attractive to anyone. Eventually, I realized my career was insane, and the money wasnt worth it, because all I want is simple things in life. So, I setup my janitor job and left the rat race. I could easily move up a little and get a place to rent, but I dont want to. I did meet several …	/r/seduction	22/10/18 05:18 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? No success. That is why I just ask on occasion. I figure I should throw myself out there on principle, but my return on investment hasnt been high enough for me to put much investment into the game. When I ask women out, ill gear up for the game with jokes, theory, reviewing the past in my head to lever my experience with what makes em laugh. Ill try new things everytime I gear up for it. From, "The Mystery Method," to, "Models." Fast game to slow game, fake to geniune. Ill ask several, and ill …	/r/seduction	22/10/18 04:42 AM
8	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? I keep my eye on this forum. I also ask women out now and then, and it hurts when I am rejected. I used to put myself down, but at this point I moved on. I dont let women define me just because they reject me. I am not stupid, a manlet, a lost cause, etc. I am a hobbyist and a free spirit. I simply do what I enjoy, and I lever the freedom of no family/career to better enjoy my time on earth. Don't let negative things define who you are.	/r/seduction	21/10/18 05:15 AM
1	How awful do I look 1-10? Personally, I think so. However, you don't need to do it all for advancement. Just stick to the easiest things for you. Notice the looks from girls after you enhance a little, then keep adding things. If you do it all at once, your motivation won't hold. Use any new looks from girls as motivation to keep doing more. Your motivation doesn't act in a vacuum. Get other people's opinions too. I am just one shmuck.	/r/seduction	16/09/18 01:42 AM
1	How awful do I look 1-10? Get a better haircut. $30+ You might grow your hair out to get a better cut or shave it all off. Shave stash and stubble forward and backwards. Get a tight collared shirt. Maybe hire a real stylist to pick it out. Hit the gym if you are not Drink More Water Sleep More Use a non-petrol lotion (like a beeswax, geleton, or pectin base) under your eyes specifically, but smooth skin everywhere helps too. One of your eyelids is lower than the other. That is a habit you might fix in the mirror with pra…	/r/seduction	16/09/18 01:19 AM
117	Get off Reddit 80 / 20, 80% practice and 20% theory.	/r/seduction	21/07/18 03:45 AM
1	How did you overcome Approach Anxiety? I work out then shower. The chemicals my body makes gives me confidence. Sometimes, I have to drink a couple of beers.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 11:43 PM
3	How form social circle from scratch after college? Go to meetup.com, find stuff you are interested in, go to events you are interested in. Then, talk to people about how you go about your interests. If it is swing dance, tell them what swing dances you like. Tell them how you learned swing dance. Ask them questions in those veins.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 03:42 AM
0	How to overcome this roadblock? Is it a shit test? That sounds more like last minute resistance (LMR). I haven't gotten to that point. So, maybe you need to research tricks for that.	/r/seduction	10/07/18 01:57 PM
2	How to overcome this roadblock? Is it a shit test? There are some women that I go out with that tell me they're turned on by me, invite me into their place, and refuse to have sex or fool around. Somehow, the topic of one night stands comes up and they admit to having plenty of one nighters in their past. But they don't want to have sex with me on the first date because I'm "special." This reaks of the friend zone. Are you talking about sex in the first meeting? Are you escalating kino in the first meeting? Are you complimenting them too much in…	/r/seduction	10/07/18 06:43 AM
1	How do you get rid of negative thoughts? I read a book on hypnosis. It mentioned that the mind will basically follow whatever it reads or hears. You have to consciously say, "No," to yourself to block or interrupt hypnosis. I took a free course on Coursera on Resiliance. It had basically the same message. When you catch a negative thought, you have to tell yourself why it is wrong. Perhaps that is as simple as saying, "That isn't true." Sometimes it is as complex as pointing out examples of why it isn't true to yourself. For instance, …	/r/seduction	10/07/18 06:09 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” No, my message wouldnt be, "Women, as a generality, are hippocrits." My message would be, "This is what works. Is this what you want ladies, because if you don't change your behavior, here it comes." Kudos to that guy for deving natural game though.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 12:38 PM
2	Some Girl on FaceBook Only top quality stuff for you guys.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 11:44 AM
3	Some Girl on FaceBook Hey bacon, what's shaken? Is your last name Campbells, because you look hmm hmm good! I was just scrolling through snapchat when I saw yo' fine ass, and I thought I'd chat you up 'n' see where things go. How 'bout we hook up for soma that sweet mocha, and maybe bow-chicka-bowow afterwords? You see what I did there, bow-chicka-bowow babe!? Oh yeah, you dropped something, my jaw. peace! I couldn't resist. That was some fun writing.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 04:54 AM
1	Why is it that I only want the women i cant have? When people having something and get used to it, it generally becomes boring. When something is off limits and you’re not supposed to touch it, it immediately becomes an object of fascination. ...like Americans and sex?	/r/seduction	06/07/18 04:30 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” One more thought. I want every woman to read the mystery method, and I want every woman to see a breakdown of mystery in his a game. I want a video of mystery doing his thing. Then, I want it to replay the video with a narrator pointing out his every move. Idk why the subtlety is lost when reading this stuff. People seem to miss the subtlety in the set too. Since the biggest complaint against mystery is how artificial he seems, I dont think people understand how insideous this stuff is. I want w…	/r/seduction	03/07/18 01:54 PM
3	100 Women in 50 Days, Day 15 & 16: Awkward Approaches ...but it's like a 5 rep max for me -- it's really pushing me. "Do not try to lift the weight. That's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth... There is no weight. Then you will see that it is not the weight that lifts; it is only yourself." ~Matrix - except I paraphrase	/r/seduction	03/07/18 05:49 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” What books do you think have had the better resources for helping you to develop your own material in your opinion? I didnt read any books to develop my material. After I read the mystery method, I sat down for multiple sessions of calling up my life memories and writing down anything that fit any of the catagories in game. I wrote everything down. I changed stories to sound better. I did listen to youtube videos and whatnot on story telling. Some of my stories turned out better than I thought i…	/r/seduction	02/07/18 06:41 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” Have you read Models? He distinguishes between stereotypical "nice" personality types versus authentic versus gamey personality types such as how you're describing yourself. No, I read cliffnotes. I read takeaways from that book. It never sounded useful to me. It sounds like a feminism narrative, and it sounds really feel-good. I get suspicious at media that says men have a problem. I get suspicious, because I want to see results. I may have to read it. So, I can talk about it. You never met wom…	/r/seduction	02/07/18 03:36 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” At the end of the video, he still had the girl he originally targeted. He dhv-ed by talking about his friends in the club, and he talked about how often he comes to show how social he is. He negged by pointing out her facial expressions. She asked if it was good or bad, and he did say, "It just is." However, the point of a neg is to make her self conscious. Her body language conveyed that. He also negged her by calling her out on her saying that she went to that club often. Yes, the other girls …	/r/seduction	02/07/18 03:09 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” A complete lack of social awareness on that level can't be a coincidence or anomaly. I don't think an extremeness of a case excludes the case from being an anomaly.	/r/seduction	02/07/18 02:40 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” Yeah but I mean, you already fucked up by negging them. I will agree that I am automatically weeding out women who respect themselves. However, given that they were not picking me when I didn't neg, when I was actually nice, I view my present situation as an improvement. Most of the time I get super amused or I laugh at women who tell me to fuck myself. I am used to East Coast humor. So, that stuff doesn't phase me. Then, we become friends. I became friends with all three of those ladies. Edit: …	/r/seduction	02/07/18 02:34 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” I am positive your Mystery video is the exception, not the norm.	/r/seduction	02/07/18 01:43 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” I have met three women I negged whose response was, "Yeah? Well you can go fuck yourself." Those are the women who respect themselves. Those are the women who want natural men. I stop playing the game with those women, because if they respect themselves that much, I will respect them too. Otherwise, I havent seen any guy be himself and win the girl.	/r/seduction	01/07/18 10:05 PM
1	My two cents on “Models” Yup, I use offensive backhanded compliments like that to good effect. I only use them when she says she has a bf, insults me, tries to break my frame, looks defensive against my flirtation, calls me out, etc. It works, but with smart girls, I have to be more subtle. Idk why it doesnt work for you then. I dont think that line is weird, because women do that to each other when they compete for men. It is a pretty natural thing to say to a woman. Ive caught a few of those lines being tossed around.…	/r/seduction	01/07/18 09:51 PM
1	My two cents on “Models” I used to do a lot of swing dance. My instructor would tell me to keep my back straight while bending my knees almost like I am sitting or squatting. When I did that I felt awkward. I felt like I was looking weird to other people. However, when my instructor showed me, it looked cool. A lot of performing techniques that you see in parades, stages, even customer service, etc, feel corny and hokey to the person who does it, but it seems natural to the audience. Look at a barista/bartender/waiter w…	/r/seduction	01/07/18 08:20 PM
1	My two cents on “Models” Not that I see. Just his website.	/r/seduction	01/07/18 07:58 PM
1	My two cents on “Models” I am having some success with, "The Mystery Method." As long as you swap out his material for your own (as he mentions to do in the book), test your material, and reuse your good material, it works. The framework works in the sense that when I open, DHV, and neg until she drops her guard, I always get IOIs. That is what the book said would happen. That is what happens at about 80% of the time for me. Compare to my prior 0% and creeping women out. Even though the material is different, a dhv is s…	/r/seduction	01/07/18 07:51 PM
1	"You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are together I don't know. I never tried van-cast game. I use The Mystery Method. If you are interested in learning more about van-cast game, you might read, "The Stranger Beside Me."	/r/seduction	01/07/18 12:32 AM
1	My two cents on “Models” Sometimes becoming politically correct means lying, haha.	/r/seduction	01/07/18 12:22 AM
4	My two cents on “Models” Mystery, Matador, and Lovedrop. It was a combined effort. Upon skimming it, the evolutionary psychology is the same, the overall process is simplified, and there is a little more effort on inner game. I would say the book is an overall improvement on, "The Mystery Method." You can buy Revelation at their website. Or you can steal a copy for free. Or you can steal a copy of, "The Mystery Method.".	/r/seduction	01/07/18 12:10 AM
6	My two cents on “Models” "Mystery Method, The Game, and Revelation," all started from Mystery. Neil was Mystery's direct trainee. "The Game," was a book that covers a story of a man who went from dud to stud. Although, "The Game," covers maybe 50% of the material in, "The Mystery Method," if that, it is primarily a story. If you want the actual lesson, you can get a hold of, "The Mystery Method." I will say, "The Game," does introduce many of the early PUAs. So, if you want a good story, and to understand a bigger pictu…	/r/seduction	01/07/18 12:05 AM
6	My two cents on “Models” "Mystery Method," or the revised version of that system in the book, "Revelation." "Double your Dating" if you want something more politically correct. I keep seeing Real Social Dynamics cropping up. There might be a book there. I would have to research it, but I think that I will focus on running with my present framework.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 09:21 PM
5	"You guys look like a cute couple" - What to say to a set that is a girl and a guy and you're not sure if they are together Right after you ask them to help you with something in the van, because your arm/leg is in a cast.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 04:35 AM
1	Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub. I honestly think people understand, "Inner Game." Most people are ok with those who build confidence, read deep books, make themselves vulnerable, and whatnot. I think people dislike the idea of, "Outer Game." I think they view it as manipulational. However, there are real social rules and conventions. Sociology calls them mores. If I took a hunchback with a creepy voice who made strange noises, who's only stories are demonstrations of lower value (dlv), who said things like, "I like your hair b…	/r/seduction	29/06/18 05:59 AM
1	Shutdown by a Greek Woman - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 21 I am not going to pedantically answer all of your questions. I will let you figure it out for yourself. Both the author and I looked at many studies. The original study was done by Elliot Philipp in 1972. It was not originally intended to be a study researching infidelity. However, he had to eliminate the cases where the baby was not related to the illeged father. My method was the same as the author. I looked at many of the follow up studies. I concluded that the studies claiming a 42% or even …	/r/seduction	28/06/18 02:04 PM
1	Shutdown by a Greek Woman - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 21 To clarify my thinking. 20% of babies are not genetically related to their illeged fathers. So, it is reasonable to assume that at any time, 20% of people in relationships are cheating with a random distribution. I dont know who is cheating on who. So, I have to assume that at least my girls are cheating on me to prevent my emotions from freaking in case this turns out to be true. If a woman cheats on her man with me, that is her problem. She was likely to cheat on him anyway. If I get drama, I …	/r/seduction	28/06/18 10:55 AM
1	Shutdown by a Greek Woman - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 21 I was excited at first but then I found out she had a bf that shes been dating for like 5 years and they were on a LDR... It just takes the excitement out and it just felt like an impending drama waiting to happen. I think you are right about the drama. I am on the fence in this situation. I read, The Third Chimpanzee," by Jared Diamond. In there he quoted a study from the 70s that 30% of babies born in a hospitol are not genetically reated to their illeged fathers. This was a middle ground numb…	/r/seduction	28/06/18 10:30 AM
2	Shutdown by a Greek Woman - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 21 I have approached many women who first say they have a bf, but then after I use a dhv story or a few more jokes, they cave and I get their number. If they really have a bf they care about, then they will react like they did in this story. That is the point I would back off, or switch to friend game. Female friends are still useful as as a network, to practice material on, or to show any future ladies you are romancing that you are mature enough to have female friends.	/r/seduction	28/06/18 04:57 AM
1	Need some infield advice in Singapore If I were you, I might start with a simple stack based on your personality. You are already starting with a superhero opener. But one of the other commenters was right about providing the lady value first. Superheros might have been niche and nerdy a long time ago, but there are so many movies on them today, that its normal for normal people to talk about the movies. If I were you, id steal a couple of movie jokes from these movies, just two, and practice by yourself, until you can say them with…	/r/seduction	27/06/18 04:19 AM
12	My first day game approach, FINALLY! That was smooth. I liked the younger neg. Good job man.	/r/seduction	19/06/18 11:43 AM
9	What motivates you to go after women? I like to see the smiles on women's faces when I tell a joke well or surprise them with a bar con. I was the class clown in school. Some things never change.	/r/seduction	19/06/18 06:38 AM
2	My Personal Pick Up Blog (but read if you like) This is the first time I have seen a full set. I read, "The Game." However, this clears things up for me.	/r/seduction	16/06/18 12:47 PM
5	The Ultimate Pro Tip "Alright babe, You said you want to eat my McD. Sooooo, [unzips]."	/r/seduction	16/06/18 09:05 AM
2	Affectionate vs Sexual I think I understand women a lot more after reading this post. I can see why I had issues attracting women before. I think I know what I need to do now.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/15 08:26 PM